Our struggles as LDR couple 🥹💔

[@jamesberner6040]

Nice video..I met my wife thru a truck driver that just married a filapina..The filapina introduced me to my wife her cousin...That was 19 years ago we have been married 17 almost 18 years now...Communication is the key to any LDR...Back then there was no cell phones it was pay phones for me with a calling card....That was tough being a truck driver...I understand the struggle...U and Andre have a great relationship going keep it up...Andre it's about time to put a ring on her finger????What's up with that???God bless both of u...😅

[@smartbiz888]

"I have a hard time, you have a hard time, or...?" 😆 That says it all! Good episode, you two mesh well together IMO... All the best! 👍😎👍

[@jasonhedley9435]

Enjoy the moment, you'll never know how long it lasts .

[@GeorgeCKuntz]

A nice demonstration of a very healthy relationship: Keep it up!!

[@paulmckeown6041]

Great vlog guys very honest

[@askildsh]

To things i hate the most is time difference and the bad conection. Every time it rain it’s always bad signal it seem.

[@savvylivingadventures]

Charmie and Andre thank you for a wonderful Vlog. I to myself am in a long distance relationship with a filipina we’ve been chatting back-and-forth video calling for a year and a half now. Here in a couple weeks I will be landing in the Philippines on December 27 and on 28 December is when I finally meet my lovely lady friend who I’ve been chatting with. I can honestly say guys it was you that brought me to the Philippines to look for a new lady friend. I’ve watched your Vlogs and I always thought you guys were a wonderful couple. Thank you once again for all the information sending greetings from Canada.

[@daswifey-pinayingermany]

We are more than 3 years LDR before we live together. Trust, loyalty, consistent communication and most of all commitment to LDR are the very important factors that would make LDR works.

[@andyh5822]

Andre your a smart man don't let your guard down ever.

[@RobertBIrish]

I haven't m,oved to the philipines yet but MY filipina is waiting for me

[@RanaureliFarm]

You're spot on. Unfortunately not all people in LDR understand this and look at this practically like this

[@dianelanzar1079]

we like this Blogs ,how LDR works.//yes Andrei 's right knows hows to explain base in actual daily routines with his>Woman>Charmaigne.//

[@NenenM]

Stay strong both of you

[@RileyMora-y2g]

Struggles are real. Unfortunately, in any relationship, communicating and financials are the reasons why relationships fell. ANDRE you seem like a person who loves spending money and not thinking of a sound financially future. One bad Strom and your boat is gone. Being a KZbin creator is not a future. KZbin can be gone tomorrow. Monetizing value can change anytime KZbin needs to report to their investors and board of directors. Just my thoughts as a Westernized American i have been poor, and I have been rich, i prefer being financially secure. God bless

[@joeblaney684]

It’s hard it’s real, every thing you say resonates. I yearn for the day we finally live full time past this LDR phase of transition.

[@sorenstrom9219]

hehehe you are so cute when you are arguing.

[@HumansLiveForMoments]

Thats true Andre. Its the inner fears problem with yourself. Yea u get what youre asking for if a person keep talking about fears

[@tonymccreath4540]

I know you both were explaining honestly. LDR is challenging for sure. Most people would feel Charmy lack of talking as a lack of interest. The logic is no problem talking on business for example, but not enough motivation on relationship. Very confusing signal to you Andre. My LDR 35 months, but we very strong efforts both sides, strong desire communicate twice a day, despite the 14-hour time difference. We have zero doubts, zero insecurities ( so far, hahaha)😂😂😂 but we stronger as couple because care, listening and time we give each other. We never a cause to doubt each other. Most society fail relationships face to face, and find communication difficult to maintain. Therefore, for most couples, LDR is unrealistic completely. Blocking on social media interrupted by most as very immature, she very lucky your level of patience. Good luck to you both.

[@Revfredtravels]

Yes, brother and sister I am Canadian and I am in love with a Filipina who happens to be in Dubai yes and for us there’s an eight hour difference. She is eight hours. Ahead of me. Timing is complicated. I am flying to Dubai next month to be with her the long-term plan is to move to the Philippines may be in a couple years, fortunately we both like to talk so it’s easy for communication for us. We feel very connected already, but I am definitely looking forward to a physical relationship yes and even in Dubai the Internet is iffy sometimes it’s good sometimes it’s bad. There’s been times where it would go down and you have a whole day where you can’t communicate, she is also self-employed. She does nails and hair and hair removal so similar kind of job. That’s one of the things we’re planning on doing the ideas for her to come to Canada for a while and then open up a salon in the CDO area. So I relate to most things you were talking about I don’t have any issues with my Filipina blocking me and we’re both faithful people and we both wanted to start a family so we’re committed already

[@felixlujan4809]

The conversation hasn't started, and you are already arguing. The biggest issues with long-distance relationships are trust, constant reaching out to each other or communication, and, commitment, how loyal are you to each other. All these issues that I have mentioned are non-issues if the two of you are seriously committed to making the relationship work no matter what the consequences might be. ( Straight Talk ) There are a lot of things going on off-camera between the two of you as it even shows on your video content. Here's to hoping things work out. Opposites sometimes do not attract and the two of you have completely different personalities. Word!

[@CrisantoExtra]

Is the be best moment on relationship foiyoh

[@knarlisrocks]

The one word answers during the LDR is very difficult to deal with. Andre, I wonder if Charmie also complains about too many questions like my wife does as i struggle to get her to participate in the conversation.

[@mikerussell7366]

Works for me and my wife but we are older 67 and 62 .i stay in Philippines 6 months usa 6 months seems to work for us but everybody different. For a young couple not good

[@RaegonReads]

yeah my filipina GF and i have had the conversation on tampo and blocking. we don't do it... at least not yet lol (been long distance for 2.5 years have spent 30 days together in person)

[@glenntrcalek6523]

I think the Jason's comments may be true in general. I do NOT think this applies to you guys. You have love and a deep understanding of each other. That will help you guys understand how you react to each other and things that life will throw at you. You guys have gown in your relationship and truly KNOW each other. Couples who do not have this understanding struggle. "I don't know why she or he is being so quiet and not talking to me" "I don't know why they misunderstand what i am saying and my intentions" "Why are they overreacting" If you do not KNOW each other these situations can be toxic, your relationship will suffer, and over time my fail.

[@andyh5822]

I watch your vlogs always. I'm married to a Filipina and we had a 8 year LDR and we now have been married 6 years. I see you both get a lot of help with gifts and finances from your followers. You are lucky. When my LDR started we couldn't go online and ask people for money or gifts whether for you and for your causes. I also think Andre you should really look into really working on losing weight. If not for you and Charmie at least for your health. Imagine yourself in 30 years and your looks and your body pains etc. I met my wife and I was 321 pounds and 5'10. I'm now 235. The cheating aspect is real. When you Andre came back to the Philippines from Germany that would have been the first thing I would have done is make sure that neither of you had any kind of relationship with another partner friend etc while you were apart. If you like about it to each other even if it is only a chat relationship it should be brought out in the open. The way you were talking about this you sound like you have hidden concerns. I'm not a dr but I work in law enforcement and I have to question people everyday and the club issue is an issue. Don't lie to each other because if the truth comes out later it will hurt later. Her look when you said she fell in love with someone else was priceless.

[@AlanT1010]

what's wrong with the little dog at the door? Is he shy?

[@thecrownsvlog]

She is shy and dramatic 🤣❤️❤️❤️

[@grahamhawker8974]

If a Filipina blocks you, it's an online tampo

[@RuossFamilyAdventures]

When you guys getting married

[@suzzieq1914]

Charmie is already married to another man.

[@jamescurtis5472]

LDR really sucks lot laws gets between us in doing things in the country we married last year trying get her to USA I’m 65 need to retire but can’t cause of income must be met get her here she’s Teacher for 33 yrs and is 54 she has some folks in America any way it’s hard to be apart and cost way to much fly in so on sorry I think I said enough love watching your vlogs

[@Flavour25m]

Im Just trying to get in a Kind of relationship ldr with a Filipina but i feel she doesnt really recipricate this Feeling trying to Talk it Out These days we are only starting to know each Other Chatting talking for about 2 weeks but i actually dont Want her spending time to court Other Guys Something Like that. Even the thought she would Talk to Other Guys evualuating all Other Options she has and Pick a "better" choice makes me upset. I Wanna try to get this Feelings across in an understanding way. Thing is I dont Want to be hurt and have false hopes when I dont know If she is actually Just playing me. Also she got a recent enormous boost in her social Media Account on Facebook which gives her massive Attention all across the world. This also bothers me enourmously. Any Tipps from succesful ldr WHO are now together? How would you Guys handle this?

[@davebrookes8162]

Me and my Philippines girlfriend meet you McDonald's, im from uk and ldr is fine for us, what makes its hard, we have a son now, but she is amazing girlfriend, thanks

[@Loigis]

🎉

[@dazocat5566]

❤🙏😇

[@malynsamontina7134]

❤❤❤

[@marodeur0019]

Hallo Andre, du hast mega Glück mit Deiner Charming, so wie ich das sehe, scheint Sie keine Typische Philipina zu sein, Sie vertraut Dir und scheint nicht Typisch Philipinisch Eifersüchtig zu sein. Macht Sie keine Tampo mit Dir?

[@VPrice-y8v]

Always asking me for money made me lose interest!!!!

[@outback7092]

LDR = ? Not everyone understands all these ridiculous new terms for things.

[@VPrice-y8v]

🤨

[@user-bh8pj7wc8g]

You are wrong, not everyone has common sense. Either you have it or you don’t. It can’t be taught.

[@humbledexpat2662]

I like LDR (Lazy Dude Retirement)

[@VPrice-y8v]

🤑

[@RobertNetter-r9w]

Robert netter

[@Upyours-skank]

Just keep that money coming SIMP 😂

[@raynwhite6997]

BORING!

[@turbov6panthermica637]

Ldr sucks