Overcome the Martyr Mindset and Soar to Excellence | Dr. Toni Haley | TEDxAndrews

Often, successful women feel the need to appear perfect, often sacrificing themselves to do so. Dr. Toni's talk helps women (and men) understand that the Martyr Mindset can be detrimental to our relationships and our success. Dr. Toni is a nationally recognized, triple board certified physician and best-selling author, speaker, and certified executive coach for high performing women. She is also the founder and CEO of Williams Wellness Group. Dr. Haley is sought after by clients for her 25 years experience in finance, healthcare and wellness. Her proven strategies have helped hundreds of women break through personal and professional barriers, such as Perfectionism, Martyr Complex, and Imposter Syndrome.
Dr. Haley is a proud alumna of Morgan State University, Ross University School of Medicine and Southern Illinois University. She is also a passionate community volunteer for several organizations, including Girls On The Run International. Dr. Haley has committed her life’s work to empowering others to achieve greater prosperity and wellness. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

[@brokenheart1348]

I did everything right & what excepted of me by everyone. Result by age of 35 I was in wheelchair with ME/ fibromyalgia. Took me 50 years to finally realise I should have chosen me and not pleasing everyone else . I had martyrdom syndrome

[@drbrookederm4560]

Fantastic! Congratulations Dr Toni! I will be listening to this again.

[@dr.anikathrower8979]

Dr. Toni Harley walks the walk and has been long standing. I am Filled with gratitude to know this ambitious individual and learn her blueprint to personal fulfillment. I LOVE Ted Talks.....as for me and my students....We shall enjoy MY new favorite!

[@DrToniMD]

Thank you, Dr. Anika Thrower! Please share with them because if they have that knowledge sooner, they can be free to build a legacy that matters!

[@HarmonySoldier-mg7sw]

I’ve just become aware of this toxic martyrdom syndrome this weekend. You talk my language Awesome. I need you on speed dial girl. 🤕☠️😳🤔

[@nicnacsocials]

Dr. Toni embodies the woman that I want to become 💙

[@bambie1386]

Brillantly delivered informative speech. Most enjoyable

[@hemar7543]

1 Have a vision for your future not your past 2 Give yourself permission. Don't ask for permission from someone else 3 Choose you

[@phumzilembambo8078]

Excellent speech, given from real life experiences 👏👏👏

[@hayleevazquez170]

Incredible talk from one incredible woman.

[@loganbyrd8744]

Thank you

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I liked the talk.

[@francesbernard2445]

Maintaining a positive mindset during hard times too for sure is important. A true Martyr of Christ, unlike people like Doc Holliday during history during his final Okay Corall showdown - were never relying on a masochistic passive agressive behavior mindset while putting themselves in harms way on purpose. Commiting suicide by participating in shoot outs often as you can is called being masochistic too. Some saints have had active Tuberculosis too without not being masochistic and passive agressive. Saints like Theresa of Avila who didn't wait for some man to 'save' her by carrying her to an assylum for people with Tuberculosis. Instead she chose to be using her pen often.

[@222Draya]

Wow, needed this.

[@onlineeducationnepal7842]

Love it 😍

[@Aurabay]

My life right now :/ going for bankruptcy

[@joshuah.flanaganwms391]

I love this channel! Great speech! I actually just started my own channel to try and help people achieve their goals. I would love some feedback in the comments of my last few videos. Thanks all!

[@CD_RN_Independent_Voter]

Delivered a baby at 16?! Wow