SHE'S just not that in to you!

[@annmunyi901]

Mrs. Gatabaki never dresses down. She's always shinning like the diamond she is.

[@carolinenjoroge1195]

😍😍

[@sherahmumbitipsvlogs660]

Ivy is here giving complements to everyone, ebu lets tell her how pretty her top is.

[@UnstoppablyFulfilled]

How about her face and that hair being a match made in beauty heaven

[@lisakigenda1859]

Yeeesss Ivy looks so gorgeouuussss

[@annalisekathomi2336]

Literally the reason I clicked on the video,❤😍

[@Habibtay]

Even her hair as usual has never disappointed

[@christinewasike]

So freaking pretty!! 🥰

[@ithankgod5733]

Ivy complimenting Lornzies creativity and empathizing with Julez by saying the best is coming….I love this! Women lifting women up!

[@angel.lately]

Inti-macy flashbacks will have you staring at nothing for ten minutes straight 😅 but I’m a virgin pls, y’all stay safe!

[@gathonimwangi5949]

If you insist 😂😂

[@dianaodero4667]

😂😂😂

[@MtotowaNjuru]

I love th vulnerability of Ivy,I feel like she doesn’t really open up often Jules hair is goals The attire that Lornzie is 👌🏾

[@NorahMut]

I just love how excited Ivy is😂😂

[@miannegoro8006]

Me too

[@iamkennypk]

@@miannegoro8006 true kzbin.info/www/bejne/poSWdJSeYruXhtE

[@eunicekombe9235]

I am an avoidant!!! I can shut my emotions and ignore you like you never existed. Protects you from so much heartbreaks.

[@lizkathuri2040]

Great conversation. I am an avoidant female and have spent nearly 40 years of my life being stone cold. I am doing the work of healing my traumas at the moment and I can tell you that being an avoidant is hard. You not only hurt others but yourself. I think working towards healing, and developing a secure attachment style will help us become resilient, love freely, avoid hurting others and basically build healthier relationships with ourselves and others. Keep up the good work.

[@kevinasoilamarona9222]

I am too babe I don't even know where to start

[@koeywangui]

I'm with lornzie, the word 'WE' personally scares me but I'm slowly learning to embrace it

[@carolwarui2292]

Ivy's energy is 🥰🥰🥰

[@iamkennypk]

she's the best kzbin.info/www/bejne/poSWdJSeYruXhtE

[@mitchellmaina83]

Not saying Ivy was in a bad place but she seems to be in a better place than she was for sometime and i love that for her❤️

[@Unknown-tu7wv]

im very happy yo see IVY laugh again.

[@faithkaranja4033]

Ivy your energy is on another level.. keep it up. Love you guys.

[@misskanyared]

Is it just me enjoying the "mmmhhhms" in unison to agree with a point 😂😂

[@mercylynnkwamboka7820]

Whew! I relate to that Ick part. I once went out with a guy who I wasn't really sure I was into and I remember we took a cab while changing locations. The man reached out to hold my hand, the intertwining hands thingy they do. When I tell you that I looked towards the window the WHOLE TIME, I was just wondering when we would get to where we were going. Safe to say that was the confirmation I needed.😂😂😂

[@yvonneivyyvette9231]

The energy. It can be felt at the people at the back🥰🥰

[@joycegichana3213]

Literally on the floor when Jules said “Me I’ll sort myself,cause (that gesture)🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@annienyambura2547]

I look forward to your episodes every week....I would really love you ladies to do a video about fidelity in relationships and marriages; is it overrated? Is it a deal breaker? Do you forgive and forget? 😊

[@alisonlyezire9951]

Context is very important when looking at these "signs" in the gentlemen's episode, a fair amount of it was given and that is why it was so impactful. This just felt like a list that was neither here nor there.

[@gregorymurunga8046]

what are these ladies high on i need that syke and energy like this to get started on a monday🤣🤣🤣

[@fridahkirmi5955]

I love your friendship, its so evident....Keep rocking

[@apindeowuoth8041]

Thank you touching on attachment styles I've never thought on mine but after some research and a test found out I'm a fearful avoidant which really shed light on why i view relationships a certain way

[@bethy8332]

Lornzie you're not the only one who had an issue with WE. I still do!!!

[@Habibtay]

I dont have a "lost and found" box, what I have is a "discard that sht" box. So I always make sure that for every gift I get I can equally afford it so that when we're done I trash it and if it's something I could really use, I replace it with my money after I burn yours.

[@emmiemson7599]

I like this!

[@norahkatunga]

I love Ivy’s energy!!!! I’m here for it! Lornzie looks beautiful and Juls!!!girl your hair is goals! I really loved this episode.

[@MiriamSagini]

While everything you beautiful girls have said is true, remember, some things are influenced by how a lady was brought up, and not doing them doesn’t necessarily mean it’s a sign she’s not into you. Everyone’s journey is different, but I think you’ll know as a guy if a lady isn’t into you. The one I agree with and think is global, is the communication bit. That’s a glaring sign that she ain’t into you. 😁

[@justmeE.V.E]

I agree.... esp the comment about eating..... hmmmm.... unless we're eating together or hooking up to eat, I never ask if he's eating and I get kinda irritated if he asks. Coz I just don't gerrit

[@faithkariithi5614]

This just made my week🤎 what a great way to start a Monday ....I can literally feel the vibe and it's contagious ☺️it's definitely worth sharing 😂

[@innocentwanyama5468]

Don't know why I always gotta stop by... U guys are never boring....

[@samueln6590]

Learned so many things in one lesson. Very informative

[@pendoabulitsa1184]

this episode Lornzie was sooo active 🕺🕺🕺i love it😍😚😚

[@noelinejepchirchir5809]

What a great way to begin my morning 😌❤️, love you girls

[@stephaniesteph3068]

Being an avoidant makes me feel like I'm missing out on the beauty of romantic relationships .....like yu know yu like this person but yu keep pushing them away..... And then when they finally leave.... It makes yu feel sooooooo baaaaadddddd

[@itsme_Andi]

Story of my life. I treat what secure people would acknowledge to be healthy levels of communication as a sign of emotional neediness. As soon as we label the relationship I lose interest because I attach it with predictability. Every partner I have been with says I'm confusing. Been trying to heal but I keep falling back to my old habits to the point that I have almost given up. Funny how anxiously attached people envy us, they don't how we wish we had their vulnerability.

[@stephaniesteph3068]

@@itsme_Andi yyyeeessss... So truueee

[@dorothykanana2623]

@Stephanie steph @Andie Aki am so triggered. Broke up with a guy with avoidant attachment style aki Kama am alive ni God😂😂 The way you guys are COLD

[@itsme_Andi]

@@dorothykanana2623 sorry hon, you did the right thing. We pretend not to care but we really do. It's just that we don't believe in showing it or accepting unconditional love. Takes one to know one.

[@puritybundi8204]

heyyyy ...another avoidant here..just stopped by to meet my people😂..that part of pushing away and giving mixed signals

[@mercyndunda6471]

Wesonga was just chilling😂😂😂

[@zaynahrash]

This episode was vibey! Loved it❤️ Also, as Ivy said, Julia's hair😍😍😍😍 In love with it👌🏽

[@valentinejebet5603]

The way I chill on the KZbin every Monday waiting for these🥺🥺🥺 OBSESSED!!!! Welcome to another channel?🤣🤣😭

[@evangelnjeri1096]

Vaaall... We're here together 😂😂😂❤️

[@moshiriandrew5929]

Just like I do gal... 😂😂😂

[@moshiriandrew5929]

Where is my favorite❤ gal shikie ...Damn!! this podcast will not be so fine without her anywhay thanks guys for your consistent content

[@Dr.Emporieum]

Hey ladies.. Si happy to be here.I love your content.🙂

[@HillaryTowett]

thanks so much gorgeous ladies, i have learnt soooooo much !!!! i will be on the lookout for those signs beginning today! especially my government name😊😊😊

[@esperanzanyiraneza9126]

This is my favorite space. I learn aloot having mad fun at the same time , laughter all the way yaaani can't thank you enough . God 🙏 you ladies 😘😘😘😘

[@dinarwanjiru6882]

Julesss!!! We need a hair tutorial!! Looking fabulous

[@olivekabisa2914]

Yep! Jules' hair is everything!

[@driptv2746]

This one is awesome! But that one of bringing someone to your home doesn't apply to ladies with kids. You want to protect your kids until you are 100% certain they are there to stay....not necessarily because you're not into them.

[@wangaritecla6108]

Thank you ladies for an awesome video kama kawa. ❤️ I'm with you Julia: I'm a one-person-at-a-time thing and this is when I'm trying to teach myself to diversify and have options. It's so hard but oh well. 😁

[@Godsgirlno1]

Julz you've changed girl. So much more composed. In a good way

[@hopejune2576]

Avoidant here transitioning into the secure attachment style, I think it comes from being told that you are too much so you reduce and in contrast the anxious have been told they are not enough so they try to over compensate. For me when I'm into you I avoid pda, I never initiate communication, never call, never text and I leave no paper trail. I'm always ready to dip anytime, anywhere 365 days of the year. And if I stay around someone for too long like 2 nights I get an itch to leave, it's as though I have overstayed at a hotel. So I always make sure I have plans so that I don't morph into a person who wants to stay and chill and be vulnerable. In contrast when I'm not interested I will hold your hand in public, grind you at the club and call you pet names which is just weird and the opposite of what I should be doing cause I am not into this individual at all. I guess it's because if I don't like you there really isn't any risk of hurt and I also don't want to smother someone to a point that they leave or let them in and then the mystery is over and there's nothing more to learn or find. And the same goes with my other relationships and friendships. But as I said I'm transitioning into secure attachment, because aloofness and coldness does drive people away and I'm learning that people who like you and want you will feel loved and wanted if you show it and will reciprocate it while those who don't like, want or love you will feel smothered and suffocated and will go away anyway.

[@Wowzeeers]

Interesting

[@brendarutto]

Julia, you look soo pretty! It's definitely the pisces season glow.

[@lorrainekojay]

This episode is so lit!! I love your energies ladies!!

[@owenkariuki4438]

Get well soon Shikie! Took A LOT of notes girls lol. Loved the video

[@catherinewangui8215]

Ivy is back! You look lovely ladies. Best wishes to Shikie

[@terrybouko8961]

I thought would be the first only to find 1000 plus in less than 40 min ,is everyone misbehaving in the office 🤣

[@infoenkanasa3592]

Why are you shouting? Hahahaha

[@NyacuisCakeHouse]

Ivy you are so bomb moderating. Loved your energy. You ladies are glowing.

[@lilywhite8029]

Jules!!My gal. She is so real, full of vibes. Thanks for this video

[@emmamwanza2138]

I think my attachment style has transitioned from anxious to avoidant

[@aokookello5564]

She will never walk with you freely. Some kadistance, ama they only walk with you at night. Dude, run for your life.

[@atieno_rommel]

the INTI-MACYYYY 😂😂😂😂

[@florencemuia1511]

The Sex Lives of African Women..is the book! A book! Every book! Every woman should read this book😊

[@Bilhagitonga]

Wisdom and beauty combined

[@dorcasnjuguna8455]

State of their fedness😂😂😂Jules😂

[@Cinol-d8p]

I am an avoidant.Its tiring Jules and I would love to stop. Opportunities of a great love pass people like me by coz we are on defensive/protection mode through out. You are always protecting your heart. I think it would be nice to be vulnerable abit but avoidants appear very strong but inside we just on protection mode. Women like me won't keep checking on a man, we may not be touchy touchy or lovey dovey, we won't keep saying 'I love u' but at the same time we will be madly in love with the man. Its just nature coz i have tried being different but it was work and these love things should be natural coz u can only pretend or act for so long.So the man may think you not so into him and this could lead to a breakup coz men like the other girls who show vulnerability and are sweet and cheeky.

[@KINGANNEvlogs]

Lol this was so funny😂 Everyone was happy Love jule’s hair😭

[@cynthiamwiti5610]

I have been brutally attacked today😂😂😂

[@Blurrybianca]

INTIMESSY is thee most correctest of terms.

[@jbutinde5551]

Caught a reflection of myself just grinning 😁😁 because this Monday dose of dopamine.

[@ericmacharia7859]

The fact that y'all guys articulate AF makes this channel super saucy. Jules be my fave.

[@millicentmagadi6634]

I swear there are so many things you guys are mentioning and I can't believe it coz am like...I do that. This was an eye opener I feel like I just learnt so much about myself😂😂. Am not into all these niggas. Lit episode🔥

[@michellemayuba7348]

😂😂😂 I related with so much. Y'all spilling the secrets.

[@moreenmurunga7428]

This episode confirmed we all have the same life 😂😂😂😂.

[@jeannettedyer2033]

I am soooo Ivy in alot of things...... Girrrl. But nawapenda wote.....and your facts are on point. Get well soon shiki

[@wanjiraschannel6931]

My attachment style is fearful avoidant. It saves me most times but it sucks sometimes I have to say..

[@tracythriving]

I love your inside jokes y’all. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@joyz_style]

Ivy your energy is contagious 🙌🏿🔥

[@carenchebet8580]

Julia's haaiiiirrrr. Also Ivy's energy today is on point bruh!

[@christinenyathirakanga3464]

That new intro is IT!

[@maman_moon]

when am not really into someone : above having a financial conversation we just don't have a serious conversation, I don't talk about my personal stories, I just don't give him space in my life, I don't include him to my plans not even try to adjust ...............................................AM JUST LIKE LET'S DO THIS BUSINESS AND GO

[@sanjayworld6622]

Aki na turn 25 soon... Nawapenda san😘😘😘

[@annkariuki3753]

Government names 🤣🤣🤣

[@stella1886]

Mkaayyy consistency🙌🏾🙌🏾 love it here ladies.

[@carenmwambodze2710]

This has been such a fun episode 😍😍🤣🤣wiuuuu wiuuu...🤣🤣🤣love ittt🔥🔥

[@mskarani630]

In love with Jules spirit and character!

[@anneodida]

I've smiled all through. !! Loved ittt

[@sheerowwachira3408]

A very good topic and alot of truth there. You ladies are looking good. Always a fan of Ivy 💕 the red top💯🔥😍

[@njokigrace1131]

Ivy and Jules expressions for me 😩 always

[@khqweiymutant3808]

I'm loving the consistency! And hoping that by pointing it out i didn't jinx it

[@paulinekiboi851]

I love Ivy's top 😍

[@kekiplus1andonly]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣she really isnt🙌🙌🙌🙌hands up for government names

[@Keshi.George]

Mrs.Gatabaki anakaa vizuriii weuweh😍😍.Julia i love🤩🤩 you hair and Ivy is in good spirits🥰🥰.Love it here.

[@l.m.1603]

Julia's laugh is everything 😂😂😂

[@misslinnah3772]

Here again so nice to see you,the glow can be seen clearly,lets keep growing

[@leslie7974]

This episode was so airy and has good flow...luv it

[@moekan_3612]

When ivy is sipping some some on set ouuuuuuuuuh lord just know it's going to be lit lit. Someone give ivy another one, she will pay money mondays

[@waigumoess9089]

It’s the Ivy’s energy for me🍀😌

[@PeacefulSerenity1]

This gets me thinking, the more I hear/learn about men and women I realise we are all the same😱we all experience same feelings and emotions(Will). So, this woman and men thing is more of a biological/ sexual organ/reproduction role difference thing rather than a "being" thing 🤔 loved this episode👌🏿👌🏿 P.S to anyone reading this remember you are awesome and remember to #bekind bless you!

[@taijapheth7875]

The word you were looking for is the "aftermath" 😀😀

[@carenmwendwa9528]

I think we need a video on avoidance personality

[@16thcenturygirl]

Stanley Joe 😂😂😂 I died!!!

[@lynnchiri1503]

Jules kujia tips🤭 am so good at the avoidant thingi ..its my fighting mechanism for attachment issues

[@Grace-mr8bc]

This was such a fun video to watch! Wishing Shikie a quick recovery. I'd highly recommend 'Whoreible Decisions'. It's a podcast hosted by two black, bisexual women who talk about their sexual experiences and *everything* sex. I will say though it ain't for the faint-hearted - they do not mince their words or opinions. So if you are open-minded enough, check them out on KZbin (you have to type out their name to find them) or any other podcast platform like Apple, Spotify, etc.

[@kabugamwangi6115]

Alas! Those names that open doors 🤔 Sr. Chief Gatabaki

[@joynyokabi3053]

"if im dating you as a man".... love it!

[@biscotti7140]

😍😍 Jules.The Hair Journey 👏🏾 💯💯💯.

[@dorcasnjuguna8455]

It's giving!!💝

[@valencesilantoi2625]

It's Lornzie's outfit for me today.. 😍😍