People Pleasers Be Like | Part 2

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[@ButterflyElsy]

She knows, bro. She knows. She heard it break wherever she was... Also, Trey started it.

[@jennyelsie]

🤣

[@Banyo__]

My literal thought exactly!

[@elsienicole5663]

“She’ll never know” Last words spoken by Trey Kennedy.

[@lidallyhim]

Haha funny number

[@miovicdina7706]

He was a good man.

[@kj7792]

Rip Trey

[@acaciawilliams1715]

The final scene was definitely the best part of the whole thing. Sorry for Katie though and losing a piece of her decor. Buuuuttt… I think it was totally worth the laughs!

[@zephirinedrouhin3735]

I was waiting to hear, “Oh, it’s totally fine, I didn’t like that vase anyway!”

[@sarahpaty6108]

Haha when they started playing with it I had a premonition it was going to get broken

[@theroadnottakentravel]

“I could be Jeremy-I guess it’s better than confrontation”🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@aubreysummers1729]

Yeah... I'm Avery to one and Audrey to many, and Aubrey to anyone that figures it out themselves. 🤣

[@meganpender]

Wow I feel called out again 😅 But especially from the "No worries at all either way".. "Absolutely no rush, whenever you have time".. That's literally me.. All the time..

[@snaxicakes]

👀 same!

[@shaunah.creations9233]

That’s meeee!!!! Lol

[@lilannegirl03]

me, too! 🙈

[@jenniferbates2811]

Life's too short. You're gonna have a heart attack. You're an amazing human because you woke up today hun!💜

[@alexisguiza9353]

Same, lol 😅

[@jennyelsie]

The ultimate People Pleaser reaction: this was spot on and I WANTED to share on social media. HOWEVER, I won't share because I don't want to tip anyone off to how I actually feel inside because it may potentially cause them feel guilty/bad/selfish/or insensitive. 🤣

[@brianseete1335]

This is spot on😭😭😂

[@PlAiNJaNe521]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@kabc8547]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@gaslight.gatekeep.girlboss6476]

I'm getting called out left and right here💀😭😭

[@noe8070]

HELP

[@alliengoy2853]

The "I'd rather not talk about money" part is ME. LOL. It makes me so uncomfortable even at work lol

[@SmileOrangeWillow]

Black Queen, negotiate! You're worth it.

[@Chahlie]

I won't even apply for a job any more unless they are upfront about pay range!

[@overpricedtacos2345]

“Take my wife, have a good time” that cracked me up

[@justinedeleyer4894]

I literally LOLed at that!

[@kj7792]

Same🤣🤣🤣😂

[@cindymeadows5394]

I used to be a people pleaser, but the older I got the more I realized life is much more fun when you just don't give a sh**!

[@allisonmccarter7638]

Y’all did not have to come for me like that! Being a people pleaser is exhausting!!

[@snaxicakes]

!! Yas!!

[@medivamp6918]

Yes!! Lol

[@avapilsen]

Then stop being one.

[@GPS_DS]

@@avapilsen it’s not that easy.

[@jubilee_baker]

The name one reminded me about that time my boss called me the wrong name for 3 years and I never said anything 😂

[@Megan-ec5lx]

A sweet girl I worked with once was constantly called the wrong name by our team lead in our clinicals and all like 30 of us knew it was incorrect and she never said anything 😹

[@snaxicakes]

You're a very nice person 💕

[@aubreysummers1729]

Yeah, I'm Audrey to just about half of the people I know.

[@snaxicakes]

@@aubreysummers1729 Aubrey is such a beautiful name! Sad they're missing out on your actual name!💕

[@aubreysummers1729]

@@snaxicakes Aw thanks!😊

[@deannrobinson2031]

OH MY GOSH - the shellfish allergy - my cousin did something similar once. We were at a Friendsgiving celebration and someone put a spoonful of something on her plate that she was allergic to. She knew what it was and ate it anyways because, as she said later after a trip to the ER, she didn't want them to feel bad.

[@Kattywagon29]

Years ago, a girl came to my house to hang out. As time went on, she started getting sick: sneezing, water eyes, red skin...the works. Turns out she was allergic to our animals. We were like, "Hey, maybe you should leave." She kept insisting that she was having a good time, her grandma had pets, and that it wasn't so bad and on and on. Eventually, I had to kick her out cuz she looked like she was gonna die. I had no intention of having to take this girl, who I barely knew, to the hospital. I never saw her again. Her name is Mallory and to this day when we recall the story, we call her 'Mallergy'.

[@2004dale]

That’s crazy! I’m glad she’s okay. she really risked her life to protect someone else’s feelings. I hope she doesn’t do it again. It’s not worth it, ya know. They’ll feel bad that she hurt herself for them over something minuscule.

[@kabc8547]

Noooooooooo🥺🥺🥺

[@rachele3334]

@@Kattywagon29 that happens to me every Christmas when we have our family party at my aunt-in-law’s house who has a thousand cats. I start dying, she gives me benedryl, then I get all loopy and barely make it to the gift exchange and we leave as quickly as possible after dessert. Merry Christmas! 😂

[@Kattywagon29]

@@rachele3334 The things we do for family.

[@evirgil84]

Oh so painfully accurate! Especially sending emails…takes me so long to balance the “I’m fun” “but not to over the top” Lol. The ending 🤣🤣🤣…and Brad you are right, Trey totally could have caught it, it was a great behind the back throw!

[@jacksondowdle5217]

I hate sending emails. I overthink the hell out of them.

[@wentelteefje76]

"Should I put the exclamation point there, or there? Can't be both, THAT would look crazy!" - Me

[@hankstrickland5011]

The person reading the email doesn’t care!!!!

[@kaliboo6881]

“I’m on the verge of a panic attack” 🤣🤣🤣 that is soooooo me AHAHAHAHA

[@FinancialShinanigan]

To be fair, dealing with people pleasers are also exhausting lol

[@charisginn6932]

True...which leads to the very interesting problem of how to become less of a people pleaser in order to make people feel more comfortable with us 🤣🤣🤣

[@sheenawinfrey3133]

Oh my gosh! Yes it is! They are usually so indecisive it drives me crazy...lol!

[@Goat.Cheese]

Amen. They arent truthful with you so you're always second guessing what they say

[@danielleminerva4525]

And people pleasing is a self-fulfilling prophecy. It ain’t cute! -Ex people-pleaser (screw that, please yourself this is my truth, take it or leave it) LOL

[@andreahannah574]

Haha, so true!! Its weird to see this from the other side! I struggled so much being a people pleaser, but by God's grace and 10 years of therapy later now Im super annoyed with pleasers😁😂🤣...i have to remind myself to be patient cause I was one of them!;)

[@jelissafrank5858]

I am so glad I’m no longer a people pleaser! 😂 this life was EXHAUSTING!!!

[@snaxicakes]

Any tips 🤣

[@jeremyw9204]

@@snaxicakes 😄 But really though, the tips..

[@commscompany1502]

Same. So glad I am mostly out of that zone. Phew. TIPS 1.For people asking for help that you can’t honestly help, say no, apologize and nicely say I’ll pray (to fellow Christians) or in general just say I’ll be on the lookout for someone else who can help. This has been the solution on such matters for now. It’s helped me transition well out of people pleasing without guilt. 2. For things you don’t want to do eg eat sushi, apologize and say the truth. It softens the blow. 3. Regarding money , talk about it clearly. I can tell you that once I became an employer I now advise Everyone to speak about it. The company is too busy to care about what you deserve. unless you are already in the top spot people won’t care in most cases or have time or care. So just ask politely. When you ask, justify it using comparators from the market. Ask for a jagged number that is an average of what others would pay you eg ask for an increase of 1237 not 1200 per month. It’s a psychological thing that shows you crunched numbers. When you do your home work, ask for a jagged not rounded number, you earn the employer s respect and usually get the raise.

[@jelissafrank5858]

@@snaxicakes lol the stress of being a people pleaser had me thinking that I was on the verge of having a heart attack. Turns out it was severe anxiety and I decided that it was going to either be me or them and I chose me. I’ll be darn if I die trying to make others happy and holding in all this stress and anxiety because I can’t just speak up. Also when I did finally speak up it was so over the top because I let it fester instead of just being up front with the person instead of saying one thing and expecting them to read in between the lines. I don’t apologize unless I’ve done something wrong. Because I am not sorry that I don’t want sushi, can’t make it out to a party or that you spilled something on your shirt 😂.

[@stephaniewebb9474]

Exhausting and cold.

[@moviestar1296]

As someone working in the customer service field, I felt this way too much. Yeah, I'm on the verge of having a panic attack but I can't cause it'll inconvenience the customers

[@justaphase]

Truth! I work in a student facing office at a college. 🙄

[@GeorgiaPeach0521]

The ending!! 😳. I heard y’all talk about it but it’s worse seeing it happen! 😂

[@abbykurtz5115]

It actually didn’t seem as bad as I expected. The vase didn’t break into a ton of pieces like I envisioned.

[@dumboli0321]

OMG!!🤣🤣🤣🤣”was there shellfish in the crab?” ROFL 😂😂😂😂

[@soulshuffles9495]

“It’s better than confrontations” 😂😂

[@alyssap7620]

I feel singled out. Haha especially the part where he gives the gift and is like “I understand if you don’t like it, you’ve got loads of shirts. You can throw it away or return it if you want” literal words right from my own mouth giving people gifts 😂😅

[@BlaqueDNA]

“No worries” has been used for like the last 10 years and I’m convinced the people who use it are raging on the inside most of the time.🤣

[@ify6227]

"10,000 likes and Brad will break something else!" 🤣

[@beautahfulbees]

Trey's wife is going to be so mad! 😬😂 Also, this skit is me. It's like looking in a mirror. 🙈😁. People pleasers unite! (As long as it's totally convenient for you. I know you're super busy.)

[@aubreysummers1729]

Oh my word I will totally unite! It's seriously no problem at all. Seriously. Thanks so much for inviting me. I really appreciate it. I wouldn’t miss it for the world! Unless of course my being there would make someone else miss out.

[@StephanieJeanne]

Omg, sitting there freezing watching a movie, afraid to ask for a blanket!😂 'It's a beautiful day. Guys I'm about to have a panic attack.' 🤣👍

[@theroadnottakentravel]

1:52 We paid our moving company 4K only to help them move half of the boxes into our new home🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@BrynnKelly2014]

"I am on the verge of a panic attack. What are you guys doing?" 🤣🤣 And blooper videos 😆 just a compilation of the last 15 seconds of every video 😆 (my fav part anyway haha)

[@thegodofpez]

I LOVE when they show the characters breaking in the skits and keep it in. 😂🤣

[@clararenae]

You know, I came here to have a good time, And honestly I feel so attacked right now Seriously, this was so relatable and hilarious 😂

[@sugoiharris1348]

This is how my husband ended up mowing my dead neighbors lawn. 💀🤣🤣

[@erinhoeppner5114]

I never knew how much I was a people pleaser until this series 😰😰😰

[@heliam.5497]

I love how trey was only worried katie would notice or not and didn’t give a damn about it himself😂

[@cghynd]

Wow the “pretending this conversation is interesting “ really got me 😂😂😂

[@dellaswanson9837]

I admit i do that a lot and i should stop lol

[@Lvmykidos2]

4:20 Hate to break it to you, Trey, but she’ll know. Boy, will she know. 😆

[@tennessee5405]

Sidiq lives on. Love it!

[@samaeldeul572]

Lmao as a people pleaser with a panic disorder the "I am on the verge of a panic attack. What are you guys doing?" Is so fucking relatable😂😂

[@pwc9113]

This is a family friendly channel!

[@samaeldeul572]

@@pwc9113 good for you bro😂 Happy New yearrrr

[@bertuccigirl]

He is either a really good actor or an actual people pleaser….lol.

[@Vixxen___904]

I can be Jeremy. It’s better than confrontation. Couldn’t be more accurate 😂 I recently learned that my people pleasing tendencies stem from my childhood trauma and having an unstable parent, so it’s nice to be able to laugh about that 💁🏻‍♀️

[@Chahlie]

"Unstable parent"- I'll have to use that to describe my narcissistic parent. I went to an assertiveness workshop to learn how to say no and the facilitator told me I had zero self esteem..... Getting better :)

[@medivamp6918]

I feel personally attacked again!! 🤣🤣 Especially the “Absolutely no rush” part!! I have to stop saying that, most of the time it is a rush! 😅

[@TreebeardsHome]

Not sure if this applies to you, but if you say it for work, etc, maybe it’ll help. This is what I used for business emails, after too long of not speaking up for myself, I switched to either: 1. Thank you for your assistance in this matter.” Or 2. “I look forward to your response.” Both imply assistance or a response from the recipient, but they’re polite. They helped me speak up for myself more clearly. Esp when I worked in places where ppl walked all over my niceness & never turned things in on time, etc. It’s not easy balancing how we speak, what we do & why, but we can always try to do what’s best for ourselves. Have a great day.

[@medivamp6918]

@@TreebeardsHome thank you for that!! I will definitely try that! I always think that I’m inconveniencing (bothering) people. So I need to wipe that from my mind.

[@TreebeardsHome]

@@medivamp6918 - Yea, I understand that feeling well. Lol. It’s all part of how we cope when stressed. Try different things to see what works for you. Good luck. Have a good holiday season. Blessed be.

[@medivamp6918]

@@TreebeardsHome Thank you! Have a good holiday season as well!! Blessed be.

[@aliahjones2401]

Never thought I was a people pleaser but this and the part one video are calling me all the way out. 🤣

[@delaneykraus]

“She’ll never know” 😂😂

[@so-bright-i-cant-see3856]

The texting punctuation and not talking about money is 100% me

[@soulchorea]

Oh gosh I was so uncomfortably exposed on this one. It was great! You guys did a good job. No worries, like, I enjoyed it and everything I didn't mean I was upset or anything, just was like surprised at how accurate it was. Great channel! 😬

[@BecketteW]

She’ll never know……🤣

[@dylancole1910]

Why is this me, I feel personally attacked😂

[@sarahr3747]

“She’ll never know” about the broken vase…. Hmm Trey how’d that work out for you ??? 🤣🤣🤣

[@Micter]

We need an opposite of this with Brad playing the character lol

[@theyeagers3088]

Ohh no is this how we look on the outside looking in?! Lmao, yikes I need to stop being a people pleaser. It's so funny to see someone else acting how I do life daily. 🤣 Lol

[@toddbonin6926]

Ok. Watching part 1 and 2 together, I’m blown away. It’s me. I have no idea how to be anything but a people pleaser. Twice this week I went to dinner with people at the two restaurants I hate the most, just because I felt like I needed to keep everyone happy. 🤦‍♂️

[@Mskittenlover12]

"What a nice day. I am on the verge of a panic attack. What are you guys doing?" That's my entire brand right there.

[@fallstorm21]

These videos make me realize how much of a people pleaser I am....

[@JanelleBuniel]

I do believe Jake would have caught it 😆

[@snaxicakes]

Oy. Being a people pleaser is extremely exhausting.

[@michaelangsten3488]

Lol 😂 when brad breaks the flower pot I was laughing so hard!

[@EuniceCChina]

Lol Yes people say all the time to me: “Awe are you the one that plays the flute?” And I’m always like “Yes! Flute/violin same thing” 😅 I like never say “No” lol.

[@PkmnMasterHolly]

Lmao the ending!!!! 🤣🤣🤣

[@glamgal28]

We all knew Trey could have caught the vase 😅 if ya know ya know

[@snaxicakes]

Lmao I was thinking the same thing!

[@UnArmedFilms4U]

Okay, we gotta talk about 1:50. That production quality.. lighting, color grading - perfect.

[@kayawe4166]

3:07 “This is a nice day. I am on the verge of a panic attack. What are you guys doing?” Your delivery was PERFECT.

[@patrickjdrahman]

Man you guys are just writing skits exclusively about me huh The vase scene is GOLD

[@pamv9252]

The email thing! Everyday at work. No worries either way 😆

[@kellherman]

“I am on the verge…of a panic attack. What are you guys doing?” 😂😂😂😂

[@angelawintering6201]

The way he typed the email with the different punctuations…I feel called out 😅😅😅😅

[@john316loveGodlovepeople]

😂😂😂😂😂 all those situations,oh my gosh, literal anxiety, because yes 😂😂😂😂

[@meredith8625]

“She’ll never know” 😂💀 guess she doesn’t watch the videos because she gets enough of your humor at home? lol

[@barbieblue3336]

Exactly

[@NikkiBriar]

Love it lmao "she'll never know!" 🤣

[@timowilliams1175]

Trey " she'll never know" her decides to watch this video "you thought" 😏

[@barbieblue3336]

She not her

[@timowilliams1175]

@@barbieblue3336😂 was supposed to put a Comma after her, but yeah

[@abbykurtz5115]

Thank you so much for including the vase breaking in the video!!! I did not expect it, but was so happy to see it. Hilarious video, I can relate. “No worries” “no rush” 😬

[@micheleg.109]

Brad legit broke something! LOLOL!!! That is the best!

[@EuniceCChina]

Thanks for the part 2! You literally read my mind 😍😍😍

[@hopeb4905]

03:07 i died

[@marchingham]

Holy frig. The email scenes are just too accurate. Oof. And the panic attack haha

[@kodybendele9220]

This is the funniest Jake has been. Asking his friend to watch the game and ending the call with "I'm so sorry" hahahaa

[@keldahartzog1810]

The vase, I was totally waiting for it 🤣🤣.

[@HeyitsHeenuhJoy]

I have watched the ending 4 times I am DYING!!! “That’s crazyyy” 😂😂

[@RomanMestas]

Brad was feeling it.. 😂

[@candidlycandace]

Not Brad ACTUALLY breaking a vase 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@servabo_fidem1449]

Helping the moving guys I hired---yup that hit me lol

[@ltzook67]

The ole behind-the-back vase shatter trick. Always a classic

[@cjohnson2159]

Oh my goodness it’s exhausting being a people pleaser all the time, but you do it so well 😂😂😂😂

[@brittanym.]

I can relate to way too much of this! Lol I have a running list of names I've answered to consistently for different people so they wouldn't feel bad about forgetting my name!!!

[@corettascorner]

the "no worries either way' took me out!

[@ninal6033]

you guys should do "every hallmark movie"!

[@clsoler]

The end it's just the best.

[@Sophies_Voice]

He sounds so Canadian! 😂

[@SimonePromotion]

Omg, you guys made my morning! I laughed so hard that I gave myself a slight headache. Worth it! I literally had to share this on my newsfeed before typing this comment. Lol...once again, awesomeness in video form!!! Jake...you're the man. Great stuff!!! 💯🙏🏾😆👏🏾🎉

[@itsmeenigma9432]

I feel like Brad and Trey need to go on a concert tour lol

[@BethM1992]

"I'm on the verge of a panic attack. How are you guys doing?" I feel called out!

[@jerridavis6462]

Enjoyed from Texas! Exactly!

[@hollywb]

Hearing about the vase throw on Ghostrunners before this was amazing, what an immaculate scene 😂

[@randommam58]

He didn’t even show he was upset when you broke the vase lol! In character the whole time!

[@hello_mamalark]

Literally my favorite people

[@rage_of_aquarius]

Thanks for holding up *that* mirror 🙄😂

[@jennifertiller6937]

I’m on the verge of a panic attack 😅😅😅

[@MKoo_malo]

Svetlanaaaa😭🤣🤣🤣🤣❤️you guys are hilarious!

[@romey9640]

When that piece of decor broke I instantly thought oh crap Katie is gonna be angry! She’s definitely going to know 😂

[@virlinehonore9767]

omg when they broke the vase at the end 😂😂😂😂

[@samanthamoon6745]

The “she’ll never know” at the very end 😂😂

[@megannash9577]

Haha being a people pleaser and having food allergies is a real struggle

[@captain_skipper295]

Why does this vibe with me so well