Dakalo on struggling with her teenage daughter who is on drugs

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@Ownnarrativepodcast
@Ownnarrativepodcast 9 ай бұрын
Hey everyone, Dakalo would appreciate any amount of donations. Thanks. Account Holder: Thabile Given Ntai Bank Name: TymeBank Branch Code: 678910 Account Number: 51091499965
@Sbongile962
@Sbongile962 9 ай бұрын
I donated, Mommy❤ Your baby girl will be fine❤
@mrs.m1015
@mrs.m1015 9 ай бұрын
@@Sbongile962 May God bless you.
@Mapula_Reloaded
@Mapula_Reloaded 9 ай бұрын
For?? ​@@khensanebaloyi6835
@marywangari2555
@marywangari2555 9 ай бұрын
Please inbox me the address of the facility
@khethiwengubo8035
@khethiwengubo8035 9 ай бұрын
When I get paid I ll contribute until Jan 2024, Am pledging.
@lehakwemzima
@lehakwemzima 9 ай бұрын
This woman loovvess her child. The deep sighs she kept taking kept punching holes in my heart because wow. 💔
@ApostleEdwardTapiwa
@ApostleEdwardTapiwa 9 ай бұрын
I was a marijuana, heroin, crack cocaine, cocaine, crystal meth addict and alcoholic. I was saved by giving my life to Jesus Christ and through the knowledge from the Holy Spirit. Addiction is caused by demonic entities that's why rehab doesn't work for most people. Addiction is a spiritual challenge.
@khanyamazkhali6949
@khanyamazkhali6949 8 ай бұрын
This is so true Bhuti.
@leratomthethwa6045
@leratomthethwa6045 8 ай бұрын
Praise the Lord🙌🙌
@poppymatroos4060
@poppymatroos4060 9 ай бұрын
A mother who stands up for a kids, no matter what,,, Dakalo you are one of the kind, most mothers give up easily,,, but you stood,,, through the strength of our most high...I'm so proud of you😊
@KingMorena-fw7zw
@KingMorena-fw7zw 9 ай бұрын
I salute her ❤
@siphokaziluzipho4197
@siphokaziluzipho4197 9 ай бұрын
She's amazing. Heart of a mother. May God bless her, and he will.
@noziphokhumalo2963
@noziphokhumalo2963 7 ай бұрын
She truly is a gem 💎 ❤
@moshidimashego3289
@moshidimashego3289 9 ай бұрын
Please with all due respect, you should have let her expressed her self with a language she feels comfortable with
@mduduzigama5511
@mduduzigama5511 9 ай бұрын
right
@dineo.r_
@dineo.r_ 9 ай бұрын
Her editor could’ve added subtitles. I agree with you!
@briellagab
@briellagab 9 ай бұрын
And have the rest of the world miss out of the story, she did just fine.
@dineo.r_
@dineo.r_ 9 ай бұрын
@@briellagabif anything, we missed out now because she couldn’t adequately express herself. They could’ve added subtitles, which would’ve been more inclusive than “speaking” English.
@guysmasemola8667
@guysmasemola8667 9 ай бұрын
Definitely
@sallykenene5876
@sallykenene5876 9 ай бұрын
Mommy you are indeed a mother.That is unconditional love. Your are a strong woman. May the good Lord strengthen you always.
@leratoleseka3728
@leratoleseka3728 9 ай бұрын
Advice to Promise :please don't go to the rehab center for the interview...wait for her to heal and she can come to you. ❤
@elizabethmahlangu4680
@elizabethmahlangu4680 9 ай бұрын
I agree with you dear
@pheladinare2876
@pheladinare2876 9 ай бұрын
True
@oneseipato6485
@oneseipato6485 9 ай бұрын
I agree so she focus on the healing
@maemakola5771
@maemakola5771 9 ай бұрын
True
@zandilezondo2440
@zandilezondo2440 9 ай бұрын
👏yes
@VeliswaMa
@VeliswaMa 9 ай бұрын
I'm here for Dakalo's courage, tenacity, determination, and, of course, her beauty. I pray that come January 2025, her daughter will be clean and ready to pick up the pieces of her life.
@sarahphiri5365
@sarahphiri5365 6 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Deep pain ❤ please sis let please all the youth and anyone who in this deep problem of drugs 😂😂😂Sis i pry That JEHOVAH GIVE MATLA Name of the son JESUS CRIST AMEN JOB 1 END JEHOVAH WILL Correct the situation Amean
@noluthandomkhize6542
@noluthandomkhize6542 9 ай бұрын
Yho this woman 😢 I feel like everyone needs a mom like this. Waze wamuthanda umntana wakhe ❤ Hopefully she comes back better and stronger 🥰❤️
@matodzindwammbi9898
@matodzindwammbi9898 9 ай бұрын
And I’m here with my 2% education running my own business at 25 and my mom doesn’t want me, let alone talk to me . I’d beg her to ask my 5 yr old baby sis to call me and she won’t even respond
@khetaniqwele2861
@khetaniqwele2861 9 ай бұрын
@@matodzindwammbi9898Be patience with her We living in a cruel word where devil is in control of divisions in families. Even the bible tell us about that. Pray to God for her healing. ❤🙏
@darlingraychel8790
@darlingraychel8790 9 ай бұрын
Such a smart and intelligent mother! Very patient and positive! MY God bless her May all her prayers towards her daughter be answered! Amen
@_molebogeng6281
@_molebogeng6281 9 ай бұрын
Weed & hubly is a gateway to a lot of drugs, don't take it lightly the moment you find out your child is using it. Dakalo's story is a reality of a lot of families and it's so draining. she is such a strong mother. I'm so happy her daughter is finally at a safe place
@thabilove3683
@thabilove3683 9 ай бұрын
The problem is people think hublly is not addictive. When you tell them otherwise they don't want to listen.
@nenesibanda4171
@nenesibanda4171 9 ай бұрын
So true I don't understand why parents permit their kids to smoke hubbly even. God gave parents a responsibility to take care of their own, some situations are unforeseeable but we are to protect our kids as parents.
@moe_ramz
@moe_ramz 9 ай бұрын
I’ve been saying this for the longest time. Shayani izingane when they smoke weed etc…
@StarrGoddess77
@StarrGoddess77 9 ай бұрын
I don’t mean any disrespect but as an ex addict there is no such thing as an entry drug. Addiction is a mental disease and the problem with our community is we blame other things but really it’s a mental illness. This why I also hate the statement black women are strong, all that must stop. It probably explains why she got worse after she lost her bf, grief will eat you alive, if you don’t have a strong mind or support system around you, you will have no problem meeting death too. I’m grateful coz my mom is a social worker and the way my family negated the situation helped me face my demons and ultimately understand what exactly what I was grieving. I’m not saying weed and hubly are good just that there is more to it than just that. Like she said most addicts have this fascination with spirituality (sangoma part) it’s coz they constantly looking for an escape and most don’t even know what they are running from anymore because of the drugs numbing effect but with therapy there is nothing God cannot do!
@menniekumalo3276
@menniekumalo3276 9 ай бұрын
Normalise having subtitles, you can’t limit your guests and people express themselves better in their home language
@makgoalemashabela6599
@makgoalemashabela6599 9 ай бұрын
Kodwa KZbin has that option nje, the boxed "CC" on your top right.
@makgoalemashabela6599
@makgoalemashabela6599 9 ай бұрын
Kodwa KZbin has that option nje, the boxed "CC" on your top right on the screen.
@KaraboLesenya
@KaraboLesenya 9 ай бұрын
​@@makgoalemashabela6599that thing doesn't really work
@RayOfLetsatsi
@RayOfLetsatsi 9 ай бұрын
​@@makgoalemashabela6599Those subtitles aren't accurate which is why many youtubers insert subtitles themselves when their content is in vernac.
@Shoni86
@Shoni86 9 ай бұрын
Your right please
@neomalete5832
@neomalete5832 9 ай бұрын
I’m a 21 year old trying to navigate this life thing and yoh I’ve never cried like this ,listening to this beautiful lady talk about everything she’s going through just makes my heart break and just seeing how she’s not giving up on her daughter is so heartwarming.I really am praying for my peers we really indulge in things that just open gate for other things .Love and light to mammie really praying for her I hope her daughter heals 🥺And can we as the young ones be a positive example to our younger peers
@reginahaphane159
@reginahaphane159 9 ай бұрын
I love this mother hle...her resilience is unmatched
@mantelekhitsane8935
@mantelekhitsane8935 9 ай бұрын
Yah to be a mother is something else 😢you fight even when your child refuse to be your child 🙏
@rebotilekgweedi5627
@rebotilekgweedi5627 9 ай бұрын
My God 😢 this statement 🙏🏾
@kebam_
@kebam_ 9 ай бұрын
😢
@chamumafoti2657
@chamumafoti2657 7 ай бұрын
Well stated
@NsikeSibisi
@NsikeSibisi 7 ай бұрын
Nkosi yami, it’s so hard ukuba umzali. I’m thinking of my own daughter. You can give your child everything but influence & peer pressure will show you flames. We need prayer.
@anastacialedwaba3801
@anastacialedwaba3801 15 күн бұрын
It's so painful
@buhlenkomo3225
@buhlenkomo3225 9 ай бұрын
What a touching podcast. Thanks, Mama, for the courage to share your story and for not giving up on your daughter. Thanks to Promise for offering to contribute towards the rehab fee. May I request that you don't go to the rehab and not even interview at all because it will make her more vulnerable. In the future, she might struggle to get a job, for instance, or being in a relationship because of her past online. This story is enough. You can just do a follow-up after rehab and find out from her mum how the experience has been.
@Lerato_Lamola
@Lerato_Lamola 9 ай бұрын
hi Promise, just a suggestion. maybe you should introduce ice breaker questions to help guests with nerves and get more comfortable. otherwise i love your craft.
@Ownnarrativepodcast
@Ownnarrativepodcast 9 ай бұрын
Thank you will consider this❤
@modikiramaisa4619
@modikiramaisa4619 9 ай бұрын
I’m not a parent but my heart bleeds for her 💔💔💔💔 strength to you mama
@RayOfLetsatsi
@RayOfLetsatsi 9 ай бұрын
Drug addiction destroys so many lives💔 Sending love & prayers to mommy Dakalo, she's doing the best she can🥺
@YourselfworthisinChrist
@YourselfworthisinChrist 9 ай бұрын
You really are fighting for your daughter Dakalo, may God come through for you guys as she’s in rehab..💖💖💖
@GlitchinGamingforever
@GlitchinGamingforever 9 ай бұрын
Strength to you mommy Just please remember to give some attention to your little one as well...i really don't know how you will do it because older daughter is taking so much of your time but your little one also needs you as well.
@pushynko
@pushynko 9 ай бұрын
😅😂😂I didnt expect the Sangoma trip to turn out to be a Rehab😅😂
@Bokamoso_Kaisara
@Bokamoso_Kaisara 8 ай бұрын
Me too😂😂
@josephinemarejojoe2679
@josephinemarejojoe2679 6 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@pulengphatedi8153
@pulengphatedi8153 9 ай бұрын
The sad thing is that mothers are dealing with all these challenges alone 😢😢where are the fathers?
@siphokaziluzipho4197
@siphokaziluzipho4197 9 ай бұрын
I'm asking myself the same thing sisi. Where are these guys. Do they move on and forget their children. My ex boyfriend left with no reservation. No regret. Thank God my child is not into drugs, but Ex failed us. He continues to.
@tendanipelaelo6293
@tendanipelaelo6293 9 ай бұрын
The fathers are hibernating somewhere, just waiting for the kid to finish school or just about to finish, and they will show their faces knowing that now they won't have to take care of the child anymore since they are now all grown up
@nomalungelongcete5875
@nomalungelongcete5875 9 ай бұрын
Good question indeed
@juliamaloka70
@juliamaloka70 9 ай бұрын
Most father's are absent, the present ones are very tough when coming to drugs and bad behaviour, so they give the kids tough love whereas as mother's we still one walk this journey with them. I've been there, my son was addicted to weed, he had 3 major drug induced psychotic episodes. The 2nd episode he was admitted at Rand Clinic, the ward had mixed race, blacks, whites, Indians, coloureds, Christians, Muslims, Hindus etc. All fighting same battle, drugs. During visiting hours, you only see mother's coming to check on them but not father's, why? Some are absent and some it's just black and white no grey area. You wanna be a child in my house, you obey my rules or get out of my house
@robbylebotha
@robbylebotha 9 ай бұрын
Maybe the mothers left the fathers because the fathers were too strict, too serious, too many rules. It ONE of the reasons of course, other fathers were just nonsense or abusive ect. Theres many reasons, its better to treat the situations individually and ask the mothers, not make generalizations.
@angelbhengu4881
@angelbhengu4881 9 ай бұрын
A mother's love knows no bounds.
@lifewithvivy
@lifewithvivy 9 ай бұрын
U can say that a million times yoh
@sanelematong7724
@sanelematong7724 9 ай бұрын
Absolutely
@confessions4043
@confessions4043 9 ай бұрын
This was heartbreaking to hear. It was also so informative. Thank you mama for not giving up on your daughter. May God give both you and your daughter a beautiful testimony that will safe many people.
@THEVIRTUALBACKOFFICELULU
@THEVIRTUALBACKOFFICELULU 3 ай бұрын
She is such a loving mother ❤❤❤ she is doing a great job at being patient and compassionate ❤
@tshiamomahape292
@tshiamomahape292 9 ай бұрын
I have learned so much and very eye opening thank you mommy for openly sharing your story, God heal your daughter and bring her back strong, her purpose is above her but she is equipped
@SteaksWaban2
@SteaksWaban2 9 ай бұрын
Kodw umuhl Ntomby❤ and you look mentally strong
@nomalizonomganga3022
@nomalizonomganga3022 12 күн бұрын
I have seen powerful women but Dakalo is a superwoman, this woman fought for her child through thick and thin, we thank God❤
@tsungiMoyo05
@tsungiMoyo05 23 күн бұрын
a true definition of mother’s love. May your daughter never forgets that!
@darlingraychel8790
@darlingraychel8790 9 ай бұрын
Strongest mom ever!! Wow! Thank you promise for considering those viewers who don’t understand South African language! I am glad I get to listen to this! This episode touched me so much!
@nwakhubayi
@nwakhubayi 9 ай бұрын
You are such a great mom ❤❤. I am soo sorry you are going through this . Sending you so much love and strength.
@ZaneleMagangana
@ZaneleMagangana 8 ай бұрын
Watching this made me cry ....it made me miss my late mother...this gal has no idea how lucky she is to have a mother like dakalo....ive been going thru things in life alone and i had to pick myself up alone😢Good bless this woman and continue giving her strength
@khanyisilevilakazi6786
@khanyisilevilakazi6786 9 ай бұрын
"Stay away from hubbly and stay away from boys they don't love us" 😭💔
@thobilembasa8954
@thobilembasa8954 9 ай бұрын
I just came from tik tok here am I now wow I am amazed by this woman's love❤❤ may God bless you
@peggysue4201
@peggysue4201 9 ай бұрын
A brilliant child indeed .i thank God for a mother like you..she will be in my prayers and i love her so much.she is a star.God give you strength ma to fight and win...
@mahlogonolophokanoka7183
@mahlogonolophokanoka7183 9 ай бұрын
This should've been a 2 part interview, my heart goes out for this mother ❤
@AFitHealer
@AFitHealer 9 ай бұрын
We are crying with you mommy, I’m 23 years old and I have a rehabilitation home also in Limpopo where by we deal with such heart breaking stories on a day to day basis, i wish her a full recovery and please after the program there try to take her for therapy she still has a lot of underlying issues. Love & light❤️
@thembisilemsiza942
@thembisilemsiza942 9 ай бұрын
Hi,may u kindly mention that rehabilitation home in Limpopo please ? I am in the province
@lillymmtimande6134
@lillymmtimande6134 8 ай бұрын
Promise failed this interview, Hazel was needed here
@siphokaziluzipho4197
@siphokaziluzipho4197 9 ай бұрын
God bless you Promise for covering this. Big up Dakalo for removing the shame and talking bodly my love. The nine months will change her life.
@moeledikgale2493
@moeledikgale2493 9 ай бұрын
I found myself crying throughout the interview 😭😭mommy, I love your fighting spirit. Keep doing it for your child. She doesn't have to like you now but she will love you more when she turns out well. Much love to you ❤️❤️❤️
@mamotonarosemoloi7770
@mamotonarosemoloi7770 9 ай бұрын
Our justice system is fucked up. We have a drug problem in SA, a concerned mother asks for help/ assistance n they tell her shit. She's over 18, yes, but she needs help... What are they saying. It's OK to have drug addicts because they are over 18...
@nonzwakaziprecious9507
@nonzwakaziprecious9507 9 ай бұрын
Our system has failed us long time ago and if they find you locking the child indoors you'll be arrested. Yoh it's a joke, kanti why kumele ilizwe lethu life kabuhlungu kangaka?
@khutjoinnocentia4031
@khutjoinnocentia4031 9 ай бұрын
As someone who works with both children and adults battling substance addiction, I totally understand your point. However, it’s very difficult to work with someone who is being forced to go to a rehabilitation facility. The inpatient treatment program consists of therapy sessions which require a lot of commitment from the client. You can use various techniques such as motivational interview as a therapist but if the client is not interested, the sessions will not be that effective. There’s a model that we make reference to when helping our clients which is called the change model which has about 5 stages. It’s very difficult to work with a client that is in the first stage where the client does not see anything wrong with their behaviour.
@briellagab
@briellagab 9 ай бұрын
Yes, as a adult in any country on earth, he/she can do as they please including unfortunately drugs.
@nezisanogumla9730
@nezisanogumla9730 9 ай бұрын
Also shout out to your people in your circle who help u with those R200 that went up to R6000 those are real ones ,you are amazing mom God will see you through he has much bigger plans for you n your daughter you passed his test with distinction you will now reap .trust in him as he lives in you ❤❤❤love you mami, you made me 😢a lot though
@thembisilemsiza942
@thembisilemsiza942 9 ай бұрын
Wooo. how I regret reading this comment, I'm soo discouraged tyt now.....where will we end up getting help for our smoking teens ? 😢
@KimmyR12
@KimmyR12 8 ай бұрын
Never have I ever seen a parent who loves their kids the way Dakalo loves her daughter in my life, even after putting her through all these, she is still putting her daughters feelings, she feels her pain and she empathise with her through and through. Now thats unconditional love
@amosjournal649
@amosjournal649 9 ай бұрын
Honestly, as content consumers lets be kind and selfless..Promise tries to give content weekly, can we allow her to grow and do whats best for all her subscribers
@patienceikombele9161
@patienceikombele9161 9 ай бұрын
Thank you 💯
@mphodingiswayo3282
@mphodingiswayo3282 9 ай бұрын
My heart is not only bleed from the story but also at how MEAN people are. This lady is doing her best to express herself but of course private school higher grade youtube English teachers will always find fault in every single guess who does not have similar vocabulary and accent nje ngabo
@motheowalerato701
@motheowalerato701 5 ай бұрын
Amen❤ People can be so demanding yoh
@Nomfundomahlati
@Nomfundomahlati 9 ай бұрын
Dakalo, you have spoken for some of us who are in the same situation as you. I see myself in your tenacity and spirit of not giving up on your child. Your daughter will be used by Our God to speak life and hope to other kids. You are being used to encourage us mommies to keep on living. God is our strength. You have done well, I am super proud of you.
@zaneleluhabe8863
@zaneleluhabe8863 9 ай бұрын
Sad indeed,what a waste of an intelligent child😢.Drugs are a nightmare in our society.Sorry mama,keep the faith.God will come thru for you andyour precious daughter ❤️
@lovelerato1
@lovelerato1 9 ай бұрын
As a mother…. You did the best you could have done. Do never ever feel like you could have done anything better. Life could not have prepared you for this…. You’re an amazing mom and you have and continued to do your best.
@khanyisilelioma6462
@khanyisilelioma6462 9 ай бұрын
For her to completely recover, she must undergo psychotherapy. She seems to have a lot of underlying issues that are making her more vulnerable
@KingMorena-fw7zw
@KingMorena-fw7zw 9 ай бұрын
What a sad story, love and light to your daughter
@daphnetshepisosetlhong845
@daphnetshepisosetlhong845 9 ай бұрын
You messed the story by not allowing her to speak her own language, she expressed herslf better via tiktok
@thabelosuccess5863
@thabelosuccess5863 9 ай бұрын
Right
@matlhatsiitsitsii1420
@matlhatsiitsitsii1420 9 ай бұрын
But ko tik tok people would say they don't understand
@Lebz_Madux
@Lebz_Madux 9 ай бұрын
​@@matlhatsiitsitsii1420 bare she should add subtitles. I don't see myself reading subtitles for an episode that is over an hour.
@banelesuccess3511
@banelesuccess3511 8 ай бұрын
Eish she did she took away the ability of the guest to express herself in depth in her own language, nd she said she will mix not only venac
@nomfundoskosana1907
@nomfundoskosana1907 8 ай бұрын
Aaahhh promise bored me shame here wats wrong with mixing languages
@nenesibanda4171
@nenesibanda4171 9 ай бұрын
What an incredible story...what a brave mother...❤you look so gorgeous and one wouldn't even say you went through what you went through. God be with you
@ThatoMatsetse
@ThatoMatsetse 9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much mmago Makunyane for your generosity🥹❤️. Mommy is a strong woman hle, sending love ❤️❤❤
@refilwe8382
@refilwe8382 8 ай бұрын
I saw your videos on TikTok last night, I never cried so much 😢, you are fighting for your child mama and big ups to you , we really need men to step up. Going through such hardships as a single mother can be a toll on your health too. I hope you and your daughter find healing.
@sibusisiwesithole6514
@sibusisiwesithole6514 9 ай бұрын
Gosh I want to give her and her daughter a warm hug🥹😍❤️no Mom deserves such.
@RoyNgoreta
@RoyNgoreta 9 ай бұрын
Tjoh what a sad story may God heal you with your family
@neliswaveronica2464
@neliswaveronica2464 7 ай бұрын
😢u are very strong Dakalo, u teach me something. I wl always pray to God for your child n all SA child. Life it's not easy
@adventuretimewithree
@adventuretimewithree 9 ай бұрын
Hi Promise, just a suggetion... maybe introduce subtitles for guests who feel most comfortable relating their stories in their home languages...might also help with nerves also
@siphokaziluzipho4197
@siphokaziluzipho4197 9 ай бұрын
Such a beautiful Mom, Dakalo. I wonder where's the dad.
@sisandamabeka4567
@sisandamabeka4567 2 ай бұрын
As a teen mom, am cringing hearing you tell your journey and struggles. Am in tears, this is a parents worst night mare😭
@nelisiwetshabangu243
@nelisiwetshabangu243 9 ай бұрын
Dakalo is such an exceptional mother. She doesnt make this about her and the type of parent she is or isn't. She doesn't sound like she's given up on her child. I hope people tell her that she's truly one of the best mothers I've encountered. Also her ability to empathize with her daughter's pain and loss. What a woman
@nelisiwetshabangu243
@nelisiwetshabangu243 9 ай бұрын
Also Promise needs to stop forcing English, I mean you don't transform your life 360°, this would mean that you get to the same point by the way
@linahblumrick5781
@linahblumrick5781 9 ай бұрын
The things mothers go thru i have been there but my daughter died may her soul rest in peace . When she died i said to her body at last you found rest that you never had on this earth
@tembezelanilubatapela3116
@tembezelanilubatapela3116 9 ай бұрын
I'm sorry mommy
@KgRamabu
@KgRamabu 9 ай бұрын
😢😢😢
@kebam_
@kebam_ 9 ай бұрын
😢
@sepekomohololephalo2591
@sepekomohololephalo2591 7 ай бұрын
Condolences lady, being a parent comes with challenges. May her soul rest in peace.
@motheowalerato701
@motheowalerato701 5 ай бұрын
😢😢😢❤❤❤
@nthabimabuza1031
@nthabimabuza1031 9 ай бұрын
New subscriber Sis Promise you are doing good job 👏👍🙌Sis Dakalo she is a strong woman 💪✋she tried everything to help her daughter im proud of you, you a mbokodo❤God protect your daughter and give her strength 💪love you lots.
@MsLeeThing
@MsLeeThing 9 ай бұрын
Well done Dakalo. Your story is encouraging a lot . All the best to Girl at Rehab
@preciousdiamond1387
@preciousdiamond1387 9 ай бұрын
I wish you asked about Dakalos background. Where she comes from and grew up. Her parents. And not mention the part where she stays and work. You could have cut that out. All the best to the girl and strength to the mother.
@pearlnyawoza7765
@pearlnyawoza7765 9 ай бұрын
True...Wanted to also know more about the child not just the problematic child ...So that we can get a picture what lead her to drugs .what signs we should look out for 😢😢
@KgRamabu
@KgRamabu 9 ай бұрын
True, its irrelevant😢
@lebohangm7252
@lebohangm7252 8 ай бұрын
@@pearlnyawoza7765but mommy mentioned that she was doing well at school, no signs of smoking apart from the smell and unhygienic bedroom and lack of self care. Dakalo also mentioned that her daughter is smart and her behaviour was not of of her usual character. So basically there are no signs that she can really point out for you as a parent, children are different, you know your child and if your gut tells you something listen!
@amosjournal649
@amosjournal649 9 ай бұрын
The way she speaks ❤❤❤❤❤she has a commanding voice❤
@servingcant
@servingcant 9 ай бұрын
Eish this story touched me, I’ll be keeping you and your daughter in my prayers… My generation is in dire need of help 😢
@loniamalatji5454
@loniamalatji5454 7 ай бұрын
Yooo Dakalo,you went to high length to support your daughter and you never gave up on her.For that,I am taking my hat off for you👏👏🙌🙌
@bongiwezaca2721
@bongiwezaca2721 9 ай бұрын
Such a beautiful mother❤️thank you for not giving up on your daughter, God will bless you sisi
@lungiletsukulu2791
@lungiletsukulu2791 7 ай бұрын
Yoh 😭 I’m praying for daughters complete healing
@sh0nnen_gho0ul77
@sh0nnen_gho0ul77 3 ай бұрын
I really applaud you for your bravery.I am proud of u mamy.ka nnete ke motlotlo ka oena.Promise,big ups.i am much older than you guys but I am learning so much.parenting does not have a manual.will keep praying for you.Promise,modimo a go okeletse moratho.
@makhadzikhomolamuifhaglori4485
@makhadzikhomolamuifhaglori4485 9 ай бұрын
What a strong and beautiful mom u r, thank you for sharing your story to help young mom. I pray for ur daughter so see light 🫂
@thitikwaneflorah7282
@thitikwaneflorah7282 9 ай бұрын
Yhooo batswadi💔😓 well done mommy🙌🏽God have mercy🙏🏽
@Lungelo911
@Lungelo911 9 ай бұрын
Oh Dakalo you are so beautiful. I applaud you for not giving up on your daughter
@prudencemmantuthulo5724
@prudencemmantuthulo5724 9 ай бұрын
Yoou Sis Promise, May God richly bless you. I hope when girl comes back she will choose the right path
@dikolizaskk5847
@dikolizaskk5847 9 ай бұрын
Dakota please don't give up on your daughter, but please don't raise your hope too hard, drug addiction is very strong it needs mature minds
@nthabee
@nthabee 9 ай бұрын
Dakalo hle
@vulanishivambu7914
@vulanishivambu7914 4 ай бұрын
@@nthabee😂
@BhelekaziA
@BhelekaziA 7 ай бұрын
Mama please remember as much as your daughter is now in rehab and being helped your job is not done. Go to God ask Him to restore your daughter ask God to turn all of this bad to good God saved your daughter and she will have a testimony but it is for you as her mother to cover your daughters under the blood of Jesus No weapons formed against you shall prosper the enemy tried to take your daughter but he could not succeed God will use your daughter to safe nations… You are so strong ❤ Back your daughter with prayer protect them with God and never forget that He is always there in all of these painful times He is there !!
@nthabisengivy544
@nthabisengivy544 9 ай бұрын
Dakalo ure so strong and i wish to meet u one day when i am in Ficksburg. God bless you❤❤
@lentshomakola1451
@lentshomakola1451 9 ай бұрын
I can relate to my childs behavior. You are so strong. You are the best
@andisani257
@andisani257 9 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. We will pray for her.
@joannephilander6817
@joannephilander6817 9 ай бұрын
Ohhhh such a true representation of a mothers love .❤
@naledindlovu976
@naledindlovu976 9 ай бұрын
Dare I hear anyone say that Xolani Sizo'khola is wrong nywe nywe ...drugs are evil and look at the destruction it causes...and this is just 1 of many many stories 💔
@setshegomahlatsi9108
@setshegomahlatsi9108 9 ай бұрын
Yhoo my heart broke watching this.Dakalomy God Almighty bless you and give you strength you are a warrior mum🎉😘🙏💫
@pulengphatedi8153
@pulengphatedi8153 9 ай бұрын
Strength to you Mom, yiu are so courageous. Modimo a o fe mohau. Ngwana a fole..❤❤❤
@jeanineainscough6698
@jeanineainscough6698 7 ай бұрын
Just watched this podcast. This is a heartbreaking 💔 story. Dikalo, you are an amazing and strong woman. Thank you for sharing. Your story helps others. Promise your podcast is excellent 👌. Well done. 🎉
@kgolaganovilakazi4195
@kgolaganovilakazi4195 9 ай бұрын
That rehab is the best I don't know where is it but I know someone from there and I was impressed.... ❤ May God keep you strong Mommy and all the best Stay beautiful ❤
@blackorkid4285
@blackorkid4285 9 ай бұрын
Hi there Kindly pls assist with details of the rehab centre I have a family member who needs help desperately
@thathokuhlelihle
@thathokuhlelihle 9 ай бұрын
This lady is a very strong lady, I can’t even imagine what Dakalo went through and is still going through, I don’t know what I would have done having a daughter myself 😢😢😢 ayi this is so heartbreaking
@nomangwanephiri4294
@nomangwanephiri4294 9 ай бұрын
I almost cried when she said the person who took her were her daughter was is the one who introduced her child to drugs😭😭..what a very sad story
@MmatshepoNapjadi-rs3js
@MmatshepoNapjadi-rs3js 8 ай бұрын
And the ne a fereya dakalo😭😭
@RosaleeNrazi
@RosaleeNrazi 9 ай бұрын
Shame what a sad story ,may God give you strength heal you nd your daughter. you are a strong women you didn't give up on your daughter .sending lots of hugs 🤗🤗
@tebogoammonia4303
@tebogoammonia4303 8 ай бұрын
The love of a mother😭😭😭😭😭. U just make me miss my late mum. The love you have for your daughter is priceless 😢
@sophiemmaatli9871
@sophiemmaatli9871 6 ай бұрын
A very strong mother may our good God give you strength and keep on praying ❤❤❤
@Sbongile962
@Sbongile962 9 ай бұрын
Thank you, Mommy. we are praying you❤ Baby girl, can still be a model, and she can still go back to university.
@mmaseramedinahmohoang2529
@mmaseramedinahmohoang2529 7 ай бұрын
Dakalo you are strong,I wish God can grant you the desires of your heart,you have so much love for you child
@ms_ndlovusamue
@ms_ndlovusamue 8 ай бұрын
Unconditional love of a mother.May God give you strength, all shall pass
@thusomugwena6436
@thusomugwena6436 9 ай бұрын
Your motherly love mommy ❤your very strong. May the almighty God give you strength
@LiyaZuluM
@LiyaZuluM 9 ай бұрын
1. I pray this woman and her family find healing. Having a relative who is an addict is taxing. 2. The patient undergoing treatment is an adult that needs to consent to the interview and please leave patients alone while in treatment 3. Much like everyone else has said, allow guests speak their preferred language if the host understands that language. I am sure someone is willing to assist with translating the subtitles. 4. Usually addicts need to get to the point where they seek treatment for themselves in order for them to remain clean. I hope the daughter is able to stay clean.
@TshegofatsoSewela
@TshegofatsoSewela 9 ай бұрын
I think we need the mother whose scared of her child on the show
@Nomathemba-yu8rg
@Nomathemba-yu8rg 9 ай бұрын
You are so brave,you really are a mother. We thank God for you. Keep on pushing,God is right next to you and both of your girls
@NonhlanhlaSijiyo
@NonhlanhlaSijiyo 9 ай бұрын
Been listening to you o Tik tok. You went all the way gal. Big up Mom. You have a smart kid. God be with you Love n light ❤❤❤
@shirleythabie5087
@shirleythabie5087 9 ай бұрын
Hi what’s her name on Tik Tok?
@NonhlanhlaSijiyo
@NonhlanhlaSijiyo 9 ай бұрын
@@shirleythabie5087 Dakalo
@mamikikgaditsi1684
@mamikikgaditsi1684 9 ай бұрын
U really went throu a lot with this child in a very short space of time from all that I'm just putting together from the story that u wer telling and stil going through a lot and all that did nt really break you and for that I would say keep on being that strong Mom for ur Daughters as u are all what they have ❤❤❤
@mamikikgaditsi1684
@mamikikgaditsi1684 9 ай бұрын
U are such a Beautiful lady for a starter and very polite I dnt know how would I have survived all this if I was the person going throu all that I would have went crazy😢😢😢 I really respect you for your strongest may ur Daughter get all the help that she needs and wen she comes back be that good child that u onced had and nt go back to drugs again and have that happy family again may God bless you and keep on giving u that strength to deal with all this for your 2 Daughters 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾♥️♥️❤
@nyambi_m
@nyambi_m 9 ай бұрын
strength to you Dakalo and keep fighting for ur kids. may God strengthen ur and ur family.
@NnyanaMonama
@NnyanaMonama 6 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤ thank you so much may good God give you strength everyday.
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