Our First IVF Appointment!

[@jessid2011]

I grew up with a disabled dad. He was 54 when I was born, so most of my life he was also elderly. My parents divorced when I was 9, and he was my primary caregiver from then on. We had incredible times together and his impact on my life has been invaluable. Like if I got to go back in time and choose a "normal dad" or the one I had, I would pick my dad 1000x over. Shane is correct, parenting is about what you have to offer a child, and care + wisdom + humor go such a long way! You guys will adapt and be incredible, I'm sure of it! Thanks for sharing your journey 🙂

[@raerae15xo]

❤

[@rachf9695]

Wish the assholes that leave those shitty comments could even comprehend such a statement but their closed 🧠 prob think 💭 thats impossible, yeah right, etc. but thats because their parents missed the mark on some very important life lessons! Cheers to Shane & Hannah! Y'all will both equally make great parents and I'm excited to watch your journey!

[@kels0jade6]

Aww I love this comment so much. I'm so glad you had such a wonderful dad! I completely agree with you. Parenting is so much more than what people are thinking. Shane is such a great person and has so much to give!

[@keeperfamily2853]

That's awesome ❤️

[@loribenoit1181]

I always watch but never comment on much anywhere. I just thought of a funny picture. Shayne can absolutely hold that baby! Funny thought was the baby in about a year hanging from a little backpack where Hannah hangs their bags on the back of Shaynes chair. Daddy giving baby a piggyback ride!! 😅💪AMAZING COUPLE 💑

[@tekokako1]

Im a disabled dad who uses a powerchair - being a dad is about spending time, encouraging, supporting and loving your children, im pretty sure shanes gonna be able to manage all those things.

[@ashleighsparkle8810]

That’s not all it takes to be a dad. If you aren’t changing diapers and doing physical things, that means that someone else has to.

[@tekokako1]

Yep that’s right! If you can’t change diapers or do physical things someone else has to do it. So you’re kinda saying if you can’t breast feed your baby you can’t be a mother Because something else needs to feed your baby. Not being able to do physical things does not stop you being a mom or a dad.

[@bethnichols2875]

@@tekokako1 Amen

[@RBLong0928]

I agree. He amazes me.

[@RBLong0928]

​@Ashleigh Sparkle seriously!? Shane will be the best dad to child.

[@TaiJ-Aird]

Honestly people forget there are some able-bodied fathers that have never even seen a diaper.. There are strengths and weaknesses of every parent which is why this teamwork is going to be the best!

[@urcnpam]

My husband has Spina Bifida. He is a full time wheelchair user, and a stay at home dad. He is completely involved in our son's life, even homeschooling him for 2 years during the pandemic. Shane has so much to offer your future children. You both will be amazing parents. Best wishes on your IVF journey.

[@jeaniefenner3386]

Ok, here's my reasoning about why you two SHOULD have kids: you both have such a wonderful sense of humor, you're both tender hearted, patient, good looking, and your babies will be beautiful, you're both so intelligent, and Shane can read to the babies, keep them company, prepare food, take them for walks, etc. Later, the kids can help Hannah around the house, and help with their dad, should he need it. You kids have all of the babies you want! ❤

[@bsrahm]

Hello. Had two kids after M.S. diagnosis. I'm the guy and we survived. Now I'm a grandpa in a wheelchair. Life happens so good for you guys.

[@paulaangelina7750]

My mom became disabled when i was 8. As far back as I can now remember, she's been bed/wheelchair bound. She's still the best mother I could ever imagine having. She's taught me so much about life, and wouldn't trade her for the world. Shane will be an amazing dad.

[@blumberg1982]

Wrong terminology. She’s a wheelchair user. Please and thank you.

[@Dawn2727]

How can someone say wrong terminology especially when it's the original posters prospective and call as she chooses

[@cbryce9243]

@@blumberg1982Sometimes we need to 🤐This would be the time.

[@paulaangelina7750]

@@blumberg1982 lol

[@maryhamric]

My late father contracted polio at age 10 and was in a wheelchair the rest of his life. He was a wonderful father. I miss him so much.

[@MIForrestguy]

My late father was a disabled veteran and a huge role model for me and my siblings. He had a wheelchair until intense rehab allowed him to walk again. I will always remember the great times we spent together and never felt shortchanged.

[@tuesdayburgess]

Hi, I have Cerebral Palsy and my husband has Spina Bifida. We thought we couldn't have kids at first, some people thought we shouldn't have kids. We have three boys, they are awesome and we love being parents and are able to give them everything they need. It can be done and is absolutely awesome. Good luck with your journey.

[@anitahaviland3036]

Love you!

[@alidabotes6264]

Great to hear. You're an inspiration.

[@MostlyCaffeinated]

The fact that you intend to read to your children puts you in the upper tier of parents, truly. So important.

[@luxy8703]

Totally agree. Not to mention, the the and consideration put into the who process to start with.

[@YaelKaner]

My aunt raised 4 kids, never had help, worked full time with cerebral palsy. She was my role model. You two will rock it!

[@sarahstorr]

Some ‘able-bodied’ people have children and don’t have the love and patience to bring them up. Parents who think it is up to a school to do their parenting. You are a couple who have soooooo much love and patience to offer children. Go for it! Your child will grow up full of love, acceptance, patience, compassion, etc.

[@SinaBug65]

I grew up with a disabled father he has CP and I’ve never known any different and I love him and respect him so very much, my Dad is my super hero❣️ y’all will be amazing parents❣️

[@mariyabartony]

I've had 4 kids. You know how to get a baby to sleep? Motion. Quess what Shane's got? A flippin motorized chair!😆 That baby's gonna have the best sleep. I'm so excited for you both! I can't wait to watch your family grow 🥰

[@michelle3445]

Exactly!! He can ride all night where we get tired walking the floors. Great thought!! I think Shane and Hannah will be fine. And they also have family that will help like most other people who has family.

[@hernameispekka_Rebecca]

Haha, I never thought about that! Spot on! My dad used to drive the car around the block in the middle of the night to get me to sleep! That's hilarious and so clever!

[@virginiamurphy4288]

SO TRUE motion is the best for sleep.

[@vanessagarcia7515]

I am so excited for you both and so grateful that not only are you letting us join your journey- but most of all for bringing awareness on IVF . As a postpartum doula I have worked with endless amounts of babies who were conceived that way- one was born yesterday and everyone’s journey is so different . One thing that has helped all of them on their journey- is joining an IVF support group. Sara Pace therapy host one online and she is absolutely fantastic. She also does private sessions . Sorry for the unsolicited advice but I just felt the need to share. I love you both and I can see your baby smiling and happy to come to earth to have you as parents.

[@42guysiu]

Your child is going to be so blessed to have you both as parents! So many children do not have what your child will have and that is Morals,values,love,parents who have unconditional love for each other and list goes on and on. I can’t wait until you announce when become pregnant. You both are so smart and accomplished! Congratulations on starting your parenting journey

[@liedjesuitmijnrugzak9845]

Your kid is going to be so lucky growing up with you guys. When i watch you video’s and now listen to the podcasts i feel happy because of your humor, warmth, love and wisdom. This kid is going to be surrounded by all of this and i’m so happy for them.

[@doggybag5116]

If Shane Burkaw and Hannah Alyward were going to raise some baby or teen foster or adopted this is Wilde card of the calling the CPS the Child Protective Services on these two.

[@titanicgirl774]

@@doggybag5116 tf you even trying to say?

[@doggybag5116]

@@titanicgirl774 You remind me of a 3 dollar Thai gal prostitute on meth. lol!!!

[@tiaTIAtiaLove]

You’re both already much better parents than a lot of others in this world. Never let the “ek”s of the world dull your experience you’re gonna crush parenting!

[@grannynoraswihart8565]

Yes you are

[@tammy6992]

Definitely

[@heathereton5582]

💯! I’m a foster care caseworker and all of the abuse/neglect cases that I’ve worked with, involved families with ‘able bodied’ parents. Shane and Hannah are going to be amazing parents.

[@netties6653]

You’ve done more in preparation for your baby than most people. You’ve decided the time is right, but not without talking everything through. It’s very exciting to watch this amazing journey. A mini Shane and Hannah will be the best thing ever! 🎉❤

[@destin.marie.]

I'm disabled and have a 4yo son and ttc our second! I love my life and find so much fulfillment in motherhood. Motherhood is the only job you can completely find accomodations for almost everything. Take it day by day and you'll figure it out! Sending love and baby dust 😘❤️

[@beckiehubley5798]

I've had arthritis since I was 11. When I was 14, my aunt told me I should think about not having children just in case it was hereditary. I was deeply offended. I wasn't diagnosed until I was 14, and I struggled a lot with the diagnosis. Being told I would've been better off not being born didn't help. I have a daughter now, and her father is mostly only financially involved. It wasn't a huge deal not having him there to change diapers etc. What's the hardest is being in it by myself. Dealing with college applications, career choice advice. Shane can be a good father in the truly important ways.

[@joellenjohnson3039]

Again, it’s no one else’s business but yours if you have children or not. Do NOT listen to them, listen to your hearts dears.

[@Rebeccap2632]

I’m so happy for your journey! I seen this lady on Facebook the other day she is pregnant and she has sma. I worked for a vocational rehabilitation program for years and the stories I’ve heard and the miracles I’ve witnessed is amazing. I decided to travel the country for a while and I entertain myself during down time watching KZbin and one day yours videos were in my recommended and I binged for a month. such and inspirational channel.

[@blumoon3100]

One of my favorite memories with my twins is curly up on the couch with them and watching cartoons. Shane can do this. Childhood memories of your father being there is way more important than a diaper change.

[@chucktaylor9494]

That's about all he can do

[@kaclama]

@@chucktaylor9494 Loving your kids is a pretty enormous part of parenting.

[@tammy6992]

Yeah with the intelligence and awareness Shane’s going to be able to share a lot of wisdom and life experiences especially concerning interactions with ignorant human beings

[@chucktaylor9494]

@@kaclama he can't even throw a ball...gtho!! With that love is all that matters,walt Disney movies crap 🤣

[@yooperskeptic]

I can imagine Shane talking with and especially listening to his kids. He'd be the king of dad jokes, tho... ;-)

[@cammiebrecht6028]

The thought that some narrow minded people think that your choices, from two very intelligent people, are somehow not "thought through"are RIDICULOUS!!!! You will be two very amazing, loving, parents. All family dynamics look different! Embrace the difference!

[@cammiebrecht6028]

@@kaatchef4598 Ahh.. a trolling delusional mind! Your narrow minded thinking must make what you say correct. I hope you didn't pro-create. We do not need more simple minded people, such as yourself, in our world. I pray for you.

[@cammiebrecht6028]

@@kaatchef4598 I do pray for you, and your family. Ignorance is no excuse for being cruel.

[@cammiebrecht6028]

@@kaatchef4598 Oh you need more prayers than I can give. I will add you to my prayer chain. I had that thought on my own.

[@cammiebrecht6028]

@@kaatchef4598 I will ask the Lord to save you and your family. Prayers and blessings! Prayers and blessings!

[@cammiebrecht6028]

@@kaatchef4598 God bless your soul! 🙏

[@jamieramirez6986]

I love that you both are so honest about the good and the bad- and that you handle the stupid comments with such humor and grace. I am looking forward to seeing where your path takes you...

[@donna6516]

Any child you have will be one very lucky sweet pea! The example you set is what every child needs: a loving TEAM, adults with humor, kindness, intelligence, caring, acceptance, creativity, energy. You two have all the wonderful attributes every child deserves. Go for it--and all the best to you both!

[@misssashleyrae]

I am on the other side of IVF (kind of) and 14 weeks pregnant through ICSI, so I've been through all the invasive tests and all that and I totally understand the anxiety. It can be a lot to handle for sure, but if you take it one step at a time rather than looking forward to allllll the things you'll have to do, it makes it easier. Also, joining online support groups has been really helpful for me in feeling less isolated, since nobody I knew personally had ever gone through anything like this and couldn't necessarily understand the process without me having to explain the same things over and over. Anyway, you got this! And fwiw, I think you both seem like lovely people that any kid would be lucky to have as parents. 💜

[@darladelahunty4025]

Hi. Long time follower here. I gotta tell you that I've been married for 50 years, have 3 kids and 6 grandkids. You two are THE PERFECT PAIR to raise kids!!! You are patient, loving, non-judgemental, fun-loving, funny, intelligent....I could go on and on. I picture your children riding Shain's wheelchair, hugging him to pieces, seeing the world thru your caring eyes and having a great life. Go for it!!!

[@rosepanteli8008]

Hi Shane and Hannah I love this podcast. I have cerebral palsy and a mum of three. Yes things are hard but you adapt for what you can and can't do I still love my babies and do loads for them but it can be hard. Shane you are going to be an amazing dad , all a baby needs is love. Can't wait to see your journey 🥰

[@Just_Your_Average_Guy]

Shane and Hannah, my son has CP and is a fully involved father while being in an electric wheel chair. He has 2 college degrees, works full time, has a great wife, and is the parent of our grandchild. The theory that a disabled person can't be a good parent just shows the limits of that detractor's mental capacity. He has a different kind of handicap. LOL.

[@tinafowee]

This is for Hannah.. The internal ultrasound is not painful. Just remember to breathe slowly and you will be fine. My daughter went through IVF and there were a lot of injections that her husband gave her and a lot of work that went into it. The first attempt didn't work. They tried again and I'm happy to say that my twin grandsons turned 10 this past week. You guys will get there it just takes patience and a sense of humor. You've got this

[@reneelewis7187]

Amen

[@jaynehoese6093]

You two are lovely. What a breath of fresh air and love and joy.

[@beckiehubley5798]

I found an internal ultrasound painful, but probably on par with a pap test. So if those aren't painful, the ultrasound likely won't be. It wasn't so bad I'd dread having one.

[@suesasabbari3371]

You should absolutely have kids. Spread that kindness love and smartness!!!!!

[@margobarnes7775]

Omg you hit the nail on the head ! My brother had duchenne md and if I heard a million times I shouldn’t have kids because my brother died young and I could give my kids DMD. we where a research family back in the late 80’s and I am not a carrier but even if I was I would have still had children !His life was amazing though short the love he gave and received was more then most experience in 100 years! Tomorrow is not promised to anyone no matter what their age. So you all do you and I am so happy for you and your love story !

[@InvestigatingDavidCrowley]

Personally, I think the two of you will make AMAZING parents! You will provide them with the love and warmth that every child needs and deserves.

[@law19859]

Omg, so exciting! My grandmother raised 5 successful kids while my grandfather worked and she was in a wheelchair. You will be amazing parents ❤ We all adapt to our own situations, you will too

[@cindylynsky6264]

You absolutely have to have kids! My cousin's wife has cerebral palsy. They have 2 great kids & have also become grandparents. Go for it👏

[@destinypalin5657]

This is beautiful congratulations to them ❤️

[@conniebucy2423]

I worked with a woman and she and her husband both were disabled!! They have successfully raised 2 children and are grandparents now!! It can be done!!

[@hazelhampson240]

Thanks for doing this…it’s honestly the first pod cast I’ve ever experienced and I really enjoyed it! You both did really well and it all seemed so natural! Well done and good luck with your procedures.

[@betsylindsay8480]

I am flashing back to the video in the beginning of Covid lockdown when Hannah was so broody, wanting to have a baby. Now, look at you starting the process! I am so happy for you two. You are going to be wonderful parents, since you are wonderfully loving, intelligent, caring, people. IT TAKES A VILLAGE to raise a child, or it should! Your child will be blessed to have you as parents, and to have the extended family that they will inherit.

[@free2bme9797]

I remember when Hannah used to just say “Nope”. Hannah you have come so far…👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Shane you have definitely brought out the best in her. You two are just amazing together. I think you are going to be great parents. Having children is a bunch of work but you guys are the only ones who know if you can handle it. I wish you the best of luck with your IVF journey. Can’t wait for baby Bercaw! 🧸🧸🧸

[@boho.campbell2711]

I miss the nope! Its so minnesotan

[@jenpringle6402]

What's wrong with saying nope?

[@katieweeman5007]

When I think about what makes a good father, I think about that person being emotionally available, being a mentor, being a teacher, being 100% there to listen, guide, console, accept. And anyone who’s actually watched their videos has to agree Shane is the definition of all those things.

[@rhiannabircumshaw6209]

This video speaks to me. I love you both. I was diagnosed with a severe autoimmune disease at the age of 9 and i thought i would be a wheelchair user. I am so thankful my condition has improved and i can live an almost normal life with the use of injections and meds. My dream is to have a child, like i almost live for it, and i feel like i am 10x more conscious of making sure this will not affect any potential future children. The chance is extremely minimal. Your positivity towards having children and knowing you have so much to give them is so valuable. I love this. I hope you are able to have a child together as you would be incredible parents. Open minded people like yourselves raise the best people with no judgement towards others. I wish you both receive your deepest desires together and thank you Hannah for changing the stigma on disabilities.

[@terricouglewerley6682]

Max needs to understand what Love is! Commitment caring and devotion!Which you are blessed to have each other. Love you guys ypu will be awesome parents. Excited to be following your family journey 🙏💜🙏

[@jennyd6430]

What a lucky kid, having you both as parents.

[@studentphysicscadprojects7635]

This set up is so beautiful and heart warming. You two are literally locking eyes almost the entire time.

[@melamorgan3433]

I see a wonderful future for your children. Your humor will give them a joy. It is crazy to think that others feel that they have a right to tell you what you can chose for your life. Any child will be lucky to have you as parents.

[@candibeam9059]

Think of the PARENTS that are horrible to their children. My goodness, God bless any disabled parents that give their children happy lives. Shane and Hanna will be awesome.

[@kristi7858]

LOVE, LOVE, LOVE your podcast. I personally can’t wait to hear the news that your pregnant. You deserve to have a family no matter what. Love y’all.

[@marisaconner628]

Wishing you much success with your journey to have a child! We went through IVF for years with no success so know how hard this journey can be. Many friends we know have had success and their family life is so fulfilling, I wish that for you both! You will be amazing parents!

[@lewis5341]

Exciting journey! I had a friend who was a wheelchair user who was a fantastic mum! She was the one who encouraged me to finally apply to go to university (I had my graduation today). Sadly she passed away a few months before I completed my degree. I'm honestly so grateful and honored to have known her.

[@melaniescott4214]

Everyone knows parenting can be hard but people make it work with their circumstances. Having a child is such joy and I have no doubt you guys will figure it out and be great parents. You are absolutely right, you remember the time your parents spent with you, talking to you, teaching you, loving you and being there for you. You both seem like wonderful people who would raise wonderful tiny humans. Wishing you both the very best with IVF! 🥰

[@margaret1336]

Fathers being “hands on” with babies is a relatively new phenomenon. Lots of well adjusted kids had Dad’s who never changed a diaper!

[@DHU11]

Kids are well-adjusted that’s nice, but what about their Mothers who had to all the physical and emotional labour of caring for the kids. Do you think they felt well-adjusted?

[@pnhnut]

Babyhood is so fleeting, so anyone denying Shanes ability to parent is missing the fact that kids need parenting for decades, lol. I'm pretty sure he will hit it out of the park as a dad.

[@jenniferirwin82]

You guys will be amazing parents. A house filled with love, kindness and adventure. Many blessings. You both deserve this.

[@MB-gb2zp]

As someone who is also wheelchair bound I love yalls love story and so happy yall are on this journey to have a baby. Shane will be an amazing dad! But i also want to say it comes with its own downfalls and a lot of the time hannah might feel like a single mom when it comes to carrying the most responsibility and care of the child since shane cant actually feed them, put them to bed, help you latch them on, bathe them, help hold them down and comfort them while you get thier snot out or give them medicine and so much more on top of shanes care as well. The big things are gnna be all on her and thats a lot. Having a baby in general is tolling on a relationship even a good one but especially when the care isnt equal. This isnt to say he wont be a good dad just that its something real to consider and plan for. Not to mention Post P and overal burnout after a baby is hard on a mom often they need assistance to rest and save energy. Its important to change the stigma against disabled parents but is also impotant to be realistic about the challenges. Just hope theres a plan 💗 praying IVF works for yall

[@happycamper4232]

Very true disabled dad here! I loemt kids and am a proud dad but my wife is exhuasted and disnt realize how much of a burden this would be without being able to afford a nanny or other care taker.

[@Tegdirb64]

They live with Hannah's parents!!

[@Killmaisy]

They did talk about hiring help, which would absolutely be a good idea because you are right about all the hands-on work it takes even with 2 able-bodied parents

[@exoticamanda]

Just wanted to take a moment to say as a grown adult (older then y’all) I look up to you both. You are braver and stronger then so so many people. Don’t ever stop sharing because it’s your superpower. You change lives and don’t even know you are doing it. Thank you for being amazing ❤❤

[@mspsychgenius]

I've enjoyed reading people's parenting experiences. I had 2 able bodied parents and they were both lacking. Any child would be lucky to have Shane and Hannah x

[@heathersha]

Exactly! 🥰

[@heathersha]

I love you guys, your channel, your podcast, and Hypothetical Freaks! Knowing how shy Hannah is adds a whole new level of respect for the fact you make this content! Our only limitations are created by us, and I love people who laugh in the face of such limits as they grow past them. 🙌🏽

[@in-the-lilac-wood]

OMG the Hypothetical Freaks game -- my husband and I do the same thing (but don't call it that lol). I always had bad anxiety and for me "role playing" every bad scenario helps me feel prepared for anything bad that could occur. So before a scary appointment, event, new situation, etc, we always just sit down and talk about every bad scenario and what I would do if something like that happened. Then when the scary thing happens, I feel better prepared for any bad/unexpected occurance.

[@wendyporter1093]

Some people are totally unbelievable. You have every right to have a family like everyone else. However your children find you-ivf, adoption, surrogacy, etc., you’re going to be amazing parents!! ❤

[@thatgirl81111]

I really don’t know why others have an opinion on others relationships and what choices they make. You will be wonderful parents with so much to give a child. Good luck on your journey x Just as a side note … I’m a disabled woman who has a daughter. Also watched you for years

[@abilevitt3334]

It really is inspiring to hear that Hannah was so nervous with cameras and talking and is now comfortable on camera and with public speaking. That's like really not a small feat! Seriously round of applause for Hannah! 👏👏👏

[@kareemahmullen8940]

👏👏👏

[@LivingHistorysMysteries]

I am so loving Junkyard Mayhem..great idea guys. I can't wait to see you both as parents. I can really see you both being amazing parents. I'd love to have you both on as my guests some Friday evening on my livestream interviews show. I LOVE talking to interesting people about their lives, interests, etc. Much love to you both and keep up the wonderful stuff you both do.

[@michelefelt5427]

Yay! So excited for you guys to expand your family! The negative ones are definitely in the miniscule minority. We are behind you guys 100% and pray for a healthy and amazing pregnancy!

[@sarabryan4364]

You two are so awesome, and having a family and sharing your journey with me means so much❣️❣️. It stresses me so, when parents don’t educate their children about others that have disabilities ❣️❣️

[@merimeechristopherson7485]

Able bodied mom here, the worst part of having my babies was the sleep deprivation, I breast fed so my able bodied husband couldn’t help me, we got through it, you will to. You guys have everything you need to be great parents, your future children will be lucky to have you ❤

[@kristinaarp9144]

Shane as a dad…dad jokes taken to the millionth power! 😂😂😂 You guys really will be amazing parents. I can’t wait to see you guys embark on this journey. As for Hannah being “overwhelmed…” Uh. I’m perfectly able bodied and have zero disabilities. I have 1 son. Age 13. I’m regularly overwhelmed. THAT’S PARENTING! It’s effing exhausting! But it’s also incredibly rewarding and I wouldn’t change it for the world. *I can’t wait for Shane to roll over to the baby and be like, Hannah, it’s doing it again….” Hannah runs over and the baby is like sleeping… 😂😒 So helpful. Lol Enjoy the ride, guys. It’s freaking hell…and awesome!

[@nataliedavis890]

The “say your name” pep talk made me laugh! Such a great example of how BOTH of you offer each other growth and support. You fill EACH OTHERS’ needs. It’s not just Hannah as “caregiver.”

[@brandihurst9781]

I’m 20 min into this podcast and already can’t wait for next weeks episode. Thank you for sharing your life and your baby journey. If you were my parents I would feel so loved and wanted I was and thankful they fought so hard to have me. You guys make me so happy when I’m watching your videos because all you do is make me laugh so thank you for that

[@ChucknRachelN]

I am a disabled woman. I had four kids before I was disabled but still have two at home now and had three at hone when I became disabled. I can say life is more complicated by my disability but my kids are so worth it and they are not mad at me for passing on bad genes. I didn't know about my genetic condition until after I had them and they all have my condition. But we feel grateful that I had my diagnoses so they know what can happen and how to live a healthier lifestyle and take precautions against injuries so they might not end up in a wheelchair like me but even if they do, they know it is manageable and still worth living a full life. Children are a blessing and even fully abled couples or singles need help with their kids. It takes a village is very accurate. I hope your dreams come true and you are blessed.

[@sandjblake75]

You are both wonderful. Thank you Shane and Hannah. X

[@itspsychi]

Hi Hannah and Shane, I’m a hard of hearing viewer and I use captions to watch your videos. I noticed on this video there’s quiet a few errors that I caught. Could you try to make sure you make this new podcast accessible for your D/deaf and HOH viewers, craptions can ruin the viewing experience and can be confusing. So excited for this new journey of yours!

[@noawqqw]

These interactions have highlighted the fact that society has few to no expectations of fathers when it comes to child rearing ~unless~ the potential father is disabled. The irony 😂

[@yvette4979]

Not many expectations should be placed onto mothers either

[@meltingpointcreations1457]

I know, “what a great dad, he’s changing baby’s diaper!” Then turn around and point fingers because another man is unable to do the same… 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@elisa11041]

More like hypocrisy instead of irony

[@4randosutube]

Hypocrisy runs deep in contemporary society. Everything is backwards and upside down in our woke, sensitive, trigger alerted and broken society these days. Perceived, imagined and fabricated discrimination gets people ruined. Literally cancelled and humiliated! Actual discrimination goes ignored.

[@tinacollins2055]

Unfortunately, Shane can't be of any help with a baby.

[@tonyasmith5374]

Being a parent is such a blessing. I’ve watched you guys for a while now and I can tell just from listening to you guys and seeing the expressions on your faces when talking about having a family, that you will both be such wonderful parents. The only thing people should be worried about is whether a child is properly cared for, and that’s not even a concern with you guys because it’s obvious your kids would have everything they need. Thinking of you and wishing you the best along your IVF journey🧡

[@ahoseth69]

You two would make amazing parents! A little Hannah with Shane's sense of humor! I look forward to being on as much of the journey as you'll allow us to join.

[@JamaicanRain]

Because of pregnancy loss, I am finding these days we are allowed on less of the journey. Sometimes, it is boom, gave birth 2 weeks ago!

[@missdaisy5736]

Hey you two👋 I wish you the blessings from the universe for your upcoming pregnancy, Hannah and Shane you are such wonderful people and will be the best parents ever💕

[@sherylbrown6943]

I’m so excited to hear that you’ve both are ready to have a little Shane or Hanna .❤❤. My son and daughter - in law have started on the I.V.F journey as well . 🙏🙏🇦🇺

[@chrismcphee1539]

Hannah, I'm an introvert too, and now work in a social service job, sometimes giving presentations. You remind me of myself at your age. I'm so impressed by your ability to speak in public. And please dont listen to those people who dont think you should have kids. Shame on them!

[@susangalpin4967]

Good job on the podcast route. Brilliant.

[@dellaharper2581]

Wasted years NOTHING! You two are great. Hannah I love the way you smile. You two seem really Happy. Normal people. Way to go. You got this. You will be Good parents.

[@craftykn9452]

I can already picture Shane during the birth. It will be a big cry fest. Guys, I have my hankies ready ! 😍😍😍😍

[@reneelewis7187]

Lol, Amen

[@pixiecakes1765]

I can see him cracking jokes the entire birth

[@yooperskeptic]

@@pixiecakes1765 ...and Hannah saying "nope!" and "oh my gaaawd" between contractions haha

[@stevenbailey5336]

In the parenting thing. You just do what you need to do, and think outside the box to accomplish what needs to be done. You two are a team, so working together has been the kernel of your relationship. Haters will hate. You do you.

[@CZ4E]

I look forward to seeing this journey progress! God bless you two ❤

[@cbryce9243]

I feel for you Hannah, I was voted shyest girl in school all 4 yrs of high school. My husband had cancer when I met him and the last three years of his life, I was his full-time caregiver. It was a special and very fulfilling time, and I would never trade it for anything. Congrats on looking into having kids. Because of your love for each other, you will both be really good parents.

[@saraanderson6615]

My son and daughter-in-law had to go through IVF and are now pregnant 🙂 I hope it works for you also. 🙏🏻

[@melissaheyman8723]

I love you both and how much you love each other. You are teaching and trying to teach the truth to people. You are more responsible than most people when it comes to having children. I was verbally abused by my mother, from grade school to 35 (I'm 53) when she died. I don't miss her or her abuse and losing my Gram (her Mom) at 40 was really hard because she always liked me along with loving me. I wouldn't be here without all her love for me my kids and my husband. My sons and 5-year-old granddaughter are my proudest accomplishments. They are all great humans. We were not perfect parents but always tried our best to love them. I wish you both all the luck with becoming parents! Thanks so much for sharing your lives.

[@bethanyspence4156]

Great episode! Couldn’t stop smiling during Hypothetical Freaks. You guys are so fun!

[@barhagy3555]

I think any kid would be lucky to have you for parents! Shane’s sense of humor is wonderful. I can see how Hannah fell in love with him. And we can see how caring Hannah is. I hope your journey to parenthood goes smoothly and quickly.

[@sheilascoyne861]

Wishing and praying for y’all, your going to make fantastic parents, Shane you you are going to be a phenomenal dad, and Hannah your going to be a wonderful mom. Your child holy cow, beautiful and smart and funny. Loving and caring. Oh I can see it now. Prayers and angels ❤❤🙏

[@reneelewis7187]

I couldn't agree more!

[@doggybag5116]

Are you on dope !?

[@robynrose3328]

@@doggybag5116 wow someone being kind to another human being automatically means they’re high? Who hurt you in life? Seriously.

[@doggybag5116]

@@robynrose3328 And you know for sure then you'd know for yourself obviously you've been a meth addict.

[@robynrose3328]

@@doggybag5116 LOL i had to read this a few times because the grammar, maturity and sentencing used is that of a four-year-old level. it's a good thing your name is Doggy Bag because all you are and say is full of shit. Seriously. If you don't have anything kind or nice to say to others on the internet and just go around spreading hate and saying stupid shit like that, you must live a really sad life. I pity you. Go love yourself. Byee :)

[@sherirogers2649]

You both are going to be phenomenal parents. Opening your lives to all of us to cheer you on is a gift total of us.

[@kimkik5068]

I literally LOL on almost every single video. You guys are just a hoot and I love the transparency.

[@rebeccagaston7145]

You guys will be amazing parents and if y’all are interviewing for a caregiver I’d apply in a heartbeat. You two are so full of love it’s unreal and anyone thinking you wouldn’t be great parents is out of their minds.

[@peggygray587]

I agree wholeheartedly .

[@SilasNomad]

Been out of touch with you guys for a while and so pleased to come back and see you've started a podcast! AND you're gonna be parents!!! So happy for you two :) You're both lovely people and I think you'll make wonderful parents. Screw all the eugenicists in the comments. I think they're just jealous the kids might inherit Shane's cracking sense of humour hehe

[@debihuntsman9314]

What I find extremely disturbing is trolls who have nothing better to do than to criticize others. They must have pretty pathetic lives. You two will make amazing parents!

[@jackyhernandezburgos4888]

I’m so happy for you two! I hope it goes well. ❤

[@itsadogslife65]

I just finished listening to your podcast on Spotify and jumped over here to be able to comment. I was painfully shy all through school. I did a complete 360° when I started bartending as a young adult. It really helped and forced me out of my shell. Now, 30+ years later, I have absolutely no filter at all (🤣) and am extremely sociable! Anyhoo, congratulations on your parenting journey together 🎉 And thank you so much for allowing us to tag along on your journey!

[@sarahc6299]

OMG I was just talking about this the other day in reference to your relationship. It is so the norm to have the mother's expected to be the primary caregiver in heterosexual relationships, and these guys saying awful things in the comments (who, lets be real, more than likely carry that expectation themselves) are now trying to act like it's not fair to Hannah that Shane won't be doing more? I would rather go into an interabled relationship that I chose, knowing that I (with the help of family/nannies of course) would be doing more of my child's caregiving than my partner because they simply aren't able to do so, than be stuck in one of those awful relationships with a guy who isn't disabled but still expects me to do the bulk of the childcare simply because I'm a woman.

[@sjmortonca]

Your children will be so lucky to be raised in a family like yours. They will grow up understanding how life works and how to adapt to difficult situations. I think they will be proud of both of their parents and what they learned from each. But most of all they will grow up in a loving environment full of life and adventure!

[@CowboyJon88]

Yay another episode of junkyard mayhem! An people need to stop saying these 2 need to not have kids. They are great human beings an what they want to do is their choice. I’m glad you guys are sharing your journey with us. Much love ❤️ to you both. Keep up the great work 💯 👍🏻 🤠

[@saulithyia]

My husband (able-bodied) and I (disabled from birth) have 3 lovely children, now adults. I was a stay-at-home mom, we raised them ourselves. We did have family support, but we mostly were on our own. They all survived, none of them have my disability, and I find that they are more compassionate and empathetic to other people. My middle child (daughter, 21) told me recently she was out with some friends at a diner and she saw this elderly man struggling with the door and getting his wife's wheelchair in. She said she jumped up to help and got the chair over the threshold and the man thanked her and was impressed with her ability to know what to do. She chuckled and told him her mom's in a wheelchair, so she's used to it. He told her she was raised right.

[@Twoes1965]

Enjoying all your videos 🙂 👍👍👍👍👍👍 Keep them coming You guys are awesome I think you guys will be wonderful parents.

[@lachamita16]

I scroll and scroll across comments on KZbin and IG and I can’t find one where someone mentions the video quality of the podcast videos. I’ve been so confused by the blur and grain and I actually thought it was my eyes 🤣 Love, respect, and have learned from you two so much by the way. I’m local and constantly thinking “This is accessible” or “This isn’t accessible” or “Shane would be able to enjoy this!”…. Thanks for sharing your lives with us!