Long Distance Relationship Update + Hanging Out With A Subscriber! // London Vlog #8

[@AuntyM66]

Hi there you went an antique shop. What you need are charity shops which what Americans call thrift shops. So need to find shops like British heart foundation, Salvation Army, Sue Ryder ,Traid etc. I am sure that there are some in Woolwich. However better to go Lewisham because Woolwich and Greeenwich are more expensive.

[@PaigeMariah]

thank you SO much!!

[@mystikal2222]

I love how you address things!! Continue to live your best life.. you owe us nothing! You hear me!! :) (in my mom voice even though I’m not that much older) Life is teaching me the same.. Thanks for letting us in as much as you do.

[@PaigeMariah]

thank you SO much Misty!! really means a lot 💖

[@khalidmohamed3287]

Hello. I'm Khalid

[@khalidmohamed3287]

I'm from Morocco

[@mystikal2222]

Anytime!!👌🏾🙂

[@jasminealexander2740]

I just love following your journey and I love your outlook on life. There is nothing like having a praying mother & lessons learned from past relationships. Keep living your best life!

[@PaigeMariah]

that really means a lot, thanks so much for watching!

[@mariaantoinette6872]

I love your take on life. Go with the flow and see where it takes you. I’m learning to do that a lot more now. I look forward to seeing moe vlogs of your journey ❤️

[@PaigeMariah]

I really appreciate that, thank you Maria!

[@mariaantoinette6872]

You’re welcome 😉

[@kathymulligan3652]

You are a strong, adventurous lady. Focus on YOU and your studies and whatever happens along the way is brought to you for a purpose. You are awesome and beautiful. Love ya. ❤️

[@PaigeMariah]

thanks sooo much Kathy!

[@yungtalks]

Sad to hear about the breakup but so happy to see how you’ve processed it and how you’re moving forward! ICON... PERIOD! Love & live life regardless... inspirational!

[@PaigeMariah]

thank you SO much Yinka!! love ya girl! 💖💖

[@zaadiaroje7793]

I literally have been binge watching every video since you left the us and I really love your energy ! You are a beautiful person bad your really motivating me to do more on my channel .

[@tomikowhite15]

With all of the walking you seem to do I feel like you’ve been doing well with staying fit, but I’m glad you found a gym you enjoy. Keep being wonderful, we love it and you❤️❤️

[@PaigeMariah]

yes, I think all the walking has definitely been a good thing! & thank you so much Tomiko! love you all back!! 💖💖

[@ksmithmoore904]

Another great video! I agree it’s important to find a gym that you love. Thanks for being open with us about the status of your relationship. You’re so down to Earth and positive that’s why I enjoy watching your videos so much! ❤️

[@PaigeMariah]

thank you so much as always!!

[@moniquephillips9311]

I always look forward to your videos. I love your outlook on life and your sense of adventure. You keep living your best life. May God continue to bless you.

[@PaigeMariah]

I really appreciate that, thank you Monique!!

[@topchelseagirl9074]

Vintage shops are always going to charge a premium. You want to go to charity shops, you can get items for a pound or two but you have to hunt through the stock - which sounds like what you enjoy, so they'll be perfect for you.

[@PaigeMariah]

that's exactly what I want, thank you!

[@taraalston8697]

I think you are so awesome to be studying abroad. To see black women stepping out of the norm is wonderful and I'm praying for you too.

[@PaigeMariah]

thank you so much!!

[@ChameleonOne]

I just wanted to let you know that you're one DOPE chick! I love your transparency, honesty, positivity, sense of adventure, purpose and genuine appreciation for life. Everything happens for a reason and this too shall pass . I love the lessons that you're going to take from that relationship, which will help you grow and become even more amazing than who you currently are. Love and light lil sis!!!

[@PaigeMariah]

what a beautiful comment. thank you SO much for your kind words. 😊😊

[@ChameleonOne]

@@PaigeMariah ,you're welcome babes! THANK YOU for sharing g your life with us!

[@jenniferandcos]

Actually thinking of spending time in London later this year. You're creating quite a travel guide just by vlogging your adventures. Love the vlogs. You're giving me ideas for places to visit when I arrive.

[@anncrane6451]

Good day across the pond happy that you are staying to your regimen and loving London thanks for the advice about finding a gym that's a fit to our needs. Love that you are always open with us.Enjoy being single and live your life enjoy school, new friends, new adventures and just look forward to what's to come everything happens for a reason and its a life lesson you can learn from.

[@PaigeMariah]

thank you SO much Ann!

[@acourtesan]

Live your life! Answer to yourself and to God!🙏🏼

[@PaigeMariah]

Amen to that!

[@tamera605]

you'll be fine Paige! you have great determination

[@mjohn7577]

I do wish you much success!...I went through the Masters program (here in the States)...It's a lot of work, but so rewarding when it's done...I too have anxiety when giving presentations; however I've noticed the anxiety has reduced as I've gotten older...It's also helps to be well prepared and speaking about a subject that truly interests you..

[@PaigeMariah]

thanks so much Menyon!

[@voneicehall5694]

Paige I just love that you share your journey. I told you I listen to you while I am at work. I think you are so positive. I am so happy for you and girl you are living your best life. I admire it so much wish I had made different choices to be where you are. Prayers are always up for you sis. Keep the videos coming I love it.

[@PrttyBrwnEyez13]

Whenever I watch your vlogs, I always have the Shazam app ready to figure out what song is playing. Your music selection is bomb. Oh, and thanks for the update. I wasn’t going to ask any questions lol; I figured we all should just wait until you were ready to talk about it.

[@PaigeMariah]

awww thanks so much! and haha I appreciate you doing that lol

[@ashleatrueman8752]

You might have better luck going to a charity shop, they have anything and everything with a few hidden gems. I'm sure if you Google charity shops near me you'll find lots!

[@PaigeMariah]

I'll try that! thank youu

[@christine3477]

I’ve been out of school since Dec 2014 and I’m really nervous about starting my Masters for the same reason! That anxiety about how long it’s been is real!! (Especially for me with a 10yr old! Getting through the first round was hard enough with a crumb snatcher 😂) Thank you for talking about what that’s like going back to school after getting your undergrad and being in the work field for some time. Definitely helps to build my confidence that I can maneuver through the madness as well!

[@emily-vn2id]

Loving the videos, i hope things are smoother for you soon! At least you will have some great advice for people on unexpected things that go wrong moving here in the future. I much prefer the regular day to day going ons than the special 'fun' stuff. Not sure why, maybe it's just more chill like hanging with a friend ^^

[@shonelllewis2019]

I feel your pain with school. I took a break for 5 years 🤦🏽‍♀️ went back and I barely know what I’m doing. Somehow last semester I managed to get on the dean’s list through all the stress. So I know you’ll do great 👍🏽

[@PaigeMariah]

wow, that just gave me a lot of hope! thanks Shonell!!

[@sherylthomas1259]

I’m sure you’ll do well in your studies....attitude is everything. It’s been awhile since graduate school for me, but, I was always told to keep writing on the same subject, as it provides more opportunity to delve into the subject. As for your presentation anxiety, breathe through it. Wooosahhhh🙏🏽

[@PaigeMariah]

thank you SO much!!

[@honeydewgem543]

Paige I can totally relate to finding a gym that's a good fit!!! It took me a long time but now I can stay there for hours and get into a good workout flow. Loving the vlogs and that big hair!!!!😉

[@PaigeMariah]

yess!! the right gym is SO important. thanks so much for watching!

[@featherflow]

I’ve been in Canada for many years now, I’m from London and love watching your videos, it’s like being home, so thank you 💕 As for charity shops (thrift stores) FARA, Sue Ryder, The Princess Alice Hospice charity shops, Barnardos, Oxfam, The British Heart Foundation (I found a pair of YSL shoes there, never worn £10!!!) Portobello Market/Notting hill - found amazing things there!!! Camden Market is good too ... definitely a must visit but I prefer Portobello Market! (Check out Notting hill Carnival in August!!! - obviously not a good day for Market though lol RSPCA, Age Concern UK, Cancer Research UK, Salvation Army ... There’s sooooo many more, in the UK so perhaps google ... a lot of them have social media websites. Oh and don’t forget to check out Car Boot sales! I too love thrift stores and have found some nice things in Goodwill etc but new or nearly new best of the best (a lot of time designer) are definitely FARA, Sue Ryder, Princess Alice and again Portobello Market! Love your channel. Makes me feel like I’m home again 🤗 Keep up the great work xxxxxx P.s Check out Windsor when you can and there are some great places up North like Manchester, Liverpool, York, Newcastle etc and Chester is a beautiful Roman City xxxx

[@juniordunkley5298]

I wonder if there are any nice young men out there who will take on a lovely young lady like Paigr

[@izy2740]

I hope you find that special someone. It does exist honestly it does. You think you're taking your life one way and bam next thing you know someone comes and takes you another. It's a crazy feeling but once you have it, everything will fall into place completely unplanned. And that's the best way. Just go with the flow. Love watching your posts and your positive outlook on everything.

[@girlonfire2.076]

I use to be nervous giving presentations but i realized the more prepared i was an the more i praticed the less nervous im sure youll be fine..its also so cool that you are meeti g people from all over the world an making connections..you need to go yo charity shops not the vintage shops..charity shops are our versions of thrift shops

[@artsygirlify]

Wow . just subbed last month so Im glad I didnt see comments about a previous relationship. Im looking at the map behind you and youre really not too far from him...but let God and you never know what may happen for you two. BTW I know what you mean about the thrift stores. Here in Chicago you know we have tons of them and I know you miss those 69 cent days at the Salvation Army. I when I went to London last year I was told to go to Shoreditch (looking at your vlog thats not the place to search) by a former Londoner and CHicagoan who is an avid thrifter by the name of youtuber and instagram fashionista @Iamdionnedean. She can tell you all the places to look in London. Love your vibe.

[@newtuber3465]

Thank you for keeping it all the way 1,000. Again, I know you have several followers but I've said before I found you through trying to relate to having a Long Distance Relationship (LDR). You've since inspired so much more ❤ Ironically I'm in a place of deciding to bring my LDR to a close, this definitely helped.

[@PaigeMariah]

wow, I'm so happy that you've stuck with me! I wish you the best of luck and I know you'll make the decision that's best for you. 💖

[@martinahardy5255]

Your videos are awesome, I love the footage and the music is so beautiful.

[@PaigeMariah]

awww thanks so much Martina!

[@wandaann9755]

First of all, LOVE the big hair. It so suits you. Secondly, I would love for you to have been in a relationship if that what you wanted but I am so glad you get to experience this new journey un-tethered; and I am not sure if I am conveying that correctly. Like a little sister of mine I would want her to be able to experience all London and the UK had to offer. So while I want the WORLD to love and be in love, there are times for everything. I know I am messing this up but glad to see you are happy with your life. #BackwardsBUTGeniuneCompliment

[@martinroberts5311]

Relationship Update Relationship Update Paige... you have learned listened and know the place where you are now in your mind and heart. Your happy and enjoying your next step in your life. Keep exploring as who knows what going to happen next. Hope its going to be ……..wonderful

[@PaigeMariah]

thanks so much Martin!

[@shaunitagilbert7409]

You got this...breathe, plan, and take one day at a time and when in doubt ask questions and reach out for help.

[@TheGracefulGlowup]

I saw those comments too lol so happy you're happy!

[@denisecurry6062]

" I could talk to you guys all day, but I can't see you" Humorous as well as intelligent! You are such an inspiration!

[@PaigeMariah]

hahah thanks so much Denise!!

[@noosh101]

Hey Paige ! We don’t really have cheap American thrift stores here but I would check out on Facebook or online the vintage kilo sales . It’s normally a monthly event and there’s a few around London , you go and you pay by the kilo! Its a lot more like the Salvation Army kinda thing but they make it an event over here . Kinda sucks but believe me those sales are worth it :) Defo check it out .

[@ShugAveri]

I didn't mind the Shoreditch footage at all! I know I was wondering what happened with your relationship but it sounds like some folks were hounding ya! LOL Sounds like ya'll just accepted that you had been in each others life for a season AND reason and agreed that it was over. Also, would love to hear how your handling school work more! Take care :)

[@PaigeMariah]

thanks sooo much Courtney!!

[@veronicacobb3036]

Yes, let them know, lol. Moved to TX from MI and I wear MI gear at least once a week. It's ok to be proud of your home.

[@gabriela317]

Yesss I'm from Saginaw MI. We're so small its rare to see people from here!

[@waynesworldizm]

Try Notting Hill or Portabello Road if you have not already. Camden Market used to be good. Still may find a couple of interesting things down there.

[@little_becky]

Yes you need to go to ‘charity shops’ (here are some: oxfam, Noemi house, British heart foundation, Sue Ryder, scope, dogs trust, Rspca, Bernardo’s, Salvation Army)

[@PaigeMariah]

got it!! thanks for the recommendations!

[@diletha5976]

So happy for you reaching out and connecting.....very interesting about the on line orders. Thx

[@d.aniela]

Not sure if it’s the same in London but in birmingham, the three main charity shops are barnardos, british heart foundation and cancer research. barnardos is definitely the cheapest, most items are around £1.99, whereas BHF and CR usually start at around £4.99! 😋 also, you’ll probably have to do research methods in your masters degree, I had to buy a book called ‘Social Research Methods’ by A. Bryman from Amazon for £30 for my degree and my boyfriend who is doing his masters has found it really useful too! Maybe see if your library has a copy ❤️

[@PaigeMariah]

thanks SO much Daniela!!

[@sarahgray3111]

Such grace and honesty

[@essencekk]

Visit Dark Sugars on Brick Lane. It's a black owned coffee/chocolate shop😁

[@PaigeMariah]

omg I walked past that!

[@asterinfireheart6200]

Hey new to your channel. Your a really great person and I enjoy watching your videos ☺

[@PaigeMariah]

I really appreciate that, thank you!

[@okwrite7120]

You're looking for charity shops or second hand shops some of the big ones are Oxfam, Barnardos, British Heart Foundation, Age UK etc. You want to visit the ones in posh / expensive areas to find the best stuff i.e.designer . It depends on the manager as to whether they mark up stuff extortionately. You can find designer elsewhere but there is a higher concentration in the posher areas.

[@AzureBlueStarr33]

Major tip for essay writing - listen to philosophical arguments and lectures ( I recommend the courses on Audible). They will help you formulate arguments and give wight to your conclusions, it also makes you sound well read, well spoken, and well researched. People are almost always impressed with them. Also if you're able to site the chicago/turabian method of citation you can include related thoughts and remarks in them that let your personality shine through without detracting from the professionalism of your essays. Many highly regarded published essays included footnotes along the lines of "the author of this quote/stat is proof that if you keep shouting nonsense eventually a truth will come out" or something much ruder. I know these things sound simple and like they aren't to do with your course of study but they took me from a c/b essay writer to a consistent a/a+ in multiple areas of study. Hope that helps!

[@startpage717]

....well Paige I knew something was UP when this TALL guy kept walking in the background of your video (you were shopping) SO you live your life and I thank you for sharing ... do you BOO...and keep the videos coming...(when you can)

[@PaigeMariah]

hahah thanks so much

[@redbonescorpio79]

Yes maam! Rep our City! 🙌🏾

[@madasusual498]

The key to presentations is write out word for word what you will say and PRACTICE. Try and make one sentence flow in the other. It'll be easier to remember that way : The dog is red. Red is actually a great color. Its a great color because blah blah blah. Also, record yourself and watch it back for places to improve. GOOD LUCK!

[@PaigeMariah]

great tips, thanks so much!!

[@tman20123]

Hey Paige, Love your videos! I think its worth looking at "The Vaults, Waterloo" They have graffiti walls and is such a nice place to take photos, I literally packed a bag with different outfits and took loads of pictures for the gram aha.

[@PaigeMariah]

ayeeee nice! thanks for the suggestion Tyrone!

[@TheNaprika]

If you are on Facebook or Instagram, sign up to your local community events pages and there they announce thrift special events where you dig in bins and then weigh the stuff you want to buy. Car boot sales are also good for really inexpensive treasures. Again your local Facebook pages /Instagram will announce car boot sales, typically they start in spring.

[@ilonalovesabargain552]

Enjoy your video. You will do well. Try before doing your presentation, take a deep breath and exhale. You can count on this mother also praying for you. Stay Blessed.🙏❤️

[@emilyhops2566]

Have you done camden market and brick lane yet? Go go go. make sure you get bagels on brick lane when you go. also by brick lane is spittlefields, a big market you might like.

[@PaigeMariah]

thanks for the suggestion!

[@GoldCoastBeauty]

Loved London vlog #8 - updates galore! Where would we be without prayerful mothers? Continue to take everything in your stride, moment by moment fellow South Londoner! :)

[@PaigeMariah]

so glad you enjoyed this one!!

[@LisatotheMarie]

Check to see if they have writing coaches. I've used a writing coach for all of my papers I've written for grad school. I can send a coach my draft and they give me notes on how to improve it and I've always gotten A's on my papers because of it. I'm not that confident in my writing, but they've definitely helped me a lot.

[@PaigeMariah]

such a great tip, thanks Lisa!

[@Pschool1]

No, charity shops is where u need to head, they are all over.. + check out Charity shops in rich areas!

[@nowarah196]

Charity shops would be your best. Shoreditch area is expensive :)

[@WanderlustMyWay]

I've heard about thrift stores in London where you can stuff a bag and everything that fits in it is one low price. If anyone knows that one please reply ^_^

[@estherbond792]

Wanderlust, My Way the east end thrift store.i don't know if they still do those sales .

[@layneartsmckenzie5127]

Think they are called Vintage kilo sales 😊

[@MehluliMoyo477]

Loving this video. Going for the bell because it’s very good and interesting. Hanging with a subscriber would be a good thing.

[@PaigeMariah]

yayyy thanks!

[@annlorrii]

Sounds like you might be looking for a charity shop! Most high streets have one and if you visit ones in slightly nicer areas I think they might have some nicers items at affordable prices.

[@renee176]

They probably make it more of a discount for the US market so that we can afford it, with the exchange rate and everything. If the items price-wise were equivalent to what they are in the UK the prices would be crazy High, a bit how you are finding them now since now living in England. For your vintage clothing you might want to check out Portobello Road Market for good cheap stuff.

[@krisbadwolf9429]

60 Camden High Street. The Camden Mind shop. Proceeds go to mind.org.uk for mental health awareness. It's a cool 2nd hand/vintage shop.

[@brynn_luv_gaza39]

When you're nervous, tell yourself " I am excited. "

[@BryanBernalTV]

Hey sis! I live in London and would love to be another subscriber that would hang out with you and show you around hehe x

[@thebaddest3452]

Lol it's like our lives mirror each other. When you had an issue with the mouse, I had the same issue🤮 now I'm also seeking a gym. Thinking of an all female one 😊😊

[@thebaddest3452]

No way! I have a group presentation coming up this week loool and i get super nervous too xxxx

[@PaigeMariah]

hahah so funny! I hope you choose a great gym!

[@BlinkyVlogs95]

Eastend Thrift store in Stepney Green, actually quite near to shoreditch

[@StardustJaney]

Paige :) I am a relatively new subbie! I've recently developed a passion for fitness (yoga and pilates) and I live in London too. My boyfriend is American. He's looking to do what you did - move to London for a masters programme. So your channel and videos are actually super relatable, helpful and enjoyable to watch for both of us! Lots of love and all the best to you

[@PaigeMariah]

I'm so happy that my channel can help you two!! good luck with everything! 💖

[@jordleilei4279]

Don’t look for vintage stores or thrift stores you have to look for charity shops. Good ones are New Life, or British Heart Foundation.

[@SiEmon_E]

That hair is you! Super cute, loving it! 👌🏾

[@PaigeMariah]

Thank youuu

[@bluereign]

THRIFT STORE to dig through. Check out *'East end vintage clothing's'* Facebook page so you can see if it's the type of place you're looking for. Shoreditch is where ppl pay big money to look errm.. Less fortunate. Scope, oxfam, red Cross are our main "thrift stores". Search *'second hand store'* or *'charity shop'* for accurate results. If you ever want a regular south London or Central London tour feel free to get in touch.

[@PaigeMariah]

thanks so much!!

[@bluereign]

@@PaigeMariah No problem. I sent you a msg on insta with more info.

[@Ms.NIkaDM]

Sis you are doing it👏🏿👏🏾👏🏽 I really like your vlogs. I enjoy seeing your adjustments. The trial & error is important. Thx for sharing. Also, I hear your heels clicking as you walk through Shortage(?) Are you exploring in heels? 😧

[@PaigeMariah]

thanks so much!! haha I was wearing heeled booties 😊

[@butterflyat40]

The mural of the black woman was sooooo beautiful

[@raymondhoward9173]

Black English myself but where I work outside in Chelsea American moved here lived in this district they totally blown away by my English accent and say it’s beautiful but me myself just normal way speaking so I don’t look at my accent anything special

[@TheNaprika]

I did a video on my channel about returning to studies as a mature student. Also, I really found those university courses on essay writing etc EXTREMELY helpful.

[@budgetrebelgoals]

Thanks for the vid,can you do a video on getting ready for a relationship...living life with a significant other?

[@ilianaeduardo]

I was the same way when giving presentations. I would over think a lot of the time.

[@djcandle3863]

I’m new to this channel and have enjoyed this content. I have no idea who Sanchez is, but I know the homey Mike ... that chemistry is nuts. What’s the deal wit that?? Anywho, all the best!

[@kinzmw]

1 month down!

[@PaigeMariah]

yayayay!

[@carlieamado6153]

I’m I a situationship right now🌚 we are both exchange students and with only 4 months left🙆🏾‍♀️ I can already see the end. He is totally a go with the flow while I’m trying to grab life by its horns but hey at least we are living and learning

[@PaigeMariah]

wow #relatable. take a lesson from him and try your best to just go with the flow and enjoy the time for what it is right now.. 😊

[@nat4877]

What’s your Apartment’s building called?

[@mz.latashalovesjourney9670]

I hope everything is going well for you GOD bless

[@PaigeMariah]

thanks so much!!

[@madmax-jh2sr]

Beautiful lady this english boy thinks your brilliant smart and honest and loves your video blogs

[@PaigeMariah]

So nice!! Thank you so much 😊😊

[@lewis20002000]

Long distance relationship is an paradox, most people should be, part of living in a place is to include a relationship with the people around you. You and the darkskin British youtuber make a great couple.

[@PaigeMariah]

we are not a couple.

[@lewis20002000]

@@PaigeMariah I know. That's the last thing that should happen with cool friends.

[@moshar12]

Wow! Just seen this, I am probably late! What! I am a American living in London, came out here for my job and actually it is an adventure!...it's ok, but not home at all...hey, dealing with it.

[@A14Rors]

If you are coming to Camden holla me and I will show you around the market! Am local and live here for ever!

[@RoseAngella]

Leotard? 🤔 Don’t you mean bodysuit!? 🤔. 😁😁 There’s a KZbinr called Bira she does wonderful charity shop/thrift store hauls. She is well into fashion and is a big time thrifter she is also based in London - HOORAY! 🤗🤗 💙💚💜

[@zenibyzajebiscie]

Chairty shops thats what you wanna look for :)

[@jermainejames8505]

Loving this...whose the guy who says "little later"

[@PaigeMariah]

thanks! just look up sponge bob time cards on youtube

[@Shoutinglouder]

Great video Paige! keep up the good work :)

[@71autumn]

Good Luck Paige🙌🙌🙌

[@PaigeMariah]

thanks Monique!

[@deniceworks6328]

What's the update on mousegate? Did the traps work?

[@PaigeMariah]

it was last seen in the kitchen but hasn’t been back in my room lol..I found the hole and stuffed it up

[@deniceworks6328]

Great!

[@mystikal2222]

Paige Mariah I was wondering lol

[@rashanashelton8961]

Hi! Just wondering what camera you use?

[@PaigeMariah]

canon g7x

[@st3v675]

Is london not much colder than chicago in winter

[@PaigeMariah]

the winter here is SO mild, I love it

[@ephyism]

Ya’ll so pretty

[@CindyPaul]

I just live for your videos

[@PaigeMariah]

yayyy glad you enjoy them!

[@unathiluthuli9220]

😍

[@foodtubeofficial8508]

Try the website myunidays you get student discounts for certain things