Wedding Culture Differences in USA / UK / South Africa / Korea

Hey everyone!
We are back again with John, Sam, and Chantelle😁
Today we're gonna talk about weddings!!👰🤵
Which country is serious about the bouquet?💐
Why do they think Korean weddings are the best for the attendee?
If you're curious, watch till the very end of the video👀
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[@yamkelasanelisiwengceke3922]

Chantelle is so brave, and tries her best representing our very diverse South Africa she deserves some credit😊

[@wellsht7830]

The obsession over the lobola cows is KILLING ME 😭🏃🏾‍♀️

[@promise83]

Traditional weddings are really fun. Spot on Chantelle. The outfits, singing and dancing in the streets is so cool. You can gate crash and no one will judge. Everyone is invited. PS… Jo’burg and Pretoria streets are purple. The Jakaranda trees are looking beautiful!! 💜

[@pagodaone_5697]

I would really love to go to South African weddings💜

[@promise83]

That will be amazing. You should.

[@Jeni10]

The jacarandas are in full bloom in Sydney too!

[@promise83]

@@Jeni10 they are beautiful!! 🤗

[@fancyIOP]

🥺🔥🔥🔥y’all went back to your old sitting positions. Thank you for listening.😁💪🏿🔥🔥🔥much love. 🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦

[@deanmcmanis4862]

I learned the most about Afrikaans weddings, even if Chantelle couldn't cover every culture. It sounds fun and colorful! John should have mentioned Las Vegas weddings, justice of the peace weddings, drive through chapels, and some of the UNusual variations. And maybe a comment on the food, bands, and the huge cost! A couple of the big budget weddings that I went to were very exciting, but the marriages fizzled, and lasted only a few months. Others were super casual, and they are still happily married, many years later.

[@sizakelediya4080]

In South Africa the leading to the wedding is so long especially in Zulu tradition. The Guy has send a letter to woman father, organize his uncles to go for negotiation for Lobolo which might be cows or money and after that they have to bring gifts to bride parents and extended family 30 blankets, dress up the bride head to toe, goats or sheep and so many more. Then after the bride has to go groom family to thank Lobolo with groceries. Then comes the white wedding and traditional wedding # the bride family has to give a furniture for her house, slaughter a cow both families and the bride has to bring blankets maybe 40, grass mate and so many more to give groom family as a gifts. It's quite expensive but it's a tradition it must be done.

[@nbatman1]

Hey love from India..! Traditional North Indian wedding range from 3-5 days..! And they are a blast..!

[@jane7306]

With 1000 of people Yeah_We have good population😆😆😆

[@desmondlocker7343]

We had a outdoor snoek Braai wedding where my wife dressed up as Lara Croft and I was Indiana Jones. It was held at our church with a massive bon fire.

[@shelbyfries8304]

I've been a brides maid so many times and I find it fascinating how different each wedding went down. I actually get sick at how much money gets spent on traditional American weddings. 😛 One thing I discovered, it's not how much $money you spend but what you choose to spend your money on that makes the wedding a success.

[@pootii_a1380]

Remember, we have similar cultures so there will always be overlaps. Which is pretty cool!

[@lifeofjohn3993]

I was surprised about how much overlap is in Korean weddings actually

[@eideanbotha8655]

One thing during Afrikaans weddings, is during the Groom's speech. All the young men (most of the time) drag their chairs to directly in front of the groom and deliberately try to disrupt his speech as much as possible. Chairs scraping, lots of questions, maybe some coughing. But it is all in good fun. The really take the mickey out of him.

[@promise83]

My colleagues told me about that. 🤣🤣 It must so frustrating. I’d go completely naar!!

[@WayneKitching]

I was expecting Chantelle to mention that. And the songs they sing to mock the groom

[@financeharpershealth1826]

Here in the Philippines, the tradition of money being pinned to the clothes of the bride and groom whilst dancing (this is already during the reception) is still very much alive in most of the provinces...

[@metamorphicme9378]

Nigerians do the same

[@lifeofjohn3993]

I'll take money in any form

[@madfreacmocrazi6093]

Chantelle couldn't talk about the Pedi step, a dance routine that goes from where ever the wedding started to the house or reception venue

[@innocentiamanokolediga8489]

Sister Bertina 😂😂I’m in stitches😂😂. So accurate.

[@mattm1547]

When’s the next video, these 3 are the best 😃

[@metamorphicme9378]

Chantelle is representing well hey!

[@phaphamamtshengu1630]

Y'all better search the song Sister Bettina 🔥🔥🔥

[@Lumkie]

Oh my god Chantelle! Sister Bethina 🤣👏🏾 Hebari.

[@NohaSchroeder]

All South African’s are African. We’re black, white, coloured or Indian… but we’re all African.

[@rayt.3143]

Good morning guys, from America. 👋

[@valenciam125]

Sam is getting married in South Africa 🥳🥳🥳🥳 And also, Slaughtering of a cow is a must. It's a symbol used to introduce ancestors from the two families.

[@mamakokomantswi6539]

In our Culture,the Sepedi Culture we invite EVERYONE to the wedding and the best part is that our outfits are actually made of animal skin(cow) mostly.

[@julieghinelli5813]

I heard that african Weddings are so long and traditional.

[@pootii_a1380]

My 2 cents again. With regarding the proposal and the wedding itself. It is usually case by case (nowadays) I mean like I got my ring in the garden with his family inside (mainly because we couldn't go to the beach. Stupid lockdowns -.-) For a lot of our weddings, they are usually themed if you're not super religious... I mean like mine is supposed to Lord of the Rings, D&D themed, because why the hell not. They are more fun when themed

[@pootii_a1380]

I'm going have my ceremony next year, hopefully. I'll send you guys an invite, but you will need to dress up!

[@pagodaone_5697]

Oh really? Congratulations!!😍😘

[@lifeofjohn3993]

Congratz!!!

[@fexreddinquliyev3598]

Thanks guys for the interesting video,love you!

[@user-kc8if2xo3b]

I love this video John.

[@julieghinelli5813]

American and british Weddings i saw on special series and TV show and often are so overreacted and sometimes funny especially on the beach or at home

[@rella9973]

I miss u all

[@Sayitlikitiz101]

A COW FOR SAM ! 🐮🐮🐮 I REPEAT A COW FOR SAM!!!!🐄🐄🐄

[@Jeni10]

After hearing all of your stories, I’m so glad I’m Catholic!

[@user-kc8if2xo3b]

Good good john.

[@TheMbangel]

Wow! Didn't know Sam was savaged! That is why I never want to get proposed to in public or on camera!!

[@caylalisapillay5506]

Why didn't Sam talk about Royal weddings 🤷‍♀️

[@britbc4461]

Is eloping popular in other countries? In the states, each state can make their own requirements. Some (like Wisconsin) have a week waiting period, so you can get married the same day.

[@lifeofjohn3993]

I'm gonna ask about Korea. You know, for a friend.

[@dong1976]

한국은 부케 받고 6개월 안에 결혼 못하면 3년 동안 시집 못간다는 속설이 있어서 보통 결혼 예정된 친구들이 부케를 받는 것 같아요

[@pagodaone_5697]

네네 그런 것 같더라고요!ㅎㅎ🤗

[@lifeofjohn3993]

와 신기해요! 저 처음 봤을때 왜 그렇게 하는지 궁금했어요!

[@phaphamamtshengu1630]

This 1 ou just wants the cows 🤣🤣🤣🐄

[@anhducle3031]

sam is obviously obsessed with cows :)) Can someone order in a cow for him lmao

[@pagodaone_5697]

Hope somebody does😂😂

[@a5tro25]

Don't go Chantelle

[@c.f.l.4069]

Wait. I thought Sam moved back home.

[@user-kc8if2xo3b]

Don't go john.

[@pagodaone_5697]

He's not going anywhere😉😉

[@timrobinson6573]

This video seemed disjointed and erratic.