Phil In The Blanks Podcast - Ep 165 - Living By Design pt. 4

How To Adapt To The New Rules Of Life: Living By Design, Part 4 - ‘Phil In The Blanks’ Podcast
If you’ve been doing everything “by the book” and your life still isn’t where you want it to be, you need to tune in to this week’s Phil in the Blanks podcast. Dr. Phil teaches you how the world really works -- not how you wish it worked, not how it should work -- but how it really works. Become empowered to be a leader of your life and protect yourself and those you love.
“Life is a game, and you will either be a player or be the one played,” explains Dr. Phil. “Yesterday’s rules and expectations about relationships, emotions, and interacting just simply don’t apply anymore, not like they used to … and those who figure that out and adapt to the current world will have an incredible edge.”

[@Boogie76600]

Good video, wish I would have heard this decades ago.

[@mariamassey5468]

❤ Dr Phil...wish he was my father. Wise life advice from an extraordinary wordly man🐼

[@joematters1982]

Do not wish for anybody else to be your father or you would not be on here growing with the rest of us !!! Plus you father is the reason your here ! Show mercy

[@florenbaron7111]

I feel the same. I had a horrible dad.

[@jessmason2112]

❤️💯✌️ They need to teach these things in Highschool. From "Baiters to Narcissists."

[@florenbaron7111]

I love you Dr. Phil. You are a blessing to humanity.

[@sabianstringer2112]

AWARENESS IS AN EMPATH'S SUPERPOWER.

[@aao7858]

I love you Dr. Phil. This is one of my favorite episodes yet ❤. Baiter is a wonderful word. You helped me put everything together with this one word. It's now permanent in my vocabulary..

[@sheryllmoyer1194]

Thank you very much dr. Phil! This is valuable information to me too. I love your effort and compassion helping others see the light in our lives ☺️

[@Gchili]

You are a phenomenal story teller 🤯

[@ariesgravity3183]

Love ya Dr Phil 😘💖💖

[@lornag9608]

Thanks, Dr Phil -just brilliant!

[@HappilyIndian]

Usual internet, all the best advice with minimal views! Dr. Phil ❤ Thank you ❤ God bless ❤ HARE KRISHNA 🎉🙏👍🦚👌

[@righteousjustice7569]

I love you Dr. Phil. You are precious to me... I'm a little southern ... Can you tell ? I've ALWAYS connected with you ... I have a plethora of case studies for you... They all include me. Why Lord why ? ...

[@gloriaewing2873]

I have learned about the realities of life and about baiters. I only wish I had learned much earlier in life. Hopefully this will help others to really think about that?

[@SheriMorgan]

Thank you Dr.Phil! You and Dr.Wayne Dyer are the reason I’m still here .. Your heart & soul is magical for us that take full responsibility for our energy & thoughts… I had always thought it was my fault.. may be a few bad decisions on my part as I didn’t realize how much soul I lost.. thank you so much!! Love&light from California ❤

[@cherylhann7373]

Spot on Was taught How the World Should work ... Not hiw it actually does. Been played for 64 years

[@user-xd6vb8xv2n]

Great job Dr. Phil! You covered 4 of life's 5 basic needs. They are 1)freedom from fear, anxiety, and stress; 2) happiness; 3) control over what happens and; 4) a purpose in life. You did not mention the need to know/feel that others in your life "care" about you. The five basic needs in life are critical in shaping what happens to a person. They determine why a person behaves the way they do. You mention that and describe it in this podcast. I have two books on how these five basic needs affect learning in our schools. I would love to be a guest on your show sometime to discuss the importance of these needs with you. Also, these five basic needs also affect bullying behaviro in our schools and to some extent determine the role of shooters in the public setting.

[@lisamariehubbard5941]

Dr. Phil this is so much important information that I needed been listening to all your KZbin uploads and I’m grateful

[@fatoldsun22]

Dr.Phil.. Thank you i needed this. Im sorry that happened to you. Wonderful friend helped fix it. Please keep these videos up. Smh i cant understand evil ppl. God Bless you n your family.

[@RealLadi228]

Thank God for the HOLY SPIRIT 🙏🙏🙏

[@toshabeans]

Dr Phil, i find that analyzing my choices and influences in order to live a more authentic life can be quite painful. How can i make it easier for myself to face these hard things in order to change them? I find that i avoid doing "the work" because it feels excruciating sometimes. Thanks for real, grounded advice, so valuable to me ❤

[@erikawithee]

Thank you Dr Phil always amazing

[@pauldrew1130]

Thanks for sharing!!!

[@JoJo_GSD]

Brilliant 🙌 thank you so much ❤

[@LaToya54]

Wow! Great podcast!

[@lesliegaskill650]

Goodness I’m in this category!!

[@florenbaron7111]

You are a BAITER?

[@johnzeegler8641]

❤ this one. Your best video so far

[@Eire68]

Omg This got my attention. I wish I’d heard this sooner😊

[@florenbaron7111]

Dr. Phil, will you adopt me? I need a father and mother. I escaped a neglectful and abusive FLDS environment. Despite my struggles, I am successful, I have good values, etc. My sister and I have PTSD and we often think about how luckily we would be to have you as our father and have such a good mother. I need a mentor. I understand you are busy and you already help so many people. I am grateful to learn from your videos. I already applied the principles to my life.

[@ultimateformulations]

Excellent 👍

[@BeautifulOnes876]

Thank you, Dr. Phil. I have an observation that the only people who “don’t” like you are those who don’t like their own BS challenged by the intelligent, and worse, revealed to themselves. These types know they’re not good, they just audaciously don’t want anyone to point it out…not to them, nor anyone whom their fake reputation will be busted.

[@toniemcfadden296]

Good morning Dr Phil..

[@cherylhann7373]

Audit complete

[@tootrillmel]

damn that's cold

[@tammydavis595]

I actually am enjoying this... Thanks

[@theideaplace]

I think the phone glitch was an act of God because I had the same thing happen with a roommate years ago back when we had answering machines... she was in her room talking on the phone with her boyfriend and I was in my room and suddenly her call was playing over my answering machine so I could hear her conversation... and I was absolutely stunned to hear her bashing me and denigrating me... I'd never been anything but thoughtful and kind to her and here she was attacking me to him... It was a real wake up call... we moved apart soon after and I never talked to her again... I was so shocked. The answering machine had never done that before and never again... just something God wanted me to know I guess.

[@SUNAJOO11]

GO ! DR. PHIL HARD TASK , will do.🤔😐

[@sanamichael8563]

If my husband had listened to this video we wouldn’t be scammed and homeless.

[@sabianstringer2112]

If it Doesn't Seem Right Morally what They Do = RED FLAG STAY AWAY....RUN AWAY....

[@cherylhann7373]

Situationally Aware Yes very important as a single woman

[@darinsmith2458]

i like how you are talking about reality.. when i moved my environments my 4th step would change.. one environment is polite and courteous and another environment is pushy and demanding..

[@darinsmith2458]

i am pretty sure that every work environment and every clinical setting there were baiters..

[@darinsmith2458]

wow...that story about Aunt Bee.. wow

[@darinsmith2458]

wow.. your Accountant.. wow

[@darinsmith2458]

i think i have always known who were the evil 8.. instead of pushing them away i people-pleased.. just like Godfather "keep your friends close and your enemies closer"

[@darksoul479]

What's your problem Dr.Phil? You just completely left me hanging. What happened to Aunt Bee?

[@canyoudigit9369]

Everywhere their events go on with all kinds of humans.

[@malumejia8766]

That’s a lot of money! Oh God!

[@fionagrant2023]

Far out Dr Phil lve been played by the minister at church, my mother, my dad, my brother, ex husband 💔💔💔

[@cherylhann7373]

Yes always to benefit themselves All were reckless Removed myself from these people

[@canyoudigit9369]

❤

[@RealLadi228]

💯🙌

[@drcorastack9861]

It is extremely sad to hear about baiters I agree these people have huge grudges and disorders

[@florenbaron7111]

I was scammed in a similar way. It makes me extremely angry.

[@darksoul479]

That mugger trick asking what time is it will never work on me in a million years. Not going to happen. I don't wear a watch.

[@dariderfan]

Wow

[@nanaganapati]

👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

[@RealLadi228]

😭 B.A.I.T.E.R

[@Bianca-sw5id]

My Malignant Convert Narcissististic mom

[@joelaubriel1529]

👏😇🙌👍🤝☝️💯🦻

[@KoolT]

30:49 wow crook

[@brianmccann8572]

Sounds very much like a NARC personality Doc.

[@cherylhann7373]

Backstabber Abuser. Imposter. Taker. Exploiter. Reckless = BAITER

[@florenbaron7111]

Please tell me you put that BAITER in prison.

[@KoolT]

They smile in your face all the time they want to take your place. Backstabbers

[@patriciawagstaff6302]

What if it is your own adult child .? . Number 1. Number 3, number 5 Number 8. I started not to discuss my financial situation after my husband passed away 17 months ago. After 47 years of marriage. Dr. Phil. You should be he lping King Charles and his son's baiter mean wife m markle ! Thank you, Dr. Phil...