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SheraSeven

SheraSeven

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@SheRaSeven1
@SheRaSeven1 4 жыл бұрын
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@bubu2488
@bubu2488 4 жыл бұрын
SheRaSeven1 did you lose more weight?
@ashleynicole9423
@ashleynicole9423 4 жыл бұрын
Would you consider letting us submit questions for you to answer live if we submit a donation? I can’t always catch the lives.
@juliakowal399
@juliakowal399 4 жыл бұрын
man told me: If a woman wants a wealthy man, she will eventually find one, its all about choice, what shes looking for and what she accept
@rosambongo9151
@rosambongo9151 4 жыл бұрын
Ameeeeen
@thecatnextdoor12
@thecatnextdoor12 4 жыл бұрын
Must be a smart man, dusties usually say “you’ll never find anyone who would treat you better than me.”
@LosAngelesLaura
@LosAngelesLaura 4 жыл бұрын
The Cat Next Door ☠️😂☠️😂☠️
@juliakowal399
@juliakowal399 4 жыл бұрын
@@thecatnextdoor12he was an old friend of mine
@hmln3419
@hmln3419 4 жыл бұрын
@@thecatnextdoor12 omg yesss
@chanyt2364
@chanyt2364 4 жыл бұрын
Its a sign of high intelligence to be able to not need others company.
@thevixenxiii
@thevixenxiii 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely!
@kirakeynow
@kirakeynow 4 жыл бұрын
btw a lot of friends try to control and manipulate you to keep you stuck because they are afraid you will do better and they smell that you change. remember that
@SagRising19
@SagRising19 4 жыл бұрын
Very true! I have a "friend" that told me to keep my short haircuts instead of wearing my hair long..she was trying to manipulate
@elenanoelle5745
@elenanoelle5745 4 жыл бұрын
This is so sad yet true, unfortunately. I've had two "friends" try to convince me to not lose weight just because my weight loss would threaten them. And sure enough, when I slimmed down, their true colors started to show. Needless to say, I don't associate with those "friends" anymore.
@lunaloynaz-lopez2318
@lunaloynaz-lopez2318 7 ай бұрын
Cosigned x3. They start to become visibly physically scared when you start straying from where they want you to be (below them).
@itsmekayb327
@itsmekayb327 4 ай бұрын
So true!! Ive been in those situations many times in my 20’s . When i looked back, they were just jealous and tried to hook me with trouble and problem.
@ScorpionPrincess1989
@ScorpionPrincess1989 4 жыл бұрын
Looking at pick me friends with their bf/husband just motivates me even more to level up! Their behavior just sets them up for failure and they don’t see it and when you ask them what their goal is for the relationship is “to love and be loved” so if a man falls short financially, or his behavior isn’t in check they will forgive him repeatedly because he’s told her “he loves her” I’m done!
@thevixenxiii
@thevixenxiii 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, same! Done!!!
@babyc.3015
@babyc.3015 3 жыл бұрын
Is my friend a pickme of she buys her bf more expensive gifts than he buys her? Lol but he pays for their vacay (no bills etc.)?
@lailamuhammad6889
@lailamuhammad6889 Жыл бұрын
​@@babyc.3015 gifts for him should be cheap and not expensive such as a handwritten card or something under $15. He's supposed to be paying for everything anyway. If you buy him something expensive, you're basically using HIS money to buy HIM a gift. Being happy and comfortable should be enough, but Shera advises things like a handwritten card because it's very thoughtful and brings your point across about being grateful for him, etc. Also, she talks about how it can be bad if you buy an expensive gift and it's better than the gift he gave you, which is problematic. In conclusion, let him splurge and treat you very well by buying an expensive gift to impress YOU.💛
@kristenmoonrise
@kristenmoonrise 4 жыл бұрын
Shera is like a therapist - clients should only come when they are ready and prepared to do the work!
@LosAngelesLaura
@LosAngelesLaura 4 жыл бұрын
Absolutely!!!!!!! 🌸😂
@viciousscorpio22
@viciousscorpio22 4 жыл бұрын
Ain’t that the truth💞
@letitiam7985
@letitiam7985 4 жыл бұрын
So true
@celine7811231
@celine7811231 4 жыл бұрын
Just cut off my girl friend for 10 years... She’s not improving herself at all, even getting worse and I keep improving. It’s just happened naturally..We don’t speak the same language anymore🤷🏻‍♀️
@serenitysbubble2384
@serenitysbubble2384 4 жыл бұрын
Thinking of doing the same of a friend of 20 years
@celine7811231
@celine7811231 4 жыл бұрын
Miss. SANDS So true 😂😂😂
@realpristine
@realpristine 4 жыл бұрын
Amen to the level up from pick me friends👏🏾
@realpristine
@realpristine 4 жыл бұрын
Recovering PickMeiShah 2020 it’s a lost cause. Send her to shera at this point 🤷🏾‍♀️
@celine7811231
@celine7811231 4 жыл бұрын
Recovering PickMeiShah 2020 I’ve been trying to reach her out, but she kept ignoring me. So I feel like maybe she doesn’t wanna be my friend anymore. It’s not gonna work it out if only one side wanna maintain the friendship.
@LosAngelesLaura
@LosAngelesLaura 4 жыл бұрын
I haven’t had friends in years... 😂
@Theoracleprincess
@Theoracleprincess 4 жыл бұрын
Me either... and my life has made a positive 360. It would be nice though to have one friend that gets the level up mentality
@carolesteinberg7463
@carolesteinberg7463 4 жыл бұрын
😥
@nextlavalllc4255
@nextlavalllc4255 4 жыл бұрын
I would like some like minded energy friends too
@juliakowal399
@juliakowal399 4 жыл бұрын
Lol same, I cut everyone out
@narcisapantoja8387
@narcisapantoja8387 4 жыл бұрын
same
@leakufner6422
@leakufner6422 4 жыл бұрын
I have many pickmesha friends, but we don't judge each other. I don't tell them about my level up and we don't tslk about it. These are my oldest friends. If I meet new people though, I am very careful that they're not pickmeshas.
@islandgirlxx3465
@islandgirlxx3465 4 жыл бұрын
I'm on the same boat
@Auntiefeliciaofficial
@Auntiefeliciaofficial 4 жыл бұрын
I always send them to Shera; although I don't have pickmesha friends. I have pickmesha family but we don't associate. I send the ones who I think will listen straight to this channel.
@wherethewildflowersare
@wherethewildflowersare 4 жыл бұрын
I used to think this way, too. People will drag you down before you know it and causes more work in the end.
@Auntiefeliciaofficial
@Auntiefeliciaofficial 4 жыл бұрын
where the wildflowers are they sure will. You can’t keep the same friends. They effect you subconsciously and you stop your own growth
@empressaminata637
@empressaminata637 4 жыл бұрын
The envious one's are the worst, that energy around you. Love your look😍
@riagreen9294
@riagreen9294 4 жыл бұрын
Be friendly from a distance. 😂
@allartismental9319
@allartismental9319 4 жыл бұрын
SUPER FACTS!
@thevixenxiii
@thevixenxiii 3 жыл бұрын
Mood lol
@babyc.3015
@babyc.3015 3 жыл бұрын
Covid made me realize most of mt girlfriends PICKMEISHAS
@emandawatts06
@emandawatts06 4 жыл бұрын
It's so sad, my mother is a pickmeisha 😣 I've watched her date loser men growing up, and vowed to never fall down that rabbit hole.
@Evilkitty64
@Evilkitty64 4 жыл бұрын
😣, so sorry to hear
@emandawatts06
@emandawatts06 4 жыл бұрын
@@Evilkitty64 I learned from her mistakes
@Evilkitty64
@Evilkitty64 4 жыл бұрын
@@emandawatts06 I'm so glad for you making a change for the better.
@emandawatts06
@emandawatts06 4 жыл бұрын
@@Evilkitty64 Thanks
@Evilkitty64
@Evilkitty64 4 жыл бұрын
@Miss. SANDS ?? Huh 🙄
@icestarr1572
@icestarr1572 4 жыл бұрын
I agree... stop dating stingy men. "He stingy with the money be stingy with the honey." 🍯🍭🍯
@realpristine
@realpristine 4 жыл бұрын
Pickmesha’s don’t wanna level up because it requires too much work and forces them to come out of their comfort zone with dusties. Drop all pick me friends #respectfully
@xxmegababygirlxx
@xxmegababygirlxx 3 жыл бұрын
only been asking the universe this question and on sheras lives, and here you are😅😂😂😂 Thank you, I moved in with her tho so it’s a bit hard! Ughhhh😭
@TiktokTownhall
@TiktokTownhall Жыл бұрын
"Pick me" friends will sleep with your man.. I went to the club with a 'friend'. This guy bought me several drinks, walked us to my car and even helped me take my heels off (I wasnt actually interested but I enjoy having men fall at my feet). A week later, why my "friend" I was there with tell me, he's been at her house every night since that night....IDK if she was trying to hurt me or what but it backfired because he got her pregnant AND was lying about his age. He's 5 years younger than her LMAOO. No weapon formed against me, Sprinkle Sprinkle.... and my new provider man is in the cut where he will remain
@lunaloynaz-lopez2318
@lunaloynaz-lopez2318 7 ай бұрын
OMG 5 YEARS younger!?? NOOOO 🤮🤣
@alivanessa134
@alivanessa134 7 ай бұрын
Ooops. What’s her age ? 😂
@TiktokTownhall
@TiktokTownhall 7 ай бұрын
@@alivanessa134 she is 26, and he was 21
@alivanessa134
@alivanessa134 4 ай бұрын
@@TiktokTownhall Lord have mercy she had a child with a child 🤣
@megamaamatv9158
@megamaamatv9158 4 жыл бұрын
I love this woman for real! I study every word that comes out her mouth. My man cheated over a year ago... And guess what I got afterwards...A ring, ALL the account info. I'm talking investment accounts, bank account etc...he started a business and I own 40% on legal binding contract. don't lift a finger in this business btw...Im the beneficiary of the life insurance policy he placed on himself. I could go on and on.. If a chick called me talking about she sleeping with my man...I would thank her and give her a big hug, cause that's the green light for me to hit all the accounts up and bounce 😂😂😂😂 The moral is always be a few steps ahead of a man. When everything is good...make sure you are finessing and getting info from him that you can use later. When things are bad, pretend to be hurt and make him give you things that benefit you only. When he cheat, don't cry and ask why, smile cause you bout to get paid! This info changed my life as a woman. I don't have no feelings no more. Either you giving me what I want or you are completely ignored! Sprinkle sprinkle😘😊😚
@dearbrave4183
@dearbrave4183 4 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha sprinkle sprinkle 😄
@wishingonastar9330
@wishingonastar9330 4 жыл бұрын
Taking notes lol. 😂
@megamaamatv9158
@megamaamatv9158 4 жыл бұрын
I have to mention also, that I did level up quite a bit as well. I workout almost everyday, I read books and listen to motivational audio books. I have beauty subscription boxes and my wardrobe has been completely overhauled! Rev ike is my favorite motivational speaker. You have to have your mental right at all times. This won't work unless you are totally into yourself and what you got going on. Once he realize he doesn't hold the same space in your heart thats when the fun starts 😛
@LeahxLondon
@LeahxLondon 4 жыл бұрын
Aunty Shera is getting prettier and prettier 🤔😍
@LeahxLondon
@LeahxLondon 4 жыл бұрын
Mindful Miss Yes ! Yes ! Yes !👏🏾
@Nokss_20
@Nokss_20 4 жыл бұрын
Another one, is don't go out with younger friends, they attract young dusties and they make you look like a aunty. 😂😂😂
@icestarr1572
@icestarr1572 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly 💄👠👑
@kirakeynow
@kirakeynow 4 жыл бұрын
i go out with younger friends and the guys still check ME out haha. i am 28 and yesterday a 19 year old handsome guy asked for my number. of course he is not my type but just saying everything is possible haha
@sowsowcool2586
@sowsowcool2586 4 жыл бұрын
always try to have older friends...
@MzMahoganyHoneyBrown
@MzMahoganyHoneyBrown 4 жыл бұрын
@@kirakeynow She didn't say you won't get attention if you go out with younger people, she said young dusties will be attracted to you. And you confirmed that when you mentioned that a "19 year old handsome guy" asked for your number.
@MzMahoganyHoneyBrown
@MzMahoganyHoneyBrown 4 жыл бұрын
@BubonicTonic Where in my comment did I say handsome equals dusty? I was quoting her comment and if you actually read my response then you should have grasped that I was simple clarifying the original commenters comment.
@vturner
@vturner 4 жыл бұрын
“ We can’t be friends if your 🐱 cheap” -the city girls
@lucija4646
@lucija4646 4 жыл бұрын
my best male friend is not a dusty, in fact he taught me to raise my standards and so on. his mother is a housewife and she looks way better than women my age( i'm 20). whenever i think of a classy, beautiful woman from my neighboorhood i think of his mother. she spends her days at the gym, shopping or at expensive restaurants! i am so grateful for him! he is so mature compared to our age! also , thank you for every video Shera! I am young but I know the game thanks to you 💞
@Denailacole
@Denailacole 4 жыл бұрын
I literally just let the last one go ✌🏽 I don’t see a level up in their future AT ALL. No matter how many nice restaurants, vacations, or “level up tactics” I suggest they still want a dusty/pick me lifestyle. To the streets they will go!
@realpristine
@realpristine 4 жыл бұрын
Literally just did the same thing!! 👏🏾👏🏾
@sodabunni1594
@sodabunni1594 3 жыл бұрын
I didn’t even do all that, I just offered vitamin c serum and was turned down. Even simple tactics don’t work.
@mairastop2647
@mairastop2647 Жыл бұрын
@@sodabunni1594 The serum got nun to do with it
@uui219
@uui219 Жыл бұрын
​@@sodabunni1594Cutting off a friend cuz they won't put something on THEIR face is kinda funny lol
@cherieamore3036
@cherieamore3036 4 жыл бұрын
I went out to a very nice art galleria ! The other day by myself loved it spoke to the head boss they invited me to a private art auction masquerade event ! 😘
@toopetty4225
@toopetty4225 3 жыл бұрын
I just cut a friend off who married a man she has to take care of. He's 14 years older, doesn't work/hustle and cheats while she's at work. She cries and complains, but keeps taking his bum ass back.
@leamcclain1648
@leamcclain1648 4 жыл бұрын
" Misery loves company."
@lillyypondsxz8027
@lillyypondsxz8027 4 жыл бұрын
40 never looked better!💓🍷
@MissEdie1973
@MissEdie1973 4 жыл бұрын
I had to quietly distance myself from certain people because of "Pick me" vibes. I'll plan on going to certain venues or certain areas where I KNOW I would have to level up and more than likely they'll decline for whatever reason.
@Auntiefeliciaofficial
@Auntiefeliciaofficial 4 жыл бұрын
A dude scoped me out at the Wholefoods. He ran to the car behind me but he was definitely looking for something. He went to the Wholefoods with all his gaudy jewelry on then when he saw what I drove (Porsche) He asked me what I did. I told him "a little bit of this and a little bit of that." He had on neon yellow tennis shoes with some dreadlocks; I figured he was there looking for an opportunity. Red flag was when he asked what I did. He asked where I went to school; I told him job corp. I switched the topic back to him and that was that - not interested in that!
@hersheykisses4260
@hersheykisses4260 4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@GAPEACHHH
@GAPEACHHH 4 жыл бұрын
These dusties refuse to talk about themselves
@AmberBrooklyn24
@AmberBrooklyn24 4 жыл бұрын
Yess dusties always want to know what u have and how u got it. They’re looking for someone to use smh lol
@dearbrave4183
@dearbrave4183 4 жыл бұрын
You shouldn't even have entertained him answering personal questions to a stranger. But you did well by curving him, such a time waster!😄
@Avee3593
@Avee3593 2 жыл бұрын
@@GAPEACHHH Yes they do but want you to say all. I'm avoiding them like the plague.
@fehyndana7725
@fehyndana7725 4 жыл бұрын
„The red pill men’s truth is being broke and mediocre“ lol 😂🤣 You where my red pill Shera!
@thecatnextdoor12
@thecatnextdoor12 4 жыл бұрын
Shera please make groups by state/cities to introduce us to one another. I’d love to have like-minded friends, but I prefer zero friends over pickmeishas.
@eni6011
@eni6011 4 жыл бұрын
Me too 🙋🏻‍♀️ what’s ya Instagram?
@alebrasmith-cooper5250
@alebrasmith-cooper5250 4 жыл бұрын
This was so easy for me to do.All of my friends we're into smoking weed partying and going out all the time. I no longer wanted to do those things anymore.I got clean got married and I don't regret it at all.My life is very fulfilling to me now.Those friends are no longer a part of my life anymore only on fb.I have a beauty page where I post inspiration and beauty advice.Most of them are haters so they don't comment.I did it as a dedication and a outlet for me for me to express where I'm at and how amazing my life has changed for the better.💘🙌👏💎👑💞💋💕🙏🦋
@5thdimensio284
@5thdimensio284 4 жыл бұрын
I have changed my friends mindsets and they are getting money from men and also leveling up their other friends, I have also leveled up my older cousin and now she's dumped her dusty baby daddy I am a level up evangelist I still have one pickme friend that I still need to school though.
@bigboababtree2671
@bigboababtree2671 4 жыл бұрын
How are you teaching so successfully, sensei? I've got a friend whose personality would be a $bag$ magnet. She just needs the mindset to match. Sometimes we talk strategy and it goes well. But she finds it hard not to "chase" and sees the guy as the prize.
@xxmegababygirlxx
@xxmegababygirlxx 3 жыл бұрын
Help us out here.
@brunettezprettyr4296
@brunettezprettyr4296 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Shera. I'm 20 and have all of my Bill's paid for a year now by my boyfriend while I level up and save money.
@avantgarden2438
@avantgarden2438 4 жыл бұрын
Shera I learn a lot from you! My mother never taught me any of these! This is why I sometimes resent them! But anyways at least I found you! Thank you so much!
@KA-ub4rc
@KA-ub4rc 4 жыл бұрын
Don't resent them, they probably didn't know for themselves.
@avantgarden2438
@avantgarden2438 4 жыл бұрын
@@KA-ub4rc I love my parents but they have some narcissistic traits. The other day my father insulted me. But it was me who ended up apologizing
@KA-ub4rc
@KA-ub4rc 4 жыл бұрын
My parents are deceased, I don't have any family support so when I feel low I come and listen to Shera to recharge to get my strength and gain more knowledge. Great video as usual💯💞
@HausOfAdonis
@HausOfAdonis 4 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@SacramentalASMR
@SacramentalASMR 4 жыл бұрын
Literally same. No parents, no friends. I watch Shera every day and focus on my goals.
@caliweba97
@caliweba97 4 жыл бұрын
I love You queen! you are my role model, im 22 years old, and I aspire to be like you. all my friends are different from me, they never let the guys they are dating, to pay for them.... and they tell me everyday, that I should never depend on a man, and call me a gold digger..... LOL .. im studying economics btw... investing in myself! I don't feel like im depending on a man.....im tired of trying to force my friends to get some standards and level up.. so im letting them go...
@MeenieAlf24
@MeenieAlf24 3 жыл бұрын
I tried to wake up 2/3 pickme friends. The rest wouldn't mind "taking care of a man", letting him play videogames past his early 20's, or if he's a househusband. 🤮
@tribecalledmaya
@tribecalledmaya Жыл бұрын
smh they like to sit in stagnancy, all behind a dust ball. not even stagnancy behind themselves but behind a man? I have to part ways.
@missbee5021
@missbee5021 4 жыл бұрын
Never forget the day i sent you to my friend and spoke about dating up she got so upset and said why would I want to date up when I’m not there 😂
@realpristine
@realpristine 4 жыл бұрын
Lmaoooooo wow😂
@manamichan100
@manamichan100 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve gotten so much farther in life because of your advice. It helps women on all levels no matter where they are in life right now
@Insightful_Locs
@Insightful_Locs 4 жыл бұрын
You been serving looks this whole summer 😍😍😍😍yesss ! James is one lucky man
@claudiaenlightened3672
@claudiaenlightened3672 4 жыл бұрын
How to handle pick me friends: don’t. 😂
@SincerelyTaliaxo
@SincerelyTaliaxo 3 жыл бұрын
Straight like that!
@flyandshy00
@flyandshy00 4 жыл бұрын
And advice for those who plan to kick the dusty out or leave him, do it while he's out, change locks, get a gun (if it's legal), or get your friend with you. He can try to kill you, a dusty has nothing to lose. I saw a documentary where a woman wanted to leave a dusty because he lived off of her, she and her daughter got killed, 2 of her sons survived.
@wishingonastar9330
@wishingonastar9330 4 жыл бұрын
Say u lost everything and are being sued. Etc. fake an eviction and he will go to the other woman before you know it lol. Then move and never let your friends and family know where you live.
@user-hw8xg7jc6x
@user-hw8xg7jc6x 4 жыл бұрын
I was just thinking about my past pick me friends and this video popped up 🤣😭
@n.a.7373
@n.a.7373 2 жыл бұрын
A pickme I knew married a dusty, she bought her own engagement ring and was acting like she leveled up toward me. I left my dusty so now I’m dating and being spoiled and she can’t take not knowing any of my business. Her husband cheated on her as well, he leveled up on her and she asked me to hook her up i definitely didn’t . She ghosted me because we no longer like the same BS.
@camiller958
@camiller958 4 жыл бұрын
Lol I don’t have to worry about pick me friends cause I don’t have many friends at all😂 I like to be by myself 🤷🏽‍♀️
@babyc.3015
@babyc.3015 3 жыл бұрын
They pull you down anyways
@rosebb2823
@rosebb2823 4 жыл бұрын
So I had pick me friend who invited me to a hike. I went to pick her up and she was there with her bf cousin, cousins gf and baby. So we all went hiking. They ate in my car and got it dirty.
@c.l.9344
@c.l.9344 4 жыл бұрын
Once you level up, pick me friends will show up.
@SacramentalASMR
@SacramentalASMR 4 жыл бұрын
Cut off a pick me friend recently and she's blowing my phone up nonstop😂😭
@dayinibatrisyia5424
@dayinibatrisyia5424 9 ай бұрын
Ugh befriending pick me is just so exhausting
@stephaniethompson5178
@stephaniethompson5178 4 жыл бұрын
Shera is getting more and more gorgeous and is absolutely brilliant. Thank you lovely for keeping us ladies on code!
@starridiamond
@starridiamond 4 жыл бұрын
Your look tonight is on fire!! 💅💕💖💥💄💎🔥
@MissC333
@MissC333 4 жыл бұрын
Family is deep. My aunt the oldest, is the college educated, married and the family thought she was all together while my mom was the baby girl. She’s passed on and my aunt still hates on her. I remember my mom always had 2 boyfriends minimum and only worked 1 job for two weeks her entire life hahe. Now my aunt daughter is a pickmesha. She pays the mortgage and has that struggle love while I am also college educated but Chile my largest bill is food monthly and I look fabulous daily. I was destined NOT to be pickmesha or bob the builder and yes y’all my aunt hates on me now too lol. What a blessed life! Love you Sissy Shera you are my real blood 🩸 sprinkle sprinkle
@IReadTooMuchCrap
@IReadTooMuchCrap 2 жыл бұрын
Shera, I haven’t even started this video and I know I need it. I have a friend who isn’t really a pickme, but she’s so needy and wants so much in life, but hasn’t done anything to work towards those goals. Ever since I found your channel I have been, very slowly but surely, working on becoming more fit and feminine. Even though I haven’t made any results yet, your movies have been a huge boost to my low confidence. And sadly I have noticed that my friend doesn’t make any effort to improve herself, and I knew we’d someday drift apart. Well, I think we finally did. In a way I’m relieved but also sad. I wish she would push herself. I even showed her your videos related to leveling up. But she doesn’t bother while still wanting so much. She doesn’t even have dust to sneeze at, but she’s not my problem anymore.
@sarahburciaga9147
@sarahburciaga9147 4 жыл бұрын
Yes she is right, I HAD a friend that was upset that I would level up wear makeup ETC. She was def. hitting on me... I had to grow away from her..
@serenitysbubble2384
@serenitysbubble2384 4 жыл бұрын
Oh God your video's are sometimes hard to digest. But you speak the truth. Myself and my friend are on different levels energy wise. We don't see eachother often anymore due to my deisions. It's the gulit that grips me because this person is lovely. But I can't keep giving this person the same advice over and over again. I stopped. I'm just going to take your advice. And just focus on those friends on the same level.
@tinastroswitch7007
@tinastroswitch7007 4 жыл бұрын
I also have sort attention span 😩 get bored easily
@tinastroswitch7007
@tinastroswitch7007 4 жыл бұрын
I love a intelligent man who shows by earning great money and always have creative juices flowing I jusy got asked on a date with a man who has just that 🙌🙌🙌🍃
@carmenwg
@carmenwg 4 жыл бұрын
I knew this was going to be good before you even started talking! Needed this message tonight.
@Luckimee
@Luckimee 4 жыл бұрын
I think it's sooooooo funny that I just so happened to wear my blonde today. Synchronicitayyyyyyyyyyyyyy. I have ONE childhood friend that's on the same page and I am grateful. I've lost 2 close pick me friends so far. I never cared who they dated but once I wanted to date up ppl started actin funny. Mmmhmm
@Nofretari
@Nofretari 4 жыл бұрын
Fortunately my only friends that know are in level up groups with me.
@luismateo8
@luismateo8 4 жыл бұрын
Bonnettas still gets me everytime 🤣🤣🤣
@empressaminata637
@empressaminata637 4 жыл бұрын
I had friend would say she would go out with ugly friends to get noticed😂🙃😂😂😂
@PinkLaptop
@PinkLaptop 4 жыл бұрын
lol she sounds sad
@SagRising19
@SagRising19 4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣 I did that in high school
@empressaminata637
@empressaminata637 4 жыл бұрын
@Kendra Bennett that's really nice of you , I'm in process of making new friends im 23, had friends come and go i be so kind to them then everytime we went out they hated i got attention and started being envious i would feel energy they would screw there eyes/ say masculine things why you relying on men etc. When they came up to me first. Etc. Im from uk so making friends is different im on app bumble, I'm introverted do go out alone, I do want to be friend/ I think cos I'm Introvert one -2 friend is fine. it will be no bad vibes ,
@sylviecaramela4505
@sylviecaramela4505 4 жыл бұрын
@@empressaminata637 im live in the UK too. Where abouts?
@empressaminata637
@empressaminata637 4 жыл бұрын
@@sylviecaramela4505 I'm from London Central, you?
@4givenbyf8th
@4givenbyf8th 4 жыл бұрын
OMG watching this video reminds me of the young lady in the first season of “Marrying Millions,” she was so distraught about her family and friends accepting her relationship with the guy she met on a sugar daddy app, she made such an issue of it that eventually, her rich beau, offered keys to his lavish loft to allow her to get away from all the hooplah, or perhaps that’s just the game she’s running on him 😉🤣🤣🤣
@iamnottheone3020
@iamnottheone3020 4 жыл бұрын
Girllll I have watched you and paid very close attention to your advice in your videos. I decided to implement your advice with my new man/relationship and oh my God it is working!!!!!! THANK YOU Shera🖤🥰🙌🏾
@leahcampbell8526
@leahcampbell8526 4 жыл бұрын
I really needed sm1 to talk to about some private male situation going on in my life. This video really fulfilled my need, I found it so so helpful. Thank you x
@Candikanelane
@Candikanelane 4 жыл бұрын
I love red. Omg. So pretty! 😍😍😍
@flor2dworld
@flor2dworld 4 жыл бұрын
Dating doesn't require sexual attraction. Are you after a penis or after money? This tells if you are a pickmesha or a future millionaire.
@babyc.3015
@babyc.3015 3 жыл бұрын
😂🙏
@lizsdlt11
@lizsdlt11 4 жыл бұрын
why do u look so GOOD?? omg!
@katrina1694
@katrina1694 4 жыл бұрын
Pickmieshas..amd Bonnetas..omg (lmbo) I laugh everytime you say that. I let go of all my pick me homies..never were friends.
@KikkiK89
@KikkiK89 4 жыл бұрын
💖 May all be blessed with comfort, abundance, confidence, love, acceptance, freedom, health, safety, and joy💖
@kaygeeRandomness
@kaygeeRandomness 4 жыл бұрын
The red lipstick you’re wearing 💯
@Red.Snake5
@Red.Snake5 4 жыл бұрын
Wow, you look better and better each video. Amazing.
@nunyafawkingbiz
@nunyafawkingbiz Жыл бұрын
My man said to me the other day “you act like you keeping your options open!” And i am 😂
@officialswatichannel
@officialswatichannel 4 жыл бұрын
Hearing you is empowering.
@leximiller9853
@leximiller9853 4 жыл бұрын
This is right on time for me thank you Shera.
@allartismental9319
@allartismental9319 4 жыл бұрын
This post is forever bookmarked! Appreciate U & appreciate it!🙋🏾‍♀️💥❤
@xxmegababygirlxx
@xxmegababygirlxx 3 жыл бұрын
Haven’t even said nothing and I’m already laughing. Lmaooo
@faviolafikir2181
@faviolafikir2181 3 жыл бұрын
“I’m choosing me” 🤍🖤. I’d love to book a coaching call with you!
@AISHAMARIE
@AISHAMARIE 4 жыл бұрын
WHEW THIS IS RIGHT ON TIMEEEEEEEEE. YESSSSSSSS MAAAAMMMM👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@tiisetsosephai
@tiisetsosephai 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Shera. I’m learning a lot!
@Rthomp852
@Rthomp852 4 жыл бұрын
Girl, you are more and more gorgeous everyday. 😍
@kaylers9649
@kaylers9649 11 ай бұрын
The video I needed today.
@jamirah6202
@jamirah6202 4 жыл бұрын
I like this channel, it gives me level up vibes 👛💅🏽
@kirakeynow
@kirakeynow 4 жыл бұрын
very good video. i am now transitioning and changing and a lot of girlfriends act now crazy. and to be honest i somehow start to not care about them anymore because they act crazy and i cant do anything with them. i really need new ones or damn, i dont need no friends XD haha
@Lifewithtuts
@Lifewithtuts 4 жыл бұрын
You look soooo good Shera
@sonnisade362
@sonnisade362 4 жыл бұрын
This is so true👑👑👑
@ravynn8306
@ravynn8306 4 жыл бұрын
That red tho ❤️
@Rarity4444
@Rarity4444 Жыл бұрын
Same with me I’m not codependent at all & codependent, clingy females really bother me
@angelofthemosthigh7292
@angelofthemosthigh7292 4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 when you was talking about watching scary movies growing up , omg too funny
@LoveMinnie1102
@LoveMinnie1102 4 жыл бұрын
Love this woman! Lol
@AmaLoveGoddessTV
@AmaLoveGoddessTV 4 жыл бұрын
Ypu can be dressed up and still be pickmesha. This older lady always bragged about how she dressed up and dieted. But she syays online and out looking for men to PURSUE like she's desperate instead of letting them come to her in person.
@jessicagriffin5920
@jessicagriffin5920 4 жыл бұрын
Your lips looks huge in a good way😀
@nennacobrand6943
@nennacobrand6943 2 жыл бұрын
I binge watch you Everyday. XX 😘 love from Jamaica and I send your channel to my circle ❤
@powerpawz4991
@powerpawz4991 4 жыл бұрын
Gorgeous simply divine
@adnomo
@adnomo 4 жыл бұрын
Hey headquarters, looks like you have big things on your mind. The scent that I think would smell good on you is Aqua Universalis Forte by Maison Francis. Subtle, yet powerful. And it ain’t cheap.
@JamerraMercier918
@JamerraMercier918 4 жыл бұрын
What if you level up and your man is slowly level up on his own business I’m proud of him but his work clothes and every day clothes needs to up grade
@tamradillonittybittysiddit1148
@tamradillonittybittysiddit1148 4 жыл бұрын
Love red on you . Looking gorg . Like always . I'm leaving up too .
@dollfacedolo
@dollfacedolo 4 жыл бұрын
Shera where is the gorgeous tumbler cup from?
@JamerraMercier918
@JamerraMercier918 4 жыл бұрын
Here she goes on metamorphosis love it
@seedra6533
@seedra6533 4 жыл бұрын
That's my girl ❤️
@tstar5944
@tstar5944 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Shera.. Miss u. I have been leveling up. Can't wait to do a consultation with u.😍😍😍
@DivineGuidanceMarshae
@DivineGuidanceMarshae 4 жыл бұрын
Can You Do A Video On Younger Girls That Likes To Date Older Men 😌
@majesticcally1716
@majesticcally1716 4 жыл бұрын
Yaaas!
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