If you come from a Middle class family in Sri Lanka and moved to Australia in your 30s its really hard to make Australian friends. Culture is some what shocking and to make things worst if you live in the same neighbourhoods its harder to intergrate. Mental health issues due to lack of friends are real. Then you realise money cannot buy happiness. Also the food you eat. If you eat processing food instead of freshly cooked and from scratch foods you will get sick faster.
@TruthfulPromiseАй бұрын
Thanks for sharing your real idea
@Balls26543Ай бұрын
Most people south Asians are having Vitamin D deficiency due to lack of sun light, and this leads to mental issues as well. Also, in food, most micronutrients are also missing.
@YakagekathaАй бұрын
Thanks for your thoughts, but this is really confusing me .... to make it short I'll just address two points as below: Mental health challenges due to a lack of friendships are not a certainty. Many people find their social circles expand through work, education, or even hobbies. Additionally, Australia offers excellent mental health support systems that encourage inclusivity and community participation. When it comes to food, the availability of diverse cuisines in Australia, including fresh and healthy options, makes it easy to maintain a balanced die
@susilgunaratne4267Ай бұрын
@@Balls26543 A Joke or a Fantastic observation? Details of the research? SW Asia has enough sunshine throughout the year.
@improveme7043Ай бұрын
@Yakagekatha Why need seek help if you are healthy? Please study longevity and how strong relationships are the cornerstones for long-term health and well-being. In relation to food eating, Sri Lankan food is relatively expensive and time-consuming to make from scratch. This for all Sri Lankans live outside Dandenong. Don't compare Melbourne life to a person living in Sydney without many Sri Lankans.
@uzmanoo1Ай бұрын
What you say is correct, iam a sri lankan muslim. I feel better when around with non muslims because our people do all the (pajatha weda) when around with them, but when with the tamils and specially sinhalese I feel good. This applies to abroad people also, When with other people they will not criticize us because of cultural mistakes religious mistakes etc. they will accept me as Iam
This is my first time watching your KZbin channel, and it was purely by accident-but your points about Sri Lankans living outside Sri Lanka are spot on. I've been living in the US for over 25 years, and the number of Sri Lankan families I socialize with is fewer than five mainly because of the points addressed in your channel. Sadly, many Sri Lankans here live exactly as they did back in Sri Lanka, trying to impose the same culture, beliefs, and behaviors on their children who were born and raised in these countries. The result? These kids often end up confused, like zombies, struggling with the contradictions between their parents' behavior at home versus their behavior outside. Additionally, these children feel alienated at school and find it difficult to form friendships outside of the Sri Lankan community. In my view, these kids are the true victims of such parenting styles. Many Sri Lankan families seem to live in their own bubbles, crafting fake lives that, when confronted with reality, sometimes lead to catastrophic outcomes.
@YakagekathaАй бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experience It’s so important to address these challenges faced by Sri Lankan families abroad Your insights highlight the need for open conversations and support for the younger generation who struggle with these cultural contrasts Keep sharing your perspective as it helps raise awareness Keep in touch and take care ❤️❤️❤️
Ethnicity VS Cultural & Integration VS Diversity are crucial points in this problem, as you correctly point out. If someone comes to a foreign country for the sole reason of money/ wealth & luxuries alone, it's a sure way to lose mental halth. Certainly it requires a certain talent/ intelligence to adapt/adjust to a foreign culture, introvert characteristics with no social understanding & language barrier make it very difficult. Specifically when high end/ above normal religious views clash with the human centered freedom prominent cultures severe mental isolation/ depression is the immediate result, continued suffering of it means a "visa" for uneasy thoughts, physical ailments....
@YakagekathaАй бұрын
Thank you for sharing your valuable insights on this vital topic ❤️❤️❤️ keep in touch
@VidanageKarunaratneАй бұрын
ධර්මයේ ඉන්න කෙනා ධර්මයෙන් රකියි!
@TrndVanguardАй бұрын
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@eshikaudayanawanigasekaraАй бұрын
ඇත්ත අයියේ.😮
@YakagekathaАй бұрын
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@chanukajayamal8841Ай бұрын
Tasmania visa gana thibba video eke link eka dnnako.
@au6181Ай бұрын
Totally correct Yaka 😅😂👌👌👌👌
@YakagekathaАй бұрын
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@KeeptheblueАй бұрын
supiri kathawa
@YakagekathaАй бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️Thank you
@priyanthialwis8811Ай бұрын
Actually the the fact you discuss is true. Sri Lankan people is appreciate unnecessary cultural values. They reluctant to accept thriving culture 😊
@YakagekathaАй бұрын
Thank you for sharing your valuable thoughts ❤️❤️❤️
Pitarataka inna eka mara stress, boring ape rate sundara jeewithayak gatha karapu ayata. Lakawe katu kala epa wechcha ayatanam jolly
@sudeshdevindavidanagama8570Ай бұрын
True🫡
@menakaggАй бұрын
ලංකාවේ school අනුවත් පිටරට වල් වල communities තියෙනවා නේද?
@YakagekathaАй бұрын
Schools, Universities, towns, professions, ඔක්කොම
@ThesuccessEdge1Ай бұрын
😊😊 If we decide to settle abroad with our families, we must be ready to adapt to the culture and lifestyle of that country and embrace a new chapter in life. We should enjoy the experience. Otherwise, we can stay in Sri Lanka and continue living with our cultural values and inherited freedom. 😊😊
Spot on! Most of the new comers specially from certain countries we see here in Canada do this. Instead of assimilating they have their own secluded groups.
@YakagekathaАй бұрын
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@greatkrishanableАй бұрын
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@kavindaprasath2179Ай бұрын
මට තාම 20 යි .මාර දැනුමක් ඔයාගෙන් ගන්නේ ❤
@YakagekathaАй бұрын
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@janaka556Ай бұрын
well said 🥰
@YakagekathaАй бұрын
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@asankakumara1776Ай бұрын
Henagahana atta😢
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@sandkur5036Ай бұрын
%correct helped many sri lankan didn't say thanks . Financial support, save their children, presents, more support more pain so free time go out and feed birds and look at animals they never make me sad 😔
@YakagekathaАй бұрын
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@ranjansenanayake9392Ай бұрын
Multiculturalism is becoming disastrous in most of the western countries, specially in UK
@YakagekathaАй бұрын
Absolutely 💯💔
@PTECSWАй бұрын
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@sasirujayasekara3 күн бұрын
E wunata mita maasa kipayakata udadi (Meka kiyawanawanam awasana wenakanma kiyawanna Naththan weradi watahimak ei) Austrailyawe church ekak athule father kenekta phi anumak kara neda suddek. Naraka Gathi guna thiyena minissu mona rateth narakai ithin. A thawa deyak Tutuion nemei prashne. Iskole hariyata uganwanne nathi eka. Issara kale idanma wage Akimidis, Aristotal wage hoda guruwaru gawata lamai giya neda Dewal Igena ganna. Mokada Owun hoda Daksha guruwaru Namuth Iskole Teachersla gaththama hamooma uganwanna daksha naha. Eka nisa lamainta Adaksha guruwaru yatathe igena ganna wenwa. Tutuion Saha Private School, Campus thiyena eke wasiya thamai Lamainta Hodama Ayagen igena ganna puluwan wima. Mokada Kawawath Balen tution clz ekakata ganna ba. Apita e guruwaraya Uganwana widiha hodai nam witharai api yanne. Naththan Api e clz eken maru wela Hoda guruwarayk yatathe igena gannawa.Anika Onima business ekak karala pohosath wenna hakiyawa Dakshakama thiyenna oni. Uganwannath ehemai ithin. Tution ekenuth karanne lamainta iganweemak wagema eth Ekkama Salli Hamba kirimak. Man oyata banna ehema nemei. Mama mage adahasa kiwwe. Mokada Guruwaraya adakshanam Lamai radenne na. Wisheshayenma tharuna paramparawe( Habai Mama kiyanne na Hama tution guruwarayama hodai kiyala. Namuth Aththatama Daksha guruwaru innawa. Mage O/L maths Tution Guruwaraya naththan ada mata O/L walata bohowita A ekak na. Eya mata amathara welawak aragenath igannuwa. E wagema Jyamithiya Padam Anith Ayata kalin karala thibbe man eddi. Habi Mata ewa wadiya therenne na kiwwama Ayeth Mula idan Anith Ayatath ekkama Padam tika igannuwa. Salli Dila clz ekata giyata Gaththa mudalata wada Loku Sadaranayak Kara. E Guruwarayawa mata kawadawath amathaka wenne na.)Anika Thawa deyak Man kagewath---- Tution sir kenekge wahalekwath e gollo wenuwen maraganna kenekwath nemei---. Ehema ewunuth athi. mamanam ehema kenek nemei.O/L kal pawa mage yaluwo smahara Subjects alla gaththe tution gihin. Mokada iskole guruwarunta wada e gollo hodata uganwanawa. Iskola walath hoda aya innwa.Eth Godak naha.E wagema mama kiwwani Kalinma hama Tution guruwarayama hoda na kiyala. E aya karana samahara gon weda nisa Lamai Depress wenawa. Eka Tution wala thiyena awasi dayaka paththak. Hoda guruwarayek hoyagena hodata subject ekaigena gena goda yana eka thamai watinne.
@GeethWijesekara-xz1lqАй бұрын
Noone can continue when they are fake. That's the only fact. Be real 😊
@saromaliga5937Ай бұрын
So true❤
@YakagekathaАй бұрын
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@GeorgiePug-AUSTRALIAАй бұрын
හිනා යනවා අයියෝ 😂
@piyanthadrshapriys7017Ай бұрын
hena ugaththu kiyala mona ratata giyath kalu un kaluma thamai
@dumindafernando7081Ай бұрын
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@SampaEdiriАй бұрын
Dan internet hinda kohe giyath a yana ratata huru wen na. News drama, ona Welawaka lankawe un ekka katha karana hinda inne lannkawe wagema thama
@YakagekathaАй бұрын
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@DumindaJayasooriya-cu5zoАй бұрын
aiye ganu lamainta godak sexuall haresmnts wenaw melbrn wala specially Dandinong wla. poddak video ekak karanna ko e wage cse ekakadi ganu lamayek ta tyana protection eka wenuwen karanna puluwan dewal gena. godak page walata admin lata kiwa puluwan nm. oyawat me gena video ekak karanna oyata oyage daruwanta pin aiyye 🙏🙏🙏
@raneeranatunga5692Ай бұрын
Mama melbourn wala 20 awraddak. Namuth ganu lamaita karadarayak naha . Lankawe tharam. Mona boruwakda !
@@Yakagekatha hari aiye mm court cse ekak file karana gaman inne Embassy eka contact wela mage kathaw tamai example eka lagadima news walata yai aiya thanks 4 ur attention
@piyanthadrshapriys7017Ай бұрын
tuition karayo gana video 1k karanna
@YakagekathaАй бұрын
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@hasithaliyanage6372Ай бұрын
Don't you think this contradicts with what you said on Nalin de Silva on Western knowledge and Eastern knowledge. I am someone who doesn't share Nalin de Silava's views. I too believe multiculturalism is a toffee. Another advantage of multiculturalism is how efficient they work in capitalist system. Getting into a new culture is a difficult thing to do. Multiculturalism lets you keep all your shit within yourself and work efficiently to get more out of you.
@YakagekathaАй бұрын
Thankyou for sharing your valuable thoughts 👍👍👍
@05088Ай бұрын
අයියේ ඔයාගෙ කටේ මසුරං දානව මේ කතන්දරේ ට නම්. 😂
@YakagekathaАй бұрын
Thank you brother ❤️❤️❤️
@chandanisamaraweera7827Ай бұрын
Hoda jeewatha gathakarana vadagath aya Vagema , mahansiyen hambakarana atha mita saru aya mehe ona tharam innava. Mokak ho prashnayak nisa pita rataval hoya gena yanava. Meheta vena prathirupa pennanava. Oka api dannava. Eva koi ratatath podui.
@@dhanushkakarunarathna3765why are you so insulting of another religion? You should be ashamed. Can see what kind of background you come from. Real low class. Learn to respect other religions.