I recently stood up for myself when an family friend who had always called me careless ,did it again and I said to her I’m forgetful not careless , and I explained what careless means and she’s never done it again 👏🏻
@airuniverse103 жыл бұрын
Brené, the way you break down such simple concepts amazes me! I can’t help to get emotional about the topics you investigate. Thank you for being real!
@carolynwise36513 жыл бұрын
This Episode was good for me to watch, because I live in shame my whole childhood and into some of my adulthood. But getting to know myself, and healing what was dead in me. I love the part when Mrs. Brown talk about Love.
@pashukeni_3 жыл бұрын
We all want to be loved, seen, and valued indeed! Brene Brown has changed my life and is changing lives all over the world. And her the Parenting Manifesto is one of the best things I have ever heard. We all need a Brene Brown in our lives = ) .
@hikeseek96243 жыл бұрын
“You share with people who earn the right to hear your story.” -Yes
@kari27043 жыл бұрын
This is the second time I’ve watched this video and it doesn’t get old. It helps me and heals me. Hope everyone is kinder to themselves.
@stevieray72033 жыл бұрын
My friend who was there no matter what died almost a year ago....i miss her so much because being seen and loved in the midst of your shame is GOLD
@evetteshuk43723 жыл бұрын
Same, I feel you:( My BFF/Soul sister (since age 5) passed 10/2016... Those friends are priceless.
@evetteshuk43723 жыл бұрын
How can you NOT LOVE this conversation?! I need to replay with pen& paper in hand! Very dense and many ahas for me! I appreciate these souls for their lessons and wisdom. Especially the piece regarding our children!! 🙏
@babykangaroo87693 жыл бұрын
I feel some parts in me is healing while watching this video, I’m truly grateful for seeing this
@mandtrealestatetanyamandtk40033 жыл бұрын
I bawled and laugh through the whole thing! I am a painter and furniture artist and somehow I have felt guilty for trying to make this my life. But I have helped so many women make their homes beautiful and it lights me up!! I needed this so much!!!
@ChicSeraphim3 жыл бұрын
The best, most amazing lesson from Brene over the years begins at 16:56 where she explains how to be vulnerable, and with whom. It's the people around us that feed our mental health. Choose wisely!!
@jennifershriver70713 жыл бұрын
I want to be on a plane, and have the person next to me say they are a shame researcher! Imagine that conversation. So powerful, so good, so healing. I can't wait!
@marystermer59832 ай бұрын
So do think you are just vulnerable with”certain” people?
@marystermer59832 ай бұрын
Do we have to produce!?
@neriahjay17043 жыл бұрын
The way that shame erodes our sense of worth, value, and connections, is why this discussion is so valuable. Before I read this research, I didn't realize why so many of my "other blaming", and various toxic behaviours associated with low self-worth, and shame, were causing so many ruined relationships in my life.
@synolve3 жыл бұрын
Brene Browns helps us to go deep but she softens the fall with Love and real things we can do to change 💗
@eftsoulpath3333 жыл бұрын
Brene, you are not only funny and Wise, you are beautiful! 💕
@madhusharma99493 жыл бұрын
Wealth of information shared with brilliance and sensitivity. People have to earn their right to share your story.
@RecoverySoulfood3 жыл бұрын
I See this EVERYDAY in the addiction/recovery community! Addiction is a disease that thrives on shame! I’d Love to sit down with both of these women & speak about this topic! Thank you Both!!!!!
@mainzashamukale93813 жыл бұрын
This has been so inspiring and healing for me. I wish I could have more of it... Thanks Opera and Brene'.
@candacejones33523 жыл бұрын
For me, Brene Brown has such a huge impact on my life and why I really listen to her talk about shame and vulnerability is because she makes herself vulnerable by sharing her personal stories and how she navigates through shame and vulnerability. She shares her own experience about arguments or disagreements she has with her husband, children and others. I say to myself when I hear her talk, Wow! If she is struggling through this stuff and gets through to the other side, then I can get to the otherside of the mountain too.
@mariajoseibizacoach69463 жыл бұрын
Both of you are amazing:) Have been following Brene for years and have read all of her books. Berne your hair looks beautiful and brings out your beauty. Oprah I grew up with you in my teens now I'm in mid age😂 your interviews only get better and better, love how the color purple/Lila looks on you got me started wearing it as well 🌟 thank you to both stars 🌟
@BLACKLOTUSBUTTERFLY73 жыл бұрын
This episode is wholeheartedly beautiful, bountiful -- full of so much wisdom. Everyone will find a piece of themselves in these stories, if open and honest.
@krisward13603 жыл бұрын
There is so much greatness here. I am a believer in what you both do and have used some of the techniques, especially "The story I'm telling myself is...." However, I would like to say that there are many great schools and great teachers who are very diligent in modeling and teaching students how to talk to themselves and others that builds the person. Some of the worst talk happens by students saying things about themselves - not teachers shaming students. My heart broke at these comments because many of us work so hard to build students up and teach them a better way and those are not recognized. Thank you for all your hard work.
@grandkhadee84733 жыл бұрын
Silence and judgement, I suffer so much for nothing, this is so profound , you create your own reality , totally empowering talk
@nickidaisyreddwoodd58373 жыл бұрын
Oprah this is the first time I feel a connection to you. Thank you Oprah for allowing that what Brene said into your mind and heart and thank you Brene for your deep insights and love message for the world.
@pennyhare9253 жыл бұрын
I just ordered the book The Gifts of imperfection i live in a small town of Mississippi, I’m trying to help myself thru listening and reading, there is no therapist locally , so thank you
@nishasareencoaching95593 жыл бұрын
Can’t tell you how much I loved this!
@dianaflegal44953 жыл бұрын
I love when the two of you get together. Thank you both for your vulnerability and transparency. I am better for you both giving me the language to find my way to inner healing. God bless you both. With great love and appreciation. ❤️
@HappeningDreams3 жыл бұрын
It is truly such a blessing to have access to such truth, such wisdom, shared with ease to help understanding and digestion. Thank you both. Thank you
@joannemates63673 жыл бұрын
Brene Browns work will change your life!! Cheers, from Country Victoria. Australia. ✌️✌️✌️
@DianaIsabel9293 жыл бұрын
Sunny days are too much expectation - brilliant
@neriahjay17043 жыл бұрын
For me, so far, one of the greatest take-aways from Brene' Brown's research has been that "I belong to Myself". That I found in "Braving the Wilderness: The Quest for True Belonging and the Courage to Stand Alone", and that concept...along with the BRAVING acronym....I feel, will set me onto a path free from toxic shame and to help me find connection and the elusive" whole-hearted living" I have been seeking since I began this journey into myself to explore the swampland of shame I had been living in. I am eternally grateful for this research and efforts to bring light into that swampland.
@jaysanjuangarcia3 жыл бұрын
The Parenting Manifesto is LOVE and BELONGING expressed in words. Amen. Thank you, Brené and Oprah. Heaven-sent.
@shangopeace65193 жыл бұрын
Wow wow Oprah i love you! I love how you use your channel to bring peace, love and teach us humans to be better everyday. So touching
@bella-equipoise3 жыл бұрын
I rate this as #1 for helpful information Oprah has ever presented, Thank you!
@crbaade3 жыл бұрын
29:00 “what everyone wants is to be seen and heard... to know - do I matter, and does what I say mean anything to you?” -Oprah quoting Brené (But also the biggest lesson my mom tried to teach me)
@rivkasherman39064 жыл бұрын
I realize from this show agian, that I am licky to have one person like that in my life that I can totally confide in and share with... I'm so lucky indeed. Thank you for reminding me and talking about shame. I grew up in a home where shame was one of the guiding lights of my maother's motherhood... so much of what was said in this episode resonated with me... wow.... yes, and those triggers that bring those feeling up and not always out...
@terrybochansky62713 жыл бұрын
I absolutely LOVED this. Thank You Bren'e for helping me change my Life. Thank you Oprah. I want to Share my life story in ways to help others, But the right way. I never liked being told what to do. I loved being show, learned by watching and listening. I Love what Dr. Wayne Dyer said, "A Bad Man is a good Man's Job" "A Good Man is a Bad Mans Teacher".
@ellencrane71503 жыл бұрын
Thank you, ladies, for being my heroes and working so hard to change the world. You are amazing role models and I've shared this program with my three daughters. It's never too late to learn these lessons.
@MyLevel10Life3 жыл бұрын
Two Queens. Brene and Oprah. You both are amazing. Loved this!
@Tatiana-qp1gc3 жыл бұрын
Thank you both for such a blessing🙏🏾🎵Inspirational sermons like these heal the world from within🌍 Creation is the saving grace of my life👑 grateful for the encouraging reminders🙏🏾❤️
@keeyawnainspires4 жыл бұрын
Wow, powerful every time I listen to something of Brené Brown’s Goes to buy book now Thank you 😊 Oprah & Brené for another one
@stefaniebotelho4 жыл бұрын
PAAQQ
@monicagilkes1723 жыл бұрын
This episode brought me to speak my truth and release my shame! Thank you!
@Tatiana-qp1gc3 жыл бұрын
I never feel ‘alone’ listening to you both🙏🏾
@kathydilorenzo97445 ай бұрын
Shame can be debilitating… It sure happened to me. Love Brene’ and love Oprah
@sleephearthealer3 жыл бұрын
So true about being careful who you share your shame with. Got my heart cut up though I don't talk much at all, they fully judged me rather and it felt more like a punch in the gut.
@joycenonhlanhlavilakati71614 жыл бұрын
Thanks Brene for the gift of language. And thanks Oprah for making it possible for some of us to receive this gift from such a great distance. 🙏❤
@joannemates63673 жыл бұрын
Creativity is cheaper than therapy!! I know, I’m a teacher and a jewellery designer. Xx
@shwetanavani4803 жыл бұрын
I agree. I'm also a teacher and a writer
@louisednningjespersen71153 жыл бұрын
@@shwetanavani480 å
@angelajames98533 жыл бұрын
Brene is amazing... So simple but so complex
@anniegueveneux81613 жыл бұрын
Thank you for bringing me understanding on how my old story still reflect in my life. Bring the shadow in light. Art is in me and i understand finaly how it has affect my life when it was not an active part of my life. I am blessed because i have friends with who are real listener & to whom i know they deserve to have my full attention too. I am gratefull to you both for the lessons, soul talking and bring clarity in my life. ❤️🙏
@bobrodgersperformance3 жыл бұрын
absolutely. Share all of you.
@gurjapsingh5703 жыл бұрын
Watching this today... Has changed my life!
@omegabell87274 жыл бұрын
Just what I needed ❤ Thank you Super Soul Sister Friends 🙌🏾
@denisemcmullin74493 жыл бұрын
Oprah thank you for sharing this. I was raped by 3 men at the age of 5 and I couldn't tell my abusive mother because it would have created another problem and I didn't want to get beat. This was so enlightening for me. THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU ! By the power of 3 it is done it is done. And so it is..
@nothandodlamini34263 жыл бұрын
Wow! Praying for you ❤️❤️❤️
@nikitaf884 жыл бұрын
Yes you have given me the language to communicate the feelings I just could not adequately express. I will make peace using the anger as a tool to create something most beautiful 💜 thank you!
@emc74053 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this blessing. It is my deep hope and dream that all parents find, read and live by that parenting manifesto, too 🙏🏽
@cookingwithrachel1013 жыл бұрын
I so wish I had heard her manifesto when I was raising my children.
@segotoo20063 жыл бұрын
Appreciate that you have subtitles in this video :)
@michellekelly58973 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this Brene and Oprah. I broke up with Fear Shame and Guilt 2 years ago Out loud - It's finally breaking up with me.
@bobrodgersperformance3 жыл бұрын
that is fabulous news Michelle!!
@muzerhythm22423 жыл бұрын
17:27 The "friends" Brene describes in her book: These are EVERY friend I had and especially every friend I thought I could trust to share that I deal with depression and anxiety.😞
@73cidalia3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes it's family too. I would never trust my mother with my shame.
@SimplySherriJ4 жыл бұрын
So happy that I decided to stop and watch! I love Brene! This interview helped me so much today! Thank you for re-airing!
@onika2843 жыл бұрын
Shame depends on me buying into the believe that I am alone.🔥
@mindivaldes96043 жыл бұрын
I remember that episode with the men. It made me cry too.
@pennyhare9253 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness!! I woke up did not want to get out bed just still tired, felt guilty then i tuned into this !!! Thank you
@salonsavy64763 жыл бұрын
One of the best episodes yet 👍👍
@deborahedelman26593 жыл бұрын
A wonderful discussion between 2 of the worlds great ladies!!
@snaprockandpop3 жыл бұрын
love love love Brene. And that interview. Im dizzy but feel elated and tearful. I just wish more men would navigate here. x
@christinecarlton35543 жыл бұрын
Even the one or two deep friends that dont judge, still hard to find. Sometimes strangers are far more generous in life. We all need Brene/Oprah clones😊💕🙏🇦🇺
@Tatiana-qp1gc3 жыл бұрын
Cool is the emotional straight jacket🤣 more truth....love it 🙏🏾 resonates📚 gotta get these 📖 books such wisdom and understanding 🙏🏾♥️🌈🌍😇
@mintyclibborn7853 жыл бұрын
We all already know this deep down she is simply confirming it in this crazy world
@AXAWELLNESS3 жыл бұрын
I love Super Soul Sunday. I also love Oprah and Brene. Thank you for all this content, very powerful. Keep spreading light ❤️
@bobrodgersperformance3 жыл бұрын
she's fabulous. been following her for years.
@synolve3 жыл бұрын
Creativity Must Be Cultivated
@lisavoss13544 жыл бұрын
Thank you for uploading the whole episode.
@Tatiana-qp1gc3 жыл бұрын
Food for the soul🙏🏾Amen
@ladylady54983 жыл бұрын
WoOoOW how that was inspiring, it's maximum useful, really I can't thank you enough, it's such a blessing u have gave us, thank u so much you both
@reginaldthomas12573 жыл бұрын
It's always about identifying, not comparing yourself 🙂
@ejt85733 жыл бұрын
MORE BRENE BROWN ON SUPER SOUL SUNDAY. *breathes out* ok cool
@alisonpanton71023 жыл бұрын
i love to apply this principle with co workers-sharing my vulnerability
@t.t.51954 жыл бұрын
I need Brene as a friend
@hopedealer1013 жыл бұрын
She is my BFF! She hasn’t a clue!
@GeorgideMarne3 жыл бұрын
@@hopedealer101 and Oprah is our collective mother 😄🤫
@dreasmom27893 жыл бұрын
You and me both. I moved from California to Minnesota and at my age it's kind of hard to meet new friends. I have a view work friends. But their ages are where they're raising their kids and everything and I'm much older than that. and one good friend I guess.
@dreasmom27893 жыл бұрын
This show has been very enlightening. I do have to just agree with the god part. Part is this show is teaching to be good parents and being there for your children. and I understood that to be even if they're not asking for your help that you should be there for your kids. This is the question I have why isn't God there for us without asking. If I get replies I'm sure people are going to say he's always there for you but then why are they saying to ask for him to help.
@affiagbenyo46253 жыл бұрын
Me too ❤️
@angiem.j02173 жыл бұрын
She’s the best!!!!
@fay37363 жыл бұрын
I am grateful for this episode
@loristromski13344 жыл бұрын
The universe is amazing! I’m a newbie self lover this content was very helpful and impactful!
@daelu72653 жыл бұрын
I like how u worded it cause same for me!🙌🏽
@mariaameliaaragao22543 жыл бұрын
I loved the connection definition...
@Tatiana-qp1gc3 жыл бұрын
Truth beyond truth🙏🏾🌍
@Kimmydawn763 жыл бұрын
I would love for Brene to do a book geared toward kids. I have 2 kids that say they are stupid and worthless. It breaks my heart everytime.
@ShirleySVilakazi3 жыл бұрын
Your laughter is ver contagious.....laughing at the truths of life...
@wandaamaro48353 жыл бұрын
Morning OMG thank you thank you for this Video it came across today when I feel empty, lost, broken n so much pain n not now WHY..... thank you thank you...... from Connecticut Wanda dated 2/23/21
@hadarovsky3 жыл бұрын
take care ❤🙏
@lizsantillan63003 жыл бұрын
Great episode! Although, I hate to tell you this Brené, but your manifesto and a lot of what you mentioned was already covered very simply by a Mother Theresa quote, " if you want to CHANGE THE WORLD, GO HOME AND LOVE YOUR FAMILY." However, You really give us clear examples on how to do it!👍
@michellemercado74103 жыл бұрын
I was a mentor at my job...If anyone ever said I am stupid...I would tell them stop!!! Dont you ever call yourself stupid!!!! You are not stupid!!!
@christinareyes29633 жыл бұрын
Really beautiful and true. I love Brené Brown. Would do anything to take her class
@katrinasisongkham4 жыл бұрын
Devine timing for this upload! 🔮🙏🏼 my favorite book!
@bobrodgersperformance3 жыл бұрын
yeah. it's fabulous 👍
@pollyd6124 жыл бұрын
IM CRYING 😢 Love this episode!!!
@markie10ful3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!
@darnellye14873 жыл бұрын
This is the best video I ever seen in my life. Thank you i
@jmalc043 жыл бұрын
that shame-in-the-classroom story gets my hackles up every time. i get so angry that teachers use such tactics. brene's right, it. happens.
@gracekaleli59273 жыл бұрын
Thank you oprah.
@carolebuckle79774 жыл бұрын
The one person who WAS there for me, I least expected wow 😳🇬🇧💕xx
@EternalSnoie3 жыл бұрын
How can I live wholeheartedly when my loved ones and the ones around them weaponized “shame”.
@luvsongsandmusic3 жыл бұрын
I feel like it's time to wade through the wave of vulnerability to find your real friends my dear, it might get messy, but I believe your end-goal would be so much better than what you have going on. I highly recommend her books if you're up for reading it
@timofreeman45743 жыл бұрын
Have you watched the movie Get Out? Well, sometimes when we're being brainwashed and drained of our life force, that's what we need to do.
@justinbergeronlavigne92934 жыл бұрын
Some very good insight on keeping your head space clean. Thank you