People Who Got TOLD OFF

[@ameliarose47]

As an American I would like to apologize and clarify that we do NOT ring bells at people when a server doesn't take our order immediately. We only ring bells if they are provided by the establishment.

[@gaxalee7392]

I probably still wouldn’t do it unless it was absolutely necessary.

[@RK900Gaming]

i'm too awkward to ring bells. and if that were me, I would've just hid in my hoodie and cry.

[@grobanite4ever85]

I don't do that there are no bells in restaurants that is so old fashioned

[@grobanite4ever85]

I am American. It is rude

[@Kyutie.]

that's what I thought!! jeez that guy...

[@reneenevermore2771]

Body shaming goes both ways. People need to friggin realize that.

[@InvasionAnimation]

As an american I can confirm. Mr Bell is delusional.

[@gachinx]

"mr bell" 😂

[@hottest_moomoo_aghase3105]

Mr bell😂😂😂😂

[@NekomiSon]

Very. It’s very rude down in the south, so I’m pretty sure it is considered so everywhere.

[@chloeeng6811]

I have never seen anyone have a bell to get a server attention

[@veenieeenie]

My family tell me things from my weight, and I always snap back (now that I'm an adult) and they always call me disrespectful. When I defend myself, they tell me to eat less just to be skinny because "I'm to pretty to be fat" (I always tell them that being skinny won't make more happy and If I decide to lose weight is because for my own reasons, not because they want me to be skinny) when they have just a really unhealthy lifestyle. When I was younger they made me eat because I was bulimic and now that i have a better relationship with food and enjoy my body they tell me that I can't eat anymore (I don't want to throw shade but all of these people are male family members who are reaaaaaaaally fat). Its just make me sick of them. Because is only to the girls in the family. All the men are overfed and overweight.

[@Kyutie.]

wow this makes me so mad :(

[@veenieeenie]

@@Kyutie. they told me days ago to not eat dinner ( already eat little, but for them that is not enough). And my cousin (who is my same age) was kinda bodyshamed at breakfast once, I had to argue with my family. I was grounded that day, but she got to eat another sandwich.

[@dannythekingofchaosandkitt4892]

I know that. my mom and brother did same in past (my mom said something similar few months ago again, but now I don't really care). So it caused that I suffered six years with anorexia, which they didn't care about. Not mom, brother nor dad. So I feel your pain...

[@lyss2cool4you]

So for the first one, as someone who lives in America and has been my whole life, I can tell you first hand that what the dude did is completely unacceptable. You do not ring a bell to get the attention of a waiter/waitress. You patiently wait for them to come to you

[@Kyutie.]

RIGHT?! No way that's acceptable ANYWHERE...

[@mastiffscarlet511]

yess

[@unicornpotato0751]

You don't even snap at them that is also considered rude

[@lyss2cool4you]

@@unicornpotato0751 agreed. They have so many other costumers to attend to. You just need to be patient and wait

[@beaniecollection5152]

Exactly! You wait. That’s how it is in America. This guy is just using the fact that he’s American to do trashy things, when not all Americans are trashy either.

[@snarkygal9221]

American here, Bellboy would have been kicked out of literally everywhere. Entitled McSulky-Pants' behavior afterwards only confirms it.

[@Kyutie.]

right?! that's so RUDE!!

[@snarkygal9221]

@@Kyutie. Thanks for replying and liking! My mom was also a waitress at one point, so she would have never done that. Some things/people are universally rude. :)

[@makaylaedits7996]

@@snarkygal9221 a

[@topaz9655]

if i was the waiter i would have told him "we don't ring bells here. do that again and u will be forced to leave"

[@N4Rl_]

The dude obviously watched way too many shows where rich people ring those little bells to get their servant's attention lol

[@chloeeng6811]

Yeah probably

[@gaxalee7392]

I hate the types of overweight people who think it’s ok to body shame others. I’m underweight and have been for a long time. I’ve had people idolize my body and others tell me I need to eat more and gain weight. I constantly switch between thinking I’m too skinny and not skinny enough. I’m not anorexic though. Unless you’re the person’s doctor or someone they asked for advice/an opinion from, you shouldn’t ever comment on someone’s weight, causing or exacerbating someone’s body image issues is, at best, worthless behavior.

[@unicornpotato0751]

I feel that I'm also a little under weight I've been sence 2013 and I just have such a fast metabolism that its hard to gain weight. My friend and I used to joke *because they say they are a bit over weight) that we sighed they could give me some of their unwanted fat so they weren't "overweight" and I wouldn't be underweight

[@stickynote-slumber]

You’re perfect the way you are! I don’t think anyone needs to gain or lose weight, unless it’s for their health. Do what you want with your body! Eat more, eat less, exercise, sleep all day, learn yoga, rob a bank, anything!

[@yolo-ci5jh]

Bodyshaming is disgusting... The fact is that I'm overweight and people here judge you based on how you look or how much you weigh...being overweight means that I am shame and literally most of the students even my friends too in our school except very few of my close friends either calls me names or insults or just looks at me or any other overweight people here like we have done any mistake...and others doesn't even correct their behaviours ...they either say they are teasing you or its just a little joke ! They don't know how much it effects our mental health.. one of my friend has eating disorder and she is also being called names for being skinny...like wth is wrong with these people can't they just leave us alone ...our body our choices ...it doesn't matter how we look...we can be skinny we can be overweight or we can be of intermediate weight... But why should someone else comment on our body types as if they are the ones who are paying for our lives!

[@kurapikakurta1997]

I’m not underweight, but I have a fast metabolism and it makes it hard to go above or under my average (so far it’s 41-43). Have gotten the comments a few times, but I’ll just change something for my health if I ever need to.

[@ari_violet]

@@stickynote-slumber Is everyone just going to ignore the fact you said rob a bank 😂

[@umasvlogsanddisabilityreso9377]

Honestly: In America, we don’t ring bells on diner staff (waiters/waitresses/managers,etc). Not unless it’s allowed in a very specific area I don’t know about. This man is acting like he’s the king demanding his servants attention

[@ilikedarknes3351]

for the jess story. I don't think the parents see skinny shaming as body shaming. Jess has been body shaming people her whole life but as soon as someone shows her how it feels they're in the wrong. Jess should have been told to leave at the first rude thing she did at that dinner. The fact that the girlfriend ran to the bathroom and the parents said nothing is awful. Body shaming is body shaming. You're not a horrible person if you body shame someone once to show them how bad it feels after they've body shamed people

[@morgandouglas6014]

The parents are enablers

[@froot2556]

I mean, isn't it kinda mean still tho? Because when u body shame someone for the way they look, after they did the same to you, wouldn't it make other ppl having the same body type insecure? Just like say a person who's an identical twin calls a your features ugly, you call their features ugly, but now their identical twin(who does not go around calling people ugly) feels insecure.

[@krystrl]

@@froot2556 what.?

[@froot2556]

@@krystrl Basically I mean that even if you bodyshame someone back, it's still bodyshaming. The person you're "roasting" is not the only one who has a chubby/skinny body. Other people might get offended/feel insecure about themselves.

[@krystrl]

@@froot2556 just like what @ilikedarknes said Body shaming is body shaming and if it takes being body shamed for someone to understand why its wrong, then it is okay.

[@vloggerbonakid6178]

3rd story: OP's husband buys expensive things to show off his wealth? Smells like... A waste of money and a sign of insecurity.

[@uarmyalo]

Never have I ever seen anyone here in America do something like that in a restaurant, I would have also been embarrassed. With the other story, why were his relatives calling him a bodyshamer? His sister was body shaming as well and they don't call her out for it. They should know better and accept the fact that what she's doing to his girlfriend or anyone is unacceptable.

[@markcollins2666]

Well, he did brag that it was his own bright idea. But to have no boundaries, and then say that it's the American way, and no one minds? Nowhere on this planet is this acceptable. She should have ditched him then and there.

[@niki-nz2lp]

yea ive lived in the u.s. my whole life and thats not ok

[@WyxienTheFox]

@@niki-nz2lp I've never even left the US, and yeah that guy's just trying to pass his Karen behavior off as "the American way" when in reality he would absolutely get judged for it.

[@gurglequeen433]

If I owned a restaurant, anywhere in the world, and somebody came in ringing a bell like that to get service, I would kick them out in a heartbeat. That is actually worse then snapping your fingers at a waiter.

[@shadowboxer1]

0:05: Sounds to me like Rhett comes from a filthy rich family with butlers and servants, and apparently ringing a bell to summon them just seemed normal to him. To do this in a restaurant or diner, however, is extremely rude. 4:46: Body shaming works both ways. Fat ans skinny people alike are insecure about their bodies. What Jess did was inexcusable, making Alyssa insecure about her body, despite the possibility the same thing may have happened to Jess on several occasions. 9:08: Anyone who is "very particular about his public image" probably has lots of skeletons in his closet. Besides, there's nothing wrong with hanging your clothes out to dry or changing your own oil in your car if it means saving a few bucks.

[@cruxal216]

As an American I can confirm that we do not use bells here in the states to get the waiter/waitresses attention. We usually wait for the waiter/ waitress to come to us at our table not the like the guy in the first story. We don’t claim that trash as an American as he’s rightfully embarrassed us in another country. We don’t ring bells unless they’re provided to us by the restaurant or diner and on behalf of all Americans we apologize for that piece of trash Rhett.

[@RippleSora]

As a person in Canada, I can confirm that we also do not ring a bell unless provided by the place we're going to.

[@chloeeng6811]

i have never seen a bell use like that in a restaurant

[@JesusKreist]

@@chloeeng6811 For a reason. Ringing a bell is disruptive to other guests. Restaurants that provide a bell generally have them not for long and/or have not-so-good reviews. The maximum in a reputable restaurant is a "call button" that notifies the wait staff. Without disrupting other guests.

[@betterwiththeirish]

I used to get remarks and such for being so skinny. I couldn’t help it, it was genetic and my whole family was like that. We didn’t gain weight easily. People would always say “ are you anorexic” or “ you’re so skinny”. I would NEVER say “you’re so fat”! It’s the same thing!

[@popstel2286]

OMG sameeee! People should just mind their own business

[@betterwiththeirish]

@@popstel2286 people think because it’s not calling someone fat, it’s ok. No. No it’s not!

[@23Animegod]

@@popstel2286 for real though if I'm skinny or underweight it's none of your business focus on yourself not me

[@WyxienTheFox]

I used to get "you're so thin" comments as a kid, and it mentally messed me up so I'm afraid of gaining weight now. I'm not anorexic, but I do have some sort of other EDNOS. People don't seem to realize those comments do hurt.

[@popstel2286]

@@WyxienTheFox omg same! People are just jerks

[@thevampireyahweh5253]

"People do this in america". No, we don't. I would melt in embarrassment if someone did this NEAR me, not even with me at my table. Holy cow. I want to hide under the table just reading about someone doing this. Unbelievably rude.

[@Aerodil]

Today, had a lady complain about a poop smell; claimed it was from my dog. But it wasn't because I pick up after her. Lady offhandedly called me dirty and smelly, "but its okay because it *may* not have been my partner and I." Oh, she wanted me to pick up *as my dog was POOPING* Legit wanted me to place my bagged hand under doggo's butt. WHO DOES THAT? She wanted me to also "go away" even though I was parked in a public spot (and even allowed to be there for a few hours). Never said hello, never asked about the day, not even said her name. Just demanded I leave, even though she was an employee and not a manager of the building. I ended up waiting for her to get back from her break and confronted her. Once I said my peace, I got into the car and ignored her. My spouse, after hearing about the accusations, decided to go talk to a manager. They have a zero judgement policy, and the manager will go talk to the owner. Sometimes you need to call rude employees out.

[@Kyutie.]

wow.. what kind of behaviour is that?! glad you stuck up for yourself!!

[@Aerodil]

@@Kyutie. I hope you see this! Apparently that woman was dumping her car, and was upset we were around to see them do it. I just wish I knew they were dumping, or I would have called the cops on them.

[@booklover1298]

1st Story: In America, people don't ring bells at a server when they don't take your order right away. It was very rude of him to do that. 2nd Story: The person's sister shouldn't be bullying people about their weight. The parents should've tried to put a stop to it when the sister started doing it. The family shouldn't have called the person names and a bodyshamer. They (the family) have never done anything to try to stop the sister's bullying. The sister deserved it when the person said what they said to her. 3rd Story: None of the things the person mentioned are "poor people habits". The person's husband shouldn't care about what others think.

[@tracybarber-kier1669]

1. Yes, he's lying... that is NEVER done in a restaurant. It's only in small retail shops with very small staff who might be in the back of the store (or in convenience stores).

[@NinetyLegos]

Yeah. There's a couple buttons in places like "Dick's Sporting Goods" and "WalMart" specifically to ask for an attendant and you really shouldn't use those even then because you will find someone to find the thing you need

[@NekomiSon]

Yep. Also in hotels.

[@eijirokirishima1882]

“Calling me names and a bodyshamer” dude…she’s literally a bodyshamer and body shames people on the regular

[@siannewsam6458]

I havr always had weight problems and been overweight, i have finally lost alot of it, but i would never shame someone for being underweight or otherwise! Thats terrible. I know some people cant put weight on the same as some find it hard to lose weight, and this girl disgusts me. She obviously has an insecurity about her own weight, choosing to reflect that on to other people. Its shameful, and also the family is shameful for putting up with that from her xx

[@oldmanfromoc7684]

Bell ringing is not ok in America!

[@missy9088]

The parents in the second story probably ONLY BELIEVE that body shaming is for people who are plus size. It's not, it happens to skinny, curvy, and EVERY SIZE of person. Hope the family realizes that, and I hope the couple continue being happy WITHOUT the REAL body shammer of the family🙄 PS. LOVE UR VIDS KYUTIE🥰🥰🥰

[@nightmocha9345]

So like, that first one, girl had a male karen for a date. She has my condolences.

[@silverstarmoon5802]

As an American born woman, we don't do that like the EX boyfriend did, and never did do that. He is giving the American an bad name than its already does because people like him kept doing shameful and embarrassed actions. Also, the girlfriend isn't overreacting, it's prefect normal to what she said and it's justified. As a plus size woman, I didn't blame or angry at the brother called out on his plus size sister, Jess. The only person that is bodyshamer is his sister, Jess. Not the brother. All I can see, Jess is openly jealous that she is fat and hated herself for being fat.

[@DelliGaming]

As an overweight person I was mortified at that story. Body shaming can go both ways.

[@chickennoodlesoup3301]

Yeah, like, I can understand for some it's harder than others, but that does not mean the imbalance should be taken advantage of and used as an excuse to be horrible to people.

[@sophiie.837]

omg i remember watching u as a kid and i just remembered the name of ur channel 😭😭 girl i hope ur doing great, u literally made my childhood

[@powerofk]

In general, the proper thing to do in America wrt summoning waitstaff is to raise your hand. But you only do this if it’s been quite a while (say 15-20 minutes after being seated and you haven’t been even visited to ask you want you want to drink… or you’ve placed your order, you’ve been waiting for your order, you’ve been waiting a long time… and that table that came in half an hour after you have already been served and paid their bill).

[@minerexsss]

6:35 Oh my God! The HYPOCRISY! I'm pissed- I hate people sometimes honestly-

[@down-like-the-tower]

Don’t EVER listen to people who body shame you. Only change your diet or exercise routine if you want to or if it’s for your own health. If they don’t like it, their loss. They don’t own your body. You do.

[@Kyutie.]

well said!!!

[@potterheadandarmy6162]

I haven’t been able to keep up with you b/c of school, but omg I absolutely love your new look. You always have the coolest fits and hairstyles in your vids. Also, your voice is so satisfying to hear. Love your content and you’re amazing.

[@rinhayes6200]

The girl from the first story should run from this guy as fast and as far as she can. That is a big red flag. Absolute no.

[@kristinedonnelly9794]

Hey American here. I get that our country has this reputation but there are so many amazing and truly thoughtful, kind, wonderful, diverse people here. It is a shame that this fact has been destroyed by it's reputation and people like this guy with the bell are the exact reason why people think all of us are this way. Long story short we are not.

[@I_likeSCP]

Okay but if someone told me "You should fatten up" I would simply reply with "You should get a better personality". 😤

[@ToyLolbit234]

The second story pisses me off to no end. They're calling the writer a body shamer but that sister body shaming his girlfriend is just teasing?! Body shaming isn't limited to plus-sized people. Skinny people get shamed too and it can be used as an insult. I'm absolutely disgusted with both the sister for shaming the girlfriend.

[@lunarialoonatic]

Skinny shaming exists 👏

[@outerspaceproduction]

For the sun drying bit not only os it not a "poor person habit" but it's actually more sanitary because the majority of dryers don't get hot enough to kill the viruses/bacteria still alive after the wash(soap mostly gets rid of germs)

[@dafien530]

First one can confirm we do NOT do that here as a rule.some people 'might' but they usually end up with nasty stuff in their food... yeah don't fuck with the people that cook and serve your food

[@JadeCaro]

In America, nobody dries clothes outside because a drier dries your clothes completely in 1 hour, so it looks a bit strange to see clothes hanging outside to dry, but people wouldn't think you're doing it because you're poor. The neighbors probably do look down on the guy, but they probably do it because he likes to pretend to be rich when he isn't, not because of the actual amount of money he has.

[@parkgimmy4225]

I've seen super expensive restaurants in movies to have this bell ringing system, but that was provided by the restaurant itself. No one brought their own bells 😂

[@kkirby00]

kyutie your hair is so nice!! i love the colours and it works so well with the earrings!! dyeing your hair was the right decision :)

[@spinasoul]

You can totally tell that the dude from the first story saw a Karen doing it and thought "what a good idea since they will be serving ME" lmao

[@Levi_Yuki]

The first story... Omg. He was DEFINITELY a spoiled little sh*t who wasn't taught right from wrong when he was a kid. She shouldn't have to deal with him.🙄

[@alfonzoy5]

I legit had water come out of my nose when she said "peasants" 12:15

[@Kyutie.]

HAHAHA oh myy

[@g0thbab3y_26]

First guy sounds like the type of person to leave the table at a restaurant a complete mess instead of cleaning before he leaves, only because he has the mindset of “it’s their job”

[@CinnamonLibrary]

As a person who works in a restaurant in America, yes, ringing a bell at the staff will probably get you thrown out, banned, and possibly sued, depending on how pissed the manager is.

[@Oliveisherenow]

Having lived in America for my whole life, and knowing the people around me, that ringing bells in diners would most likely never happens. If someone did this, someone would probably shout at them to stop. Unless the bells are at the tables, 99.99999% of people don't do that

[@yolo-ci5jh]

People have an obsession about commenting on others appearances ... I'm overweight so people insults me ..call me names .. every body literally every one in my school except few of my friends calls me toxic names ...their parents encourages it.. this really hurts..even in public vehicles I've been subjected to body shaming.. and i know how it feels like to get bodyshamed on a daily basis . The second girl was definitely wrong being plus size and hating on skinnier people is same as being skinny and hating on plus size people ! The fact is that no one has the right to comment about someone's body like that!

[@-thunderstar-6414]

Ahhh omg I'm American and I feel like people (when they hear stories like this) assume that we're rude and obnoxious. :(

[@rubysroom9469]

I understand how the first girl feels I was out to dinner with my mom's friends from church, and they were all being so mean to the waitress. Loud and mean. They made fun of her, had no manners and were just awful. I felt awful and nearly yelled at them to shut up a couple of times. It was so embarrassing. To be clear, my mom is awesome and she wasn't being mean. She called the store afterwards and compimentded the waitress. Btw your outfit is super cute :>

[@HazelJuanitaMillanHoffman]

I have never heard of anyone here in America using a bell for anything 🤔 😳 😕 Wow on the obese sister bullying and body shaming a thin girl. I agree that She has a ugly heart. Typically it's reversed and the big girl is being bullied. She should know how it feels and be a better person. Shame on her Parents for allowing her to be such a horrible person.

[@lowbudgetadvice95]

As an American, the bell thing is an jerk move here. Also it defeats the purpose of tipping. My mother taught me the system. Their tip relies on how full her glass is. If she never reaches the bottom, it's fifteen percent. If she has to wait for a new soda it's ten. If she has to wait more than twenty minutes it's five. I only ever saw her give twenty once and it's because the waitress brought her a new glass when her other glass was only a quarter empty. Waiting for food is understandable especially if they are busy. Drinks aren't. She also sneaks the waitresses tips when we are with my grandparents because they refuse to tip always, no matter how good the service is.

[@AntarticasBlobfish112]

I’m an American and a lot of Americans can be very rude going to other countries my French teacher told us a story from the year she lived in France she said that there was this one family from America that was lost and she usually loves helping people who are lost so she went over to help them when she went over the Mother screamed in her face POSTOFFICE and since they were being so rude my French teacher pretended she didn’t understand. Also the postoffice was right behind them.

[@gamergirlmimi263]

I swear Some people deserve these roasts 🤣💕

[@Scarlett.Granger]

The bell dude should totally come to Bavaria. (Not that we ring bells on wait stuff, to immediately clarify!) We have bells at the bar in traditional restaurant (traditional old bells that were used for cows during change of seasons when they would go up/down to the mountain farms) and ringing the bell at the bar means you'll pay a round (shots usually) for the whole bar. Let's see how he likes his idea then. (Note: It's not really used anymore, but traditional restaurants still do have the bells, and the custom is still well known.)

[@JustineOnufrijcuka]

Omg yesss finally I’m not sleeping when you post!!🥳 usually I watch your video in the morning, but this time I can actually watch it as soon as you posted it! Love youuu!💖

[@NekomiSon]

For the first one: as an American, even I’m confused why the man would shake a bell in a restaurant… I’m pretty sure that’s not common here.

[@Memez_Goalpost]

In America, most people are nice and don't care if it takes a bit for waiters to get to you unless you wait 2 hours for food with only drinks.

[@ancientteknologi]

Rhett is a Psycho liar. I hope she got away from him before she ends up missing. Nobody hangs out laundry where I live because it would be filthy and covered in a mix of toxic dust and pollen before it could dry. A new neighbor tried it last year and the white shirts turned grey and had to be washed again.

[@xkaayla3160]

i remember watching kyutie years ago and i just saw the noti pop up, its so great to see how much youve grown!!

[@JoeMama-gh3gg]

Another us citizen here. Can confirm the first story is totally crazy

[@DwarfDragonwulf]

The only reason I got a dryer is because I'm disabled and can't hang the washing on the line anymore. It makes it so I'm able to do it. That guy is wasteful. I wouldn't be surprised if that ends in divorce.

[@avagumm5565]

As an American that guy that rang the bell is very rude. We do not ring bells do get waiters attention. “Free country,” yes, but it does have some rules. But, most Americans think about what they do in a public place like a restaurant first. So I apologize for that man’s behavior.

[@flowrevlis4422]

Kyutieee thank you so much for posting, your vids make my day!

[@rockyember]

i’ve never seen someone ring a bell at a server in a restaurant??

[@scalene5626]

About the hanging clothes thing(I’m from America) I don’t do it that much, only with towels and rugs but other than that I take the clothes out the dryer and leave them overnight to dry in the washing basket

[@askersinchat8022]

You play a perfect "rich person's (mean) role" It's very funny

[@JirosWife]

Sooo great to start the day with your videos!💜

[@islajadepierre9060]

In America dryers fully dry your clothes so there is no need to hang dry them. We used to do that back in the day. Either way the guy is snobby douche canoe. His neighbors probably don't pay him a lick of attention.

[@Kyutie.]

ahh that makes a lot of sense!!

[@mistinghaze]

Omg yeah exactly; I thought the whole point of having a dryer was to dry your clothes completely, and if if didn’t then you either have too many clothes in there or you just need to dry it again. And a lot of places don’t even have balconies (or useable ones) so you can’t dry your clothes outside anyway. And if you don’t have a washer and dryer usually there’s a laundromat close by anyway; I’ve never seen anyone hang their clothes outside these days.

[@wendyhood1962]

Dryers seem to be a very American thing to me. For starters not all clothing can go in the dryer. It is also more environmentally friendly to line dry clothes. I get it in areas where you have snow etc that it is not an option but otherwise why not line dry. Nothing smells as good as sheets straight off the line on a freshly made bed

[@mistinghaze]

@@wendyhood1962 True, maybe just in my case the area where we live in there is literally no place to hang clothes outside, especially since we don’t live in a house so we don’t own anything. Even if we found an area to hang clothes the amount of pollen, insects, animals, neighbors, maintenance, rapid weather changes, etc there is, it would be almost impossible for something not to happen to our clothes to the point where it would be ruined.

[@benwagner5089]

@@mistinghaze Especially the weather changes. In the Seattle area, we'd only be able to hang dry about six months out of the year, and we'd have to keep an eye out for rain all the time. I heard a story about some immigrants who moved to the Chicago area who tried to hang dry in their basement during the winter, and the next day the clothes were still not dry. Makes me wonder how people did it before electricity. Just hang it in front of the cooking fire I guess?

[@IrregularityRowan]

6:33 The double standard, like bro you shouldn't make comments about people's weight unless you're their doctor or a health expert

[@elenivaporis2506]

Absolutely NO ONE in restaraunts do this in America. If you want the waiter, you wait until the come back, or you can call out to them if they are near you. But, some restaraunt do have this system where you press a button on the table and the waiter or waitress knows that you need them, so sometimes it is different.

[@Gurlzup123]

The popularity of All About That Bass has really popularized skinny shaming.

[@CrazyPoodle]

The last story is crazy! Why would you marry someone like that? Why is she putting it up with him? This is incredibly insane

[@raeiselramos8904]

American here. I’ve only ever seen people ring bells to get a waiter’s attention on TV and even then, it was a rich, upper class person at a fancy restaurant or private event, not some random guy at a diner

[@chaoticallycalm6277]

more people to take your comments to heart because you give great advice

[@shyshy7292]

I live in America, I was born here and I have NEVER seen anyone ring a bell for service! It's rude and embarrassing! If I ever see ANYONE doing this I would tell them off myself! Idc if they are a stranger either!

[@Melimop5178]

4:00 this reminds me of when I was in 4th grade and I snapped my fingers to get her attention (because my dad always did that to me so I thought it was okay) The teacher was obviously furious and told me to not snap for her like a dog and to not interrupt her and then said that the world doesn’t revolve around me. Honestly I started crying because I didn’t even know it was wrong but I did learn my lesson. Hopefully this dude also finds his mrs Sara to educate him too 🫠💀

[@flowerjpotter1629]

As a woman who was exceptionally thin up past my 40s through a health problem, you get used to other women being very rude. You can walk in somewhere and just get a load of spiteful remarks they seem to think are funny. Can you imagine doing this to a large lady ? Treatment for my condition made me actually double I weight by my 50s and women are nice to me now. They say hello and never ever comment on or laugh about my weight. I don't think women realise how unkind they are. If someone slim comes into view, ladies, don't imagine they are slim just to make you feel embarrassed about your weight, so don't be mean and draw attention to theirs. Thank you.

[@marydewitt9623]

If you can’t take an insult, don’t dish one out. That Jess was a very unpleasant person who definitely deserved to hear the truth.

[@caid404]

those are "poor people habits"? they're literally just efficient, growing a garden from scraps of food is absolutely genius, and drying your clothes outside on a hot sunny day saves you so much time, not to mention good for the planet, and it's disgusting to judge someone based on their financial and social status

[@stella_swen12]

I have never even seen a bell in a restaurant so that is weird lol

[@autisticdancer]

With the first story, I am from American and I can confirm that ringing a bell to get a waiters attention is NOT ACCEPTABLE here. I don’t even know any places where that would be acceptable. I have literally never seen anyone do that in America. Also, just because we are a “free country” doesn’t mean you can do rude or cruel things without judgment or criticism. You can be rude but don’t expect everyone to be okay with it. And honestly that should apply to the 2nd story too. That girl can skinny shame all she wants but don’t expect everyone to be okay with that. If you are mean to someone that person has the right to be mean back (or in this case the boyfriend/narrator telling his sister off) because YOU started it. Also with story number 3, is letting your clothes dry in the sun normal anywhere else? Because like I said, I’m in America and I don’t do this and I haven’t seen anyone do this. So that isn’t a normal thing here (at least not that i’m aware of.) Is drying your clothes in the sun normal everywhere else?

[@ava1513]

No way that’s allowed, unless it’s provided by the restaurant. Great video though, happy early birthday kyutie!

[@solargomez2490]

I almost told someone to f off yesterday. Yep. He called My manager an a hole and I wasn't having it.

[@23Animegod]

Story 1 : homeboy needs to stay single until he learns how to act in a public place. Story 2: insecurity level 1 million I'm shocked

[@Lonelybloom]

Ur earrings are so prettyyy❤

[@thoughtspeaker8705]

Fr!

[@LeeOfShyness]

I think the dryer vs hanging stuff out thing was the view of either hanging everything out with no dryer or only using the dryer. At my house we have both an outside clothes line, a foldable clothes line and a dryer. We hang blankets and bed stuff outside, pants/shirts/sports stuff and hand towels inside and put singlets/undies and socks in the dryer

[@tekknow-9419]

As an American and a former server, I would have ignored him and get the other servers to do so as well, inform the manager to get rid of him for ringing that bell or I would have snuck up and took the bell from him and tossed it out. That is not only completely unacceptable in any American restaurant, but it is so rude that the other patrons may have gotten involved to tell off that a-hole for spoiling their meals as well.

[@VLP_7]

as an American, I would like to say that it is also unacceptable to ring bells in restaurants here too. anyone doing that would get dirty looks and would likely be asked to leave. it’s not ok here either (unless bells are provided in the establishment specifically for this reason) and that boyfriend is a dramatic liar.

[@milkywaycafe.]

10:12 Personally, where i live people dont do that. However thats mostly because of the amount of dirt and dust storms we have

[@dragotheskeleton5043]

I've only seen bells when the place can get really busy, even then you only ring the bell a couple times when the waiter is in hearing range. This is extremely inappropriate and rude and I cannot begin to explain how frustrating it can get when a bell is ringing constantly like that.

[@alexcorvin3612]

Does that guy Rhett thinks servers at restaurant are his personal servants or something?!

[@ScourgeIsBestVillain]

10:11 Me, a person who lives in Florida, as NEVER seen a single person hang their clothes in the sun...

[@camallamadingdong69]

The dude with the bell needs to think about the fact that if bells were necessary, they would have been provided by the restaurant/diner themselves. I can't imagine being so entitled that you think you can ring a bell or snap your fingers at a waiter so they get to you faster. That's like trying to get a dog's attention so they come to you.

[@VanessaRodriguez-qk8vs]

Nobody has the right to say anything about anyone's weight

[@kristinedonnelly9794]

Yah for most of my life I have been a bit overweight due to my medication for my mental illness impacting my hunger and diet and it sucks whenever it is brought up. Whoever Jess is she needs to learn some serious empathy skills.

[@arugulax98]

I’m a U.S citizen and I promise that is not a thing here. I have never seen or heard of anyone doing that here and the only time someone does ring a bell is usually at gas stations or fast food places that leave one out to alert the employees there is a customer who came in. Even then it’s known to be disrespectful if someone is up there ringing the bell constantly. However we do have many people who are rude and/or believe they’re entitled to have their way at all times. I say that confidently because I’ve experienced it too many times to count both while working customer service jobs and as an average person just being around.

[@brigitteschultz1552]

Respect to the person who defended his girlfriend to his rude sister

[@drizza2634]

I legit love your channel