Periods, contraception & the wedding night! ✨GIRL TALK✨

[@ibrahimmiah4844]

I’m a man and I have no sisters, as well as being brought up in a desi household meaning that the menstrual cycle is something that’s never spoken about. So I’m basically an idiot in terms the menstrual cycle, so videos like these really educate me and make understand and how to behave and act when the time does come for marriage (in shaa Allah) so I can be a more understand man, husband and if Allah blesses myself and my future spouse a father too so jazakallah khair

[@maryamamir5789]

Cute😳❤

[@rukiimin8146]

You are going to be a good husband :)

[@zeesaleh4683]

May Allah bless you with the best wife 💕🙏🏻 you’ll be a good husband mashallah us girls appreciate you!!

[@sidramemon9394]

How considerate!

[@yufakhattak8439]

Bruh do you really think if you had sister then you would have know about menstrual cycle, hymen bleeding, contraceptive methods etc. This has nothing to do with having sister. I have 4 sisters alhamdulillah and I didn't knew about menstrual cycle until I came in middle school ,8th standard, where I taught about menstrual cycle. Proof: When I was ignorant and young, I saw a pad advertisement on TV and asked my sister what does this means. She ignored my question many times for many days and when I repeatedly use to ask same question my sister gave a tight slap to me. After that i never ask that question again. Lol I still use to laugh about that whenever I see her. It's all about educating men about these stuffs. I repeat It has nothing to do with having sisters.

[@hedieh6]

But men should be the ones watching these videos especially the part about bleeding on the wedding night. They are the ones who should be educated on it so they don't judge their wives for not meeting the standards.

[@hedieh6]

Thank you for making this video jasmin and talking about topics that nobody talks about

[@silver-pearl]

Every female should be watching and teaching their children, girls and boys so neither of them grow up uneducated

[@NoName-mi2cs]

@@silver-pearl every girl? Where’s the male? You leave because you can’t take responsibility of your actions and blame it on others, sit down.

[@sabreen2400]

please pin this comment!!!

[@silver-pearl]

@@NoName-mi2cs I mentioned both. Where's your comment to this being watched by the men only? Let's both sit down.

[@hajra3084]

Guys should definitely watch this because the amount of ignorance they have regarding the hymen/virginity, a woman's right in intimacy, etc. is very disturbing. Even the cultural teachings of it is so messed up and not from islam. People really need to go back to the basics and read about how the Prophet SAW put emphasis on foreplay & how he would recite Qur'an for Aisha (RA) when she was on her period. We have gone so far from islam, it is so sad.

[@cottoncandy7122]

That's the reason why some nonmuslims consider Muslims as 'backward'. Its 2021 and we are still discussing this!

[@hajra3084]

@@cottoncandy7122 yeah unfortunately culture gets mixed into religion and paints a wrong image of islam :(

[@rehansajid1539]

@@hajra3084 guys who are open minded and want to learn more about the opposite gender do watch these videos

[@hajra3084]

@@rehansajid1539 Yes ofc and it's time this was common knowledge to all guys

[@iamyourbrook4281]

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[@balsammohammed9140]

The way her cat just politely listened to her.... 😂😂😂

[@aexotic_editz1823]

Can someone tell me where that part is?

[@zeynepgokcetinay4814]

@@aexotic_editz1823 the beginning

[@nadiraabdirahman7293]

Mine would never 😂

[@adawiyyah]

I love how she replied everything to help and educate others and she didn't get distracted by bringing in "juicy" details from her personal life! She shows me that it is possible for one to be a lifestyle KZbinr and yet still have respected boundaries! its amazing!

[@hamdiqueen6632]

I remember one story about a girl who didn’t bleed on the first night of the wedding with her husband. He told her family and they killed her..... so it’s important to discuss stuff like this and be educated.

[@boshraal]

Oh my goodness. That’s absolutely heartless and disgusting. May Allah guide people into being educated.

[@zali9657]

Damn, that’s sad fr. Like why the hell the parents trippin like that sad 😢

[@rayandaas1695]

Those who slander should be lashed 80 times, and those who kill innocent shall be executed.

[@DismissDull]

how can you just KILL someone? what the police did to protect her? what her family did to protect her? did HE go to the jail ? where is the justice

[@nastaranhaidari6179]

I know this happened to one of my family friend as well That night when they find out that she didn’t bleed and her husband told her mother and then the next morning he divorced her and returned her to her parents. And told them that your daughter is not a girl she lost her virginity it’ doesn’t mean that if a girl lost her virginity she had sex with someone there are girl that born like that but people don’t think about that at all Especially people in my country Afghanistan 🇦🇫

[@sarahthinks25]

Tbh, the aunties in our house just gossip about some shit, instead of teaching us these useful topics, i really appreciate that i found jasmine to educate myself in these topics, thanks a lottttt lootttt loootttttt jasmine💕🖤

[@fatimabibihoosen]

Agree 100% about the period thing 👌🏻 I actually grew up in a home where my mum would say to hide it from my brothers esp in Ramadhaan Lol. But as I grew up and attended madrasah (islamic studies) I realized how dumb that is. But my mum is still very conservative. But I can see as my husband also grew up in a similar home setting, he didn't know much about periods and stuff. So my goal is to raise my sons knowing these things and understand that it is normal. So my daughter doesn't have to hide it and feel embarrassed about it around them and also one day when they get married, their wives don't feel awkward about it and they will have compassion for them at that time of the month.

[@Rachel-su3ir]

I agree. There are many things I don't like about my Arab culture. And j am going to change it starting with my family InshAllah

[@user-youdontknowme]

I agree and relate with you 100% but I do wanna know one thing, what did you learn in the madrasah about this? I really want to know.

[@SalehFamily]

All of this needed to be said! Thank you for speaking up!!

[@_immie_6629]

Omg I love u guys 💗

[@fatemasajjad5288]

Saleh Family I lovveee youu😍😍❤️❤️

[@hajaralol9786]

Omg I watch u guys love u 💕

[@rachelmcclain5367]

😄😄😄😄😄😄

[@hanasallam8150]

No one talks about this stuff so thank you. I’m 17 and I wonder a lot about these stuff and discovered I have A LOT of misconceptions because we aren’t educated about all this. So thank you for talking about it in an open, respectful manner.. it’s important.

[@zali9657]

Facts it’s sad, parents be cappin like everybody gotta talk about this so the youngin learn.

[@mariyahndiaye1357]

Same, question though. I live in America where kids eventually get "the talk." My parents never did that at all and I was wondering...is that a common Muslim parent thing to just ignore?😅

[@zali9657]

@@mariyahndiaye1357 yeah, most parents don’t give the talk, I figured that shi out my self. Idk why they nervous

[@mariyahndiaye1357]

@@zali9657 ok lol, idek how Ik what Ik😅

[@codename495]

There is a gynecologist who is a channel “ mama dr. Jones”. Check her out.

[@najibah_a6189]

she explained the sensitive topics so well,, felt like a big sis talking 🥺

[@rosesmiles2384]

I am not Muslim but I am waiting till marriage and have strict parents so thank you!

[@supercritics12345]

According to your prophet, muslim should consume the wing of a house fly because it has the cure of the disease, muslims don’t need medicine anymore ahahaha. The Prophet said "If a house fly falls in the drink of anyone of you, he should dip it (in the drink), for one of its wings has a disease and the other has the cure for the disease." Sahih Bukhari 4:54:537

[@n.s9561]

@@supercritics12345 Why’re you replying to this girl’s comment saying “According to your prophet”. She isn’t even Muslim. 🙄

[@n.s9561]

@@supercritics12345 www.google.com/amp/s/yahyasnow.wordpress.com/2015/10/11/fly-hadith-discussed/amp/

[@danielkhoury8163]

Christians don't look whether the girl bleeds or not lol. We are more liberal anyways.

[@lets_wrapitup]

@@danielkhoury8163 you’re legit generalising tho lmao, you’re limiting to only a specific amount of people. Wow y’all are so modern cuz you guys barley even practise the faith and purposely sin for the sake of your own desire “freedom” 😍

[@kulsumsheikh814]

Am a biology student and i know these stuffs very well and whenever I get a chance I educate my family, friends and even someone who wants to know about it I think it's important to talk about these topics just to educate ourselves and don't fall for misconception and myths🙌

[@twizy14twice48]

Jasmine is like our big sister. I count on her so much❤️

[@JavedKhan-bh6wj]

Hello

[@JavedKhan-bh6wj]

Where you from

[@ahmadsamateh965]

In most Gambian cultures especially the tribe that I'm from,a white cloth is given to couples to spread on their bed on their first night so they could determine whether the bride is a virgin or not. So if there's blood on the cloth then she is a virgin and if there's no blood then she's not. How intimidating?🤦🏾‍♂️ Alhamdulillah i learnt that not every girl bleed on their first time due to several reasons. So not expecting my wife to bleed on her first time Insha'Allah . And Alhamdulillah that cultural thing is fading now. Most couples nowadays don't allow it. Like WTH! Whether she bleeds or not that's between us. What happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom...

[@asiaalgabri5013]

Exactly .I don’t understand why people don’t think like this 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@ahmadsamateh965]

@@asiaalgabri5013 it's really a problem that need to be fixed

[@kulsumsheikh814]

Kudos to you for speaking about it and not excepting such myths 🙌🏻 May you educate your peers also✌

[@adna-qv4bn]

In this day and age, wow!

[@ahmadsamateh965]

@@adna-qv4bn seriously🤦🏾‍♂️

[@shxyiin]

the whole virginity/hymen talk, no one should even feel any type of way about it, it’s literally science lol

[@zali9657]

Facts parents be trippin

[@cba6719]

Exactly! Any man who believes that all virgins bleed on their first night is stupid periodt honestly.

[@fatimahalnaqi8261]

Its a social construct

[@raayamohammedshahid7392]

make this a series!

[@cherryblossom__]

yes please!

[@impii2772]

yes like on specific topics every episode ❤️

[@raayamohammedshahid7392]

@@impii2772 That's a good idea! Hope she takes this into consideration :)

[@impii2772]

@@raayamohammedshahid7392 yess 😁

[@f.agberemi]

I second.

[@safiayusuf6702]

Yes the “inshallah” thing all Muslim parents do I think😂😂 mine definitely did!

[@azmoh4515]

mine didn't

[@azmoh4515]

@@chuuz3859 that doesn mean i got everythin i wanted haha they just said no

[@fazalazakataable]

Lmao mine did

[@jumanakhan5710]

Totally agree

[@megan-vz5io]

not only muslim parents my parents do the same thing and we are christian and we are from syria.

[@juviencaleopold9457]

True...marriage is not about merging your 50% to another person's 50% (filling voids) but 100 to a 100 (or close to), complementing eachother.

[@Bridge11e]

Before marriage, one should have or be working on getting an education and a way to support oneself. It's important to not be economically dependent on one's spouse forever.

[@jubitora2024]

in my place where i live none of the muslims parents hide the girl when they are on periods ..eating secretly or that stuff nor my parents have ever done this to me in the month of Ramadan... specially me I don't hide this from anyone in my family...lucky to get this type of Muslim community ☺️

[@zanibimran7468]

❤

[@zh3156]

Very luck in deed

[@thepink3798]

Yess me too. Im a girl so everytime i have my period i will tell people so people know why i dont fast or pray. Like we dont hide it in my country. And the boys already know about it since they were like 11 i guess. So yeah im luckly too that our muslims community dont think the way like this.

[@ZM-et7zt]

I refused to hide it as I got older and openly speak to my brothers about things I believe they should be educated on. I'd feel embarrassed if my brothers were ignorant on real women's issues when they have sisters, it's a waste to not give them that insight when they are my mahrams because it will help them in their future marriages. My brothers are great helps when I get really bad cramps, hot water bottle and kindness at the ready 💗

[@zh3156]

@@ZM-et7zt wow, thats really good, yes in my childhood it was kept sooo secretive that even wen we couldn't pray we had to get up at sehri time, hid to pretend to be praying, but i will educate my boys, I believe too that they should know for there future.....

[@concerned_parent]

6:54 "Just don't feel pressured to marry young" bravo. Needs to be said. Thanks.

[@thestuff2161]

She really knows what's she's saying. ❤️❤️

[@MM-vf1xm]

I really love these kind of videos, especially because there aren't many muslim youtubers who want to talk about such topics (afraid of getting looked down upon by the muslim community). Muslim girls really wonder about alot of stuff, but can't ask their parents because they're ashamed or afraid. So I really appreciate these kind of videos, thank you so much!

[@MM-vf1xm]

@Dark__ Wolf I'm sorry, I was talking from my point of view (as a muslim girl), but I agree other religions aswell

[@jiaazz]

It takes courage and a lot confidence to talk about all this on a public platform.. Really appreciate you for this💜

[@quldibaloch34]

Nice to see someone in the Muslim community discuss important topics

[@valf156115]

One tip for travel is start doing day trips to nearby cities and then work up the distance from there. Make it clear the ways youll stay in touch AND STICK WITH IT!

[@sapok4925]

Good comment

[@mariyahndiaye1357]

Thanks, but my parents won't even let me go into *the city I live in* alone. But I want to go to college 4 hours away😭

[@taehyungsqueen3987]

I had no one to talk really openly about period but now I'm a big sister . I talk really openly about menstrual cycle to my younger sister.

[@r_saccount77]

I talk to my brother about it so it's not taboo for him and he doesn't get misinformed, Alhamdullilah I got that chance

[@sidsid9349]

Love you for coverings these topics ❤️ you have no idea how much this helps. Growing up i had no one to teach me all this ty ❤️

[@Sweetyminu123]

"He needs to have a box of chocolates ready for you the week before, just to be able to live life normally" 😂🤣🤣 I feel you!!!

[@maloumasereel966]

You’re so outspoken, I love listening to you speak 😊

[@tehreemarif5625]

Ok m a pakistani muslim girl and my family is not that much but yeah to some extent 'conservative ' but in ramadan or any other day our periods are not hiden from the male member Even m proud to have that😌 Cuz it makes me normal 'biologicaly' Even perfect 'physicaly'😌

[@TiffahLabeeb]

"Ssshhhhh!!!! Don't tell anyone dgjahsgdebsjdenebs" 🤣 That's actually true though! Periods should be a normal conversation to have! Loved this video 😍😍😍

[@amtulwasay7621]

​@@supercritics12345 this is fake

[@Nour-yb3ji]

@@supercritics12345 shut up please, i have no clue where ur getting this shit from

[@cestlavie4495]

@@supercritics12345 reported

[@_wow10]

Since my period started my mother asked me to not tell to my brother and father. But whenever I asked her to buy me pads, she will always ask my father to go to shop and buy it cz the men are the shop keepers. Even though she is well educated! Well its not her fault its the society's fault!! It should be changed now!!!

[@randomgirlonyt7409]

That is so true

[@hananasrah]

am i the only one that is automatically the taste tester for the food in Ramadan when i'm on my period and when i'm not the food has no salt

[@amaljama7822]

I only taste the food when am on my period during Ramadan 😊

[@hananasrah]

@@amaljama7822 yup

[@Lana-ul4wy]

Sameee!!!

[@laraibmadiha452]

Same here

[@hodmanibrahim4459]

😂😂😂

[@gannasabeq]

I feel like you’re my big sis who’s telling me stuff I never knew or wasn’t educated enough about , I just really wish everyone thinks like you

[@sarrakhan2742]

“When it’s ramadhan and you have to hide that your on your period and hide in the corner and munch munch munch 🤣🤣🤣. Jasmin this was hilarious. Iv been look for this comment like all my life ❤️.

[@katiequeen3835]

Loll😂😂😂

[@stariehearts2366]

I hide eating because it's rude to blatantly eat in front of my fasting family members. It's got nothing to do with hiding my period, it's about having manners and some etiquette. I was raised with the idea of never eat until everyone at the table is served

[@sarrakhan2742]

@@stariehearts2366 well that’s the way most women have been raised!!! and that’s your opinion completely of course . Iv been raised to hide it from family members but I think it’s good to have understanding about these things that’s all . it’s a break given from allah ( swt) I just find Jasmin funny that’s all !

[@stariehearts2366]

@@sarrakhan2742 oh my family know I'm on my period because they can see I don't pray or eat iftar, so I definitely don't hide my period. The eating thing is gender neutral, when my dad broke his fast last year due to sickness, he also ate in private. Ramadan aside, we are raised to not start eating before everyone is served. It's actually rude to do that if you read proper table etiquette. So the no eating thing is a gender neutral rule and I'm glad I was raised with it because it's the best of manners both inside and outside of Ramadan 😊

[@sarrakhan2742]

@@stariehearts2366 that’s fine but u did say you hide . you shouldn’t have to starve yourself until everyone has been served .!!! Yes respect those who are fasting around you .Alhamdulila I can also say I have been raised with the best of manners 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻I have beeen taught them true value of Islam and ramadhan

[@AmalN02]

I just love her girl talks videos .. kinda like getting advice from a big sister :) We 👏need 👏MORE 👏

[@LL-jw5in]

omg me too!! i absolutely HATE the feeling of my hair touching my neck or just being there, so i chopped it into a pixie and it’s honestly the best decision ive ever made, highly recommended

[@fatemasajjad5288]

@@mariamdiakite513 I have hair almist till my knees but I love to let it loose and it doesn't really annoy me even tho it's a little frizzy.

[@stariehearts2366]

I like the feeling bc it feels soft plus I have curls and they look good alhamdulillah gonna grow to my hips bc everyone always tells me how pretty my curls are

[@earthangelexplore7159]

There's definitely a difference based on what culture you're from. I'm pakistani and virginity isn't an issue cause parents keep such a close eye on you haha.. or maybe it is but my parents basically raised as super strict and not to be too girls and expressive. I could dress femine but modest..always wore hijab etc..and basically stayed away from guys. I remember my mom letting me ride my bike and do all sorts of physical activity. She did talk to me about hymen one time and said it had to do with virginity and to be careful and be more femine in my ways of doing things so I don't break it or something like that ..and I remember in class my white teacher in our all girls class taught us that your hymen can break before you ever have sex cause most of our school was Muslim and South Asian. I think it's so hypocritical of men to care about a woman being a virgin. Nit that we shouldn't in the sense of don't do anything before marriage. But like thisbhas become seriously toxic and blown out of proportion. I would just be so pissed off if my husband was "looking to see if I'm a virgin".. it's like you bet I am..and how dare you try to "investigate" like why would you marry me and then "investigate" thats just so low and pathetic.

[@f.agberemi]

Exactly. The investigating part of it is so problematic.

[@angels1896]

@@yufakhattak8439 no u just didnt understand her. She didnt mean that all men are hypocrites. It's the ones who have all forms of relationships outside of marriage but when it comes to their wife, they want a virgin. This is hypocritical. If you arent like that, good for you. Not everything has to do with you, so if u think that u behave like this then change. If not, then ignore it.

[@angels1896]

@@yufakhattak8439 again u missed the point. No where did she say all men are hypocrites. If the sentence doesnt apply to you then you can move on. If you read her sentence is about the men who do want a virgin wife, but have had outside marriage relations.

[@angels1896]

@@yufakhattak8439 and what I meant by outside marriage relations is sex before marriage, not having an affair

[@arianacmoi]

@@yufakhattak8439 are you virgin in the first place ? only virgin men can ask for virgin women.

[@khadras3393]

IVE LITERALLY BEEN LOOKING FOR A VIDEO LIKE THIS I feel like a lot of these kinds of videos are outdated and never made by a women so thanks so much I’m 15 and no one teaches us these kinds of things I need to be mentally prepared and just overall have knowledge of this from an Islamic perspective you should make this a series

[@Bia_ynn]

The Title: Periods, contraception & the wedding night! ✨GIRL TALK✨ All the guys: 👀

[@joshuadodofoli6298]

Yh true 😆

[@fragrance7563]

So true🤭

[@RSainman]

yeah.. 👀

[@onlyajoke]

@flower nature So how do you know I'm naughty?

[@metalhottie44]

i was actually born with a deformity, i had a septate hymen, vaginal septum. which required surgery, and if i just lost my virginity normally i couldve bled out. its important to properly inform our young men and women about their bodies and not make it such a taboo an forbidden topic :)

[@Mimi-hr1qk]

You're like my bigger sister who gives real advice that I never had! Loved the video ❤

[@glennnesley1811]

I can't get over how intelligent Jasmine sounds, this was a great watch✌️✌️

[@madebym5359]

I just want to say i love you, I love your female power mentality and your open mindedness so freakin much. I have respect for the videos you put out that are honestly more important and normal to talk about that “juicy” like how many people in our communities think. Love ya girl and keep up the authenticity and joy u r doing incredible 💘

[@Al3aylaa]

6 Ways to Earn Reward Even after Death:🏅 - 📗Give a copy of the Qur'an to someone (each time one reads from it, you gain). - 🦽Donate a wheelchair to a hospital (each time a sick person uses it,👨‍🦽 you gain). - 🕌Participate in building a MASJID. - 🥤Place a water cooler in a public place. - 🌳Plant a tree (You'll gain whenever a person, animal sits in it's shade or eats from it🌱) - ⛲Help build a water well💧 Allah says in the quran: We record that (deeds) which they have put forward and their traces (that which they have left behind)." Al-Qur'an 36:12

[@Awanzy24]

I've just had my Nikah and waiting for the wedding and the rukhsati. None of my wife's family taught her anything about this topic because it's so taboo to talk about. She was surprised and asked how do I know about this so I answered shouldn't every husband learn about this. Now she's more comfortable talking about this to me than to her friends or family. Any brother here, please talk to her she will love and respect you more.

[@MuhammadFaisal-np7tc]

I dont think so.my wife always shy on this matter

[@anyathompson151]

Floki is so adorable, I can’t. 🥺🥺🥺

[@fathiabalgahoom3785]

I love your videos especially since they normalize discussing topics like you did today. I think it’s so important that we do have these conversations because a many families shy away from these topics and I believe it’s better to be educated and understand something than shy away from these topics. In a way I think you aren’t preparing your children for marriage by not having these awkward conversations

[@shalom.mugenzi]

i did not come for girl advice i came to understand girls “ edit: i learned a lot thank you 🙏

[@aiuchiha111]

I appreciate your effort brother

[@ayeshaa.S]

I truly appreciate you 💯 we need more mans like you in today's society.

[@maariyahshamsi7061]

I'm literally 2 seconds into the video and I noticed right away how big your cat is now mashallah! He looks so healthy 😻😻😻

[@mariyahndiaye1357]

Name twins 😉

[@maariyahshamsi7061]

@@mariyahndiaye1357 omggg I don't know a lot of ppl with my name this is so cool!

[@mariyahndiaye1357]

@@maariyahshamsi7061 same, I've only met one. I believe the name comes from a slave that the prophet freed❤️

[@dzhamilyad4852]

I really like your thoughts and your opinion on lots of “juicy” topics. It is really cool that you can contribute to the education of people from conservative families✨

[@DismissDull]

LOOOL i love this part about period and tbh i have never thought someone would think period is a taboo topic.. or something we should feel shame of?! what the hell it's a period?! same normal think like idk? fart , cough , sneeze etc! :D i love telling my boyfriend that i am on my period bc he's always getting me chocolates haha and being so patient because of my mood :D

[@aishakhan1020]

May Allah swt give us girls as much confidence as you have.... Go sister jasmine and brother dawoud whoop whoop ❤️

[@cordycruz5161]

Hi, from Texas ! Shukran Jasmine, for always being so open and honest. This video was so informative, you are wise beyond you’re years. It’s nice to know there are still good hearted people that want to share their knowledge with the world. May God Bless You and You’re Family Always !!!!

[@harrykim8763]

I feel you Queen!! The last answer tho. “DON’T”🤣🤣

[@aaliyahetc.6687]

I feel like Jasmine would be a good teacher. Like you have a nice way of speaking.

[@stvsgravenhage_3031]

that's bcs of her studies, MashAllah

[@ramphastidae9235]

About traveling: In my family it's not about trust, it's about protection. My dad is scared that something happens to me and he is not there to help and protect me. Especially when I want to travel for a long time or in a far away country. It's difficult for him to submit control and to let me out in the "dangerous" world unprotected. Obviously God is our best protector, but it's difficult for parents to let their children go their own way. Dads will always blame their self when something happens to their daughters because they feel responsible for them. My dad always says he's happy when I get married and he can hand over responsibility to my future husband. (Although I feel responsible for myself and don't want to assign this task to anyone else). It's a very difficult topic...

[@banudilmen1376]

you're like the older sister I never had. thank you.

[@MysticQT]

LOL “they make her eat in the corner and shh....”. This legit made me smile

[@eda7539]

I am so happy that you did a video about these topics, because sadly in the Muslim community, no matter where in the world, all of these things around period, sex, virginity, intimacy, are taboo to talk about. And even if talked about, it is always not elaborate and honest enough. I was very lucky that in my household there was no shame for me or my mother regarding our periods, even though my mom wouldn’t really say much if my brother asked questions. But I am always answering honest if my brother asks me why I don’t fast or why I can’t read right now. And just like that it will not be uncomfortable to talk or ask about in your parents house or in your future household. I mean it is also pretty bad for all the men to not be included in our female lives and with what we are dealing with from month to month. Trust me that knowledge is power and education is key for comfort, intimacy, good relationships and so on. Thank you for doing this educational video🙏

[@ameenawahhab4211]

This just proves that girl talk is real talk.

[@MaryamShuaib]

thank you so much for all of your advice! i feel like im talking to the sister i never had, so thanks for being a great role model

[@shadowsmoonlight]

Love your positivity and openess. Thank you for addressing these questions properly.

[@syedhasanmohiuddin827]

Woah !! 😲 I just peeked into your other vids as well and I gotta say, its ridiculous how good looking you both are . You both are gonna have some BEEAAUUUTIFUL kids !! MashaAllah !

[@lynnchamp7873]

a lot of times really good looking couples don't have good looking off springs.

[@aliya8085]

Masa Allah

[@sumycassy]

انشاالله

[@aliya8085]

@Sassy Queen umm we’re not saying they want kids we are saying that insha Allah when they have kids they will be beautiful insha Allah

[@faizaali6265]

Beautiful babies mashallah may they be protected from the evil eye.

[@unabresnan5560]

The freedom/strict part is like Irish Parents up to the early 1980's in Catholic Ireland. Girls unattended traveling alone was really not allowed at all. Some any trips were either in pairs or some one meet you at the other end of the journey.

[@anijahpostell5282]

Braids help a lot with hair tension. Also, don’t situate your hijab directly on your hairline.

[@zoubidakandri676]

« The situation is don’t talk to me in the morning before you brush your teeth »😂😂😂😂 you killed me. Please keep doing this

[@JavedKhan-bh6wj]

Hello

[@Dani-px4qb]

“And the situation is don’t talk to me in the morning before you brush your teeth”🤣

[@user-vf9kw6fi8l]

Use blackseed oil on your hair. It really helps!

[@zali9657]

Bet lil bro

[@OrangeMilkBlossom]

Gave me a rash so it really depends!

[@Shaha_1]

Thank you for making these videos,they have certainly helped me get through these tough times,much love ❤❤❤

[@faizalgala289]

Allah will help you more. Rely on him coz nothings better than relying on our creator. May Allah help all of us

[@Shaha_1]

@@faizalgala289 ty

[@yahoooo846]

It's like listening to an older sister 💜 thank you so much for providing these kinds of information☺ ...I mean it's a cycle of life everyone should know about this..don't know why people especially parents feel awkward when talking about these kinds of stuff 💜I really appreciate it.. hopefully in the future schools or colleges will provide sex ed which would of course be based on Islam cuz people are so used to seeing western drama, romance and think that it's normal ...which is definitely NOT 😬

[@amnaa55]

Would you teach your sons about the menstrual cycle? My brothers are so sheltered from it and I really really struggle with their questions about why am i not praying or why am I not fasting

[@NH-hp2nn]

Good question

[@mirnamirk7028]

my sisters and I told our younger brothers LOL our parents weren't gonna do it.

[@sta._rina]

Try and explain in simple terms for them to understand or you could show them an educational video if the words just arent coming out of your mouth

[@stariehearts2366]

My brothers found out what it was at age 16, absolutely ridiculous.

[@blurryink115]

I actually sat down with my brother and just told him. I’m lucky that we both have a close relationship and I’m not embarrassed to say these things around him. He kept asking why I’m not fasting why I’m not praying so on that same day I told him why and he understood. I know it can be embarrassing especially if you’re not close but it’s a normal part of life and there’s nothing to be ashamed of. The unfortunate part is we end up blaming men for not knowing about these things but in the end it’s the woman in our lives who are the ones sheltering them from this

[@Angle86]

When my papa says InshaAllah it always means yes😊

[@silver-pearl]

OMG. Every answer just brought so much respect for you! I love you for doing this, I agree with ALL of your answers! JAZAKALLAH U KHAIR

[@chanceusealeena7952]

I will also gonna marry a foreigner , but my parents are soooooooooooo strict you know being From Arab tribe I want to travel in whole of world plz pray for me who is reading this comment That I get marry to the man in my mind and went on a world tour with him plzzzzz

[@aiuchiha111]

INSHALLAH! Pray for me too please

[@chanceusealeena7952]

@@aiuchiha111 Ok I will, hope we both bcm happy

[@InshasChoice]

Ameen ameen

[@raheenkabir8608]

Ameen . Pray for me too

[@hodabeingextra8071]

Ameen sister❤️❤️

[@Zahra.Siddiqui]

Her eyes are gorgeous 💙

[@aaminaas3051]

Mashallah

[@alaelkambari8006]

I am very proud of you!! You are going to be a beautiful and supportive mother for your daughter or son

[@norahn]

Love this video and I totally agree with the answer regarding periods !! I hate how many communities treat it as such a taboo thing - literally mentioning the fact that you are on your period can help so much within a family/relationship because females do experience PMS (which causes mood changes and pain) and that can offer an explanation as to why the girl feels/acts the way she does!! Allah created our bodies perfectly and there is no need to attach shame to it - period.

[@siahabib4479]

Yeah absolutely, most people think its a taboo especially our brown parent, and mind u not even girl boys too should know about this because of the future

[@sifag9386]

I feel u! I put my hair in a bun EVERY single day! And with the hijab too..Huge fan!! Thank you for u videos ❤❤

[@benishfatima1730]

The cat moment in the beginning of the video......awww I love her❤❤

[@zaynab.a]

thanks for this video! i’m finally early! love u guys so much and hope to see more amazing things from u from the future! keep up with the positive energy and remember to stay safe! lyyyy💓✨🧸

[@pzl3637]

For hair, it really helps to use the right sh shampoos/moisturizers, don’t over wash your hair, also the materials your under-cap and hijab (whatever touches your hair) really matters, try to avoid cotton. Silky smooth and breathable is best.

[@shahooduae]

14:24 Exactlyy! Everyone have to know this! I've heard one story about a women who unfairly got divorce just because her husband did not see her bleed on the wedding night, as he accused her for not being a virgin and had past intercourse...even her family disown her for this, that's really frustrating. قال الله تعالى: {إِنَّ الَّذِينَ يَرْمُونَ الْمُحْصَنَاتِ الْغَافِلَاتِ الْمُؤْمِنَاتِ لُعِنُوا فِي الدُّنْيَا وَالْآخِرَةِ وَلَهُمْ عَذَابٌ عَظِيمٌ} النور-23. He must get lashed 80 times for that false and unseen accusation btw..

[@arabianprinceflyeaglesfly1700]

@Sassy Queen all men don’t sleep around though a lot wait until marriage

[@arabianprinceflyeaglesfly1700]

There’s really no way to tell if she’s a virgin or not

[@BasedYeeter42]

@Sassy Queen Two wrongs don’t make a right

[@nabilanaz7077]

Islam never told us to judge a person on their past because Allah is the modt forgiving and people can change besides what about those eho marry widows or divorced women? They are also not virgins idk why its a big issue people really be living life according to culture and not islam

[@arabianprinceflyeaglesfly1700]

@@nabilanaz7077 everybody has their preferences

[@yahsofi]

Should’ve watched this before married... now i have 3 year old kid. Good job Jasmine ❤️

[@קרןבר-ת6ט]

You are great!! Keep on doing that type of q&a . It's so important!!

[@nanatalks4439]

I love your channel....every female needs to watch this! This is amazing filled with hot topics that speaks for most females.

[@lydialove7702]

About the hair and the hijab. Girls, you absolutely need to stop doing bund while putting your hijab and after removing it. Like Jasmine said it pull your hair and doesn’t allow your scalp to breathe = hair loss. SO, I advise you to BRAID your hair gently without squeezing too much. Not only does it protect your hair, but it also make it smoother after a few hours, it also prevent splits. I recommend you very much doing braids.

[@user-wm6lm5zm2v]

For hair loss what worked for me are ayurvedic powders. I really noticed a difference after a few weeks and it's not expensive! I use them as a hair mask once a week, put a showercap on and wait for 1 hour at least. It's also possible to add essential oils that boost hair growth (patch test first!) Other than that castor oil+mustard oil work well too 💖

[@maryamebrahimi1384]

she should start doing podcast listening to her is sooo peaceful :)

[@shahbushra3965]

U r so so good... like ur positive mentality... Answering questions like that easy way...

[@KA-ov6yl]

I don’t have a big sister but watching this felt like I did 😩 thank you so much 💓

[@lifewithsulmy7504]

I'm a Latina and not religious but here I am anyway 😁 I've always believed that these topics should be discussed to make sure people are educated and tolerant.

[@reyhantimmons-cetin6860]

Selamın Aleyküm sis 🌸 Thank you for addressing these types of subjects - they really shouldn’t be taboo in this day and age but I can’t stress enough that it’s cultural practices and has no place in Islam SubhanAllah I’m raising a son and 2 daughters MaşaAllah - my son is 9 and he already knows of periods. I’m English so these topics weren’t really taboo here but my husband is Turkish and these topics were unspoken of in his culture. He is amazing and these kinds of things don’t bother him in the slightest (as they shouldn’t) but he did wish that his parents had educated him when he was younger instead of being left to figure things out later in life - and he’s already said himself that our kids questions will be answered Education starts at home!!! And another side note although zina is indisputably Haram if Allah SWT has concealed your sins then no one has the right to ask and you shouldn’t tell your sins to the world. The hymen test, bleeding test has NO PLACE IN ISLAM!

[@jerseygirl9402]

This is the best video ever. Thank you for these positive affirmations, Jasmine. You're so cool!

[@baharcoskun3483]

Its the “ yo im on my period “ for me😭 love you jasmine

[@codename495]

Right?

[@aminaahmed8332]

bruh i love your guys channel so much! I used to watch other KZbin couples I couldn't even relate to but now I finally get to see a better example!

[@Fay3-]

I’m sorry but how are you shy to tell your husband you’re on your period? It’s literally something natural that happens to all women and there’s no shame in it, and if you can’t even speak to your other half about it then what even is your marriage? You should be able to talk about ANYTHING with your partner. How would you talk about it with your children if you can’t even talk to your husband about it.

[@missdalina608]

Both of my parents are like « inchallah » so they don’t say « no » and i can’t argue about it ALL THE TIIIIME 😭😂