Part 1 - How to biblically discipline our children - 2021 Christian parenting

[@mbakdosen6815]

I'm kind of quick to anger mom. I have prayed for this. And thank God I find this video. Hope to be able to practice your tips. Please pray for me. Thanks

[@ThomasSmith-z5q]

Just finished reading ‘Raising Warriors: Preparing Your Children For a Godly Life’ and it really opened my eyes to some new ways of guiding my kids in their faith. Highly recommend it if you’re looking to strenghten your family’s spiritual life

[@iDomeanica]

This was really a blessing to me. I've healed in some areas and now see that I need to focus more on parenting in a more biblical manner. Behaviors are there, but I needed to understand a more biblical approach. Examining our heart first makes a world of difference. Thank you. Just Sub'd.

[@nikkig4847]

Examining my heart: expectations too high and too low at times too much and not enough grace at different times. Cleanse me from my hidden faults.

[@CoachAlicia23]

Exactly! Lord keep our hearts pure for who can know their own faults. 🥰

[@hannahewing2578]

Oh my! I needed to hear this today. I have been so burnt out in my motherhood journey & this is the encouragement & guidance that I needed. I have 3 littkes 3 & under & most days feel so exhausted that disciplining is coming from a place of being burnt out. I have totally put my Savior & Father's response on the back burner. I'm excited to learn more.

[@CoachAlicia23]

My heart goes out to you, some seasons are so hard! I’m glad you could find what you needed in this to be encouraged! Praying for you and your littles. 💕

[@millidw8070]

Thank you for the video mommy ❤ truly wise words inspired by the Holy Spirit.

[@jewishbride5010]

Lord almighty, in agreement with this whole message and proverbs 22:15 and luke 6:45 I bind myself to know how to rightly correct the children in my classroom by acts and words of wisdom, in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah!

[@bexsally6366]

Rod of correction is already named in the Bible …. Correction. It means boundaries maybe even physical boundaries. It doesn’t say assault them…. But let’s think about this…. A person who doesn’t have a fully developed brain and we can beat them into compliance….. but an adult (with a fully developed brain) I can’t because that’s assault? Discipline means disciple them….. boundaries yes, permissive parenting no, but this does not mean you physically assault them. I am not attacking you cuz a lot of ppl were raised this way and physical assault is in fact all about the parent not the kid.

[@Bugsy0333]

I must be missing something here. Please correct me if i am wrong.The Bible is very clear on this subject. Proverbs 23:13-15 ESV Do not withhold discipline from a child; if you strike him with a rod, he will not die. If you strike him with the rod, you will save his soul from Sheol. My son, if your heart is wise, my heart too will be glad. Deuteronomy 21:18-21 (King James Version): If a man have a stubborn and rebellious son, which will not obey the voice of his father, or the voice of his mother, and that, when they have chastened him, will not hearken unto them: Then shall his father and his mother lay hold on him, and bring him out unto the elders of his city, and unto the gate of his place; And they shall say unto the elders of his city, This our son is stubborn and rebellious, he will not obey our voice; he is a glutton, and a drunkard. And all the men of his city shall stone him with stones, that he die: so shalt thou put evil away from among you; and all Israel shall hear, and fear. I raised my son from age nine he is 26 now i never and i repeat never layed a hand on him for anything.

[@Sam_Dragonborn1]

Agnostic here, your take on discipline is based and this video we’re commenting on isn’t the way

[@Geo-Global-oz5kl]

So basically, this false Bible is supporting child abuse.

[@hannahkelsch919]

I have 3 boys. All creative, brave and strong willed. (It’s chaos here😅) I would love all the advice I can get to raise these boys right. Thank you 🥰

[@CoachAlicia23]

The biblical instruction I share in my videos can be applied to both girls and boys. However, I can create more specific content geared towards the different things they need as boys and girls. 😁

[@gloriablessing.tshibz3368]

Hi its not easy at all , i just made a video recommending some christian books to buy for children to help them with certain challenges its only a 4min/5min video but im sure it will help aswell ❤️

[@KAmani11-91]

Wow so good thank you so much! My husband actually sent this to me and I can’t wait to watch the others!

[@sophiawilson3723]

These encouraging words speak to my heart. I'm away from my grandchildren but as a child caregiver I will apply what I've learnt here. Let's do this together: I mean raise up a generation of spiritual, and well disciplined children. Thanks a lot.

[@IsrayliaBrownWorship]

Thanks for sharing Alicia

[@rebeccah.6403]

Thank you for these verses! God bless you!

[@livikasa]

I love how you explain things but would love to see examples of how you would speak to your child using the information you just shared feom the Bible. Semanarios of daily life and how to respond with wisdom and grace and kindness. 😊 thank you

[@livikasa]

I meant to say scenarios 😆

[@taralanger9279]

Thank you so much for this. I was laying in my bed crying because I can't get my children to listen to me and do right, or even listen to me when I try to tell them about Jesus, and after all the trying, I've hit a point where I am so frustrated and feeling like the boys are out of control. That makes me feel like a failure before God, so I have been getting angry and yelling at them, and that's not what I want 💔 😭 I don't know how to leave my emotions out of it. But this video really helped me to see them with different eyes and gave me the encouragement I need to try again. Thank you so much 💓

[@jeremymason8081]

Lead by example and show them Jesus can be a good time, too. God bless!

[@brittanyburley8966]

Love this!!!!! ❤

[@michelleoli4201]

This was so needed! ❤

[@thewordofyhwhistruelifefre8368]

Yaaass!!! Thank you we need more videos like this on KZbin biblically based discipline 🙌🙏👏❤💕🤗

[@CoachAlicia23]

Thank you! I’m so glad you enjoyed it. 😁

[@tiffanyleonardfit1946]

Thank you so much! I am going to listen to more of your videos tomorrow and check your podcast out!

[@CoachAlicia23]

Thanks and I hope it brings you some encouragement. ☺️

[@christinalemar8595]

Good advice, but I have to correct you on one. In the psalms, David is not saying he was born a sinner. He is talking about his conception! He was born out of sin, the sin of his mother. We don't know if she was a fornicator or an adulterator, but it is absolutely not saying he was born already a sinner. Later in the psalms it says that God has fearfully and wonderfully made. David. Did God fearfully and wonderfully create sinners in the womb? That's a contradiction. There's not one scripture that says we are born already sinners or even with a sin nature. We become guilty of sin when we begin sinning. And we don't begin sending until we know the difference between right and wrong. And when we choose wrong. To him, it is sin. That is what the Bible says. The Bible says that the kingdom of heaven belongs to children and that we should become like children. What a contradiction to say that children are already sinners and also that the kingdom of heaven belongs to them, when Jesus himself said that sinners do not make it to heaven!

[@beautyfromashes08]

Really great vlog. God bless you for sharing.

[@CoachAlicia23]

Thank you for the encouragement. 😊

[@japanesehafufamilylife9067]

Amen, thank you for the biblical truth you shared😇🙏.❤️

[@levierose484]

Yes, and Amen. Alhtough, anyone's acts of foolishness shouldn't be seen as a blessing but an opportunity. Foolishness is sin.

[@CoachAlicia23]

Absolutely agree with you! :) I apologize if I didn't articulate that all the way through. An act of sin is in no way a blessing, it's what took Jesus to the cross and should bring us to a deep remorse and genuine repentance. I believe the blessing is when our children recognize and acknowledge that sin IS foolishness and therefore begin to CRAVE after wisdom. To have their eyes opened in such a way is a miracle. :)

[@susancoombs8500]

I’m a grandma first time on this site and would like to hear about how to discipline a child? Thanks

[@CoachAlicia23]

The video below might be helpful to you along with, the rest of the discipline series and one I recently did on integrity. Discipline is a big topic so if you are looking for something specific in that please let me know. :) kzbin.info/www/bejne/lYi0nqasjreXjLs

[@jeneeday3110]

This video made me feel like such a bad mom.

[@jessewiens2005]

What day is your next vlog

[@CoachAlicia23]

Every Monday. 😁 I wish I could do more but ya know, raising kids and stuff 😂.

[@boostedeuroguy]

Can dads use your principles?

[@CoachAlicia23]

Absolutely! My husband and I both practice these things. :)

[@boostedeuroguy]

@@CoachAlicia23 Thank you cant wait to apply this. Do you have anything on strong willed children?

[@CoachAlicia23]

@@boostedeuroguy Not yet lol but I do have one of those myself. :) I will add it to my list of things to cover. :) Thanks!

[@trumfit]

@@boostedeuroguy maybe you should do some research into actual professionals who know what they're talking about instead of this lunatic woman who advises you abuse your children. Here's a hint, if you hit your kids it won't correct their behavior it will only teach them to fear you and to hide their behavior from you. And in almost every case it will make their behavior worse. Oh also it is insanely immoral what the hell is wrong with you people don't hit children. Jesus Christ

[@jessewiens2005]

Awesome vlog on discipline

[@CoachAlicia23]

Thanks for the support and the request for this topic! 💕

[@natalielayton4288]

2 Timothy 3:16-17 (Not 1 Timothy)

[@CoachAlicia23]

Absolutely! Thanks for catching that! 💕

[@wearesojourners]

Very helpful video

[@CoachAlicia23]

Thank you! I’m so glad it was. 😊

[@trumfit]

1 Timothy 2:12 "I permit no woman to teach or to have authority over men; she is to keep SILENT!" Shame on this charlatan who spits on His word! The devil is using this woman to convince to to harm your children. God has blessed us with amazing advancements in psychological understanding of the human brain and it is FAR more complicated than we knew. All the modern science that God has blessed us with comes to the same conclusion: Hitting your children will not correct bad behavior but encourages it. I pray for you and for your poor children, that they may forgive you as he forgives us. Amen.

[@honeyhymns]

She didn’t say anything about hitting them 😃

[@nikkig4847]

Can you delete this comment? This mom appreciates you. I'm sorry for how mean us humans are.

[@CoachAlicia23]

Awe thank you Nikki. 🥰 It’s clear by his comment he didn’t watch the video at all and I’m fine with that. My ministry is to women, not men. I don’t take to heart anything that he said because he is not my audience nor is he the reason I do this. I appreciate your kindness more than you know! 🥰 God bless momma. 💕

[@christopherjackson4420]

​@CoachAlicia23 My gf has been having trouble with her 11yr old son whom is very argumentive, lying, sneaky, those sort of behaviors & this is really putting a lot of stress on her, & I want to be able to help her out. Your video was very helpful. ❤