PIES: The 4 Ways To Attract Your Spouse

[@mavishenator123]

Good to see that people value the sacred constitution of marriage and are willing to put efforts to make it work. I respect and pray for everyone trying. I feel marriage is a responsibility and a purification one has to go through. Its a journey of lifetimes

[@carolemoritz6937]

You mean sacred institution?

[@mavishenator123]

@@carolemoritz6937 yes

[@mml1224]

thank you, her vids have been helpful but i think i lost her, luv her alot! x1000

[@mavishenator123]

@@kassandrabarr6740 Best thing is to live close but separately, I don't know how your partner feels. Don't have any extra marital affairs or any affairs. Both of you. Its a sacrifice that will help your children also. They will also value and respect the institution of marriage. Both of you can also take up some meditation or yoga classes that can also help. Either together or separately. Take help from the lady in the video

[@AbelSFR]

This video should be required to view before a divorce or before marriage.

[@MarriageHelper]

Wow! Thank you for the kind response. We have found the working on your PIES is the best thing you can do for YOU regardless of your situation or how it turns out. Thank you for the comment!

[@carolynhall4176]

@@MarriageHelper another reality is that these kind of marriage helps (counseling) should be like you said, something you do all along. Everything has momentum, so if your marriage is not getting better, you might not realize it, but it's probably getting worse. Tips like you share here are great tips for all marriages.

[@bugsinourpockets2558]

My husband told me about a month ago that he fell out of love with me. I have been working on myself since. Ive been going to therapy and been working on my physical and emotional healing already. I'm just glad I am on the right track for myself.

[@HelenaHart_SPELLS]

it is sad to have a broken home, use law of attraction in my bio

[@MichaelRutzz]

Thanks Helena this helped me save my broken marriage

[@HMT-tf2ld]

I believe this is something every person in a relationship should watch. Change yourself first to see the change you want in others. Sooo good! ❤️

[@mminniear984]

I have noticed that working out is a good start and gets you on the track to focus on doing things that are good for you. Which is necessary to be happy in any relationship

[@daveleighton4683]

My wife has met someone on line and she tells me that there is an unbelievable emotional attraction. She has fallen in love with him, even though she hasn't met him. So much so, that she wants out of our marriage to be with him. He has no money and is not good looking, but the emotional connection with him has destroyed my marriage of 35 years. I can't compete with that. It destroyed me.

[@dianachophy]

Pray

[@daveleighton4683]

@@dianachophy thank you. I am, and her friends. I have made my bathroom a "war room" where i pray when she's asleep. She wants to go and see him, so I am, amongst other things, praying for discord between them before she goes.

[@kaylawilson2996]

@@daveleighton4683 how are things now?

[@JohnnyAdz.]

​@daveleighton4683 Hey, how are things?

[@ketobodybuilder2482]

@daveleighton4683 it's all in there mind once she meets him and sees it's real life. That will fizzle out

[@forte642]

This is amazing. Been married for 32 years. Personal change. Very important stuff to help me hit the reset button

[@Life.6792]

@@forte642 Can you share some good success tips of your 32 year marriage? Thanks 🙏

[@wordandmusic3911]

The power of prayer is key. I asked the LORD for help when I suspected my wife of cheating. He answered. As a result I started to look at myself more seeking to effect change. My closer examination of myself along with guidance through faith is beginning to look a lot like what you describe here. It is amazing how ones love for the other grows when one sets out to begin this process. You remember how good it is to be good to your spouse.

[@madtofuboi8085]

My wife and I are separated.. after our separation I’ve been applying this without even knowing. But to know I was on the right path, it was a Godly sign. Thank you. It helped me so much!

[@Schyler__Parker]

@madtofuboi808 update on the marriage?

[@MohammedAli-lw6tm]

Did your wife come back to you

[@blkrbbn1535]

How did this work out for you?

[@Gxie]

This was BY FAR the best advice I’ve seen. After at least 10 prior channels, I’ve stopped crying during your video. I need to work on ME. I’m gonna sub. Thank you.

[@lindalewis2714]

This hits home for me. Thank you for the valuable information. I have forgotten how important the PIES are and my marriage has faltered after 39 years. I took it and him for granted.

[@tim1942]

@Adriene Smoldttl ?

[@brambletbrats3184]

Great video and very true. The only person you can change is yourself. As a man thinks in his heart, so is he.

[@danielnovak4284]

Thank you so much, my Sister, for this! I needed to hear this for my marriage. It just hurts so much in being in a sexless, loveless, and touchless marriage. God bless you for your advice! Peace be with you!

[@charlesbell5500]

How is it going now, brother?

[@nm9586]

I know exactly how you feel. It hurts so much. Where is that woman that used to wrap her arms around me when I came home from work and gave me a kiss and told me she was happy to see me?

[@kendra3329]

I’m going through a divorce now and the more I focus on the PIES, the more I realize that he’s not even the kind of person I want to attract anymore. The more you work on the PIES, the more you grow, and sometimes you realize that you’re actually worth so much more than what you’re trying to hold onto...

[@audrydf2585]

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[phone]

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[phone]

[@bethestandardallday]

That’s the wrong take away

[@tracicorbin8445]

I truly thank God for you! I’m just in tears at how God gave us you . I’m so thankful for the testimony of the saved marriage.

[@solorizzy8689]

Your story with your husband is exactly what I am going through right now. The only thing is, it's too late. He is with the other woman. However this video taught me that I don't do anything for myself. I will start to do the Pies for myself. For my next relationship, but most importantly for myself

[@isabellawilliam1042]

Hi friend,i really understand how you feel right now,do you really need help?

[@isabellawilliam1042]

I know of someone that helped me get my husband come running back to me.

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He cn hlp you get your husband come running back to you.

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W.h.z.t.s.a.p.p.h.i.m....now

[@isabellawilliam1042]

I really trust him so much,he cn hlp you.

[@angierae403]

I have been recommending your organization to everyone who needs you!!!

[@mylesleggette7520]

My wife HATES it when I work on my PIES and improve myself. Seeing me improving myself makes her feel bad about continuing to do nothing. Seeing me enjoy my hobbies makes her envious that she has no interests she's motivated to pursue. Seeing me do things for myself makes her upset that I am not doing things for her. The great thing though, is that when I am doing what I want to feel good about myself, I am not bothered by her negativity!

[@JamesCummins-h7n]

Everything she says hits the nail on the head. I'm destroyed but now I have an idea of what I need to do Thank You!!!

[@HelenaHart_SPELLS]

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[@MichaelRutzz]

​@@HelenaHart_SPELLS thanks it helped me save my marriage

[@katiebr]

My marriage is broken and you give me hope! Wow this is a great video!!!!

[@Jamac007]

We waiting?

[@TheNurulAmeera]

I appreciate the idea behind working on PIES. Its true but realistically. I think it all comes down to the hearts and its intentions. Realistically too, what if either one of us is mentally ill, sickly and is dependant on the other? Will they only love us when we are at our best? What about in times of sickness and in times of bad? We come into marriage to also love our spouses even in inconvenience. Thats true love.

[@stefaniakonstantinidou981]

U r so right. Love is a commitment. Yes,,together in sickness too, but always try to improve, Don t give up

[@SandraFernandes621]

This spoke to me- thank you for sharing your story- I am currently in a separation and I noticed I was just sitting around waiting for my spouse to ask to see me or even come back and I stopped doing for me. Now I plan to do things I love and date me.

[@EdbertTjoniko91]

This is exactly what i needed to hear rn, that i have not gotten from any talks with my friends. Thank youu!

[@jcporosity4764]

This happen to me I would work so much we lost connection 😞. She lost the feeling for me. We have 2 kids. She never talked about it she hold it in. Now im changing my bad ways she has notice it. Now she's leaving to a 1 room apartment we both gonna share the kids. Im not gonna give up on my wife she's still mad n upset with me. Ima give her space n time to heal

[@secreteobsession3584]

I'm sorry to here that I wish my partner acknowledged that I'm in a process off moving out but you keep fighting even if you have to send her a letter or flowers every day

[@baniaberry9309]

I recommend you to a man who return my ex back

[@baniaberry9309]

He brought my ex back.. [phone]

[@paulrichard4945]

This was great, I been tryin to find out about "my husband has cheated on me what do i do" for a while now, and I think this has helped. You ever tried - Bonuhappad Intellectual Blaster - (search on google ) ? It is a smashing one off product for discovering how to understand what your husband wishes you knew about him minus the normal expense. Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my mate got excellent success with it.

[@brightpage1020]

If I'm taking care of me, maturing, learning, feeling excited about life and it's opportunities, then he's bound to be re-attracted or perhaps it will become clear that this match has outgrown one another and become time to find a new one - maybe even with myself. Find a refreshing role in my own life as the one I champion and root for.

[@monalissakaluwa3166]

I came across this at the right time when I am feeling like my relationship is falling apart, i need to adopt the PIES strategy

[@Kickerworks]

Discovering this is exactly what I need to be doing. I've come to terms with things I did in our relationship and know what needs changed. I have a vision of our future if my wife would reconsider. I have learned two emotions that make me tetter-totter. I've never been able to see what these emotions are doing to me and others before. I'm sad and feel defeated with no hope and I also see there is hope in myself to be stronger. I love my wife and want it to work out but also learning to accept it not working out. I don't want to be in a dark place again. My wife also did things and she confessed infedelity. The situation on that end I am forgiving. But I don't want to be brought down all the time for the things that I only did. I just need to be the real me like I use to be.

[@regiz5358]

Shift focus is paramount I changed my life as well being married to someone with NPD... for me the question is: WHAT DO YOU WANT?

[@audreymeyer5616]

I like that you bring up God! I really like your videos. My marriage is doing really good. It has had it’s ups and downs and it really almost went south a few years ago. I decided I wanted to keep moving forward. Sometimes even though things are good, I feel a little distance but not the suspicion that something is going on. I just want to keep things really good between us before I could do anything to push him away. I have that kind of personality at times, but I am aware of it. I am working on myself. Thanks again!

[@mariahyun5683]

I can't believe how similar your situation is with mine. I'm also stuck in my little house in Korea waiting for my husbands return daily. We fight just like you did. I have recently started to work on my P and I but I never knew that I should work on the E and S as well. This is such an eye opener. I will work on myself and thank you for the video

[@redbulliswoke3606]

Very similar to my wife and my story. I have been you. My marriage is on the brink but I believe I've started the work that needed to be done before it was too late

[@SALTYCOMBATDIVER-ExInstructor]

I loved and adored my wife and after 24 years she filed for divorce. It breaks my heart every day but I hope she finds whatever it is she needs to be happy.

[@tgtech570]

These are honestly some of the best and most helpful videos I've ever seen. Thank you.

[@odogunmoni7257]

[phone]

[@odogunmoni7257]

That help me attract my ex partner back after seperation

[@Akabackalooka]

This is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you!

[@MarriageHelper]

Glad it was helpful!

[@ChipashaKatebe]

The ending of this video is the best part for me. Im going through a difficult time with my husband. From the moment we got married he's never shown interest in my feelings and would bash me every time I was vulnerable with him. I think all of this has accumulated over the years and now the loudest thought in me is leave, he doesn't care about you anyway. I'm constantly needy for affection and he intentionally denies me. I unfortunately began a conversation out of frustration and said alot of mean things to him. Now looking at this video i realise i would have done a better job at approaching the situation and instead focused on better myself and not his weaknesses.

[@Gotoworkkk]

Hopefully, you’re not with him anymore because you would drive any man crazy… not in a good way either

[@ChipashaKatebe]

@@Gotoworkkk please enlighten me on what it is I'm doing wrong, perhaps I can learn from you or see things from a different perspective?

[@jessejames88]

This was fantastic and very helpful. Thank you, Kimberly!

[@devincheatham166]

Thank you for your testimony. This brings great insight to how I see what I need to do to fix my own personnel problems. Thank you.

[@skryvazena6548]

It depends on the person involved, too, whether they go into the marriage for a long haul or not at the first place, or just quiting when it gets hard. It should be both person willing to work on it because having this similar view. It's about loyalty. Because there will be a case when nomatter what the person do, working on himself/herself, if the other half decided that it's ok to quit nomatter what, then it would not work.

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[@shesanwilsonabiodun-benson1918]

Thank you for this. I believe the Lord Jesus directed me to this. Im very much grateful. God bless you. I am separated at present but i beleive the Lord Jesus for restoration of my home

[@KatzMe]

Thank you so much for sharing your story it was very helpful and informative. Unfortunately I went through the divorce even when focusing on myself but he was a narcissist and drank. But going forward I will keep this saved in mind for future relationships. I’ve been single for 10 years and I really needed to hear this today to get me out of my slump and back to the vivacious woman I used to be. Again thank you 🙏🏻

[@ashleyhamilton4951]

I think this is the best video and guidance ive ever seen. And the first time ive felt any hope in my situation at all. Thank you so much.

[@안녕췬구들-h4u]

I learned too much , right now me and my husband wasn't in a good situation but coz of your program i've a lot thank you very much

[@timothychavis3783]

Thank you so much for this insightful, game-changing information!

[@loops3712]

I love the PIES! Thank you for all the information.

[@WorldWideWebObserver]

This is very wise advice that works!

[@HelenaHart_SPELLS]

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[@MichaelRutzz]

​@@HelenaHart_SPELLS thanks it helped me save my marriage

[@danduneman3892]

Amazing video! Every married couple should watch this. Now if I can get my wife to try this we can save our marriage. Praying everyday for reconciliation.

[@rsfitness9690]

Wrong way to look at it initially. Just start with you!

[@magicj599]

Don't pray for reconciliation, even if it's what you want. Get your life together and let whatever will be to be. If she bails, you at least are ready to control your own destiny. If she comes back, then you will be a man and lead.

[@donpoe8435]

stop praying start reconciling... dont waste time on some BS nothingness ...

[@googlecritic2773]

How’s your marriage going?

[@JohnnyAdz.]

How did you get on?

[@lluvleylex9358]

Faith is the key 🔑 any problem with marriage.

[@rosegimbert6213]

Do not let anyone come in between you and your relationship goal. Get them back to you and make their love strong like the ocean

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[@joshuafusselman3323]

Ha, this is great! So funny, in my church we started a couple of years ago with a renewed fourfold focus for self-improvement: physical, intellectual, social, and spiritual. It's awesome.

[@HelenaHart_SPELLS]

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[@MichaelRutzz]

​@@HelenaHart_SPELLS thanks, it helped me save my relationship

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There is still hope, use the law of attraction in my bio

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[@hugoanson2135]

WHAT!I don't need to learn to fall in love, I need build myself & relationship to help her to love me.

[@stacyfelton1243]

This is such an amazing video. Personal account of someone's own life /relationship

[@bwash6743]

this is so great! God bless you for your dedicated work. I love you marriage advocacy ❤

[@randallkeesling9221]

My union is done . Her heart belongs to someone else now it seems

[@galator011]

thank you so much for this advice. I will be chasing this and achieving thank you!

[@HelenaHart_SPELLS]

It is sad to have a broken home, use law of attraction in my bio

[@MichaelRutzz]

Thanks Helena it save my broken marriage

[@eaglevision2315]

Why you want to let the person who cheated on you come back to your life? The betrayal will always there to hurt you, you will never truly trust him again. Once a cheater, always a cheater, he will do it again. You should go on with your own life and find someone who will not cheat on you.

[@richardbarnett3254]

Thats not true, some people learn from their mistakes. I’ve known many couples that have had these issues in their marriage and once they overcame the “cheating” they were stronger than before the incident. That line “once a cheater, always a cheater” is terrible.

[@caseymyslive7632]

I have been working on all these I love you Micque you are my life.💖

[@nini-xp4vo]

it's just the pain keep resurface and holding me back.

[@MarriageHelper]

nini, Thank you for your comment. The first thing we try to teach people is how to have healthy communication with their spouse to avoid making the situation any worse. One of the main tips is to stop PUSH Behaviors. This is anything you do (or don't do) that tends to push your spouse away from you. We teach you 4 other rules you need to follow to help with this situation in our free e-book! You can download it here if interested! Free Ebook here: bit.ly/3BSuzRo We hope this helps!

[@nini-xp4vo]

@@MarriageHelper thank you so much, I just need couple of days to gonback to drinking and I'll be back to who I shoukd be

[@TipOfTheSpear907]

I’m doing this today I’m starting today and hopefully to save my marriage after making me the best me for me

[@bheipascual.marfil]

Everything she is saying is very much true and would be very very much helpful; it would've helped me a lot, and those are the activities that my body and mind are craving. But things are different when you have kids. And as of the moment, i am also half way across the globe, far away from home, away from friends and family.

[@monicasunny1847]

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[phone].

[@gerijoz5628]

If he doesn’t stop with his affair then how do you move on together? He won’t respect me if I’m a doormat .

[@MrsMysteryWoman]

This is such great advice. SO true.

[@sarbjitkaur494]

Thank you Kimberly ❤

[@Dominionaire090]

Thank you so much for this valuable information!

[@adatorres2248]

This is great advice 👏, I have done the PIES and it does work.

[@odogunmoni7257]

[phone]

[@chernagast6754]

What if you didn't love your spouse to begin with and were forced into marriage?

[@choanziledrolf2409]

Thanks for making this video 😊😊😊 i learned a lot...

[@hyeyeonlim3092]

Thank you for this.

[@mang3139]

Great video! TY for your real-life example

[@RelationshipBuildersForum]

Wonderful content that can apply to any couple

[@odogunmoni7257]

[phone]

[@nadraleah.g4957]

a lot of words with no ways..and usually all these talks are from women who already have everything God bless them. we live in a world in which getting a good husband became very hard to find.

[@vaishnavikulkarni5432]

I am relating each and every word she is saying..

[@brandonklein1994]

I'm the problem in my marriage. And I'm struggling with emotional and intellectual and spiritual

[@anuradharaj6572]

Best videos ever with lots of hope

[@kimiekg1]

Thank you so much

[@SergMilli]

Great video. This is helping me a lot through my own break up.

[@MarriageHelper]

Thank you so much Serg Milli. We truly appreciate your comment and are grateful to have you as part of our community here on KZbin. Please, don't hesitate to reach out to us if there's anything else we can do for you. marriagehelper.com/marriage-strategy-call/ Blessings,

[@shardamohabir2955]

Thank you for all these beautiful words

[@channingtaylor9323]

How do I join the pies course?

[@pgtips4240]

This makes perfect sense.

[@deborahrouse5644]

If you knew no one in Korea, what friends did you associate with that made you feel good about yourself???

[@HelenaHart_SPELLS]

it is sad to have a broken home, use the law of attraction in my bio

[@MichaelRutzz]

Thanks Helena this save my marriage, I am grateful

[@DynamiteKid1224]

Awesome video! Love it!

[@jimjacobs3436]

All those hand movements during your delivery..imagine learning to “sign.”

[@hennore]

The more you grow in your PIES, the closer you’ll grow together towards Christ 🙏🏾

[@Catthebattlecat]

How about married to emotionally unavailable person/ narcs would these works?

[@Catthebattlecat]

@@beamka89 oh thank you for clarifying..it make sense now..

[@lcecbranch]

All narcs have unresolved childhood trauma. He needs therapy.

[@lukaellach9264]

God bless you

[@MarriageHelper]

Thank you so much Lukael Lach. We truly appreciate your comment and are grateful to have you as part of our community here on KZbin. Please, don't hesitate to reach out to us if there's anything else we can do for you. marriagehelper.com/marriage-strategy-call/ Blessings,

[@TheWolf047]

you could have written him a letter that he could read when he wanted to be alone instead of reading his book.

[@aliciaparejo7618]

I am working on my PIES....hopefully my marriage will be eventually restored....thank you for confirmation

[@MarriageHelper]

You can do it!

[@marywilliam8481]

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[@Iworkwithnitwits]

This video has been enormously helpful more than your other videos combined.

[@evaavi9990]

So helpful thank you so much :)

[@uchman2640]

Thanks alot Kemberly

[@GO-ep8pj]

I am never married but this make so much sense

[@zenanaiga1513]

Wow....I believe you. It's Alwz seems hard to get out of that hurting zone to the pie. But once you get the courage, the sky is the limit

[@raizahasmath5580]

Is there a video on PIES for men? I need to send to my husband too

[@ParkHillPianoStudio]

Loved this!

[@autumncortez6254]

I guess I’m not ready to try again in my marriage of 13 years. I have tried to try really hard to rally and be the hero in my marriage. But after a few months, I am still giving and he is still taking and I’m exhausted emotionally. Then things fall apart and I’m lonely and desperate. The cycle continues. Now I am unexpectedly pregnant with out 4th child and I had to go off my anti-depressant. I’m soul sick.

[@AustinKloud]

Listening to this story- this is My wife and I.

[@Zundopolis]

Any discussion of attraction without mentioning the polarity of masculinity/femininity is incomplete at best.

[@antawuantymes6578]

This is the best advice I had ever heard

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[@marywilliam8481]

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[@geemoore1387]

Perfectly said

[@Flower-i3r]

Thank you

[@drasmaishrat590]

In times of leave him,,,,leave her...how can u be so sure to stay ... everyone says divorce.......what makes u stay while being separated,,, bcz my family says its low self estemm like i cant think k will fine someone better than him ...etc etc ..what makes u so sure to continue marriage..what was the thought

[@004Heaven]

Hi, I tried to buy for 7.00 and it adds the add on course for 89.00.. the 7.00 doesn't show in the cart only 89.00. Kinda frustrating 😕

[@jamesmolina1923]

How do you overcome been upset about your spouse filing for divorce.

[@HelenaHart_SPELLS]

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[@MichaelRutzz]

Thanks Helena this save my broken marriage