Gosh this is such a traumatic way of losing your elderly father. 😢
@morbius1098 ай бұрын
That choked “Daddy…” at 6:00 broke my heart. I lost my mom to cancer almost 4 years ago and I dread the day I have to say goodbye to my dad, too.
@KarenLee-bs5ms9 ай бұрын
A situation like this absolutely sucks because my mother had dementia.. other people got on my ass asking me why I couldn't take care of her.. back then it was about 2013.. myself and my husband was living in a crappy apartment.. on the third floor.. she had three Windows to fall out of and two sets of stairs to fall down she was safer in the nursing home.. my husband put his foot through the floor.. the kitchen sink was leaking the toilet would move around when you sat on it.. we have to do every single repair ourselves because the landlord was a slumlord.. the roof was leaking.. complaining did not help any.. because he had a big name so to speak.. about a year later I lost her and we ended up moving.. after my husband's mother passed away we moved away completely clean out of the state
@HeronCoyote12349 ай бұрын
It’s about ten years later now. (I lost my dad in 2013.) How are you and your husband doing now? Sending a virtual hug.
@KarenLee-bs5ms9 ай бұрын
@@HeronCoyote1234 we are in Arkansas because of his family.. they threatened to kill us and make it look like an accident.. play also owned the police department if you know what I mean..
@HeronCoyote12349 ай бұрын
@@KarenLee-bs5mswow! Come to NY. Safer here.
@KarenLee-bs5ms9 ай бұрын
@@HeronCoyote1234 that is where we moved away from.. his sister new Italian mafia his brother owned the police. And his other brother had the military in his pocket.. so we had to leave the entire state of New York..
@Lulu-mj2fi9 ай бұрын
@@HeronCoyote1234 New York is NOT SAFE
@FanOBarbaro9 ай бұрын
It broke my heart seeing the daughter tell them to go ahead and Try to revive her father. CPR is absolutely brutal. Making drs and nurses attempt to resuscitate a patient with alzheimers and dementia is beyond cruel..when you work with that population first hand you see how poor the quality of life is at the end
@debbylou57299 ай бұрын
Just say you’re for eugenics. We’ll let YOU decide quality of life
@brandonmcglocklin90409 ай бұрын
@@debbylou5729 relax it isnt that deep. from a healthcare worker stand point, especially with this age group and the given dementia, id have to agree to quality of life over quantity. while yes it sound very cruel, cpr is very traumatic and painful to the person receiving it, especially the elderly. even if they were to be revived they would face countless problems in the long run if they even wake up at all. cpr isnt what it looks like on tv is a very traumatic experience for everyone. as cruel as it may sound, i feel most people would find theyd rather not be suffering or in pain for the remainder of their life. I hope this better helps explain the standpoint.
@irondragonmaiden9 ай бұрын
@@debbylou5729 Mate, if I found out I had dementia, the first thing I would do would be to get a lawyer to put a nice and shiny DO NOT RESUSCITATE clause to my medical files. Quality over quantity of life
@kimmeeb9 ай бұрын
@@debbylou5729 It's not like that. CPR is violent and traumatic. It often breaks ribs in young, healthy people. In a man this old, it definitely would. And those broken ribs could potentially puncture a lung or cause other internal damage. And honestly, the CPR survival rate is extremely low. We're talking less than 10% survival rate outside of the hospital, about 17% in-hospital. People in their 70s or older, or those with preexisting heart or lung conditions have even lower survival rates. And what kind of survival are we looking at, really? 6-10 weeks of recovery from broken bones, prolly longer cause he's elderly, potential lung infections due to said broken ribs coupled with being in a hospital in the first place, and he still has to deal with dementia. Like OP said, it is beyond cruel
@debbylou57299 ай бұрын
@@kimmeeb I know. My dad was an EMT. BTW. They’ve found that chest compressions don’t need to be accompanied with the breathing. I’m willing to bet you don’t actually work at these places and just have an acquaintance that does
@heatherbowman94509 ай бұрын
We need to protect our elderly like we do our kids😢
@duckmeat46745 ай бұрын
Poorly?
@syd11969 ай бұрын
The way they do CPR on tv is comical
@lynniedoesinternet4 ай бұрын
I mean maybe, but if they did actual CPR on an actor there’s potential for somone to get SERIOUSLY hurt. Similar to guns on cop shows.
@syd11964 ай бұрын
@@lynniedoesinternet don’t need to do real CPR on the actor to demonstrate it properly. It’s never done “for real” during instruction either.
@LilyGrace953 ай бұрын
My granddad had dementia, and Parkinson's. It took 15 years to finally finish him off, but one thing I'll remember is when his pacemaker got checked. The doctor said he probably had a year left with it, but if they replaced it, he could live longer. By that point, he'd forgotten all of us, could barely speak, and spent 23hrs a day sleeping. It was one of the hardest choices my Grandma had to make. They were married for 63 years by the time he died, but I know she would've done anything to keep him alive just a little longer. People judging and saying it's cruel or unkind for the daughter to want to save her dad, unless you've been that daughter, you have no idea what it's like. The hope that they'll somehow be okay again never goes away.
@kyereCat9 ай бұрын
That young dude handled his business. 😊
@KeithCatz9 ай бұрын
It's very sad that someone whom they're love dies😢
@jjs1300000Ай бұрын
This was heartbreaking, the poor daughter and her dad.
@JosieRoss-kt7de9 ай бұрын
Agree this one is crazy
@RoteKirschbluete9 ай бұрын
Could someone fill me in? April said: "He lost his IV" Does that mean that someone took the needle out? The one that was supposed to give him his medicine? Did his daughter pull the needle out?
@FanOBarbaro9 ай бұрын
It means it was no good anymore. Probably infiltrated and the vein blew
@lindahamilton8009 ай бұрын
Really common in geriatrics; the vessel lumen is small, the vessel wall is easily damaged, and it's hard to keep it from just blowing when you run fluids or push a bolus.
@miranda13c9 ай бұрын
No, it just means that his vein likely “blew” which means that they can no longer receive medicine from that vein at the moment. They would have to find another vein that actually works in order to give that medicine through an IV (the fastest method).
@maryannjesuino98823 ай бұрын
Wow, staff is heartless. I hope real doctor's in hospital's aren't this cold.
@StellaMagic1009 ай бұрын
I wonder how he got fentanyl all over him. Could he have wondered into a building that got laced with it during manufacture?
@MSjackiesaunders4 ай бұрын
They said as much in the full episode. Breathing in that drug, especially if uncut, would cause major problems for anyone with no tolerance built up, much less an elderly man.
@nvm90409 ай бұрын
oh boy this one is carzy
@DefinitelyNotJay37052 ай бұрын
Whyd they just leave him in there like they know they have a hazardous substance next to him but why didn't they move him 😭
@WilliamTurneresq9 ай бұрын
Touching fentanyl does not have any such effects.
@Eric-pn9ml9 ай бұрын
Yes I know but the media went a little wild with that line for a while. Granted if it were 100 percent pure and a mg or so ended up I. Your mouth or eyes somehow you could OD
@dj_alvarez9 ай бұрын
Yes you can. Simple contact can be fatal, that’s why fentanyl cases must be handled with proper PPE.
@rw94959 ай бұрын
In the case of this episode, the guy had it inside his coat. It got in through his skin and killed him from constant exposure, sweating inside the jacket would have made it absorb faster
@jonbenetporschien61989 ай бұрын
yes it does can, I wouldn't believe it but I was in the car with my good friend I asked can you help tie the bag together and he accidentally touched just a tiny bit of it and I almost had an art narcann him we were in the middle of nowhere it was scary
@Lulu-mj2fi9 ай бұрын
@@jonbenetporschien6198 that's on you for doing drugs!!
@rieaweer74598 ай бұрын
If it was on his jacket I don’t see how he was exposed since he was wearing a shirt and fentanyl doesn’t tunnel through clothing this episode makes no sense
@GamingKingdom913 ай бұрын
He could have brushed his hand or wrist on it..🤷♂️
@rieaweer74593 ай бұрын
@@GamingKingdom91 that’s possible I still don’t see how it would cause this scenario as his skin wouldn’t just absorb it. It just feels like a way to make money while promoting misinformation
@mriley5549Ай бұрын
He fed the cats and could have touched something
@Wickededitz-w3z9 ай бұрын
Not trying to be mean but : the medical bills 999999,99999999,99999$
@boogermaidenАй бұрын
Maybe he was actually using fentanyl for pain? Fentanyl is for chronic pain....
@CryInJulyYT9 ай бұрын
What a loving “daughter” doesn’t first say anything about the Alzheimer’s which is crucial info. Then says she wants him to die then when he’s about to she wants to break his ribs and hopes he comes back so he can live in pain the rest of his life and won’t do the humane thing because he’s MY father. Also common obviously they weren’t saying he went out and smoked fetty he would have been dead dead no narcan if he had never done it before it was clearly accidental
@thomasmollett92508 ай бұрын
Is there really such a thing as ‘overexposed fentanyl exposure’? Poor clip title.
@blackswan19838 ай бұрын
you can't call it an OD anymore
@alaynaendavahb.h13703 ай бұрын
Not to mention fentanyl was originally a drug used at the hospital and od isn’t really a word they use anymore so yes this was maybe the best way to put it