Life is changing fast. Here's an update Q&A

[@PaulandMorgan]

Hey guys, I’m curious your thoughts on family planning. Where do you stand as of right now in your life? Have your thoughts changed at all over time? Patreon! www.patreon.com/paulandmorganshow

[@eduardagatelliarnold8061]

Hello guys! I’m a silent follower from Brazil. Have been watching your videos since the beginning of 2020. I’m a fellow Christian who also struggled with infertility for a while and who now has two under two 🥰 the youngest being just a little over one month now (so we’re in the middle of a bit of a chaotic transition 😅) I just wanted to encourage you guys to pray/study a little more into this having kids/ # of kids subject. From what I see you’re a couple that truly strive for holiness and have been walking with the Lord for a while. It looks to me like you’re always seeking the Truth and I find it very inspiring. But respectfully I think you haven’t truly given this matter the attention it deserves. Besides that, you also have a considerable audience who look up to you so I’m sure your opinion in this matter influences a lot of people and you have a chance to make a difference on this very important subject. That being said, I’m not gonna comment on any of the personal arguments you guys mentioned on the video but would like to point a few things about the subject in general: - family is the main “project of God” for us living on Earth, marriage is a super sacred covenant, the one blessing God didn’t abolished by punishment of original sin nor by the condemnation of the flood - whether or not couples should have kids or how many kids they should have pretty much wasn’t even a discussion before the sexual revolution which also brought so many horrible consequences for our society which influenced even the Christian world and how some Christian see/interpret the 10 commandments today (or even The Word itself). - considering the above, do you think the Lord would leave such a important question for us to just choose from “our convictions”, leaving no guidelines? It looks to me that just letting people go with their convictions on such important matters can be a dangerous thing and can also lead us to being trapped in cultural relativism and to bad decisions because today we’re influenced by so many things that don’t necessarily come from the Lord. One book that talks about it deeply but in a light way, easy to follow, is Life Giving Love by Kimberly Hahn. She shares her personal story with family planning and enlightens us with serious teachings found in the Word and in the history of Christianity. She is a Catholic but a lot of people from different Christian denominations have found what she shared to speak important and inspiring Truth on this subject. I would just LOVE to hear your thoughts on whats is shared in this book (or some other resources that address family planning as deeply as she does) but I understand it can’t be done overnight 😅 (Christopher West is another fun American who speaks a lot about it). I’m sorry for the long comment but I must take this opportunity to add (since I never comment) that Morgan, you’re one of the most beautiful woman I know and I just love your voice!! Also, I hope this was a respectful comment, I’m sorry if I came across disrespectful. Its was definitely not my intention but is kind of difficult to write about serious things in a foreign language 🤭

[@EmmieEllis]

When Morgan is talking about not having more kids she says “you just have to go with your conviction on this” and then a moment later says “everyone should definitely have kids”. Can either of you explain to me how those two statements aren’t contradictions?

[@davidlampmanmusic]

Morgan doesn’t say both of those things. Paul says one and Morgan says the other. Nevertheless, these two statements don’t contradict each other because they’re both pro-kids. The first statement supports having kids (just not more than two), and the second supports having kids (any amount of them). Their conviction isn’t to have “no” kids, it’s to not have “more”. I hope this helps.

[@johannastromberg1224]

I am thinking she is talking to people who are in healthy places. (Or I hope so.)

[@arielrodriguez968]

It’s simple! You should use your own judgement, but you should come to the same conclusion as Paul and Morgan :) and if you don’t they will judge you :) hope this helps! They’ve been using the same reasoning for the duration of their time on KZbin.

[@jessb4784]

She encourages people to have kids knowing the joy that's all

[@susanna87201]

“Don’t make any decision out of fear”…a minute later: “if I were to get pregnant again I’d be terrified” Genuinely curious how you explain this, Morgan?

[@CaseyCarroll-s5j]

She’s not saying she’s fearful of the decision to become pregnant. She might be initially scared if she finds out she’s pregnant, and would have to find faith and strength in the Lord. So I believe you are putting words in her mouth there a little.

[@Jennifer.villezcas]

Yeah that really was a complete contradiction

[@susanna87201]

@@CaseyCarroll-s5jI guess I’m just wondering if her fear of getting pregnant is playing a part in her decision to be done at two? I appreciate your comment though! I’m just genuinely wondering.

[@CaseyCarroll-s5j]

@@susanna87201 ah! No worries, I totally get what you are wondering about :)

[@bunchofbaxters]

@@susanna87201 if it is it's valid, I don't think it's a contradiction or anything to do with what they were saying about not making decisions out of fear which in general is good advice, there is so much more that goes into deciding not to have more kids than fear

[@LithoCat]

I just don't understand how you can say that two is the number you want because its what you feel like you can handle and you don't think you could pour enough of yourself onto more than that but scoff at the idea that there are people who know they can't handle any children. Me, I love kids. I love being around them and caring for them. But I know people who absolutely are terrible with children and don't have any desire to be around them. Saying "everyone should have kids" is one of the ways you end up with abusive/neglectful parents. Some people really just aren't cut out for that and they don't need to "go minister in Thailand" to make up for it.

[@oraskat]

Honestly I don't believe anyone can handle any kids! I didn't think I could handle one when I had one, two when I had two, three when I had three...now 35w with #4...first, God expands your capacity as you grow, you can't get it ahead of time, feel ready to be a mom of 10. I think it's good for the absolute majority of people to have kids...someone once told me when I was 19; "if you don't want to grow, don't get married, and ESPECIALLY don't have kids!" I thought "I want to grow!" little did I know how true that statement was!

[@amarahsrabbitry1073]

@@oraskatThat’s a good way to put it!

[@amarahsrabbitry1073]

I personally agree that people shouldn’t try to have kids unless they are passionate about the idea of having them (though sometimes people get pregnant by accident and have to adapt accordingly). I have two amazing kids and am a Christian.

[@LithoCat]

I just can't agree. Think about everyone you know/have met. Can you honestly say every single person you know would be a good parent? I certainly can't say that. I know people can change and step up for their kids, but I also know a good number of folks who would be (or heck, currently are) bad parents. I agree with the other person who responded to you: you shouldn't have kids unless you're passionate about wanting them. Kids are too precious to just hand out to any and everyone and hope they'll be taken care of.

[@oraskat]

@LithoCat it is a tough one, I see what you're saying. I know people who's kids end up in and out of foster homes. I did say majority, to leave room for a small unfit percentage lol. But yes, thinking of all the folks who stepped up, all the folks who were pregnant teenagers deciding to keep their pregnancies... I think the heart of the matter for me is, that way too many people nowadays choose to not have children because of convenience or selfish reasons, disposing of the idea of having a family as something "stopping them from reaching their potential" in their life. And while it's hard to judge everyone's case and reasoning, I don't agree with the general trend in our society.

[@LiliLedesma-rw2kg]

The argument wasn't dumb. It was about Morgan feeling overwhelmed with being a full-time mom and miscommunication about her getting breaks/ her time, plus she felt sick.

[@KasThinks]

single mom*^ At that.

[@williamehlers5158]

Just an FYI, if you open a college savings account for your child, it can be used for trade school. It doesn’t have to be used for a university. The money grows tax free. And if you throw even just a small amount into it now, it will compound so drastically. If the funds end up not being used for any education, you only pay penalties on the growth, and not any of the money you actually put into it. I’m not telling you this from a judgmental place. I just wasn’t sure if you knew.

[@hillcountry_homemaker]

Yes!! Dave Ramsey taught me this! Haha I was against the fund until I actually understood how it worked. It’s such a great option

[@measured.enthusiast]

I mean to be fair, the Fundie Fridays/New Evangelicals video was less about you guys “oversharing your marriage” and more about how Paul’s new dream of pickleball stardom feels like elaborate performance art 😂

[@PaulandMorgan]

😗 May have to watch and make a response

[@TheNewEvangelicals]

👀👀👀😘

[@timblay1979]

Paul is super gay so performance art is his natural state.

[@audreyberns7283]

Yeah, people don’t really care that you over shared…. They are in shock of how selfish Paul appears to be in general. Doing his own thing while his postpartum wife is clearly struggling. I would wager The majority of people feel so sorry for Morgan, that she appears to get the minimum amount of help from her husband. Just judging from the video you edited and posted for the world to see.

[@catdobbs4680]

@@TheNewEvangelicals TIM if they do a reaction video you & ur wife are gonna have to livestream again 😂 would much rather give yall a watch

[@brianyoung2683]

The fact that Paul always says in these videos that women aren’t that into sex as much as guys demonstrates the problems with not having sex before marriage. Paul can only judge the sex drive of women through his experience Morgan. Paul trust me, there are lots of women who love sex as much as any guy does.

[@hillcountry_homemaker]

I agree! I also think that if women don’t get help and support, they want sex less 😬 if they get proper sleep, nutrition and exercise, they are ready to go 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@user-st9pd6ux5i]

There is no problems with not having sex before marriage. There’s more benefits to waiting til marriage for example women and men both are more insecure when their spouse has had more sexual partners and we know all the issues that come along with insecurity like depression. You also don’t have to worry about sexually transmitted diseases/infections when you have one sexual partner. Women also don’t have to worry about figuring out who the biological father of their child is and men don’t have to worry about taking care of and paying child support for a child that isn’t biologically theirs when you wait til marriage and only have one partner. Also when you wait til marriage and have one partner you both can learn what you like together and grow together, when you have multiple partners you’re learning what multiple different people like and then once you get married you’re using all the things you learned from other people on your spouse and that’s pretty messed up in my opinion.

[@user-st9pd6ux5i]

Also it’s okay and normal for one person to have a higher or lower drive than the other person in the marriage that doesn’t mean that there’s problems with saving yourself for marriage that’s just a normal thing that happens so many people experience this with or without saving themselves for marriage.

[@Nobutterfliesx]

LOL „why does Morgan not want more children?“ because she has all the burden to herself while Paul is out living his high schooler sports life

[@Stylishgirlny]

she's single-handedly raising 3 children

[@weplaydk2343]

Just found out about them through fundie's reaction videos. Does he play professionally or just a hobby?

[@Nobutterfliesx]

@@weplaydk2343 he tries to go pro but started at 35 with no prior sports career

[@LiliLedesma-rw2kg]

The college fund thing... maybe your kids won't go to college but imagine what a gift that would be if you just opened up a bank account for them and made alittle nest egg of money for them to use when they graduate to start settling into adulthood or maybe for a future car or something. You don't have to put the money in a special college account ( my mom did that for us kids, and it was literally a God sent). It can just be an account for the future. If you are financially able, I think that would be a really good testament to your kids to show them how to be responsible with money, how to plan ahead, and to show them how much you think of and care about their futures because you love them.

[@josieann5031]

People who start a savings account for their children have something Paul doesn't. It's called a job.

[@Emmmm8134]

They don’t have money to save

[@ShriyaParikshit]

LOL​@@josieann5031

[@sarahbagby2634]

Do you really think that the only way for a couple to not have kids and be "Godly" is by being missionaries? Is that genuinely what you believe? Or is there any room for the possibility that God may have different callings on other people's lives that don't include having children? Do you realize that there are legitimate reasons to not have kids and that not every human is wired to want to be a parent. God created each of us SO intricately and to be so narrowminded to think that everyone is supposed to be a parent is wild to me. I just challenge you to think past your own personal calling and ideas about this issue and open yourself up to the idea that God doesn't call all of us to the same lifestyle and purpose.

[@chrissylong6001]

People are allowed to change their minds as they grow and mature. You have to make the decisions that are right for you. ❤

[@PaulandMorgan]

❤️

[@Eaglefeathers84]

*except if that decision is to have kids- then everybody needs to do it!! No choice required 😌

[@joehacker6308]

I wonder if Paul and Morgan will be dancing to YMCA when they watch the Trump inauguration?

[@aliceevans2180]

You asked God for YEARS and YEARS for a child, and during a season of infertility of course it was understandable that you found it hard to relate to people who didn't want kids. Now you have experienced some of the challenges that comes with being a mum as well as the advantages, you can have different insight to the subject. It's not hypocritical to change your mind, it's life experience. I'm someone who doesn't have kids and can't understand people who struggle with motherhood, because I've not experienced. If i do experience it, my POV may be different. Good for you for having the honesty to admit that you are growing and learning

[@PaulandMorgan]

❤️❤️

[@A-Few-Thoughts-For-You]

You aren’t required to save for kids college. You are required to fund your own retirement so your kids don’t have to take care of you My parents didn’t save a dime for college, it’s all good!

[@hillcountry_homemaker]

Ya I was on my own for college but I figured it out! I want a little best egg for my kiddos just to start them off. Be able to at least cover community college or a trade school 🤗

[@Stylishgirlny]

sex day is the least sexy thing i've ever heard between two people who i guess love each other and want to be with each other

[@user-st9pd6ux5i]

They schedule it. When you’re busy and have kids sometimes scheduling time for each other is necessary because it’s like okay we need to sit down, talk, bond, and enjoy each other because sometimes kids and work will take over every minute of everyday and then you have no time with your spouse. So scheduling time for each other is sometimes helpful and needed so that you aren’t neglecting your spouse.

[@750-DAILY-FROM-HOME]

This video was a wake-up call! It shows that every challenge is a chance to grow, not something to be avoided.

[@PaulandMorgan]

Amen❤️

[@ohuntermc9321]

Just grow a pair and watch the reaction. Morgan might be surprised.

[@KasThinks]

I hope they watch it together. Really should

[@kelliefarmer7001]

I think it is super easy to have the feeling of not wanting more kids when you have two kids pretty close together. I would totally give it some time to see if that desire is ever ignited within you again as your children grow! Even 3-5 years down the road. Don’t make a permanent decision based off of how you feel in this moment with 2 little kids but wait until they are a little older to know for sure if that’s what you truly do desire and what God has for you! I was a surprise of a 4th kid when my mom was 40 and though that was hard for my mom she couldn’t imagine life or our family without me. Keep it open for the Lord to speak and even for you to potentially have that desire again in the future!! You are in the thick of it all right now!

[@PaulandMorgan]

❤️❤️

[@emmadear3276]

Paul's giving Freddie Mercury (Queen)

[@shelbiecarson2843]

I love the proverbs a day idea! Thanks for sharing!! Also little Judah just staring at both of you while you were talking. The sweetest thing ❤❤

[@PaulandMorgan]

❤️❤️

[@TheYoungCatholics]

I'm 25 with four children. I don't think that God wants us to have "as many children as physically possible", but to be open to life, yes. There are reasons to practise NFP but to just cut yourself entirely is to cut yourself off from so many graces. For example, my fourth baby was *unplanned* but God, once again, showed me that His ways are perfect. I discovered that having 4 has been easier for me than 3 or even 2. I had no idea what I would've been missing out on and I had a really difficult time accepting that pregnancy. It was also my most difficult pregnancy and birth, but I see Gods plan now. I am so grateful. Love you guys! Just food for thought 😊

[@caitlynneumann4835]

I relate to this!! I was 25 with four kiddos and all ages 5 and under and we were done after 3, but GOD. It was a hard pregnancy to accept as well, rough birth, rough everything. BUT God redeems and restores. We just have to be open to the Lord. He knows what will actually bring us joy.

[@PaulandMorgan]

Thank you for sharing❤️

[@chelseam754]

My 3rd baby was a totaly surprise and he has changed our entire family for the better. What a beautiful miracle he is and has brought us closer to God exponentially. Now i have 4 babies and im practicing NFP. Open to life forever because its absolutely shocking what God can do...praying for you all!

[@PaulandMorgan]

Awe amen❤️

[@emmadear3276]

I have 2 a toddler and baby and its full on especially being the stay at home mum. I think if post partum depression hits really hard and the pregnancy and birth is hard thats more than enough to decide youre done. Just wanting to be done is enough reason. Just think, your two will have good quality time with both parents cause they dont have to share the parents attention amongst 6 other kids and having the older kids "parent" the younger ones cause mom cant be everywhere at once.

[@gabl3400]

I think that’s a good point that God gives us wisdom when it comes to building a family and it very well may be that he leads certain families into having lots of kids and for some, just one or two. God knows what each family needs!

[@ohuntermc9321]

That is not reality. Too many couples have too many children that they can’t accommodate.

[@PaulandMorgan]

❤️

[@jenniferwalsh1731]

Some of my closest friends have 10 and more kids, they definitely can't handle it! It's always the times they draw closer to God, trust Him to provide and change them more and more to be the mom that God made them to be! I've never met such loving Spirit filled families in all my life. They're such a beautiful picture of what God can do when you trust Him fully! The harder things reap the biggest blessings! God never fails!

[@PaulandMorgan]

Awe❤️

[@A-Few-Thoughts-For-You]

15:07 PAUL!!! Your facial hair here is perfect. The mustache alone is not balanced. You’d do better with adding a beard.

[@user-st9pd6ux5i]

I totally understand where Morgan is coming from about not wanting to have more kids because I was there to after two! I have all boys and my oldest are thirteen months apart so they were back to back babies and it was extremely hard during that season of life having a toddler and a newborn but I survived lol! Just kidding! It was a time of love, a time of learning, a time of joy, a time of sadness, a time of stress, and a time of loneliness all mixed into one because I stayed home a lot because my postpartum season was during covid lock down with my second born, so really I was forced to stay home and couldn’t do anything so postpartum was very difficult for me because of that. I think me going through the postpartum season during the lockdown was the hardest time for my marriage because we couldn’t go on dates like we normally would and we couldn’t go visit family and we just struggled big time as I’m sure a lot of people and their marriages did during that time. I think that played a big part in us deciding to not have anymore kids after our second but over time we became more open to the idea of having more kids even tried to have a baby off and on throughout that time but where I struggle with infertility it was a little more difficult for us so that’s why it was on and off again of trying and plus we both weren’t fully sure about having another baby. Now 6 years after having our boys here we are pregnant again with another boy I’m in my last trimester so I’ll be in a new season very soon and I’m sure it’ll be a big adjustment for our family but after everything we’ve been through I know God will help us through any bumps in the road.

[@bjenks2766]

I’m not on insta so i definitely think you should bring of your short form content over here! :)

[@PaulandMorgan]

😊❤️

[@user-st9pd6ux5i]

Same! We definitely need it over here!

[@РондаЛиПомогаева]

Was hoping all was okay. Had not seen a video in a while.

[@PaulandMorgan]

❤️

[@AlaskaMamaBear17]

I’ve changed my mind on family planning multiple times! Right now my convictions are that it is okay to naturally family plan in that God still has room to work because nfp methods can “fail”. So it is planning, but at the same time having open hands to receive God’s unplanned blessings.

[@PaulandMorgan]

Thanks for sharing :)

[@SomewhereInTheMaidenverse]

Is Morgan ever going to mature? She still acts and speaks like a teenager. She doesn’t present herself as a grown woman.

[@Marina-vd5vm]

She takes care of 2 kids by herself while her husband is wasting his time chasing a pipe dream instead of providing for his family or helping with taking care of the kids he created. Not sure that she's really the immature one.

[@goldenliz3321]

FACTZZZ ​@@Marina-vd5vm

[@kamrie87]

Morgan is free. Free from judgment like yours. Leave her be & focus on yourself.

[@JustJubilee]

Im getting Top Gun vibes with that moustache 😂

[@PaulandMorgan]

😄🙌

[@timblay1979]

I'm getting sucks a lot of weiners with that mustache.

[@abh9926]

My husband and I have left how many kids we have in God's hands. My first two were 14 months apart, something I never would have chosen on my own. It was hard but so rewarding, and I am so thankful I don't have to make the decision when its time to have my babies. God's timing doesn't mean trying to have as many babies as possible. Its just living and trusting that God will send another baby when He knows best.❤

[@tarynthompson4141]

I think family planning is okay as long as there is no abortion going on. Ive lost 3 babies, and we still want a large family. However we did family planning because mentally i was not in a good headspace for awhile because of my deep grief. I was having panic attacks daily and while im better now i think a pregnancy right after my second loss would have completely broken me.I think as long as you are open to God changing your mind or even having a surprise pregnancy in his will for you, family planning is fine and maybe even beneficial.

[@PaulandMorgan]

❤️

[@laurao8099]

I think it's interesting how in the moment of something you can have a profound effect on how someone sees your relationship and you yourself not necessarily even remember it. I actually think this is pretty common. I have been in a living nanny for a little over 20 years and the disagreements arguments or fights that I have seen couples go through the I thought were very intense were arguments that they barely remember. I think it happens a lot when you have a young children like two or more kids in diapers

[@PaulandMorgan]

❤️

[@kamrie87]

P & M, please remember this: God will judge in the same measure people judge. Dont worry about others judging you. Its a lot scarier when ppl judge over shallow things. I feel bad for them. But wait until judgement day, theyll regret judging you. So, let them.

[@ohuntermc9321]

Judgment day is not real bud sorry.

[@weplaydk2343]

Assuming your a atheist, do you happen to enjoy Paul and morgan's content or just stumbled across them?​@@ohuntermc9321

[@LoudTattooedCrochet]

My thoughts on family planning, as a stay at home wife and mom, is that if Paul is going to claim to be the breadwinner as a pickleball player, why does Morgan have to compete in the pickleball tournaments? That would be her working outside of the home. If she’s doing work outside of the home than he can do work inside of the home. My husband and I have 4 kids and one on the way, and he would NEVER expect me to “help” him make a living. He would consider that cowardly on his part. Morgan is his wife, not his mommy. God called him to be a MAN/HUSBAND/FATHER not a child. Do better.

[@torreychase9669]

When are they going to starting adulting?

[@kamrie87]

When are you going to focus on your life

[@kaileepaiva588]

Has Morgan done a skin care video yet? Her face looks beautiful all the time!!! ❤

[@gretchenlancero3008]

Doing the “31 Day Wisdom Challenge” right now on KZbin. It’s great

[@PaulandMorgan]

🙌🙌

[@AG-cf4wn]

Thanks for the encouragement! Especially the ending was challenging (in a good way) for me on being open handed toward the Lord. I wouldn’t mind a Q and A on marriage :).

[@PaulandMorgan]

❤❤

[@codybennett8247]

It's been a while since I've watched your videos. I can't believe that you have two kiddos now. It's great that you're still creating awesome, Godly videos. May God bless you both as you continue to follow Him. We must always seek Him first, and allow Him to change our desires to meet His perfect desires for us. Your baby is adorable btw. God bless you and your two precious children.

[@sambailie4773]

Don’t beat yourselves up. My parents had zero money and God provided a way for me to attend university for 5 years! If God has something for your little ones to do, they will do it x

[@PaulandMorgan]

🙏

[@kellyhalteman3014]

I love Morgan's take on amount of kids!! It's exactly how I feel❤...and I feel like she said it very well and with humility and grace🥰

[@PaulandMorgan]

❤️❤️

[@j.moto3435]

Looks like Morgan turned out to be a good backup wife for Paul. Paul would have rather married a virgin. Lets be honest.

[@gabl3400]

I think it would be a great idea to post your Instagram short content on KZbin. I have been loving it.

[@PaulandMorgan]

Okay!

[@kristinmac4559]

If Morgy likes the stache End of story 😊🥸

[@PaulandMorgan]

😄😄

[@Lavenderbaby]

Love y’all and you’re realness, it’s rare and very appreciated, makes you feel like actual friends❤

[@PaulandMorgan]

Awe❤️

[@addyzee1335]

Morgan you look so pretty with your hair up. 😍 😊

[@rubylight4019]

We’ve been trying to have kids for seven years now…😭

[@seekingtruthandcompassion1707]

I think getting money for owning a home to help a child eith thst is far more important than college personally

[@Homewithlinds]

Morgan it could be you feel like you have your hands full cause they are two under two/ a close age gap is no joke. Once Luca gets big enough to help it won’t feel so stressful!!

[@abbyweibel5751]

Paul please never shave that mustache it actually fits your face so good

[@genasseeceline]

Hahaha the sex part. I love that y’all are so open & comfortable sharing about these things in an appropriate way & I’m so grateful. This needs to happen more. ❤️

[@PaulandMorgan]

Thank you!

[@user-st9pd6ux5i]

The only thing I worry about is showing your kids. I’m not trying to cause any problems, or start any drama, or upset you I’m saying this as a mom and I worry that predators will start watching your videos. People who do family vlogging have predators watching their videos all the time and have even had predators find out where they live and that’s what scares me for you guys. Please don’t mistake my comment as hate towards you guys because I really like you guys I’m a fan of your channel and I really enjoy your videos but please for your kids safety keep them out of the public eye because this world is getting worse and more unsafe every single day for children.🙏

[@KaylasMusicalDigest545]

This was so sweet to watch!! ❤

[@PaulandMorgan]

Aww❤️

[@Davidmichaelfrank]

I covet the mustache. I bet they’re referring to Ron Jeremy. Feel free to look him up, I know he’s a Jew lol Dig the real vibes in this. Kids these ages together are a LOT right now. Luckily our toddler juuuuust started part time school. Doing audio and listening to Blippi & Roombas is impossible. Btw, the kids “college” fund is called a 529 and the account can be used by either kid for any education based cost. Tuition, housing, etc. Even prob joining some pickleball themed fraternity. The money you contribute will go against your income (so it’s a tax benefit) and the interest it will make in the 18 years is pretty solid. When the kids take the money out of the account they don’t have to pay taxes on it either. We do a tiny chunk a month and it’ll be decent by the time they’re older. Also, a good thing to send a URL to fam for the kids bday and the kids can get money there as presents (thx Santa) Also, I’m trying to go snowboard and you guys are on the route to the only decent mountains. Would be happy to say hi or give you guys some snowboard lessons 🤘

[@abh9926]

Yes to more content on KZbin! I dont have instagram.

[@PaulandMorgan]

😄

[@cappylover192]

12:34 I was doing this for a while lol

[@jessb4784]

Ah Morgan dont think about or make decisions about more kids in the new postpartum ❤dont make decisions in the hard

[@seekingtruthandcompassion1707]

Would love a bit more in the kids thing ie the cultural narrative of having one of each gender ie your experiences with this ie comments from others ect and anything you see biblically about this if anything maybe any of your own desires you had for a daughter ect I say this as I have two girls and my husband and I often get told we need to have another to have a son. Also your opinion on ways to prevent future pregnancies that are christan friendly would be cool to :)

[@gretchenlancero3008]

MY VOTE: Hot Topics Q& A!!

[@PaulandMorgan]

Nice!

[@genasseeceline]

Omg I love yall so much 😂😂😂🤩 also the last 30 sec of Judah is just 😍😂🥰😭😂

[@PaulandMorgan]

😄😄❤️❤️

[@user-mv2tg8hc8c]

It’s not of God to not have kids and it’s not of God to use contraceptives. God said, “Be fruitful and multiply “ A healthy fear of offending God and hurting our relationship with Him is necessary to stay close with God.

[@Romans_828]

Yes to KZbin shorts! I don’t have ig and im always looking for a new video from yall on here! Love you guys!! 🤍

[@cappylover192]

Same

[@paulchambers4431]

Never shave, we have to reclaim the mustache!

[@PaulandMorgan]

😄👨🏻

[@kristinmac4559]

❤😊- Good explanation about the # of kids thing 👍

[@PaulandMorgan]

❤️❤️

[@maritzah.4039]

The mustache makes him look like Andrew Schulz!

[@PaulandMorgan]

Haha I can see it

[@mopelolaadedokun4834]

Great work

[@user-mv2tg8hc8c]

“He has a piggy bank” Haha! My parents were not able to financially prepare for their 4 children and it helped me to do it for myself. If you can’t have all the finances prepared for your child just teach them to do it as they grow. I think it’s better for us to work for things because when it is given to us it can affect us negatively. It can cause laziness, entitlement, and lack of planning or problem solving skills.

[@gsamadeus]

God bless your family so much! Your content is a blessing, keep growing in the Lord. Sending hugs from Puerto Rico!

[@melonhead122908]

I don’t understand why Paul gets so much grief about the pickleball thing. Paul and Morgan are working content creators. He’s not dropping his job and primary income to chase the sport here - it’s a side hustle, which is completely fine. As far as over sharing goes, I don’t think you guys share enough. You are going beyond the traditional “Allie Stucky lecture” style of Christianity (no offense, I know she’s your hero but nobody else can stand her) and this is good. That is truly relatable. Side note - mustache, undecided 😂😂😂

[@weplaydk2343]

Interesting. I haven't finished the critique videos about them yet. Apparently there are accusations of him not parenting correctly an being selfish. I was curious so this is the first vid from them I'm checking out

[@davidlampmanmusic]

Good for you for following the Lord in this matter. People who complain under this video should save their comments for a couple that’s pro-abortion. You aren’t. You brought two children into this world, and you’d rather parent two children exceptionally, than three children mediocrely. I think that’s wise, but in a society where multi-tasking is prevalent, many don’t realize they’re doing a lot of things less-well than they could if they just did less. If God wants them to have more children, he will first give them the faith to handle it. Right now, they believe they would be disobeying God if they continued, and we shouldn’t argue with that unless we have scripture to back it up.

[@Emmmm8134]

Ooof, no. Please don’t shame people for their choices, including abortion ❤

[@MegaTelenovela]

What about your little dream of having a girl called Gracie❤!

[@rebeccadurden4281]

Fundie Fridays…. Like the fundal massage you get like immediately postpartum? No thank you 😂

[@Emmmm8134]

No fundie as in fundamental

[@taraleasure]

I don’t understand why yall are getting so much hate about not wanting more kids. I agree with Morgan- if you’re a Christian, I do believe it is wrong to not want kids if you don’t believe kids are a blessing from the Lord. You and your husband should make the decision to have as many kids as you feel you can steward and shepherd well. If having more kids isn’t something you feel would allow you to invest and shepherd your kids as best you can, then you have the free will to make that choice.

[@tilda4699]

bc for YEARS they told their audience that you should leave family planning to the lord and you’re basically not a real Christian if you don’t trust god with this. but now that they don’t want anyone kids, suddenly it’s ok to make your on choices in planning your family.

[@taraleasure]

@@tilda4699 my guess is you’ve never had kids. I’m not an active follower of their channel so I could be wrong, but I believe they were saying those things before they even had kids. You think you know a lot and a lot about what you want and then you have kids. They change everything and I think it’s fair for them to change their minds.