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Ri Turner

Ri Turner

Күн бұрын

i read the mountain is you by Brianna Wiest last year and the words "your new life is going to cost you your old one" will forever stick with me. we are naturally forever evolving beings but attach previous versions of ourselves, relationships, habits that no longer serve us and it makes it difficult for us to grow. change is inevitable and always happening whether we see it or not. I am embracing the change and allowing the unknown to take its course.
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@riturner
@riturner 5 ай бұрын
for those asking, I do have a podcast! :) Here's the link: bit.ly/4cdZOGC 💚
@daes5465
@daes5465 4 ай бұрын
ITS fear ITS Traumata ITS education from Patents and school ITS the competition of success becoming a looser or a Winner ITS having to choose a logic Thats all Attachments Thats why i couldnt live When i was living they Made me to attach to their Illusion They are Not on your Side to Help you and assist you to Just live And within the competition many people around you will decrease your Evolution They hold you down Then your are living in a Cage or jail cell Thats why the Dating apps are full of people Just using each Others Dissing And some find Love or think they did But in reality you can See a Person and you can Just try to know This Person Without judging specific situation cause This you can do If you See that Theres a stable characzeristic If you See Someone angry Dienst mean Hes a Bad Person But If This Person is penetrating in General then you can move on Or Just send him for Help With me human frightened me so much that i cant find a Woman to Love ITS Just people from people i know and ITS Nothing free ITS organised situations and intensions Now i changed but i dont know If i again end Up in crazy relationship People around me IS saying Ohhh they frightened you or Someone , go and cry The wolrd is so Bad But If IT comes to their suffer and Hurt then ITS Something very different Many people IS realy stupid and selfish They are destroyed and Ego based They will face exactly what they think about Others No Mercy And they Dont understand the rule of resonance
@daes5465
@daes5465 4 ай бұрын
Your beautiful and smart
@daes5465
@daes5465 4 ай бұрын
I only did hold myself Back Till my Life was safe If i can Turn Back time i would never did IT I would have left the people behind where i was uncomfortable They only Had loyalty because of Intension I can Tell you Become whatever and whoever you want to become If you doing IT with your Heart you will Finish many Things I never stopped myself doing whatever i want I didnt let anything Slave me too Long To get Out of poverty was the longest jail time After This IT was only Love jail cells i was trapped in Detachment means you will evolve and learn different Things and you will create and Work and essen Money or Just Help or thrive Never Stop yourself If you think about to do sth Just Dont buy cheap bullshit Inform yourself and somit step by step without burning recourdes or your whole Money
@daes5465
@daes5465 4 ай бұрын
The Life in every existence Just wants to celebrate exustence AS Life And This IS in all creation You are very intelligent that you looked inside yourself to notice that you have to seperate and then Support the Life in yourself IT doesnt nean that you need to Block all people But whatever is coming Out of you and IS giving you a Signal IS the Life that is within you If you find some people you can share exactly This without intensions you will quickly evolve instead in Holding on to people with too much needs I Wish you the best You are good You are realy highly evolved dont stop yourself Just Take Care And pay Attention
@miaispresent
@miaispresent 7 ай бұрын
"Instead of being liked, you're gonna be loved." EXACTLY. preach sis!
@muome206
@muome206 5 ай бұрын
True this hit for me too
@mutelarsorhougbe4606
@mutelarsorhougbe4606 5 ай бұрын
Wowwww
@itsloloheaux
@itsloloheaux 7 ай бұрын
Ended a 5yr relationship because of this. Growth is painful, it’s messy and uncomfortable but what’s on the other side is worth it. ❤
@riturner
@riturner 7 ай бұрын
agree 100 percent
@kaylaEA_
@kaylaEA_ 7 ай бұрын
Absolutely.
@yougetaspear7799
@yougetaspear7799 7 ай бұрын
Hey I'm new boo🤷🏿‍♂️🤷🏿‍♂️
@pastry111
@pastry111 7 ай бұрын
Sending love ❤
@justZacarias
@justZacarias 7 ай бұрын
@@yougetaspear7799 LMAO you ain't waste no time
@TrulyKierra
@TrulyKierra 5 ай бұрын
This is exactly how I have been feeling. Miserable and comfortable.
@ambbbbrrrr
@ambbbbrrrr 7 ай бұрын
😮‍💨 I needed this. For years I would say the “next year is my year” and then continue to be stuck in the same ole same ole . I have constantly stood in my own way and it’s time to let that old me go. Thank you for this message. Will definitely be on repeat.
@riturner
@riturner 7 ай бұрын
Same same same. you're so welcome. thank you so much for being here.
@Mary-Loves111
@Mary-Loves111 7 ай бұрын
Same to me
@Mary-Loves111
@Mary-Loves111 7 ай бұрын
Same to me
@Novacynthia
@Novacynthia 4 ай бұрын
Yesss 🙌 Time to turn the pages of the past self!! 🎉Multidimensional Self!!
@natashawoods2242
@natashawoods2242 4 ай бұрын
This was so good! I hope you’re doing good
@julietphillips04
@julietphillips04 7 ай бұрын
“When you live a life with mindless behavior without intention or purpose you’re going to create a familiar future.”
@Coco-im5ln
@Coco-im5ln Ай бұрын
If you dont change, life will make you lose everything and everyone to force you to change. I have no idea what's next, but instead of fighting, I surrender.
@Beautiful_B6277
@Beautiful_B6277 7 ай бұрын
God spoke to me through you. Thank you 🙏🏽
@riturner
@riturner 7 ай бұрын
YESS ✨
@thealiyahbello
@thealiyahbello 5 ай бұрын
i was thinking that exact thing!!!
@unbotheredsis1934
@unbotheredsis1934 4 ай бұрын
i wanted to type a whole paragraph about me, but imma just say.. I needed to hear this. because I’m definitely not my older me anymore but i’m just lost rn.
@ayanyawose
@ayanyawose 2 ай бұрын
how are you now?
@unbotheredsis1934
@unbotheredsis1934 2 ай бұрын
@@ayanyawose still hanging in there.. really tryna figure stuff out. wby
@daleeahrocha
@daleeahrocha Ай бұрын
you will find your way. if you believe in God keep faith. journal, inner work. read the bible! if not , look more towards the law of attraction, manifestation, journal, don’t let anyone play with you! know that YOU are the one that really matters in keeping yourself happy. don’t lock yourself in your room all day! grow! listen to the part of your brain that knows where to start in being a better you! live your life on auto pilot! don’t listen to those negative thoughts because that is not really you! ❤
@debbie-sp1mw
@debbie-sp1mw Ай бұрын
@@daleeahrochathis is beautiful
@Samantha-vlly
@Samantha-vlly Ай бұрын
We are in the same boat. As she said, change is inevitable, I allowed it. I am doing nothing and I let that sink in.
@forevablessd
@forevablessd 7 ай бұрын
I literally started tearing once the video started. WOW! I'm currently going through what I like to call my "detachment era". I had to unlearn a lot of things. It is very liberating and freeing to come out on the other side and notice all of the positive changes. Thank you for your content. Peace & love!
@riturner
@riturner 7 ай бұрын
wow, detachment era in full effect.
@Therealmaprin
@Therealmaprin 5 ай бұрын
I’m absolutely going through a similar era. It’s been extremely liberating. Life is beautiful
@goalchaser._8232
@goalchaser._8232 7 ай бұрын
The parts between 5:00-5:07 is so real because I have been so scared to change myself because of how my parents and friends will think of me and the world in general. But I’ve learned that change isn’t for anyone else, it is for me and how I view myself mentally and physically.
@riturner
@riturner 7 ай бұрын
yess, exactly.
@iamneogenesis
@iamneogenesis 5 ай бұрын
I hit rock bottom in the last year, lost my job, car, my ex of 4 years. All of it was completely my fault. I was in a fog trying to please others around me and putting on a mask that everything was fine while inside I was dealing with a lot of internalized trauma. I say all that to say I thought all this time isolated was a punishment from the universe when it's really been my biggest blessing. I finally realized that I'm not alone and that even in my dark times I still haven't missed a beat. I'm still trying to get it all together and I'm taking the steps necessary. Everything I want is mine I just gotta put in the work. Everything I need, I already have. In this current moment I am very blessed and if you even took the time to read my rant, I hope you have a good day and continue to get 1% better everyday🤟🏽
@myskinutrition
@myskinutrition 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for writing this comment, i truly resonate with it ❤ I hope your journey runs smoothly and you could pass any obstacle that comes your way quickly without wasting so much time and energy on it ✨
@KaylaMarieHart
@KaylaMarieHart 13 күн бұрын
You are amazing ❤
@shore871
@shore871 7 ай бұрын
"I fear that this person I [will become] won't align with the way that [others] perceive me." I had a hard time explaining to my therapist this exact fear earlier this week, but you said it beautifully. It's led to years of feeling stagnant and too comfortable with where I am, even though I know I've far outgrown it ❣
@emi7254
@emi7254 6 ай бұрын
“Change is inevitable” That's where most of my suffering comes from. Trying to resist this change and letting go of the old. Thank you for this word❤️
@sonnypamonicutt9920
@sonnypamonicutt9920 3 ай бұрын
Applied for an internship that opened at my college and was able to secure an interview for today. Never done anything like this that requires a lot of communication but I’m ready to enter this new part of my journey ❤️❤️
@Hinieeee
@Hinieeee Ай бұрын
Hii, I hope it went well
@GodHelpMe369
@GodHelpMe369 7 ай бұрын
PRAYER: 1) There are five things Jesus has shown me I MUST do... - I have to make amends to my sister - I have to use my voice (radical honesty) - I have to write the book - I have to continuously surrender to God more and more - I have to completely let go of Bryan... I pray I accomplish all of the above in this blessed New Year of 2024. I pray I don't have to do it alone. I pray Jesus and the angels assist me and guide me, and help me through all of it... So that it all feels joyful and easy! 2) I'm desperately lonely and alone. I pray for true love (with my twin flame). And a tribe of real friends. 3) I pray to be healed on every level, in every way: - emotionally - spiritually - mentally - physically - generationally
@LC-nk5nr
@LC-nk5nr 7 ай бұрын
You're not alone. Remember God's strength is made perfect in our weakness. Blessings to you 🫶
@dreamchaser5758
@dreamchaser5758 5 ай бұрын
Responding to your comment to remind you that God will equip you every step of the way
@user-ve4rq7pu1b
@user-ve4rq7pu1b 7 ай бұрын
I swear this will be played on the regularly throughout the year as a reminder. The soundtrack for 2024. Thank you so much! May we all aim to thrive❤
@riturner
@riturner 7 ай бұрын
yesss, thank youuu!
@fatricelashay1882
@fatricelashay1882 22 күн бұрын
🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🫶🏼
@flipthescript2.091
@flipthescript2.091 7 ай бұрын
The way I felt this in my soul !!! I dimmed my light so low it cut off and I was left in the dark cringy place. I couldnt even recognize myself. I said at the end of last year , Im done playing about me and everything that does not bring me peace, joy & happiness must GO !
@AWholeVibe96
@AWholeVibe96 7 ай бұрын
Yes!!! I’m right here with you. We got this ✨✨
@aliciathomas3711
@aliciathomas3711 7 ай бұрын
This is a word for my SOUL today. Thank you for this!
@riturner
@riturner 7 ай бұрын
So glad it resonated. 🫶🏽
@Sunraeelise22
@Sunraeelise22 7 ай бұрын
Yes this was so beautiful I just love this video! Thank you so much !
@brielyse_
@brielyse_ 7 ай бұрын
Are you in my head?! I’m literally in this SAME space in my life. And I struggle because I’m almost 38 years old. I’m in another transition and it is bittersweet
@Vivi_LaRue
@Vivi_LaRue 5 ай бұрын
I’m 48 and beginning again. Because I’ve spent too long living for other people and not myself.
@elliebusson5535
@elliebusson5535 29 күн бұрын
girl im only 17😢😢
@jasminefinney2799
@jasminefinney2799 7 ай бұрын
I Thank God for you to put this video out here!!! This is how I’ve felt for some years now, worrying about how family or friends would perceive me or if I decided to get away from the world and focus on God and myself who would be there when I get back but now I’m not afraid to let go and Let God I’m ready to WORK WORK WORK and receive all the blessings that are for me!! Thank you again and for everyone I ask that the Lord will help give you all the guidance to push through any mental, physical, or spiritual blockages to get you to what you know you are deserving to have. This is your year (including the years to come!😏😁)to show shine bright so make it count. You are loved! ❤ You are appreciated! 💝You are worth it!! You truly deserve it! Believe in yourself! I ask that God will keep this one close to your heart “Be anxious for nothing but in everything by prayer and supplication, with Thanksgiving, let your request be made known to God.” Trust in God’s timing and his plan for you! He wants for all of you to prosper! In Jesus Name Amen ❤🙏🏽
@Humanitariantraveler
@Humanitariantraveler 7 ай бұрын
Going through a transition now and feel like I’m fully coming into myself. Lost one of my best friends as soon as the shift started. This video is SO needed rn. Tysm 💕
@w_rav
@w_rav 7 ай бұрын
Sending you love 🫶🏾💛
@jameshaflowers1242
@jameshaflowers1242 7 ай бұрын
Lost all my friends😭
@marianazzz1
@marianazzz1 7 ай бұрын
@@jameshaflowers1242ME TOOOO😭
@kierragreer1531
@kierragreer1531 5 ай бұрын
I feel like I’m sitting here listening to myself talk wow. Literally every word that rolled off of your tongue. This is a conversation that I’ve had with myself time and time again.
@mttknvlalp_
@mttknvlalp_ 7 ай бұрын
Reality is harsh for wanting to be free but freedom requires everything
@JohnDoe-ds7ww
@JohnDoe-ds7ww 7 ай бұрын
What you said in your comment about, "embracing the change and allowing the unknown to take it's place". That was it for me. I'm so grateful to have found your channel. It's very relaxing and the Jazz sets it all the way off just right. Stay the course, We're here for it.💚💚💚
@DaisySmile90
@DaisySmile90 7 ай бұрын
I love you 🫂🫶🏽 there’s so many of us that needed to hear this. Thank you.
@riturner
@riturner 7 ай бұрын
I love you! And you’re so welcome. Thank you for being here.
@caitlinbritz2615
@caitlinbritz2615 7 ай бұрын
I cant explain the cycles ive gone through , that made me feel soo stuck in life. Im tired of being anxious , afraid and allowing the littlest things to stir up my big emotions. Im literally so ready to let go of old thoughts, experiences , traumas and heartache. Im not sure how to let go but im ready , im tired. Im deserving if of life and love to energise me not make me fear because of past traumas. Thank you for your truth, i related so much. Thank you for being brave in sharing it. I dont feel alone ❤
@Jennahvievejohnson
@Jennahvievejohnson 7 ай бұрын
This video articulates a lot of things people don't usually take the time to say. Change is inevitable. You can't grow AND stay in your comfort zone. You can't have your new life while you stay in your old one.
@dajee0420
@dajee0420 5 ай бұрын
This message and timing are beyond DIVINE! My life has been so chaotic at the hands of my ex: emotional abuse, eviction, and homelessness. Now separated and taking my power back slowly getting back on my feet with my 5-month-old daughter, embodying strength and perseverance.
@dreamchaser5758
@dreamchaser5758 5 ай бұрын
May God be with you and your precious babygirl. Never settle for less than His best for you both.
@danwilliams3935
@danwilliams3935 Күн бұрын
I relate to this a lot. I was in a relationship for 10 years and married for 4 of those, child together, and it got to a point where I would lie awake at night unhappy with the life we had that was never going to change, and the fear of leaving comfort kept me there for longer than I want to admit. I decided to leave a few months ago now, I live alone and my child visits a few days a week. It hurts that I don't get to see him every day but I would rather he know me as a happy person rather than stuck being miserable. Life is too short to waste it giving your love and energy to people and things that don't serve you back
@carmencatalina9086
@carmencatalina9086 7 ай бұрын
I felt this video. I stopped worrying about others and what they think about my change. I know who I am and who I want to be and worrying about peoples opinions isn’t serving my growth. Either they accept my Change or they can leave. I’m too grown to worry about they opinions. ❤
@totalboundlesschaos
@totalboundlesschaos 7 ай бұрын
this could not have came at a better time, one of the most relatable videos ive seen in awhile. ive been going through such stagnant points in my life without taking initiation and feeling not just “lazy” but depressed and wanting to change. but expecting so much without taking action, so i thought something was wrong. that change wasnt right because it didnt “happen” to me like i wanted it to. for the first time in my life instead of just acknowledging the accountability i have over it im gonna actually be responsible, and take active and mindful measures. bc honestly im tired of being in this bubble/comfort zone that ive been outgrowing for the past 4 years too. realize that you do have control in some aspects in your life . yes not everything must be blamed externally on the world but that also means you have some sort of power in this too. sorry for the long message but this video rlly spoke to me, thank you for the insightful points you explained it beautifully :)
@NameBrandKai
@NameBrandKai 7 ай бұрын
i felt the last two minutes on a different level fr I went through a lot last year but made the most progress ive ever made in my life. before last year i felt like i couldn’t evolve in anything but then 2023 came and everything changed for me. and just by the way 2024 starting, I KNOW this my year and im ready for it im following my heart to the fullest and being who im supposed to be. I can no longer allow my past, peers, environment, or circumstances control me. Thank you for this video I really needed to hear this.
@marianazzz1
@marianazzz1 7 ай бұрын
feel this on a spiritual level.
@_tahira
@_tahira 4 ай бұрын
Girl you had the crying the moment I got unto this video. It's really not easy letting go of our old selves but thank you for giving everyone who comes across this video a reminder
@kariahdebose7528
@kariahdebose7528 5 ай бұрын
Cmon girl!!! You talking that talk! This was so damn good, so happy I came across it. We all need to hear this fr fr
@seroquelchamber
@seroquelchamber 7 ай бұрын
i have been in a very hard place for quite some time, and it cost me my home and stability. but two days ago i finally got my own housing again for the first time since 2021. I let myself get so burnt out by everything, wanting to be understood, wanting to be liked- it drove me to the absolute edge and it allowed me to not realize when i was being abused by people i desperately wanted approval from. so exactly what you said. thats the lesson i have learned at the end. that i should have never been sacrificing myself for anyone. because i kept going, and i sacrificed until there was nothing left. when i had nothing left to sacrifice, i became really angry and protected the last bits of me fiercely. it taught me that i can survive not being liked. in fact, it taught me that not being liked is sometimes the ammo it takes to love yourself. and thats all you need to build a life you love. you just have to love the life/body its built by. when my reaction to other people mistreating me became *how dare you* instead of *why me* i knew i had crossed that threshold.
@dreamchaser5758
@dreamchaser5758 5 ай бұрын
Powerful and profound comment. I am a recovering people pleaser. It's exhausting and it chips away at your self worth and confidence. If everyone turns away, I'm more than satisfied with Christ.
@melevonne
@melevonne 7 ай бұрын
Thank you for vocalizing something that so many of us can relate to. 💜
@jmunroe
@jmunroe 7 ай бұрын
Omg I'm reading The Mountain is You right now and its speaking to my soul. I get excited whenever I see you post a new video bc I know its going to be 🔥
@riturner
@riturner 7 ай бұрын
Thank you my love
@SladeSanctuary
@SladeSanctuary Ай бұрын
It really hit for me when you said "I've out grown my comfort zone". I've been feeling the exact same way; I low-key manipulate myself from moving forward. I love your conversational video style too. So much of what you said resonated with me, so I just wanted to say thank you for your art! This was truly moving!
@w_rav
@w_rav 7 ай бұрын
Whew, sis, this has brought me to tears, your words are so powerful, they’re feeding my soul. It was meant for me to hear this. Thank you, bless you. From one sister to another, I love you! 🫶🏾💛
@riturner
@riturner 7 ай бұрын
I love youuu
@ManiBobani
@ManiBobani 7 ай бұрын
Social media be so toxic tht I never except things like this. Thank you for this. I can tell you did this selflessly and to help others. I’m struggling w staying I my comfort zone too and I’m struggling. Just want excuses to leave and happiness to enter.
@xEckored
@xEckored 7 ай бұрын
ive seen thousands and thousands of youtube videos throughout my years here. this is easily top ten most beautiful and soothing videos i’ve come across. i never wanted it to end and it came to me on a day of big decision making. instantly subscribed. and thank you! edit to add: it also might be the first ever video that i’ve instantly rewatched like this… wow
@xEckored
@xEckored 3 ай бұрын
it's been 3 months and one day has not gone by where I haven't played this video. it's literally changing my life. thank you so much once again.
@sincerelyZaYahairaa
@sincerelyZaYahairaa 7 ай бұрын
wow this was the one. I needed this.. i’m so desperate to not change but have the heart and desire to change so bad. It’s actually insane how bad i fight the change i so desperately need .
@Ebsnichole
@Ebsnichole 7 ай бұрын
I resonate with this from beginning to end. I am simply over grown from the past version of myself. Habits, mindset, everything and have gave myself permission to get out of my own way and do the things I have interest in. Watching and listening to your content feels so in-sync to my present. Thanks for sharing and being vulnerable with your thoughts on your platforms I’m happy to have came across your page ❤
@riturner
@riturner 7 ай бұрын
thank YOU for being here and allowing me into your space. sending you so much love.
@tialorabelin6993
@tialorabelin6993 7 ай бұрын
This came to me just when I needed it. I sense a lot of energetic changes between me and some of the people around me, my best friend specifically. She has been in my life for so long, but I think the time has come for me to energetically let go of her expectations. I may lose her because of it. And I know I have to be okay with that because my life and the mission I'm on are aligned. Your wisdom makes me teary-eyed. Thank you.
@ShatoddraToddieC
@ShatoddraToddieC 7 ай бұрын
I literally made video saying basically the same thing. There’s definitely a shift happening this year. I’m beveling you’re going to get everything you desire this year. This will be your year of change 🙏🏾✨ thank you for your wisdom
@abgg270
@abgg270 5 ай бұрын
Literally thank you. It has been so hard for me lately to let this version of me go and it hurts more than what I expected. This seriously made me cry. Thank you.
@ecstasy3692
@ecstasy3692 7 ай бұрын
everything you're speaking about resonated with me and helped so much! feels good to know someone out there's going through the same thing and understands
@jordanloophole
@jordanloophole 21 күн бұрын
i love this new generation of vloggers are making people emotionally and mentally smart
@alyssareach5287
@alyssareach5287 11 күн бұрын
Why are you speaking on my life right now. I’ve keep stepping into wanting my old life because it was easier then what I’m facing now. You’ve just resorted my will to keep going thank you
@hodiyahhelps6331
@hodiyahhelps6331 7 ай бұрын
Chile... 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 this message became soooooo clear to me about a few months ago. Then here you are... singing my life with your words. I just receive this as confirmation that I'm headed in the right direction. I'm so excited to see what comes as I embark this journey. Thank you Ri 🧡💜 Love & Blessings to you and your family
@amarinatoby
@amarinatoby 4 ай бұрын
Spirit placing this video on my suggested watch, because you are putting words to the feelings I have.
@iced_hannie_lemon
@iced_hannie_lemon 3 ай бұрын
this came at the right time. a few days ago, i finally got the courage to delete all of their numbers and it was relieving. it’s okay if you have to be alone, especially if being with others just destroy you physically, mentally and emotionally. love shouldn’t be transactional but it can be reciprocal. just know what’s right for you in the long run.
@lovewins699
@lovewins699 7 ай бұрын
Whew! This was definitely for me! It spoke to me. Its almost 2 in the morning, and i was strolling through, and happened to run across your video. I feel that I'm in this stage right now in my life, and I'm willing to give up ANYONE or ANYTHING that doesnt serve me. Great video, and thanks for sharing. Be blessed.
@kenanclark6626
@kenanclark6626 3 ай бұрын
I resonated with everything you’re saying. I’m learning how to accept my emotions but understand that I can sit idly in my own sufferings. I told myself that 2024 was going to be my year but so much have been happening and 2023 was a pain that I could not understand. But so far this year has been my most progressive with me and my identity that I’m yearning to create. Thank you for both reassuring and holding me accountable take this as confirmation that who you are really does connect and speak to people❤.
@sndproductions4169
@sndproductions4169 12 күн бұрын
Thank you for this Word. Im already prepared to crossover into my new life, but your video is a reminder to start letting go of "comfortable" habits right now.
@iamthrivingmeditations3490
@iamthrivingmeditations3490 6 ай бұрын
Your voice is very calming and beautiful. ❤ I enjoyed this message of truth as well.
@manijean888
@manijean888 4 ай бұрын
Seeing you on the recommended page even though I don’t tune into your channel much but listen to every podcast!! So happy to see you reaching more ppl Ri ❤❤❤
@auch101
@auch101 7 ай бұрын
You have such a lovely voice to listen to! Thank you for this
@hisnaturalwife09
@hisnaturalwife09 7 ай бұрын
This was a message and I’m only half way through! Whew! I need to hear this more than once. Thank you for this!❤️
@BeingTiffany
@BeingTiffany 7 ай бұрын
Yesss, I felt this so deeply! I just posted my comeback video on here and I can't believe it took me so long cause I was letting so many things get in my way including my own comfort!
@riturner
@riturner 7 ай бұрын
so happy you're not allowing comfort to stop you from getting to what's yours.
@saraelly7791
@saraelly7791 Ай бұрын
I'm crying, thank you so much for this. Also, your voice is literally so comforting.
@kaylalouns7678
@kaylalouns7678 7 ай бұрын
I needed this so so much 🙏 God spoke through you on that one, every word was on point and hit the nerve it was supposed to! So grateful for this message, thank you ❤
@talkswithtaty8595
@talkswithtaty8595 7 ай бұрын
This whole video sang to me so gently and poetically. Every single thing.
@PodChklilpp339
@PodChklilpp339 7 ай бұрын
This came to me when i needed it
@cocoariche
@cocoariche 7 ай бұрын
Automatically one of my favorite videos 🙌🏾 Thank you for this, Ri. I’m going to play it in the morning as inspo
@riturner
@riturner 7 ай бұрын
aww thank you my love.
@andreadavila4019
@andreadavila4019 6 ай бұрын
you have a beautiful energy and voice,, thank you for this
@girasolmagico6430
@girasolmagico6430 6 күн бұрын
Ahhhhhh!!! ITS TIME. You’re a blessing Queen 😢🙏🏽✨
@mennahisham4359
@mennahisham4359 13 күн бұрын
i am struggling right now. everything that I used to do, my thoughts, ideas, goals they don't fit me anymore. like I am someone I don't know it is hard but it is a sign for growth. your video really touched me ❤
@myrnaj4502
@myrnaj4502 7 ай бұрын
I am feeling like this. In this season of change in my life. ❤❤
@riturner
@riturner 7 ай бұрын
Same sis.
@They.LoveKJ
@They.LoveKJ 4 ай бұрын
Left the most meaningful friendship I’ve ever had to hopefully right some wrongs 🙏🏾. The journey starts now for me 🫂
@venturaumanacamila7042
@venturaumanacamila7042 11 күн бұрын
you are so talented at speaking. I felt every word so deeply...
@hannakatt7689
@hannakatt7689 20 күн бұрын
this is one of the greatest videos i have ever watched in my life. thank you so much.
@creambasedbus
@creambasedbus 2 ай бұрын
You shared some powerful words 🙏🏼 Growth is on the other side of your comfort zone
@MagneticWave
@MagneticWave 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for this! To everyone reading, may you find peace and happiness today✨
@MrFredrick678
@MrFredrick678 2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for the honest motivation to allow change to flow. And the reminder that change is not going to be comfortable. ❤️
@neohakeem240
@neohakeem240 16 күн бұрын
Thank you for this ! I needed to hear this , change is inevitable. 🌻🥺
@forgivingfrequency62
@forgivingfrequency62 7 ай бұрын
I had this realisation - painfully - a year ago and I went through the toughest time of my life, because I completely accepted reality for what it is - no constant. It's discomfort and pain and work and sweat but my God, did it pay off. Whatever you're going through, I wish you the best, because the best version of you and your life is waiting for you.
@AzNpenguin456456
@AzNpenguin456456 5 ай бұрын
I think you just saved my life, thank you
@iamthacre8her
@iamthacre8her 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for being vulnerable and transparent. This truly gave me the push that I needed ❤
@OnlyCocoMousse2
@OnlyCocoMousse2 5 ай бұрын
YES. Controlling the narrative of how people perceive me is such a struggle when it comes to change because of the fear of losing the life and people you've grown accustomed to.
@demonschnauzer1555
@demonschnauzer1555 7 ай бұрын
I also have that feeling of stagnancy, and I really want my life to be different. Best of luck to you, because the emotions of leaving your comfort zone can be so hard that it makes you doubt everything you’re doing. Hopefully we can all find our way anyway, through those emotions.
@anthonybennett1955
@anthonybennett1955 7 ай бұрын
111th like! this message really hit; i'm in a very similar space right now. the nest i built for myself is too small; time to fly and build a better one elsewhere. side note, the graphic designer in me has been loving the thumbnail designs lately! big love to you and yours Ri! 💚🙏🏾
@riturner
@riturner 7 ай бұрын
yesss, thank you so much my love.
@user-bu7mw6gp8q
@user-bu7mw6gp8q 2 ай бұрын
this was *just* the video i needed right now
@Kjohnson518
@Kjohnson518 Ай бұрын
“That life waiting in another dimension for me” thissss!!
@MegaFunkified
@MegaFunkified 4 ай бұрын
Wow! You are so beautiful inside and out! Thank you for inspiring me as this hits my heart and gut today.
@Alice_v2.0
@Alice_v2.0 7 ай бұрын
NEW SUBSCRIBER!! This was an amazing message! Thank you so much for this! Stepping out of the old comfort zone and into our better selves in 2024! 👏🏾
@emsepiphanies
@emsepiphanies 2 ай бұрын
i am so grateful this video found me at such a divine time, thanks to you and the universe x
@jalahunter7296
@jalahunter7296 6 ай бұрын
The internet works in mysterious ways! A few months ago, I started listening to your podcast and it’s really grown to be my go to podcast to listen to anytime. Didn’t know you had a KZbin channel, came across this video and started watching it then I went to your page to subscribe and saw that you were the host of my favorite podcast. Thank you for just being you and I’m gonna go watch more of your videos ✨💛
@flowerbloom5782
@flowerbloom5782 7 ай бұрын
Thank you. It’s hard pill that I’m trying to take. I really needed this. 7:47 I feel this so much. I was really depressed for couple years and felt like I was being left behind. I did start changing my circumstances but I was still trying to control how I was perceived by others. I still am but I’m over it. Thank you for being vulnerable about this cause it really put into words what I have been feeling.
@elizamad5846
@elizamad5846 7 ай бұрын
I know you didn’t mention God in this video but know that this is what He requires from His people. But we can’t do it in our strength but in one that is greater than us. God bless you sister ❤
@lovewins699
@lovewins699 7 ай бұрын
👏🏾
@spggabs
@spggabs 6 ай бұрын
KZbin recommendations scare me sometimes... what you described is pretty much what I'm felling and what's happening to me lately. I'm terrified of this change but I think it will transform me into who I really am. I think I'm finally starting to live for myself instead of living up to other people's expectations. Thank you so much for this video and good luck on your journey. ❤
@daniellesnow9683
@daniellesnow9683 7 ай бұрын
I absolutely needed to watch this today. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
@nattyrocberry
@nattyrocberry 7 ай бұрын
Going back and forth on a big decision that I need to make. Thank you for taking the time to make this quality content 💖🧸
@amariross
@amariross 4 ай бұрын
I so needed to hear this, I'm going through the exact same transitional phase of my life right now. I'm uncomfortable as hell, but it's definitely time for change.
@tyeshaglam8907
@tyeshaglam8907 7 ай бұрын
This was such a timely message for me. I am at a place in my life where I am ready to move differently and show up as me. Thank you sis!
@naeshelle
@naeshelle Ай бұрын
When I tell you this was a WORD for me specifically, I mean that. I could cry. Thank you. ❤
@Nour_1007
@Nour_1007 18 күн бұрын
I'm holding back my tears.. I searched for listen to this when u need a hug and this is what i found.. You really told me what i wanna hear
@amayacoleman9487
@amayacoleman9487 7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this! It’s like you were speaking my exact thoughts. I have ocd depression anxiety and a slew of other mental illnesses including substance abuse. The definition of insanity was what I was holding on my idea of my identity and this video helped me realize that I don’t need to anymore. Growth is ugly trust me but if I can survive self punishment then I can endure self improvement.
@cookiecaticat
@cookiecaticat 6 ай бұрын
I read that book recently too and it changed my mindset so much. It's the only self help book you will ever need.
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