There's a hustler's mentality in-play. Do you want to hustle or be hustled? Go out and be respectful but don't be fooled by shallow compliments. Don't let your ego carry you away. Take your ego and flip it: tell yourself you are the one in control. It's your time, your vacation, your money. And you are going to be just one of many to the girl so be choosy. Get your goodtime and leave it at that. We Western men have been shamed for not being gentlemen enough and we should bow to every women we meet. Hogwash. We are all humans with needs. Remind yourself of your short-term needs and unapologetically go out and get it.
@TalesOfThailand4407 ай бұрын
So true.
@joffie2 жыл бұрын
I don't mind sitting with a lady buying a drink or two for her but as soon as she starts asking me to buy drinks for her "sister" who happens to work at the bar and everyone else I check bin and get out of there. Also no point buying drinks for a girl who just sits at the opposite side of the table and looks at her phone or out the door ect. The rule of thumb is one drink every 15-20 minutes but as everything else goes here up to you.
@measlymitch7782 жыл бұрын
Girl must be highly undesirable if she stay one drink every 20 minutes. The Hit ones can't be bothered. 20 minutes is a lost Barfine customer.
@stacysmith73872 жыл бұрын
What kind of souls do you guys possess???
@bearlemley2 жыл бұрын
When I used to go to those places when i first came to Thailand, I would buy as many drinks as i could afford because I felt bad for the people working there. I wanted to give them the 30 or 40 baht that they received from the bar for a lady drink.
@dbuck19642 жыл бұрын
@@stacysmith7387 what’s your point?
@jimmydempsey68572 жыл бұрын
@@measlymitch778 Yep ...u've got to be quick in the game otherwise it's lost cash Measly 🤣😂😅
@Andy-43422 жыл бұрын
Wow! This is the most real, most useful video I have seen in a long time. Every single guy traveling to Thailand should be made to watch this, no matter how many times they have visited!
@TalesOfThailand4407 ай бұрын
They should play it on repeat.
@TheBadcop2 жыл бұрын
I have no current intention of visiting Pattaya but I still find these videos fascinating and this one in particular was very well thought out and delivered.
@TalesOfThailand4407 ай бұрын
You should visit at least once.
@horsk97042 жыл бұрын
Its very hard for a newbie to absorb all the advice. when i worked up in Laem Chabang i brought a few of the new guys who arrived to work down to Patts and even with me beside them they still lost it when swamped by a girl. The girls can sense a green guy maybe by his body language. My main bit of advice would be to never tell them its your first visit and always tell them your staying for 3 months and give them a vague answer when they ask where your living. As for finding a girlfriend, Patts is not the place. I date a Burmese hairdresser who is the sweetest thing in the world and i trust her. I would say if your weighing her up then give her money to buy food and groceries and see if she hands you back the change. A good Thai, Burmese or Filipina girl will hand it back without question but a girl whos ever been in the bar game will pocket it without question.
@VarietyGamerChannel2 жыл бұрын
I'll tell them it's my first time just for the lulz.
@melangeken2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the reminder, I'll be back in a week after 3 years. And what you said in the video is a carbon copy of my first experience in Pattaya, so anyone that watches this video, listen to this man he knows what he is talking about.
@TalesOfThailand4407 ай бұрын
Don't make the same mistakes again!😂😂
@Champstarrable2 жыл бұрын
Returning for my 5th time at the end of next month. First lesson I learned on my first visit was “don’t fall in love”, recreational use only.
@TalesOfThailand4407 ай бұрын
Definitely do not catch feelings ❤️❤️
@siscott60662 жыл бұрын
I met my Thai girlfriend in Pattaya over 2 years ago and it's still going strong but you definitely have to have trust in her if she still works in the entertainment industry but these days she doesn't work in Pattaya anymore she works in her sisters restaurant in Surin of which I'm really glad.
@TalesOfThailand4407 ай бұрын
Ok, you sure?❤😂😂
@joshjones98782 жыл бұрын
The book Private Dancer should be madatory reading for anyone going first time - it's a thrilling read as well
@paulcallaghan95852 жыл бұрын
Listen to this man he talks sense & will save you a lot of money & heartache 555
@smarte.r.14502 жыл бұрын
Brilliant advice. Simply put. These straight forward explanations to naive people are invaluable. Thanks Daz
@TalesOfThailand4407 ай бұрын
There's one born every day!
@danfreisting28742 жыл бұрын
Great advice and love the stories of the real life events like from the hairdresser. Really properly informs you of customs tactics etc
@TalesOfThailand4407 ай бұрын
Every trick in the book 📚
@dirtydingus54652 жыл бұрын
WOW! I have never been to Thailand but want to come badly. I have travelled extensively all over Latin America and many many times to Costa Rica. “The Game” is exactly the same everywhere. Time is money, and money is time. I find what surprises me most, is that men from developed countries cannot really wrap their heads around the desperation that these women have come up through. Be it, Asian, or Latin, etc. I have seen so many men travel to these places and be so disrespectful or seem to have a chip on their shoulder with the ladies. This is NOT necessary. And often times will create unnecessary drama for them. Lastly, I have seen so so many timid, shy or “Socially Awkward” men arrive in the shark tank to only be eaten alive! You give a great service with this video! It cannot be Sid and rinse and repeated enough! Be respectful, have a good time, and don’t get emotionally attached! Great Job!
@padichad2 жыл бұрын
My favorite is the "I just start here today" routine, but they already have the "Sister Act" down, including the crying gesture!! Spot on advice. I'd add hit a couple beer bars first to get the bargirl interactions down to be honest. A gogo first thing for a first timer is like jumping off the high dive into shallow water without floaties on...
@HappyHappy-tc2dm2 жыл бұрын
Yes and they've always only been working 2 months in the bar.🤣🤣..Ok Lol
@jimmydempsey68572 жыл бұрын
I like the " l've never worked in a bar " one..... classic 🤣😂😄
@TalesOfThailand4407 ай бұрын
Mine really did just start a week ago 😮😂😂❤❤
@edd11062 жыл бұрын
and we're using them as well Daz - it works both ways - quid pro quo - enjoy the videos Daz
@TalesOfThailand4407 ай бұрын
Correct.
@xavierkoolat69262 жыл бұрын
Excellent video. They keep getting better & better. Your facts relating for each narrative segment within this video are VERY professionally presented, yet you're able to keep it on a sort of one-on-one "chat" basis. Nicely done. Thanks. It's like a "fatherly" chat from Dad. Next, you'll soon be known as Father Daz of Pattaya.😇
@everythingPattaya2 жыл бұрын
Much appreciated!
@vanpli8570 Жыл бұрын
He already is " our dad"
@TalesOfThailand4407 ай бұрын
He is priceless
@petebailey57012 жыл бұрын
Spot on mate, I needed a refresher course 😆 Been 5 years since I go Thai. 6 weeks to go till LOS… Thanks Daz and keep up the great work !
@TalesOfThailand4407 ай бұрын
Every day's a school day!
@ccrider84832 жыл бұрын
Daz you laid a pretty grim truth bomb on anyone planning on visiting Thailand and possibly meeting the local ladies. It is difficult for a first time visitor to fully comprehend how things work there due to the ladies being very good actresses. Of course, my girl is different. 555
@1990-t1j2 жыл бұрын
@@JohnDoe-iv7yu Plot up somewhere other than Pattaya, then. Not all Thai women are like this.
@thomas250822 жыл бұрын
What does 555 mean
@1990-t1j2 жыл бұрын
@@thomas25082 Lol
@ccrider84832 жыл бұрын
@@thomas25082 1990 is correct. The long explanation is that the number 5 is pronounced "ha" in Thai, therefore 555 equals ha-ha-ha.
@petergillespie63952 жыл бұрын
Made all the mistakes with very little serious consequences and some great memories. Thank goodness there were no KZbin channels to tell me different in those days. Best way to learn the tricks is by trial and error. Some great memories and I can look back and laugh at my early mistakes.
@Ardoyne102 жыл бұрын
100 percent agree m8 all theses vloggers telling everyone what to do and say and where to go the fun is to learn yourself ..thats what its all about..great info from dad.. hotel reviews etc but just go and have fun
@ScenesThroughTravels2 жыл бұрын
For the Guys going to Pattaya for the FIRST TIME. Just enjoy yourselves have lots of fun Never do drugs and Don't get emotionally involved, Then you will go home feeling you had a great time 🙏🙏🙏🙏✈✈✈✈✈✈👍👍👍👍
@fromthesun30002 жыл бұрын
Great video! You mentioned about finding long term relationships with these go-go girls…I think the main draw for some men is the affectionately direct way these women work their angle. That can be very deceptive to some guys because it’s much more rare in some of the places you listed ( Vegas, Amsterdam, etc.) A lot of guys, me included at a point, get their heart strings pulled and find it difficult to be “unsympathetic “ to these girls alleged situation. Great to have a video like this to let people know that it’s all business…even if it doesn’t feel like it to them at the time.
@jimmydempsey68572 жыл бұрын
Never forget it's a transaction 👍
@ActiveAussie20242 жыл бұрын
Never feel sorry for these gals. Sure, some of them have a lot of problems but it's not our responsibility. We have our own problems in the wicked West, but Pattaya gals don't know about that or they don't care.
@yiannisgeorge37812 жыл бұрын
Another good video Daz, full of gems of advice. I am an experienced traveler to Pattaya and still pick up the odd new tips from you. Many thanks mate. You save your viewers much heartache and money.
@TalesOfThailand4407 ай бұрын
Some will never learn.
@bradfromoz2 жыл бұрын
Nice one again Daz! I'm Poppin me Patts Cherry on a 16 day solo adventure 1 day after celebrating my 40th Birthday in BKK with Family as of 29th August! Your knowledge and experience has been an education course for the past 6 months leading up to this trip. VERY appropriate that you put up this video a week out from me hittin PATTAYA!! A huge sincere thank you to you Brother!! If I recognize you, it's 10+ beers on me!!
@philipcharles93422 жыл бұрын
Happy bday mine is the 31st aug.
@Paterchops2 жыл бұрын
How was your time in Pattaya Brad? I'm going March next year
@bradfromoz2 жыл бұрын
@@Paterchops Epic - I can see why some people dont like Pattaya. For me and I am sure many, there is no other place like it. I had lazy days, just relaxing and I had crazy crazy nights running into the next day. I can say for sure, I will be back. Only my budget has me questioning "When" it will be. For anyone who says Pattaya is dead, obviously is not there now. And considering High Season coming up, its going to blow up! Enjoy your trip when you get there!!
@TalesOfThailand4407 ай бұрын
Don't lose yourself in Pattaya!😂😂🎉🎉
@cliverowlandson Жыл бұрын
Went to Thailand in 2000 with wife and child and in laws and so no go go bars. We did Bangkok,Chiangmai and Phuket, restaurant’s and culture Decided as a solo traveler to go next January to pattaya as I think it will be a one stop shop for nightlife and beach, trips etc… great video with good information
@cliverowlandson Жыл бұрын
Can you send me the link on the condo you posted a year ago, I’m looking at January 2024. Thanks
@darcy68742 жыл бұрын
Even if you have been to Pattaya 10 times, its still important to watch to remind yourself
@oesbaer35552 жыл бұрын
Very clear and honestly words not only first timers should listen to. 👍
@TalesOfThailand4407 ай бұрын
Everyone should be forced to listen 😂😂
@marvinlusk73032 жыл бұрын
The hairdresser story at the end was such a cultural eye opener for me! THAT explains sooo many things I didn't understand before.
@marksallai2289 Жыл бұрын
it seems to me if one would meet a genuine girl whom is really truly into you and even some love she will also buy you a drink or meal
@TalesOfThailand4407 ай бұрын
Explains everything!
@DancingShiva7889 ай бұрын
Well done. I have no interest in traveling to Thailand, but I was very curious about exactly the topics you've covered so well in this video. Thank you for sharing your knowledge!
@JavidRezaShah2 жыл бұрын
Just amazing, you always provide the best videos and give us valuable information. Thank you and thank you very much for all your hard work.
@everythingPattaya2 жыл бұрын
So nice of you
@JavidRezaShah2 жыл бұрын
@@everythingPattaya By the way I lived in Pattaya back in 2010 for 2 YEARS but I moved back to USA because of my work, However its is so refreshing to see how things are changed in Pattaya and I really appreciate your honest and hard work to show us everything, i will be back to Pattaya for good in November this year (2022) and it would be my pleasure to spend sometime with you and have you my guest,. Again thank you very much for all your hard work.....
@TalesOfThailand4407 ай бұрын
There is no end to their schemes
@siamsnowman63572 жыл бұрын
Some of the gogos do pad bills ... and the more you drink, the easier it is to add extra drinks. Easiest way to counter it is to pay for each order when it comes. When a girl asks me to buy a drink for her sister, I always so "OK, so you don't want any more drinks?". That usual stops them from asking again.
@everythingPattaya2 жыл бұрын
Ha Ha good answer LOL
@martypoll2 жыл бұрын
There is nothing more awkward for a newbie than to ignore the girl next to you or to pick another girl while she is sitting right there. It is much easier to say you only want to sit with one girl. If at all possible spot the girl you want before you even sit down.
@BCBTC20122 жыл бұрын
I must say as a none English speaker, I love your story telling, I enjoyed it alot and have learned alot! thanks!
@everythingPattaya2 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@jeffreywilliams22402 жыл бұрын
I first went to Pattaya in 1998 and have been going regularly sense. (minus the virus days) Soon going to get to stay 6 months at a time starting this December.
@Joe-id8bd2 жыл бұрын
I'm one of those first timers. I'm trying to wait until November/December but I'm very tempted to hop on a plane now. I've watched countless videos. I think I know my way around. My biggest fears are falling in love and not recognizing a lady boy.
@joelnelson62592 жыл бұрын
If you suspect girl is lb , just ask, lady or ladyboy,? they dont mind , or ask to see id
@gautamgulati6252 жыл бұрын
There are many bars where LadyBoys are not allowed
@measlymitch7782 жыл бұрын
Fall in love with a prostitute....come on... 😂.
@measlymitch7782 жыл бұрын
@@Joe-id8bd trust me they aren't bonding to anything but your Wallet.
@everythingPattaya2 жыл бұрын
Stick to the 1 day rule
@vinced57412 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this vlog. It's good that you remind your audience that Pattaya is a business because sometimes we might forget ...
@TalesOfThailand4407 ай бұрын
Never forget. It's money 🤑🤑
@Rdimbus2 жыл бұрын
SPOT-ON. I wish every bloke arriving sees this video
@TalesOfThailand4407 ай бұрын
They should play it on the plane!
@thunt15652 жыл бұрын
One of your best videos. Great insight and thank you for sharing the story of the hairdresser's niece.
@selderane Жыл бұрын
Bro, that story at the end was bananas. Western men, browbeaten by feminism, are getting such an upgrade with Thai girls. And Thai girls are getting a crazy upgrade with Western men.
@WSJChan Жыл бұрын
Hey EverythingPattaya, great advice! Love how you frame the story for the viewer/ listener/ newbie. I can't wait to see your other videos. Sawasdee.
@TalesOfThailand4407 ай бұрын
Best channel for advice!😊
@captainpandabear14222 жыл бұрын
Was actually surprised at how busy Farenheit was last night, they had to show me to one of the only vacant seats! Good show, but holy crap was the place expensive compared to Soi 6.
@seanhartman81232 жыл бұрын
Great video, thanks. What amazed me watching was the huge amount of non Thai men walking the streets as you filmed. For a city coming out of lockdown and with you telling us that it is not busy yet, it seems there is an extraordinary number of ex pats already there. Guess the secret is already out.
@mccann4442 жыл бұрын
Back in the day when you bought Lady Drinks and the Lady actually took and had a General interest . You and she enjoyed the Drinks Company Evening . 1998 😍
@chrisgilling5432 жыл бұрын
Always enjoy your videos Daz, you have a nice smooth voice that's very relaxing to listen to. I especially enjoy the hairdresser stories 👍
@TalesOfThailand4407 ай бұрын
She's a fountain of knowledge!
@CharlieChaplinVideos2 жыл бұрын
This is the greatest blog ever made for Patts newbies and a great refresher for others too. Congratulations well done 👏
@everythingPattaya2 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@TalesOfThailand4407 ай бұрын
Good advice from Daz.
@imkeerock Жыл бұрын
Great video. Very informative and interesting. Thanks for the intel:)
@TalesOfThailand4407 ай бұрын
Inside knowledge!
@keesvanbeugen9342 жыл бұрын
My advice would be to newbie’s. The first night go out and visit a couple of GoGo bars to get an impression. The following nights go to the beer 🍺 bars , gentlemen clubs. They’ll find it to be more cheaper. GoGo bars are a total ripoff IMO. And one thing they should do 100% , is a soapy massage. One warning. Never ever get emotional involved with a Thai bar lady, not even a freelancer at the discotheques or nightclub’s and Bamboo bar or the Pattaya Beergarden. 99 % chance you’re gonna loose a lot of money and dignity, not to mention mentally. I’ve seen it happen way to many times over the last 18 years I visited Pattaya
@tomofasia2 жыл бұрын
I had a great experience in Pattaya less than a year ago. Sure, the covid restrictions were there so finding nightlife was harder but possible to find and I also stumbled on a girl that was my holiday girlfriend for a week or so. Didn’t have to pay for her and after I went back home she has not bugged me other than ask a few times if I’m coming back some day. Just the way I like it.
@RuisXD Жыл бұрын
Great vid. Thanks for the insight on the beautiful women of Thailand.
@TalesOfThailand4407 ай бұрын
Beautiful but dangerous!
@Berbatov2042 жыл бұрын
Great Video Daz, I dated a bar girl from At-All beer n coffee, she was'nt trustworthy but kept my Bar well serviced.
@jamesmcrory34192 жыл бұрын
I married a bar girl, been married since 2006, we coming October 1st 2022 not to Pattaya but up north to isaan. I remember when I first met her I bought her drinks but she was pissing off as she kept ringing the bell!! In the bar
@tonymeawmeaw63312 жыл бұрын
HI DAZ YOU HAVE ALLWAYS GOT THE ADVISE NO B S I BET YOU COULD RIGHT A BOOK WOT YOU HAVE SEEN IN PATTAYA OVER THE YEARS 👍👍👍
@tmtools Жыл бұрын
Kiss was my favorite eating place as I always stayed just around the corner from here at INTIMATE Hotel
@pistenbroke49332 жыл бұрын
good Story Daz ! and to quote Mando "this is the way " ,didn't know you were such a star wars fan. 😋😋
@TalesOfThailand4407 ай бұрын
THIS is Thailand!
@paulnova75362 жыл бұрын
After many years of going to all the GoGo bars and other bars now i just go to Gentlemans club much more exciting.
@steves79442 жыл бұрын
Great video. If you could do more advice videos like this one that would be great!
@philipconnolly6482 жыл бұрын
Excellent and a very 'grown up', vid. Thank you.
@TalesOfThailand4407 ай бұрын
Will the men listen 😂😂
@crank2792 жыл бұрын
As a veteran visitor of Pattaya its refreshing to see you walk my known district from the start towards crossing point near my most booked Sutus Court Hotel zone 1. And i also often walk that route from soi buakhaw nongprue to walk toward beach. And this restaurant often I go eat were u start this video on the left. Al do I know much about and surly not first timer. You still tell some angle points i never thought off. For instance those gogo girls eyes on you wen you enter. I did not though about them want to see there regular customer. For my self i thought they want me lol me me me. No just kidding ofcours they do look at you as the next customer. But no not for there regular customers. But that's logical. Once again as ive told you before. Ur a blessing for first time visitors for you're accurate explanations and experiance. Ill hope one time wen im stay in Pattaya hopfully next year to walk up to you and give you a hand. For those next to read here and watch this video's. I urge all of you to watch all of his videos. For he will skill up you're knowledge allot. Grts from the netherlands
@LLsmoothJay2 жыл бұрын
Monger tip - if you like a gogo girl, buy that one a lady drink, get her line details and meet her after work in a club. This avoids the barfine and price that they would charge whilst working inside the gogo.
@CheekyMonkey0072 жыл бұрын
Ok if you don't mind waiting until 3am when they leave work, then waiting again while she goes eating with her mates until 4am, then maybe she may get to the club by 4.30am, No Thanks
@LLsmoothJay2 жыл бұрын
@@CheekyMonkey007 never happened to me
@hufficag2 жыл бұрын
As someone who stays on the computer until 4AM usually on workdays, it's not that hard to wait until 3AM.
@stillaliveandkicking Жыл бұрын
Thankk you...I am planning to take a trip this year...and this information is very helpful
@TalesOfThailand4407 ай бұрын
Leave your heart at the airport, not your brain! ❤️🧠
@robertgregorysmith14172 жыл бұрын
Great video, and as per a few comments is just as applicable to not only first timers in Pattaya but also up to several visits. In Australia and other countries we’re brought up in society to believe what you’re told and have an element of trust. So when you’re told in a go go bar that a girl is my sister or best friend and no one has brought her a drink all night you’re most likely to believe her. My bar fine one night was $150.00 AUD after an encounter in a go go bar. But compared to many stories I’ve seen and read about this is nothing compared to men who have lost their house, business and all their money to a bar girl / go go bar girl. One can attend annual first aid courses and other emergency courses. But you won’t know how you’ll deal with an emergency situation until it actually happens. The same goes with the bar girl / go go girl situation too. The best mind set is not to believe anything you’re told by a bar girl / go go girl. 3 years ago on my last Pattaya trip a girl told me that this time last year that she arrived in Pattaya just with the shirt on her back to get away from her abusive husband. She also told me that she was a cleaner in a bar complex, was sleeping on the floor and drinking tap water. I got back to Australia and discovered on Facebook that she was actually in a relationship with a man from Europe at the same time, travelling there and had a fruit stall business.
@tomjohnson71152 жыл бұрын
Excellent storytelling.....
@alpaca69202 жыл бұрын
Nice to see soi Lengkee. I stayed at Vogue Hotel and left there on Tuesday and am now home in Australia. Had a number of foot massages at the shop at 13.26 minutes. I found the cashier very nice and if she had been the one to give me a massage I would have got an oil one. Malee restaurant does really nice chicken or pork with cashews.
@alpaca69202 жыл бұрын
@@ua1514 The price is very good. It's clean and reasonable sized rooms. It's back from the road and I think the rooms on the side away from the road are lighter
@H.1965-s8p Жыл бұрын
Very informative. Thanks!!
@TalesOfThailand4407 ай бұрын
Top info.
@hufclufc2 жыл бұрын
Brilliant channel. Sound advice.
@TalesOfThailand4407 ай бұрын
True. Newbies watch out!
@Traden-Lernen Жыл бұрын
I also lived in pattaya for long time, Very nice Tipps for new ones. For long term never pick a bar girl, use dating app and no tattoos and same age like max -5-8 years then your fine
@gasmonkey932 Жыл бұрын
Excellent video, any tips on best cheap way to get to thailand from the uk , thank you
@anderswahlgren9308 Жыл бұрын
Thank you sir. Sitting watching Pattaya beach from Holiday Inn, halfway up, right now. First time, been here 24h. Your videos are very helpful.
@tybaltyrant12 жыл бұрын
I love your videos, mate. Calm presentation and a good attitude. Hope to see you around Pattaya one day!
@everythingPattaya2 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much!
@TalesOfThailand4407 ай бұрын
Top channel!
@jeasy12212 жыл бұрын
Spot on Daz! I was there in May and will be back at end of September. Stayed on Soi Diana
@alannevard69932 жыл бұрын
Great advice! I am exactly the same as you, hundreds of ladies over the years. How many would I really trust and believe???? Okay i my case, maybe one but I am not 100% even on that one.
@paulhoskin32862 жыл бұрын
The best gogo is a empty gogo .. Ring the bell and watch the fun begin.
@kalasatwater2224 Жыл бұрын
Love your honest advice.
@marcus98482 жыл бұрын
Always enjoy the way you are talking about Patty. Really a unique place on this planet:-)
@jimmydempsey68572 жыл бұрын
Disney land for adults.😉
@adriang83692 жыл бұрын
Great advice as always, cheers Daz. Hoping to make it over soon, am a newbie so defo need all these tips 👍
@TalesOfThailand4407 ай бұрын
Keep your brain engaged!!
@patrickbancken54832 жыл бұрын
I'm coming to Pattaya the 1 september after 4 years. Maybe we will bump into each other. Thanks for the video's mate.
@captainpandabear14222 жыл бұрын
Bro! Quoting Mando?! XD I did not expect that from you, man! Respect for my fellow nerd.
@apassionfortravelling32802 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for your insightful advice. Greatly appreciated.
@TalesOfThailand4407 ай бұрын
Top notch advice!
@robertflint25492 жыл бұрын
What you say about not trusting the girls on the game in Patters is spot on. The levels of deceit these girls indulge in are staggering. I got to the point of believing the opposite of anything I was told by a bargirl here and in BKK and down on Phuket. The point you make about them supporting their Thai boyfriends or husbands is also accurate. All the better if the farang boyfriend is unknowingly helping out with that very support. Some of these girls really take their Western 'friends' for suckers. And some of us ask for it.
@sugarnads2 жыл бұрын
i knew a bloke who was funding 3 bargirls he had NOT YET MET. Hadnt been to Patt yet. Money in their bank acc each week for several years. I kinda get if you hook up with a really cute one ( and we both know they can make you feel like a bloody Lord) and she asks for a bit of help. I get how you could fall into that - atleast youve MET her and banged her ass. But funding 3 girls lifestyles from overseas just coz they were nice to you online? Mad. I spent 2 days with one i met (not a bargirl) and she decided to hit me up for some money after I came home (yeah i was gonna go back n see her) i was yeah nah. Come to find out she had an american boyfriend. I was her 'gap guy ' while he was out of town... lol. Do i care? nope.
@robertflint25492 жыл бұрын
@@sugarnads Well put, Kwako. Yeah, the guy funding three girls he hasn't yet met doesn't completely surprise me. There are a lot of fools out there. And plenty of bargirls around more than happy to lighten their wallets.
@0vermars520 Жыл бұрын
what do you expect? you go to a whorehouse you're gonna meet whores smh you ain't no angel either going to 3rd world countries to get some ass. You're fair game.
@robertflint2549 Жыл бұрын
@@0vermars520 Who said I'm an angel? This was simply a comment upon how much these girls lie, which is excessive.
@Daveador8762 жыл бұрын
I'm going to Pattaya for one reason and one reason only, only got three nights booked but I'm going to visit 3 different Soi's and BF three different girls.
@paulfredrickson2181 Жыл бұрын
Great advice. The wisdom of experience.
@TalesOfThailand4407 ай бұрын
It really is!
@gemmel31972 жыл бұрын
That last bit about the thai boyfriend was a eye opener.
@davidperry24922 жыл бұрын
Fascinating insight, worth taking notice of your year's of experience and knowledge, thanks.
@everythingPattaya2 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@TalesOfThailand4407 ай бұрын
Experience is everything!
@sadrahman32422 жыл бұрын
Hi Daz, great channel for the newcomers and the frequent travels to Thailand. It's great seeing the main areas of Pattaya and how it's changed. Any chance to do some bar hunting in Naklua and can you find out if the bars are open in Ban Chang ? What's new over the 'Darkside ? Any new bars ? What has happen to all the bars in Made in Thailand ? Have any of them moved to new areas and re-opened ? What's happen to Drinking Street & Action Street? Has it re-opened ? I'm getting mixed news about these areas. What I heard, but I can't confirm it, is the new XCite area a new bar complex ? Has the bar complex final closed on 2nd road, Jomtein ?.... I'm sorry to ask so many questions, but I'm getting mixed messages and I need to get them answered by someone who's there first hand with a camera. Hope this isn't an inconvenience for you.
@everythingPattaya2 жыл бұрын
Noted, I'll try to cover all that.
@germanfalang88972 жыл бұрын
Hi, I was in Pattaya for 4 weeks in May and try my best to give you some answers: Drinking Street: closed, looks like being demolished soon -- Action Street: some bars open, most closed, very few customers -- Made in Thailand: 80% of bars torn down, only the ones facing Soi Bukhao survived, now like an extension of Tree Town, quiet busy like the whole area -- Naklua: very quiet, some bars open along Naklua Road & Soi 18. The other areas I can not really tell cos wasn't there ....
@sadrahman32422 жыл бұрын
@@germanfalang8897 Many thanks for your response to my enquiry.
@jaddis42 жыл бұрын
The best Thai phrase to learn is "Mai Ao" pronounced MY OW with means you don't want what they are offering.
@paulking77652 жыл бұрын
I was in Pattaya in 1988 for 3 weeks and it was the best holiday I ever had my bar of choice was "Best Friend Bar" which to this day is still open on the beach road and the bar (brickwork) looks exactly the same as I remember it even down to the kickboxing ring at the back where I had some fun way back then (I was young and dumb and fit and strong with a brown belt in karate) I would be interested in a current video if that bar if you could fit it in sometime I still remember the name of my "companion" for those 3 weeks as best as I can spell it it was Reari Movingklang she was such a happy person a real joy to be around no matter what we were doing she was always smiling and laughing. I have to say prices today are frightening lol I was buying bottles of singah beer for I think 25bt we sat at the bar playing connect 4 for 10 Bt a game (the girls were real hustlers lol) the bar fine was 100 bt a night and back then it exchange rate was at least double it is today I think. Would I go back? In a heart beat if finances would allow would I go back to the same hotel "Cozy Beach Hotel" well from what I can see of it on google maps its a little run down so I would probably try to "upgrade" to a more modern hotel. Thanks for the views and information of Pattaya today keep up the good work. pk.
@vanpli8570 Жыл бұрын
"After two years of starvation the sharcs are circling" , poetic, accurate priceless,
@TalesOfThailand4407 ай бұрын
They're hungry!
@herrmeistermann24262 жыл бұрын
It has happened to me on a few occations girls have ran up to me and sat right next to me even if I told I would not buy a drink. One day I asked girl about it and she told it was because a certain customer had walked in. She pointed at him. I looked and seemed like a normal guy. I asked her if he was violent, she shook her head but said that he would make girls do things they didn't wanted to do. Sure there are girls in Pattaya for more or less any fetish, but please respect a "no" when a girl tells you "no". That is my advice to newbies. In other news: I am saddened to see the Dutch restaurant (My Way) has closed in the arcade. Food was fine and it was only half price compared to the other steak restaurants in the arcade.
@stevehodsonleedsutd2 жыл бұрын
another great video you are so informative i saw on you tube drinking street is being demolished one of my favourite places could you tell me if they are going to refurbish it or as it gone forever its just before dolphin roundabout i would love you to do a video so myself and anyone else who used to go to the bars and had rooms there know whats happening with drinking street thank you
@captainsaveaho48382 жыл бұрын
I've been telling my bar gals it's my 1st time in LOS since 1979.
@mikebrown4364 Жыл бұрын
Last time 12 yes ago, yes inflation I understand, but kind of shocked on some prices😉... planning too revisit soon with views to stay n work
@oldriflela72862 жыл бұрын
Hi , Very valuable and great video. We should remember business is business in Thailand.
@TalesOfThailand4407 ай бұрын
You are the business!! 😉
@DJzero1012 жыл бұрын
I love hearing about these lifestyles and experiences in/from thailand. I just recently hit my vacation fund goal. I should be buying my ticket in October/November. Im aiming to get there in december for the holidays. This is my first real travel experience. I hope I get to meet every single lady in pattaya LOL
@sixofnine94072 жыл бұрын
Great advice on go-go bar, keep them coming.
@TalesOfThailand4407 ай бұрын
Easy to spend a fortune in a GoGo
@joeonthego6062 жыл бұрын
Yes Sir! Pattaya is a business!
@kj41702 жыл бұрын
I think it’s great advice I am planning a first time trip you have to have a different mindset walking into there it’s nothing I’ve ever experienced before I could see myself like buying drinks and ringing the bell and spending a whole bunch of money and I could experience so much more if I followed some of your good advice thank you
@clivesweeting44102 жыл бұрын
Only ring the bell if you're celebrating robbing a Bank .. you'll need to when you get the bill.
@alopez95172 жыл бұрын
Thanks from Texas 🤠 🙏 I'll be there end of September
@TalesOfThailand4407 ай бұрын
Watch your heart ❤❤
@davidroadnight74002 жыл бұрын
As a good friend used to say why buy the book when There's a whole library to read
@glenn90572 жыл бұрын
why cant we ever see you? i have watched several of your vlogs. all of them well done. very informative. you are ovviously well schooled in all things Thai. stand in front of the camera and talk to us sometimes. it would make your vlogs more personal. give it a try. you will do just fine. Glenn in Michigan USA
@everythingPattaya2 жыл бұрын
The vlogs are about Pattaya, not me, I do not feel the need to be recognized everywhere.
@dirkdiggler1642 жыл бұрын
Sage advice indeed regarding lady drinks, and the same applies to some beer bars. I always buy the mamasan a drink, just the one, give her a knowing nod and you’ll always be looked after. Considering it’s a business I’m surprised just how much some girls like a drink, It’s no fun facing up to the realisation later that she’s somewhat trashed. Especially if you’re anticipating taking things further, expensive mistake.? You bet, I’ve done it.
@tazmo2004 Жыл бұрын
My best advice. If you do “sponsor” a Thai gf and travel back and forth between your home country, always, ALWAYS, let them know exactly when you are going to be coming “home” to them. Never think you are going to surprise them with your appearance. You have to give your Thai gf time to take her other farang bf’s pictures off the walls of your apartment or you’ll be the surprised one.