Everything Flannery O'Connor w/ Fr. Damian Ference

[@graceymarie]

I so appreciate Matt's comments on not watching content with tons of nudity and sex. I catch a lot of flak from people because I refuse to watch anything on that level. Nobody really respects this opinion even within Catholic circles and it even took my husband forever to understand my views on it. I blame my dad, he set such a wonderful example throughout my life (please pray for him as he passed in 2019).

[@JohnHenrysaysHi]

I will pray for him! And I respect it.

[@graceymarie]

Thank you!!

[@JohnHenrysaysHi]

@@graceymarieThank you for being such a loving daughter! I prayed after you asked and in my Rosary this morning. Hope you have a very nice week!

[@buirvin1236]

Yes!! I have run into really similar issues. My parents did not let us watch stuff with moderately frequent sex scenes or and graphic sex scenes in it. I still don’t to this day. I found that having believing friends that are gen x and older, I don’t feel ostracized at all with that. My older friends’ generations were not desensitized to sex in the same way we were.

[@graceymarie]

That is a good point about the age difference! I do find most people that don't get it are younger than me (including my husband lol). Definitely something to remember for future children if we are blessed with them 💙

[@jessie341]

I really love this guest. I disagreed with his stance on watching films, and listening to music that glorify sin, but I loved the humility he showed when he discussed it honestly with Matt. He even said that he may be wrong about it and will be thinking on it more. I love the simple childlike acceptance of the possibility of personal error. Matt's guests, and Matt himself, show that quality often, and it always inspires me. Most of Fr. Damian Ference's insights and opinions were beautiful, and I really enjoyed this discussion. Thanks for providing it, Pints!

[@Sigma77-n2u]

Listening to heavy metal is not a sin

[@coltonhaight9927]

My daughter Flannery Mary Elizabeth was just born on the feast of the visitation of the Blessed Virgin Mary. Cheers!

[@kermierogers7876]

I'm with Matt Fradd 100% about that vulgar Emma Stone movie. There is absolutely no good reason for anyone, let alone a priest, to go see these disgusting Hollywood movies!

[@danaugustineic287]

We are very blessed to have Fr. Ference here in the Diocese of Cleveland!

[@catkat740]

I’m with Matt on this one. If all Christians held to their faith and convictions, Hollywood would be forced to stop stuffing trash in every film.

[@laurants]

Too many sleepy Caths live guided by the ever-changing culture instead of their Church.

[@bobgriffin8306]

Thanks for standing up to Father on not watching the movie! I agree with your position

[@margokupelian344]

When I was growing up I went to a Protestant school as my mom was a Protestant. They had very strict rules pertaining morality so we were not allowed to go see movies of any kind or dancing. If we were caught we were punished. This was in the late fifties. So, I think it’s not good and neither is it healthy to be on the extremes but I think teachers and parents should have the responsibility to guide young people to the “ right” movies although now it’s very hard to find the “right” movies.

[@ruthapollonia6722]

I 100% agree with Matt on putting the Communion rails back in churches to see real change in Eucharistic devotion.

[@julieelizabeth4856]

Good leadership came to my parish in 2011, and communion rails were installed a few years later. The parish is now experiencing growing pains with many large, young, devoted families. Some drive many miles past many other churches to come here.

[@danielsampong6607]

Why not all of the options? Communion rails, Eucharistic congresses , better catechises etc

[@captainskippy4560]

​@danielsampong6607 Good question. Why settle for anything less?

[@PatrickJames7]

On the Bp. Barron comments: I understand Matt’s sensitivity, but Barron’s analysis of Coen Bros movies on podcasts I heard in 2017-2018 was instrumental in my conversion to Catholicism as opposed to just returning to some Evangelical church I’d abandoned a decade before. The Church teaches through Beauty, and what Beauty there is belongs to God as much as does Truth. And Barron allowed me to see what was possible through the Catholic tradition instead of the prudish opposition to most art I’d experienced as a young Protestant. Especially coming from a Christian background that had perpetuated so much falsehood and propaganda about the Catholic Church, with Barron’s film and fiction reviews, I felt invited in. I felt, these people have access to something that I did not know because I’d only heard lies. All of which is to say: Barron’s approach does in fact reach people in “the culture”. It reached me. And my wife. And now we have four sons, two of whom just appeared mysteriously upon our reception into The Church on Pentecost 2020. Separately: Fr Damien: fellow Clevelander here. I’ve got all your books. Looking forward to The Hillbilly Thomist this weekend. God bless you!

[@codywork-us7wu]

The same happened to me. I love BRB but sometimes he gives glowing reviews to some gross flicks. I remember watching Lady Bird (included a 5 minute Sx scene between two teens) and being floored that BRB would not caution people about the film. His approach to finding beauty is true and I will always be thankful for BRB knowing his film, literature, and philosophy. Without Barron who would have reached me?

[@ChuckP123]

Thank you, Matt, for challenging Fr. Ference on watching movies containing degeneracy. It's a scandal that a priest would admit to watching and praising a movie like that.

[@blondetapperware8289]

Thank you Matt and Father Damian for the rigourous discussion! I think these are precisely the ones that NEED to be had, not shied away from, even if it gets a little contentious at times (but in a healthy, not demeaning way).

[@Teamfra]

A true dialogue…thank you both. Love Fr. D…great pushbacks on either side…I see both sides and have struggled with the line…prudence and prayer…Be not afraid! Btw, Fr Damian as a holy priest is definitely #flourishing

[@anneg7411]

50:06 Thank you so much for making the argument against watching movies such as Poor Things. I didn't watch it, but saw a few online reviews about it and it sounded so repulsive I don't think there's any convincing argument in favor of watching it or recommending that others do so. It's a little disturbing that a priest would justify watching it in order to have discussions about it.

[@shawnpierce6285]

I have so many tabs open on the books and movies that were name dropped in this interview. So much to learn!

[@SusanneKinghorn]

Rear Window is my favorite movie ever. Great story with 'not too sappy' romance, mystery, & beautiful dresses worn by Grace Kelly ✨

[@catherineginn3232]

I’m coming off taking a semester long course on American Literature which devoted only a single lesson of 1 hour and 15 minutes on O’Connor’s “A Good Man Is Hard to Find” (20 of which was taken up by my professor making completely unnecessary announcements that had nothing to do with the subject of the class meeting or the course); I feel like I learned more information, more clearly, and was more affected by what I learned listening to this 45 minute podcast episode that the entirety of that course. I also now have plans to buy a copy of O’Connor’s prayer book; I’m Protestant, but I can’t help but think it would still be a good and helpful read.

[@bobtaylor170]

Read her Complete Stories and her collection of letters, The Habit of Being. Read the stories straight through, beginning to end. The orthodoxy is that "A Good Man is Hard to Find" is her masterpiece story. I say it's "Revelation," and that in time, I will be vindicated in my opinion.

[@bobtaylor170]

By the way, I'm Protestant, too. Maybe her loveliest story is an early one, "The River."

[@greenriver-c7c]

@@bobtaylor170 Revelation. Yep. Ironically, the best analysis of that short story I've come across is 7-minute video you can find on youtube by Bishop Barron. Just search for '"Revelation" - Flannery O'Connor "Pivotal Players" Episode'. It is done so well. In hindsight, it might have been interesting if this "pints" episode had, as part of episode prep, reading the story (it's not long) and a viewing of Bp. Barron's analysis. Plenty of on-topic material to discuss from that alone.

[@JohnDonne-t4u]

@@bobtaylor170 Revelation is excellent! The Displaced Person should be in the running too. That, Parker's Back or The RIver may be my personal favorites.

[@JohnDonne-t4u]

Her prayer book is exquisite, you definitely should. I'm protestant as well, and ironically fell in love with Ms. O Connor's work in literature classes at a Reformed Presby. college. Yes, read the stories, all of them straight through, but don't forget the novels after that. Darkly comic Wise Blood, which is a combination of cultural autopsy, hilarity, and metaphorical theology. The Violent Bear It Away may contain her most rendingly beautiful writing of all, and the fact that she could sustain the deeply condensed layers of meaning of the stories across a full novel makes it, to me, her best work, or perhaps the cornerstone that ties together everything else.

[@nickwaves6420]

This was a very good discussion. Kudos to Matt on the hard push back, as it initiated a deeper conversation about to what extent should we participate in possibly degenerate art. We are not impervious to temptation, so why act like we can be an "objective" (protected) observer? Some things are just better left alone.

[@giannagiorgio1398]

i love father damian so much he’s great. i went to a retreat at the borromeo seminary where he teaches and he’s just incredible

[@MelissaDiFini]

I am looking forward to this interview. Fr. Damian works in my diocese! I love your show, Matt. You always have the best guests. Thank you! -Melissa D. From, Cleveland, Ohio

[@jkileel]

What did you think ?

[@MelissaDiFini]

I enjoyed learning about Flannery O'Connor. Fr. Damian inspired me to start blocking the same time each day for writing. What did you think?

[@LorenzoBracy]

Enlightened and mature discussion of art that sometimes offends moral sensibilities. Matt did not have to explain himself but I am grateful that he referenced his wounds and weakness. Thanks to both men!

[@randallpeaslee1779]

I listened to this on Spotify but wanted to comment. What a fascinating conversation. I love how you can push one another in argument with charity. What's more, the topics the come up are so worthy of intelligent discussion. Love this!

[@laurathies5439]

I think often of how I and we can unify everyone into the Fullness and Truth of the Body of Christ and after my thought, I remember that I am not God and to empty myself and Trust in Him that this will happen because of Him and not just what made me want Trust in Him. 🎉

[@travelchix22]

Very thoughtful discussion!! Thank you both!

[@AJPM802]

50:11 Fr. Ripperger gives a great talk on the principle of the integral good speaking to this Highly recommend.

[@TheQCR]

Matt, you're the man. Thanks for pushing back on the porn movie. Priests should know better.

[@aubergineontoast]

"I dont need to get in the sewer and play with shit to know what it's like" - Matt Frad

[@thisis_chavez]

Let's all pray 7 Hail Mary for the protection of the entire Christendom

[@frapaschal6594]

@15:34 - Love this point about many of us not feeling like we "fit in" the Church and we can find hope in people like Flannery

[@frapaschal6594]

Also @34:20 Cookie Cutter analogy and freedom

[@RealPJ]

Very interesting talk

[@skatingscooby]

The Nicelodeon series, Avatar, has an amazing redemption arc!

[@captainskippy4560]

Absolutely without a doubt

[@devon6294]

Well said, Matt. And thank you.

[@catholicmartialartist]

I used to be okay with violence in movies but the more I prayed about it, I’ve noticed that movies and games have gone so so violent that it desensitizes me from it. I think this ultimately comes from the world trying it’s best to desensitize us from the passion of our Lord. But that’s just my .02

[@ripbeni6198]

Oh it definitely is the world trying to do this.

[@monicaspooner2005]

Why does no one mention voyeurism when considering evaluating a movie? Is it not sinful to pay to watch actors actually commit a sin on film? Many of these sorts of scenes require the actor to commit sin.

[@holdingsteadfast]

Tbh, speaking for myself, its probably because so much heinous impurity is readily shown in the culture that voyeurism isn't anymore seen as so bad it merits mention. The depravity of culture is so deep-seated now.

[@mx_moi1964]

Do you think they are actually engaging in sex? Pls tell me you are joking..

[@JewelBlueIbanez]

There was an intimacy coordinator’s channel who’s shorts made it into my algorithm for a while. It’s all fake a simulated (ie: wigs and prosthetics, etc.). I still don’t want to watch it.

[@jhssuthrnmama]

​ How does how much you enjoy it eliminate the immorality of committing mortal sins as part of your job?

[@julieelizabeth4856]

@@jhssuthrnmama Yeah as actors, they promote the story lines.

[@rosiegirl2485]

When thinking about a fun romantic comedy... Nothing tops the movie "Overboard" With Goldie Hawn and Kurt Russell! I can watch the movie over and over and still feel the emotions that the movie brought out!⚘️

[@benclark1482]

Yall just got me reading Flannery and i love it! Thank you!

[@willthegamer124willgaming3]

Totally agree with Matt on Altar Rails. I switched parishes to attend a newer built Church (NO Mass) that has one. Father is right though it’s not a silver bullet. 95% of parishioners still receive standing on the hand 😳

[@michaelbumbarger3112]

The Man Who Shot Liberty Valance - greatest movie of all time

[@Ahnjay_2k]

'Poor things' was extremely pedophillic in its depiction which is something I dont see many people memtion.

[@graceymarie]

My first thought when hearing the synopsis of Poor things was John Money and Alfred Kinsey and the horrible "experiments" they did.... This movie fits right in with the current culture.

[@ripbeni6198]

@@graceymarieand this priest (wolf) recommends this filth.

[@barnrazedbyjesse6893]

The Hillbilly Thomists are great! I love bluegrass, perhaps it was my Appalachian Ohio upbringing or the Marty Stewart 8 tracks my grandparents would play.

[@laurants]

42:00 Being in construction, I was recently on a jobsite near a Catholic parish that was on a hill. The parish is fairly dead now but it is very traditionally built. I was noting to my foreman that when people drove this road they could see the church without obstruction. Now, with the building we built, the church is all but hidden from view.

[@brianmurphy9570]

You don't need to watch a movie to be able to connect with someone. You can always ask them to explain why they like it and connect with them that way.

[@andrewpelt]

I just went and read a portion of the IMDB parent guide on “Poor Things”. It is disgusting that anyone, let alone a priest, would even attempt to justify watching such sinful and harmful content. Paul is clear in Ephesians 5:3, “But sexual immorality and all impurity or covetousness must not even be named among you, as is proper among saints.” ‭‭Ephesians‬ ‭5‬:‭3‬ ‭ESV‬‬ No matter what you think of that scripture verse, it clearly leaves no room for watching pornography, let alone trying to justify it to others. Moreover, encouraging a man who has spent his adult life battling against, apparently winning said battle, and helping others to get free of a sinful addiction such as pornography, to watch the movie as well so they can discuss it, is a grotesque and evil act. We should never encourage others to engage in sin. There’s no way you can willingly view such things and not be sinning against God.

[@graceymarie]

That portion of the interview really bothered me. There are movies that I feel we should absolutely not partake in and "Poor things" sounds like the perfect example of that... There are plenty of wonderful movies that aren't loaded with filth and you don't need to watch something in full to relate to people who have watched it... We can read the synopsis and know.

[@erric288]

I agree. There's definitely scandal and imprudence on the part of Fr. Damian. It's like asking an alcoholic to come to this bar that requires you to get drunk, but hey, the food has a delightfully disgusting flavor, so I have to go and leave a review (lest I be excluded from the cool kid conversations). He doesn't smell like sheep, more like wolf.

[@ripbeni6198]

@@erric288Agreed, He reeks of wolf to me. I’ve seen his posts and who he’s associated with, he’s such a liberal.

[@mchristr]

Your point is valid and I immediately thought of St. Paul's 1st letter to Corinth, where he tells us to consider the weaker brother as not to make him stumble. But didn't Fr. Damien agree that we are justified in condemning pornography? And yet these things are abstractions until they touch someone's life. But while abstaining from what may be disquieting or corrosive to our soul may be prudent, it doesn't transform us. Only God's grace can do that. I'm not pushing back but rather thinking out loud.

[@brianwinters9995]

I dedicated my first book to Flannery O'Connor

[@kayleyself8173]

wow this was my absolute favorite talk to date! A contemplative priestly perspective + classic literature. More of this pleeeeease! Madeline L'engle may be interesting to discuss

[@christinacastillon6439]

John Wick movies are brilliantly choreographed. They are very violent but in a highly skilled martial arts performance and very little blood and guts is shown. I find it interesting that it has so many Catholic references.

[@codywork-us7wu]

I agree that there is a lot of skill in the JW films but there is something very tiresome of the "revenge murderfest genre". 3 movies of viciousness that doesnt have much else going on. Martial skill is good and people should train, practice and compete.

[@maryannbautista3998]

Fr. Damian is delightful! I want to be part of his little nerd camp.

[@philipboyle7267]

Kudos Matt. I think when it comes to pornography in Hollywood films, the quality of the acting shouldn't play into an opinion of the sinfulness of it at all. I'm unconvinced a talented actress doesn't win an award or jumpstart her career precisely because she's engaging in immoral behavior on film. I'm sure there's a version of this that applies to men as well but I'm not as sensitive to it.

[@greypilgrim9967]

The part where Father Damien was talking about what he was wearing, I don't think it only has to be about that. I think things like that could also be because being a faithful practicing Catholic is difficult. I think recognizing what is good and bad, what shouldn't be tolerated, what is and what isn't 'coloring within the lines' of the church as they said can be very difficult at times. Or certain things can be difficult for certain people to recognize. So I think that is also a reason

[@SecondStarHomestead]

Thank you, Matt, for pushing back. The damage that priests do when they recommend things like this is devastating. No, you don't need to watch those movies to do "culture research" to be able to have conversations with people. This need to be overly relatable is why the Church looks ridiculous to people. Keep pushing back on stuff like this.

[@anneg7411]

100% agree. So glad to see other comments such as this one.

[@SecondStarHomestead]

I usually don't comment on youtube videos, but that was just so disappointing to hear. I'm glad for the openness of this discussion. It highlights just how much our priests need our prayers.

[@stephencotter538]

Because of this podcast, I finally got a copy of A Good Man Is Hard to Find and Other Short Stories. I love em! Reminds me of the TV series, Fargo. I didn't expect A Good Man to end so abruptly and the way it did. (I also read Dostoevsky because of this channel, and my 2 favorite books are Crime & Punishment, and The Brother's K) This channel promotes a lot of good books and resources. Good stuff 👍😎👊✌️

[@Teamfra]

Fr. Damian is amazing!! Great guests, Matt!!

[@stephencotter538]

This episode made me think of The interview with Gabby after hours, when he said, I'm too charismatic for the traditionalists, and I'm too traditional for the charismatics.

[@mrsandmom5947]

I attend sacred heart in milledgeviile Ga.

[@mariaperry741]

Bishop Barron didn't like the Shape of Water and had a great video reviewing it! He talks a lot about the philosophical messaging behind the movie, and the bad moral values.

[@sarahburke8955]

Oooo exciting! I hate waiting, but looking forward to this interview.

[@JohnHenrysaysHi]

It's been years so I don't remember the movie well, but this Harvey (1950) quote was meaningful for me: Elwood P. Dowd : Years ago my mother used to say to me, she'd say, "In this world, Elwood, you must be" - she always called me Elwood - "In this world, Elwood, you must be oh so smart or oh so pleasant." Well, for years I was smart. I recommend pleasant. You may quote me. Jimmy Stewart is my pick for greatest actor, and It's a Wonderful Life is my pick for greatest movie I've ever seen because of its illustration of the priceless precious gift of a single life! I might have only seen them once out of order with people multitasking, but from a fuzzy childhood memory of movies onward, these are the only imo 10/10s I could think of trying to be impartial with my wacky criteria, so not my favorite movies: It's a Wonderful Life- This is my choice for greatest movie. The rest of these aren't in order. Ben Hur (1959) Dial M for Murder Raiders of the Lost Ark Gone With the Wind The Incredibles Rear Window Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory Wizard of Oz To Kill a Mockingbird Sound of Music Muppets Christmas Carol And then for best performances: Maria Falconetti's Joan (1928 The Passion of Joan of Arc) these are also the most three dimensional characters from film I can remember: Liv Ullman's Eva (1978 Autumn Sonata) Ernest Borgnine's Marty Piletti (1955 Marty) Daniel Day Lewis' Reynolds Woodcock (2017 Phantom Thread) If anyone thinks this stinks, feel free to let me know! Thanks Matt. Hope you and your family have a wonderful week!

[@Csodak]

Remove the incredibles 😂 and add in “Babette’s Feast” And “You Cant Take it with you”! And “amazing Grace” I didn’t really follow the conversation just love to read and add to great movie lists!

[@JohnHenrysaysHi]

​@@Csodak Thanks! If you have any more recommendations, please share! Also, why remove the Incredibles? I don't like overrating things, but when it comes to animated movies discussion, I've been consistently saying that's the only 10/10 animated movie so I'll have to say that I no longer give any animated movie that high of a rating and everybody will chase me! jk

[@Pieflavourman87]

I'm so glad you included the incredibles, I have great bias for it. I credit it for inoculating me against envy driven ideologies (communism foremost among them).

[@JohnHenrysaysHi]

@@Pieflavourman87 Sweet! Thank you so much for your reply! You're very welcome! It's the only animated movie, as well as superhero movie, I gave a 10/10. The second greatest I could think of, imo, is Grave of the Fireflies which I gave a 9/10. However, I gave a bunch of 9/10s! Prince of Egypt and Wall-e are a couple of them! And the only superhero movie I gave a 9/10 is Spider-man 2. Hope you and yours have a Happy Fun Faith-over-Fear Friday!

[@stk2000]

01:07:15 Watch "The Young Pope" as it shows the catholic church's dazzling visual beauty, how an intimate prayer-relationship with God can look like, the liberating force of confession and that Christianity is a gateway to the mystery of God 😶‍🌫 rather than a mere collection of rules. God bless. ☀

[@codywork-us7wu]

Way to much p*rnography in that show to call it a Good Catholic show

[@ripbeni6198]

Don’t, it has disgusting porno sex scene(s).

[@martyfouch3135]

Regarding Eucharist revival I 100 billion % agree with you Matt

[@tracyyates5310]

This helped so much, thanks

[@johngraham3288]

Matts comment on adding the altar rail and turning the altar contradicts his earlier comments about not being judgemental. Good job.

[@ACatholicPerspective]

Once is such a good movie that was forgotten too quickly!

[@micheldevries7975]

Cudo's to Matt for standing his ground during the Emma Stone film/pornography bit. Yes pornography IS evil. I wonder if the guest actually realized what podcast he was on and about Matt's crusade against pornography? Anyway something else: Roy Schoeman, the Jewish Catholic,would be a great guest on this show. His conversion story is very inspiring.

[@stephencotter538]

I'm a little late to the party, very intrigued by the flannery O'Connor title. If he hasn't already, I hope father or Matt reference one of my favorite flannery quotes, “All human nature vigorously resists grace because grace changes us and the change is painful.” ❤

[@JoePalos91]

I'm an hour in and I just realized Father reminds me of Steve Zahn. 😂

[@maddiemeadowsplace9990]

Can’t wait for the video shorts! Love the solar eclipse totality metaphor! Wow!

[@chase6579]

The mother in a good man is hard to find is so common in the south. At least it was when I was a kid. I went to church with a lot of them.

[@julietap.415]

The first time that I really don't share the point of view of one gest, if we see "trash" movies it reminds in our hearts, the same with music and others. And promote them for the "study" is very very dangerous. I'm saying that knowing that for sure is something that I did, and trying to stop because I feel the pain that causes to the soul

[@creativeeverydaylife]

In relation to whether it is okay to see violence or nudity, I just want to say: scenes with violence are typically made with theatrical blood and no one gets hurt. scenes with nudity, there are literally naked people. These are not robots, but real naked people. For me there is a big difference there. Not that all films and series with scenes of violence are something I would recommend, but I think there is a big difference between seeing something fake and something real. I think a bit about how I would feel to be in the same room as the actors. If some did a bloody war scene with theatrical blood in front of me, that would be okay - but if some threw their clothes in front of me, kissed intimately for several minutes, or something more intimate, I would not be okay with that. It may be different how people will experience it, but I think there is a big difference between fake and real. I love when they only hints and don't show the intimate stuff, or show the relationship indited - like in Pride and Prejudice. May God bless you all, and may we all learn to navigate these times.🥰

[@lunatic8301]

You should watch Vinland Saga. It's a redemption story of a revenge seeking viking

[@Chris-bb6dg]

Season 2🔥

[@Christo8301]

First anime i watched and loved it 🙌

[@danacasey8266]

Game of Thrones is not only full of porno sex, but also full of obscene and diabolic violence. I was tucked into it, but I didn't watch the last two series. I couldn't take it any more.

[@Roxanne-dontsingtome]

These actors and actresses are people and their acting out these scenes and showing their naked bodies is offensive to their dignity. Never mind what it also does to the viewer.

[@catkat740]

1:20:07 What virtue comes from watching Poor Things?

[@christopherfleming7505]

The quote you were looking for is by George Orwell: "we read to know we are not alone."

[@ASaltySojourner]

Yes! Alter rails please!

[@jamesrollins1122]

Every time Matt brings up Hitchcock, I'm surprised he or his guest never talks about I Confess or The Wrong Man

[@zsedcftglkjh]

Lots of sex and violence in Hitchcock movies.

[@jamesrollins1122]

@@zsedcftglkjh Technically true, though I think Hitchcock was kinda indirect and never graphic with the sex and violence compared to modern movies. My original point was that I Confess and Wrong Man are the most directly Catholic movies Hitchcock ever made.

[@sistercatherine5498]

Flannery’s mother volunteered with our community (the Hawthorne Dominicans) in Atlanta. Flannery also wrote the introduction to a book about one of our patients many years ago.

[@mjplate1311]

Priests should encourage people to move closer to God, not dabble in sin or invite evil into their lives. We don't need to watch porn to know it is evil or just to relate to non-Catholics. He needs to spend more time in prayer, and he definitely needs our prayers.

[@MrKage-fb2wy]

Matt, you need to look up a video game called Red Dead Redemption 2. It's been six years since it came out and I've still gotten videos in my feed making the case that the main character is the best character in all of fiction. Know why? Because he goes through the journey you're talking about. He starts wicked, and you're given the option to choose goodness. Just about everyone I've seen always takes the good route.

[@codywork-us7wu]

I was very disappointed with RDR2. The game still requires you to kill lawmen even on a "good" play through. (Worst part of the game is you can be "high honor" and still shoot up strawberry with micah) Arthur never accepts forgiveness and constantly condemns himself. Yeah he doesnt follow Dutch and Micah toward absolute destruction at the end but he never fully repents in any sense. Arthur has no hope for his future as a good man and just gives up. Sure he helps John escape but hes never GOOD hes just regretful that his life led to hurting so many people. Hardly "Redemption"

[@cocobee6512]

I’m a religion teacher and I showed my fifth graders Nacho Libre. It’s so fun.

[@dpiscoya]

1:55:42 - I see your O'Connor and raise you Gene Wolfe. Gotta check him out - he's the O'Connor of recent decades.

[@TriumphantBriar]

Y’know, between this and the Shayne Smith video from last week, I would love to see Matt interview a Christian metal musician.

[@Csodak]

Matt’s comment ..how do you evangelize a culture you do t know…is so right. Early in our homeschool years we we’re learning our faith becoming very fervent and more radical…then we observed other homeschool families whose kids were enter high school age with zero ability to communicate with others bc they didn’t understand even basic pop culture they were so far removed they literally couldn’t function and several went off the deep end in young adulthood…so we rengaged the culture doing what father calls “cultural research” and spent a ton of time talking about movies books social media stuff…we made some big mistakes and the kids did see things I wish I would have protected them from…however we considered it a “social cultural inoculation” small doses with lots of conversation on the topics and agendas presented and overall our kids learned more and all live in the world and usually not of it

[@danielsampong6607]

Unsure if Matt was saying the council called for removing altar rails(she did not) However the Catholic both end is why not both? Eucharistic Congress, altar rails, better catechesis, prayer etc

[@sacredheart414]

I can't find how/where to see this Flannery movie anywhere. The movie ticket website says the film was released in May, but that no tickets are available and that it is not showing anywhere no matter which state I search??

[@kathieamacher687]

Great, strong, argument Matt against 'Poor Things'--emma Stone movie. Bravo.

[@zsedcftglkjh]

After he shamed people for wanting to be "too pure." 🤣 Matt is such a basket case of emotions. He can't think for himself.

[@anneg7411]

@@zsedcftglkjh Not everyone is perfect like you😉

[@EmilyBarnhill-pg4sp]

Hi! I watch and enjoy many of your videos- you are a wonderful interviewer and I appreciate the types of questions you ask your guests. Very informative. I am Catholic and have been my entire life. My husband became Catholic this past Easter and his journey and passion of the faith has reignited my love for the Catholic faith. I was a little surprised, actually disappointed, to hear Father Damien approve the watching of a film like what he described with Emma Stone. You mentioned your wounds and could possibly be part of the reason you feel the way you do - however….I do not believe there has to be any other reason- other than, these types of movies Do Not Glorify God. This has kind of been my barometer. And I feel so much better living my life that way. That’s been my go to question- Does this ( movie, book, speech, behavior, thought, etc) Glorify God??? Maybe it’s sounds drastic, but isn’t that how we are called to live our lives? Glorifying and Praising God. Am I successful all the time- absolutely not, lol- I sin everyday probably🙄BUT I also try and keep a conversation with God throughout my day- it keeps me in check so to speak. It makes me more aware of my sins and prompts me to either choose differently or definitely change the behavior in the future. But movies today- my goodness, I can not even begin to understand the underlining evils throughout them. Whether it is sex, violence, blasphemy or otherwise- it’s simply disturbing and saddens me that society finds this normal and acceptable. I found great comfort in hearing you say, that you do not even entertain certain themed movies- I think creating a zero tolerance policy works best and encourages our faithfulness to Gods teachings.

[@billstrom351]

I wonder is Catholics like Matt and this priest know about Vid Angel?

[@jamesrollins1122]

Matt has posted about VidAngel on his social media in the past and I believe he's mentioned it in previous podcasts too.

[@pomcast1533]

Matt, it would be worth having a guest talk about the rosary. Your comments about it in this episode were the thing that hit me more than anything else. If you never had a "rosary" episode I think you need to. Fr Patrick Peyton, among others, pushed the ides that the rosary become part of the official liturgy of the Church. Disagree if u like, but it indicates that the rosary is not merely optional piety. In Canon law for priests (in the old one) it was legislated that priest ought to pray it.

[@pomcast1533]

@pjm001 understood. I agree with that sentiment. But what I mean by the movement as an official liturgy of the Church would be similar to the Liturgy of the Hours. Not something done at Mass, but something that flows from it and leads back to it.

[@AJPM802]

Do we bring back the index? Yes.

[@Valathiril]

Dang would have loved to get his thoughts on the Young Pope

[@mollym6375]

Just like all priests aren't meant to be exorcists, not all Catholics can consume all cultural outputs. But here's the thing: we NEED some Catholics to engage with the culture by watching say, Game of Thrones because THAT will be the conversation and evangelical hook for some people. 😊

[@johngraham3288]

Matt's comment about diversity. We do want diversity of faith. We are not cookie-cutter Catholics. We see this with many of the Traditionalists who seem to insist in the superiority of that form of worship. There is a place for Mass in Latin and there is room for the ordinary form.

[@maciejpieczula631]

34:24 Brian Holdsworth should heed this advice.

[@marieloumontenegro3103]

Fr Damian, you will be a saint fast. Understanding human nature is the start of holiness.

[@lweberl24]

Unpopular opinion based on the comments I read here. But I agree with Fr.

[@taytrax9737]

“Keep your tone sober” should be the only disclaimer above comment sections

[@Evanvictor127]

I would argue that as soon as you record a sex act where it can be accessed by a third party, it becomes pornography. Even if the intent was only for the two participants to watch it, there is always the chance it will be accessed by others.

[@codywork-us7wu]

Fight Club was a very interesting film. I thought it raised a lot of ideas surrounding the disillusionment of men and the turning toward ideologies that would destroy the current society. That said friends its got serious content problems and I dont recommend it. I wish films could explore the disillusionment of men without resorting to "corn"ography

[@ripbeni6198]

Exactly, not worth watching at all because of the corn.

[@sophiewhite3140]

Is Fr.'s surname related to the Hungarian first name Ferenc? It's pronounced almost the same.

[@nicholassmith3899]

34:48, is Matt throwing shade at Gabi After Hours? Just joking, God bless.