What Happens When a Filipina Falls for a Foreigner and Gets Abandoned?

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Paul in the Philippines Old Dog New Tricks

Paul in the Philippines Old Dog New Tricks

Күн бұрын

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@dallen8997
@dallen8997 Ай бұрын
Thanks! give to the young lady thanks!!
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 Ай бұрын
Thank you very much 😊
@dallen8997
@dallen8997 Ай бұрын
@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 thanks Paul I’m actually pretty excited. I’m going to cebu next week to meet the woman of my dreams that I’ve been talking to from Christian Filipino. She’s amazing a lot of those girls are amazing. Thanks for bringing out to this young ladies story…
@lindacatalano3244
@lindacatalano3244 Ай бұрын
Thanks! Paul i hope this helps Nicole
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 Ай бұрын
Thanks so much 👍
@slclinton9
@slclinton9 Ай бұрын
Paul, Please pass along this donation to Nicole. My name choice for the baby girl is Chloe.
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 Ай бұрын
@@slclinton9 Thank you very much 😊
@Piersmoron
@Piersmoron Ай бұрын
Nice name 🙌🤓
@jon15711
@jon15711 Ай бұрын
In honor of my long since passed grandmother Madeline. The last two attempts for a baby girl with my wife ended with another boy. If we had had a baby girl that's what we would have named her. Also wanted to put some money were my first comment is. To give a little help to Nicole with what will surely be a challenging first year for her and the little one.Thanks for bringing awareness. I feel sad for the little one to be. There is no dollar amount that can be placed on a little soul who will always wonder why their biological father abandoned something so precious. If you could add this amount to Niclole's running total I'd appreciate it. Having a 7,5 and 2 year old at the young age of 53 I know every little bit helps. Merry Christmas to you guys as well
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 Ай бұрын
@jon15711 thank you very much, I will be sure to let her read your message, Merry Christmas 🎅
@gowithin9451
@gowithin9451 Ай бұрын
Please give the young lady this money Paul, thank you
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 Ай бұрын
Will do, thank you very much 😊
@gowithin9451
@gowithin9451 Ай бұрын
@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 Welcome!!! I will be helping her in the future
@jacqueslefave4296
@jacqueslefave4296 Ай бұрын
@@gowithin9451 I suggest using it to travel to the Canadian Embassy and register the birth.
@AidaJof
@AidaJof Ай бұрын
@@gowithin9451 That is very nice. Thank you. I wish I could help🙏
@Bobster0007
@Bobster0007 Ай бұрын
thank you
@Iron2011rob
@Iron2011rob Ай бұрын
Please provide this for the young women. Its from me and my Filipina wife
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 Ай бұрын
Thank you very much 😊
@Shattered65
@Shattered65 Ай бұрын
Oh and if Your friend takes the guy to court, the Philippines has child support laws now and its enforceable in Canada by international agreement.
@LegalAutomation
@LegalAutomation Ай бұрын
I hate when people say this. Yes, on the most technical level, she theoretically could get child support IF the father actually acknowledged paternity and is on the birth certificate, and IF she had the money to afford an attorney in the Philippines AND she had the money to pay an attorney in the U.S. to domesticate the Philippines judgment at the appropriate local court in the U.S. It is NOT easy or even realistic for 99% of people to get an enforceable child support judgment if the father lives in another country. It takes considerable money to make this all happen.
@ST-TV
@ST-TV Ай бұрын
Since they are not married it's on her to prove that he is the father. You can do it by him signing the birth sertificate or by paternity test. A test that he needs to agree to. So most likely no, it's not gonna happen.
@marcusrex77
@marcusrex77 Ай бұрын
@@ST-TV ... she can get an unofficial Dna test by testing his old tooth bush, water bottle, or anything that has his dna on it. Or she can use a Dna genealogist to research his family and compare it to her baby And then I would see if his expanded family would sponsor us to Canada..
@ST-TV
@ST-TV Ай бұрын
@@marcusrex77 None of those things will hold up in court.
@jacqueslefave4296
@jacqueslefave4296 Ай бұрын
Ditto Australia.
@glitter0007
@glitter0007 Ай бұрын
Hi Paul. Please pass along my donation to Nicole.
@mkrreptiles5163
@mkrreptiles5163 Ай бұрын
She seems so sweet. So beautiful. I wish her the best.
@rod1147
@rod1147 Ай бұрын
sweet but not innocent. She got whay she wanted out of it, she took the risks
@Behemoth66
@Behemoth66 13 күн бұрын
She seems sweet? Um more like dumb and morally bankrupt. Being def is not an excuse for her stupidities. 21, living with her parents, no job, etc and decides to sell around with some random guy after 2 months of dating and not use protection 🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️. Sounds like she was trying to be a ‘trapqueen’ and it backfired
@magkam01
@magkam01 Ай бұрын
As a Canadian I am disgusted by this man.
@buzzbuzz4437
@buzzbuzz4437 27 күн бұрын
Canada is a third world country
@daviddubois5123
@daviddubois5123 Ай бұрын
Thanks!
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 Ай бұрын
@@daviddubois5123 Thank you 😊
@KOHTAOMURDERSDEATHISLAND
@KOHTAOMURDERSDEATHISLAND Ай бұрын
It’s quite a sobering video. Merry Christmas to you Nicole & Baby Mae & Paul. Cheers from Australia 🇦🇺
@tryscience
@tryscience Ай бұрын
I remember Nicole. How an easily treatable condition when she was young, wasn't and resulted in the hearing impairment. And how you were kind and generous to help with the hearing aid. I remember being worried that this sort of thing might happen. Some people just prey on the vulnerable, It's upsetting. I hope that at some point in the future, he grows a conscience and does more to help Nicole and her daughter. However, I'm not holding my breath. I will leave the naming to the other excellent suggestions.
@victorrosa5323
@victorrosa5323 Ай бұрын
Shout out to all the Old Dog New Tricks Dog Pound dogs. Let's each of us do something special for Nicole and donate for any amount, large or small, in the spirit of the season. Starting with me! Good luck to you, Nicole, and Happy Holidaze, all you OLD DOGs, starting with PAUL!! - Baby name suggestion Estrella
@AidaJof
@AidaJof Ай бұрын
Yes - a fund raiser of sorts
@davefarnsworth3020
@davefarnsworth3020 Ай бұрын
Estrella is a beautiful name for a girl. There's a young Chapina by the name Estrella Bitzma, who's just getting started as a singing artist.
@jameswelch1054
@jameswelch1054 Ай бұрын
Instead of donating money, we should donate condoms. But that would be pointless because they will refuse to let them be used.
@victorrosa5323
@victorrosa5323 Ай бұрын
Cool.
@jameswelch1054
@jameswelch1054 Ай бұрын
Someone please donate a box of condoms to her, hahaha.
@ofeliacabasal3948
@ofeliacabasal3948 Ай бұрын
I could feel for Nicole because “been there, done that “ when I was 19 years old. I was devastated at the time, but I’m 80 years old now and every wound have healed already. Nicole will get over this bad experience and she will meet the right man in the future. God bless you and your baby, Nicole ❤
@genenautilus451
@genenautilus451 Ай бұрын
Yes Paul, Nicole is still very beautiful. I have always wondered about her and how she was doing ever since you first posted her story. Maybe Hope would be a good name for her baby.
@danitzm
@danitzm Ай бұрын
This video was so overwhelming that I have no words.
@ClubFred6
@ClubFred6 Ай бұрын
I am deaf (severe to profound hearing loss) and while I feel a real affinity to another deaf person, I also highly rely on the hearing people in my life to help me. I dated an asian lady who was very patient and helped me a lot. Its not the worst thing to have to live with, but it is a real issue, and presents cognitive problems - when you cannot understand that is being said, its as if youre not too smart. Good luck and gods blessings to this young woman - from another Canadian man.
@jameswelch1054
@jameswelch1054 Ай бұрын
I don't think her hearing impairment has anything to do with her problem, that she got pregnant. He was in a dating relationship with her for 2 months, so he was probably was well adapted to her hearing disability. I did not like the way some of this was presented, as you said it is a hearing, not intellectual problem. I understand the difficulties people with hearing loss have to deal with. For example people sometimes get frustrated with you, not understanding that you just can't hear them. Especially if it is not obvious to them that you have difficulties hearing.
@ClubFred6
@ClubFred6 Ай бұрын
@@jameswelch1054 right, I just commented on hearing impairment because it resonates with me ofc being a large thing in my own life. :)
@briannorris2052
@briannorris2052 Ай бұрын
I would love this girl and her baby forever ❤ what a complete angel. Thank you Paul and Baby Mae for helping. Im so thankful for you both
@ShaninSafari
@ShaninSafari Ай бұрын
@@briannorris2052 be careful what you wish for. She has messed up 3 lives already hers , babies and the guy's🇺🇸🗽
@Dragon_rls
@Dragon_rls Ай бұрын
Have at it.
@ChocolateAfterDark
@ChocolateAfterDark Ай бұрын
Superman!!
@ThereIsSoulInArt
@ThereIsSoulInArt Ай бұрын
​@@ShaninSafariwhat about the man's responsibility in this situation - maybe 50%?
@TheDragonofRevelation
@TheDragonofRevelation Ай бұрын
​@@Dragon_rlsCuckolds gotta cuckold, what can I say? 😂
@donaldhelie115
@donaldhelie115 Ай бұрын
This guy should be reported to Bureau of Immigration and have black listed and deported if he doesn't support his child she should call the baby Angel
@Clew50
@Clew50 Ай бұрын
100%
@shawn2380
@shawn2380 Ай бұрын
How about the opposite? Don't let him leave and make him pay.
@SLOBeachboy
@SLOBeachboy Ай бұрын
Well, I would tend to agree with that assessment for the most part and I can also totally understand why people would be so outraged at this guy's shameful behavior. I think the only reason I am not more outraged about it myself is because I have just become a bit desensitized from hearing hundreds of similar stories from girls in Thailand, the Philippines and other Southeast Asian countries over the past 35 years. Of course, 98% of the time these stories involved local guys abandoning the woman when she got pregnant and not a Westerner. That being said however I always tend to take it more personally in cases in which the deadbeat dad turns out to be a Westerner because I just hold us to a higher standard, I guess. Anyway, since this guy is living in the Philippines, he should know full well by now that if a Filipina gets pregnant there is pretty much a zero percent chance that she will opt not to have the baby despite her less than ideal circumstances and so he should be mentally prepared to take responsibility for this eventuality whenever he has sex with a woman there. Either that or he should move someplace like Japan where there is better than a 95% chance that the girl will opt not to have the baby in such situations. I have actually been responsible for a few unwanted pregnancies myself, but I was always ready to take full responsibility should the woman decide that she wanted to have the child. And now that I am 65 and have no children, I sometimes secretly wish that these women had made a different decision back then.
@tomcase2837
@tomcase2837 Ай бұрын
You beat me to it, Angel was my suggestion too
@bobtimster62
@bobtimster62 Ай бұрын
@@tomcase2837 I was going to suggest Dawn, but Angel sounds good too.
@bigtime911
@bigtime911 Ай бұрын
I wish her the best. Beautiful young lady😊
@jetPower1960
@jetPower1960 Ай бұрын
God bless you Paul and baby Mae. You're doing God's work. Thank you both.
@les8518
@les8518 Ай бұрын
She is better off without him after what he has done to her. And I feel sure that one day in the future she will meet a good man who will love and cherish both her and the daughter.
@Peter-td3yk
@Peter-td3yk Ай бұрын
she was part of it too. closed legs and a good background means a lot
@dwrr4868
@dwrr4868 Ай бұрын
It would have to be a foreigners as no filiipino man will raise another man's child
@jameswelch1054
@jameswelch1054 Ай бұрын
That girl did not seem to care that other people will have to support her child. She had no job, no income, and yet she said she is very happy to be pregnant, and was giggling throughout the video. Hopefully she won't go out and get knocked up again. I would never marry such an irresponsible dependent girl.
@jacqueslefave4296
@jacqueslefave4296 Ай бұрын
@@les8518 It's an uphill climb for a single mom, but if she is a good mom, he doesn't have to guess whether she will be a good mother to her children with him, the proof is right there in front of his eyes.🤱❤️
@paulbuckle8459
@paulbuckle8459 3 күн бұрын
Reading the comments there are some very kind people out there donating 😊 gives you hope.
@MarkLetexier
@MarkLetexier Ай бұрын
I am always disapointed to here when people visiting other countries behave badly or very immaturly, i am glad to see she has good freinds and still smiles though. May God bless and watch over her and her family .
@PawPeers
@PawPeers Ай бұрын
She’s so strong .. I applaud her for that…. beautiful future mama!!! Hope you the best!
@palmtreesandpaychecks
@palmtreesandpaychecks Ай бұрын
Nicole, if you are able to read this, sorry that this man has abandoned you and the baby in your hour of need, but life will get better. Everything happens for a reason, and hopefully this video will result in life changing blessings. Paul and Mae, thank you for helping Nicole, hopefully there will be a follow up video to this one.
@JohnSmith-ti2kp
@JohnSmith-ti2kp Ай бұрын
Hope is a beautiful name for a girl, and especially appropriate for this situation.
@blackwoodrichmore4531
@blackwoodrichmore4531 Ай бұрын
Apparently, her brother suggested that if the baby is born a girl, she should name her Denise. But if it's born a boy, then she should name him De-nephew. 🥁Boom tish! 🙂
@chulee846
@chulee846 Ай бұрын
How could he just do that! My Filipina ex dumped me when I became disabled 25 yrs ago. My kids were the best thing I got out of that marriage. And I had a daughter and son. Never left them. My best memories are of being a father to my kids. Today they are grown up my daughter is happy with her husband and two kids. When we talk her face lights up when ever we talk about her childhood. I also get those vibes from her younger brother. .
@krish6128
@krish6128 Ай бұрын
For Nicole and Baby
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 Ай бұрын
@krish6128 thank you very much 😊
@michaelpalosaari9460
@michaelpalosaari9460 Ай бұрын
I’m absolutely certain that this is a common occurrence… and such a challenging story to listen to. I, along with others here in the comments would like to contribute in assisting for her care.
@jacqueslefave4296
@jacqueslefave4296 Ай бұрын
@@michaelpalosaari9460 Sad but true. Some ruthless Lotharios leave several behind, don't do sex before marriage, but if you do, keep a used toothbrush and/or hairbrush of his, lock it up and don't clean, share it or give it away, they are good sources of DNA.
@Texascowboy1949
@Texascowboy1949 Ай бұрын
Paul / I met a girl that was in the same situation . Except he told her to get abortion or never see him again . They dated for two months only. She said no I will not kill my baby. I met her when the little boy was 6 months old. Now he is 71/2 years old and the love of my life !!! I adopted him and he is in private school and very sweet and smart. Best decision I ever made !!! I also support her two sisters and help the family. If you marry a philippine girl you marry the whole family.!! Adoption in the philippines takes a year or more and is not easy. You have to provide many. Many documents and phsyciologist test for you and the boy.
@RetirePhilippines
@RetirePhilippines Ай бұрын
While I admire what you did and are doing, that was your decision. This whole you marry the whole family thing is up to each of us to decide. And it’s a legit reason not to actually get married. You can still be a good provider, father and mate without agreeing to marry and support the whole family.
@MikeandMaeSincitytoPI
@MikeandMaeSincitytoPI Ай бұрын
@KenTaylor-u8f there's no abortion there it would be considered murder
@MikeandMaeSincitytoPI
@MikeandMaeSincitytoPI Ай бұрын
@RetirePhilippines then don't get them pregnant nobody there will marry them if you want to just go around selfishly screwing up innocent people's lives stay in your house
@Texascowboy1949
@Texascowboy1949 Ай бұрын
If you marry a girl from a super poor family it is impossible for me to see the grandparents with no refrigerator and stove no fans and living in a tin shed using a out house bathroom , taking sponge bath and not help. How could you live with yourself. I can't!!! I repeat I CANT !!! So I help!!!!
@Texascowboy1949
@Texascowboy1949 Ай бұрын
If your the type of man that can marry a poor girl in a poor family and not help her family if you can then your a taker and not a giver. Sad !!!!
@AMartin-z3w
@AMartin-z3w Ай бұрын
Paul, a small donation for the young lady. Please make sure she receives it in some way. Thanks
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 Ай бұрын
@AMartin-z3w thank you very much 😊
@AMartin-z3w
@AMartin-z3w Ай бұрын
@ Thank you, Paul for sharing her story. Life for most people is hard enough without any disability.
@keithandes2804
@keithandes2804 Ай бұрын
I’m sickened by the behavior of that man! The perfect name for the baby “Precious” God bless this beautiful woman!! Thank you for sharing 🙏🏾❤️
@rexlaughlin3897
@rexlaughlin3897 Ай бұрын
Young pregnant moms with no father in the picture is becoming the norm in the Philippines. When I was a young man if you got a girl pregnant you marry them. But that is no longer the culture. He should of offered more or if he didn't believe the money would go for supporting the child he could of setup a trust of some sort. Keep in mind the average wage in the Philippines is 250 us dollars. About 65 dollars a week. I hope things will work out for her. And hopefully she learns from this.
@Eric-qm5xw
@Eric-qm5xw Ай бұрын
Too late now
@Mjolnher9
@Mjolnher9 Ай бұрын
Well yeah back on your generation perhaps. My Millennial generation and Gen Z as well quite different. Everyone is replaceable now. Marriage is on the decline
@Eric-qm5xw
@Eric-qm5xw Ай бұрын
@@Mjolnher9 If you taking note, this is the reason for the decline in the west. Women of note will not sleep around, it’s there value currency.
@jameswelch1054
@jameswelch1054 Ай бұрын
Yes it is a sad situation in the Philippines. Young Pinays always getting pregnant. Too bad but what she has learned from this, and other Pinays will see, is that if you are irresponsible and careless, and engage in unprotected sex, ... you will be rewarded by dumb Westerners sending you donations.
@Deadfoot-Dan
@Deadfoot-Dan Ай бұрын
Any chance you can start a GoFundMe for this nice lady? I think you like helping people, I feel terrible when someone sweet like this is taken advantage of. She really is pretty and seems so sweet.
@RawHebrewRemnant
@RawHebrewRemnant Ай бұрын
I would not marry her. But it is the responsible thing to take care of her and your child. Whoever this guy is, something needs to be done.
@b.coxemba6799
@b.coxemba6799 Ай бұрын
He not responsible for her. She grown and though Jack pot foreigner. The average Filipina child support is 2,000 monthly (guy earning 20k). Her father only earned 10k. He only responsible for half of child support. Real talk. People are using dollars to feel sorry. 😢 Why pay more than Filipinos? It's nice but not necessarily have to.
@tilapiadave3234
@tilapiadave3234 Ай бұрын
@@b.coxemba6799 Agree. It is almost becoming a social security scam ,, Filipina running around trying to get pregnant to foreigner in order to collect dollars. And equally enforced payment from Filipino fathers needs to be in place first
@newoioi
@newoioi Ай бұрын
@@b.coxemba6799 He may not be responsible for Nicole, but he did the deed, got her pregnant. He should MAN THE F UP and take responsibility for the child. Bringing a monetary value in to this....seriously dude.
@jamothegreat6052
@jamothegreat6052 Ай бұрын
Same here, I'm enraged, too. He just used her for sex. Worse of all not being responsible.
@tilapiadave3234
@tilapiadave3234 Ай бұрын
@@jamothegreat6052 She just used him for sex :) The rage of the internet hero on his white horse is laughable
@libertos9960
@libertos9960 Ай бұрын
Is there a way we can contribute and help her financially Paul?
@UncleWobby2024
@UncleWobby2024 Ай бұрын
I helped a girl in Luzon find her Australian bf who left....fortunately she knew the date he left the country, but not his full legal name or any way to contact him. Through a law clinic in Manila they got immigration to pull up pictures from that day at the airport and identified him as an Australian citizen. Their laws are similar to USA..... with PH authorities and the Aussie courts confirmed paternity and docked his pay all the way back to the date of birth, sent her a check for those 10 months and now his pay is docked P23K each month for child support and will continue that to age 18. USA laws are similar and the courts very swift....it's all the girls that get pregnant by Korean's or Japanese where those countries laugh at the girls and deny all responsibility along with the perpetrator. If I was a Filipina I would only date men from those cooperating countries. I would think Canada would be right in line with the others. Those guys are POS.....and deserve paying even more than that.
@tilapiadave3234
@tilapiadave3234 Ай бұрын
And how much are Filipino men paying ? Zero ,, so you are openly encouraging racism.
@MariaLeeVegas
@MariaLeeVegas Ай бұрын
I am in total support of this. It takes two to make a baby. It’s not right for him to hop on a plane and fly home while leaving the responsibility of raising the kid alone to her.
@tilapiadave3234
@tilapiadave3234 Ай бұрын
@@MariaLeeVegas I wouldn't expect anything different. The vast majority of women want to contribute basically zero and do nothing and have men pay for it...
@johncarlson6472
@johncarlson6472 Ай бұрын
Stories abound of Filipino men doing the same thing...getting a girl pregnant, then ghosting her. I wonder if they go after these guys in the Philippines?
@UncleWobby2024
@UncleWobby2024 Ай бұрын
Most Filipinas are too shy to try and go after the father as most don't have jobs or make very little money.
@johnbergeron9997
@johnbergeron9997 Ай бұрын
She is a very beautiful young lady 💝
@SpendingtheKidsInheritanceinth
@SpendingtheKidsInheritanceinth 14 күн бұрын
They are all beautiful when they are not yours😂😂😂
@mikealsleben4671
@mikealsleben4671 Ай бұрын
Paternity test first. Then if so, this guy needs to be held accountable.
@tilapiadave3234
@tilapiadave3234 Ай бұрын
I do agree all Fathers should take some responsibility for costs of the child. Philippines really needs to begin that with their own people first ,, how many single mum Filipinas do you see or know that get even 1 peso from the Filipino fathers? Just going after foreigners is straight up racism.
@marcusrex77
@marcusrex77 Ай бұрын
A lot of girls want to have a foreigner's baby, because that baby will be her ticket out of the Philippines's
@aboveitall9600
@aboveitall9600 Ай бұрын
There is no family court in the Philippines.
@MikeandMaeSincitytoPI
@MikeandMaeSincitytoPI Ай бұрын
Paternity test it's his women like this don't play around, Sure there's plenty that do but your not really familiar with a lady like this with strict parents this guy convinced her to sleep with him and his intentions were real but made no effort to protect her. If you just want to screw around, make sure the woman is the type that's aware and ready for you to say goodbye. You hear crazy stories about the Philippine women, but unless you're in a bar or certain areas, most women are searching for a lifelong commitment, and many are virgins Don't make it so foreigners are hated here, please
@MikeandMaeSincitytoPI
@MikeandMaeSincitytoPI Ай бұрын
​@@aboveitall9600yes and they could go after him times are changing
@kriselliott5866
@kriselliott5866 Ай бұрын
Here in Canada if he doesn't pay child support they will take your license and garnish your wages or take it from your tax return you should put that jerk on blast and shame him
@PhilipBrewer0688
@PhilipBrewer0688 Ай бұрын
Paul, what can I do to offer her some money and help her with something? I hate to see an expat do this because it makes the rest of us look very bad. I would like to donate something to her. Thank you kindly
@Steve-nu4sv
@Steve-nu4sv Ай бұрын
I remember that interview sweet young woman I'm glad you were able to help with hearing aids. What a scumbag. Here in the UK a Government agency handle things like this. They contact the alleged Father csn force him to take a DNA test then via a court order make him contribute to support the child. Paul I'd like to make a contribution can you advise me of the best way to do this? Thanks and best wishes you you, make and Nicole😊
@user-wz4db1zn3r
@user-wz4db1zn3r Ай бұрын
It's easy to throw around blame but she consented too, remember that. The sole blame I believe falls on the outdated abortion laws in Philippines. It limits their options and forces them to birth all pregnancies. Low sex education further fuels high unplanned pregnancy rate. Vasectomies are still not a safe option for men with the high chronic pain rate (1 in 20) so contraceptive pills and abortions are the only valid options.
@AidaJof
@AidaJof Ай бұрын
@@user-wz4db1zn3r Nonsense, if he did not want her to get pregnant he should have used a condom although not a 100% protection, still better than the alternative
@Eric-qm5xw
@Eric-qm5xw Ай бұрын
How to contribute to the misery and poor of the Philippines, knock up a young girl ..the douche knows he can skip ..2000 peso what a 22 carat c**t.
@airwess3369
@airwess3369 Ай бұрын
​@@user-wz4db1zn3rnot a good argument for a 52 yr old from a 1st world wealthy country messing with a 21 yr old deaf girl from a 3rd world poor country.
@Steve-nu4sv
@Steve-nu4sv Ай бұрын
It's an opinion. A responsible person doesn't have unprotected sex with someone they aren't certain they are on birth control unless they accept responsibility for the consequences. There's no doubt the lady bears equal responsibility but look objectively at the chain of events. They make contact He he continues to talk they meet get intimate she gets pregnant tells him he decides to up sticks and moves to Cebu. I give him some credit for offering 4,000 pesos but that's dependant on his actually paying her. He should take responsibility 1. Take a DNA test 2. Sign the Birth Certificate 3. Offer what financial support that he can. 4. Offer the child the chance of Canadian Citizenship. Irrespective of any age there might be there's clear evidence he took advantage of a less than worldly wise young woman with at a significant disadvantage. I don't disagree about the legislation regarding abortion there but it's widely known and does not, I my view mitigate anyone's actions here.
@kuyabaste6934
@kuyabaste6934 Ай бұрын
I have 6 kids on 5 different islands, and i support them all
@the_stoned_investor
@the_stoned_investor 25 күн бұрын
It's usually the idiots that are most fertile.
@EricvonDorp191
@EricvonDorp191 23 күн бұрын
What an emotional upload this was. There were tears in my eyes. Really...Greetz from the Netherlands
@StanHasselback
@StanHasselback Ай бұрын
Foreigner's behaving badly. It's sad when you see things like this. I really have a hard time understanding how a man can just walk away from a baby they helped create. Knowing I had a child that I would just abandon and never see again would haunt me for the rest of my life. Don't play with people's lives like this, think about the consequences of your actions. Being responsible for your actions is really the core of what it means to be a man. I wish Nicole the best.
@jameswelch1054
@jameswelch1054 Ай бұрын
He walked away from her. The baby has not been born yet, so we don't know what he will do when that time comes. Maybe she, or her family were pressuring him, to get married, so he left her? That does not mean he will abandon the baby, lets wait and see before we judge things that we don't know and are not our business.
@reelwrite
@reelwrite Ай бұрын
As a Canadian, I am appalled at this man's behaviour. I would hope people don't generalize about Canadian men. There's bad apples in all cultures. It's not surprising to me that a man would find and date a young Filipina with no more intent than to hang out with a beautiful young woman, sleep with her and enjoy the time without any thought to either her feelings or a long term commitment. As the song says, "I'm here for a good time, not a long time." And when things get real, they run. Thank you Paul and May for presenting this story. You are very good at portraying the good, the bad and the ugly. I am travelling to the Philippines in January for a month. I look forward to experiencing the good (mostly.....I hope). As to a name: I was immediately drawn to Angel but I see someone has already suggested that name. Nicole is truly a beautiful and precious flower and so I suggest the name Rose.
@billlloyd9755
@billlloyd9755 Ай бұрын
So sad! If I was her, I would get a paternity test and get in touch with the father and possibly the Canadian government and go from there.
@tilapiadave3234
@tilapiadave3234 Ай бұрын
LMAO ,, a paternity test without fathers DNA ,,, what a genius you are
@peterbrittain1963
@peterbrittain1963 Ай бұрын
that would only work if they had the kid in Canada ..like , if i had a kid in Canada and moved country,, i still owe child support ,, now if i had a kid in the Philippines and went back to canada,,, i dont have to pay a cent.. thats the reality of the situation . they do have child support laws in the Philippines,, But the mother most likely cant afford to take the Pinay father to court and also if he can actually afford to pay..
@billlloyd9755
@billlloyd9755 Ай бұрын
@@tilapiadave3234 she know the guy 🤨🤔.
@stevenbyrne1282
@stevenbyrne1282 Ай бұрын
Hello Paul, I would love to help Nicole!!! I have been following we for quite sometime now. I am also friends with gold finger. I plan on being comming and expat in the near future. I know Nicole is not ready for a relationship. But I am interested in her (in a good way! ) And would like to help her and become her friend for now. Sincerely Steven USA
@WaltPolarBear
@WaltPolarBear Ай бұрын
My vote is for the name Hope. It has been mentioned several times. It's a beautiful name. Best wishes.
@timhnc75
@timhnc75 Ай бұрын
Good luck to her. Name (Hope) ,hope she will have a successful life and be born healthy.
@jqsant5324
@jqsant5324 Ай бұрын
Filipino people have so much faith. I would name the baby Faith, but Hope is so beautiful also.
@christiancabral9300
@christiancabral9300 Ай бұрын
She looks so sweet. The baby name: Faith, my heart hurts for her. She is adorable and probably thought she found a good man to love and cherish. The baby is a blessing from God, I hope she doesn't put on the baby the sins of the father. He is an idiot! In my prayers always. BTW.. My finance was married to a drunk and abusive Philippine, left him and met a guy while on a work visa. He promised to love her until she got pregnant. He isn't giving anything to the little boy. I'm 61 but I am ADOPTING him when I marry her. I am SO blessed to have a good job and I support them until I retire to the Philippine's in about 8 years. Let her know good men exist, with big hearts and God will connect her when she least expects it. It happened to me so I know can happen for her.
@chriselmore1969
@chriselmore1969 Ай бұрын
I was happy to hear at the end that you were going to filter the comments! I think that was a kind decision. Nicole doesn't need to see the idiocrasy, that is on display at times, especially with all she is already dealing with.
@AidaJof
@AidaJof Ай бұрын
I wish this young lady every blessing for her and her baby for the future. On behalf of Canada, we apologize for that one shameful and rotten apple which lacks moral fibre to conduct himself appropriately ... karma will catch up with him.
@PulverizerA
@PulverizerA Ай бұрын
I think I've been blocked from commenting here. Anyway, you may want to get the Canadian's side of the story before you apologize on behalf of your entire nation. There is a chance that said Canadian is a fine upstanding representation of Canada. Can't say the same for Trudeau...
@AidaJof
@AidaJof Ай бұрын
@@PulverizerA Nope, not interested in hearing his side of the story; where as his actions speak volumes as to the lack of character he possesses. So, my comment stands. Yes, I agree the Turd is another scum PS: Obviously, you are not blocked
@tilapiadave3234
@tilapiadave3234 Ай бұрын
I apologize on behalf of AidaJof for being such an ignorant and crazed idiot
@charlesHUECKSTAEDT-e8p
@charlesHUECKSTAEDT-e8p Ай бұрын
northern wisconsin hello.......
@AidaJof
@AidaJof Ай бұрын
@charlesHUECKSTAEDT-e8p Well, hello Charles🙋‍♀️
@nathanielcooke1902
@nathanielcooke1902 Ай бұрын
He should be giving atleast 15000P/month, and be grateful a he's not paying child support in the home country.
@PassPortExtraordinaire
@PassPortExtraordinaire Ай бұрын
The Philippines does not have alimony or child support laws.
@theeblindmice4826
@theeblindmice4826 Ай бұрын
​@PassPortExtraordinaire that's not correct. There are child support laws here and they are quite strict. Enforcement can be an issue
@jonmarchilgers384
@jonmarchilgers384 Ай бұрын
Hey Paul, post a picture of this 52 yr old Canadian. 😉
@koogle
@koogle Ай бұрын
and what are you going to do about it? if you want to help open your wallet and help this lady instead of making tough guy comments
@DaveJohnson-Php
@DaveJohnson-Php Ай бұрын
Can you really believe him when he says he's from Canada?
@Gossip_girl339
@Gossip_girl339 Ай бұрын
I agree with you! As a Filipina I want to see the face of this man so other filipina specially one's living in Cebu would be aware to avoid this guy or this type of man! He deserves to put his face on! Filipina deserves a better man!
@FoundingYouTuber-2005
@FoundingYouTuber-2005 Ай бұрын
Yeah sure, go ahead and do that. Quickest way for Paul to get sued, and possibly criminally prosecuted. Search the laws, those are on the books. But I'm sure you will do the right thing, pay part of Paul's legal fees.
@Mjolnher9
@Mjolnher9 Ай бұрын
​@@koogleit's actually illegal to give people money here
@roustabout4fun
@roustabout4fun Ай бұрын
It's amazing and rather sad that a little friction can cause a whole bunch of lifetime friction. Abandoning a part of yourself, let alone another trusting person is irresponsible and just wrong for all.
@HowtoLiv365
@HowtoLiv365 Ай бұрын
Wow those two look like they could be mother and daughter!
@MrJJ-jv4lu
@MrJJ-jv4lu 7 күн бұрын
I was impressed with her when I saw her the first time. I hope everything works out well for her.
@everyonehasadream
@everyonehasadream Ай бұрын
Here's a unique, noble, and powerful girl's name, "Ethella". Our best to you and your baby! 🙂
@leedensmore5970
@leedensmore5970 Ай бұрын
Lorelei, I always wanted to name my daughter, if I ever had one, unfortunately I never had a child. Never got married. As you may remember, I am now 71+ years old. That guy is a jerk. He may have done this despicable deed before. I wish that her and her daughter's lives will okay.
@Jabo__Jabo
@Jabo__Jabo 6 күн бұрын
Nicole. I know you will be just fine in this world. You are young. You will meet someone who loves you in the right way. I’m sorry this man behaved poorly. Forget about him and focus on yourself and your daughter. Much love to you. ❤️
@Jabo__Jabo
@Jabo__Jabo 6 күн бұрын
P.S. He should be giving her more money. If I lived there I would track him down and make sure he is financially responsible for his daughter. He knows he’s the father or else he would not be giving her the minuscule amount he is already providing. Again, much love to her. I think Nicky would be the perfect name.❤️
@lindawilson795
@lindawilson795 Ай бұрын
That 52 year old man is certainly old enough to know better. She certainly could have done much better than him. Best wishes for the baby .❤❤
@ysidrolopez9417
@ysidrolopez9417 Ай бұрын
I think she should go to the Barangay captain and report the incident. Once his name is obtained, she should go to the Canadian embassy, so that child support can be arranged thru Canadian social services. Maybe the Philippine government can compel the Canadian to take a DNA test, for support issues!
@Dragon_rls
@Dragon_rls Ай бұрын
There are 2 ways to get lessons in life. Learn from your mistakes, or learn from others mistakes. Seems like they like to do it the hard way out there. Best of luck to this young lady, and her baby.
@kirklumsden8107
@kirklumsden8107 Ай бұрын
This is a young, vulnerable country girl. There is no way she could have withstood the advances of an elderly, better educated, white guy from a first world country.
@ST-TV
@ST-TV Ай бұрын
@@kirklumsden8107 She is a legal adult who is 100% responsible for her actions. She had unprotected s*x and got herself pregnant. She 100% knew that it's going to happen, it's just a matter of time. Do not feel sorry for her. If you do, you are the problem.
@valeriek5020
@valeriek5020 Ай бұрын
No matter where you live, there will always be young women who need to be educated on birth control and take on that responsibility to protect herself.
@charlesmcpeak3043
@charlesmcpeak3043 Ай бұрын
My dad was a very church going family man. He always told me that there is 2 types of men that has children in their life. There is dads and fathers . A dad to him was a man that runs away from the responsibility of having a child. A FATHER to him was a man that runs towards the responsibility of having a child. I have since had children, and I was always there for them and now they are adults. I have since gotten married to another woman with children of her own. Their dad was never in the picture. I have upon myself taken the responsibility of being their father. It is the best thing that ever happened in my life other than when I had my biological children with my first wife. They asked me to adopt them and I have started the paper work for it. His loss was my gain.
@rocketrob333
@rocketrob333 Ай бұрын
being profoundly hearing impaired myself, Nicole should be learning some basic SIGN language, it helps me immensely, I also read lips which helps, but even with hearing aids , we dont hear everything, maybe 50%, I wish Nicole the best and to prepare for life without this guy, he's probably not even gonna show up later after the baby is born., an his support will wane
@cheriebrewer7249
@cheriebrewer7249 Ай бұрын
I would love to meet a young lady like that I was married for 36 years my wife passed and I've always thought about going to the Philippines to meet someone like her
@danielroy3039
@danielroy3039 Ай бұрын
By the way. I would gladly help this woman.
@davidsim5636
@davidsim5636 Ай бұрын
Perhaps Paul could be the conduit to flow some money from you to her.
@misutasutanto6312
@misutasutanto6312 Ай бұрын
😂
@pawellucki9947
@pawellucki9947 Ай бұрын
Cuckold 😂
@MJC_2112
@MJC_2112 Ай бұрын
That's all she needs.... another old bag of dust try to get some as well. She doesn't need another grandfather
@TexasT-Bone1970
@TexasT-Bone1970 Ай бұрын
Sad situation. Always take responsibility. Support your children!!!!!!
@Jimmyjackfunk433
@Jimmyjackfunk433 Ай бұрын
This happened to a filipino family member of ours. She was able to use the courts in Texas to obtain legal child support for a set of twins.
@RCFSULAW
@RCFSULAW Ай бұрын
@@Jimmyjackfunk433 Was she married to the guy or brought to the USA on a Visa? The reason I ask is because the USA and the Philippines do not have a reciprocal child support enforcement agreement. I am curious how it happened without her presence in a USA court. There was obviously DNA testing done. Did he also sign the birth certificate.
@peterbrittain1963
@peterbrittain1963 Ай бұрын
@@RCFSULAW that only works in western courts . she would have been in the usa ..
@PawPeers
@PawPeers Ай бұрын
@@Jimmyjackfunk433 This happened to my friend too. What she had is his personal info. Didn’t even need to be in the USA. She just worked with the USA embassy in manila. Not even a lawyer was needed. - ops wrong info she work with the state not embassy.
@TheDragonofRevelation
@TheDragonofRevelation Ай бұрын
​@@PawPeersCan I get the name of the case? That's dangerous if that's true.
@PawPeers
@PawPeers Ай бұрын
@@TheDragonofRevelation the guy actually was cooperating of bringing the child in the USA at first ( that’s why she got those info) but he suddenly gone MIA so she pursued on getting child support. It was all legal. What I mean is if they got info of the father they can actually work with the embassy with all the requirements to qualify. She didn’t need a lawyer. It was a guy in Texas and my friend is from QC . I don’t think it’s appropriate of me to tell you their private info.
@christophersmalling8889
@christophersmalling8889 Ай бұрын
I remember in an earlier video, she specifically said that she would only date a white man. Unfortunately, this is what can happen when you only judge someone by the color of their skin instead of the content of their character.
@climber222
@climber222 Ай бұрын
She only dates white men for $ and she most likely told him she's on birth control or sabotaged the condoms
@jameswelch1054
@jameswelch1054 Ай бұрын
She was judging him by those pretty Canadian dollars in his wallet.
@bubi7162
@bubi7162 Ай бұрын
@@jameswelch1054 hahaha exactly ..... RIGHT !!!
@MisterDigDug
@MisterDigDug Ай бұрын
I’m enraged by this story, specifically the lack of support he’s providing. He needs to triple or quadruple that. Count me among those who want to find this guy
@wanderingdoc5075
@wanderingdoc5075 Ай бұрын
Ace bachelor cool on record he said several times he pays $200 a month to support his 11 year old daughter in the Philippines. What do you think?
@datther
@datther Ай бұрын
@@wanderingdoc5075 the pill would’ve been cheaper
@RoganJames-s2q
@RoganJames-s2q Ай бұрын
Wow a couple of tuff old grandpa's think they are white knights
@wanderingdoc5075
@wanderingdoc5075 Ай бұрын
@@MisterDigDug so you think $55 - 65 a month would be appropriate? That's 3-4x of 2000 pesos
@Avarua59
@Avarua59 Ай бұрын
​@@wanderingdoc50754 times 2,000 Pesos is closer to US$137.
@jimbo8888
@jimbo8888 Ай бұрын
Wow that is so sad. At 52 you would think he is mature enough to take some responsibility. Poor girl, I hope he helps out more than what he is doing now and help raise this baby. Wishing her the best.
@Dakotaden4
@Dakotaden4 Ай бұрын
Age, unfortunately, does not equate to maturity. Many people never really mature morally...they just get older. We know right from wrong at a very young age. It looks like this 52 year old man is just one of the many that simply got older :(
@ST-TV
@ST-TV Ай бұрын
How do we know that he is the father?
@AidaJof
@AidaJof Ай бұрын
Age does not account for the lack of moral fibre, he will be a scum back no matter how old he gets
@Eric-qm5xw
@Eric-qm5xw Ай бұрын
@@ST-TV🤡
@louisschmidt2129
@louisschmidt2129 Ай бұрын
It's ashamed that 52 year old man would take advantage of 21 women and not use protection so she didn't get pregnant he should of known better
@jessedylan6162
@jessedylan6162 Ай бұрын
Not only did the Canadian scumbag , "boyfriend" , FAIL to use protection, but the young lady is also responsible for her actions too. She should have been more astute in her behavior . Yes, the Philippine and Canadian Government should be notified of this guy living in Cebu and a court of law mandate that he pays up for her and baby's financial support.
@hammertyme8392
@hammertyme8392 Ай бұрын
A dick has no conscious
@ST-TV
@ST-TV Ай бұрын
How do you know he didn't? Were you there?
@jessedylan6162
@jessedylan6162 Ай бұрын
@@ST-TV If he did use a condom, more than likely, she wouldn't get pregnant. Anyway, whether he did or not, he left her like an irresponsible coward and coughed up a few dollars for her support, so far. Maybe you'd like to be the baby's step dad and take over the financial and emotional responsibilities since you seem so concerned.
@ST-TV
@ST-TV Ай бұрын
@@jessedylan6162 And you beleave her because?
@Doorkicker505
@Doorkicker505 Ай бұрын
I hope she's going to be okay. She's a very beautiful young lady
@danielvillareal2569
@danielvillareal2569 Ай бұрын
Good stuff Paul! Thanks for keeping it real, a little too real in this case… poverty and lack of education is a thing. This doesn’t give her a 100 percent pass but this 52 year old Canadian dam sure knew better! Hope would be a fitting name and I sincerely wish this young girl and the child the best.
@davidpattison5860
@davidpattison5860 Ай бұрын
Hi guys Paula would be a good name for the baby , I’d love the authorities to be able to intervene in these cases , carry out paternity tests and enforce child support , regards to Nicole and good luck in her future Davy 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿🇹🇭
@justkellyTheModernFilipinaVlog
@justkellyTheModernFilipinaVlog Ай бұрын
Filipinas should really put a guard up for guys sometimes. Not because he is a foreigner we girls should give our all. Have a bounderies onset of dating to prevent us being in a bad situation😢 I feel sorry for how he treated her. Yet its also her own responsibility not to get pregnant 😢 I suggest to go to DSWD for woman and child care, They will help her from pregnancy til after she give birth and she could also file a claim to sort her problem with this western man. She could ask for a better child support if its proven that it is his child. Godbless you all 🙏
@ivanalvarez2440
@ivanalvarez2440 Ай бұрын
Wow, that’s really low! This man took advantage over her beauty and impairment. Anyway I have two names for her baby girl: Jasmine or Pearl! ❤🙏🏻🌺
@jon15711
@jon15711 Ай бұрын
Hi Paul. If you were to guess how much it would cost to support Nicole and her baby for the first 2 years of her little ones life? I know this isn't the reason you make these videos but thought I'd ask to see if there was a way to help her out because she has some real challenges ahead.
@theeblindmice4826
@theeblindmice4826 Ай бұрын
I am a father to a Filipino child i support monthly in cebu city. I provide 30 to 40k, 750 to 1000 canadian dollars per month which is way more than they need but I do this so she doesn't have to work and can be with the child all the time. In dumaguete and with her living at home 15 to 20k 300 to 400 usd monthly would be a comfortable number based on my experiences.
@ryleebirkle3855
@ryleebirkle3855 21 күн бұрын
I commend you and Baby Mae for helping this young lady..... that's a very good deed...... So the foreigner is from Canada huh?........ Are you sure his name is not Scotty Boy............lol........
@manuelroque5840
@manuelroque5840 Ай бұрын
I’d say name Nicole’ baby Hannah, which means grace in the bible. Nicole, in her predicament, still radiates grace. God has something special for her and her baby Hannah. In Nicole’s silence, Hannah will learn life.😊👍🙏
@LarryMcDougall
@LarryMcDougall Ай бұрын
Yes, how common is this. This same thing happened to my now wife and adopted daughter; she got pregnant to a USAF guy based at Clark air force base. My wife was 7 months Pregnant with his child and he even named the baby. His 20-year service was up so he simply ran away never to be heard of again. Guese he was trying to protect his pension, what an asshole, what kind of a person does something like that. At the time my wife was dirt poor and so was her family. As luck had it, I met her and everything turned out well, no thanks to the American Air force guy who thought about no one but himself.
@jaygladysadventures7312
@jaygladysadventures7312 Ай бұрын
We don't know the whole story but it doesn't look very good on the guys side. Very irresponsible, and disrespectful. Nichole seems like a very nice person and deserves the best in life for her and her baby girl. Paul, you and Mae are such wonderful people in trying to better people's lives around you. Perhaps "Jennifer" for the name of Nichole's baby girl. Take care my friends and God bless.
@RalphDent
@RalphDent Ай бұрын
Hi Paul it would be so nice to have the chance to day one meet Nicole it was a nice interview Paul and is a very pretty woman!! that i might like to meet and give her a nice life here in the U.S:)
@wilsonespinosa1150
@wilsonespinosa1150 Ай бұрын
Paul to me Melissa is a very beautiful name 😊 God bless that beautiful young lady and her baby girl my best wishes for both of them 🙏🏾
@didierdenice7456
@didierdenice7456 Ай бұрын
32 years ago I named my own daughter Melissa. In Greek language it means "sweet like honey". Last week she got married. I don't know if names really have any influence on people... but in fact my daughter has always been kind and sweet like honey ! 👍
@knewwhon
@knewwhon Ай бұрын
Oooo! Isabella Regina! Rosa Maria! Angelica Marie! Sorry, that happened! We don't know his financial situation though. Condoms burst or come off during the festivities sometimes and birth control isn't always reliable. Best to find out now what kind of person he is in an emergency, than later. Congrats on the new gift! May he continue to honor his monthly. Nicole is bright and beautiful! She will be okay! Will you guys be running a fund for her and the baby? Blessings! :)
@fenderbend3r
@fenderbend3r Ай бұрын
Get the full name of the man and report him to Canada immigration. They will surely do something for the baby at least.
@ST-TV
@ST-TV Ай бұрын
Why would they? It's not their problem.
@AidaJof
@AidaJof Ай бұрын
I doubt Canada Immigration would do something, she is not in Canada. If anything should be reported to Foreign Affairs, yet I still doubt they could do anything
@fenderbend3r
@fenderbend3r Ай бұрын
@@ST-TV that is really sad
@bobbyjames4300
@bobbyjames4300 Ай бұрын
Need a paternity test for proof.
@journeytrials
@journeytrials Ай бұрын
@@ST-TVpeople like that need to black listed and banned from the Philippines
@michaely1164
@michaely1164 Ай бұрын
Thanks Paul. Can you pass this along to Nicole?
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 Ай бұрын
@michaely1164 absolutely, thank you very much
@ricktanyajulie
@ricktanyajulie Ай бұрын
Angel is my Name choice. Im so sorry for Nicole, a beautiful young lady taken advantage of. I know there are better men out there that respect women.. God Bless
@jameswelch1054
@jameswelch1054 Ай бұрын
How was she taken advantage of?
@ricktanyajulie
@ricktanyajulie Ай бұрын
@jameswelch1054 Taken advantage from a man that knew what could happen and ran away paying only $40 month. Sad
@noelsingletary
@noelsingletary Ай бұрын
I also have a profound hearing loss. I have beeen that way 61 years. Cell phones made it easy for me to communicate through texting. I am coming back to the Philippines in January and will stay until mid February. I love the people and the country. Best wishes to Nicole and the baby. The baby should be named Sienna.
@jameswelch1054
@jameswelch1054 Ай бұрын
I am so disappointed in Paul, and this vicious "Jerry Springer" type video. Paul has made mistakes in the past, but he did seem to at least try to get both sides of the story. Paul hopefully next time you will think before you try to destroy someones life? Reading the comments it seems like Paul has turned many people against that guy, and many seem out to get him. Paul you should be ashamed of yourself. I remember during the "John" saga, Paul posted one side of the story at least in the beginning. People heard John's side of the story, and saw him as the victim, and his Pinay GF as a monster. That was until after so many months of shaming caused by Paul, the Pinay finally agreed to come forward and give her side of the story. After we finally got her side of the story, and more facts came in, .. people saw that John was more to blame. Paul too bad your need for gossip & viewers, caused so much trauma and unfair shame to a person. Paul I would of thought that you learned from that mistake, and would never post that kind of story again. And at least never do that with only one side of the story. Paul, you recently made a video on how you got scammed on a real estate deal. You admitted that you were foolish to let yourself get charmed by the contractor who scammed you. Is it possible that the girl in the video just scammed you also? I will explain ... I have many very good Pinay friends who are very protective of me. Whenever I talk about going to the Philippines they always aggressively warn me to be careful. They tell me many Pinays will try to bed me hoping to get pregnant & hook a rich Western man. Interestingly out of all the scams to watch out for, the Filipina women see that one as the most common. I have been told the same thing by many expats, watch out many will seduce you, and refuse the use of condoms. They think that will guarantee them western dollars. Just like I repeated told you, and the people commenting at the time; Wait until you hear the other side of the story. I have found out through experience that people who tend to speak out publicly on their relationship problems, are often the most manipulating, or bitter. And the story most often changes when the silent party gives their side of the story. You have most people feeling sorry for the girl, and angry at the man. Isn't that similar to the way the John story started? You presented the girl as being a victim? Yet she willingly had unprotected sex with a man who was in a casual type relationship with her. At best that makes her 50% responsible, not the victim she is portrayed to be. A hearing problem evokes sympathy, but has nothing to do with the situation. I think that has confused some into thinking she has an intellectual handicap? How did he take advantage of her handicap, lol? few things to note. 1- A person in the comments said in your first video with her, she said she only wants to date Western men. I have not verified that, but if it is true it does tell us something, She may not be the innocent Pinay, that a white man corrupted? 2- When you asked her she said she is happy she is pregnant. Does that not indicate that she may of wanted to get pregnant? 3- She said she thought the solution was to get married? Maybe he did not want to get married? My experience with Pinays is once they expect marriage, and if you don't want it, the relationship disintegrates, and it is time to get out. To say he just abandoned her because she was pregnant is unfair. Was the only option she gave him at that stage was for the expectation of him to marry her? How did she respond to him and the situation? What expectations did she put on him? What expectations or situations did her family put on him? I would really like to hear his side of the story? Break ups are difficult, it is possible that her reaction/expectations were at least partly responsible for the break up. She said it was a casual only dating relationship. If she was expecting him to marry her because she was pregnant, it is possible that was what he left her for? The other thing is that she has not had the baby yet. That situation is very stressful, especial between 2 different cultures. He has sent her the 40 dollars each month. Maybe he needed to get away for awhile, to figure out how to deal with this traumatic situation? People are commenting on how he abandoned his baby? Newsflash! The baby has not been born yet. We don't know what he will do when the baby is born? Maybe then he will want to be part of the babies life? Maybe he had to create some distance, ... for example if she emotionally was in a place with him that she and the baby are a package deal. Kind of like how John often confused his relationship with his girl, with his love of his baby. He had a lot of trouble separating the 2. Paul have you not learned anything from your recent real estate fiasco? Or the way you publicly dragged John & his gf into such a humiliating situation? Paul have you not learned to stop with your assuming, and to verify your information yet. It was one thing if you do it to yourself, like in your hiring of a builder, but at least stop dragging other people down with your unproven assumptions. Paul when you asked the girl if he would acknowledge that it was his baby she answered she did not ask him, and does not know the answer. Your response was "I am going to go out on a limb and say no". In the comments a person asked you a question, and you responded that you never met him. So what gives you the right to assume his response? Sadly you are so willing to smear the character of a person who you never meant based on a wild assumption. Actually many wild assumptions. The guy is 52 years old, not on a pension, and probably no income. We don't know his budget? For all we know he could be surviving on $400/$500 Canadian dollars a month, which is valued around 60 cents per USA dollar. Maybe $40 per month is the best he can do now, for that unplanned pregnancy? I imagine he at 52 years old may be living on the poor? We don't know, you should not assume. Maybe he does not trust her family, and will try to buy the baby milk, etc ... like you did for John's wife? We really don't know what he is thinking, reacting to, or what his plans are? Maybe even he does not know, or has not figured it out yet either? Paul, you kept praising the girl, and telling how cute she is. Maybe you were blinded by her looks? You also said you will filter comments, so as not to offend her? Too bad for the guy there was nobody to filter your offensive unverified judgemental comments on this video ... "MR, AMERICA" repeated 100 times! Paul someone should do a video on you and call it "men behaving badly". It could be all about the damage you do shaming people through your gossip, assuming, and unverified information. You made a video blaming a man for abandoning his baby. Yet his baby is not born yet and you don't know what he will do? There are many angles to this story, but you only chose to smear, and assume. I am sorry for Mae, about the fact that you guys got scammed, but perhaps in your case you got what you give? Because of your petty gossip, we can see in the comments that some people want to hunt that man down.
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 Ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing your thoughts! I appreciate your perspective.
@jameswelch1054
@jameswelch1054 Ай бұрын
@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 Paul, I really think you need to rethink all of this, and correct it on your next video. I am not sure what happened? But maybe you are reacting to that contractor?
@jameswelch1054
@jameswelch1054 Ай бұрын
@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 The other thing is she was not working and only in a casual dating relationship, it was totally irresponsible of her, as well as him to get pregnant. Why are you glorifying her? And why are people wanting to send her donations? That will only encourage and reward irresponsible behavior. More Pinays will get pregnant, expecting rewards.
@jameswelch1054
@jameswelch1054 Ай бұрын
Both people involved were irresponsible, not using birth control, resulting in her getting pregnant. She is 21 years old, an adult, not a child. Was it even an accident for her? She said she is happy she is pregnant, and looked giddy when she talked about her baby. Why so much ragging on the guy, and glorifying the girl? The girl had no job, no income, and was living off of her father. Then she has unprotected sex and gets pregnant. Now her father will have to support his pregnant unwed daughter. You literally praised and glorified that irresponsible girl, and made the guy out to be a deadbeat. Why would you glorify that girl? If he is a deadbeat? What is she? Her Dad will have to continue to support her, and her baby, and where was her empathy for him? She basically seemed thrilled that she was pregnant, and showed no concern about other people having to support her child? It seems like the guy may be living on a very limited budget. The money he is sending her monthly, may not seem like much to a man on a pension from the USA, but maybe it is a lot to for a man who is living on the poor without a pension? It may not be much, but at least he is contributing something. She is contributing absolutely nothing to support her child "ZIPPO". Between Him, her, and her parents, she is the person who has taken absolutely no responsibility for her pregnancy. Why would you glorify her, make her out to be an Angel, while you make him out to be a deadbeat? She can giggle all she wants, and play the victim, but in my mind she is the biggest deadbeat, and most irresponsible person in this situation. What was her purpose of this video? Was it too pressure him to come back to her, and marry her? Why are so many people acting like she is totally innocent in this matter? Is people sending her donations really a good idea? Will that make her more responsible next time? Or will it just encourage her, and other Pinays who observe the situation, that it is okay to be reckless and get pregnant, because dumb foreigners will reward you with donations? Maybe other Pinays will see that, and look for their payday also. I am not trying to praise the guy. Both people made a mistake, neither should be glorified for that. The girl is not a hero, or innocent victim. Neither is the guy. The only innocent victim here, is the baby. Sorry, the girl may be "good looking" but that does not give her a pass on this ... Another point on this I have heard many Expats, Pinays, and even the Filipina Pea (KZbinr) talk about, is that it is very common for many Pinays to keep, or maintain a back up BF, out of insecurity. We even see that point a few times in the comments for this video. Because of that often men have doubts/questions when their Pinay gets pregnant, as to if it his, or her back ups? I am not accusing her, but he may have some doubts, or uncertainty? We don't know? Maybe he will ask for a DNA test? Maybe he will get involved when the baby comes? The baby has not been born yet, he probably is trying to adapt, and figure all this out right now? He may not have the financial resources available, and is trying to figure out what he can do? He may take responsibility for his baby, but at the same time he may be struggling on how to deal with her, the drama, and her desire to marry him? If she won't let go of him romantically, that will make the situation extremely challenging and difficult? Is she mature enough to give him the space he may need to be involved with his child, without her trying to tie herself into that as part of the package? If she can't let go of him romantically, that will conflict with his ability to be active in his childs life.
@mabuhayASMR
@mabuhayASMR Ай бұрын
​@@jameswelch1054 I completely agree. I have no problem with Paul sharing her story. However, it should be handled responsibly and made clear that is 'her position'. Dragging a man's name through the mud and whipping up hatred in the comments section is not right - especially without him having the opportunity to respond. It could even be considered defamatory. We don't know anything about him - his life, health, financial situation or what took place between them. For all we know, he may have a legitimate reason to question or even deny paternity. There are always two sides to every story - I've seen plenty of paternity disputes and I can tell you they are never simple
@paulbuckle8459
@paulbuckle8459 3 күн бұрын
Bless her , wishing her well . 😊
@annbreakable4228
@annbreakable4228 Ай бұрын
This guy need to be deported, he spreading his sp&rm in the Philippines like crazy. We don't want this will happen again with another innocent Filipina. I hope the baby is healthy. KUDOS to you PAUL AND MAE. MERRY CHRISTMAS🎄
@johnschmitt5478
@johnschmitt5478 Ай бұрын
That is so wrong. I will pray for her and her family. I live in the us I have been thinking of visiting the Philippines. If you need any help please let me know. And a good name could be Amy
@MrBatteryChanger1
@MrBatteryChanger1 Ай бұрын
Love this channel, its the new Jerry Springer show revived. At 16 million single mums in the Philippines, she has joined an elite club of women.
@jameswelch1054
@jameswelch1054 Ай бұрын
And Paul is raking in the money, at other peoples expense.
@MrBatteryChanger1
@MrBatteryChanger1 Ай бұрын
@jameswelch1054 well that's how it works. Jerry always played the Victor but his show was sleazy but profitable.
@jameswelch1054
@jameswelch1054 Ай бұрын
@@MrBatteryChanger1 Also Paul lost a lot of money from that contractor. He can make the money back, by throwing an innocent person under the bus, ... great for ratings.
@jameswelch1054
@jameswelch1054 Ай бұрын
@@MrBatteryChanger1 Funny thought. The Springer show always ended with DNA tests with surprising results. Imagine they do a DNA test and find out that the Canadian is not the father, instead it is Paul. Did you see the way Paul was fawning all over that girl?
@jameswelch1054
@jameswelch1054 Ай бұрын
@@MrBatteryChanger1 I will give Paul credit. I don't think Springer ever came up with the idea of having a "name the baby contest" in the middle of a paternity dispute.
@grandadan
@grandadan Ай бұрын
Maybe he's married
@ST-TV
@ST-TV Ай бұрын
Or not the father.
@grandadan
@grandadan Ай бұрын
@ST-TV Most don't know whom the real father is, but there's always a neighbour that knows all the secrets 😅😅
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