The DECAY of Ned Fulmer and the Toxic “Alpha Male”: DISTURBING New Lies… Try Guys

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Ned Fulmer from The Try Guys has exposed a new version of the toxic alpha male that has gone undetected. With the Ned Fulmer cheating scandal and more lies, it exposed more about the Try Guy wife guy then ever thought possible. There are now more lies, manipulation, coverup and more, leading to the downfall of the Try Guys as we know it is alarming. We need to talk about the manipulation and power abuse. Something doesn’t sit right in this web of lies and deflection…
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*Another* doc just 2 days apart!? And dropping new merch just 1 day before my birthday!? What did I do to deserve this?

[@EepyBnnuy]

Love all the nicknames you gave to Fight and Flight 😂

[@KynrieFairy]

The lack of eye contact doesn't seem like a power move, it feels like your scared. If a guy can't look me in the eye, I feel like he's shy or nervous. Eye contact is intimidating

[@skylerp84]

Depends on the culture.

[@DanielleStarry]

Or they’re not making eye contact because you’re beneath them. My lack of eye contact is out of fear, but that’s not the case for other people.

[@KynrieFairy]

@@DanielleStarry That's never the vibe I'm getting tbh so even if that's their intention. You can tell it was this guys intention in the video, but really he's easy to read and giving off the vibe of someone who's too nervous to look at her cause it might make it hard to hold up his fake bravado if he has a moment of real connection with her

[@DanielleStarry]

@@KynrieFairy either way, he’s scared, or a loser.

[@PassionPno]

Austistic people can’t look people in the eye.

[@ladychelseatheundead]

"We don't ask a lot from women. We ask you to be compliant." That's like me saying, "I'm not asking for a lot. Just one thing. And that's everything."

[@hypatiakovalevskayasklodow9195]

right!

[@Lunar_Butterfly]

We don’t ask for much we just want you to do everything we say! That’s it!

[@Redpanda99998]

Exactly what I thought as well like we only ask for you to do everything I want

[@Eli-sg5to]

RIGHT LIKE THERES A LOT TO UNPACK THERE

[@getgaymin]

mad Urusula "I'm not asking much! just a trifle, really! you'll hardly even miss it... what I want is... YOUR VOICE." vibes@@Lunar_Butterfly

[@amandam9879]

I find it interesting that he clarifies that a your girlfriend is “your MAIN woman”…. And then proceeds to accuse her of cheating if she has social media accounts…. That just reeks of someone who is cheating themselves and then projecting those tendencies onto their partner.

[@shaywilliams9223]

THIS! 💯

[@Galanthos]

This isn't even a subtext or slip-up thing. These people will literally defend Men cheating due to BS reasons like "Men don't form attachments" or "A woman is devalued by experience, but a man with experience increases in value" or some other dumb stuff.

[@aznfattass]

Interestingly enough, those same people really don't see it that way. Which I find crazy. How can you believe so hard that it is a fact and never wrong???!

[@Alinda1308]

​@@aznfattassBecause deep down they are too insicure to accept they can be wrong (as anybody else)

[@CrayonMemories]

I noticed that too!!! Im so glad you brought it up!

[@carmaljohnson4263]

I’m sorry her calling them everything BUT “fresh and fit” is soothing and hilarious 😆

[@kateshaw8334]

the way she came up with SO MANY alternatives

[@Bentbrokentheory]

Lmao this

[@Beach_flower]

It really gives me absolute life

[@khh7231]

i was waiting for her to call them chip&dale or dumb&dumber. or maybe tweedledee&tweedledum

[@courtneydallas4882]

Yes!!! 😂

[@vennado9647]

Buddy really said women’s worth comes from her appearance then proceeded to say women shouldn’t show off their appearance online… Where does he meet women? The barber shop?!

[@shotaaizawaslay]

Plus he shows off his own body all the time but I guess it's okay for him to show off his big muscles but not for a woman?? Like ain't he advertising himself?🤔

[@castrinecubique983]

Maybe he loves guys and can't admit that to himself. The guy is so full of cognitive dissonance that it's hard to know what exactly his problem is.

[@lasskinn474]

at the strip club, probably. think about it.

[@s_rants1642]

​@@lasskinn474i doubt it bc she'd be making bank and "advertising herself" for work, he'd try to make her quit

[@Ambivalent845]

also, it's always dudes in a t-shirt and jeans/shorts who talk about how women look... bro put effort to YOUR appearance before you talk shit about anyone else.

[@IndigoPhoenix21]

You know what is always funny about Liver and Onions? Anytime someone challenges them, they immediately have to out yell the other people, as if being loud is an argument. Folks like Kibbles and Bits are so desperate to prove their "alpha male" status that they will readily don clown makeup in attempts to embarrass other people. As sad as it is hilarious lol.

[@nnn9122]

Kibbles and Bits 😂

[@Alberto-wu1mj]

They act like these women are being too emotional when all of their arguments are emotional.

[@Rasafrag]

Ever hear of a 'debate' tactic known as a Gish Gallop? Ben 'If I wish upon a star, I'll be a real boy' Shapiro practically breathes it. All it is is talking loud and fast over the opposition, frequently changing the subject until the opposition gets exhausted and frustrated. Fool-Of and A-Took are less graceful about it than Ben 'My Wife, the Doctor, says the female orgasm doesn't exist in marriage' Shapiro but both sides use it against their perceived inferiors. Frog Butt and Swamp Ass use it against younger women and Ben 'Step on me, AOC' Shapiro uses it on off-the-cuff college freshmen.

[@tracybeeeee]

I choked on my tea 😂😭😂

[@sodaplop]

Slim n' Shady over there really think if they scream loud enough, it's gonna trump their opponent's argument, I canNOT---

[@carmenguzman669]

I hate the concept of being appalled that a woman is on instagram when we know damn well that they found her on there. It’s like getting mad a Librarian cuz she likes to read. So stupid

[@bjduke2271]

Agree 💯💥

[@anaionescu8913]

As someone on Twitter said once "don't go for a bad bitch if you can't handle a bad bitch"

[@maybemablemaples2144]

@@anaionescu8913 if you can't stand her heat get tf outta the kitchen. Simple as.

[@Alberto-wu1mj]

My guess is these fab and fit would claim if their girlfriend wanted them to stop using instagram, fab and fit would act like the girlfriend is controlling.

[@spectre9340]

Yeah ikr 😂

[@CC-tc1yi]

It’s the fact that whenever the women turn it around on them “what’s so special about you then?” They have absolutely nothing to say

[@Ambivalent845]

"i never claimed i was 😤" "neither did i, so either you are hearing voices, or you can answer your own damn question"

[@AriTheWarrior999]

GORGEOUS.

[@kaykarahalis829]

Guys be like: YOU MUST VE SUBMISSIVE AND OBEY ME! Women be like: why?! You’ve literally given us NOTHING to submit to! Guys: 😒😒😒

[@MrLadyMaroles]

These guys make me really wonder if they even actually like women… like, I can’t imagine openly hating on someone so much and then try and give advice on how to get that very thing I hate.

[@boogiebear3095]

Agreed

[@zaylinstar8883]

I am only left with the question of, what’s the drive and passion for pursuing something unwanted, CLEARLY INTOLERABLE…for a weird self serving agenda that doesn’t mean anything? Like… just pick up a hobby? I got divorced LAST YEAR, and I still don’t hate men. I picked up digital art, and music anything to ensure I don’t EVER end up so ANGRY like those individuals…

[@lizzmae4560]

They LOVE women. They can’t get them. It’s like those that hate on designer brands most of the time can’t afford it. No woman would ever give those losers attention.

[@trinketeerrine6674]

@@lizzmae4560 They love having s*ex with women, but they don't love nor respect, women.

[@phaedrathenerd9721]

Truly. Imaging being a girl he likes (the horror) and trying to get her to like him after all this

[@mutsuichiko4823]

I've noticed that they're most angry at women out of their league. It annoys them that Instagram models, bloggers and independent women are not interested in them because they have nothing they can offer them in return. You can only give her support and show that you are proud of her. The problem is that these "gentlemen" do not want to be a support and partner. They want to be on a pedestal and say "if it wasn't me, you would have nothing". Note that their advice does not refer to how to attract resourceful women who can take care of themselves. This advice applies to women with low self-esteem from poor backgrounds. You cannot impress the rich with abundance, but those who have experienced poverty are easy to impress. Not all poor people are like that, but if all antelopes were strong and healthy, the lions would starve to death. Do I call them predators? Yes. Do I think they are dangerous? Yes. Should we destroy these "gentlemen" self-esteem and undermine the importance of their successes? Abso-f-ing-lutely

[@rosydemon2640]

👏🏻💯👏🏻

[@GargeBarge]

Bullying:😒 Bullying misogynists: ☺️

[@rosydemon2640]

@@GargeBarge 🤣🤣🤣

[@digitaldorothy]

The first time you talked about Tweedle Dee and Tweedle Dum I was so fired up but your names for them kept me laughing. You’re such a talented creator and genuine human. You deserve it all, Swoop! ❤🎉

[@DawnDiggetyNoDoubt]

I know she is funny, smart, beautiful AND a hard worker!! I left this comment earlier...the whole swooping package!!!

[@battle_beanz]

My favorite one is now slim and thick

[@digitaldorothy]

@@battle_beanz I can’t choose 🤷🏻‍♀️ 🤣 there’s so many gems

[@melissahourihan2344]

She missed a good one tho Fresh n Fart But I’m literally 5 yo so…maybe it’s not as funny to ppl with a decent sense of humor as it is for me lol

[@EepyBnnuy]

Fight and Flight’s nicknames were gold lol

[@Shadowsandflowers]

I did my senior capstone thesis for college on the effects of the sexualization of the female body on breastfeeding. While doing my research I came upon the term benevolent sexism. It’s where women are put on a pedestal as pure and virtuous. This is still harmful though because it puts women in a protected bubble and views them as weak. It’s another way of limiting women, while appearing to respect them. Ned represents this aspect of sexism while the manosphere represents traditional sexism. Both are harmful.

[@searipple91]

That checks out. I also observed this being a tendency amongst some close men relatives. While in their early years they seem to uphold women as these fictional saint characters on pedestals, looking through rose colored glasses, then as they age and become a little bit more jaded, cynic, disenamored they won't shy away from flat out mysoginism. The bottom line is this kind of people really struggle to live in reality and might never come to the realization the human mind is what we all have in common, makes us all equal and feel less alone. It's frankly pretty sad. The way they don't really listen and can't really see.

[@allysonbeaulieu7351]

it feels like the difference between a mommas boy and a child of divorce 💀

[@MissCaraMint]

It’s true. The best men just treat women as other humans. That’s it. I’m lucky my dad was one of those.

[@SA-dq7sr]

Benevolent sexism and hostile sexism are positively correlated. Men who view women who are 'pure and virtuous' as valuable will simultaneously view women who don't fit these standards as less than.

[@getgaymin]

please tell me you quoted a Victorian novel at one point

[@annadaunting]

I feel like if a group of women did this publicly to men they would gain threats and get banned ASAP. That just proves the point. Thank you for another great doc.

[@AirConditioner402]

Some female comedians make clips making fun of these alpha male podcasts and they get hate on those. Imagine how much more they'd get if they went ALL in on those? lmaooooo the hypocrisy is REAL

[@Vixtuoso]

No, here you are wrong. There are facebook sites that are only for women where they gossip and warn each others about men, with pictures and full name and address. There are plenty of sites like this too.

[@aleishataylor973]

I love my husband and have spent 10 years with him because he just treats me like a person, he’s just a normal dude who treats me and our daughter normally. He’s a true “alpha” because alphas are actually quite nurturing 😂

[@zaylinstar8883]

Lol aww man my comment literally sounds like time stamp 20:22 😂 I promise I’m not romanticizing y’all lol I just get gushy about seeing happy people in general especially in these times when a lot of pessimistic or low emotions are swirling

[@trinketeerrine6674]

It's funny because the "alphas" of a wolf pack are actually the parents, the rest are their cubs, so it would make sense for an "alpha" to be nurturing !

[@maybemablemaples2144]

@@trinketeerrine6674 sshh don't tell the manosphere that the scientist himself debunked his own study. They hate when facts prove their feelings wrong.

[@Saphia_]

@@maybemablemaples2144 In a sense, these "alpha males" are right. They, like the wolves the initial flawed study was based on, are in captivity. Caged by their own inability to feel and show vulnerability and emotions other than anger and in the toxic environment they are creating around themselves.

[@kristien2010]

Exactly. I've been with mine for 10 years because yeah he treats me as an equal. Never wanted me to be submissive to him because he didn't wanna "own" me.

[@Bubblies005]

I pointed out F&F’s fallacies to an “alpha male” I dated briefly. He and I had a great conversation and I told him to start seeking relationship advice from people in healthy relationships.

[@KynrieFairy]

It's funny how he calls people triggered so much yet his face and everything he says sounds like someone who is in a constant state of triggered. He's so angry with every word like he's been scorned by every women he's ever been interested in

[@KynrieFairy]

@Last Chance lol I thought he was angry from a lifetime of being rejected and not realizing women aren't the problem, he is but maybe your right. For all we know, he was always an angry person and that's why girls reject him. Now I wonder which came first, lmao the rejection or the anger

[@marynewton6003]

IKR He has such bad vibes and constantly projects ... most woman are good at reading vibes

[@bridgetcooney5085]

These attitudes are why I spent all of my early dating years militantly insisting on "going dutch" on dates, refusing offered drinks, and making sure I always had my own way there and back. I didn't think "ALL MEN" viewed every moment in a date as a transaction, but I knew enough men did, that I didn't want "owe" anyone anything. Didn't want to take the risk. It wasn't until my partner and I shared a bank account and funds, and rent that I stopped caring about who paid for what.

[@bridgetcooney5085]

I should say, I probably, and if I think about it definitely, made some well intentioned gentlemen uncomfortable. But I was too aware, as an Internet denizen, of the portion of men that thought of dating as a transaction. So I felt like I had to set expectations by paying equally. I probably lost out on a few people who saw gentlemenness as duty rather than a transaction. But it was worth it to me, to avoid someone who thought they could buy me. And that's something I had to think about as a "mid tier" woman. At least according to most of the guys that perpetuate this bs. Can't imagine what women who are both "top tier" and not famous enough to have bodyguards, have to go through.

[@meercatmanor9062]

When you called them Scoop and Poop I almost spit out my drink! 🤣

[@jennamarie2481]

Spot on. One note about Aba though, in the Slimy n Thick clips with the smart girl. The dude sitting next to her is Aba and he was smiling and looking at them bc they are dumb and she owned them. As she did. He wasn't not looking at her to not acknowledge her, he was looking at them saying "see"

[@silveralykos3128]

Exactly!! Please up vote this! Aba and Preach are very against F&F and call them out for the lame stuff they spew. Aba talks about this episode on his and Preach's channel and how he agrees with her.

[@sillyrockstar1984]

And he even shook his head in agreement with what she was saying

[@silviaflorio]

I was about to comment something like this. I think his blood was boiling whilst chip and chop laughed and tried to "translate" what that girl was saying.

[@Ivy94F]

Absolutely. He was smiling because he was showing FnF that she knew what she was talking about and was cosigning her answer. He is not a part of that mentality. Update this, sis!!

[@4everaJfreak]

Thank you for the context. I loved Aba and Preach and got worried when I saw Aba as a guest in this video.

[@roowyrm9576]

Your analysis is spot-on as always, but I find the clips of these men so frustrating. At 67 I've been a feminist all my adult life, and yet now, in the age of social media, these ugly and dangerous ideas are gaining traction, rather than disappearing! We need this new generation of younger women to step up and beat them at their own game - using social media to educate and inform, and counter the destructive narrative that these (poor excuses for) men keep peddling.

[@melissam597]

Some men will always have a complex. To me patriarchal views just scream of an inferiority complex. 🙄

[@dena81]

I put on this older TV channel for my father with dementia and what I've always noticed the older shows starring minorities (women, PoC) are so relatable to today and issues I go through as a 41 year old working woman of color. And this is after 50+ years. And yet the white male starring shows that I remember liking as a child bother me so much as an adult. Three's company to be specific is so misogynistic, homophonic, racist, etc and I feel it with every joke they give or how they make the blond the dummy who just knows nothing at all and the brunette is the troll no one wants... But she's smart! It's so frustrating to listen to.

[@spiralrose]

While I can see where you are going, it’s not a woman’s job to educate a man that a woman is actually equal to a man. We can’t convince them to love us or respect us… If they don’t want to, they won’t. What we need to do is educate young women about this, about this type of man and how poisonous he is and how to spot him and how to avoid him. We need to teach our girls not to put their value in men’s opinions, but to value themselves by themselves. Respectfully ma’am

[@roowyrm9576]

@@spiralrose I apologise, I didn't make it clear - just read through, and you're correct. I did mean to say that educating ourselves, women and girls, is even more essential now. But - also, women educating their boy children to be caring, open adults.

[@NotDopeSickJustDopeAsFuq]

Amen 🙏

[@dukebasti]

Slim and icky are probably one of the worst people I've heard their female guests really try to educate them but they are so closed off. Thanks so much for another bawmb doc swoop! Thank you!

[@greenolive9927]

Not true. Only some guests do and the 1s do don't get invited back. Also in 15 minutes in, so I don't know if swoop brought this up. The women had to agree to sleep with them in order to be invited on show.

[@Heather-wr2je]

Oh and they'll humiliate them into leaving too!! (Only "humiliating" them to their followers) They kick ANY woman out that doesn't agree with them and call them "crazy" and "combative". It's sick. Ren and Stempy need to be stopped

[@minenachos]

You know it's a man's world when you got ignorant, idiotic, illiterate, misogynistic, assholes with that big of a platform. And worse than that their audience will be running the world one day. Just as ignorant as they are.

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The fact swoop can make these amazing docs more than once a year surprises me. I love it!

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I understand the amount of time and work that goes into making these videos, and I appreciate the heck out of her work, but do you really think it takes so much time she can only produce a video once per year? Shane Dawson has lied to everyone!

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She works so hard for us 🥲❤️

[@DanielleStarry]

@@bonnieisms yes, she does. But she puts out a pretty average amount of commentary youtuber content

[@elainascott7496]

I got ridiculously lucky with my husband, I call him a unicorn. He's handsome, talented, funny and SO caring. He does the laundry for me since I have arthritis. He cleans, he cooks, and most importantly, he is loving and supportive and challenging. I was in a horrible relationship before I got together with him. It took me 9 months just to believe he really was who he was, lol.

[@kleinmu219]

I feel you. I know that I got lucky but Tate and his equivalents make me really really appreciate my husband.

[@a.h.9438]

It sickens me to see people profit off of others insecurities. It is not a fucking shame to love and nurture those around you.

[@jessierose9140]

The weirdest shit though is that I'm pretty sure they are profiting off of their own insecurities, they're just too stupid to realize it lmao that's why they never invite people on that they might lose an argument too and shout down and shut down anyone who can if they let one slip through the cracks

[@a.h.9438]

@@jessierose9140 an angle I hadn't considered! Thanks 💕

[@minenachos]

It's ironic to say that considering they're both very insecure but look who's making the doc profiting off their insecurities. I'm not hating I'm just pointing out the not so obvious

[@jessierose9140]

@@minenachos okayyy lol Swoop or anyone else wouldn't have the content to make a doc out of if they weren't already blasting their garbage all over the internet. It is just as important for a woman's perspective and opinion on this subject as is the men's, and since they never let a woman speak on their show its important someone speaks up for us and judging by the comments on this particular doc, most of the woman here appreciate Swoops take. And since making doc's is kinda her thing I think it's fair to profit off of this one since they are desperate to be seen anyways.

[@monagorgan7288]

a guy named Kramer in the 15th century was so upset and obsessed with a woman, he being a priest, that he wrote the Hammer of the Witches, that caused the death of tens of thousands of women and men, accused of witchcraft. Might be an ancestor of Mash and Potatoes

[@radschele1815]

Do you have any sources for this? Of you don't, please don't just write this here for fun. Witch trials were serious and Bad enough without any projection of the modern times within it. He was a Dominican monk, joined them in the age of 14 to 15. Without sources, your point seems weak.

[@fabia-]

​@@radschele1815you can just google "the hammer of the witches", it's true so yeah, you'll find a lot about it :)

[@TheHypnosBunny]

@@radschele1815 and yet you fail to provide sources that he was a Dominican monk...

[@RikoScouse]

"You have to protect her from herself." My man, you gotta protect yourself from my fist.

[@seshg2012]

Wow! This is such an interesting and well constructed take! Ned and F+F are two sides of the same patriarchy coin. F+F appeal to what patriarchy teaches men and Ned appeals to what patriarchy teaches woman.... well played, Swoop - well played

[@ripley4884]

"sexism wears a lab coat; misogyny goes on witch hunts." 16:17

[@amberanne_]

I’m honestly surprised that 2 African American men would be preaching that society should go back to how things were done 100 years ago 🤔 Swoop you are amazing as usual 💕

[@lifeasrini]

Yeah if we re-start treating women as less than human, it's a slippery slope to other races imho ... But they clearly don't think logically, just loudly 😖🤦

[@x.0.x.]

They're not African American

[@btb4053]

1 african american man

[@breadgirl9806]

Unfortunately, I do not. Idiots come in every shade. I wish we were exempt from the dumbassery, but no we get stuck with them too.

[@muuuune]

They only want that for women.

[@tinywhispers]

My grandmother, who was a devout Christian and very strict, had racy photos from back in the 1940s. She would punish you if you took the Lord's name in vain and wore conservative clothing but showing off your body when you're feeling yourself didn't just start yesterday. I'm sure there were people who were getting naked portraits back in the day might have want the attention. That doesn't mean they want to sleep with everyone who gives them that attention. What a mess.

[@harmc2301]

You should look into queen Catherine’s table. It was a table with a SHIT TON of naked people engraved on it. My teacher told us about this and it was made so long ago

[@GargeBarge]

That’s a really solid point at the end, I really like that

[@radschele1815]

They might want the attention, it they just want to feel good in their body. And praise might make you feel great. I don't see an issue with that. If the men want appraisal, cool, we a a society bed to work on that. Maybe they're jealous or envious, and I get that. But they may miss the whole thing where you get reprimanded that your body is naturally when you bend over and your stomach is having rolls.

[@luluwild13]

Oooh! I literally just sat down with snacks and the QUEEN of documentaries uploads! ❤️ So hyped for this, thank you so much for your hard work and dedication to each video you do Swoop 🙏

[@PettyUniversity]

Save me some snacks!!!

[@luluwild13]

@@PettyUniversity I'll keep the tea warm and the jellybeans fresh! ❤️

[@m_moos]

I’m so glad you made this video, Swoop! I constantly felt cringy for these guys…their words are so clearly misogynistic, manipulative, and one dimensional that my ears can’t stop blooding. I’m concerned with the mental health of their audience for real.

[@Amandabrown83]

Truth! Narcissistic as well!

[@daviddavid1093]

Sadly my cousins I live with are part of the "alpha male" community. They are 13 and always call me female when they are mad that I'm making a point. It always makes me uncomfortable because I'm ftm and I know they don't know, but I know they wouldn't stop even if I came out because they have told me they don't believe in trans people. Edit: just misspells fixed.

[@wingsablaze8386]

Damn dude I hope you get outta that situation soon, or your cousins get major help, actually both since they should get help before it's too late for them and you deserve better

[@Vixtuoso]

Trans people are not obligated to agree with. However, there IS a problem when they already are into the manosphere

[@sven_ology]

From one trans brother to another, I hope your situation has gotten better. And if it hasn't, then I hope they haven't dimmed your light. Sending good and supportive vibes your way. Happy Pride dude

[@brinagotsued]

That people pursue things that make everyone miserable and society worse is depressing. Thank you for the solid work you constantly do with these docs, I really appreciate it.

[@lindseyquinn_]

I love that Swoop can make videos on serious topics but still keep it lighthearted and crack jokes at times. I'm dying every time she says Fresh Prince of Nowhere 😂😂

[@aishx8065]

The floppy meat blowing in the wind GOT ME ROLLING

[@LunarChrome67]

I can't eat food when you talk about Frank and Beans because every time you change their names I laugh and almost spit my food out. And as always, your doc is on point. Love it.

[@curiouscomrade8680]

I can’t eat food either not because I laugh at them, but rather because those two are very repulsive and I end up losing my appetite.

[@samanthalabrada9272]

I always love the level of research and hard work you put into these docs. I really love that you addressed how wife guys and guys like Fiddle & Faddle are two sides of the same coin. Amazing doc as always!! 💙

[@figureskatingchick08]

Omg her calling the two butt heads different names the whole docs is killing me 😂😂 so good Lmao

[@jacyford2382]

Okay, but I laughed for 5 minutes straight when we first referred to them as ”Johnson and Johnson” because I was like oh yes Johnson and Johnson the cancer causing duo and it’s not stuck with me for ever when I see content about them 😂

[@Jasmine-wn9ek]

If you can’t maintain a healthy relationship with a partner, how are you in anyway qualified to give dating advice?! Send me a couple in their mid-80’s with no shits to give about stroking your ego and just tell it how it is, I want their opinions. They may be outdated but somehow I think they’ll be more up to date on societal trends and how to treat your partner than Rocky and Tiny-winkle over here 🙄

[@xxmvvi]

for some reason i’ve been getting a LOT of this topic recommended to me lately and as a single mom we usually get ragged on the most by this kind of little boy, and it’s been super therapeutic in a way for me. i’m not just a hunk tainted meat and i wouldn’t want to be with someone who is so shallow that they think they’ll find a woman who has never seen a penis in her life and has absolutely 0 baggage, so i’m happy we won’t have to cross paths in that aspect. just bothers me because *everyone* has baggage but what determines their character is how they chose to deal with it.

[@DJCPreston]

My favourite part of the Manosphere is their inability to provide successful examples of actual Alpha Males by their own definition. Instead always relying on some insta-famous guy seemingly peddling a course. If you do come up with celebrities who actually meet their definitions of an Alpha Male who is winning at life, you don’t get any of the sort of men that are actually looked up to, (Henry Caville, Jason Momoa, etc,) but end up with the slimey sort of weirdos and monsters most people shun. Jimmy Saville, usually fits their dark triad framed definitions perfectly, (his “public persona” especially,) but even their most charitable readings still give the likes of Hugh Hefner. I mean it’s obvious why they don’t use real examples, could you imagine anyone paying someone to help them become more like those sort of guys?

[@RedVelvetRabbit]

You make conversations like this easier to digest and process, with compassion and humor.

[@ciaociara]

Well said 👏🏻 also about them not looking at women while speaking makes them seem submissive lol it’s insane how they live in an echo chamber of yes men

[@Andrea-nom]

They look feeble and weak agreed.

[@scarleth4955]

the staff at my college had to have an after school meeting on incels and misogyny to learn the signs and inform themselves as most of them are older (

[@meltedsnowcaps]

Swoop talking more about these “alpha males”, Influencers, and their public downfall? I’ll get my marshmallows and my Petty hoodie 🔥

[@gangst3rb1tch]

This type of content makes me so sad and normally i skip this kind of videos. But you make it so light and i learned finally what a strawman argument is. I can finally call men out when they make this kind of arguments. So thank you so much

[@Vixtuoso]

Straw men has nothing to do with men. It’s a discussion tactics which is aiming to make false point of something that is not being said. I call people out all the time when they try being smart. And…as I tend to discuss a lot with women, I usually call out women for it.

[@pamsloan7421]

You uploaded this 40 minutes ago and already have 4.8 k views???? Very impressive! Also makes me feel a little better about myself since I thought I might be the only one who is still into the try guys scandal updates.

[@Vixtuoso]

It is the visual that are stunning here. Her looks, and the professionalism. What’s being said is not thaaat impressive! More women can easily do this “research” and earn a fortune.

[@amihomophobicifihatemyself8966]

It's amazing how some men complain about the "pandemic of single men," but when women complain about the ongoing pandemic of sexual assault that's done against them, it falls on deaf ears. It really shows the disconnect those men have with priorities, showing what importance they put on certain things. They just don't care about the disparity of issues that exist between the sexes, and even when sexual assault happens to other men (except when it happens from a gay man, but that's a conversation for another time.)

[@FocusedFighter777]

These dudes bring it upon themselves and cry about it. Women SHOULD stay single at all costs. Stay. Single. Live Free.

[@lillypharaoh5945]

Yeah but the mentions of a pandemic of angry single men is usually mentioned in reference to its danger towards women ie the incel culture not out of worry or prioritisation of men.

[@Vixtuoso]

Free from what?

[@owl.feathers]

I think it's hilarious that they call themselves "Fresh and Fit" when their ideology is expired and crusty

[@haxli1319]

You have perfect timing SWOOP, just when I am looking for something to watch while getting cozy in bed, you drop a new doc. Thank you

[@MeredithHagan]

My only objection is that you keep calling Never Forgive “Ned Flanders” when Ned Flanders would NEVER.

[@RachelDAdams]

Yeah, but just to be clear, Aba is their guest in this particular F&F show. He can't stand Fresh and Fit - you can look it up. He was actually nodding with her. On Aba and Preach's channel, he does focus on listening over looking. He does the same with the guys. The rest was SPOT ON. I never thought about the correlation between this kind of misogynistic outlook and Ned... Keep it up, Swoop! I'm so glad I found your channel!

[@moonwalkerangel7008]

I will say thank you Swoop, because the Film Theorists uploaded a video on Ned Fuller and the SNL skit and I was able to leave a comment on their video thanks to your video on the subject.

[@stanwalkerlover23]

I’ve been waiting for a new doc. Thank you, I am so happy and excited for this. I Love you so much and am glad that I found you randomly . You have changed my perspective and made me see things on a new direction such as manipulation , Abuse , SA , R . Also love the new lighting, its glowing ❤💙💜

[@Vi_Vi_1]

I didn't expect how triggering this episode would be--I've apparently dealt with more misogyny in my life than I realized until I started getting a bunch of stress and flashbacks watching this. Thank you for tearing their shit down, it helped me process it

[@ThatStrangeCanadian]

I relate to you! Knowing first hand just how dangerous and harmful these kinds of men and their ideologies are made my chest tight while watching this. Luckily, Swoop's calm demeanour, logical explanations, and sense of humour really helped me make it through the video, because I too was furious and frightened by their extremely misogynistic and harmful words, ideals, influence on other men, and mere existence. Remember that you are not alone, and that not all men are like this. There are many good apples out there, and, while we must remain wary and cautious for our own safety, things in this world are evolving and getting better, and we have many happy moments to come in our lives in which we'll have the joy of meeting many more good apples in the future. =)

[@Vi_Vi_1]

@@ThatStrangeCanadian thank you, and absolutely! I'm fortunate enough to know many good, kind men who show me through their actions that the quality ones exist and are just as disturbed by this stuff as I am, but man it's wild to realize how hard this can still hit. Sorry you also have that feeling but I hope we both continue to find more good people to fill our lives with!

[@ohayitsjiji]

I'm fighting off the flu atm and suddenly I don't feel so shitty 😂 Time to sip some soup and watch some Swoop!! 💙

[@PettyUniversity]

Omg I hope you feel better! I think I'm fighting off a cold or hay fever, so I'm sipping soup along with you!

[@kristiriley]

Here is something that I also think that was going on with Ned. First, I want to preface this by saying that I'm not a Try Guys fan, & I've never been into their videos. With that being said, about his "wife guy" persona. I agree 100% in the fact that he exploited his wife. He knew that the viewers, subscribers, & most importantly in my opinion, brands would absolutely love that. That squeaky clean family man, my wife is life image, that appeals & tugs at the heartstrings of many. & just like Swoop said, who wouldn't want a relationship like that? A woman most definitely would want a man like that in her life. Another thing though, that I think may have happened is, this is not Ned's first rodeo. I think he's tested the waters before & has had affairs. Whether it was on his wife previously or in other relationships, idk. I also think due to his notoriety, he felt untouchable. His ego got to him. But the main part of what I was thinking about, is the fact that his "wife guy trait" was in my opinion, a way to over compensate for the simple fact of his infidelities. He knew what he was doing with another woman/women, so he love bombed the hell out of his wife online, at any possible chance he could. No one would ever suspect a thing. He probably thought in his mind, that was justifying the acts. "Even though I may be cheating, I still love my wife. I show her that, by telling the whole world. See?" Those are just some of my thoughts. So with adding that little nugget of detail, plus all of the other things mentioned above, you have a recipe for a calculated, manipulative way to deceive everyone around you.

[@agwarddd]

A note that hasn’t quite got out with the rest of the story is that there was once a person who claimed to have met the Try Guys on a night out. Ned was drunk and behaving sexually with other women publicly and this person took note of it, bc of how it conflicted with Ned’s image, as the doting husband. They eventually up to Keith, the tall one of the guys, and asked if Ned was usually like this, where Keith reluctantly admitted that he was. I definitely think, based on their overall reactions, that Ned actually cheating was kind of a surprise to the guys, but they were aware of bits of his behaviour and knew that he was prone to this kind of sexually forward, even almost aggressive, behaviour with other women. I think it was easy to overlook this sexual flirting for a friend by turning on the blinkers and thinking “well, he’s just drunk and flirting”, until it was standing directly in their faces as a full blown affair with an employee of their company, bc this not only betrays his wife but their company under CA law. The suspicion and the doubt of how genuine he was was always there, but easier to ignore before it threatened EVERYTHING. And I don’t think that necessarily makes the other guys bad, just that there was a certain breaking point to all of it, where protecting a friend and what they’ve built together reaches an untenable point, bc he’s effectively putting everything from his marriage and kids to the company they have built completely at risk.

[@rainea91]

I swear you work so hard to give us all the content thank you so much swoop!!! Keep up the amazing work girl:)

[@kpax2066]

I just started using Lume this week. I went through menopause and had a heart attack in October. Due to the changing hormones, and the medicine I found my pit odor, and the odor of my inner thighs to be very unpleasant and persistent. Showers helped, but within a couple hours the smell was already starting to come back. I put Lume on yesterday, and so far I'm odor free! I think I'm sold!

[@roriemarie2968]

I bought it too😊

[@hayleywest4942]

Swoop: “If you think this way we don’t want you!” YES MAAM. YES MAAM. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@katesclabassi3857]

My ex used to refuse to make eye contact with me. Not like weird power move, but it definitely made it easier for him to lie to me.

[@Jixa15]

Am I the only one who laughs at the term Alpha male because they learned about ABO dynamics through bad fanfiction?

[@suzykennedy3559]

I wish there were more of you! I love your docs and your voice is so soothing for me. I’m researching a bunch of docs just to get my fix :)

[@Listening_Books12345]

Honestly a couple of the best KZbinrs who discuss this topic from perspectives that are somewhat sympathetic to the very real crisis, I guess, of men feeling extra lonely and isolated lately because that is a phenomenon that is happening: FD Signifier is a black cis man who discusses the manosphere in depth, and Contrapoints, a white trans woman who, pretty bravely imo, made several videos about toxic masculinity while she was mid-transition on KZbin. Contrapoints even made it into the mainstream media for the surprising success she was having in deprogramming some of the angry manosphere dudes who would tune in to hate-watch and found unexpected sympathy and understanding while being told they weren't shit.

[@yourfavoritetransguy6443]

your names for f+f are so funny… you do this all so well, talking about serious topics but not making us super depressed while doing so lol you have such good energy, i’ve been watching you for around a month now and i love every video!!!!

[@kaso1605]

when me and my bf come home from a long day of work sometimes the last thing on our mind is "doing it" both him and myself does be so exhausted we prefer to just cuddle up on the bed and watch movies. and we dont have kids or draining responsibilities as yet. so could you imagine coming home from work taking care of the house and kids and then your man comes demanding sex..... nothing would make me more dry LMFAO🤣🤣🤣

[@TannenBaumFreak]

Me, a German, having a Female Leader for 13 years ... not understanding what those INCELS want .. .

[@Witchiddy]

I just got sick with Covid and I'm simultaneously exhausted and dealing with insomnia, so as I try to ensure that I am eating, I'm so happy to be able to listen to Swoop to keep me entertained.

[@Burscutum]

That clip where these dumb little boys are like "everything is the same, just one has more money" gets me every time. They really thought they proved how money hungry women are, completely disregarding the fact that she was going to list other qualities she cared about MORE than money. No one has ever said that they don't want someone who can provide a comfortable lifestyle, but a lot of women [people in general, but they're talking about ladies specifically] care more for values, personalities and goals than they do money. Like I'm sure a ton of people would rather live with someone they find fun and interesting while still having to work hard over being paid to live with these chucklenuts. Obviously, some people are going to do it- but thats THEIR specific values, not any group or classification as a whole. It just makes me laugh that they think they're so big brain, but they're not fooling anyone with an IQ over 3

[@MissCaraMint]

Everything is the the same except for their careers which can have a large impact on how the relationship works out. Doctors can work a lot, and a lot of odd hours too. They might have a passion for helping people and making sure people are healthy . A teacher presumably has a strong passion for children and education. These are both good things, but ultimately have different values as priorities. They inherently aren’t the same.

[@leylacontentcreator]

The names just kept coming🤣 absolutely killed me. Great video Swoop!

[@ohwildesoul]

"Just, like I don't know why, because they got like idk a dangly piece of meat swinging around down there that just HAS to land in a sandwich or they'll. just. DIIIE." 😂 it's amazing how Swoop can perfectly balance the insanely well researched information and her quick witted zingers. Love these docs, keep on rockin' it, Swoop!

[@Seldarius]

What’s hilarious is that these dudes „stacked the cards in their favour“ and still came out looking pathetic. It must be a special skill. 😂

[@apocalypse_frau]

Looking forward to Thursday’s merch drop (wearing my military green hoodie from last year rn; it’s a perennial fave), and I’ll be using your links to pick up stocking stuffers. Love and appreciate you, @SWOOP ❤!

[@theclaypixie]

The multitude of duo names you dropped in this vid for Dumb and Dumber had me ROLLING. Also the final statement at the end was *chefs kiss*, SO well said. Awesome video!

[@allieisms]

I actually had no idea that Timon and pumba were self described incels, but it totally makes sense

[@j4m3s1]

The amount of alt. names you came up with for them in JUST 55 mins deserves an award!!!

[@happytobeliving7199]

Aba wasn’t looking at her cuz he knew she was making them look dumb. He actually understood and agreed with what she was saying.

[@ruthcooper783]

I was hoping someone stood up for Aba!! This man is not like the other two!!!!!

[@heybea891]

Yeah unfortunately I think Swoops team might not have watched any of Aba and Preach’s channel lol! I know if they have they would have known he doesn’t make eye contact really with any of them. He don’t mind making eye contact with women lol! He was being quite and withdrawn cuz that’s kinda just him, especially since he does NOT align himself with dumb and dumber. Aba could shred those guy’s arguments in his sleep. But he knows some people would be a waste of time to argue with. He’s not going to waste his energy on those two clowns!!

[@Csnacks]

I was looking for this comment cuz aba doesn't go along w F&F outlook. He is smiling because the girls view is correct. Just wish he would of stood up a little more for the girls when they were being dicks.

[@kayliemcintosh7841]

You are the reason I’ve had the word soliloquy stuck in my head for all these weeks! It’s been driving me nuts! No one I know uses the word soliloquy!!!!! I mean, I’ve been educated but I still can’t spell it. It’s like an ear worm that my brain doesn’t want to give up.

[@Agetroh]

No woman will be special to these men if they only value sex and compliance in women. The human element, individuality that you won’t see unless you get to know someone on a deeper level is what makes all of us special.

[@sjbloop]

The expert level of petty of never calling them by their chosen nicknames while simultaneously coming up with better nicknames, is just chef's kiss. I keep having to pause to stop laighing.

[@lord_beerme_strength]

Does Fit's mama know where he's at? I can vividly picture her bursting into the room during a podcast one day and hauling him off by the ear. He's got his neck all turtled down into his body, fear and submission in his eyes. His guests hearing him plead for forgiveness all the way down the hall and out the door. We all know he's that guy.

[@Bigfreakinsword]

Lmaooo that's such a funny visual, Momma getting that flip flop ready and everything.

[@Pinkglassfish]

Not only am I always excited to see a Swoop doc but also so ready for the references she makes all me the way

[@chemistkatie]

Yes this is exactly what I needed this evening! Hunkering down in a storm with coffee and a swoop doc!

[@josephbranson5557]

I just discovered this channel while scrolling for something to listen to at work, and today is my birthday! I'm going to consider discovering this channel to be my birthday gift from the universe! I love your videos! Well done! I look forward to seeing more!

[@Andrea-nom]

This was satisfying. Thank you. He has to qualify all of his statements. Feeble minded. No one wants them and they’re bitter.

[@beatsheet]

You calling bacon and eggs, Tom and jerry, steak and potatoes multiple names and not by their actual names which now I actually can't think of LOLOL is amazing

[@kpax2066]

Hot DAMN! I just finished cooking chicken and noodles and mashed potatoes, just in time to sit down and see this new video from My Favorite Documentary Queen......SWOOP! Yay! I've really enjoyed the unravelling of this Ned Fulmer of the try guys. I'm praying for his wife. God bless her. Thank you, Swoop!

[@meghannpalmer7417]

Although this video is interesting and informative, it’s also worth watching for the various nicknames given to Fresh and Fit. I laughed out loud at a few 😂

[@WhoKilledLenny]

I am on cold meds and I thought you typed Perch and Fish. Swoop's in my head. 🤣

[@courtneythames5718]

Thank you swoop for another in depth doc! Its much appreciated!!

[@silver_crone]

I cackled with every new name for pin and bubble there. Well done, love the doc, love the production, love the intelligence behind it!

[@Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh_hhh]

Bruh, I did not know Swoop was ripped. The biceps during the sponsor took me by surprise 😂

[@geoffreydevereaux3272]

This might sound extreme, but honestly the manosphere stuff should be considered straight up hate speech. As a DFV Specialist I deal with the outcomes of the abuse perpetrated and normalised by these wanks on a daily basis.

[@back2good474]

It would be fun to see you get beavis and butthead all the way together on their own podcast ❤ As always Swoop you are amazing !!

[@izzy2445]

Honestly you're a star for listening to tweedledum and tweedledee to such an extent that you can make an informative video on them, I cringed and had to skip over a lot of the clips you put of them in this video. A hero we don't deserve!

[@RoseJacqueline426]

I wish this could have included the hilarious clips of them getting called out and read to filth on other podcasters 😂 I love the one where the duo ended their interview with Bert and he embarrassed himself because I don't think he had Ernie with his gangly ass so his confidence was diminished 😂

[@ashHarmony]

Bill and ted, beavis and butthead. Rogers and Hamerstein, Ren and stimpy, mac and cheese (and so many more).... these nicknames had me 😂😂😂😂😂. I recently found your channel and I am loving it!! Thank you👏👏👏

[@Alatoimiedlagrubaski]

This guy literally used "your main chick" and "she's cheating" in one sentence 😅

[@lilys7431]

The continued pairing of words throughout this is absolutely comedic nirvana. 😂😂😂😂