From Paul Stanley's audiobook 'Face the music'. All rights belong to the author.
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@nitro5013 жыл бұрын
Not having a pre nup for someone like Paul Stanley is financial suicide.
@Chris-rs2bg Жыл бұрын
Blahaha
@HappyMachorino-bd8no6 ай бұрын
Pamela was pregnant! She was crying and didn't want a prenup. What should he have done? A few days before the Wedding day she lost the baby. (Face The Music, Chapter 48).
@jeffrailey2 жыл бұрын
I have met Paul Stanley twice. He’s an awesome person, and very intelligent and warm hearted in person. Personally, he’s my favorite musician. Paul’s work ethic in regards to his passion for music is inspirational. 💖💖🎸🎸🎤🎤😎🎼
@fasteddyuk2 жыл бұрын
Yes and for singing songs about his penis on his 70s.
@ericksuarezb.59942 жыл бұрын
absolutely !
@elmundopuedesermejor87 Жыл бұрын
Wow!! Que afortunado eres de conocerlo personalmente. Yo lo amo como artista, músico y cantante. Pero más más, como persona. ¡¡Es mi amor platónico desde que tenía 8 años de edad!! Recuerdo que yo tenía un póster de ellos pegado en mi recámara y al único que veía era a Starchild. Me tenía hipnotizada..... y todavía me tiene hipnotizada
@cesarcoelho7227 Жыл бұрын
I can tell. Guy is an amazing man
@benben-sl7hi6 жыл бұрын
Divorce sucks a million times more when kids are in the middle of it. Hats off to Paul here.
@itsmemckee21105 жыл бұрын
Definitely been there and your 100% right
@LEIFanevret5 жыл бұрын
Omg! Yeah! People change faces! And behavior! When moneys involved! Im with you! Here Paul!
@seagullpoet4 жыл бұрын
Big time !
@mooseknuckle96624 жыл бұрын
It sure does.
@tommyboyindy11573 жыл бұрын
I guarantee for Paul the worst part was the money. That’s all he cares about.
@michaelgraham97743 жыл бұрын
Paul sounds like a genuinely good father for a rockstar
@DMDvideo106 жыл бұрын
Wow the hate and disdain for ladies here is staggering... If you had a bad experience or experiences, take a step back and look at yourself first... When you live life with and as a true partner, all of this bullshit in moot...
@jrgilbert3 жыл бұрын
During my divorce, I said the pain was worse than 1000 funerals. Death is natural. Divorce someone chooses to rip apart a family. I was devastated. It took me several years to truly move on.
@betsybabf7482 ай бұрын
As a widow, I can't believe someone could say or think something so selfish. If you love someone, or even have basic respect for human life, you would much rather that person you claim to love be happy, healthy and alive, even if not with you. The pain of a breakup is not even the close to a person, who you claim to love, losing their life and existence, especially if you have children losing their parent forever, if you know what genuine love is and put the value of life over your own feelings. I would give the next 30 years of my own life for my husband to have his life back and to have time with our children back, even if he wanted to just divorce me. If he ever thought this selfishly, putting his own feelings of rejection or sadness over my life, then I would have divorced him because I would know he never knew what actual love was. Thank God he was never that kind of man.
@LD-qj2te6 жыл бұрын
Paul is such a cool guy. I actually like the guy more than the famous guy
@FreeMTrider3 жыл бұрын
A good friend of mine designed and installed the sound and media system in his home studio. He told me Paul is the nicest guy and totally down to Earth.
@liveincolor35373 жыл бұрын
Omg... I am a New Fan!! Was Never into KISS but my bf is a Huge fan. We just went to their concert here in SoCal. He is Amazing On and Off the stage. What a man and human being.
@liveincolor35373 жыл бұрын
@@FreeMTrider I Totally believe it. He has Great energy.
@theSword-4 жыл бұрын
She was "emotionally unavailable" because she only married you for money Paul.
@AgeofJP4 жыл бұрын
that was the challenge he spoke about
@wendymann79294 жыл бұрын
I know her. You are wrong. She's an actress. Choosing to come home to care for her parents...i love emotional intelligence. So does Paul
@theSword-4 жыл бұрын
@@wendymann7929 .....sure.
@joeb25884 жыл бұрын
She sounds awe ful. She tells him how she would bend him over a barrel but figures she's entitled to take what he earned? I don't know how it ended up but hopefully she isn't ripping his soul out any longer.
@chriskriaris26713 жыл бұрын
@@wendymann7929 bullshit its true. She wanted half .She didnt earn it. What a lazy piece
@jimmypaulgaard36444 жыл бұрын
The gentleman’s incredibly well spoken. Wonderful to listen to.
@parabot22 жыл бұрын
And in love with himself , geeez what a pompus self important titt.
@midnight8ngel4 жыл бұрын
Divorce is the most painful, horrible, soul ripping, heartbreaking event in life. Only losing a child would be worse....Much worse. I feel for him. I went through it Twice. My second wife liked to cheat. Being cheated on is a feeling that can't be expressed in words. Remember what his contractor said. He's not nuts. I had sworn off marriage. I was touring with our band and ran into my prom date. We've now been married 14 years & have a great life with our kids, and grandkids. Don't lose hope. I'm being vulnerable on KZbin, which I know is dumb. Trolls will comment. Fuck them! This is for any of you who are where I was. Don't Ever Give Up!!
@joeb25884 жыл бұрын
Dude, good for you. Glad it's working out for you. No relationship is perfect but there are good ones for sure. Sorry you were cheated on. That sucks.
@nathueil13 жыл бұрын
Hell yeah🤘
@blitzkrieg68723 жыл бұрын
Wonderful comment! Cheers to you and your happy 14 year marriage with your prom sweet heart!
@rayfabris25123 жыл бұрын
you're 😎 cool and screw everyone else,glad it turned out great for you,and you first wife wait until she has her heart ripped out.i feel what you went through one week she loves you 2 weeks later it's like wtf just happened. take care bro.
@gilliankingston82593 жыл бұрын
No you're not, you being honest and open might help another man going through the same thing, sharing your experience of divorce, how it affected you and your recovery from it is definitely worthwhile🌹
@TheGreatAlan755 жыл бұрын
No Rich man should ever get married without a Rock solid prenup. End of story
@lmfs40325 жыл бұрын
Alan Lloyd Tbh no man ever
@johnflanagan91535 жыл бұрын
Thank god McCartney did, as " stumpy, " the greedy, younger wife would flip out during mediation, even throwing objects at Paul's lawyers; He gave her a generous amount, but it wasn't good enough.
@recabitejehonadab26545 жыл бұрын
Beware! Even prenups can be thrown out of courts. They are not a sure thing.
@youtuber61855 жыл бұрын
I married with a prenup and it pissed her off. She said “you don’t trust me”... I replied” oh no ... it also protects your things as well” And she replies “ yea but.... then froze what she was going to say”... it’s never been brought up since. 95% of women are anti prenup.
@steelheart41484 жыл бұрын
No rich man should ever get married period.
@DMSProduktions6 жыл бұрын
Say whatever you WANT about Paul as a person or an artist, he CAN'T be faulted as a father here!
6 жыл бұрын
DMSProduktions - Paul really got backstabbed. The things Gene originally said about marriage were probably taking over his mind at that point.
@DMSProduktions6 жыл бұрын
Seems yours is too! I have never HEARD Chris Rock!
@DMSProduktions6 жыл бұрын
Hmm this IS entirely possible!
@v-town19806 жыл бұрын
Silly Goose ever heard of a lousy parent? There's plenty of them. So giving praise to great parents makes sense. Your stmt is based on an overrated comedian. Pathetic.
@DMSProduktions6 жыл бұрын
Silly Goose by name...
@wendygould78363 жыл бұрын
Deep seated emotional turmoil which brought Paul to his knees yet his priorities always remained with his son. That’s the mark of a devoted father and beautiful man. Much respect to you Paul for your strength of character and your integrity.
@mediasawdust24585 жыл бұрын
"I've never met a woman who thought she got too much." - words to survive by. Choose wisely.
@seagullpoet4 жыл бұрын
Big time !
@p.c.h.67214 жыл бұрын
Never ever get married, what’s the point of getting married? Exactly, there’s no point, marriage is a made up thing that has no value and no purpose, you can live perfectly happy forever, with or without the same person, without getting hitched.
@melissakelly29543 жыл бұрын
@@p.c.h.6721 know what you're getting into before you make that step to get married cuz that's a big promise I don't make a promise just you wife or husband you make a promise to God that's a big promise Thomas
@teriraketty77603 жыл бұрын
LOL
@lisacassar70403 жыл бұрын
I would not know i got 0
@scottyb.87104 жыл бұрын
I listened to this book while going through my own divorce. Paul’s words helped me greatly. My ex also turned into my worst enemy.
@brianmcghee35975 жыл бұрын
I have a new respect for Paul Stanley.
@margomazzeo16803 жыл бұрын
@@lindaclark9925 Yawn...
@lindaclark99253 жыл бұрын
@@margomazzeo1680 haha i don't remember even writing that 😂
@e.l.norton6 жыл бұрын
As smart of a businessman as Paul is....he should NEVER have fallen for this. No prenup?! Paul, Paul, Paul...
@brianreed18596 жыл бұрын
Pete Venkman -he tried and she ran crying from the office and he caved. She totally screwed him over
@mshappyapple86633 жыл бұрын
If they live in a community property state, she still gets half by law unless they agree to something different. The court will go along with whatever the couple decides on.
@LuisHernandez-hw7dj3 жыл бұрын
In California, a prenup is meaningless. Though she wouldn't have received all that she wanted.
@tabithadebolt17083 жыл бұрын
The soldier has a mind of it's own.
@billydow19713 жыл бұрын
Leave California!! The people whom live there are not rational. Must be something in the water.
@madmichaelmathieu4 жыл бұрын
When Paul talks about his ex wife being emotionally unavailable it struck a nerve. When you're in that situation the harder you try the worse it gets.
@garyunsworth7264 жыл бұрын
I've been in that situation and have now decided I want nothing to do with women ever again, I'm more than happy on my own
@mrwolsy36964 жыл бұрын
Most asian bride marriages are like that.
@madmichaelmathieu4 жыл бұрын
@@garyunsworth726 I agree with you 100%, Gary. And that's not to say that I won't engage in brief meaningless encounters but as far as anything long-term never going to happen again for me. Never.
@madmichaelmathieu4 жыл бұрын
@@mrwolsy3696 thank you for the heads up on that I will remember that. 👍👍
@eileenahearn80663 жыл бұрын
Interesting perspective for someone who publicly admitted he cheated relentlessly on public TV etc.. Helllloooo. Then again...who knows what she was doing to cope as well. Sounds like they totally destroyed each other. His offers of child support, dealing with years of bad decisions while in a marriage, selling mutual assets...Boo hoo. That is the reality all people who divorce face. Where were your big "decision making and supportive parenting skills" prior to the divorce" for the aftermath of years of poor choices. Really? It's not all about you. Surprise.
@cassandramitch87936 жыл бұрын
Paul is a thoughtful father and husband. Divorce happens, and it was wonderful of Paul and Pamela to explain everything to Evan. Divorce is just as hard on the kids, and it can be eased if mom and dad explain what's going on and reassure the kids mom and dad still love them. It's good that Paul and Pamela took the time to do this with Evan
@jstarr75065 жыл бұрын
When she ran out of the room crying when he brought up the prenup why did he not take that as a huge sign???
@twikirobot68975 жыл бұрын
Because he thought he loved her and vice versa --- of course all of that is a pipe dream, especially when you're rich.
@jgmdewilde80783 жыл бұрын
Yeah...!
@brandonrock096 жыл бұрын
I enjoy Paul talking about his son . very much human and jyst like us average peeps.
@tieukhavu88325 жыл бұрын
It made me wanted to cry all the time
@Tzipporah365 жыл бұрын
Love u Paul!!
@lobovvanwinkle18083 жыл бұрын
👊🏼
@brettcooper38932 жыл бұрын
As he tells the story of his divorce, I find myself being able to relate to Paul Stanley for the first time ever. I felt a lot of the same feelings be did during my divorce years ago. She, too, was emotionally unavailable and I, too, remember coming home the first time after work and she and my son were gone. That night broke me. But you know what? It felt better the next day. And life goes on...
@fuzzybutkus89702 жыл бұрын
I did same 40 years ago.then met real love of my life. She saw my health slipping and went back to college degree. When my heart problem was discovered. I had to retire. She had just gotten her degree and we kept everything. She didn’t bat an eye when I was bringing home a pay check.
@elsa.dacruz5 жыл бұрын
The sacrifice to stay at home and raising children and give stability to a man that is fulfilling their dreams as no price. Try be a father all the time caring for your children. You would go nuts. women, let's go out to make money have our dream career and be paid the same as man and let them be a stay at home dad . They want the kids, the money the wife and the freedom.
@margomazzeo16803 жыл бұрын
Yes!! Truth!!
@samanthavictoria33085 жыл бұрын
He sounds like such a great father. To all the people yelling at him for not getting a prenup and for trusting her shut up. We all make stupid mistakes. The kid being loved and cared for is most important when parents divorce
@tieukhavu88324 жыл бұрын
The original lineup of KISS were also like a divorced marriage for 7 years (1973-1980, Before the reunion in 1996 till 2000). Like the Beatles, who were together for 10 years from 1960 til 1970.
@paulstanley68533 жыл бұрын
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@tamelaingram12603 жыл бұрын
Hell I'd sigh a prenup just to show him I'm not interested in the money just the man himself and his love.
@wgb010015 жыл бұрын
I got divorced a few years ago. Paul’s words here ring very true. Putting his son first is all that matters.
@truthdrone70662 жыл бұрын
The man is a legend
@lnmy92892 жыл бұрын
Is it Paul Stanley reading himself? Very heartwarming and deep explanation of what can happen in one's heart and mind. Thank you. This really heartfelt contribution would do a lot of good to more people. I hope it gets shared. Thank you again for the depth in the words.
@georgecc6 жыл бұрын
That's not Pam in the photo. That's his current wife. Fix it.
@timperley696 жыл бұрын
Who cares??
@arthurbishop31736 жыл бұрын
They don't look that much different.
@terrybeauchamp70706 жыл бұрын
georgecc Asshole wrong ex wife
@terrybeauchamp70706 жыл бұрын
georgecc He's bi sexual
@ShaneKennedy19696 жыл бұрын
cool.
@70snostalgia5 жыл бұрын
"I just love to talk about myself. So my wife left me."
@Elricmedia197316 жыл бұрын
I am tempted to read this. Paul is a cooler and more human guy than I expected, and an excellent writer here to boot. Success does not prohibit or protect you from suffering much as every other person goes through on this planet, and unfortunately it probably exposes you to more. I do not know what "fair" is in a divorce since I haven't seen a divorce that 2 people ever looked back on and said, "Yeah, that was amicable and painless." I do not know what position or economic status Pam had prior to her marriage to Paul, but it's likely it was incredibly elevated and improved by what he was able to give her. A friend of mine said to me recently that men love women, and women love what men can provide them. It is scary when anyone feels entitled to what you've worked for, and scarier that we live in a country that supports this legalized theft just because you expressed a desire to be committed to someone and somewhere down the line you have to pay a huge monetary price because you made a regrettable decision in the choice of a life partner. I bet Paul would have supported her for life had her lifestyle expectations been more modest, and by that I mean she would still probably be living better than the rest of us. Anyway, I enjoyed this clip of his book as it gives us a different perspective on Paul's life, and one far too many people can probably relate to.
@willelliott50526 жыл бұрын
Very foolish to not have a signed pre-nup. The best of us sometimes fail to think above the belt line. But it is critical to keep one thought above the belt line. That is, if you have a net worth of over $1M, and your prospective spouse has a net worth of no more than a fraction of your's, you absolutely must have a pre-nup. If they won't go for it, thank God for the sign and run.
@Neil-Aspinall5 жыл бұрын
I hear ya Paul. I must say you're a brave and real man for exposing yourself as you have with your book.
@BobbyTucker3 жыл бұрын
I appreciate Paul Stanley in the way he is so family oriented, the way he places family above all else.
@phyllispollack15 жыл бұрын
I think rock stars pick wives poorly, and always have. They seem to always have to have a woman that looks like a model, and has no real character. Then these musicians are utterly destroyed, and somehow surprised that the woman just wanted their money. I have known many recording artists, and have seen this story so many times.
@SenorZorrozzz5 жыл бұрын
Phyllis Pollack You’re so right. I have also seen musicians marry the wrong woman because she played him by saying how talented, unique and how he is the soul reason why is band is any good. These women art not the best looking. These women are very quiet around others and doesn’t truly connect with anyone except the guy she’s after. She’s catches him like a animal, he’s caged and doesn’t know it. Her control leads to his destruction. It sometimes ends in divorce, whereby she gets the bulk of his estate, or he stays with her never aware that he’s her pet dog.
@musicuniverse13565 жыл бұрын
Yes, Dwayne Goettel from Skinny Puppy was destroyed by a woman because of her influence.
@seagullpoet4 жыл бұрын
Big time !
@azwris4 жыл бұрын
Bon Jovi has a very good wife! Exception to the rule..
@johanndaart73264 жыл бұрын
You can't avoid it. Have you seen those gold digger pranks with a car like Lambo or Rarri? What catch you will get depends on what bait you will use. If you are a normal guy and you've made money, you can get car like this as a bait. Or you can be yourself and use your personality as a bait. It's a choice. If you are a rock star? There's no choice. You are the car.
@jeffosborne11475 жыл бұрын
God bless you paul. Keep your head up and keep doing what you do best.
@wendybarkan57683 жыл бұрын
Your candidness is very much appreciated. People from all walks of life experience pain sometimes in relationships. The fact that you are able to be so open and honest brings people closer to you. And that you can share your vulnerabilities shoes true strength. Thank you for bringing such joy to people for so many years. Hope you heal and the universe will bring you love again.
@wendybarkan57683 жыл бұрын
Shows
@randyerb68394 жыл бұрын
"EVERYTHING leads to SOMETHING else..." I ❤️ this!!!
@TheodorusRex6 жыл бұрын
Law is always on the side of the woman. If women want equality - how about after a marriage they get half of whatever THEY provided.
@CalebePriester6 жыл бұрын
Men's laws is on the side of women, yes, but that's what you get for following past costumes. I don't know if you know, but it was the elite who made those kind of practices common. They did destroy the concept of marriage, now women marry for money and to get money from us, it's not true love anymore.
6 жыл бұрын
Calebe Priester - Yeah. So this proves Gene was right about marriage before he caved into marrying Shanon.
@jameswillis17426 жыл бұрын
Theodorus Rex and if it can be proven that she had an affair, took the kids to see her lover(s) she should be ordered by the family court to forfeit her parental rights for 14 days so she gets the message that she just can't go around being a slut because she is unhappy in the family she helped create
@Fireglo6 жыл бұрын
Pre-nups ALWAYS get them.
@Fireglo6 жыл бұрын
@stan actually most times the father wants nothing to do with the kid and buggers off. There are way more single moms than there are single dads.
@brucerogers27335 жыл бұрын
Your love for your son is something special. We all, all of us seem to get a raw deal in a divorce. Promises broken, "oh, this is business" she says..."right" Past promises? out the window....It's very hard and I wouldn't wish a divorce on my worst enemy. If I didn't know you as the artist you are, I'd respect you for the devoted father you are. Thanks for posting this video. It speaks volumes about the man you are.
@pennsyltuckyden98232 жыл бұрын
This story is so familiar, many men have gone down this road.
@chrisdrummond88936 жыл бұрын
Children are gifts from God. Good health is also. I think that women get brainwashed by their attorneys because they are so vulnerable and torn up by the failed marriage . I don't think women set out to be assholes during a divorce it just happens, and it's very sad.
@iaingreig96853 жыл бұрын
This proves that Gene Simmons is a genius
@johnoman66176 жыл бұрын
NEVER GET MARRIED!!!!
@brelijah3086 жыл бұрын
John Oman you flipping Simmons
6 жыл бұрын
John Oman - Paul should have paid attention to the Married With Children television series. He'd definitely have stayed single.
@smokesletsgo23745 жыл бұрын
The only people telling me to never marry are those that are married or have been in the past. Just don't do it. Date if you want, but NEVER marry. You will get fucked (and not in the way you want)
@satoshibitcoinsaki65325 жыл бұрын
MGTOW!!!!!!!!!!! Woman never mean what they say or say what they mean.
@coyleigh51635 жыл бұрын
@@satoshibitcoinsaki6532 no truer words have ever been spoken!!!
@PaulMcMinotaur3 жыл бұрын
I've never been a big KISS fan, but I really like something about Paul Stanley's writing.
@scottdavidson98976 жыл бұрын
This is why you get her to sign a prenuptial ageeement especially if you have a significant amount of assets.
@d.d.21476 жыл бұрын
Smh This is the saddest shit. I'm not a KISS fan but I watched a couple of Paul's interviews and was impressed with how he conducts himself. He's a real class act. I remember him saying Gene wasn't invited to his wedding because of his views on marriage but said that's still his brother. I hope he's in a good space though. He's good people.
@harrisfoster10665 жыл бұрын
Refreshing candor......Simmons is a pig
@seagullpoet4 жыл бұрын
Big time !
@FNAFEDITS1714 жыл бұрын
D.D. 214 I AM a Kiss fan, and Paul is a whiny bitch. Facts
@DNYS8N4 жыл бұрын
Put the right woman in the photo
@Ekimkenap4 жыл бұрын
Paul really hid his heterosexuality well. Still talks like a flamer!
@jwvvvv6 жыл бұрын
Paul complains A LOT.
@troywindle466 Жыл бұрын
My parents separated in 1980, Kiss helped me get through it
@MattSmith-iq1ld5 жыл бұрын
The people who are saying "never marry" or "rock stars should never marry" need to understand that Paul picked the right person to marry in Erin. Someone who was a highly successful lawyer who did not know about Kiss at all when she met Paul. If you have read Paul's autobiography or his recent book, it's a match made in heaven. Erin didn't NEED Paul's money, even if he made more money than her. The problem with many of these rock star marriages is that the rock star ends up marrying a little known model who doesn't have squat and has the brains of a cockroach. The other key issue is that even though there will forever be cynics, the Kiss farewell tour will end. It is physically impossible for 68 year old men to carry around that much gear on stage for two hours and 15 minutes. It's going to end. So at that point, Paul is going to have more time that ever before to spend time with Erin and his kids. That all being said, I 100% agree with comments here about the California divorce laws. They are written as if it were the 1950's. I couldn't believe what Perla got from Slash in their divorce. The cost of pussy is really high in this state, and if kiddies are involved, judges pretty much assume that moms are the only ones capable of parenting. But I feel Paul chose wisely with his 2nd wife.
@chrisdher654 жыл бұрын
The jury is still out, It ain’t over ‘till it’s over.
@markandersen7933 жыл бұрын
Yeah, she took exactly half, Gene Simmons is worth exactly twice as much. 400 million, to Paul's 200 million.
@johnjohn-ne8fw3 жыл бұрын
What an exceptional parent! Evan is in good hands🙏
@owenwilberforce61382 жыл бұрын
Marriage is just a legal arrangement, and the sooner you realize that the sooner you see it is the ultimate leverage against you. It is not about love as much as recourse.
@ryananthony48403 жыл бұрын
I COMPLETELY felt the same way..... My son is my world, everything I do is for him
@SmallSoldier3 жыл бұрын
Wow... what a bitch! People like that deserve to have something really horrible happen to them as well. I believe in karma and what goes around comes around. All the best to you Paul and I'm glad you're new life is good. Cheers!
@kathrynjordan87822 жыл бұрын
As a daughter of divorced parents, I understand how Paul Stanley's son must be feeling with the divorce of his parents. I felt betrayed at first; it took years for me to realize my parents just could not make their marriage work. They eventually found their true loves and I have two beautiful stepparents. Divorce is never easy especially when children are involved; must be equally harder when one parent is famous.
@Godfather197045 жыл бұрын
I've been with my girl for 25 years and have never been married. We both had an understanding that we didn't want the government involved in our relationship.
@daveo98444 жыл бұрын
Future President You can be worse off in a de facto relationship 😢
@scottyb.87104 жыл бұрын
What state do You live in?
@snikkerr19493 жыл бұрын
Lol....that's what everyone says. Eventually, if you have kids, you have to get the government involved.
@rc24873 жыл бұрын
I'm sure that you are having pre marital sex. Forenication is a sin that God doesn't like. Make sure that common law doesn't exist where you live.
@cc48752 жыл бұрын
👍👍
@stephyheinrich13353 жыл бұрын
Beautiful words and thoughts. Thank you paul
@generalpatzer68935 жыл бұрын
well being married does interfere with the gay sex....just sayin'
@michaelcorreira8125 Жыл бұрын
I've been divorced before. It was one of the most painful experiences I've ever had to endure. That's why I never brought it up to Paul. As a matter of fact, it was 1988 thru 1991 when I was alone again. I got married (again) in 1991. She is absolutely amazing. We just celebrated our 32nd Anniversary on March 5th. I was happy for Paul when I heard he got remarried. I did tell him how happy I was for him. He thanked me for, "not scratching the old wound." Still a great guy.
@pennyblea27056 жыл бұрын
Paul you are a great father and your children especially Evan will and probably does know it, you deserve happiness and to be loved, I'm glad you found love after your divorce. .bless you and your family...
@paulstanley68533 жыл бұрын
Hello Thanks for your comment and supports, your comments and constant support has brought me this far. Keep Supporting Please send me a mail Paulstanley076@gmail.com
@NathanEllery3 жыл бұрын
Life's choices have consequences. They always have consequences, even when you are a 20 something unbreakable at the top of the world.
@AlanDeAudney5 жыл бұрын
I think I know how you feel -A drunk driver crashed into me , local hospital refused to treat my injuries, I had to sell house due to death threats, my then wife wanted to separate , I bought another house but things were never the same and we divorced , she wanted half of assets even though I have fully paid off a block of land before marriage etc , I haven’t seen my 2 Children for 20 years
@strnglhld Жыл бұрын
How does the hospital refuse to treat injuries?!!
@larrytaylor36843 жыл бұрын
This channel lost cred. That’s his wife today
@JULIANBRACHFELD5 жыл бұрын
While my financial circumstances were a drop in the bucket compared to Paul's, the pain was no different. The financial difference was what killed me. I was left with nothing but a Chrysler minivan that was falling apart, a few miscellaneous personal possessions, and my clothes. My ex got a 5 bedroom house that she was supposed to buy me out of 4 years ago. I got to sleep on friends couches for nearly 2 years while trying to figure out how I was going to spend time with our children. To top everything off, my ex poisoned our children. I got through it. I only wish I had more money.
@SilverSting4204 жыл бұрын
She poisoned them?!
@JULIANBRACHFELD4 жыл бұрын
@@SilverSting420 Parental alienation. Not with literal poison.
@@SilverSting420 Doing great, thank you. The serenity prayer helped. A lot.
@manuelnunez88023 жыл бұрын
I've been through it. The easiest divorce is difficult. The hard ones are almost unbearable. Thankfully, we get along well now and she's remarried. My son (Zacky)'s stepfather is a really good guy.
@bartonofarrell26933 жыл бұрын
So sorry for Paul Stanley sad situation with Pam .
@p.c.h.67214 жыл бұрын
A girl said to me after a few months seeing each other, “we should get engaged” I said “ok” Two months later She said “why don’t we get married? We get along very well!” And I said, “exactly, we get along very well, so why ruin everything by getting married?” Two months later she said again “I really want to get married” so I said “I have too much money to get married” and she replied “you don’t trust me?” I said “when you have the kind of money that I have, marriage is out of question” A week later she took off and never saw her again. Moral of the story... don’t be naive, or you will pay a huge price, literally! (Now I have another “friend with benefits” that I like a lot, but I am NOT getting married, never ever, I’m not stupid, love comes....and goes, and when it goes it goes with your money, guaranteed - there is a very fine line between passionate love ❤️ and passionate enemies 👹☠️)
@seagullpoet4 жыл бұрын
Great story.
@Mantechnic4 жыл бұрын
Also...get a vasectomy and keep it a secret. Avoid the child trap.
@theSword-4 жыл бұрын
I frequently have the marriage conversation with people, and everytime they say, "when are you gonna get married?" I say, "when you can tell me what's in it for me, that I can't get for free by staying single." Then they change the subject.
@p.c.h.67214 жыл бұрын
MGTOW SWORD 🤣🤣🤣👍
@bearg-ma91683 жыл бұрын
Then you're not ready. Just be honest. Tell any gal that brings up engagement or marriage the truth. You've chosen to shut your life off from something amazing. It can happen. If you're open to it...but never just agree because it won't happen then. It will find you and come from within you. Separate love from lust. They are 2 different things.
@ladypalomino31513 жыл бұрын
Paul tried to be very reasonable during his divorce, but his wife wasnt willing to work with him. He loves his son very much. You are a good man paul.
@LBart218 Жыл бұрын
I had no idea about this. I think what Paul offered her was generous but others will disagree I'm sure. To ask what she asked for though, makes women look bad. Just my opinion.
@bassioelmucho3 жыл бұрын
Seeking validation where I knew it wouldn't be met! What a universal sentiment that fame and fortune can't eliminate! Thanks for sharing Paul!
@antonydick93836 жыл бұрын
These posts get so boring... Sorry people but they do... The first half of his book he keeps talking about his ear... Ok I understand that was hard for him... Hell I have worse than him but I don't do 120 pages about it...
@crazywolf1x1x4 жыл бұрын
Marriage: You're entering into a lifetime contract. Of which 56% fail. And if yours fails all you got to do is take half your stuff and give it to someone and then go on and start again. Who would make a deal like then in their right mind?
@energyasylum9972 жыл бұрын
Wow! Good dude👍🏼. excuse me, ….. GOOD DAD !!🙏🏻👌🏼👍🏼.
@Jacob-tj8ig3 жыл бұрын
The woman in the picture is not Pamela Bowen though, it's his current wife, Erin Sutton.
@Jacob-tj8ig3 жыл бұрын
@ They seem to be happy together tbh
@MegaChristina19663 жыл бұрын
I don't understand why this woman wants the same thing. And as a gift a house of 2 million wow! I plus learn opportunities for her own future... I was already happy with so many God Blesses people with this divorce problems and harsh reality
@wickedb.25865 жыл бұрын
Paul is speaking very nice and clear . I love it
@JoinTheProgress3 жыл бұрын
Best autobiography I've ever read, then listened to the audio version (above) and enjoyed it even more. It's so honest and straightforward about his very human challenges that it's extremely inspiring.
@jsgraham673 жыл бұрын
I agree. I've read Gene's autobiography, and many of the KISS events correlate. But as far as the person, Gene is a narcissist. I have mad respect for both men, but Paul is so down to earth, and genuine. He acknowledges when he makes mistakes, and makes no bones about it. What really bothers me is to find out that all albums from 1983 until Revenge were written, recorded and produced primarily by Paul, because Gene was in his own little world, following his own ambitions. Yet he wanted half his cut. Paul deserved the full cut. He busted his ass to keep KISS afloat, and performed admirably, producing some of the best KISS songs of the 80's.
@JoinTheProgress3 жыл бұрын
@@jsgraham67 I get your point completely. I think it was simply Paul's good nature that had it work out that way; not only was Gene the other vital half, but Paul _was_ more focused on keeping the Kiss machine going than Gene was. At some point in time Gene bought Paul a car...a really-really nice one, can't recall the make/model...so I think there was a balance that Paul was satisfied with knowing Gene just had a different view on the whole of their success. Not that even a higher end car could make up the difference financially, but it was a cool gesture. It was as an apology...and if I recall...it could've been about exactly this topic. Cheers.
@sherricarlson8396 жыл бұрын
After listening to this and reading the comment section, to me no matter if someone is a good person, selfish person ECT, one need a to always protect themselves. He helped build an empire before she came along. I believe a person's word is their bond but it's their actions that give themselves away.
@carlacosta565 жыл бұрын
He act like a victim. I don't like it. I believe she got hurt in some circumstances. He always had a lot of girls.
@duayneclarke83665 жыл бұрын
She really liked your limousine
@duayneclarke83665 жыл бұрын
She liked the way the wheels rolled. she liked your seven inch leather heals and goin to all of the shows. but she didnt love you.
@dickhickey9094 жыл бұрын
Lol witty
@soundhammerstudio17444 жыл бұрын
I can empathize with you brother, in more ways then you'll know. God bless.
@dustin1743 Жыл бұрын
Move on. Keep. On. Moving. Move on your really. On your. Way thank you. For being you. Paul
@celicharvel4 жыл бұрын
Oh no tears are falling. I guess even rich folk have problems too.
@mattpartington53126 жыл бұрын
modern day delilah
@signsmusic14 жыл бұрын
My thought... been there in 2010 when that song was released. And sums it up quite well.
@surveyordave5 жыл бұрын
Paul Stanley is a good man with a good heart.
@tieukhavu88324 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@LusciousTwinkle2 жыл бұрын
Wow she really hit you where it hurt you most huh Paul? I can't believe that you thought you might have to sell your house, all the money you've made from Kiss over the years....
@Prof_Tickles922 жыл бұрын
This is probably the only part of Paul’s book where he displays genuine humility and manages to step outside of himself, the rest of the book is super egotistical but this felt real, raw, and emotional.
@darkseid68982 жыл бұрын
Don't be stupid. Ace and Peter are 2 drug addicts.
@thomasnewby92884 жыл бұрын
So Paul got a divorce. He be went from being filthy rich to filthy rich.
@MrJoeythebabykangaro6 жыл бұрын
I heard Paul cheated on tour...notice that he doesn't divulge why she wanted to divorce him?
@highnumber94946 жыл бұрын
Joeythebabykangaroo With a dude?
@wendyb55286 жыл бұрын
AMEN to that!!! Of course he wouldn't comment on that.. He was not an angel at all.
@MrJoeythebabykangaro6 жыл бұрын
True story: I knew a guy who roadied for Kiss then...he said Paul was a dog. This is why Pam wanted bank from him.
@ethanthegamingguy49746 жыл бұрын
Joeythebabykangaroo did that guy know if what Paul and Gene has said about Peter and Ace are true? I’m legitimately wondering.
@ronkrill16 жыл бұрын
ha ha
@elisekrentzel27 Жыл бұрын
Honestly written and thought out. I love that Paul didn't play the blame game. I too had a very similar experience and did not write anything negative about my 'wasband'. You are wonderful Paul.
@michaellieske71736 жыл бұрын
Funny, I heard a saying along time ago. Money doesn't change you, money makes you more of what you are. Keep that in mind when you get married.
@simonscott11214 жыл бұрын
How did she justify it? She's a woman.
@Playitstraight446 жыл бұрын
Paul confirmed what I always thought. KISS kept going because he got divorced. This is where people (like Trunk) lose the person and start looking at the one dimensional side of the business and think this man was just being "greedy". He had to survive and essentially rebuild himself financially to where he could one day retire securely. This is the period where he embraced more of the merchandise aspects of KISS and the licensing became a big deal again. And I'm quite sure this is why Eric and Tommy were given the makeup to move the band forward. It was not for career needs, it was for life needs. Paul had to rebuild himself and hoped the KISS Army would still answer the call. They did. I think that has allot to do with why he tries to be attentive to fans when they talk to him. It's definitely been a relationship that gave on both sides of that fence.
@christianberrian30126 жыл бұрын
All good points dude.
@ferox9656 жыл бұрын
Here is another point. Maybe the man simply loves what he does...some people just love what they do...i plan on playing until I drop dead.
@creepshowcrate6 жыл бұрын
I fully agree with ferox. KISS would have continued regardless. Paul and Gene have made more in recent decades than they ever did in the old days, yet they keep going because they dig what they do. Paulie could have compensated that gold digger ten times over by now, but he and Gene soldier on out of love for what they created almost five decades ago.
@ferox9656 жыл бұрын
Black Death 1347 being a KISS fan since 1980, that to me is the biggest thing that stands out. Yes...KISS is his stream of income, but anyone who suggests he doesn't love what he's doing is certifiable.
@brianreed18596 жыл бұрын
That's a part of it. But the other part was him emotionally. He needed an outlet and KISS was the perfect outlet. So rebuilding is future finances AND rebuilding his emotions and his heart. He's a very emotional guy
@lyndatruitt42453 жыл бұрын
True Man & Dad Paul Stanley is 💯💞
@jeffosborne11475 жыл бұрын
Hope the best for you Paul. God bless
@tammyrose88173 жыл бұрын
Paul I have so much respect for you. I Feel the same way. Your a true definition of what a real man is . There are not many men that can hold a candle to you You are awesome. ❤❤😎😎⚜🎭
@edfrazier57516 жыл бұрын
First, Paul im sure is a phenominal parent... It would only make sense. Divorce and money with a greedy undeserving ex wife. Only undeserving because it shows without question, her marriage was for lifestyle..the money.
@scottjeffry1306 жыл бұрын
Ed Frazier mi
@dondiboy67583 жыл бұрын
so on point Paul.
@XLBiker133 жыл бұрын
Great story. Paul is so hardworking and intelligent. Always working toward his future. It's so surprising that someone so diligent and exacting didn't bother with a pre-nup. But that's what love does to us.
@HappyMachorino-bd8no6 ай бұрын
He bothered about the pre-nup. But Pamela was pregnant. She ran out of the office, crying, and didn't want to sign. In this clip here they cut of the most important information.