Parents Took Out a 3rd Mortgage to Fund My Golden Child Sister's Failed Business and...

Parents Took Out a 3rd Mortgage to Fund My Golden Child Sister's Failed Business and Now Want Me to Quit College to 'save' Them Out of Debt.
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0:00 - Story 1
14:41 - Story 2

[@dominonine]

That best friend and her dad are the kind of people that make the world spin. Phenomenal people and the owners of the diner too.

[@gabrielfreire3732]

Look by the way they talk and how the OP can get calmer by the mere presence of the best friend i must say that they are probably not be best friends for long if you know what i mean

[@LovelySunset-wf3uh]

​@@gabrielfreire3732 what do you mean????i don't get it

[@hahahahahahahahaa6580]

​@@LovelySunset-wf3uhi think theyre inferring that OP and the BFF have romantic tension

[@dumbidea1007]

That’s why I call bs

[@jayewrite1256]

@@gabrielfreire3732yeah it sounds like it, though until op brought up the sister thing I thought op was a guy but who know which way the friend swings and if the dad knows good for him letting his kid like who she likes and not treat he like there’s something wrong with her.

[@ktmmatt7243]

Story 1: No experience in baking or business and decides to open a bakery business? What could possibly go wrong?

[@Astari777]

'The smartest decision ever!' Moths later 'Shit i shouldve never fucking went with bakery i have no fucking experience and my foods are shitty'

[@SyedAhnafAhmed]

Pfh

[@SyedAhnafAhmed]

Story 1: Ops sister.... Has no bakery skills No business experience. No college Golden child Spoilt Karen Yea let me open a bakery Months later Yrheiwhdf2owggdbws9gwwdgekegejeidydue6fheowgdheueyrveheydueheveyeheheye *lot of cursing* No... I messed up.... My job died.. I'll just take my brothers money.... 9h no he don't want to...... Manipulate him...... Fuck I got sued

[@grt8guy03]

nothing tasty to eat

[@meghanmckenzie5273]

Op in 1st story, needs to make sure that their cruel family doesn't take out any credit cards in her name.

[@stephanien6237]

Yes! She needs to put a freeze on her credit!

[@suan333]

I'm not american and credit cards are not a thing where I'm from (like rarely people get them) so i don't understand how it's even possible to open a credit card without the person present.

[@TheHighborn]

They probably already did

[@russellmoon7642]

@@suan333understandable. If you have a full name, full social security number, and date of birth it is possible. Many parents with financial problems have opened credit in their kids names and ruin their credit before they are of age.

[@zucc51]

​@@suan333 people will basically forge signatures on an agreement form to co-sign on a line of credit or loan which is accepted because of the forged signature and makes them liable

[@Maninawig]

Second story: OP should send her one text saying "If you loved me, you wouldn't have become an adulteror."

[@pamlew338]

And yes I'm loving myself

[@sosamma090]

No. That is a bad idea. You are just wasting your time. Completely ignore her and have fun hanging around other women. The best way to get revenge over a cheating woman is to let her know that she has no power over you and your life is still better than hers. If she knows that your life is even better without her in it, that fact will eat her up from within.

[@NessieNice]

​@@sosamma090 the idea is the make fun of what she said herself if only the OP have a dark humor sense

[@JRMAV1]

Adultery is for marriages, she’s a cheater.

[@user-jk8vh3cw2x]

just thought the same thing

[@virgilhawkins7368]

Story 2: One of cheater's text OP was "If we had spent more time together, this wouldn't have happened." Ignoring the fact that she was the one constantly canceling plans on him.

[@nick-brothwood]

Hypocrite.

[@TsausNtuj4504]

Exactly my thought

[@watcherquek263]

They always find excuses and never take responsibility.

[@DarkEinherjar]

I actually had to pause the video when the daughter said "AGAIN"... what a trashy woman that ex was. And trash is to be taken out before it stinks up the place.

[@Arcane_Route_66]

It's very telling that the daughter said, "You're doing this again". Sounds like the ex has gone from one guy to another and the daughter never had a stable father figure, which she obviously resents her mother for.

[@Lazydiety]

Yea the ops situation is sad but the daughter is sadder

[@SukanaCreatures]

Doubled down on the "I AM BITTER" Damn right! xD

[@charliegone1652]

Ha! The audacity of that last woman is amazing. "If you cared anything about us, it didn't mean anything, if we spent more time together." What a POS. She was the one who didn't want to spend time together. Cheater logic.

[@stephanien6237]

I don’t know why cheaters don’t just break up.

[@TyreeHarris-ir9pl]

​@@stephanien6237not wanting to lose thier meal ticket

[@_juju_jojo_]

@@stephanien6237cuz most of them are good-for-nothing parasites

[@emilyN1]

OP is lucky that they have amazing friends. The diner owners and the best friend and their amazing dad.

[@BaoHadir]

Story 2: The daughter sounds like a good kid. Surprising, considering her mother.

[@karlwittenburg5868]

Well sometimes purity comes out to spite the rot

[@somberbunny7945]

But is she really? The daughter said "agian" as if she knew her mother has already stepped out of the relationship with op. Thats how i read it anywho

[@Asmitha90]

Daughter obviously knew...

[@BaoHadir]

@@somberbunny7945 To me it sounded more like her mom had cheated in a previous relationship, and so she called her out for doing it again.

[@rayusremy]

​@somberbunny7945 probably the girl's own dad. I mean. Why is the single mother single and why is the daughter saying again? She's got a pattern that's why

[@abigailgerlach5443]

Family can always make you feel guilty. This is because you are a decent person. Your parents know what buttons to push to make you feel as though you are responsible for their problems. "Family" is a very convenient concept to trot out whenever they want something from you. When you want something from them, "family" disappears and you're on your own.

[@amaryllisrelic9097]

The Family expecting him to stop everything he's doing makes them AH. But Op saying for sure that he's better than his sister is AH behavior to me. He has a huge ego.

[@kisstune]

@@amaryllisrelic9097 It's even worse then that. OP will advise them but they won't listen and when it fails they will tell everyone the business failed because of OP.

[@1cn1cn1]

​​@@amaryllisrelic9097how is that a huge ego to say that he's better than someone, albert Einstein is better than you and if he said that would he be an AH?, the only difference between you and Einstein and them two is that there is a lesser difference in intelligence...

[@amaryllisrelic9097]

​@@1cn1cn1ok 😂

[@_juju_jojo_]

@@amaryllisrelic9097bruh that's confidence not ego lmao Never get why mfs harp on unimportant details

[@gardnerhill9073]

Cupcakes, it had to be cupcakes. Fastest way to say "I'm a total business flop who's being bankrolled by Daddy" is a cupcake shop.

[@user-jz3wf3tm7c]

damn bro hardest line ever heard bru "I kno u get hungry after s3x" like damnnn my mans tht was harsh but fckn funnyyy

[@blue3532]

Once a cheater always a cheater.

[@MashedPotatoLover]

"I wish i kept the ice cream" 😂

[@domvasta]

Bad idea to eat when you feel sad, don't link food and emotions or you'll end up getting fat

[@watcherquek263]

@@domvasta And will also associate that taste of the ice cream with the breakup

[@MysteryGaymer]

Best friends dad is the mvp

[@benny2125]

Broke down because absolute losers called you a disappointment? Am I missing something? A baker that can't bake, parents taking loans out for that baker and they think OP is the disappointment? This new world is crazy

[@A-Warthog-cc1wm]

The fact OP broke down meant that she had just the smallest ounce of love for them there for some reason. If it was me, I would’ve laughed in their faces and called them broke idiots lol

[@Maninawig]

The part you are missing is emotional abuse and manipulation. When a child goes through their life being ignored, the mind starts putting every moment of hurt, frustration, resentment, grief, and sadness into a box like Schrodinger's cat; a superposition where the moments are both an approval and a rejection. But when one side gets validated, the box is opened allowing an instantaneous bombardment of all those moments carrying the same verdict. In short, it's like feeling 19 years of verbal abuse condensed into a single second.

[@FlipflopB]

Most people have feelings. If she was in her early years of college, she’s in her late teens. She’s honestly pretty smart for going no contact and getting in touch with a lawyer so fast. Her parents embarrassed her, set her up, mocked her, and completely disowned her. What little amount of love and hope she still had was obliterated. Definitely a huge learning moment

[@DarkEinherjar]

OP is a disappointment in their eyes because she refused to be a doormat, bend to their will and sacrifice her future for their precious golden baby. That's how the narcissist's mind works.

[@TheShakeship]

Its a fake story

[@vinch9084]

What a wonderful ending with "I wish I kept the ice cream"

[@stephanien6237]

😂😂😂

[@sophiaisabelle0227]

So someone's been pushing me to pay for their college funds. I won't name names, but it's someone so close to me that we practically live under the same roof. I currently have one coin left. Though I'm definitely not asking for any type of donation.

[@n.g.l.]

I won’t name names too. They’ll stick their hand out as if they’re entitled to your money. That’s why I don’t tell people I don’t have money. I’d rather them think I have nothing than to want something out of me.

[@Maninawig]

I'll give you a penny for your thoughts, that way you'll have two cents to rub together 😂 Seriously, though, I wish you the best, cause that's a sucky position to be in.

[@mathildaandersson1341]

If first story op ever gets married they should invite besties dad to walk them down the isle.

[@emilyN1]

1st story NTA. Go no contact and stay no contact. OP. Is nothing more that spare kidneys for their golden child sibling.

[@minutemuse]

Story #2: “If you cared we would be able to work this out.” Lol if she cared she wouldn’t have screwed another guy. Gotta love the reasoning (or lack thereof) of cheaters.

[@ssj4ricketts]

That best friend is your true sister

[@genechristiansomoza4931]

1st OP feels guilty because her family wants her to feel guilty. Basic gaslighting.

[@Shoujin1]

Story 2: the daughter definitely orchestrated all of the encounter to help OP she’s amazing 😂

[@user-mx5hg4tr5q]

The best friends dad is a W in every way. I already know he would be a great person to have a drink with

[@gimpsickle5806]

The friends father takes the father of the year award in a landslide

[@Owl_bee]

OP: She’s so self-involved. Also OP: I’M the best sibling!

[@HoneyBadger1342]

People who think that family members owe each other anything are delusional. You do things for each other because you're family and you should love each other. Not because you "owe" anyone anything. If you take advantage of that love or neglect a person, then that love is gone

[@cavey001]

S2: Spidey senses tingling means stop being oblivious.

[@k.a.89]

The first story feels like watching a villain origin story. The OP was undoubtedly messed up for constantly competing with her sister, actively trying to stomp her in every arena, but you understand why she did it. She seemed to think parental love was earned through competition, so she challenged her sister at every turn. She seemed to think they were rivals, but it was obvious that she didn't see her as an enemy until they came barging into the life she built for herself, demanding that she give it all up for a family that didn't care whether she was alive or dead, and even resented her for being alive. I feel bad for both of the sisters, but as much as I feel for the older sister, I believe she knew that she was constantly being favored and did nothing to protect the OP while it was happening. And that was wrong of her.

[@celinereyes1185]

your bestfriends dad is looking out for you !! stay with them forever

[@stardustdeath2497]

Did it again? What do you mean “again?”

[@mimictear6788]

Well, you see, cheaters often form a pattern of adulterous behaviour.

[@B0T_Monka]

Op in the first story being a business major just makes me see them as lazy af no matter what 😂

[@elizabeth-lmhxmx]

op bffs dad is such a great person, helping to pay for her tuition

[@maliknegasi3282]

Blood may be thicker than water, but right and wrong are thicker than blood.

[@DarkEinherjar]

Ironically, that's an abridged version of the actual phrase, twisted to have the opposite meaning. The full phrase is “The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb”, meaning that chosen bonds are more important than family ones.

[@feng4ever]

Blood may be thicker than water but it's easier for them to drown you in.

[@Ministry_of_Defense.]

For the second story : Yes you should have kept the icecream

[@silvally5464]

sounds like bffs dad wanted two kids but was sadly robbed of the chance an is actually happy to be OPs better dad

[@kisstune]

OP needs to know just because you CAN help them fix the situation doesn't mean they will LISTEN and then they will blame OP. OP will be the punching bag for when it fails and they will blame OP for the business failing.

[@funtimegenshin6973]

I would of burst out laughing the moment she said i was jealous of her and said why would i be jealous of someone who couldnt even keep a business afloat and put her parents in debt

[@mizu7662]

That kind of comeback would work better if OP wasn't pretty clearly jealous as hell of their sister's relationship with their parents.

[@billyb6655]

@@mizu7662 omg a child wants to actually be loved by their parents, how terrible and unthinkable. amazing that you went on to reply with yet anther completely brain dead take so confidently. hope those whole two likes gave you your much needed validation.

[@aikoamaterasuaimi1488]

The second story just shows how OP is so mature and possibly a very loving person (in my opinion). like the fact that he still let her keep the Ice cream and tried very hard to trust her more then anything just shows how much he trusted her and the fact that he didn't wanna hurt her by being suspicious about her makes it obvious how well he treated her. I think the woman was very much an ungrateful woman and she was the one at fault trying to guilt trip him which is honestly such a pathetic move OP deserves better and the daughter needs a better mother figure because not only did she grow without a father figure. But the mother isn't just one of the worst when it comes to staying with one guy at a time (in my humble opinion)

[@spatan9835]

For the second story, best revenge is to tag them on social media and let all their friends know they cheated by asking her, “why did you cheat on me? Was all I’ve done for you and not enough?” Works often.

[@damaijin]

"You're just jealous." "Jealous of you tanking your business and dragging our parents down with you?" 😂

[@Yue_Jin]

Imagine dating a single mother, especially after she shows red flags.

[@ViralOtomo]

Story 2: I had to double-check that I heard right when she said "If we spent more time together, this never would have happened." Okay, first off, you talk to your partner if you think you aren't spending enough time together, not jump into bed with another person. Second, he was insisting before to hang out more, but you pushed him away! Honestly, she's full of it and never meant well for this man who went all-out trying to do good for her and her family. Credit to the daughter for not putting up with her mom's BS, too.

[@FlipflopB]

21:20 bro I burst out laughing at this. What a line

[@DEADHUNTER__]

"not as good as me in any way" yep i am out of here

[@scribbles1424]

Second story guy was a nice guy, he was the provider and nothing more. He's the textbook definition of Beta Bucks.

[@Boii93]

Friends sometimes can be a true brother and stick by ur side

[@josephknapp7533]

Story 1: its sad that her friends dad is more of a father to OP than her own father

[@supermama]

Second story: she is clearly an awful person and d thankfully her daughter knows it too… so she will get her comeuppance one day… sorry for the loss of ice cream… i love chocolate too. 1st story: just wow… she has gone through too much with her own family to help them… at that point I would call it a day and choose the bff family any day… like don’t claim them and they won’t claim you. Such a mess when parents play favorites… that really wrecks kids for life.

[@LunarRose7]

With story 1, I bet her best friends dad will offer to adopt her soon.

[@DaKrimzonEmpire89]

"IF we spent more time together this wouldn't have happened" buy she canceled on him ever chance she got😂😂😂

[@josereyes1148]

I have a feeling in 5 years there will be a story titled "my best friend since kindergarten expect my dad to pay for her college and take care of her and now she's bragging that I'm jealous of her"

[@reillycurran8508]

1st OP should report her family for dine and dashing just as a nuclear tier FU for them leaving her like that.

[@Fizzbizz]

it's hard to believe that most, if any of these stories, are for real because they're on reddit and they've always been written in such an overly dramatic fashion.

[@TheHighborn]

Op1 the phrasing step up really rubs me the wrong way. Her friends dad has no responsibility. He just helps out a friend, hes a good man

[@vanillanotpublic2298]

the best friend and dad from story 1 are soo nice that its too good to be true almost as if they were maid up kind of like the main villain from "You" season 3

[@kaitotatsuya]

Story 2 : revenge arc pls

[@grt8guy03]

second story: this guy is a DOOR MAT

[@cainagnascimento]

2nd op probably made her feel so damn guilty by lraving the ice cream

[@Ist_Alexiel]

The Second Story: That girl and you have a manipulative relationship

[@leiviniabirdway5945]

Story 2: "If we had spent more time together, this wouldn't have happened." OP: So, can we hang out? Ex: no

[@DarkEinherjar]

1st story: yes, OP is being selfish, but in her situation, it's COMPLETELY OKAY for her to be selfish. She should choose herself and her future over a family that always put her down and never did anything for her besides the bare minimum.

[@shellshockedbros4458]

No she isn't. She doesn't owe her family anything.

[@SpookyGhostHippy]

How is that selfish?? they made their own choices with their own money same as op so makes no sense why op would owe them anything

[@marrero8100]

DarkEinherjar, you need to fix yourself.

[@DarkEinherjar]

You people need to let go of this concept that selfishness is always a bad thing, really. Whenever you choose your own well-being over someone else's, you are being selfish, no matter how you justify it. But like I said, there are situations where being selfish is okay.

[@Red3yeX]

Choosing yourself and your future doesn't make you selfish. Her parents and her sister were selfish because they only cared about themselves and their happiness while putting someone else down.

[@Eric.43]

OP is Matilda 💀

[@gingershrimpale]

I'm only halfway through the vid but OP is like Tiana with Cinderella's family

[@Lonardeath]

Same but i would have kept the ice cream, lol

[@ayiza8511]

Tell them to f up and go on whit your life. Never quit college it’s not your responsibility or your problem. Who tells their child quit college and ruin their future

[@jemase7931]

Steffi still has friends? I can understand them putting up with her when they were getting a free trip. But to actually take her in?

[@AyeshaShah14018]

I wish i should have kept the ice cream😂

[@yuliiastelmashenko8650]

Damn, poor guy, I too wish he kept the ice cream(

[@CrazyCayson1]

"I wish I kept the ice cream"

[@ralucaeilish8023]

Another “Do it for Dan” story

[@Happymasks]

"You're being an attention seeker." "If I have to act this way for my parents to acknowledge me then that just proves how horrible you are."

[@katherinestepanski4776]

Story one: You are not in the wrong but feel guilty because you are a good person. I would talk to your friends and maybe a therapist.

[@akasiadiabi]

Story 2: The bf bought her ice cream, but she was having someone else's vanilla ice cream.

[@shadewolfe1231]

Story 1 - OP should probably lock down their credit as well.

[@hamptonbrown6118]

Do it for Dan!

[@canineatnight6026]

The 2nd story is literally he is fine to resolve it and willing to part way with her but she refuse and make it worst

[@Lazydiety]

Should've keep the ice cream tbh

[@reallyseriously7020]

Does anybody watch these video game clips? This one is more of a nightmare than usual.

[@josereyes1148]

I got vibes from the first story that she is more to blame than she is willing to admit. She seemed braggadocios and arrogant. Oh my friends dad paid for my college. It's not Alot of money and their rich. Oh my parents didn't want my help in business and ignore my obviously better advice. Said the first year business student. Idk. I can just see red flags from her too.

[@lagjusyaps]

I wish I kept the ice cream is crazy

[@maebell227]

Ur not in the wrong at all. Not after everything they put u threw

[@Helaur-om4rl]

YES. YOU SHOULD HAVE KEPT THE ICECREAM.

[@unclelink]

Almost everything in this world is backwards. STRANGERS treating strangers better than they own family. Family should be that evil towards each other.

[@Top-G35]

2nd story the daughter definitely knew and wanted to let op find out

[@GMWILD87]

Story 1 OP is doing the right thing taking care of their own future fuck that family I learned long long ago you can't trust even family so just go through life with acquaintances no strong attachment because when the people you want to be more betray you you can just push it out of your way and go on with your life.

[@ms.anonymous5323]

Even if OP is bitter she has rights to be.. cause I would be in jail if I was in Op's shoes.

[@_juju_jojo_]

What I don't get is why people bothered asking about that. Like as if it's a bad thing

[@georgegarvey7338]

2nd story: That's because his G/F is a WHR!!!!

[@0xygn18]

When im in an unnecessary guilt competition and my opponent is a woman :

[@padawanmoses]

Are there any updates on the first story? Does anybody have a link?

[@Bushy86]

You should have acted like you were going to say yes until your sister made that remark. Then your parents woukd be mad at her instead of you. Btw talking about the restaurant one

[@user-vy5wr4ed9p]

I’m definitely not satisfied, I love it when people like the people in the story have to beg for forgiveness but that didn’t happen, oh well

[@m.c.9419]

Story 1 - op needs to stop meeting with these losers. They don't want op to rise above and excell while they drown in debts. They're the bitter ones because they gambled on the wrong horse. Op's sister needs to file bankruptcy and leave to have any shot at a normal life and op needs to watch her credit really carefully so they don't try to take out loans in her name. Story 2 - op: "we dated for two years and I convinced myself I met the love of my face" barf. Op was just the convenient meal ticket. Op didn't deserve to be cheated on but I really hope going into the future op doesn't approach the next relationship with this much naivety. Of course his girlfriend was angry. She's annoyed op is making her feel bad when she told herself every excuse under the sun to make cheating on him okay. I love her excuse was "you weren't around" when she was the one cancelling plans on her boyfriend.

[@conciergehades3779]

That not your best friend that’s your sister and real dad

[@logicalmusicman5081]

Seems like an AI generated video.

[@wthao]

Holy shit I hope OP of the story has his shit locked down! They might take a loan out in his name and shit.

[@meeksdabear]

is story 1 going to havve a part 2?