I have schizophrenia, and I have had paranoid tendencies, but now my medication controls them. I never married and had few dates, so since I was single I decided not to have children because I didn't want to raisie them on Welfare. I have two B.A.s but was not able to find work in my line of training, professional Writng in English, so I had to relay on social assistance to eke out subsistence--I wouldn't call that living. In retrospect I don't think I would have been a good mother, so it's probably just as well I never had kids.
@kathleensullivan45479 ай бұрын
❤that's very responsible and loving of you
@Quiggly69699 ай бұрын
I'm sorry you feel that way about yourself and I'm sure you have good reasons to believe you might be a bad mom but I can assure you the simple fact you worry about that means you would probably be better at it than many. I doubt it even crossed Jane's mind that she might be a bad mother before she started having kids.
@TaurusMoon-hu3pd9 ай бұрын
Wise and unselfish decision!
@kingcosworth26439 ай бұрын
Surely you could get work, it doesn't need to align with your B.A's, it'll be a better life then being on welfare and trying to occupy 16hrs a day with little money
@enjoystraveling9 ай бұрын
Even if you can’t get work, because you can’t work too long because of your medicine or whatever your reason, you could volunteer a few hours a day help out an animal shelter or whatever your favorite hobby interest, and that often makes one feel good.
@IsaBellum-w4z9 ай бұрын
I have a mentally ill mother and despite nothing excuses this horrendous murder,I can somehow sympathise with him as scary as it sounds.but the mind fck of your mentally sick parents can be overwhelming.its literally torture,esp when you re struggling with issues too..tragic story all around there
@drivethruabortion2808 ай бұрын
This is a tragedy. People give birth to demented individuals, regret having them. But, what about when a demented individual gives birth to you? A lifetime sentence.
@supernova117118 ай бұрын
I’m sorry but…just leave. You don’t owe her anything. You never asked her to bring you into this world. These people have us just to torture us as children, ruin our lives then expect us to take care of them when they’re older. That’s our whole purpose to them and it blows my mind how many people just go along with the plan. My mother has Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Undiagnosed but her “symptoms” are textbook and apparent. I cut all contact almost a year ago and my life has never been more peaceful. We had food and shelter growing up but everything else was chaos. Why would I bend over backwards to take care of someone who never cared to take care of me/us? Nope. She can figure out her own sh*t and I’ll figure out mine. I’ll also point out that she never did a single thing for her own parents either. I’m just following her lead 🤷🏻♀️
@rhoho22178 ай бұрын
Same. She died when I was 19 and I’ve mostly forgiven but sometimes the anger I felt toward her when I was a teen comes back and scares me.
@kevlarkittens2 ай бұрын
Jason was my friend in high school. We both slacked off in journalism. It's good to see a lot of people share your view. I understand why it happened but it's an explanation not an excuse. I do think he should get parol someday. I don't think he's a danger to other people, but who can say how true that is. I never would have thought he'd do this. I used to drive by the ravine on Ortega highway everyday to go to work and I grew up in Oceanside where he eventually dumped the body. I know the place exactly. It's so nuts, still nuts to this day.
@garchamp98449 ай бұрын
My mother has the same symptoms, and I see a lot of myself in Jason. My parents stayed married, but my farther would live his entire life as a spineless enabler who did everything in his power to avoid my mothers wrath, and him staying around was not a benefit for anyone involved. I totally understand why he would do what he did, even if it was the wrong decision. When all you have ever known in life is being held captured and tortured by your mother, ideas like “just move out brah” is not available to you.
@nanettevantriesteharder24699 ай бұрын
My motto is "Never let the bad guys/gals win!" Just like Abraham Maslow who had a horrific mother, do not let the mental illness of your mother destroy your chance at a better life.
@dont_harsh_my_mellow8 ай бұрын
Still does not justify how he threw away his future and potentially his brother’s over their crazy mother as opposed to escaping and going to stay anywhere else. Sad case though totally. Wow. 😕
@dianemorton22229 ай бұрын
She was a horrible Mother. I feel sorry for the two sons. They must have really hated her.
@Angie_bae6 ай бұрын
My parents were bad too and my brother did the same thing kinda to my mom and is serving time
@JP-ht6nm5 ай бұрын
He was 20. Didn’t have to be there. Poor, poor murderer
@Mr.Quinlan8883 ай бұрын
@@JP-ht6nm - Maybe he was staying there to protect his younger brother. We don't know. We weren't there.
@JamieLedweather3 ай бұрын
The victim blaming is absolutely disgusting
@ALINA-eo1crАй бұрын
@@Mr.Quinlan888 He could have taken him with him. He should have gotten a job and rented an apartment somewhere. Most probably he just inherited genetically some really bad traits from his parents, like violence and a desire to hurt people. He also should not have involved his brother on it.
@Hypno_BPM9 ай бұрын
feel bad for the younger brother, he basically was pressured to go along with his brother and was probably too scared to go to the cops
@carolelane63419 ай бұрын
I feel bad for both brothers.
@Sweet_Tooth_Art9 ай бұрын
Sadly it seems violence is all jason knew. I hope the younger brother is OK wherever he is
@bthomson9 ай бұрын
Those childhoods were horrendous!
@Curlyblonde4 ай бұрын
I had a mentally ill mother with schizo-affective disorder. It was a daily nightmare growing up and many times I was afraid of her, especially during her outbursts. Anything could set her off. She refused treatment and was impossible to live with. She would become violent and hysterical with the family if she could not control you and you didn't agree with her skewered viewpoints and theories. I left home as soon as I could and moved 1500 miles away to preserve my sanity and to have a chance of a "normal" life. Kept in touch and visited her once a year just briefly. Helped her as much as I could. She got worse as she got older, but she managed to look after herself until she passed away. She would have had a happier, better life if she had only gotten treatment.
@LUCKSREVENGE9 ай бұрын
I love how active Dr. grande is on KZbin. ❤
@greatamericandreamrealty8029 ай бұрын
Not to be greedy, but love when we get two in a day!
@littleeva9 ай бұрын
I feel bad for those abused children. How awful to be stuck with a mother like that. I don't think either of those children should have been charged with anything. They had no choice with such an awful person for a mother.
@jkjives17869 ай бұрын
There was a lot of tension in the relationship, mostly because of the brutal beating part.
@GigiRulesTheRoost9 ай бұрын
I cannot believe those boys were not taken away from this insane woman when they were just little boys. I bet Jane told Jason all the time that his father killed himself because of him. This is all so horrific and tragic. I wonder how the younger son is fairing all these years later?
@michaelwaninger31559 ай бұрын
If she refused to let him "transition" at 7 yr old they'd take him.
@GigiRulesTheRoost9 ай бұрын
@@michaelwaninger3155 oh boy ain't that right
@JustMe-fo4ev9 ай бұрын
@@michaelwaninger3155 lol imagine writing this
@GigiRulesTheRoost9 ай бұрын
@@d.thomas6988 😅
@psychokitty72689 ай бұрын
@@d.thomas6988Look up Jeff Younger, then tell me it's propaganda.
@maxshea18299 ай бұрын
"Not man enough to go on a date." Mother is talking to you, Norman! I agree with Dr. G. Jason was a sympathetic figure who committed inexcusable crimes. I'd like to think kids in Jason's situation could report their abusers to social services. Unfortunately, social services can also throw gasoline on a dumpster fire. I've dealt with them in my state and it doesn't always work out. Even when the abuse is obvious.
@cleopatra4449 ай бұрын
social services are a waste of taxpayers money or watever their paycheck comes from ,, clownery and waste of resources at its finest ,, children are rarely helped ,, just watch “ the trials of gabriel fernández “ Its a clear example of how the system fails these children. We need a better way to really help struggling kids while in the “care” of these psychpaths.
@srsusansummers30709 ай бұрын
So sad but you are right
@poindextertunes9 ай бұрын
I’m pretty sure 50% of Social Service workers apply for the job with bad intentions. Even more so for foster parents. Unfortunately jobs and situations like this attract terrible ppl. Its so sad. Most of these kids never even get a chance at life. Politicians could change that but theres no money in it
@Mili-bedili9 ай бұрын
Social services rarely take female abusers seriously. My brother and I were raised by one. Several times the police have come to our home, saw us bruised and bloodied, and all they'd do is recommend we spend the night at a friend's. It looks bad on law enforcement to arrest a female, especially a mother. Not once was she ever arrested. By the time I was an adult, social services finally contacted her job in child care to let them know she had an abuse record. So now she's permanently banned working with children. It took 7 years for social services to at least do that, but not once was she ever arrested for what she had done to me and my brother.
@kenwillis84879 ай бұрын
As a licensed foster parent in Tennessee, I personally think we have good services here compared to most! We dealt with Washington state getting my nieces and that was a dumpster fire situation! Not only had they been to there house three times the month their mom committed suicide in front of them in a fifth wheel trailer. They left them in her care with drugs all around and roaches as well as no running water or power! Then took a year to get custody while they stayed in a foster home there in Washington! The first two social workers were lazy pot smoking basement dwellers who didn’t know how to do their job! Finally the third one got them to us but it was to late, they formed a strong bond with there liberal foster family their and they told the girls they would always have a home with them and they could take them to see their dad in prison every month vs our once a year! The girls never could adjust to life in Tennessee and resorted to abusing our children so they could go back to Washington!
@Carole671829 ай бұрын
How different these boys could have been had they had loving parents.
@nanettevantriesteharder24699 ай бұрын
The fathers may have been decent men had not the first committed suicide and the last left. It was the mother who was indecent to her boys. Being born a biological female does not mean a woman is a loving parent.
@enjoystraveling9 ай бұрын
@@nanettevantriesteharder2469 And being born a biological male does not automatically make the man a responsible and loving father
@briskettacos9 ай бұрын
Genes also play a big role. Jane had problems from the start. Their dad was possibly prone to depression but whether that's genetic or not, who can say.
@drivethruabortion2809 ай бұрын
And being born doesn't mean you deserve to live.
@enjoystraveling9 ай бұрын
@@briskettacos that’s true, it’s hard to tell.
@MarleneTrujillo-uc8bj8 ай бұрын
As a survivor of child abuse from my mother I can totally understand why a child would kill their parent
@francislarv30129 ай бұрын
If Jason was inspired by The Sopranos then Jane was inspired by Mommy Dearest
@jeremyshepherd17009 ай бұрын
Or Tony Soprano’s mom
@steelcurtain1879 ай бұрын
Well said
@daynasafranek78079 ай бұрын
Norman Bates, had a mommy, too. 😢
@Shelby526909 ай бұрын
This is terrible. Never saw this show, but the whole production, directors, cast members, and writers should be sued.
So these poor kids were never taken away from the crazy woman. Then the oldest son decides to kill her because she’s been making his life and his brother’s life a living hell he gets 25 to life.. What he did was wrong, but he shouldn’t get life in jail. He should get really good therapy for his mother being crazy and then get to live whatever normal life he could possibly make out of what his mother has done to him and his brother.
@ALINA-eo1crАй бұрын
I'm pretty sure that he got such a long sentence due to the extremely violent nature of the murder and the premeditated part. He should have gotten the death penalty due to that, but his upbringing was a mitigating factor. Besides, he was already an adult and could have simply gotten a regular job and left the house. Instead, he planned his mom's murder in a torturous way and used a movie as inspiration. He also wanted to kill her because he gained pleasure from it. He probably beat her for hours if her bones simply disintegrated when the doctors touched the body. He even cut her in pieces. He really didn't need to do that because it's not like he did anything with the body. He simply threw her over a hill. He is clearly a psychopath.
@gsdogsmom9 ай бұрын
All my sympathy is for the abused kids.
@francisgalton26789 ай бұрын
I hear you. Mothers can be the worst
@nanettevantriesteharder24699 ай бұрын
@@francisgalton2678That is why good fathers are important for children to have in their lives on an ongoing basis. Like a Venn diagram of two partially overlapping circles, mates need to be able to share common core values, belief systems, attitudes, and behaviors and be able to appreciate/cope with the differences in relationship with each other to raise kids properly in a balanced mentally and physically healthy manner.
@ebg36249 ай бұрын
I agree ❤
@ALINA-eo1crАй бұрын
@@nanettevantriesteharder2469 Dude, there is no point for this comment on this video. His dad committed suicide, so he was also clearly mentally ill, just like the mom. These 2 people should not have had children at all because they were selfish and suffered from grave mental illnesses that prohibited them from doing their duty as parents. This isn't a case of a single mom who had had a previous good partner and was stopping him from having access to the kids. All the parents involved in this story were deadbeat parents and should not have had kids at all.
@nanettevantriesteharder2469Ай бұрын
@@ALINA-eo1cr First of all, I am not a dude. Second, I was referring to Matthew's father, Jose, not Jason's father, Armando. Jane was mentally ill and treated her boys badly, as a single mother.
@Jath21129 ай бұрын
It's...kinda funny that the paranoid lady....had a neighbor who followed her and apparently spied on her.
@dimarks4449 ай бұрын
That struck me as odd too!
@paulsto65169 ай бұрын
Gladys Kravitz comes to mind.
@daynasafranek78079 ай бұрын
It actually is kind of ironic 😂
@dimarks4449 ай бұрын
@@paulsto6516 I remember her from a long time ago! 😂
@paulsto65169 ай бұрын
@@dimarks444 Bewitched
@ShelleyBean18089 ай бұрын
You have become part of my daily ritual, Dr Grande 😅
@shawnfoster45069 ай бұрын
Mine too....if you know what I mean
@TransKidRevolution9 ай бұрын
😲
@sansnom5089 ай бұрын
Uh oh. It's a short trip from ritual to obsession to addiction 😂
@zangmo9 ай бұрын
Dr. G, what about battered victim syndrome ? It's often invoked for women, but this is quite parallel
@cobrafan14039 ай бұрын
He may be guilty of murder but the provocation by the mother makes it manslaughter or 2nd degree murder
@jackedkerouac44149 ай бұрын
As a huge Sopranos fan I couldn’t click fast enough.
@Hilz289 ай бұрын
This crime was definitely inspired by the Ralphie Cifferetto debacle 😱
@BabbittdaWabbitt9 ай бұрын
Dr. G. Telling the truth about humanity one sad story at a time.
@sandydee80039 ай бұрын
I don’t understand how people can move through life this mentally unstable and not have some sort of intervention??
@briangarrow4489 ай бұрын
This country doesn’t have a comprehensive mental health care system so many people who need help are missed and never get treatment. Many people who might have helped them were probably struggling with their own mental health issues or any number of other major issues.
@drivethruabortion2809 ай бұрын
Who would intervene?
@sandydee80039 ай бұрын
@@drivethruabortion280 My first thought was through the school system when the children were younger. (Social Services, etc.)
@lolazal19 ай бұрын
Insurance based healthcare
@ilovezzz20129 ай бұрын
@@sandydee8003 That’s probably why Jane and the kids moved around so much. Her paranoia could have also included losing custody of them. The real question is why did no one else in the family help the kids? Aunt? Grandparents? They knew she was unstable enough to beat her mom, but left her alone with 2 kids?
@lindabarron21819 ай бұрын
I would say the mother was the monster
@nickh.49179 ай бұрын
My grandfather said, “If you plant corn you get corn. If you plant beans you get beans. And if you plant trouble you get trouble.” Jane planted trouble.
@adotintheshark48489 ай бұрын
The way Jane ended up, she had every right to be paranoid.
@aero43799 ай бұрын
Self filled prophecy.
@camellia86259 ай бұрын
What a sad situation for all involved
@matthewbrown86799 ай бұрын
Jason was responsible for his actions, but consideration definitely should have been made for what she put him through. If he can ve verified to no longer be a danger to society, he should be out in time to still have a life.
@enjoystraveling9 ай бұрын
I think he would need a lot of therapy first at the least since his brother didn’t make the same choice he did. It’s too bad they didn’t give therapy to the mother way back when she was a teenager and was showing schizophrenic or some other psychological problems
@melissaharris3389Күн бұрын
I suspect Jason had battered person syndrome, a severe form of PTSD. He really believed his life was in danger from his mother at all times. Being a victim of prolonged, sustained abuse by an intimate partner has been used successfully as a defense or a mitigating factor by women but with much less success by men. I don't believe it's ever been used as a defense by an abused child that killed their abusive parent successfully. Which I find hypocritical. An adult being abused is infinitly more able to escape their abuser than a child whose literary and legally trapped with an abusive parent.
@Meditations20249 ай бұрын
She clearly tortured her sons and the sentencing should have reflected that IMO. She shouldn't have even had custody of those boys, clearly. She obviously was incapable of even taking care of herself.
@averagejoe17739 ай бұрын
Guy I grew up with Mom was the same way... He was a 5'2 white kid covered in scars. I remember one day I was like Kevin was you in a gang or something cuz you got cuts and shit all over you... I guess his mom used to abusing horribly... I think stuff like this goes on more than you know.... And let me tell you this guy is literally blank and I mean literally... The things he experienced in his childhood I can only imagine.... So I definitely feel for these boys
@AntSol19929 ай бұрын
Jason never had the makings of a varsity athlete.
@robhill43529 ай бұрын
HE WAS SLOW!! STRONG AS A BULL. HANDSOME LIKE GEORGE RAFT!!
@rosihantu19 ай бұрын
Small hands
@robhill43529 ай бұрын
@@rosihantu1 haha thats what daddy usedtuh say
@sharonhoyt21339 ай бұрын
Uncle Junior?
@AlwaysHalloween0009 ай бұрын
@@robhill4352 Yeah and I play shortstop for the Mets
@KimberlyLetsGo9 ай бұрын
He wasn't given a fair shake from the very beginning.
@maxshea18299 ай бұрын
"Blanks you. You're just a security guard. You can't do anything." (slow clap) You can be smart at school and dumb at life!!
@Rose-fv1pd9 ай бұрын
Security guards can't shoot people
@cmorangarcia9 ай бұрын
I know people like this. They are very smart with high degrees, but can’t last on the jobs.
@ALINA-eo1crАй бұрын
I'm confused. Are you saying the security guard was dumb or the kid was dumb? I don't remember if it said that he was good at school.
@ALINA-eo1crАй бұрын
@@cmorangarcia I'm assuming it's because they have personality issues. I know some people like this. They are either lazy or just have narcistic tendencies or are very argumentative, always wanting to be right. The kicker is even if you explain it to them, they still think other are to blame. If you're smart, but can't get along with people, you will fail in life.
@g6ter19 ай бұрын
your post cadence is amazing
@holaizzy9 ай бұрын
Agree!
@lawrencetorrance70519 ай бұрын
Hardest working man in show business
@manewland19 ай бұрын
Another Monday morning, another morning coffee, another backlog of videos to watch as I begin my week. Thanks, as always, Dr. Grande!
@kevlarkittens2 ай бұрын
Wow, finally someone does a video on this story. This is my high school friend. I remember when it happened. Jane was a horrific person. I'm not surprised it happened. He still should be in prison but I really think Jason should get parol someday. This is really a messed up case.
@TigersandBearsOhMy8 ай бұрын
The way she treated her sons, I don't care what anyone says, that WAS self defense. Their lives may not have been in jeopardy at the time of the incident, but they were clearly at risk in general.
@MM-bi9qm9 ай бұрын
This was a very good analysis. Sad, but thank you!
@JDoe0019 ай бұрын
I feel sorry for them all. This is a tale of extreme tragedy.
@aaronmann48099 ай бұрын
What a horrible childhood. Jason should have just taken his little brother and moved away somewhere, far from his mom.
@shanecrump79328 ай бұрын
I’ve experienced paranoid psychosis from taking meth but I can’t imagine living with that naturally. What a tragic story. I feel bad for every person in this story. Even the ones who were jerks. I especially feel bad for the younger brother.
@saturn7229 ай бұрын
Whoever said people aren’t influenced by what they see in movies, tv, video games only have to look at the long list of murders where the killer admitted using ideas from violent media. Many thrill kills tend to be a copycat’s only motive or in this case the motive was his anger at mental mom and The Sopranos became the influence in how she would be killed. Very bizarre indeed!
@lysawoolley21139 ай бұрын
Did I hear right? Jane brutally beat up her mother. Wth Edit: watched the rest. Paranoia 😢 undiagnosed mental health issues. I feel for the kids
@melissaharris3389Күн бұрын
So much pain could have been prevented if Jane's family had pursued charges for the assult on her mother. Just because it's family doesn't mean it's not wrong.
@matthew.stevick9 ай бұрын
⚠️ just a reminder: he will NOT be diagnosing anyone in this video; only _speculate_ on what may happen in a situation like this.
@seneca24039 ай бұрын
If you enjoy this video, please like it.
@davidglad9 ай бұрын
It's like shows that say "meant for mature audiences," while the more fun ones add ".. but you'll probably listen in anyway"
@cindymcanders9 ай бұрын
I’m still waiting on him to make shirts that say this.
@madeleineprice35569 ай бұрын
if you’re speaking in past tense speculate needs to be speculating instead of
@taylorkai41449 ай бұрын
it wasn’t even past tense smdh
@drshoe87449 ай бұрын
I've heard that Insanity is hereditary, you get it from your children.
@imcharming48089 ай бұрын
OOHHH we got a comediann here!!
@hjlydia9 ай бұрын
Lol😅
@Leo_Pard_A49 ай бұрын
Nice one
@paultorgerson87769 ай бұрын
Barroom Chee!
@adotintheshark48489 ай бұрын
your kids will drive you crazy
@mellowmoods83939 ай бұрын
I'm from San Marcos, and Oceanside, and used to run right down this street on South Pacific street!
@Jessrenee2949 ай бұрын
My favorite channel 😍 Dr. Grande!
@marilynmcmahon59329 ай бұрын
If child services were involved maybe Jason could have the help he needed and the murder would not have happened.
@enjoystraveling9 ай бұрын
If the mother might’ve had help as a teenager after she beat her mother and they realized she was schizophrenic or some other problem. Maybe she might’ve had medicine to take or something to help her and she might’ve been a better mother, or chosen not to be a mother who knows this is just a theory also.
@BamaCyn9 ай бұрын
I would have been yelling "NAILED IT" if I had made a B in algebra. So sad that this mother screwed up her kids so badly. The last part sums up exactly how I feel.
@MegaLivingIt9 ай бұрын
That woman was a nightmare and shocking that health care agencies did not step in.🌿
@stantheman49649 ай бұрын
I agree with the final thoughts on this one.
@XanderShiller9 ай бұрын
"How could you ma? Your only son, your middle child..I do right by you AND YOU TRY TO HAVE ME WHACKED?!" 😂
@alainpreveaux24289 ай бұрын
Sounds like Jane lost her head around 1979.
@fightingtosurvive65279 ай бұрын
Covering one's windows with aluminum foil indicates a drug-induced paranoia.
@JohnnyDanger369639 ай бұрын
meth
@camellia86259 ай бұрын
How do you know this?
@filipefigueiredo98479 ай бұрын
@@JohnnyDanger36963 yeah I've seen people (during their meth benders) doing that kind of stuff
@susankeith3269 ай бұрын
Many people do it in order to reduce air conditioning bills .
@JohnnyDanger369639 ай бұрын
@@Jojo-o6o6w yes it does.
@gigicolada9 ай бұрын
Too bad Jane’s mother didn’t press charges all those years ago. Not saying it would have helped, but maybe could have.
@thecorrectoification9 ай бұрын
That's unbelievably sad.
@elizabethwarman90289 ай бұрын
Hi Dr Grande, Excellent analysis. What is the old saying? You create what you sew! As always I learn something new from your videos.
@MEL2theJ9 ай бұрын
Thank you again Dr. Grande 🙏
@damienluxford44809 ай бұрын
I miss Tony Soprano. He was cool.
@julieyoung33159 ай бұрын
Good Evening, Dr Grande. 👌
@michaelperez99669 ай бұрын
Jason was an adult, and didn’t have to live with his mother; but what was the alternative? Being homeless?
@drivethruabortion2809 ай бұрын
Here we go.
@enjoystraveling9 ай бұрын
He was in college, lots of college boys get a cheap apartment and three or four of them can afford the rent together. At an earlier time he had two jobs at once, one at a chemistry lab and one I think at a restaurant.
@sysiphuspeart90129 ай бұрын
One day he will say "Can I analyze the case of (...)? No. They are too dumb. I just can't stand it. Pick again."
@Westlakegal12 ай бұрын
😂
@CapSolo0109 ай бұрын
I know what episode of the sopranos he’s talking about. The one with Ralphie
@AntSol19929 ай бұрын
Yep
@Trav_Can9 ай бұрын
It reminds a bit of Ed Kemper. It's what can happen to a boy raised by a horrible mother. Ed had an epiphany while on the prowl with a couple of girls in his backseat. He realized he didn't want to hurt the girls, it was his mother that was the problem. So, he dopped off the girls, and fininshed off his mother problem. Then he turned himself in. Which is admirable.
@TaurusMoon-hu3pd9 ай бұрын
Pity too. Waste of a highly intelligent mind😢
@drivethruabortion2809 ай бұрын
I mean, yeah, I guess.
@nanettevantriesteharder24699 ай бұрын
Bad parenting is a huge problem in society's school, social, and criminal justice systems. Risk factors for serial killers come out of intergenerational patterns of dysfunctional family behavior. Bad people should not have children, whether they are mothers or fathers.
@TaurusMoon-hu3pd9 ай бұрын
@@nanettevantriesteharder2469 Bad parenting is a huge problem. But to be fair, if parenting created who you are, then all siblings in a family would have identical temperaments and personalities. People ARE born hardwired a certain way.
@nanettevantriesteharder24699 ай бұрын
@@TaurusMoon-hu3pd I can understand and appreciate your confusion, but it is actually a combination of both nature and nurture as is seen in epigenetics-genetics. In biology, epigenetics is the study of heritable traits, or a stable change of cell function, that happen without changes to the DNA sequence. During the critical growth periods of human development from womb to tomb seen in the stages of neuron development a) neurogenesis, b) migration, c) differentiation and myelination, d) synapotogeneis, and e) apoptosis each individual, even those involved in groups of multiple births, is uniquely exposed to concentrations and combinations of water-soluble and lipid-soluble elements and compounds that cross the placenta. For example, domestic violence that commonly occurs during each progressive pregnancy gets worse with the birth order of each child, releases high levels of the toxic hormone cortisol in the freeze, flight, fight, or fawn response of the mother and unborn child. Also, a mother that tries to numb the emotional and physical pain through self-medication over the courses of several pregnancies can create an even greater problem. That is why every child is different to one degree or another. I researched genetic inheritance of autosomal dominant, X-linked recessive, mitochondrial disease polygenic mt DNA for my research paper, "Why Would Susceptible Families Not Get Genetically Tested for Mitochondrial Dysfunction?" for a longitudinal study design of Huntington's Disease across generations during my Master of Public Health. I did a deep dive into my paternal grandfather's side of the family, which had gone through the Dutch Famine (1944-1945). I also did a deep dive into my paternal grandmother's side, which had gone through the Irish Potato Famine (1845-1852). Economic hardship is the top Adverse Childhood Experience that leads to early death. Regional, such as the aforementioned, famines are highly studied examples of familial, maternal, and fetal nutritional deprivation before, during, and after pregnancy. MELAS (mitochondrial encephalopathy, lactic acidosis, and stroke-like episodes) is specifically associated with the Dutch Hunger Winter. MELAS is one of the family of mitochondrial diseases that include MIDD (maternally inherited diabetes and deafness), MERRF syndrome, and Leber's hereditary optic neuropathy, which was characterized in 1984. A feature of these diseases is that they are caused by defects in the mitochondrial genome which is inherited purely from the female parent. The most common MELAS mutation is mitochondrial mutation, mtDNA, referred to as m.3243A>G.
@carolann32499 ай бұрын
Mother created her monster. Edmund Kemper had a similar mum . Both mothers were killed . I do feel for him though, growing up with no real stability and not much positive care .
@ElleEmenopyАй бұрын
I find it a tad ironic that this paranoid woman was actually being followed by her neighbor on at least one occasion.
@cybermandan19609 ай бұрын
WTF I'm literally watching The Sopranos right now 😂😂😂
@AVantinfluencer9 ай бұрын
Doctor Grande, you're the best... I have to hear at least once a week your intro... "I'm not diagnostic anyone, just offering my analysis". 😊😊😊
@echopeakbicycling859 ай бұрын
Reminds me of serial killer Edmund Kemper and his relationship with his mother.
@feraudyh9 ай бұрын
Can you discuss the case of Petra Pazsitka? She disappeared for two decades and was found alive again.
@bunberrier9 ай бұрын
So she kinda had it coming then.
@easternkiwiz9 ай бұрын
Armando "could not live without her" and she was "all he ever wanted" RIP Armando
@lochnessmunster11899 ай бұрын
If they'd stayed together, he probably would've left her after becoming sick of her. That's the crazy part.
@easternkiwiz9 ай бұрын
@@lochnessmunster1189 If Armando had committed a murder-suicide, taking Jane out at the same time, he would have spared their son Jason the job, and saved him from a life in prison
@lochnessmunster11899 ай бұрын
@@easternkiwiz Good point. RIP Armando.
@really54539 ай бұрын
Does anybody else see the physical resemblance to younger Eminem?
@gonzojr.86489 ай бұрын
Great assessment Doc.
@HeatherHolt9 ай бұрын
No sympathy for those who abuse their children. No matter their size.
@orionspur9 ай бұрын
We want "situation like this" merch! (please)
@Sarah.Riedel9 ай бұрын
"Jane thought that people from Mexico were hiding in her bushes and living in her backyard" I mean, she may not have been wrong there
@cleopatra4449 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 #facts
@hrdley9119 ай бұрын
😂 True dat!
@Hatbox9489 ай бұрын
Lol!
@adotintheshark48489 ай бұрын
with the state of our open border, she had a point
@maryrichardson60299 ай бұрын
Always interesting Thank you ❤
@patrickrpedrus7479 ай бұрын
If he knew any better he would've known Quasimodo predicted it wouldn't have gone well.
@Kcourt19969 ай бұрын
Ayyyyeeee!!! Who else thought that was Eminem in the thumbnail 😅
@bold8109 ай бұрын
Dr. Grande, I honestly, sincerely enjoy everything that's you, but
@tod3msn9 ай бұрын
We have a society that is enthralled by celebrity and entertainment that has members of the society who cannot distinguish fact from fiction. Believe it or not but actors on shows like "America's Most Wanted" who are reenacting a crime for a tv show get spotted in a supermarket and have the police called on them. People often yell at actors in public thinking they are the characters they play on tv or in the movies. Kids play games on their phones and iPads where they killed guys in these video games and become desensitized to the consequences of violence. Good people who follow all laws suddenly get engulfed by show business and start talking about being "on set" when all they are doing is going to a photographer to get their picture taken. My point is that while it is extreme and horrible having someone inspired by a fictional tv show that is not real is not that unusual.
@ehrgeiz09 ай бұрын
Even if Jason was an adult, he couldn't necessarily leave the house since his Mom kept him under her thumb figuratively speaking. How could he get a job and be independent when his Mom wouldn't let him go on a date?
@enjoystraveling9 ай бұрын
If your adult over 6 feet tall and over 200 pounds, it seems like he could easily escape. Just pull the window down and bust out the screen. He did have two jobs and one of the cities they lived in at the laboratory and another job
@enjoystraveling9 ай бұрын
It’s hard to correct my mistakes on this tiny iPad but I meant to write, you are not your.
@cosmicgirl11169 ай бұрын
Omg... I thought I heard it all.... until NOW
@chesterfinecat75889 ай бұрын
Armando was armed and oh so conflicted he self-inflicted. Jason was chastened for decapitation as an inappropriate expression of his frustration but Jane was bat poo koo koo so wasn't much Matthew could do too.
@drivethruabortion2809 ай бұрын
Noice.
@Chopper6508 ай бұрын
jane sounds like a real keeper
@powper29 ай бұрын
He should have moved far away from his mother without looking back and moving forward. You can’t reason with narcissistic parents or people for that matter. He was already an adult and should have kept onward.
@DotToryX9 ай бұрын
The oddly timing of this coming out while I'm rewatching the Sopranos.
@moemenace53459 ай бұрын
Dr. Grande, could you analyze the case of Bossman Jack please?
@alelkel36989 ай бұрын
Rat
@TonyLat-d1v9 ай бұрын
Allo dr. Grande can you do a story on riley strain next
@avoiceinthedark20289 ай бұрын
Got drunk, fell in river. End of story
@avoiceinthedark20289 ай бұрын
My theory is that it’s always drunk men cause they pee in the river and fall in. They are drunk and more adventurous, bad judgement, seems fun to pee in river instead of land
@avoiceinthedark20289 ай бұрын
And the happy faces are just cause happy faces are so common, confirmation bias. You need to compare it to the number of happy faces by rivers not near bodies. I’m sure it’s even more
@TransKidRevolution9 ай бұрын
And he removed his debit card from his wallet put it on the ground then took a pee? Makes total sense😂😂😂 Don't become a detective, nancy drew🙄
@Norman-Bates-609 ай бұрын
I would never harm my Mother. 💘
@bokagoofy9 ай бұрын
If he loves Sopranos so much he will probably enjoy doing over 20 years in the can, like Phil Leotardo, eating grilled cheese off a radiator.
@missvida62519 ай бұрын
Why were her neighbors following her? That is beyond nosey! Everyone in this story is awful
@Historybuffhere9 ай бұрын
Since you’re in the neighborhood, please review the Dale Akiki case!
@NDcompetitiveshooter7 ай бұрын
So....the mother was likely a victim of her mental illness, so she gets no sympathy. The adult son could have walked away from everything, but he didn't. He carried out a horrific murder, mutilation, and desecration of his mother's body. He gets the sympathy because he had a hard life as a kid. Interesting. I think everything about this is unfortunate for all of them, but trying to excuse what this man did to his own mother as all her fault is a bridge too far IMO.
@justin97449 ай бұрын
Dr. Grande: "Just a reminder, I'm not diagnosing anyone in this video. Only speculating about what could be happening in a situation like this." Me as I swivel 180 degrees to face my computer while leaning as far back as I can: "Yes, of course. Please continue, Doctor."
@gigicolada9 ай бұрын
I hope Jason can someday be rehabilitated. She created that monster. Yes, he could have left so he is responsible, but still. She isn’t missed.