P3dophiles are trying to be considered LGBTQ+ and I'm Scared

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jessiepaege

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Yes, you read that title correctly. Knowledge is truly power in this situation. With the recent passing of the Don't Say Gay Bill in Florida, these "MAPS" are being used against us. Their existence, which is something we do not associate ourselves with, is being blended with our own existence in the eyes of conservatives that agree with the passing of this bill.
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@kennagrace4752
@kennagrace4752 2 жыл бұрын
I believe Jessie grew out of the ground and sprouted from a pink tulip
@Moonbutnosun
@Moonbutnosun 2 жыл бұрын
Like a pink tulip pikmin
@lesliemorganking3283
@lesliemorganking3283 2 жыл бұрын
We love this theory.
@ultraviiolets
@ultraviiolets 2 жыл бұрын
barbie thumbelina vibes
@AleesatheIsraeli
@AleesatheIsraeli 2 жыл бұрын
..
@marymusttdiee
@marymusttdiee 2 жыл бұрын
yes
@kylenoisegriffin
@kylenoisegriffin 2 жыл бұрын
the reason the “love is love” argument doesn’t work w ped0philia is that love is between two people WHO CAN CONSENT. ped0philia is not love bc a child cannot consent. end of story
@tnf136
@tnf136 2 жыл бұрын
We're not even using that argument. Straw man much?
@rainestar82
@rainestar82 2 жыл бұрын
exactly!! without consent, its abuse, regardless of age gender or sexuality. its no more an lgbt identity than hitting someone and saying "but I love you" is.
@gracieewart9282
@gracieewart9282 2 жыл бұрын
@@tnf136 well, even if you aren't, a child still isn't going to be mentally in sync with an adult. It makes it wrong. You can't develop a meaningful relationship with someone who can't reciprocate, and children are still growing in that sense. They might be smart, they might experience the same things, but they aren't on your level yet. Physically or mentally. That's why it's so weird and wrong. That's also the reason children cannot consent. Just to make it clear for non-MAPs who are reading this, I don't AT ALL condone ANY side of the MAP community (pedos), but we're not going to change anything if we don't present this information to them in a way they will understand and agree with.
@greekfountain9303
@greekfountain9303 2 жыл бұрын
And also two people from lgbtq can maintain a relationship but a “map” can never have a real relationship with a child because they grow up. They will grow out of their “aoa”. So no it’s not a sexuality. Children isn’t a gender.
@GardenfRedRoses777
@GardenfRedRoses777 2 жыл бұрын
@@greekfountain9303 That's what I just said in my own comment! MAPs don't know what real love is!
@novaisales
@novaisales 2 жыл бұрын
As someone who had a “map” do things to me as a minor, this makes me furious! Minors can’t consent
@gracieewart9282
@gracieewart9282 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry this happened to you. It's so so so gross...
@lizzythequeer3065
@lizzythequeer3065 2 жыл бұрын
exactly love is love only works if both consent and kids can't consent to 30-year-old people. LGBTQ+ people are already seen as pedos and predators and freaks we don't need sick people trying to get a LGBTQ+ label.
@icravedeath.1200
@icravedeath.1200 2 жыл бұрын
We already have enough trouble with people not taking us seriously, we don't need this at the moment.
@DinosaurNick
@DinosaurNick 2 жыл бұрын
@Todd Mother They put it in quotes to quote them... it was sarcasm
@tnf136
@tnf136 2 жыл бұрын
How do you know they were minor-attracted? I'm sorry, but blaming an entire group of people - even those who choose not to hurt children - for your trauma is not an acceptable thing. I was abused too. It doesn't entitle me to hate a group of people.
@luna-moon-n
@luna-moon-n 2 жыл бұрын
Being a pedophile is not a sexuality. Get away from children and get help. If you have hurt a child go to jail.
@Willow._.tree.
@Willow._.tree. 2 жыл бұрын
Personally, I am all for jail reform, and against the death penalty, EXCEPT FOR when you have done the following, R@ped/ groomed a child, OR anyone Murdered someone/tortured someone (there are VERY FEW exceptions) And a few more
@javigarciabtrfan
@javigarciabtrfan 2 жыл бұрын
Instead of getting them help we should eliminate them
@axelling_atk
@axelling_atk 2 жыл бұрын
@@javigarciabtrfan for something they can’t control? Ok. I’m against killing innocent civilians unless they actually do harm to somebody.
@javigarciabtrfan
@javigarciabtrfan 2 жыл бұрын
@@axelling_atk INNOCENT💀
@axelling_atk
@axelling_atk 2 жыл бұрын
@@javigarciabtrfan Yeah. An attraction is innocent. Is it hurting anybody? No. You’re not hurting anybody by keeping your thoughts to yourself.
@justvixin
@justvixin 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve always said this, the “ map flag “ should be prison bars or a prison suit :)
@jharbie
@jharbie 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah
@demetria-n
@demetria-n 2 жыл бұрын
like the cis flag/straight flag, they should switch.
@justvixin
@justvixin 2 жыл бұрын
@@demetria-n lol yes
@foolsington6755
@foolsington6755 2 жыл бұрын
Or an electric chair.
@elliaforsyth5638
@elliaforsyth5638 2 жыл бұрын
My bf told me abt the “pride flag” and then mentioned it was on a lgbt float…and I just no
@angeldelvax7219
@angeldelvax7219 2 жыл бұрын
It should absolutely be recognized that they exist. But only so this illness can be treated! It should NEVER be normalized. ANY behavior that endangers anyone else should be treated ASAP. ESPECIALLY when children are at risk. There is no excuse for abusing a child. Even a single touch can scar them for life! And yes, I know from first hand how devastating the resulting pain is, and how it follows you for the rest of your life. You can't control what you are attracted to. You CAN control your behavior so you will NEVER act on it, NEVER condone it, NEVER normalize it. People defending it are sick, and shouldn't be allowed anywhere near children.
@angeldelvax7219
@angeldelvax7219 2 жыл бұрын
@UC8cPbU7mJiHwwyKeJrFRKFA "instead of".... is NOT the right way. That would be normalizing it. It would be denying the millions of victims the pain they carry with them all their life. Yes, there's hate out there. And as much as I don't like hate, this is a subject where I 100% understand where it comes from. Hiding the hate, hiding the pain only strengthens the idea that it's not a bad thing. It IS a bad thing. Would you show them video's like this one, to make them see they need help? By now it's clear that "being gentile" on the subject does NOT work. As long as this disease exists, I will fight it and call anyone out that isn't fighting with me. This really is one of the rare cases where you're either fighting it or you're enabling it. There is no middle way! NOT fighting it is the same as enabling. And that needs to stop.
@angeldelvax7219
@angeldelvax7219 2 жыл бұрын
apparently the user left... and took their comment with them. No matter, most of my reaction to it is perfectly readable without the comment I replied to. And I stand by what I say.
@tnf136
@tnf136 2 жыл бұрын
Treated how? What risk do we pose, what expertise do you have?
@angeldelvax7219
@angeldelvax7219 2 жыл бұрын
@@tnf136 My expertise is that I'm one of the victims, and I have known quite a few other victims. If you really believe this isn't a risk, then you're one of the people that needs to be removed from the public ASAP Treated how? Finding the source of the disease and removing the link. Similar to PTSD. And yes, that works in some cases. Training to show the devastating pain you cause, and to teach you how to suppress any symptoms of your affliction. If treatment doesn't work? KEEP THEM AWAY FROM THE PUBLIC. Both physically and digitally. I LIVE the pain every single day, even after almost 40 years. There is NO EXCUSE to NOT treat this as a SEVERE PUBLIC DANGER.
@rainestar82
@rainestar82 2 жыл бұрын
"it exists therefore its valid" is such a strawman. theyre literally using arguments coming from people who harm no one and want to be accepted, twisting them, and then turning them on those people to infiltrate. Its insidious.
@simplybet8104
@simplybet8104 2 жыл бұрын
S3x Ed isn't just teaching about the act of s3x, it also includes teaching kids the names of their reproductive organs, and about puberty, and about consent, and teaching young kids about that actually helps protect them from abuse. Making lgbt+ kids feel welcome also helps protect them from abuse, because abusers target isolated people.
@smason9157
@smason9157 2 жыл бұрын
Using gender includive language in those kind of classes could help a lot as well, since i can recall my first class on that stuff was when i was pretty young and they really just explained what puberty was gonna be like ext, and using gender inclusive language could be really helpful
@j.c.2240
@j.c.2240 2 жыл бұрын
I would add that healthy relationships should also be taught. Also, what asexual is. I was 22 when I realized I was aspec.
@cassettetape7643
@cassettetape7643 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, I have & will always be an advocate for teaching kids sex-ed from a young age. My mother started teaching me the basics when I was 4 years old. As a result I have been able to advocate for myself most of my life & understand what inappropriate behavior looks like. I'll agree that most kids don't need to understand the details of all things sex related until around puberty @ the earliest, but keeping kids in the dark is not protecting them, it just makes them more vulnerable to predators.
@Nakia11798
@Nakia11798 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely. Sex Ed can prevent SA.
@fairypotater7476
@fairypotater7476 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for saying this! I actually did an essay on this for my English class. This subject isn't touched upon in a positive perspective very often.
@legok6037
@legok6037 2 жыл бұрын
The only thing we should normalize about pedophiles is them getting help. Period.
@chronicallyclaire2279
@chronicallyclaire2279 2 жыл бұрын
I've been looking for a comment like this.
@smiler2309
@smiler2309 2 жыл бұрын
Or shooting them.
@kaiyodei
@kaiyodei 2 жыл бұрын
@@chronicallyclaire2279 you can't over come this! their brains are actually "wired different"
@whatisthis1958
@whatisthis1958 2 жыл бұрын
@@kaiyodei You actually can. It can't be cured, but it can be controlled, like other mental health conditions. Cognitive behavioural therapy, CBT, using the RNR model, has been proven to prevent reoffending and even prevent p3dophiles from offending at all. It prevents CSA. By a pretty significant amount. There's also chemical treatments to prevent s3xual desire. Please do some research into the studies surrounding this area, because it can prevent CSA, which I think is something we all want to achieve. More research is needed and results are mixed depending on a bunch of different factors, but treatment focusing on prevention seems to be the right direction. This research is extremely important to me personally, being a survivor of CSA myself. Rehabilitative measures in general are proven to reduce reoffending in many different types of criminals, including child s3x offenders. Preventative measures are too, and while I haven't read studies on this particular point, I assume reducing stigma in mental healthcare is also useful in prevention as it helps those struggling with those thoughts into therapy easier. However, this is only p3dophiles. The majority of child s3xual offenders are not true p3dophiles. Only 20-30% are, depending on the study you're looking at, and though this is based heavily on self report, it lines up with the research that has been done on adult on adult offenders so isn't out of the possibility. If this is the case, we need research into the other reasons someone may offend and how to prevent that.
@viy2959
@viy2959 2 жыл бұрын
It’s really hard for people to be able to do that and it’s really sad. There are so few recourses for people who have never abused a child and want help. And normalizing the idea that they should be able to get help actually is genuinely important.
@ave_r_ie
@ave_r_ie 2 жыл бұрын
Two types of people that will NEVER be LGBTQ+ are MAPs and zoos. Children and animals CAN NOT CONSENT. Part of me wishes the law in my state would change because the AOC here is 16 which some adult men genuinely used as an excuse to try to flirt with me when I was a young cosplayer at cons😕
@bubbles_plays
@bubbles_plays 2 жыл бұрын
yeah it’s horrible, I too wish the laws were different and not so disgusting.
@Nakia11798
@Nakia11798 2 жыл бұрын
The rules of being LGBTA are Safe, Sane, Consensual. If they can't consent, the identity is not acceptable.
@jellycosplays3377
@jellycosplays3377 2 жыл бұрын
That's when you act like you're from a country or state where the age of consent is 21+ And then scream at them for being weird 🤩👍🏻
@artemis754
@artemis754 2 жыл бұрын
@@Nakia11798 isnt that BDSM??? 🤣
@nessyness5447
@nessyness5447 2 жыл бұрын
@@artemis754 well, it does apply to any healthy sexual relationship.
@jazmynhodges5353
@jazmynhodges5353 2 жыл бұрын
As an ace i hate the fact that they said “acemaps”, I don’t claim and that’s an insult to me. As if being ace and wanting to date a minor makes it okay. It doesn’t make it okay.
@nessyness5447
@nessyness5447 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, like wtf, trying to claim asexuality to make their sick attraction look more " pure " is just plain wrong, we do not admit them in the acespec , they don't get cake. The mental gymnastic those pedos do...
@FieldOfHats3
@FieldOfHats3 2 жыл бұрын
Based
@worm5010
@worm5010 2 жыл бұрын
@Alyssa It's not because they're ace, it's because they're MAPs. Asexuality IS a spectrum, you've got that right, but attraction to an age group ISN'T a romantic preference, it's a fetish at best. DO NOT compare biromantic/homoromantic/heteroromantic/ ect ace people to such a thing. “acemaps” aren't a problem because they're ace, they're a problem because they're MAPs, and MAPs don't belong in the LGBTQ+ community, they belong in therapy. You're clearly a MAP/a MAP ally though, and I have no desire to argue with someone like that, so I won't. Just know: as long as people with any sort of moral compass are in charge, MAPs (sexual or romantic) will never have a place in this community.
@Luna.0o
@Luna.0o 2 жыл бұрын
@Alyssa MAPs have no place in the LGBT period, being a MAP is not an identity, and we want nothing to do with them and if you knew some history about the LGBT then you would know why we are so against them. that being said I think a lot of us are ok with MAPs who haven't abused children and are actively seeking help.
@marysia7904
@marysia7904 2 жыл бұрын
I actually really like the idea of "MAPs" having a safe space online and being open. Just make sure to send a list to the police after.
@fredithegeroo906
@fredithegeroo906 2 жыл бұрын
You had me at the first half.
@lunad2595
@lunad2595 2 жыл бұрын
@@fredithegeroo906 sameeee
@smason9157
@smason9157 2 жыл бұрын
Lmao yeah basically have a comunity that just sends the profiles straight to the police so they can be put on a list of pedos, ya know the whole force em to go around the neighbourhood and tell warn their neighbours they are a degenerate "map"
@booboobunny5655
@booboobunny5655 2 жыл бұрын
Good thinking, that will make it easier to catch them.
@edorasmarauder5761
@edorasmarauder5761 2 жыл бұрын
That'll make hunting them down easier.
@BeautyMonster1000
@BeautyMonster1000 2 жыл бұрын
As soon as I found out about this whole MAP's thing, I let loose on Twitter about how people within the LGBTQ+ community are NEVER going to let them slither their way into OUR community. I take it very seriously and I too am offended by the fact that they're even trying that AND that there's actually people supporting THEM rather than us. We have enough to deal with and worry about as it is. As a proud bisexual woman, I will NOT stand for it. I just won't. The same goes for the "Don't Say Gay Bill", people saying that we want to teach third graders sex ed. People brought that up because they want US to look like MAP's which is disgusting and wrong on so many levels. There's already lots of people who have been saying that all of us are MAP's for YEARS, we don't need any more of that. People are spending all of their energy attacking us when they SHOULD be attacking the REAL MAP's.
@bellademantes5326
@bellademantes5326 2 жыл бұрын
also, as with the "Don't Say Gay Bill," other bills being passed throughout the country regarding the Critical Race Theory (specifically the banning of it within schools) will deeply infringe on LGBTQIA students privacy and safety. for example, in my state, if a student comes out to a counselor at school, the parents must be notified, even if this may potentially be a harmful situation for the student, due to these new bills.
@ocinidolegna
@ocinidolegna 2 жыл бұрын
agree with everything you said. it’s beyond gross
@nessyness5447
@nessyness5447 2 жыл бұрын
We shouldn't even use the term MAP, they are pedophiles.
@nessyness5447
@nessyness5447 2 жыл бұрын
@Todd Mother you do realize that in some cases, notifying the parents their kid has come out as gay, or trans , etc, can get that kid beaten or even killed.
@kaiyodei
@kaiyodei 2 жыл бұрын
unless they lie about the age. you do know some of those Twitter MAPs are/were at the time minors themself. but nothing like telling a 14 year old hot for 6 year olds "KYS"
@rainestar82
@rainestar82 2 жыл бұрын
as an ace woman, knowing that theyre also trying to claim its similar or even a FORM of asexuality, while aces ALREADY are invalidated and erased WITHIN the lgbt community...it genuinely makes me feel sick and makes my skin crawl. I'm asexual, I'm lgbt. These ppl are not. They're ABUSERS, plain and simple and their attempts to erase the harm they do shows just how INTENTIONAL that abuse is. They only care about themselves, not for ANYONE ELSE that may be harmed the fact that I may never be believed and accepted for who I am, the fact that all I want is to not be called a freak or broken...and these people are using my identity to worm their way in...its a whole other level of disgusting on top of whats already horrific. Cant even put it into words properly.
@BewilderedCitrus
@BewilderedCitrus 2 жыл бұрын
I totally relate to this. I'm also ace, and the thought of being associated with these degenerate abusers absolutely sickens me. 🤢🤢🤮🤮
@odettemargal
@odettemargal 2 жыл бұрын
Yes exactly !! It absolutely infuriates me how they're trying to use our identities to justify their ABUSE I'm Demisexual and i can confirm that growing up while being on the asexual spectrum had me constantly feeling like there was something wrong with me, thinking that i was sick/broken. And I hate that now they are trying to take my experiences as a means to normalize their degenerate behavior 😡😡
@Nakia11798
@Nakia11798 2 жыл бұрын
It's dumb bc it's a sexual attraction... which is the opposite of what asexuality is!
@jessicaeskebk5945
@jessicaeskebk5945 2 жыл бұрын
Asexuality is absolutely valid!! People who say it’s not are not valid, lol.
@esmee6308
@esmee6308 2 жыл бұрын
What the hell? If it was asexuality there wouldn't be a problem. I don't even care if being ace means I'm not part of the LGBTQ+ community, I'll happily just be an ally, but attraction to a minor is a scary thing. Feeling an attraction that can never be met, feels like a good reason to go into therapy asap.
@loganmiller6603
@loganmiller6603 2 жыл бұрын
Attraction to children/teens is a paraphilia, not a sexuality. These people need lifelong professional help, not support and inclusion.
@niklasmolen4753
@niklasmolen4753 2 жыл бұрын
It is incurable.
@strawberryfox8819
@strawberryfox8819 2 жыл бұрын
@@niklasmolen4753 Yes, but it's manageable with proper help. At the very least, it'll ensure that they can still be part of society without being a danger to children.
@strawberryfox8819
@strawberryfox8819 2 жыл бұрын
@@kaiyodei It seperates itself from the fact that it can never be acted on without hurting the subject of attraction. Same goes for Zoophilia. And don't quote me on this, but I think they're scientific research that shows that those philias are mental disorders. But yes, at least from a socially defined standpoint, paraphilia isn't an orientation because once you act on it, you always hurt a minor. Attraction to objects at the very least isn't dangerous to anyone but yourself, as most of the time the person attracted to objects has developed that attraction as a coping mechanisn for unresolved trauma.
@SeanStrife
@SeanStrife 2 жыл бұрын
@@strawberryfox8819 And frankly, that's the most important thing in all of this.
@petergraywolf6671
@petergraywolf6671 2 жыл бұрын
i am not MAP nor MAP supporter, just someone very interested in the topic and let me tell you, they need support and inclusion. By that i dont mean to allow them to mess with children... but i mean deeper understanding of the issue. We dont blame homosexuals for being born that way, right ? We dont blame people who have PTSD for having it, right ? Therefore why the hell should we blame people for being this way ? What i am saying, is that i am condoning the actions (if they do something wrong to the children) not theem as people specially when they didnt choosed it. You might be surprised but most pedos never harmed a child neither they wish to in the future. Therefore how can they be evil by default ? They didnt choosed this and they didnt acted upon it.
@anenbylittlepotato9737
@anenbylittlepotato9737 2 жыл бұрын
I've always known MAPs to be "multi-artist projects" 😭 now they've ruined that
@artemis754
@artemis754 2 жыл бұрын
they did ruin that
@artemisameretsu6905
@artemisameretsu6905 2 жыл бұрын
Yeeeeah I remember those days, the pedo maps coming out was real confusing for a bit
@FieldOfHats3
@FieldOfHats3 2 жыл бұрын
Just like dreams³xuals stealing the actual dreams³xual, originally a form of ace that only feels tendencies in their dreams. Goshdarnit, stop stealing already existing terms!
@artemis754
@artemis754 2 жыл бұрын
@@FieldOfHats3 very true
@junhjhnhb
@junhjhnhb 2 жыл бұрын
same
@autisticsapphic8991
@autisticsapphic8991 2 жыл бұрын
“ace maps” do not deserve support. having romantic relations with children is still disgusting.
@Nakia11798
@Nakia11798 2 жыл бұрын
That's some bs. There aren't any "ace maps".
@PikminandOatchi
@PikminandOatchi 2 жыл бұрын
No such thing.
@Lorenita02
@Lorenita02 2 жыл бұрын
@@Nakia11798 I'm quite sure there are though. And the problem isn't that it's disgusting but that it is harmful, therefore just as wrong.
@jamesfv1
@jamesfv1 2 жыл бұрын
You can’t be romantic with a child.
@SeanStrife
@SeanStrife 2 жыл бұрын
@Alyssa Yeah, most of the MAP activists I've seen have SAID those things... and then they turned out to be absolutely full of shit because it comes out they've molested children. I think it's perfectly justified for people to encourage pedophiles to get help... but that's where the support begins and ends.
@skye6406
@skye6406 2 жыл бұрын
This makes me really sad because in the past being gay was associated with being attracted to minors and we seemingly moved past that, but this whole situation is bringing it back and it's awful
@socialside5332
@socialside5332 2 жыл бұрын
It was associated with that because alot of gay communities where involved In pedo communities. Not to mention how many lied they were gay but were actually pedo
@valenmoshi
@valenmoshi 2 жыл бұрын
I'm sad to. I'm Ace and makes me angry see how theres MAP people saying that is Ace too...
@sarahwithanh4272
@sarahwithanh4272 2 жыл бұрын
@@valenmoshi Especially when the ace/aero/demi communities are already underrepresented and misunderstood. I can’t speak for anyone else, but I had to learn about these things myself- no one seems to talk about it enough (again, in my experience at least). People trying to validate being a “MAP” by using a label that is already misunderstood by many is horrible.
@skylarmercykilled1986
@skylarmercykilled1986 2 жыл бұрын
It is awful
@teodorasavoiu4664
@teodorasavoiu4664 11 ай бұрын
This fringe lobbying for "MAP" has unfortunately been happening since the 60s. Look up nambla, allen ginsberg etc. Or don't, it's depressing. We never got past the harmful stereotypes of "predatory gays", and what's worse is that one of the first researchers to write about homosexuality - alfred kinsey - was pretty shady as well. There's always been predatory people trying to sneak their way into our communities by way of insincere advocacy, cultural influence and other methods. Unfortunately, I feel like this topic isn't discussed enough in LGBTQAI+ communities and there's not a strong enough push back against these creeps, mostly bc to be fair most queer people are living difficult and precarious lives already and our resources are limited.
@C-SD
@C-SD 2 жыл бұрын
Also NOP- "non offending p3do" What also scares the hell out of me is that there are minor allies. 🙁 An age group is not a gender/sexuality. This infuriates me. I can understand having a mental illness, admitting it, and trying to get support to treat said mental illness, but it is not a sexuality. Its just not. As a person that was abused at 3 I have no sympathy for anyone trying to act in those urges at all. As the granddaughter of holocaust victims/survivors, I'm with you on how frustrating it is that people throw that word around.
@iniminimoshimo
@iniminimoshimo 2 жыл бұрын
I highly suspect that the 'allies' are either p3dos in disguise, or trolls. I don't think anybody in their right mind would ever support this
@Willow._.tree.
@Willow._.tree. 2 жыл бұрын
@@iniminimoshimo except children who are being groomed, who think that it’s not problematic
@iniminimoshimo
@iniminimoshimo 2 жыл бұрын
@@Willow._.tree. oof.. good point
@Willow._.tree.
@Willow._.tree. 2 жыл бұрын
@@iniminimoshimo yea which is really sad. They really think they are in love. I STG I want to send every pedo to jail
@fredithegeroo906
@fredithegeroo906 2 жыл бұрын
@@Willow._.tree. and that frightens me! I plan to adopt children and be a dad... these people terrify me
@RatsPicklesandMusic
@RatsPicklesandMusic 2 жыл бұрын
Words with negative stigma that shouldn't have them: gay, Autistic, bi, Black, etc. Words with negative stigma that needs to keep it: pedophile, murderer, thief, etc.
@meluvfriends
@meluvfriends 2 жыл бұрын
I feel like consent is a huge aspect of the LGBTQ+ community. And since children cannot consent to literally ANYTHING, you arent welcome.
@kaiyodei
@kaiyodei 2 жыл бұрын
14 year olds are underage, in some countries a 16 year old is a child rapist if they have sex with that little kid
@midnightxcarousel
@midnightxcarousel 2 жыл бұрын
Pedophiles shouldnt even be given an lgbtq label because using map makes it sound less bad than the word pedophile
@TheRealBellatrixLestrange
@TheRealBellatrixLestrange 2 жыл бұрын
They want to take stigma away from the name, but taking stigma away from the name takes away stigma from the action.
@rainestar82
@rainestar82 2 жыл бұрын
whats crazy to me is, the word map still effectively MEANS the same thing. anyone with a brain can read what it stands for and know its the same. by changing the name, theyre trying to play off those who dont think deeply or would be fooled into accepting them without understanding. by changing the name, they are literally acting in the same predatory manner they claim they dont act on! its so twisted
@TheRealBellatrixLestrange
@TheRealBellatrixLestrange 2 жыл бұрын
@@rainestar82 I just want to say a few things 1. Some "MAPs" are pro-contact, AKA openly think acting on it is fine. 2. The want to just get rid of the stigma and connotation. 3. I've heard the argument that the name change is partly because when people hear the word p3dophile they automatically think s*x offender. I think it's a stupid argument, I'm just trying to explain what they say and or think, so don't think that I'm trying to defend it in any way. 4. Some people hear it as just "MAP" and just go "ok" bc they don't care enough to ask of look up what it means.
@TheRealBellatrixLestrange
@TheRealBellatrixLestrange 2 жыл бұрын
@Alyssa the stigma is good. If you get rid of the stigma, it doesn't seem like such a horrible awful thing. Do you want people to want to r*ape kids, and then think that is ok? Do you want people to not be so appalled when someone r*pes a kid?
@Myke_thehuman
@Myke_thehuman 2 жыл бұрын
@Alyssa cool have fun being reported for promoting pedophilia.
@myquirkisfred9614
@myquirkisfred9614 2 жыл бұрын
“Maps” aren’t the oppressed. *They’re the oppressors.*
@petergraywolf6671
@petergraywolf6671 2 жыл бұрын
many of them are opressed, since many of them never did anything bad nor intended to do anything bad and yet they are being seen as worse than serial killers. Like WTF people which NEVER HURTED ANYONE ARE AUTOMATICALLY BEING SEEN AS WORSE THAN SERIAL KILLERS. Not only cure or proper treatment doesnt exist, it wont ever if it will always be stigmatized. But i get it empathy isnt cool nowadays, and we are dictated with whom we should empathize and with whom not.
@teodorasavoiu4664
@teodorasavoiu4664 11 ай бұрын
​@@petergraywolf6671fuck off, harming children or fantasizing about harming children is not a sign of being oppressed. These people need therapy not political acceptance
@thelittlestpika
@thelittlestpika 2 жыл бұрын
Here for Jessie and the cause. The whole subject of MAPs thinking they're LGBTQ+ makes me gag though.
@TheRealBellatrixLestrange
@TheRealBellatrixLestrange 2 жыл бұрын
Them thinking they are ok and fine as a "MAP" (especially "pro contact MAPs") is so terrifying and sickening.
@perelandrawaddle
@perelandrawaddle 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad I got to grow up in Canada where we had sex education in grade 5, grade 8, and grade 10 which not only included talk some talk about queer sex, but also talked about incredibly vital things like how to give and receive consent and signs to show if you are in an abusive relationship. The only thing I disliked about it was that they separated "girls" and "boys" in highschool and the girls were given skills of how to escape sexual assault while the boys basically learned nothing? I feel like if the boys were also there and got to see how we were being thought these things it would help them realize how serious sexual assault is and help them learn how to support their female and queer classmates. Not even to mention the trans girls who missed out on incredibly vital information.
@kaiyodei
@kaiyodei 2 жыл бұрын
be glad they changed their AOC to 16 from 14
@kaiyodei
@kaiyodei 2 жыл бұрын
@Michael punished for getting off at a childbirth video? sounds like kinkshaming. and the time to discuss paraphalias.
@Blablabla44475
@Blablabla44475 10 ай бұрын
Where in Canada and what time did you grow up? I never had any trans kids at my school, we never learned about weird stuff like that in school. We learned about pedos and kidnappers and sex, but we didn’t learn anything about gay sex in school. Ever. And that’s the way it should be. I graduated in 2007 in Saskatchewan. I’m so glad I wasn’t subjected to this lgtdbv nonsense
@cluckerchick9425
@cluckerchick9425 6 ай бұрын
That's great, good thing SOME COUNTRIES *side eyes America* are actually educating their kids on important topics.
@JulietteVeronica1201
@JulietteVeronica1201 2 жыл бұрын
The correct translation of "man shall not lie with man" was actually "man shall not lie with boy." We should probably use the correct translation against these guys🤣.
@lonely_saturn
@lonely_saturn 2 жыл бұрын
@Todd Mother Because it is. People misuse it against gay people when its about p3d0philia, not homosexuality.
@idkmynametbh416
@idkmynametbh416 2 жыл бұрын
Now that I think about it? That makes sense. God hates pedos, everyone
@FieldOfHats3
@FieldOfHats3 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@skylarmercykilled1986
@skylarmercykilled1986 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah the bible is against pedophilia and not homosexuality.
@isabella.pl_00
@isabella.pl_00 2 жыл бұрын
That will never happens, but it is still scared me. There are so many organizations working with politics and WHO to make all the rulles for LGBT+ community
@tnf136
@tnf136 2 жыл бұрын
We don't even want it to happen.
@jessiepaege
@jessiepaege 2 жыл бұрын
what scares me is that it’s being used against us in the court of law, conservatives are running with it to show people why we “need” the Don’t Say Gay Bill
@bellademantes5326
@bellademantes5326 2 жыл бұрын
@@jessiepaege although I'm sure there are an actual group of disgusting people that believe they are validated through this fake community they are creating within the LGBTQIA+ community, i definitely think, as with all things, it is heavily politicized. as in, certain political groups saw this "community" and twisted it to give an even stronger negative stigma to the gay community and pass legislation they want to be passed without regard to the repercussions this will have as a whole on the actual communities within the LGBTQIA community.
@TheRealBellatrixLestrange
@TheRealBellatrixLestrange 2 жыл бұрын
The "MAP allies" scare me. Essentially underaged ones.
@oldsoldier4209
@oldsoldier4209 2 жыл бұрын
@@jessiepaege Honestly, I wouldn’t be surprised if certain political figures are secretly backing some of the promoters of this horrible group, with exactly the intention of linking it to the community. It will give them much more ammunition to push their agenda against everyone else, if they can convince the general public that the connection exists. I’ve said for decades that the biggest drawback to our political system is that it’s run by politicians. 😢
@bellademantes5326
@bellademantes5326 2 жыл бұрын
this actually is disgusting... and i feel as though this horrible group of people are trying to bring an even more negative connotation to the LGBTQIA+ community and surrounding identities. this reminds me of the super straight bs but on an entirely different level
@infinitivez
@infinitivez 2 жыл бұрын
What's sickening is it's been going on for years in small doses across the US. I first heard of MAPS back in high school, had no idea what it was, and some pretty disturbing events happened to me and my boyfriend at the time. He had us convinced it was something acceptable and wasn't until a couple years later we learned what the laws surrounding age of consent ACTAULLY were. (this was before the dawn of the internet and google) Every year around pride they make another attempt at inserting themselves. Ours found us at our local gay support group, claiming to just be another gay adult looking out for the younger crowd. At pride that year, he tried to rally a bunch of other "MAPS" into a group to get a parade float. The gig was up, and everyone involved got shunned out of the community. We had no clue what was going on, tried to defend him and got schooled. Had this sort of thing been something they teach in schools, it could have been avoided! And now they're talking about removing any mention of gay or trans from schools. They're literally trying to enable these pedophiles. uhg. sorry. didn't mean to go off. But I had to spit this out.
@edorasmarauder5761
@edorasmarauder5761 2 жыл бұрын
Say it with me now: PARAPHALIAS AREN'T SEXUALITIES! I live in Florida, and I'm just grateful I don't have to shovel 6 feet of snow from the driveway, also the Everglades, there's no place like it.
@kaiyodei
@kaiyodei 2 жыл бұрын
why can't they be? as a "fictosexual" why can't my hubbahubbas be valid? I don't choose or "perfer" animated or videogame men
@edorasmarauder5761
@edorasmarauder5761 2 жыл бұрын
@@kaiyodei I think you just answered your own question.
@SheboShack
@SheboShack 2 жыл бұрын
PARAPHALIAS AREN'T SEXUALITIES
@skylarmercykilled1986
@skylarmercykilled1986 2 жыл бұрын
@@kaiyodei Everyone has fictional crushes, I do, which is okay. My fictional (and celeb) crushes aren't minors/played by minors. I mean some fictional crushes are teenagers though, but played by adults, like Alicia Clark for example, although I was a minor myself when the first season happened.
@aliciafree4246
@aliciafree4246 2 жыл бұрын
I feel like this is the equivalent of saying that serial killers are acceptable. Both are horrendous crimes and it's unacceptable
@AstralArbourSystem
@AstralArbourSystem 2 жыл бұрын
@Todd Mother Children understand trans and gay people just fine if you explain it. What's wrong with them knowing we exist? Are you worried it'll influence them? I was only ever around straight people, and I'm still bi.
@chickennuggetpaw
@chickennuggetpaw 2 жыл бұрын
While this is far from the biggest problem among the issue with “minor attracted people”, I don’t like how they stole the acronym MAP. What MAP *should* mean is Multi Animator Project, an arguably MUCH more wholesome and fun thing than what the other version of the acronym means.
@kaiyodei
@kaiyodei 2 жыл бұрын
when did the term kick off?
@chickennuggetpaw
@chickennuggetpaw 2 жыл бұрын
@@kaiyodei Multi animator project? I honestly don’t even know. Could have been when I was still pretty young, considering how old the animation community is here on KZbin. I’d be willing to bet MAP meaning multi animator project came into fruition far before the creeps started using it
@kaiyodei
@kaiyodei 2 жыл бұрын
@@chickennuggetpaw i forget what b4uact said. but word on the street they used to a few years before the animation community, and not "the animation community was using it for 12 years before they did"
@aceofhearts294
@aceofhearts294 2 жыл бұрын
As a Lgbtq+ minor this actually scares me, I don't want any of these people near me!
@FieldOfHats3
@FieldOfHats3 2 жыл бұрын
As an ace minor, my response to them is: "no. No. NO. Get the heck away from me. "
@Zarmdthecoolest
@Zarmdthecoolest 2 жыл бұрын
MOOD TO THE MAX
@TeacupToaster
@TeacupToaster 2 жыл бұрын
It's actually horrifying, they need lifelong help not normalisation and certainly not to be included in the LGBTQ+ community, I understand most of them were victims of p3dos themselves and that's why they need help and not enabling this behaviour
@actualgoblin
@actualgoblin 2 жыл бұрын
@Todd Mother the bill doesn't protect children. it is worthless. i'm speaking from the perspective of someone who has been groomed and assaulted. worst case scenario, people are worried that LGBT people will be unfairly targeted by the bill because of the negative stereotypes associated with them (because LGBT topics are hypersexualized compared to their cis/straight equivalents, they're much more likely to be censored, or considered "unsuitable for children". Not only that, lazy politicians are always looking for a vulnerable scapegoat to pin broader societal issues onto (in this case, non-paraphilic sexual minorities, and pedophilia)
@SM-so8hh
@SM-so8hh 2 жыл бұрын
@🍒Fruity_lolipop🍬 Having a non-offending paedophile around is like having a severely dangerous and aggressive animal around that constantly tries to bite. Yes, the animal may have been mistreated, its not it's fault, but putting it to sleep is the only way to ensure it doesn't attack anyone. You can't just leash the animal and hope for the best.
@kaiyodei
@kaiyodei 2 жыл бұрын
@@SM-so8hh i feel the same way why I don't want to date someone with all 3 Cluster B personality disorders. too dangerous
@Emily-oy2nq
@Emily-oy2nq 2 жыл бұрын
@@SM-so8hh That actually isnt true, I've worked through aggressive dogs before putting it to sleep isnt the only way to help them, but I do agree with everything else your comment says
@madisonvest7741
@madisonvest7741 2 жыл бұрын
If they say they wanna be in our community people are gonna think we support it. I DONT WANNA BE ASSOCIATED WITH THAT
@kawaiic418
@kawaiic418 2 жыл бұрын
What makes me sad is this term started for people who were in therapy trying to get help for a problem they had. They had small communities that no one really knew of so they could support each other with their issues. Then someone foolishly made a pride flag, and it blew up. The original map flag creator has since left their OG blog and said it was a "joke," but clearly the damage has been done. Now what was once a safe term for people who were trying to work on a part of themselves they felt shame towards has somehow become a term they think is worthy of praise and equality instead of being a mental health issue that needs to be worked on. What really worries me is I've seen minors themselves using the term unironically which seems dangerous because they're just going to attract adults who also use the terminology. They don't realize that they're basically using a doorway term for a very dangerous and scary world. I hope minors find safe spaces, and those who identify as a map can get the help they need.
@AstralArbourSystem
@AstralArbourSystem 2 жыл бұрын
As a minor who's had intrusive thoughts about younger kids, I have to agree. I've gotten over all that, but many people don't, and man does it suck. Don't get me wrong, if you harm a child you're not even worthy of being called a person, but I will always have sympathy for people like me who feel disgusted by themselves, and I wish them all good luck in getting better. That said, I don't think there should be a term or a community for it, because actual pedos will always try to be accepted. Just like you said happened.
@kawaiic418
@kawaiic418 2 жыл бұрын
@@AstralArbourSystem Not to invade your privacy but do you know if you have adhd, ocd or something that ocd could be a part of? If you do you should talk to a professional about Pure-O ocd. It's a very specific type of ocd that tends to make you have intrusive sexual, religious, or violent thoughts. It can get pretty scary for people who don't realize they have it, because the thoughts can get quite loud and terrifying. I want you to know that there's no shame in your thoughts. People have intrusive thoughts all the time. They're not who you really are. As long as you recognize that you're doing great!
@cassidybeharry694
@cassidybeharry694 2 жыл бұрын
If anyone wants to join in my mission to report all the creepy comments advocating for p3dophiles for child abuse that would be amazing. Just trying to do my part
@luna-moon-n
@luna-moon-n 2 жыл бұрын
Yes will do!
@cassidybeharry694
@cassidybeharry694 2 жыл бұрын
Update you can also report comments in the live chat
@jessiepaege
@jessiepaege 2 жыл бұрын
I’ll do my best too, I can’t believe this many follow me
@oldsoldier4209
@oldsoldier4209 2 жыл бұрын
It’s a good place to start. If we can limit their access to public forums, they’ll be much less effective in their own mission, and as a tool for hate mongers to use against other groups. 🤠👍
@GardenfRedRoses777
@GardenfRedRoses777 2 жыл бұрын
Here's a head start: There's a person who goes by the username "NFT 13" who is replying to comments, defending MAPs. They've also exposed themselves as a MAP in several comments, so, be on the lookout.
@rohityesthatsme
@rohityesthatsme 2 жыл бұрын
“Jessie Paege is a bisexual fairy and this makeup PROVES IT”
@toddsaskatchewan
@toddsaskatchewan 2 жыл бұрын
I think of it as a mental illness. As someone with depression and anxiety, that can also feel weird, but at least the word illness implies a need for treatment.
@axelling_atk
@axelling_atk 2 жыл бұрын
@Todd Mother why prison for having an attraction though? The people who can control themselves don’t deserve to go to prison
@alfie3.14
@alfie3.14 2 жыл бұрын
@@bubbles_plays Hey, i understand the sentiment but I don't think it's okay to wish something like that upon a person. Even if they're horrible.
@bubbles_plays
@bubbles_plays 2 жыл бұрын
@@alfie3.14 If a pedo is in prison it’s clear why they are there. So I think they would very much deserve it. Everyone thinks differently but imo wishing the worst for the worst isn’t bad.
@kaiyodei
@kaiyodei 2 жыл бұрын
@Todd Mother so when we find under 18 year old MAPs we throw them in jail before they can offend? because you know they will. like how a ____ is always going to be violent
@rinstrwberry
@rinstrwberry 10 ай бұрын
they're not fucking victims
@Jackieyeet1
@Jackieyeet1 2 жыл бұрын
I think the LGBTQ+ community should be taught to younger children because I grew up not knowing about the community, and didn't think it was okay when I first found out I was bi.
@mc98smusicmoviereviews93
@mc98smusicmoviereviews93 2 жыл бұрын
4th and 5th grade, maybe.... no younger.....
@eyebagsandhandbags6493
@eyebagsandhandbags6493 2 жыл бұрын
I’d say 5th grade is perfectly appropriate and maybe just simple representation during books in elementary not bringing much up besides showing families of different make ups. I’m lesbian btw! I knew since I was legit 6 years old but didn’t feel confused or shame until I was older
@squirrel6536
@squirrel6536 2 жыл бұрын
As a member of the Rainbow Club. I am so, so offended by p3d0s trying to co-opt the community. This is so... so disgusting. 😬 & then the don't say gay bill just ... smh. All these bills popping up that are anti lgbt & anti trans just hurt my heart so much. I *knew* that I was genderfluid (didn't have the word for it then but the feeling & tbh having a word would've made it so much easier on me) by the time I was like 11. And then... I kinda just... suppressed it for years... it would be great if people could just exist as who they are and not be treated like we're disgusting. 😔 Also, on a totally separate topic ~ I found your music like a month ago and I haven't been able to stop listening to it. Coming Out has definitely been my most repeated song considering I've been slowly coming out offline as genderfluid for the last... two months. One of my coworkers said "my ladies & theydies" tonight & I about cried 😅😅😅 maybe it's been a bit nerve-wracking. Can't wait to hear the new song!
@gabe_itch24
@gabe_itch24 2 жыл бұрын
Congrats 🥳🥳🥳 As someone figuring out their gender/ currently identifying as genderqueer, I’m glad you found you and that you feel comfortable enough to come out
@idkmynametbh416
@idkmynametbh416 2 жыл бұрын
I absolutely agree. Congratulations on discovering yourself!
@FieldOfHats3
@FieldOfHats3 2 жыл бұрын
As genderflux demi-boy, I totally agree with everything you said
@ocinidolegna
@ocinidolegna 2 жыл бұрын
ik it’s important to keep up to date and be informed about this shit but it really gets under my skin and makes me wanna cry to think some adult could ever possibly be attracted to my cousins. and it’s even worse that many folks can get away with their behaviors to kids, cause child brides are very real in a lot of places still. just sick… seek help and stay away from kids fr
@actualgoblin
@actualgoblin 2 жыл бұрын
@Todd Mother outlaw child marriage
@strawberryfox8819
@strawberryfox8819 2 жыл бұрын
@Todd Mother It ain't. Especially because it states that the school must notify the parents if their child shows signs of being lgbtqa+ or comes out at school, which puts the kid at a mental and physical risk is the family isn't accepting. Children have literally been abused and killed because of it.
@strawberryfox8819
@strawberryfox8819 2 жыл бұрын
@Todd Mother Would you care to link said data? Or name the source (cause KZbin dislikes links)? Also, we're at a point in science where we as humans have realized that yes, homosexuals and transgender individuals are born that way. That is further supported by the facts that homosexuality plays a vital part in the existence and continuation of any social species, whilst transgenderism is determined in the womb. However, none of that relates to the fact that people will and have abused and killed their children because they're gay or trans. Obligating schools to report something like that to the parents, especially without talking to the child first, is putting the child in danger.
@skylarmercykilled1986
@skylarmercykilled1986 2 жыл бұрын
@Todd Mother Good LGBTQ+ (not MAP, cause that is not a part of the community) education would actually be good for children. They will learn to be more accepting and open minded, will have less trouble accepting themselves if they happen to not be cisgender or hetero. Not only accepting of LGBTQ+, but differences (legal ones) in general, like certain type of clothing. Basically, the chance that they will bully someone will go down. And this comes from someone who has studied child psychology.
@skylarmercykilled1986
@skylarmercykilled1986 2 жыл бұрын
I'm an aunt and of a MAP would approach my nephews and/or niece, I will beat the living shit out of them.
@artemisameretsu6905
@artemisameretsu6905 2 жыл бұрын
I miss the days when MAPS tried to say they were the non offending pedophiles so they were the "good ones" who just wanted help. Like I wish it had stayed that way because honestly there is chemical treatment for them, the depo shot is actually a legit treatment for sex offenders. If the dsm labeled it a mental disorder and let it be treated and covered by insurance I feel like maybe MAYBE at least some people would seek treatment
@viy2959
@viy2959 2 жыл бұрын
It really would go such a long way if we could get to a place where people can seek help before they abuse children without fear. There are so few recourses for people who haven’t ever abused a child and don’t want to. I really wish it was clinically considered a mental illness and could be treated as one as a normal course of action. It would make people so much less afraid of seeking help.
@your-girl-allison5386
@your-girl-allison5386 2 жыл бұрын
MAPs will never be in our community.
@lalas181
@lalas181 2 жыл бұрын
The only "MAPs" I'll ever accept as part of the LGBT+ community are Multiple Animator Projects that feature LGBT+ characters or artists in them. Or the kind of map that you get to navigate stuff at a Pride event. Just those.
@skylarmercykilled1986
@skylarmercykilled1986 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah same
@cascadedeclipse8240
@cascadedeclipse8240 Жыл бұрын
I agree! I remember watching Multi Animator Projects and thinking nothing of the acronym. Until I learned that it had another meaning, a more atrocious definition.
@belikereepicheep
@belikereepicheep 2 жыл бұрын
When they started requesting to be called minor attracted people I knew this was bad. It’s not an attraction it’s abuse. It has everything to do with an imbalance of power.
@kaiyodei
@kaiyodei 2 жыл бұрын
thoughts are abuse! that is why saying catgender is not valid kills people
@FieldOfHats3
@FieldOfHats3 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@skylarmercykilled1986
@skylarmercykilled1986 2 жыл бұрын
It is technically an attraction, but it is wrong, very wrong and endangers children.
@tpwk13
@tpwk13 2 жыл бұрын
As a Dutch person we accept you as one of our own Jessie😌
@An19941
@An19941 2 жыл бұрын
Hell yeah! Wholesomeness of the population increased by 100%
@untilyourbreathingstopsforever
@untilyourbreathingstopsforever 2 жыл бұрын
Same here. You'll still get homophobia but at least there's better laws here
@skylarmercykilled1986
@skylarmercykilled1986 2 жыл бұрын
I am a mix of dutch, german and spanish. Live in the Netherlands
@GardenfRedRoses777
@GardenfRedRoses777 2 жыл бұрын
MAPs have tried becoming a part of the LGBT+ community for years. They'll never be accepted in. Ever.
@TheRealBellatrixLestrange
@TheRealBellatrixLestrange 2 жыл бұрын
I hope you are right.
@TheRealBellatrixLestrange
@TheRealBellatrixLestrange 2 жыл бұрын
@Mr. M are you really comparing how some kids dress to people being cool with people being p*dos? I really don't think that's a fair comparison... although I have to agree that I wouldn't be as surprised.... and yes, protect children. That comes before the law.
@edorasmarauder5761
@edorasmarauder5761 2 жыл бұрын
@Mr. M Wtf is that comparison? Two very different things.
@King-Of-The-Demons
@King-Of-The-Demons 2 жыл бұрын
This is so upsetting, my own father, aunts and uncles had things done to them by a “map” (who also happened to be their uncle), my mother almost had things done to her by multiple “maps”, it’s horrible, it messes people up for life, these people are not welcome in the lgbt+ community.
@Frankenstein669
@Frankenstein669 2 жыл бұрын
I remember having a guy in high school who absolutely hated me. I never did anything to him, but I was queer and he genuinely believed “maps” were apart of the community. He tried to bring it up in a Socratic seminar where he was saying how he believed all gay people should die. The seminar was for our history class and wasn’t even about LGBT+ people.
@shallydoul
@shallydoul 2 жыл бұрын
that's horrible :(
@Zarmdthecoolest
@Zarmdthecoolest 2 жыл бұрын
That is terrible, but I'm lmao rn
@kelseyhaskin2503
@kelseyhaskin2503 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for speaking about this. I am physically sick thinking about this. How do they think that being a pedophile and being apart of LBGTQ+ community is remotely the same? This absolutely horrifies me and sickens me. As an elementary school teacher this bothers me to no end, as it should bother everyone. This is not acceptable.
@kaiyodei
@kaiyodei 2 жыл бұрын
"born this way" I guess
@klaizloveswoofs
@klaizloveswoofs Жыл бұрын
I just love how KZbin has warnings and blocks sh and suicide topics but not literal child abuse topics. Like. What?? That’s also a trigger too, there should also be a warning on the videos and w help line for that too. Please KZbin, I’d love to know your reasoning on this.
@CavinLee
@CavinLee 2 жыл бұрын
I love how there’s rapists who get away with it and they could careless, but once you talk about to boys kissing it’s pedophilia and they must do something about it.
@kaiyodei
@kaiyodei 2 жыл бұрын
it is pedophilia if one boy is 15 and the other 13, in some countries. or 18 and 16.
@charissbyrd8022
@charissbyrd8022 2 жыл бұрын
As a minor myself, I would feel strange dating someone even a year underneath me...
@theamazingavagrace84
@theamazingavagrace84 2 жыл бұрын
The phrase "age is just a number" originally meant "the elderly can still date". But now, these "MAPs" are twisting the phrase into something terrible. Additionally, Leviticus 20:13 has been twisted into something against gay people, when in reality, it was just a mistranslation of the Greek version of the verse. Originally, it stated, "If a man lies with a boy as one lies with a woman, he shall be put to death." Boy, not man. That verse was discouraging the very thing that "MAPs" are trying to normalize nowadays. I wish they didn't twist harmless phrases into awful things.
@Miriam-ob8tz
@Miriam-ob8tz 4 ай бұрын
So glad to see this info coming up on here, respect and totally agree 🙂
@theamazingavagrace84
@theamazingavagrace84 4 ай бұрын
@@Miriam-ob8tz Thank you for your feedback! You just helped me realize that since I made that comment, I know now that this verse was from the Greek version of the Bible, not the Hebrew version. I'll be changing that shortly after the making of this comment.
@jump_off_cliffs
@jump_off_cliffs 2 жыл бұрын
“not like the dora map… we stan that map” i’m crying 💀
@tiale1994
@tiale1994 2 жыл бұрын
As a lgbt person and one who suffered abuse in childhood, these kinds of people making up that they are part of our community doubly offends me. I wish society would at least be ashamed of itself and inform itself about us instead of being so ignorant and oppressive. Kisses from Brazil
@Jujuonthatbeat777
@Jujuonthatbeat777 Жыл бұрын
I’m a person who had experienced a “map” touching me 2 years ago (I was 10) this makes me feel so upset that these people want to be in a group like this😡😡😡.
@casually2368
@casually2368 2 жыл бұрын
Not my mom using this as an argument to say LGBTQIA+ is bad
@chonwarren9941
@chonwarren9941 2 жыл бұрын
This subject really hits me because I was molested as a child and that experience built those disgusting attractions in to me I hate that part of me I am getting therapy for it and I stay away from children as much as I can (unfortunately my job makes it impossible as I work in food so kids come to my restaurant) pedophiles don't belong anywhere except in prison if they touch a child
@Nakia11798
@Nakia11798 2 жыл бұрын
Seriously, good on you for seeking that help. You absolutely did not deserve to be put through that or to deal with the terrible thoughts that formed from the trauma.
@dontmindclownslikeme867
@dontmindclownslikeme867 2 жыл бұрын
I suspect ur a troll cause... 14:48
@cloudvomit
@cloudvomit 2 жыл бұрын
The flag thing is scary, I'm Ace and I like using my flag. I can just imagine someone confusing that with a P#do flag. that is scary!
@nessyness5447
@nessyness5447 2 жыл бұрын
As a fellow ace, it is scary. Let's hope they don't find out about the ring and try to imitate that too...
@whatis4295
@whatis4295 2 жыл бұрын
I know from personal experience in the comment section, there's people claiming that the trans flag is the p3do flag too. It's disgusting that the p3dos are trying to "legitimize" their movement by leeching off a legitimate movement like a parasite.
@florencesmermaids
@florencesmermaids 2 жыл бұрын
As a queer Dutch girl, Yes Jessie we would accept you
@astridsanimatedadventures
@astridsanimatedadventures 2 жыл бұрын
That's disgusting. Pedophilia is not a sexuality!! It's an adult having intercourse with a child who doesn't understand what sex is nor are they old enough to give consent!! It is Not two consenting adults who understand what sex is and are mature enough to handle the responsibility behind the action. They are not LGBTQ+ !!
@tnf136
@tnf136 2 жыл бұрын
Wrong. Pedophilia is a sexual attraction, not a behavior, and confusing the two is weird. Is heterosexuality the same as rape? Of course not.
@astridsanimatedadventures
@astridsanimatedadventures 2 жыл бұрын
@@tnf136 You need to go to jail. All Pedophiles should be in jail so our children can be safer.
@tnf136
@tnf136 2 жыл бұрын
@@astridsanimatedadventures Most abuse isn't perpetrated by pedophiles and it won't make children safer. If you want to keep children safe, advocate for better supports, not hate people online for likes.
@wig84
@wig84 2 жыл бұрын
@@tnf136 actually ALL sexual abuse of children is perpetrated by pedophiles or "ephebophiles", and sexual abuse is clearly what they were refering to
@tnf136
@tnf136 2 жыл бұрын
@@wig84 Wrong. It's easy to look up. They're called situational abusers.
@dannilainne385
@dannilainne385 2 жыл бұрын
Age is definitely not a sexuality and the fact that people are trying to make it seem like that is disgusting. 😬😬😬
@emiliaoutofthisworld
@emiliaoutofthisworld 2 жыл бұрын
The idea of MAPS actually existing is disgusting and terrifying at the same time, I also want to note that the 1st Amendment allows freedom of speech meaning that people who have ideas or opinions should not be scared to share them unless it harms others, congress should make no laws against others beliefs. There is a complete difference between people who r*pe children and people who love the same sex, has no one taught these people consent?!
@kaiyodei
@kaiyodei 2 жыл бұрын
one dosen't need to be raping a child to be a MAP. it is said most people who abuse children are not attracted to them. so now rape is attraction and not power
@_-laly-481-_
@_-laly-481-_ 2 жыл бұрын
I remember seeing a post once where MAPs were claiming the aroace flag as their flag. Not only that's disgusting because they don't deserve a flag (the MAPs, the aroace people do deserve their flag) but also that caused people who used this flag to get attacked by people who thought they were MAPs. I saw someone saying their sister saw someone with that flag during pride month and ripped it off, and later I discovered that might have been an aroace flag held by an innocent person and that make me sick...
@Hunter_528
@Hunter_528 2 жыл бұрын
Let me say it louder for the people in the back, THE ONLY TIME ITS OK TO BE ATTRACTED TO MINORS IS IF YOU ARE A MINOR AND ONLY IF THE PERSON IS WITHIN LIKE A YEAR OF YOUR AGE. Thanks for coming to my TedTalk
@kaiyodei
@kaiyodei 2 жыл бұрын
that is what romeo and jullete laws are for are we talking about minors as in under the age of consent or under the age of majority? you do know in some countries having sex with a 14 year old while 16 is pedophilia right? but that same country, 16 and 20 is ok
@Zarmdthecoolest
@Zarmdthecoolest 2 жыл бұрын
If there's a year difference, I'd say that it's still fine, but I absolutely agree with you.
@carterpsych
@carterpsych 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for featuring my instagram page! That was my one wish was to be in one of your videos one day! I’m so happy! *fangirling and crying*☺️❤️ Thank you for all that you do Jessie! So proud of you!🥺
@mauritsbol4806
@mauritsbol4806 Жыл бұрын
I have a flag for the map community I like a bright red hexagon, with the words “STOP” 🛑 written write in the middle, just like a traffic stop board. Or like a 🚦 where you see the red colour being lit. Or a picture of Guantanamo, or a slogan: “fbi open up” Maybe what works is just a flag where the flag reads “911”, exactly the number you should be calling
@melissadean6874
@melissadean6874 2 жыл бұрын
OMG!!! I'm absolutely in love with your sweater. I identify as A sexual and most people I come across don't know what that is and I'm 40. People always ask me why I don't date. I just don't even talk about it. You look beautiful though!!!
@stitchy5810
@stitchy5810 2 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry. 2 year olds??? That makes me so upset and angry like a 2 year old 1.can’t consent 2. Doesn’t understand relationships in the same way an adult would. And would traumatize them.
@carenxatu5962
@carenxatu5962 2 жыл бұрын
I was *so* confused when I first saw that word when I was looking up some LGBT+ stuff. I was like: “why are Music Animated Projects being included as part of the LGBT+ community???”
@mariamichelle5528
@mariamichelle5528 2 жыл бұрын
thank you for talking about this! i was r**** and groomed as a child and this topic is very important. i didn’t know why what happened was so bad until i was older. minors cannot consent!!!!!
@viis374
@viis374 2 жыл бұрын
It would be so helpful to learn about sexualities in school I had a whole panic attack and was so confused when I first realized I liked girls and guys I didn’t even know it was possible and thought I had to decide Would have been really helpful if I had known before that
@megtrimble3871
@megtrimble3871 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for speaking about this! Not many people do. Stuff like this is going to destroy all of the accomplishments the LGBTQ+ community has achieved! If you haven’t already you should check out the YT channel ready to glare she made a hole vid on this too that had some grate points as well .
@Nakia11798
@Nakia11798 2 жыл бұрын
ReadyToGlare is a fav of mine, along with TehMimi
@tahraethestoryteller6079
@tahraethestoryteller6079 2 жыл бұрын
I can’t believe KZbin is suppressing important topic that could actually help educate people so they don’t end up in a bad situation themselves by censoring the word pedophile
@luanacoval9490
@luanacoval9490 2 жыл бұрын
Why am I laughing These people should be studied, it's actually dangerous
@ArtAndFaithWithHannah
@ArtAndFaithWithHannah Жыл бұрын
As a survivor of sa by a "map" I just want to hug Jessie because I know how it feels to have to fight to heal your pain and trauma and I feel we both need a hug. 😅😊
@quasi8180
@quasi8180 2 жыл бұрын
As someone whose dealt with pedos before this annoys the heck outta me. Pedos are not lgbtq
@batnamedkat
@batnamedkat 2 жыл бұрын
MAP should only be a term allotted in clinical environments for those seeking therapy who have never acted apon a child and I think that therapy should be readily available without stigma, in general, but also for this bc theres no doubt this is a mental issue.
@kaiyodei
@kaiyodei 2 жыл бұрын
that is why we talk about this! so they can get help
@batnamedkat
@batnamedkat 2 жыл бұрын
Just to clarify I'm not a pedo, I'm a survivor.
@QuinnTheScienceKid
@QuinnTheScienceKid 2 жыл бұрын
The problem with society or people is that we normalize to many bad things to the point where it gets out of hand and makes people think anything is alright which is absolutely not true.
@WhatsUpDocIsactivefornow
@WhatsUpDocIsactivefornow 2 жыл бұрын
Honestly, I’m a minor. I am under 18 years of age, and “Maps” scare the living crap out of me. I am also a Non binary lesbian who feels offended, especially when people compare me to these people. I also feel like people need to figure out the definition of the word P3dophile, because people also think that this applies to teens who think some adults are objectively attractive, but have no intention on doing anything with them…
@lillibear69
@lillibear69 2 жыл бұрын
being gay isn't perverted and that's what letting "MAP" s in the LGBTQ+ community implies. it's so angering.
@ezra7088
@ezra7088 2 жыл бұрын
It seems so obvious that maps are not in the lgbt+ community I can't even believe they're trying to join
@gabbieginger8590
@gabbieginger8590 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for being willing to talk about this especially considering your experience. My mom is super religious and brought this up in an argument😡 we need to being a light to this and let people know that this is not us.
@mr.duck1246
@mr.duck1246 2 жыл бұрын
Yea teaching little kids about the LGBT community is probably just “who you do and don’t feel butterflies for” and “whether or not you feel like the gender you were born as matches how you feel” and explaining to kids how to respect pronouns and preferred names (I feel like to explain things to little kids you need to put it into their point of view)
@cdviix3425
@cdviix3425 2 жыл бұрын
“Maps” need to get therapy before they scar a child’s life and go to jail
@moon_xwasntavailable
@moon_xwasntavailable Жыл бұрын
The thing these people always exclude is perhaps one of the most important phrases to the newer generations and potentially one of my greatest rules in life. ‘Do what you want, so long as you ARENT HURTING PEOPLE’. What they don’t seem to get is that we aren’t hurting people by being gay. They hurt people all the time. That’s why it shouldn’t be normalised and that’s why we won’t accept them, cause it goes against a core belief.
@lavender3717
@lavender3717 2 жыл бұрын
you're really great at commentary videos, jessie! i love this new direction for you
@Smolcat1
@Smolcat1 Жыл бұрын
This makes sense, like a year ago I kept seeing shorts of people saying the LGBTQ+ people have created a P*do flag, I thought it was something made up to hate on LGBTQ+ people but it's worse, the flag is real AND they were saying LGBTQ+ people CREATED IT to be hateful and damaging, this whole thing is disgusting.
@monotypical_
@monotypical_ 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah! Call them out Jessie!
@tnf136
@tnf136 2 жыл бұрын
...for wanting support and most of us definitely not wanting LGBT inclusion? That doesn't seem very nice.
@wig84
@wig84 2 жыл бұрын
@@tnf136 neither does going after people who cant possibly consciously consent to anything
@tnf136
@tnf136 2 жыл бұрын
@@wig84 Most of us don't do that. I definitely don't.
@QUEERVEEART
@QUEERVEEART 2 жыл бұрын
@@wig84 +1
@belosneshkaaaa
@belosneshkaaaa 2 жыл бұрын
@@tnf136 "most of us" lmfao
@The1SceneQueen
@The1SceneQueen Жыл бұрын
As another LGBTQ+ (Lesbian) female, this is the most disturbing and disgusting thing that I have ever heard. This is WAY beyond wrong. I don't like child m0l3sters calling themselves 'map' either. This makes it seem like it's okay to be a p3do. Imo, there's nothing more wrong then an adult attracted to children. I have never been angrier about something in my life.
@kennagrace4752
@kennagrace4752 2 жыл бұрын
Jessie, can I just say that your nose is adorable?? It's like a shiny little cat nose, it's so cute 🤧🤧
@WolfBitesAndSleepyGraves
@WolfBitesAndSleepyGraves 2 жыл бұрын
I'm nonbinary and I normally hate wearing makeup...but I'm genuinely DYING to try out the nose. It's so 🌺🌺🌺!!!
@actualgoblin
@actualgoblin 2 жыл бұрын
@Todd Mother that's a weird and creepy comment to make
@actualgoblin
@actualgoblin 2 жыл бұрын
@Todd Mother i genuinely dont know what ur talking about dude i think you just like infantilizing women
@imogendowling2574
@imogendowling2574 2 жыл бұрын
It better not happen, and I'm sure it won't, but I'm scared now too 😅
@TheRealBellatrixLestrange
@TheRealBellatrixLestrange 2 жыл бұрын
Even if it doesn't become a huge thing with people supporting it as part of the community, some people are still caught up in it and some people are still going to be getting hurt and that is awful. So indescribably awful.
@777Rowen
@777Rowen 2 жыл бұрын
Pedophilia isn’t a sexual orientation it’s a paraphilia. Pedos hurts kids in more ways than one. They neither deserve a flag or a place in the LGBT+ community or straight community for that matter. They belong in jail. Period.
@steph678
@steph678 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for talking about this
@An19941
@An19941 2 жыл бұрын
Ace Dutch woman here! The Netherlands will definitely accept you! We love you!! ❤❤❤❤❤ 🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈
@kaiyodei
@kaiyodei 2 жыл бұрын
please do everything to change AOC to 18 from 16. 16 year olds are young children not adults
@alexisdurrett4468
@alexisdurrett4468 Жыл бұрын
Why did I get a transphobic ad right before this video smh
@carleyquintrell
@carleyquintrell 2 жыл бұрын
don't apologize for not feeling sympathy for them. it is literally SO justified to not feel sympathy for them.
@kaiyodei
@kaiyodei 2 жыл бұрын
even ones who do not touch children?
@moopunzel
@moopunzel 2 жыл бұрын
The "don't say gay" bill, is actually called "the parental rights in education" bill. What it actually says, is that classroom discussions of anything sex or gender related, through grades K-3rd.
@katemueller1359
@katemueller1359 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, people are giving commentary based on what they heard other people say about it rather than actually reading it. It doesn't say "gay" anywhere in the bill. It is about all sex related topics, gay straight or other. And people don't realize it only goes up to grade 3.
@popicalbubbles
@popicalbubbles 2 жыл бұрын
Let me just say, being attracted to minors is always & already is wrong to begin with but to then go on and say that they wanna be apart of the LGBTQIA+ community is gross because it sets up for those of us in the community to be a***ed and it's not okay. You can be apart of the community just not in this way *thumbs up*
@tnf136
@tnf136 2 жыл бұрын
Morality requires choice. Who wants to be attracted to children? We don't want to be a part of your community. We have our own.
@sonnenblume6474
@sonnenblume6474 2 жыл бұрын
@TNF 13 are there a lot of communities of people who are not acting on these desires for support? The people who act on it and/or want to have the right to do so are always the loudest, if not the only ones that are seen. I am not blaming. I understand that it seems not to be a choice to begin with. But the acting on it and not wanting to get help to not do that and stay stable is what is scary.
@popicalbubbles
@popicalbubbles 2 жыл бұрын
@@tnf136 exactly! I'm apart of the LGBTQ+ community and even I think it's horrible
@kaiyodei
@kaiyodei 2 жыл бұрын
you act like they choose to look at a prepubesent human and go "oh baby yes"
@popicalbubbles
@popicalbubbles 2 жыл бұрын
@@kaiyodei no. that's not it at all. I'm saying that prepubescent humans are not to be messed with as it's really wrong!
@isabella2513
@isabella2513 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for speaking out on this. It’s so so SO important.
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