People Share Their Advice on Being a Failure | Filipino | Rec•Create

[@TJTenedero]

Thank you @reccreate for letting me share my story! :)

[@jorgemiguelmilano1535]

Proud of you, TJ

[@wherepablo]

we briefly got to meet in college, but I've always resonated with your experiences, TJ. padayon! 🌻

[@PsylentSir]

*Thanks bro, nga pala pinapatanong ng Ate ko if kumain kna daw?*

[@TJTenedero]

@@PsylentSir oo bro haha working in Makati now

[@ma.imeldakierulf2590]

I sent you a prayer to God. You are worthy 🤍💙

[@gelyaaan]

The best content that ever created by Re•create. Bcause the world is already a fast-paced environment, nakakafrustrate makita yung sarili mo na naleleft behind and thinking na hindi ka nakakausad kaysa sa iba. But this video and the comment section made me realize, I am not the only one pala who thinks this way. So hugs (with consent) to everyone. I hope we may find our desire, passion, and motivation to reach our dreams ❤

[@teamtrivia9250]

Ganitong content dapat 😭😭😭😭😭😭 sa panahon ngayon

[@HakdogKa-q4w]

Agreeeee

[@warrior_prophet]

Thank you to all the people who worked on this video - the staff of Reccreate and the other interviewees. Thanks for inviting me to work with you. Let's set the world on fire!

[@clajmate69]

wag na po sir ang init na nga ngayon ee

[@ma.imeldakierulf2590]

Aj, your story isnt done yet. One day at a time one action at a time 🤍 I told God to bless your path. You are worthy! You inspire me

[@IntrepidIanRinon]

There's so much places to do so, AJ. Let's do this! -- Ian

[@redxiii_]

I'm turning 40 years old and I'm still a failure. Been years narin. I'm currently employed but I'm not stable. Yun mga colleagues ko, they're already established. Underrated, undervalued, overlooked. Mahirap din maging late bloomer. I don't believe in late bloomers. I wasted a lot of years and years at ngayon, wala parin progress. Nakakahiya sa nanay ko tinutulungan pa ako ng ilang taon na. Tapos ako pa yun panganay. Nakakahiya. So pathetic. Only God knows the future pero mahirap lang talaga maging late bloomer, o baka it's either you make it early or none at all.

[@IntrepidIanRinon]

​@@redxiii_ that makes two of us.

[@myrnaroque8859]

I am a Salutatorian. I am a straight quiz bee champion for years. I have my medals but I failed the CPA licensure exams 3 times and passed on my 4th. It was 4 long years of review including the pandemic. I totally agree with introspection. I tried all the techniques and opinions of other people but I always fail. It was when I learn to know myself is when I started to grow. I was also dwelling in my past experiences that I believe caused my failures. I dwell in the past that I forgot I should drive my life with accountability. You are the driver of your life. No one can do it for you. You have to own yourself. Most of all, I let God and His will be done.

[@winelov833]

If you don't mind, what do you think were the factors that led to you failing the cpale 3x? I'm a first taker this year and i wanna know your thoughta

[@myrnaroque8859]

@@winelov833 Honestly, big factor for me is my lack of enthusiasm to really study the subjects with all my might on my undergrad. Hindi sa di ako ako nag-aral pero nashock ako sa dapat inaral ko pala talaga ng undergrad. Yung best ko pala dapat lagi. Hindi Pwedeng Pwede na. Naunahan ako ng lahat ng takot ko and all the past/sunk costs na binuhay ko nung 3 attempts ko. Laging sa araw ng exams di ako panatag. I think on my 4th mas naging buhay ako at inenjoy ko ang review at mabuhay.

[@myrnaroque8859]

@@winelov833 btw. Good luck sa exams mo!

[@John_Randy99]

Ano po tips niyo for the CPALE? 😭

[@smiringhoy4979]

Ha nerd!

[@ambivert1135]

30yrs old here, failed in life. Unemployed for 3 years. Ang hirap hanapin yung value mo at purpose sa buhay kung wala ka ng makitang hope from everything that happened. Sigh. Hugs to everyone

[@tracy062]

same tau akala ko ako lang 3yrs ako wala trabaho di ko alam purpose ko

[@ambivert1135]

@@tracy062 hugs!

[@nikkiwinkkii]

idk if this might help, but you can try some other things and other workarounds to keep you going and search for your purpose. idk what you're coming from pero sa hirap ng life as of today, we need to move forward and atleast earn as much as we can to provide atleast our basic needs. Kaya mo yan~! Goodluck and take care ^^

[@PsylentSir]

*We're almost same, going 31 these year and a former Seafarer for 5 years and 5 yrs na din akong tambay now. Mas pinili ko ang Mental Health dahil toxic sa Engine Dept. Onboard + unfaithful na partner it triggers me na wag nang sumakay. May plano si Lord satin. Kaya natin to*

[@annenonymousse]

30 yrs old here too 🥺 kung pede lang mgretire na in lifee and mgpahinga

[@eme6039]

Watching this video while eating in my dorm room alone. I didn't expect na iiyak ako habang inuulam ko yung siomai. Im 25 yrs old and stuck in college for almost 6 yrs and was working for many years to provide for myself. I feel so left behind. Lahat na ata ng batchmates and friends of my age are already graduates and working on their respective careers. Thank you for this video. For the longest time that I felt numb, I feel better crying out those disappointment on myself. I hope that I could finish this architecture journey, and hoping I'll graduate this year.

[@lablyaspiras6966]

Same po 😢 25 yrs old undergraduate, I stopped muna po ang pag aaral

[@ange8205]

hugs with consent, congrats na agad sa grad! 🫂

[@arcillv]

We will bear fruit in God's perfect time! Looking forward to your incredible bounce back ❤

[@hue2779]

I'm so proud of you po for not giving up and making it this far. I know how hard architecture is and kung gano sya nakakaubos, I'm just in my first year but I decided to drop out and I feel like a failure for giving up my dream just like that, and I have my regrets. What I experienced is nothing to what you experienced for 6 years, and I respect you and I envy you at the same time kase you're so srong po for not giving up. I hope you get that diploma Architect! Kaya mo po yan!

[@Ohsuperjas]

You will make it no matter what. I maybe just a stranger but i pray and claim in Jesus’ name that you make it and look back and be grateful and proud of this moment.

[@francyy796]

As someone who was once considered as "the best student" and a former achiever, this moved me to tears. I'm falling behind because I have to balance work and school simultaneously to not become a burden to my parents, and I still do not know how to figure things out on my own. I feel like I'm a failure because I could not be the best, just like I was before. Thank you for this, akala ko ako lang mag-isa nagkaka ganito

[@kaloynatics]

“Fail Forward” Sobrang gandang advice nito. Lahat naman tayo nakakaranas ng failure e. So we have to make sure we learn something from it and use that learning to propel us forward and even further in life. Truly an inspiring episode 💯

[@mehujaelginer4208]

This truly made me cry because i was considered as one of the pioneers "brightest stars and smartest people" in our family, community and school. They were shocked, disappointed and ashamed becausr why a "brightest star" couldn't flick a light anymore, I can't graduate at same time with my circle, I failed at things. I was busy battling a very troubled water just to stay afloat. I was prioritizing my mental because i was diagnosed with major depressive disorder for 2 years and counting. They didn't know that I became like this because my father whom I considered as one of my two pillars of hope, died. He was my biggest supporter, made me came out of closet and accepted me, helped me in my financial problems back then. And unfortunately, pandemic hits, and tatay took it harder, and he is now with God. And because of that unfortunate event, it took a toll on me, I couldn't do things, I failed subjects to subjects, I was devoid the motivation, I lack "will and life". And right now i am taking one step at a time to accept things. Slowly regaining my "will and life". Gently to go back to school, again.

[@jenrstrt4906]

Hello there, I've had the somewhat the same experience with you. The word 'smart' was already attached to my name even when I was a child. But to be honest I don't think that adjective fits me, I've just managed to become an achiever because I was diligent in school. I became the class valedictorian in elementary, achiever until high school (I even delivered the closing remarks), became a DOST scholar and dean's lister taking up BS in MedTech. As time goes by, the lack of sleep, stress, internal pressure and even financial issues caught up to me. With constant worries troubling my mind, I have not been able to sleep for more than a month while still finishing my final exams. I just cried all day while trying to comprehend everything that I have to study. Negative thoughts then lingered at the back of my mind. "What if I fail?" "What will my classmates and other people say?" "I need to find another university in case I fail." "I don't think I am smart enough to finish this course." "I was never intelligent, masipag lang ako." All of those thoughts came spiraling and paralyzed me. After first year of collegeI still wasn't okay. And then summer class is coming up. My mother suggested that I'll just take a break from school but I was hesistant because of my scholarship and what would other people think of me. That I was always at the top of the class and now I can't handle college. I started having suicidal thoughts so my mother brought me to a hospital and at the age of 18, I was diagnose with major depressive disorder. I still enrolled for my summer class. But I became overwhelmed with all of the homeworks coming up and I am still in distress. So I finally agreed to take a break from all that. I remember calling my mom saying, "Ma, wala na yung pangarap ko" while crying in my room. And then now, my friends and classmates are now set graduate this year. Most of them are graduating from different respected schools (UP, UST, ADMU) as magna cum laude, cum laude, and have distinctive awards. I am indeed proud of what they all achieved, but I would be lying if I say that there's no hint of jealousy in my part. I am still under medications and I recently started psychotherapy due to recent episodes. At the present, I actually don't know what steps to take. I don't even know if I can still get back at the old me- the achiever, now that even surviving a day is now a feat for me.

[@maeliana8934]

@@jenrstrt4906 hello I am sending virtual hug, snaa lahat tayo magiging okay na. I just want to share my experience rn at sana makahelp sayo to look forward at dika nag iisa sa nararamdaman mo and your feelings is valid. We will get through this. Copy paste nalang tong comment ko dahil napost kona baka dimo mabasa Thank you for appearing sa show nato mga ate's and kuya's. Grabe nakakarelate ako sainyo especially sa kay kuya TJ at kay kuya naka black. This sy incoming 3rd year irregular po ako BS Pharmacy course ko and the rest na mga friends ko is regular. For me this is my biggest failure sa sarili ko totally naka relate ako sa sinabi mo na mapapaisip ka nalang bakit yung iba kaya nilang ipasa yung mga subjects tas while ako I give my best but not good enough to be there. This course and college humbled my life because ever since elementary I was an achiever at pagtungtong ko ng college 1st year second sem may nabagsak ako na dalawang subject which is my pre requisite na next sy. Hindi ko alam ano gagawin ko that time at diko alam paano ako makacope up, nalilito na ako if mag shishift naba ako pero humingi ako ng sign para sa buhay ko na if I am still happy pursuing this path despite of what happened, papatuloy ko itong course na ito. Nakikita ko pa sarili ko as future pharmacist that's why di na ako nagshift. Di pa din alam ng parents ko na yung anak nilang kumikinang dati failure na ngayon, Di ko alam paano ko sasabihin sakanila especially papasok na ako as 3rd year irregular. Yung pressure at insecurities ko sumasabay since parents ko is very supportive saakin ang gawin ko nalang mag aral ng mabuti but yet I still failed a certain subjects. Grabe yung relate ko sa sinabi mo kuya na napapaisip ka nalang bat iba kaya nilang ipasa yung mga subjects. I am doing okay na and I keep learning for this ongoing path I am taking right now pero minsan di lng talaga maiwasan ang mga why's and what ifs sa buhay katulad ngayon I am watching this because I am not okay. hindi ko nga magawa maapreciate sarili ko napasa ko lahat mga subs ko now at graudate na ako sa dalawang subs na retake ko. I feel like I am left behind especially mga kaibigan ko regular silang papasok sa 3rd year at ibang friends ko na isa lang na subject bagsak nila may makuha sila na subs na diko pa makuha ksi dalawa yung nabagsak ko dati which is pre requisite niya yun. Right now I am not okay bumabalik nanaman mga bangungot ko yung mga expectations and etc. I know maayos kodin ito sadyang sobrang pressure lang ako ngayon. Tama si kuya TJ na when you learned something, minsan alam mona sa buhay mo if magfafail ka or hindi thats why naka cope up ako napasa ko lahat subs ko now pero again diko magawang ma appeciate dahil pinangungunahan ako ng anxiety ko nanaman. Naiisip ko nanaman na I am a big failure na talaga diko alam if may big future paba ako. sana more content pa na ganito recreate naappreciate ko to sobra. Namotivate ako to keep going huhu

[@bloopdidoopdoop]

"Take personal responsibility for your life. Be responsible for your life to the point that you will refuse to give up because you've taken your life so far." Thank you Lord for showing this to me at the moment i need it the most. Honestly made me tear up kasi narealize ko na ilang beses ko na rin iginapang sarili ko before and made me realize how long I've been holding on and trying to be strong. That I shouldn't give up, especially now when I've fought for so long. Thank you for all those who shared and for recreate! This was very inspiring. Yakap with consent to everyone. Kakayanin natin 'to.

[@brentsams9980]

basta lakad lang ng lakad tapos tumingi ka sa likod mo then you realize malayo kana kahit malayo pa ang lalakarin mo basta hndi kalang titigil makakarating ka din!

[@bloopdidoopdoop]

@@brentsams9980 Thank you for this! 💗

[@ohhai1486]

21 years old here. I can relate to kuya Colin na my friends will graduate first while I'll be delayed for 2 years instead of 1. Feels wrong too na Pati mga Tao who've made your life hellish, makakagraduate cla on time and I can just notice and compare that their life is much vibrant than mine.

[@ddalgidal]

as someone who used to be a top student from kindergarten to junior high school to barely passing in college, this episode hits close to home. i don't know what dimmed my light and why i no longer shine as bright as i did before. the past months have been unbearably hard. i'm clinging to that tiny hope that one day, i will figure things out din. everything will be okay and i'll be just fine.

[@Ohsuperjas]

Same. We’re not alone. ❤

[@eRoshii970]

Thank you rec.create. It feels like for me ang mga advices. For context, di ko naipasa yung board exam ko nung april. Sobrang down and disappointed ako sa sarili ko. But i refuse to give up. Magrereview ulit ako and this time magiging engr na ako.

[@jlaicamusic6455]

Hello :) I just wanna say na you can do it.

[@brentsams9980]

claim it! at advanced congrats na agad ENGR!

[@johnvincentpatiag2238]

INHINYERO This time, try again, with Him. Take that Board Exam, again. All the best, INHINYERO 'coz in Him You Are A New IN HIM NEW HERO. Patuloy lang Engr. Let's claim sa susunod may tatak ng ENGINEER NA NAKALAAN PARA SA 'YO.

[@terrenceprinceamosa2908]

"one chapter could be insignificant in the future", these are exactly the words i have been looking for. thank you!

[@jayceemedrano8058]

When I was in college, I always failed my Mathematics subject. Dahil Math doesn't interest me, I did not put in the effort to learn it. But it doesn't make me define who I am. Now, I can confidently say na isa ako sa mga guro that excels in my workplace. I've been handling a special science class for more than a decade, won in the competitions, got recognitions in the field of Science, and soon to teach in the USA. It's a matter of perspective - kung paano mo haharapin at tatanggapin ang failures sa buhay. In my case, ginamit ko ito to better myself. Looking back, without those failures, I am not who I am today.

[@JakeObnial]

Para sa maraming tao kapag nabibigo sila, susubok ulit sila kahit mahirap. Sa akin naman ang mahirap ay ‘yung paulit ulit na pagbangon at paibaiba ng diskarte pero pumapalya pa rin 😂 Resilience was never the issue but acceptance of my limitations.

[@melodybaoin1425]

Hindi ka nag-iisa. Ako din. Marami ako na gustong gawin pero hindi ko nagagawa dahil sa limitation. The good news is....self-aware ka. Alam mo ano ang kaya mo gawin. Alam mo rin ang dapat matutunan mo. Cliche as it sounds, go pa rin ng go. Ang ginawa ko lang ay inniiba ang mindset ko. Imbes na iisipin na nasa karera ako at kailangan kong bilisan; innisip ko na halaman lang ako. Unti-unti ko inaalagan ang mga kinkailangan ko. Mabagal. Pero slowly and surely may magbabago pa rin. So keep going friend. Maabot mo rin yan.

[@zanetruesdale7263]

Wow naiiyak ako habang pinapanood ko to like really hmm kase ako 27 na no work at umaasa lang sa parents ko. Achiever ako dati gang HS then nung college nabully ako nadepress at nagka anxiety at now lalong lumalala anxiety ko nagpatong patong na now meron na din akong social anxiety di ako lumalabas sa bahay di rin ako makapag work kase wala akong confidence lalo na at eto nga anxious ako sobra di ako makalayo sa bahay nang di ako nagpapanic attack feel ko wala na akong kwenta daig ko pa inutil hmm samantalang mga batch mates ko may sari sarili nang career hay dear god i trust you kung eto kelangan kong pagdaanan titiisin ko hopefully lang sana mag end na soon pakitaan mo naman ako kahit konting liwanag mafeel ko lang na may chance pa ko

[@AKVMProductions]

🫂 hugs with consent

[@detective2531]

Life is not about reaching dreams, its about making memories.

[@zxnzxn]

I cried so much bcs of this episode I just realized I'm still not fully healed from failing my licensure exam. I always say na "okay lang siguro hindi ko pa time" "baka hindi para sakin" and I remembered congratulating all my friends passing the licensure exam while i was crying alone inside my room that night. Ang sakit pa rin. I hope someday when I looked back hindi ko na iyakan yung nangyari na yon.

[@lenhobbies6797]

my takeaway is...to never be afraid to fail for it will teach you a certain lesson that could help you move forward😊 thank you for everyone for sharing your stories. very timely sya para saken

[@stylisticating]

I feel like failure, disappointment and rejection is often glossed over on social media. Achievements and competition instead, is highly glamorized that it disorients our view towards "trying" in life. Thank you for this video! through experiences we gain wisdom.

[@gosparkle]

Having support is crucial, lalo na real friends. Sa iba, easier yun. However, there are some na wala talagang support from friends and family. Some would say na "Dapat humingi ka ng tulong." Yun nga lang, there are those who do not know how and do now know where to ask for help dahil sa dami ng taong na 'fail' sila. Be kind to others most especially those who are struggling. Check on your family and friends. Thank you for sharing this! It is worth watching and sharing!

[@nikkkkknokkkkk1953]

bumagsak ako ng phnle 3x.hindi ako sumuko.nag take ako ulit pang apat at thankful ako hindi ako nag quit.nakapasa ako.mahirap sobrang hirap pero para sa mga pangarap mo at habang may oras ka.ilaban mo ng buong puso.wag ka papayag na hanggang ganyan ka lang.tatapat din ang lahat.

[@mikemarkong]

Thanks for this. I didn't think hearing someone with a similar plight as mine would be helpful and reflective. We are soldiers of failure, it was part of our life but we feel that it became our badge and armour of experience. I hope we all get through our struggles regardless of time and history. I have a similar struggle. 9yrs in college, job hopping around 10yrs, online freelancing due to pandemic, and now taking a chance in changing careers through law school entrance exams. I dunno where this journey will lean me to at age 35. But hey, lets do this!

[@kojtokdeihi]

I pity myself for walking on the path where no one can see me endure all the things I bear and of course, I totally hate self-pity but at the same time, I am really proud of what I surpassed given that I'm just 17 years old starting to explore and navigate adulthood, and I will use this testament to still stand and walk on the things I started.

[@jimbobaso2832]

You can fail more you are young but you should always learn and stand back up , you will

[@Ohsuperjas]

So grateful i bumped into this video out of nowhere. This is God’s intervention cause i need it now. Thank youuu ❤

[@paolodeguzman6634]

Idk why but im crying while watching this vid. As a UP student who failed 3 of my exam this semester nakaka relate me kay Kuya Tj, but yeah laban lang sa life magsusuot pa ako ng sablay!!

[@jarzertabora1968]

Ang ganda Ng episode na to

[@roseyan8552]

You'll never know how sweet success is without experiencing failure. It makes us stronger.

[@lablyaspiras6966]

❤

[@avantgarde813]

I can relate with sir AJ, I've been living with my parents for too long too. For me, what I want to share is that.. It's never too late. So we just go on and keep on trying.

[@pattrickmerete]

I was struggling and failing as well, but I don’t give up and I won’t give up. As Enrique Razon said, “Kung takong kang matalo, talagang talo kana.” I’m trying to practice that and I’m surprised that I’m doing well. Unlike before, when there was an opportunity, I was afraid to take it because I was nervous until the opportunity completely disappeared. I failed a lot, but one success covered a multitude of failures.

[@dankurtvincentbuenaventura9536]

I failed, and I keep on failing. Thank you Rec•Create for this content. I really need this right now. I relate to all of them, most especially with Colin. I'm still trying to navigate my way through this failure that I'm facing. This video could serve as sort of my guide with this. It made me feel heard and seen in a way that uplifts me from this downfall that I'm experiencing. Again, thank you Rec•Create for this.

[@ceeeeesh]

I can relate to colin and tj. As someone na nadelay sa college + nag fail during the board exam and atm Im doubting myself if kakayain ko ba o mag bbounce back ba ako to get my license. Your content made me realize that i need to fight and keep trying and going to reach my goal and to move forward on the path that Im taking. Thank you.

[@KevinBelleza-l5u]

I failed being a son I failed being a brother I failed being a husband I failed being a coach Please Lord ipanalo mo parin ako sa everyday hustle sa life para kahit maging successful FATHER AKO sa mga anak ko dahil Marami pa ako plan sa kanila 🙏🙏🙏

[@brentsams9980]

pinanalo kana ni lord sa mga ANAK mo palang kuya... sila ang direksyon mo! tumingin kalang ng tuwid...

[@tomatodoroki]

I once founded that light to help me get up, but now Im back to the start, lagi nalang nadadapa, this video is really helpful, thank you sa speakers and sa creators, indeed thank you rec create for making this video, I hope na y'all will make more videos, inspiring enough for audiences that struggling with different kinds of obstacles in their life...thanks rec create reallyyyyyyyy

[@myrninway8924]

22 years old and i'm 2 years behind my OG batchmates who are about to graduate this school year. habol lang ako guys. 🤗

[@tahananinayt4917]

Salamat! I was crying earlier and asking God for a hug. Tapos binigay niya, at ito ‘yun, mga stories nila. Salamat! Punas luha, laban ulit!!!

[@brentsams9980]

To each and everyone suffering from pain, failures, heart break etc.. keep on praying and do the work! move! no matter what you just keep on moving and conquering your fear at the storm and rain theirs always a rainbow waiting to be seen! laban lang tayong lahat walang susuko parepareho tayong mandirigma sa sarili natin buhay! kaya yan at laging kakayanin!

[@ritchboymagtubo4247]

Grabe.... Parang ung na experience nina Aj, Colin, and Tj, andon lahat sa experience koh which is reality talaga. Ung feeling na napag iwanan kana ng lahat, ung feeling na na disappoint mo pa ung mga tao sa paligid mo... Apakasakit lang pero lahat talaga may purpose.😊🤗

[@bputulin1]

Thank you so much for posting this video. It truly reminds me that failure is a part of being human. Reflecting on all my past failures at this point of my life, I realize I wouldn’t have achieved what I have now if it wasn’t for them.

[@christiankarlkarganilla2763]

Yung best student talaga super tumatak sa akin. Back then sa class namin ako almost always nagtop 1 and everyone around me expected lang na ipagpapatuloy ko yun with added pressure pa. And when I graduated salutatorian, dami ma disappoint sa akin that even I felt disappointed sa a sarili ko and it's when I started na to not take my studies seriously. From salutatorian to just being happy na hindi bumagsak.

[@lonezenith]

This hits home! Salamat Recreate. Ako din for a time parang feel ko naleleftout ako. Then I started my own YT channel as a form of redemption and inspiration. All of a sudden I found a loving passion for travel vlogging kahit amateur kebs nakakahappy para syang diary ko sa mga ginawa ko along the way while struggling. Hoping for a silver lining sa ating lahat! 😊

[@trishanollan5484]

relate na relate ako kay colin!! i felt what he felt during my first year of college, pero super thankful pa rin ako sa set of friends ko dahil di nila ako iniwan during those times (though may mga conflicts na nabuo pero naresolve naman haha) pero im here na, in my fifth year of college, about to defend my thesis na parang dati lang naiinggit ako kasi sila pagraduate na, ako naghihirap pa rin haha! the lessons learned when you failed is the one that will made you as a person ❤️

[@niellatabugoc7542]

I realized that you just need someone that will fuel you to keep going.

[@VonRojohn]

30 years old and been a failure since it took me 8 years before I returned to studies. Just graduated in 2022 as a Student Leadership Service Awardee being the Student Council Chair, but I still consider myself a failure during my term due to the transition from new normal in COVID-19. I also considered myself also a failure after graduation since it took me almost a year before I have a job as a call center agent. Thank you Rec•Create for reminding that failures are normal and need to rise up from those failures.

[@darryatup7913]

Thank you for this content. I'm a second year Psychology student struggling with the fear of failure. I failed one pre-requisite subject last semester and it made me feel so left behind. Pressured na ako to do things, takot na din ako mag submit ng school works kase baka mali-mali yung mga sagot ko. I really feel like a failure, a disappointment, it made me not know me and the things that i want to do. Now, I am barely passing the 2nd semester. It hurts so much kase another gastos na naman ako sa mama ko, although she doesnt say it, ramdam ko yung hirap ng pagtatrabaho niya. Thank you for your content, because it gave me hope.

[@MarkdaveBayonaII]

lumabas to sa recommendation ko and i instantly click it. I've been a failure all of my life I struggle to even wake up or put myself together. never bothered talking to anyone else because they live a better life than i am. I'm in my stage of life na puro pagsisisi I was the only one in our batch who didn't passed the board exam, I've graduated in college after 10 years i was total loser if you say so. I mean wala akong skills to offer my times na gusto kong sumuko na lang kasi sobrang pagsisisi ko sa ginawa ko gusto ko na lang siguro sumuko just to find a way out. I just broke and ask myself why am I doing this? pakiramdam ko I should have done more over the time I had. I just hope na in the future i will stand back again and starting to explore and navigate my life, and I will use this testament to still keep strive hard and work my way on the things I started.

[@ErwinMarkPH]

Thank you for this video. Story ni AJ hit me hard, cguro dahil nararanasan ko siya now. Naka depende lahat ng tao sa bahay sakin. Di ko mapakita na pa ubos nako. I am physically and mentally drain pero kinakaya. I was once yung top ng class sa college, pero lahat ng nakasama ko uma angat while me here na stranded.

[@2600BC.]

Mas nka relate ako kay AJ kasi yung iba puro school/academic failures ang ishinare eh d nman doon ang totoong labanan ng buhay.

[@detective2531]

Life is not about reaching dreams, its about making memories.

[@notinplanetearth]

thank you for this episode its just what i needed. im 28 years old currently a government employee for 3 years. nahihirapan ako mapromote and i feel stuck. everytime i see my friends and schoolmates na nag abroad na or successful na sa mga career nila i feel like a failure. i was an achiever in my younger days pero now as an adult i feel so lost literal na burnout ako nawalan na ng gana so its always comforting na im not alone in this journey and there are people who are in the same situation as me.

[@shecantbake4202]

Graduated from one of the Top 4 universities more than a decade ago. Still living with my parents. Still a burden to my family. Having a hard time with my chosen career due to anxiety. I may not be where I thought I’d be after graduation, but I’m thankful I’m still here. Too many regrets and missed opportunities, but there’s also a lot to be thankful for. Trying to live with gratitude and I’ll never stop trying until I can stand on my own feet and give back to the people who love me. Thank you for this content. ❤

[@AllainEsquivel]

never was the best by any means. pero when you and peers all start at the same time, and they graduate college after 4 years (20/21 years old) then ako it took me 8 years to finish university at the age of 30. parang sa pakiramdam ko is talagang napag-iwanan na ako in life. SIla they have built their dream lives na started a family with kids. And then there was me, applying for jobs, fresh out of university at age 30.

[@DailyPlaylist976]

I failed my first board exam attempt proving that bobo ako? but NO lalaban ako hanggat makuha ko yung licensed na gusto ko. Thank you for this content. One day magiging proud din yung parents ko sakin huhuhuhu

[@Empoweredmess]

This is so timely. I’m on my late 20s and I feel sooo left behind. I know I am capable and skilled but why are things not going well according to my plans?. Failure, or feeling like you have failed in life, can really suck the life out of you… Anyways, thank you for the people who shared their stories in this vid 🫶

[@teknologene]

It is no longer a mystery why we experience mistakes & failures in life. But aside from that, it's not just for us. They can also be a source of inspiration for another person's success, or their guide to a better life. The failure of others is not to be laughed at, but to be thanked for instead. That is why I am so grateful for contents like this. They are a good source of the important lessons we don't actually and have to experience. A Pandora's box of life-changing experiences that teaches us how to better our own lives.

[@Cinnamonroll__1102]

This hit me hard, I am 25 years old. I graduated on time at the age of 19 . I work so bad, to support my younger sibling. And at the 23 I got married unexpectedly I got pregnant and I lost my baby ( still birth) .. I always feel like na “ I am so behind from my friends whose Professionals now they have prefix and suffix in thier names while ako ito lang , someone who’s not mother and a good wife, no career, no house, no cars no savings. I feel so stuck in a box. I feel so disappointed and I can’t appreciate my self. Thi video made me cry out all of my pains. I hope I’ll be better and get back on track.

[@amondeicide2564]

thanks for this video/episode. almost 1 year na ako unemployed. daming rejections ang nararanasan ko and still counting. i feel so failure. sobrang nararamdaman ko talaga na napag iiwanan na ako ng panahon... yung tipong dumating sa point na may araw akong di ko na alam kung anong ggawin ko. i hope magkaroon na ako ng .job to support my needs and help my family. di lang pala ako nkakaranas ng failure sa buhay.... hugs para sa mga katulad ko. labang lang po tayo.

[@joshualat3087]

Thank you for this video, i am also a testament of the typical failure, but you can only move forward. Salamat sa mga guest and words kahit alam ko na ang mga bagay na ito its always nice to have a reminder

[@ethanlawrencesamonte1633]

College student for 3 years, shifted to a new course because of the constant pressure of wanting to prove to people my worth that led to me experiencing burnouts. Burnouts leading to me being pessimistic in everything, therefore being a factor in why I failed some subjects. I often think about my fear of failure to the point that I’m somehow manifesting my fear of failure. I want to be better, but I don’t know where to start. Introspection sounds like a good place to start. 😊😊

[@projekgaming4863]

Salamat sa mga ganitong content, dahilan ito para lumaban pa.

[@piljoshuaboncocan919]

This is gooddd andaming perspective na natouch people experiencing different failures at different points in their life

[@moongirl3345]

I'm grateful for this video. It is one of the best content I watch so far. This is what I am dealing right now and for sure a lot of people as well. I hope we conquer everything in ourlife right now. I hope our pain pays off in the end.

[@datdat1125]

not qualifying for the internship the second time around due to a failed subject makes me feel like a failure, especially when I see my batchmates graduating this year. However, I'm committed to addressing my weaknesses and improving.

[@patrickkan999]

Ive been unemployed since 2020. My mental health disorder makes it hard for me to maintain a regular job. For a time, I thought of myself as a failure because I was following society's definition of success, i. e, you need to have it all; a house, a car, the achievements, the status, the family etc. I was depressed for a long time because of that until I learned how to truly love myself and unlearn what society taught me. I redefined what success means to me. Success to me is simply having a calm nervous system, being able to just take each day and just simply being alive to appreciate what a rare and special occasion it is. Im a full time artist now and the money is slow but that doesnt really matter, Im just happy Im alive. What matters most is I can be present for all the little things in life which is really the big things. We've been living life as human beings, we've been living through the bad and the good and everything in between. We've been doing that all our lives and I must say, we're pretty much successful humans for that. 😌

[@FuriCut]

it's 4am in the morning, you are working in home, you are listening to this while crying and reflecting about your life. ☕

[@HaiseewithaZ]

Grabe naman kayo, ang aga-aga niyong magpaluha ah hahah. Loved this content, very refreshing and inspiring to hear it to those that really fell into the abyss, thank you for those advices and I appreciate the stories that all of you had shared. Sometimes kailangan lang natin ng konting push to turn around our lives to the right path, kaya thankful din ako sa mga taong nakapaligid sakin that continue to support me and will continue on supporting people that needs help or just to lighten up their day!

[@Hottogoinaminute]

Crying and sobbing while watching this. Hugs to all of us 🫂

[@Jayson01282]

Thank you re-create that I stumbled to this video tbh hindi ako nakapasok ngayon sa online week ko sa college due to the fact that I nagkaroon ako ng mental breakdown because of festival dance (because dancing is challenging for me because I'm not a dancer) and because of that although I know in myself na hindi ako magaling sa field na yung I think when you go through with overwhelm feeling insecurities triggered you. I was once consistent honor student in SHS, became a class vice president but after I graduated everything changes people left especially the friends you thought you'll be there no matter what, the Guy who broke my heart and etc. my life in college became rollercoaster I became irreg student and shifter and almost dean's Lister. I took the first college course that I've always wanted but my enthusiasm was lost in tourism. (Since I was a kid I love geography and my parents and some friends saw that as a talent). I won't get in to more detail but I described my college life is barely survive I still get decent grades but i easily overwhelm and my self esteem becomes low. Being irreg student is challenging for me but I surpass. But when you're forcing to do something na hanggang doon lang ang limit mo nagiging cause pa rin pala. Anyway ang dami ko nang Hanash but thank you re-create for this video ah. I hope I can bounce back pa rin after all since I'm down to the finals na.

[@noreencasao2408]

Watching this while I’m suffering with existential crisis. It hurts a lot enumerating our life failures. Praying to find my purpose 😢

[@luckyace1321]

Wow this is a good content. A good POV and an eye opener for people who had a hard time dealing with failure in college. How about recent graduates that that felt being left behind by their batchmates felt like a failure or being discourage in life. Cheer up guys your not alone. ❤

[@ishmaelnarag9605]

Give positive vibes to people, I ask their age and tell them it's never too late, that there's plenty of time to change the trajectory of their current situation. And it works. People always need to hear from someone that they see so much hope and potential.

[@contentenjoyer-e4m]

Im in Engineering and failed to graduate on time too. Hugs po sa lahat 🫂

[@alonacutie4157]

same :(((

[@alonacutie4157]

Engineering din ako huhu.

[@louiezoleta8508]

As someone who plays a lot of Karera by Bini lately, I feel like this matches that vibe and message. :) Hugs to all!

[@GjannSpencer]

Much needed! Thank you, ReCreate for this amazing topic! 🥹🥹

[@itsme_ac]

Thanks, Recreate for uploading this kind of episode. It's truly heartwarming for me, and motivate me to have a confidence again to go with my life. ❤

[@silencedowellii7872]

Whatever your status in life, it's just a matter of perspective! To the goal-oriented person or persons pursuing their dreams, setbacks or detours are normal, everyone has a different pace. So relax, chill! And as they say "Do your best, and God will do the rest" and "Keep Moving Forward"!

[@MohammadMaute]

Thank you all for sharing your stories. Lalo yung sa advice part na, like solid! napapa sigaw talaga ko. Para akong nka rinig ng bars sa fliptop eh. malalim , maangas at totoo. Godbless us all humans. Stay positivie always. Mindset is everything.

[@Haveanicedayhoomans]

This episode resonates with me and it strikes my feels in a way. I'm glad everyone bounced back and really trying to make the most out of their life and If given the chance, I really want to know more about AJ, his words really holds value, I hope I can hear more from him again. Also to Colin, he is very confident now and is taking action. Kudos to him!

[@rsaints1571]

wise advice from an experienced man. thanks, AJ

[@emersonlataza2745]

In the past few weeks I got rejected consecutives in career and love. I FAILED but no one I can talk my struggles and my coping mechanism is just to eat and to walk around looking forward to move on yeah right thank you so much for this video it really helps. MIND YOUR EXPECTATION

[@mvkapee]

idk if this was a sign kasi i saw this on my timeline rn that i just dropped a subject. I feel like a burden to my tito as he supports my education, the feeling of being left behind since i'm an irregular student, and watching this made me tear up

[@princessbartolome8075]

if you needed someone to talk about this, i can become a resource person for this one 😢

[@keenujoshuagomez630]

Thank you 🥹 I needed this ❤

[@mavijaredvalera4194]

For me, Kuya Colin is my relatable one kasi feel ko rin na na left out na ako(napagiwanan ng panahon) di ko na nasabayan yung mga kaibigan ko kasi nga dahil na rin sa financial problem.

[@vincedc814]

2 months after watching this video, I'm here again to re-watch, nakakamotivate pa din.

[@hyste11]

"What would you do if you already knew that you are never going to fail?"

[@indemorlino5849]

Relate much. But I guess life should go on? Pero balik-balikan ko ni because I am in this situation. PRESENTLY.

[@kimmmmeow]

Thank you for featuring these stories. Sobrang nakaka-relate at dami kong natutunan. More of this po!

[@jebsengamido2465]

love this! i hope one day I will be able to join one of your videos.

[@baaahbaaah]

This is very heart-warming. Thank you, recreate. Thank you, guests.

[@betzkie5065]

thank you Re-Create for an inspiring content. it gave me hope to no give up to what I am experiencing right now

[@thereseaban8743]

beautiful episode. needed to hear all of this. thank you, reccreate!

[@rightknowledgetv]

nice very informative,,,padajun sa pag inspire and motivate sa iban na tawo

[@haoluvr]

currently a first year student and I badly need this >< my midterms is near so thank you for this !! ❤

[@itsme6770]

" Academic achiever ka then suddenly nothing ka " This line hint so hard.

[@iussi1488]

ah- been failing so much in my acads but i will fail forward to see success beyond🥺

[@ybbababycinco]

Woah 😳 I got notice with the Q&A portion😅 thanks you guys😊 more contents like this🤗

[@donnamaeamoncio6194]

Thank you for this video ❤❤ it keeps me motivated huhu 🥺

[@thisismetryin_]

During kindergarten, outstanding kid ako. So umpisa palang they expected something na from me. Elementary, laging panalo sa contests, naging valedictorian. Highschool, achiever parin. With honors. College, oks naman. Nakasali sa dean's. Pumasa sa board exam. Licensed na. Highest rating pa sa mga pinsan kong LPT. Pero til now, unemployed with unstable mental health. Yung mga pinsan ko, authors na, may business na, nag master's na sa known university. Ako eto, pag bored naiisipang maging parol.

[@saintperthnorthcloud3850]

I'm used to being a Failure and i am loving every part of it and IDGAF. So let's fail together. Cheers. Fvck this life.