[F4A] Afraid of Coming On Too Strong [you're not 'too much' for me][I like when you text me]

[@PineKatAudio]

Hello all- since this video is under 10 minutes I cannot turn off post-roll ads. This is really upsetting to me as an avid audio listener because there is nothing worse than being pulled out of the immersion by a blaring ad. In the future I’ll make sure all videos are at least ten minutes long so I will be able to turn off post-roll ads. Unfortunately if I turn off ads all together, KZbin will still run the ads, I just won’t get any compensation for it. This is beyond frustrating! I’m guessing this will affect my older videos that are under ten minutes as well. I’ll just make sure they’re long enough to avoid this in the future :(

[@mrcwillis6970]

Ok. Sorry to hear that Kat. Wish I could donate.

[@mrcwillis6970]

Btw Kat it’s says part 7 in the corner when it’s part 6. Sorry if I’m being nit picky.

[@vsupjanice]

@@mrcwillis6970 part 6 is on patreon😁

[@jossmcgonagall4631]

I'm sorry to hear that Kat, wish there was a way to help u feel less frustrated. Sending a virtual hug to you ^ ^

[@zeeba3999]

Not your fault, this one is on KZbin and their crappy practices. We appreciate you Kat!

[@birdontheinternet]

I was always a really cuddly touchy person until one day when it suddenly hit me that people have boundaries and it’s important to respect that. But since no one ever properly taught me how to respect boundaries since no one ever respected mine, I basically just taught myself to create distance from people both literally and figuratively. God, if even one person in my life could say half of what’s in this audio with even a fraction of the sincerity it would probably help me to fix so many of my social problems Edit: I forgot I’d seen this video before and I came into the comments just to find this after ugly sobbing. It’s been a rough day.

[@that_fellow_poet]

Im probably the only one who answered. I hope your doing better now :) If your having a hard time, go do something fun or just cozy🫂

[@ShadowMoon96]

I had to learn this the hard way from 12 years of attempting to look for genuine affection.

[@justaforklift2155]

I am a forklift that has returned to earth to reclaim my throne

[@PineKatAudio]

You can do it! 👑

[@Woodsboro_Slasher96]

I support you on your mission Mr forklift

[@p.a.wstudio5430]

Okay i went into this thinking i wouldn't feel too moved by this but it could be enjoyable.....i started choking on tears within 4 minutes of the video

[@Synthetic94]

Why, though?

[@p.a.wstudio5430]

@@Synthetic94 coz i feel like I'm too much for most people, the audio hit home

[@Synthetic94]

@@p.a.wstudio5430 ain't true though. In my experience people are pretty clear about boundaries.

[@p.a.wstudio5430]

@@Synthetic94 well yeah i know it's not But the fear is always there and sometimes it kinda takes over for few days So in those times it's nice to hear some reassurance...even tho it's just an audio

[@byonemesis]

"The right person loved, loves and will love you for who you are." I feel that quote... Screw assumptions and bad mouthing people, communication, intimacy, honesty, caring, love and loyalty are values.

[@LordSkella]

I always worry that I’m too much so I tend to go to the opposite end of the spectrum and avoid to balance it out. People think I’m aloof when I just don’t want to bug them. This was very relatable!

[@andreyoungauthor1181]

😮 me too you’re not alone so relatable. I’m also on the spectrum too. It feels good to know that there is someone else after struggling to who I can connect with. Thank you for sharing your comment.

[@AngryShoeLace_]

This hurts to listen to but It’s also comforting

[@Blindluck92]

The healthy communication is strong with this one, and I am 100% here for it. Thanks for the audio, Kat.

[@toybonniesfm]

As the impulsive loud boy, I can totally see myself in this situation. Ok not really, I can’t see myself in a relationship but still.

[@mrcwillis6970]

I can be afraid of being too much… but more of, been afraid I’m not enough wether it’s with family, friends… I don’t think I’m good enough for anyone, I think it’s why I don’t think I’m gonna be able to get a girlfriend, I don’t think any girl or just any person would love me. I don’t get why people I know apparently do love me, just so weird to me, then again I am weird… TY for another amazing ASMR Kat, love this series so much. ❤️

[@cassiohenrique6815]

Yeah!? You're just gonna describe me like that?

[@toybonniesfm]

Bro saaaaame, I cannot stress enough how loud and extra I feel. It would be easier to disappear without those loving me for no good reason.

[@SJ-vv8vt]

this makes so much sense. i feel like i exist too hard sometimes

[@mxtonksaudios]

Me at the beginning: "ooh this is gonna be nice and comforting" Me at the end: "WHO PUT TEARS IN MY EYES" 🥺💜💜

[@lynnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn]

OMG SAME 🤭🥺💜💜

[@fallinloveyoulose]

Thank you! I appreciate hearing words that clearly show someone wanting their partner to be their best self. You're a space creator for that, so thanks. Much love.

[@gc8219]

I did not realize how bad I struggle with this. i feel like my inner thoughts and insecurities were just all laid out in front of me.

[@GCG177]

I wish it was this easy to find a woman who’s loves you that much

[@GraceSquad13]

Oof I always feel like I come off too strong and too much for people, so I just kinda stay quiet. I used to apologize profusely, and I still kind of do even though it’s not my fault, but I guess that’s what happens when I grow up with an abusive mom

[@randomdude9664]

Damn. I had to rewind 6:00 and listen a couple extra times. It felt good to hear somebody say that. Random, I know haha Thanks for posting as always

[@vishnuhalikere6213]

Same here honestly. I rewind that part all the time too

[@NOVAZ3N]

man this is such a nice fantasy, thank you for putting this together

[@bernatrixvalentine9766]

This is the audio i needed thank you sooooo muchhh ❤️ your voice is so calming

[@AliceRain]

Istg these audios helped me so much through realizing what's good/bad, what's okay and not, and it gave me hope that I too can create healthy relations

[@asmrguy854]

the best thing is if you are unsure: ask first, even though you know they will probs say yes. asking shows you respect them

[@jossmcgonagall4631]

"You waited?" Me, who has a specific schedule to write to friends: hooold on, where are the cameras? =O

[@xxdominicxx8174]

this relates to me a lot, i always wanted to text my now ex, i just wanted to talk, but they always thought i was clingy, and same with my former friends, sometimes i would text a lot or too little because i always got these mixed signals of “omg too much” or “you text too little i don’t really wanna talk to you now” and i still feel weird because i still do that, and it rly weighs me down and doesn’t help my social anxiety 😢

[@mogwiawolf4354]

probably will watch this another time

[@Iden_in_the_Rain]

This hit like a truck goddamn

[@toxicking9442]

huh, didnt realize it was make me cry time...

[@Heveric]

Did someone say Cuddles? I heard cuddles. Why haven’t I started cuddling my girl sooner? Cmon me, get with the program! Lol, jokes aside this was nice. I can understand for some people if they feel they are going too fast in a relationship or don’t wanna appear clingy, so while taking things slow is smart there is such a thing as “too slow” and no one wants that. 😂

[@MariusM1910]

Turning 28 this month.. still waiting for my first kiss or cuddle 😞😢 It will happen eventually right?🥺

[@Amythest-ss6bu]

Has it happened yet?

[@shadwfangthefunnywolf3687]

YOU CAN DO IT‼️‼️‼️‼️

[@MrSHADOWANGEL999]

Well that was wholesome and lovely

[@xenonk7365]

It's interesting for me to hear something like this. Even if it's in my mind sometimes it makes me feel like I don't really thought about this stuff before. Which makes sense because I never had a relationship. But what bugs me a little is the fact that I can't even imagine meeting someone on a daily basis. To this day I never even met a person I can stand with for more than 24 hours. Now when I think about it loving someone would mean to me that I could bear to voluntarily meet a person like once a week. Which that makes me kind of sad.

[@alanhernandez8026]

That would absolutely be me on my first relationship Loved your audio ❤

[@Synthetic94]

The cute part is repeating everything I say in the form of a question. Lmao

[@megaroniproductions585]

I often think I am too clingy😅

[@ComfortsSpecter]

Now This Is Adorable Very Soothing for Such People as The Comments Portray Great Writing Series Need’s Better Marking So Coomfi and Natura

[@mogwiawolf4354]

hope this story continues : )

[@amehayami934]

Ok that's two thing's that was very expected. Playing with hands and touching eye brows lol. I was expecting playing playing with my hair and touching Each other. 😂

[@backdude405]

i really wish i had someone to say this to me , either way this was really comforting

[@scpfoundation2549]

This is epic.

[@AK45W]

Oh hey my favorite series, wonderful :D I'm just curious if this is part 7 where is part 6? I wonder if I missed something

[@LJb7878]

This is part 7 part 6 has been taken down because the KZbin gods said it was too spicy

[@AK45W]

@@LJb7878 ah i see, well thanks for the info friend

[@andrewdavido963]

Hey it's pine kat this is jus awesome very excited new audio definitely worth watching saving for tonight ❤️😊

[@mogwiawolf4354]

why is there part 7 in the bottom left corner if its part of a series it really should say that in the title cause was interested to watch it but now am to confused to now watch it

[@christopherabson9067]

What do mean I'm perfect?! I'm not handsome, I need so much affection that my own family says I'm annoying let alone people I tried to date... but... still, I love this. It's a script.... I know it's all fake... but it still feels good to hear something I wish was real. No one ever thinks that a partner who's love language is to be cuddled up with them need lots of attention is ideal.

[@NOVAZ3N]

No, see the reason this is a fantasy is because the speaker character depicted here is such a high quality, realistic person. It's not that people like this don't exist. It's that anyone who is like this is either already in a happy and healthy relationship, or they just don't want a relationship. I personally know several women like this in my own life. One of them got married almost out of high school and they're a close friend of mine. Another was in a relationship for 7 years while I knew them, and then when they broke up with their partner, they were single for 2 months before meeting someone who they were incredibly happy with. Another such friend has been in a relationship with their current fiance since before I met them in high school. I've been through 19 failed romantic interests in my lifetime. The last time I was in a successful healthy relationship was for my first 2 years in high school before my partner decided to gently discontinue our relationship due to circumstances outside of either our control. It's been 10 years since then. I've been continuously working on myself, studying psychology, philosophy, self development, the dynamics of healthy relationships, and many other subjects just to gain an understanding of the world and what I could be doing wrong in order for these potential relationships to not work out. I've had my heart broken in many more different ways than I thought possible. I've done deep introspection and I've asked friends and strangers what I could do differently or what I'm doing that could be causing these difficulties. Ultimately what we've collectively discovered is that, of course, everyone is different and has their own desires for what they want in a partner. I have tried everything I've been recommended to do, and everything I can think of doing. I've been abandoned, abused, respectfully rejected, and offered casual sex that I've declined because my heart and soul crave a meaningful, consummate relationship. The reason audios like this are fantasies is because it is simply a lottery for such a relationship to occur. Yes, both parties need to put in the effort and care, but if neither of such people meet each other, it doesn't matter.

[@Roddy_Zeh]

Precious. 🙌🏻

[@kentont.4499]

I loved this SOO much! 💖

[@Yumi_UwU_]

I’m on my way to class- In a taxi and now I’m on tears 🥲

[@vortexthehellhoundasmr51]

I love your new video keep it up your awesome 😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎

[@doctornoname1048]

*curls in ball an cries silently falling asleep* I love someone but we both aren't mentally ready.. she knows I like her but we agreed to be friends for now. If she ever says this to me I may fall to my knees and cry my eyes out. Bad dating record

[@lukim2744]

Damn dude, can't even bring myself to listen to this one, it's too relatable, I'm tryna maintain here 😂😂

[@amaya6091]

Honestly this was a bit anxiety inducing for me because everytime I were to get information wrong my mother would scold or yell at me so even though it was a calming voice and most of the other ones of I've listened to didn't make me feel anxious or anything (often just emotional) this one I was feeling very anxious because I felt as though I did something wrong even though I could tell I didn't do anything wrong due to the tone

[@hey_im_kasper_]

STOP CALLING ME OUT WOMAN

[@ojoking695]

So quick question. Where can i find myself one of these?

[@luissantiago5163]

Ayy wholesome

[@zcarecro]

Thank you

[@mogwiawolf4354]

oh so it is part of a series saw the play list which is odd that it says part 7 in the bottom left corner although part 5 is the one that came before it so my question is where is part 6 or why is this part 7?

[@PineKatAudio]

Part 6 is hosted on Patreon because it covers a topic that does not align with KZbin community guidelines, so I can’t upload the video to KZbin or it gets removed

[@cardo3566]

❤⚘

[@TheBroGamer14082]

yo uhh where's part 6? checked the playlist and it aint there.

[@poppyisaswiftie]

There's unfortunately no part 6 because it was took done I believe because it was time spicy or something. 🤷‍♀️

[@TheBroGamer14082]

@@poppyisaswiftie oh that's a shame edit: just checked and seems that 6 and 7 aint there either.

[@symbionthamuoshkabae4995]

I am so sorry to my future girlfriend for all the issues i have.

[@angelmatiastorres]

Hey! How are u!

[@that_fellow_poet]

WHERE ARE MY LESBIANS?!!🔥🔥🔥🔥🏳️‍🌈

[@shadwfangthefunnywolf3687]

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH‼️‼️‼️‼️🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈 [Not lesbian but bi sorry]

[@Nathan-n6s]

Yeah but there’s a difference between someone who accepts a relationship and someone who genuinely cares. She could be faking it for the sake if maintaining the relationship.

[@DogGirlSyri]

This is nice, but now I feel self conscious about my Eyebrows... so thanks?