Part 1: Tamera’s Emotional Return and Important Message

[@PureAloha78]

“She was my niece from marriage but she was my friend and sister from the heart.” Beautifully said Tamera

[@nirmalabhagwandin6635]

L

[@roslyn286]

@@nirmalabhagwandin6635 your life's an L

[@locheyy]

wait who passed from her family?

[@PureAloha78]

@@locheyy her niece Alayna.

[@valeriasimental7217]

Why was she crying?

[@raymond5823]

I found this from TikTok when she cried I love tia and tamera with all my heart..

[@billieeilishstan2003]

Was it the one that said, Me after losing that person I'd never thought I'd lose? If you did, I saw it too and I had to see why she was crying because I love tia and tamera so much.

[@monji7966]

@@billieeilishstan2003 that’s the one I saw

[@xoinarii]

@@billieeilishstan2003 yeah I saw that one

[@becca5499]

Do you know why she was crying like what happened?

[@kassandra2047]

@@becca5499 her nice passed

[@javarwalton-cooper6464]

That “I’m ok” BROKE ME😢😢😢

[@tater4442]

Melanin Queen it’s okay not to be ok

[@blumberg1982]

Javar Walton-Cooper yes. I’m a survivor as well. It sucks. I’m with you Tamara and Tia!

[@seawinsjemz7183]

@Melanin Queen you are so right because when she said I'm okay and broke down that clearly showed she really isn't okay.. and it's okay not to be okay...people somehow feel like they have to have this strong strength when a devastation has happened and you don't.. it's okay, you don't have to and it's even okay if you don't want to right?

[@Chin.SW7]

And then the tears!☹

[@unaboramashala2485]

Me 2

[@donjuan2704]

“I’m ok.” *immediately starts crying* This goes to show how desensitized we’ve become as a society. She’s clearly not ok, nor ready to be back at work, yet we’re happy to see her back. She needs time.

[@roseandlotus]

Agreed with this. We have created a society of masking emotions and no one is genuine

[@SwissmissSarah]

So so true😢

[@christineshultz7615]

I lost my son almost 2 years ago suddenly. I went back to work a week later. Seems soon but i needed a schedule back. I needed to know i wake up at 6:15 am, i do yoga and work from a to b. I make dinner, etc. Yes i grieve still and recognized that not having simple goals was not helping me either. I still took the appropriate amount of time to plan necessary things. I cried everyday in my car for months. Two years later it isn't always tears but he he definitely at the fore front of my thoughts. The grief is forever unfortunately. I imagine Tamara maybe felt the same and needed to her schedule back and to have the focus of her day not entirely be grief.

[@alextroy9202]

“Honestly, Im not okay”…that is what she could have said

[@KKelly-ng1ni]

​@@christineshultz7615I am so sorry for your loss. My mother died four years ago and I think of her everyday. I still cry.

[@lalalady06]

when someone ask me "how am i" the tears automatically start rolling

[@itsriya5950]

lala E. Yes and sometimes when try to hide it or be strong you just can't.

[@nawal10]

lala E. Same

[@Janee93]

me toooo

[@chanellebooysen9570]

Ugh I hate that😭

[@patiencesenegal1721]

lala E. Yhasss and then they try to hug me after they ask😩

[@baybae92]

“Tell me some more about Alaina :)” I lost my dad two years ago, and people never know what to say when I reminisce about him and get emotional. What Loni said is exactly the right thing to say. Just thought that was a cool moment of empathy :)

[@Kenzieann34]

Will Smith I lost my dad about 4 yrs ago.. and I agree that’s the best thing a person can tell you. The memories are what hold us together sometimes

[@lovelynaomi723]

Sorry God bless you

[@200puppy]

You are truly correct. I wish people would ask me that instead of saying life goes on!!

[@baybae92]

@@Kenzieann34 absolutely ❤️. hope you’re doing okay. grief is such a rollercoaster, isn’t it?

[@baybae92]

@@lovelynaomi723 thank you Naomi, that’s very sweet ❤️

[@siamahlee7173]

Tamera just seems like the sweetest person. You can literally feel her heart as she speaks! Such a sweet soul.

[@Markpierce2674]

I know I hope I get to meet her someday!! I love sweet and nice people like her!! Not to brag I’m just like her tbh!!

[@AmbyJeans]

Mike Carter That's such a horrific thing to say. Congratulations, you're an asshole.

[@Niah-jx9zi]

@ wow you're pathetic.

[@phylliserford8256]

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[@ivoryhaynes4501]

I love her

[@indigobeauty1]

I just realized she's wearing black because she's grieving.

[@_mya4glockss575]

what does that mean? im sorry im very curious

[@brandonsaraniti771]

@@_mya4glockss575 It's tradition to wear black after a death of the loved one. It's to show to the outer world you are in deep grieving so others around you may be respectful. Hope that helps.

[@kelslon]

Orrrr she’s just in black...

[@gioveiryguzman8650]

@@_mya4glockss575 when a loved one dies people usually wear black or dark colors

[@istoleyoursugar2015]

She never really wore black because she always felt it was a sad color

[@rosaisela6952]

Omg the sadness in her voice kills me... I don't know if you'll ever see this but Tam, it's okay NOT to be okay. 💙 God is with you.

[@mariannimoh9514]

Rosa Isela what happened to her. Where did she go

[@christyhudson5502]

❤️❤️

[@necopolk2955]

Marian Nimoh her niece, by marriage got shot in another mass shooting, so she took time off to grieve with her family.

[@Coqui2005]

Amen

[@Sssssssslf]

'God' 😂😂😂

[@smolomega101]

A friend of mine once said at our mutual friends funeral . Grief is all the love you have for that person . With no place to go. That’s why it builds and builds… and finally explodes into tears

[@momoh511]

0:36 That "I'm okay" with that fake smile represents so many of us sadly lying through our teeth hiding our pain and sorrows. I've never seen Tam so broken since S1. It truly breaks my heart to see her like that. I really wish for her strength and I'm sending love to her and her family 💕 🌻

[@BriaBarrows]

i was JUST about to post this. literally.

[@kindakomplicated4537]

What happened in S1

[@ceecee8766]

Yup! I’m crying watching this

[@fayepatrice1672]

She is usually such a ray of sunshine

[@momoh511]

@@kindakomplicated4537 I meant to say throughout all five season I've never seen her so broken.

[@ylaincarterandthekids4265]

I saw her cry on tic Tok and I had to find out why she was hurt I am such a huge fan every since sister sister . So I look up this story and just let me say when I herd her say I'm ok , I can feel the pain she was trying to hold in and cover up and I began to cry with her losing someone that you are so close to may it be family or a friend especially at a young age and the way she past it's something that is so hard to recover. Her niece not only was she beautiful she looks as if she brought so much joy to her families life as if when she walk in the room she brought nothing but love n sunshine . I know that this happen a year or so ago but I pray for her family and any one who has lost someone in that way like she said this world needs more love more supporting each other life is to short . So my love I share with all. All lives matter no matter who you are I love you for just being you

[@tamikalove7305]

Same here

[@syb.ent.boutique]

Mettoooooo. I'm like who hurt my girl??? It's an old clip. But just saw it today on tiktok

[@bradleylambie6115]

I saw too! I’m like “wait what happened?”

[@lyonzmane6332]

Same

[@kahala701]

Same here .. I had to find out what happened.

[@imalwaysright]

It’s only been 2 weeks, Tamera. It’s ok to not be ok

[@trinistar1930]

yesssss cardi mami

[@lianelayman7577]

I would never be OK if it were my niece.

[@ioneldanila9535]

what happened

[@maci3x._]

What happen

[@--BACKTFUP]

Moon-young😳

[@Sully0182]

"Tell me some more about Alaina" I loved that moment, she could see Tamara needed to keep talking about her and gave her that space. Not just to talk about what happened but the person who was lost. That was really beautiful

[@natayleegivens1046]

I knew the moment she said "I'm okay" I knew it wasn't true. You can see the pain and heartache in her eyes. I like everyone else have never seen her so broken and it's heartbreaking to see her like this. I will continue to pray for her and her family, because losing someone you love is no joke.

[@worshipcatalyst1]

she probably meant it in that moment but knowing that people weren't actually asking about her but about how what happened affects her - it's a reminder. your current state of being and what affects it are two different things. so she was ok for a moment and then everything came back and then she moved forward with that. and tears dont always mean someone isnt ok. just like laughing doesnt always mean someone is good/fine etc. emotions, mental health and the grieving process are so vast. best to never assume such things and let people be free to feel out how they feel inside for themselves. am i saying you're wrong in assuming she wasnt ok? no. i think that's a default response pending a person's tone, body language, facial expression, etc and knowing what has happened. but a healthy person does have moments of being "ok" in the midst of hard times which gives a relief to the stress of processing a situation. it's when you stay down and cant come up for air that you have a problem. i hope this doesnt offend anyone. i've just processed so much grief, trauma and loss and i hate when people assume how i feel instead of asking. i hope y'all have a pleasant holiday season and please stay safe out there.

[@brittany8318]

@@worshipcatalyst1 I know exactly what you mean ☺️

[@brittanyreid4855]

Nataylee Givens losing someone is no joke

[@msyellarose]

So true. Sometimes “I’m okay” just means “I’m pushing through “.

[@chancoo2896]

@@brittanyreid4855 who did she lose ?

[@lovie2000]

man I cant stand it when someone asks are you OK.... because that immediately brings the tears out no matter how STRONG you think you are or put on to be....

[@kristine7689]

I was not ready for 0:36 - 0:55....I'm crying for sweet Tam & her family! RIP Alaina Housley

[@corneilmadison9436]

You ain't never lied tears starting falling

[@timhoward5]

444

[@loveflowsfromife]

I don't think people realize what a loving and pure spirit Tamera has. God truly outdid himself creating her; never before have I seen someone so true to her faith and convictions consistently even as a celebrity. Breaks my heart to see someone so special go through so much pain and grief. This world is full of too much tragedy.

[@togundezainab9785]

My heart shattered when she said she was fine and started crying

[@ExploringTheHorizon1]

I watched it hundreds of times, and it’s still make me cry, I can tell the pain in your voice, it hurts.

[@julie_li]

"My friend and sister from my heart" The tears started flowing the minute she said that 💔

[@shakitashontajones]

I remember going back to work after my mom died. And the moment they asked how I was doing I broke down. I cried everyday, I took bathroom breaks often. It was only God who got me through this. I cry less but I still cry and I still can't believe it. Time really is what it's going to take. Someday you think you are fine and the next thing you know you calling someone crying having a panic attack. My heart go out to Tamera and her whole family, I know how close they are to one another.

[@youknowwhoitis2106]

This really made me tear up, when she said she's ok and then I saw that tear in her eyes, it really touched me

[@allthingsalexis1440]

As she remembered the heart ache of grief, she began to tear up but she firmly reassured herself. Then, she closed her eyes and took a deep breathe before she began to speak. Ladies and gentlemen, that truly takes STRENGTH.

[@gmcmim1]

When Tamera said she was okay and that long pause after showed that she isn't okay and is still getting over it. Tamera take your time. We love you♥♥♥

[@timhoward5]

You have 400 likes

[@kateplays778]

What happened

[@macteri]

Her niece died

[@taye9457]

I was so excited for Tamera to be back but watching this I realized she needed more time. My heart and prayers go out to Tamara’s family and to all the other families who have lost someone.

[@brit5133]

It’s been over a year since my mom died and I wanna break down every time someone asks me if I’m okay 😩 the pain never goes away no matter how early you come back to work.. you will always feel that raw and emotional feeling of loss.

[@rach7572]

hope you're doing okay and sending love your way xx

[@zarahshabs7936]

I’m so sorry! Lots of love to you ❤️❤️

[@2jcward]

Me too!! It will get easier.

[@christineaikhuele184]

I’m so sorry for your loss

[@Salama47055]

Psalm 34:18. The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.

[@spicylemon7042]

When she said “im okay” 0:36 and then she started to get upset. I really felt that. My thoughts go to Tamara. God bless her heart. Stay strong!!! 💖💖💖💖

[@joannasaad298]

Oh Tamera ☹ She should have taken more time off, still so raw 💙

[@BriaBarrows]

like a month. WAYYY to early.

[@mgmtgirlyeah7493]

Unfortunately, most jobs won't allow more time off.

[@kiamyal8698]

Mgmt Girlyeah yup and it depends on the family member you get more if it’s a parent

[@elidilara6489]

Time can't heal a loss so great. She explained why she came back. The best thing for her was to move forward. Plus, she has a story to share in this emotional time, this is the best way/time to share it.

[@nadiajuarez4763]

True but for some people grieving is easier when they get back into a normal routine. Only time can heal that pain but it will never fully go away

[@mariadelgado2745]

When you ask someone if they're okay when they're trying to be and really not okay I went thru this when my mom passed

[@vanessandanga5897]

Tamera is such a strong woman❤ she still tried to put on a smile even when she's broken inside Keep pushing Tam❤, God will bring you the comfort that you need 💖

[@jasmineirizarry1180]

I just came into this video because i saw a clip of this on social media. and I just want to say my family has been in pain last 2-3. My uncle passed away and he actually was always active at the borderline bar/restaurant and I definitely feel your pain. I came in here to show love to those who may be grieving because I am there with you. Giving a big hug to whoever needs it because sometimes during grieve we feel so alone… ❤

[@izzyc4490]

when she said "i'm okay" and starts tearing up... i lost it!!! my heart :((

[@lovetolaugh1453]

First time seeing this video. Tamera said what I’ve been saying for years. You NEVER get over losing somebody you love, but rather God gives us grace to “move forward”. ❤️

[@musicgal421]

Love Tam and you can just feel how heartbroken she is. Those girls are just more then coworkers they are her family and you can feel that. I’m so glad Andrea was there for her❤️ that must have made Tam feel a little better

[@Taehyungsfeet444]

I haven’t really got it yet like why is she crying ?

[@kaylarivas386]

@@Taehyungsfeet444 Ik 😭😭😭i dont know

[@abiiicakes]

@@Taehyungsfeet444 her niece Alaina, who was 18 years old at that time, died from a mass shooting last 2018

[@itsmenala9087]

@@Taehyungsfeet444 niece passed

[@anapg2]

Grew up watching her on TV. Seeing her cry makes me cry. It's like seeing a sibling cry.. hope God gives her and her family strength.

[@MajesticMyronn]

Andrea Regalado!!! I miss seeing her and Tam’s dynamic on camera !! That was sweet seeing her best friend in th the audience in support of her coming back on the show after such a hard time 🙏🏾

[@candaceranahan1971]

This gets me every time so many of us try and put on a brave face and her showing her vulnerability speaks volumes of her strength of character!

[@neyyy352]

If you ever felt pain, that silence after saying “I’m okay.”, resonated with you the way it did with me. It’s okay Tamera, you’ll find the light out of this. 💞

[@brandongutierrez944]

I’ve seen this video more then 10 times a day. It might sound weird but this interview or “girl chat” is just so raw and pure. You can hear the hurt in Tameras voice and see the pain on her face. Although she is hurting, you can see such strength and love in her.

[@jessicaburns9894]

I do agree

[@jesuzee11]

she was truly missed .R.I.P to her niece and all the victims but her being the youngest

[@TJ-sj5ge]

Wat happened to her

[@xyailonharmon1251]

@@TJ-sj5ge she was shoot

[@xyailonharmon1251]

*shot

[@xjondei]

@@TJ-sj5ge She was shot at a party.

[@Kiwisamoan_05]

@@TJ-sj5ge She was one of the 12 victims in the Borderline shooting of Thousand Oaks in 2019.

[@pe8658]

This support between these ladies is so so strong, and I can feel the love in this.

[@aubrineetv5326]

Who else instantly started bawling ? 😭

[@corneilmadison9436]

Yes

[@RandomCapricorn]

Koca BEAUTY TV I did it’s so heartbreaking. Poor tamera and the housley’s

[@uursullla]

So me when I cry

[@mikeoaster1935]

Seeing this many years later and I commend Tamera for how strong she was during this time. I think it was very brave to come back and allow herself to speak from the heart and show her emotions on national TV. I hope she’s doing better now and still remembering her niece in a positive way.

[@missemin8469]

For her to come on after such a tragic loss is so strong. Using her platform and voice to try and make a change. If I went through this I’d be ugly crying. I’m so so sorry..

[@bosslady7362]

That moment when you're hurting inside and for a moment you think you're fine, then someone asks you how are you, and immediately the tears begins to flow. I felt that in my heart. It is never easy losing someone you love and care about. I cried literally as soon s she started talking.

[@MelaninBarbie33]

In 2020 I'm still here tearing😰💔

[@InfinityKennedy]

ImaBeautieQueen ! Girl same!!

[@mrstwilight411]

Ok I’m not alone

[@kimwalters2364]

I’m watching it and I’m crying

[@MelaninBarbie33]

@Fyebabe's green beans and potatoes Tamara is leaving the show😱omg

[@saturnsmind5106]

2021 and it sadly became a tiktok sound

[@colacarrera]

When a friend or someone says “I’m ok” and gives you that look - that’s exactly what you do. Put your hand out to them ❤

[@sbalchan]

I am crying. This is so raw right here. Tamera we love you and your family and we mourn with you all.

[@shortyd2404]

The thing about grief is you have to find the balance of grieving and moving forward. That is the hardest thing I’ve had to do thus far, it is not easy. After losing my mom unexpectedly in August of this year, I can totally relate.

[@SwissmissSarah]

This.😢

[@Ibrahim-bv6rv]

She IS a phenomenal actress, I believed the ” I’m okay ” until she broke down

[@Cincy-x1m]

Actress? Dude she was actually and probably still is hurting...

[@V1c.66]

@@Cincy-x1m u didn’t understand what their saying

[@monkeyaddict1]

@@Cincy-x1m bruh they meant when tamera was acting like she was okay, bc she’s not

[@Cincy-x1m]

@@monkeyaddict1 ohhh

[@Cincy-x1m]

@@V1c.66 I got it now and omg I love Vic Fuentes

[@TheYaoigirl101]

I've watched this video many times since it was released and I am comfortable now talking about it. I am from the town where this shooting took place. At the time I was frantic thinking about if I knew anyone that was there. Thankfully I didn't but my heart goes out to those directly affected by it. I was home that weekend and the fire broke out. I was so torn up about what was happening to our town I was lost for a while. Tamera's words explain it all. I don't think I will even get over the fear and suffering myself and people around me felt but I will move forward. Sister Sister was one of my favorite shows growing up, I never had a sister but watching that show made me feel as if I did have one through them. Thank you Tamera for everything back then and now. Love shall over come grief, always.

[@willemdee]

Tamera is so strong for being so open about this situation.

[@RavenA2323]

Man grief is a journey. My mom passed a few months ago, and the pain is real. I truly hope her family has the support that they need especially her parents ❤️

[@valerieb7295]

Ugh this makes me cry and hurt for her. I have the same type of relationship with my niece from my husbands family. I’ve known her since she was 7, she just turned 21 and she really is one of my best friends. I love her so much so I know Tamera is broken by this as I would be too. I saw comments on another video saying “she wasn’t even her real niece.” It doesn’t matter that they didn’t share the same blood, they were family. My heart goes out to you Tamera, I can’t imagine what you must be going through.

[@Frances86]

The second she said “I’m ok” I lost it! 😢 im so so sorry for your lost Tam! My condolences to you and your family ❤️

[@seanogle9901]

Having a niece now myself, I can feel her pain. The idea that something could happen to my niece makes me sick to my stomach. I respect tam so much for coming back so soon and having such a positive attitude. I would want to set everything on fire and someone go pay for what they did.

[@lovelybabee7499]

“I’m okay” 🥺 I felt her pain ...

[@lasmadasiscomas]

We my family and I lost my brother and I feel her it hurts sooo bad 👎 first months unbearable pain , I think you never get back to normal because you are missing that one close person but theres no other way than forward you just have to live with it the rest of your days until we are back together with that person someday ❤️

[@anitramiller9626]

Praying for and your family.💕💕

[@ZairayCash]

I just lost My Dad in June and I felt this. When you are genuinely trying so hard to be okay but you're not and someone asks you. That heavy deep breath and then the tears come. It hurts every time.

[@justineplemons7585]

My heart breaks for her. You can hear the heaviness in her voice and heart.

[@autumnsweet6279]

I’ve been grieving my grandmother for about 6 years, around the time this came out. And when I saw this, it broke me. We don’t always get to stop and take our time to grieve. Our world may have ended but the rest of it continues to move forward. And knowing someone that I grew up watching (sister sister hello) has had that same struggle was just… comforting. My manager let me take a longer break the day after it happened when I came in because I was visibly upset, but knew I couldn’t afford the day off. I will never forget that small yet kind gesture he gave me so that I could get myself back together and move forward the way I knew she would have wanted to, and if the 6 years later coming back to this commenting tells you anything, we definitely don’t move on from not having those people here, we move forward the way we know they would want us to regardless.

[@lewismoriah]

This broke me down, because I lost my aunt the Friday after valentines in a house fire. And I haven’t been able to grieve but this helped me start that process!

[@cayanamichel8137]

I love how the girls at the table have such a bond when tamera said I’m okay they all were silence because they no she is not okay are not ok so much love for them 💜

[@alexism8194]

You're allowed to still not be OK Tam even when you're moving forward❤️ God is with you

[@NolithaMfihlo]

people who impact our lives in positive ways .. and light up our world dont last in this world .. i lost my aunt ..she was a free spirit ..loved everyone and was so kind hearted .. she was also young ..just 29years old

[@bemnetteshome1593]

Why do i cry whenever i see tamera cry

[@jessicacoger3312]

Bemnet Teshome girl everytime!!!

[@StevenDoh]

I cant count how many times I've seen this.....and when she says "im ok" the "sorry" i break down 😢 Tamera is a beautiful soul

[@josie04]

You can feel her pain radiating through the screen. I am so sorry for you, your family, your niece and every victim of gun violence and their families. It’s not fair you’re being put through this pain when the people with the ability to change the gun laws seem the safest from their harm. I hope you guys are doing better. She will always be with you

[@melindahmkhwanazi]

I've watched this three times and every time Loni asks Tam if she's okay I still lose it! She's so hurt! My gosh!

[@senoraantero2836]

Ugh it kills me to imagine the pain all those effected by these kind of violent acts.. God bless to all ♥️

[@eltoriaakins6270]

I felt all of her pain and sadness when she said I’m ok really had me crying it’s to okay not be okay it’s hard to hide emotions I felt all of this when I lost my dad, so I know how Tamera feels. I felt all oof pain

[@MajesticMyronn]

I just wanna day in behalf of the girls and the fans! Tam we missed you so much ! And second of all I can tell it was hard for her to get through those 13 minutes of speaking about Alaina yet alone 43 minutes of the whole show

[@mattyshields3138]

I know how you feeling right now. I went through the same thing. Exactly.. My niece choked to death an my daughter an her were super close. An seeing pictures with Alana holding her best bud an that same bond. It's a pain hard to contain. Luv to your family from mine

[@bbigfish1langille940]

Although this was 2yrs ago , i would like to tell Tamera and family and friends of Alana how sorry i am to hear of your loss 😥 I pray time has lessened your grief . God Bless all 💙

[@williamwalker5326]

"And God shall wipe every tear from their eyes; and there shall be no more death or sorrow or crying or pain. For the former things are passed away."....Revelation 12:4

[@icsx1797]

Amen

[@Ediabar]

This is a promise that will come true.

[@jadakiss379]

I grew up watching Tamera on tv and she almost feels like a big sister to my childhood, seeing her hurt like this breaks my heart so much ❤️

[@shaedavis53]

Its one thing to be grieving over the loss of a loved one but to then go online and see hateful comments from people because of statements made by her husband has got to be killing her!! EVERY VICTIM AND THEIR FAMILIES OF THIS TRAGEDY HAS MY HEART AND PRAYERS!!! May the blessings of the Lord keep them at peace!!! 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@SippinTeaaa]

@ stfu hating ass bitch

[@vocalcoachktsings]

Some are hateful some are speaking from anger regarding Trayvon. She deserves her moment to grieve her kins loss, but you shoildnt have to lose a loved one in this manner to access the pain it would feel. Trayvons mother lost her child, to hear Adams comments muat have hurt too. We must be careful what we say, none of us our exempt from the potential of this pain.

[@SippinTeaaa]

@ like I said stfu hateful bitch

[@FUNKYGIRL9]

@ I had time off work to go support my husband at his uncles funeral, I know numerous people that have time off to support their in laws as when you get married you become a family

@@FUNKYGIRL9 LMAO WTF are you even talking about? Why are you telling me this?

[@Alondajones8]

When she said im ok made me cry and its ok to not be ok. Its good to let people know that you're not ok

[@desireecolon894]

That “I’m okay” & stare between the four of them instantly had tears running down my face. We love you tam tam 💛 your fans & 3 sisters at that table are here for you 💛

[@shavondaconway3518]

This makes me cry everytime because we have all been here and smiled and said I’m ok while breaking down

[@thaliat1051]

Tamera, Love is truly what we need in this world, now more than ever. I wish you and your family the very best during these critical times. My heart goes out to the families affected by gun violence. Alaina and all the victims of gun violence will not die in vain, as you stated. We need to do better! This has to stop! XOXOXOXOXOX Thalia T.

[@psychiccarline9653]

I know it’s been three years, but if ever you see this Tamera. You were an amazing Aunty impactful funny and fun person in her life. Please give her mama and brother a big big hug

[@soccerlife8912]

I didn’t even hear anything about this. I Googled why she was crying on the show after someone clipped it and put it on Twitter. I’m so sorry for her and her family. How awful. 😔

[@alexroman3682]

What happen ??

[@Sopheeshaa]

There was a shooting at a bar in Thousand Oaks and her niece was one of the victims :(

[@MamaJ0nes]

Powerful. Touching. Impactful. Her words and the way she handles herself is so heartwarming. The hurt and grief is real she may have the strength the go back to work but she also has the strength to express and show how she feels. empowering.

[@alejooooooc]

The thing is when you are going through this, the tears comes out everywhere, anytime, no matter if you’re at work, traffic, at the market, you’ll never know. I lost my mom 2 years ago, and it hits me everywhere.

[@tarabryant2141]

The silence from the audience was so incredibly loud. It was a collective comfort and understanding that Tamera wasn't OK and they gave her the space to speak authentically.

[@oliviamarie5285]

I have a 9 month old niece and I cannot IMAGINE the pain Tamera is going through.

[@decembernovember3972]

When you are holding so much pain, the words “How are you?” are the breaking point.

[@janayjenkins3625]

😢😢 so true

[@journeejohnson1376]

everytime i watch this i cry when she says “ i’m ok “ tamera i’m still so sorry this happened to your family and to alaina

[@OriginalChemist]

Andrea there for Tam, such a great friend ☺️

[@RoyalMasterpiece]

She is one of her ride or die friends.

[@samanthahulett4098]

Beautifully said I'm so sorry for your loss I know she's in heaven smiling

[@chrissay1820]

We love you Tam Tam! Take as long as you'd like to grieve❤️

[@starrjones192]

I felt that “ im okay” to the point that tears started rolling down my eyes

[@SausageMunchingNinja]

when she broke down as soon as she was asked how she was, that hit me hard

[@naufrage0]

0:52 that showbiz part of her mind clicked in and said "pull it together" but we love you and want you to heal properly. This is real life not some scripted show. Love you Tam Tam. It's really crazy because I'm 27 and and an only child, you and your sis were my cool older sisters on Sister, Sister and now I get to know the real life Tamera and you're my even cooler older sister now. I was not expecting you to be apart of my life for so long and help me so much but here we are. I know this was a little while ago but I know loss never fully heals and it can take a while to be truly ok, but I hope youre doing better. You have so much love around you and you're really lucky.

[@trinityg.1213]

0:34 - 0:50 Literally exactly how my first therapy session went.

[@flyaway9086]

"Draw near to God and He will draw near to you." -The Bible

[@siaravanexel7833]

EXACTLY how it went. Same

[@seriousjobroluvur]

Exactly how I was when talking to my therapist a week after my grandma passed away

[@MrMark7661]

just the fact she was smiling in the beginning holding in all that hurt. then they hit her with the “how are you” question and she broke 🥺 you are strong my queen 💙

[@khm8762]

This is just so sad.... to know her from the age of 5 and then have her stolen from this world in such a horrific and tragic way, it's unbearable. Well done to Tamera for going back to work and moving forward, it's such a brave thing to do. My heart broke watching this 💔

[@kamiaperez8807]

This was really hard to watch, so heart breaking. The pause, the silence, the tears. Wow ❤

[@skdndndshbddnd6066]

It’s so hard seeing one of your childhood idols going through something so difficult. I have so much respect for Tamera. I honestly don’t think I could go back to work that quickly after something like that happened. Much love to her and her incredible family.