Polyamory Is Just An Excuse To Cheat

This video is about the infidelity of Adina Rivers.
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[@zeroxcrusher]

She only cries when she talks about herself and not when she talks about hurting her husband

[@traviscarver4708]

I noticed that. By their own words they condemn themselves.

[@bloodstripeleatherneck1941]

Narcissists always tell on themselves. You just have to listen.

[@alexned8873]

@@bloodstripeleatherneck1941 what is ironic is if men did it they would be classified as pathologicaly narcissist

[@12309.]

“Cries”

[@fusocam6805]

Didn't noticed it, now i'm even more pissed.

[@jr1088]

I fell in love with a girl once. She told me one day she was into open relationships. Dumped her that day. It’s called self respect people.

[@djregina6897]

Same. I went out with a guy who said he was Ethically non-monogamous... Was like nice meeting you but BYE

[@wades623]

Yeah, fuck that noise

[@teltomo5862]

I’m glad there are still people out here with the right mind. Salute to you

[@teltomo5862]

I’m glad there are still people out here with the right mind. Salute to you

[@Sir.YeetusIII]

Lmao good on you bro 👍🏼

[@itriggerpeople4433]

Women: "I'm a free spirit" Code word for: "I'm a slut"

[@mancave10369]

*Toxic women

[@jonathanmcculley3728]

@@mancave10369 they’re the same in this context

[@notusingmyname4791]

@@mancave10369 yeah the women who don't say that aren't toxic.. so you don't need the redundancy of explicitly saying "toxic women" while quoting something toxic.

[@ace3215]

@@jonathanmcculley3728 I think they aren't the same, rather, I think these statements are both true.

[@user-ik4zl1gn4u]

But obviously If a guy says this it's totally OK. Then who the heck are you to judge her or any woman? Let me guess: an ugly, fat, bold guy who no woman wants? Also old😉

[@nathanmcandrew4778]

If my mother did this I'd never forgive her, it would disgust me to a level in which I could never get past. Her son is going to hate her.

[@KingEgyptian]

"I'm such a warrior, I'm such a fighter." Na lady, you are a cheater.

[@Lost_idiot223]

A delusional sense of grandeur is a sad thing to see. True warriors and fighters knows and admits their weaknesses so they can improve themselves.

[@bon-bonxogaming4311]

Who the fuck is leaving these likes?

[@blackr2952]

no, she is an explorer :)

[@florisbekke7754]

When does she say that?

[@chirone_]

She's such a cheater that she's playing Minecraft with cheats enabled, because she can't even learn to pick up a Stone Sword and kill a damn Zombie mob just one time 😂

[@FrostBiteArt]

I didn't stole your cash, I was just exploring the financial possibilities that I could get with your money

[@justme8841]

good example 👍

[@farfromillusion]

Great analogy there!

[@suitmanwithaknife4400]

This example was pretty clear and mostly made sense.Bravo man,bravo

[@RwandaBob]

best comment

[@Firestorm-613]

Love your profile

[@smokym1k381]

Polyamory is not only an excuse to cheat. In my opinion it should also be seen as a gateway behaviour to psychopathy because of the huge lack of empathy for the person you're supposed to commit to.

[@randomperson-qj1oq]

i'd like to respectfully disagree. at least in my experience, this has never happened. there is no lack of empathy, i simply feel it equally for every person in the relationship.

[@lukeherbst7931]

​@@randomperson-qj1oqsure you do buddy

[@Pomulie]

Literally is trying to justify cheating, also a relationship between two people

[@lazarusmagellan2367]

My ex said this. “Open relationship”. Zero accountability and dodging guilt

[@soggycereal1649]

Nice to know that they’re an ex!

[@GerardPerry]

"I'm spiritual." Just remember: demons are spirits too.

[@chelseaqueen3236]

Demons are so much fun tho!!!!!

[@JohnDoe-rk7ej]

@@chelseaqueen3236 nah demons are wack af

[@jazzbelly3589]

@@JohnDoe-rk7ej Yes they are! If you fasted for a few days and read the old KJV bible especially when you're not in the mood... You'll see them and they're hella HIDEOUS

[@SidStrife]

Amen, brother!!

[@krinos1]

*Doom eternal music starts playing* “Rip and tear until its all done!”

[@OnlyTwoShoes]

_"Honey, I didn't sleep with your best friend, we were just exploring possibilities between us to their fullest potential..."_

[@tedysnk]

Hahaha

[@potatoe_man3090]

Quote it haha

[@TheSBleeder]

DEEPEST potential.

[@measl]

@QuantumEther *A Mostly Peaceful surprise cheating?*

[@Zomie115]

@@measl lol

[@johnnygrunge477]

"I didn't murder anybody, I was just seeing how many stabs it takes to kill someone" Also, in Adina's and anybody else like hers case, not only if you've been with someone for over a decade but also if you had a child with said someone, no one cares about how much of a free spirit you are you no longer have your freedom to be so selfish, there's a reason parents have to get to a point in their child's life where it's appropriate to tell them 'I had a life before you'

[@afroloyalty2952]

You are literally my therapist because I don’t have money to have one. Everything you have been saying about childhood traumas and how it manifest itself into our adult life is complete true. I have tattoos, I had a nose, belly, nipple and lip piercing one time in my life. I lived with an abusive man who was years older than me when I was in my senior year of high school. He had force me to do so many things even almost joining the sex work industry. I use to be so scared that I would knee on our cold bathroom floor some nights and pray to God for forgiveness and to deliver from the hands of any evil. I couldn’t even go to my prom. I don’t want to explain my life story but I have been through a lot. I am using yours channel to help me. I recently went for my first tattoo removal service event before I knew your channel existed which is why when say stuff about tattoos and body modification, I agree with you. I could feel something was off since I had these tattoos. They are very beautiful but I feel like they don’t need to be on my body. Keep up to good work men, you are helping so many people out there.

[@itsallperspective7415]

Girl- I FEEL YOU!! Had peircings since 14, tats since 18, but they don't define you! My lip and nose ring are just the same to me as earrings, they're just jewelry! They only have the weight and meaning you asign to them! Don't let society demonize aspects or looks that you enjoy! And God will always love you. He will ALWAYS love you no matter how you feel. Don't worry babe- it's all good ❤✌

[@oompie815]

I hope you're in a much better place now, miss Afro... ❤

[@NiVoldiza]

So, you've learned now, that all those things you thought of as cool and beautiful, are major red flags, and you're trying to hide the crazy?

[@truthseeker2631]

Creme gobblers. Toxic relationships are terrible but the sex is good. These women want to get piped and that’s all. It’s really sad but women like it.

[@veziculorile]

There are places that offer therapy for little to nothing if you can’t afford it. You should try to call around and ask for resources from your local government.

[@bin4ry_d3struct0r]

Remember, men: You cannot save her! You will never make her a better person. She will only make you worse!!

[@texashermit1946]

I remember hearing as a young man "you CAN turn a housewife into a ho,but you CAN'T turn a ho into a housewife. Once the ability to pair bond is broken it's nearly impossible to restore.

[@bin4ry_d3struct0r]

@@texashermit1946 And even if these women can be repaired, they are so not worth the effort.

[@blakeunderwood1075]

REMEMBER THIS SHIT!

[@davidbolha]

You can save her... kzbin.info/www/bejne/mJmbm5KEZbSIiac ... by slowly lowering her into this. 😆😎😄

[@davidbolha]

@@bin4ry_d3struct0r You mean this ? www.returnofkings.com/70425/research-suggests-that-a-womans-body-incorporates-dna-from-the-semen-of-her-casual-sex-partners & the consequence study: www.heritage.org/education/report/harmful-effects-early-sexual-activity-and-multiple-sexual-partners-among-women Biblical viewpoint: scripturetruthministries.com/2018/03/26/sexual-intercourse-becoming-one-flesh-at-the-genetic-level/

[@nazeemoftheclouddistrict7205]

1.save your money 2. invest 3. buy house in Whiterun 4. live your life peacefully

[@canderson718]

@Cartoonist Louis Of course he has! He's Nazeem damnit!

[@henrymonroe4300]

Some day I'll be in the cloud district too

[@FLSHSANT]

Orrrrr you can get some ground nearby whiterun and build your own house!

[@averagechadlegionary5824]

Big talk from a guy that lives in a inn

[@MarcosZanella4]

I like more the duplex in Riften

[@mayonasepizza]

i am free spirited = i am unable to control myself im polyamorous = i cant hold a stable relationship

[@ZombieSlayerBO2]

Other way around

[@doingtime20]

Omg she indeed is a master of eufemisms and softening her wrongdoings: "Oh it's not a big deal, I was just exploring how deep a knife could go into my partner, he didn't even make that much of a fuzz, anyway back to my feelings and what I want...".

[@doingtime20]

@Natsu tsuu Not really, english is my second language and I was too lazy to look it up.

[@laglandeuse5973]

​@natsutsuu2532lmao even though it wasn't intentional it still is very funny

[@TatsumiOga682]

Anyone else get extremely annoyed every time she uses words like "explore" "dive into" and "growth" ? So pretentious.

[@fjellfinn4618]

She is just trying to make it seem less horrible by using those words

[@geomancer6894]

It's like people with fetishes needing to be seen as more sexually-enlightened and open-minded. People will always find a way to morally or intellectually distinguish themselves and take for granted anything outside the norm as fulfilling it. In her case she justifies her poor behavior as being something only close-minded people would find fault in.

[@frederikdemoor2018]

Dilate, penetrate and girth? So?

[@tsrorst2792]

it's people like them who remind me that not everybody deserves a happy ending.

[@justmonika2345]

She's trying so hard not to use the word "cheat", because that is exactly what she did.

[@zerogoodcontent7293]

Dude probably only stays with her cause he wants to be able see his son, cause you know, Custody favours the woman over the father.

[@user-ew2sz3ez4n]

Thats what I thought too

[@shelduckr6]

this comment is so true it hurts

[@kidkakashi623]

Thats true

[@Thecrazyraven.]

True and some people will stay because they hate and fear change

[@TekkLuthor]

He fell into the, happy wife happy life prison

[@kindred.7313]

An ex friend of mine cheated on her boyfriend who she’s been with for 5 years and they were planning on building a house. She tried to justify it by saying that she never got to hoe around when she was younger etc etc. I stopped being friends with her after that. She also wanted to be a housewife but has no housewife abilities besides cleaning and she is really greedy and entitled. I’m glad I’m no longer talking to her

[@basemanawakens6089]

I hope he left her..

[@adamalexander4883]

A lot of women unfortunately seem to equate housewife with “sit on your unemployed ass all day and spend your husband’s money. No, being a proper housewife involves plenty of work, just not in an office or on a construction site, but in the home.

[@kingkohli4952]

@@adamalexander4883 "wanted to be a housewife but has no housewife abilities besides cleaning" It is here

[@Leahmoonbeamflower]

Did she ever ask you why you stopped talking to her?

[@austinparsons532]

Omg this is exactly how my last "open" relationship went. My buddy even said "so cheating with extra steps?"🤣

[@cataclysmi]

@@Raya-ir4tmConsent ≠ legal Example: If someone heavily injures you but you said they can, that doesn't make it legal!

[@yukhzia]

@@cataclysmiif they’re okay with you hurting them then I see that as legal

[@cataclysmi]

@@yukhzia the extreme regret both parties involved (or atleast one) is the reason why you should see it as legal

[@yukhzia]

@@cataclysmi kinky shit huh

[@Leahmoonbeamflower]

😂😂😂 I just cannot do polyamory. Too many random body fluids being passed around. Nope. I like kissing one guy my guy.

[@ApolloTheLeader]

"Personal growth" "Explore this further " "ENTANGLEMENTS " women will use the sweetest words to describe the most selfish things.

[@hansmemling7605]

It works both ways though. If you cheat on your spouse you can bet there are woman out there so naive that they would gobble up words like that. Ultimately accepting anything that she can latch onto to forgive you.

[@nattypatty3667]

If a man uses those phrases and does what she did, he'd be labeled narcissistic, controlling, manipulative, etc. Women are getting old and tiring real fast.

[@hansmemling7605]

@White Elizabeth hey man why are you hating? I don't have statistics to pull out of my ass so I cannot tell you how many this or that. But in my personal life I have seen men get away with way worse by using vague language. And yeah off course the People around them will judge and try to convince her to drop him. As they would if roles were reversed. But ultimately if she does not want to leave him she doesn't regardless of what he did. Using vague language works in favor of the cheater. I don't understand why you think I am being political about it or have an agenda or something by calling me a gaslighter when I clearly am not. Begs the question as to what your motives are though.

[@hansmemling7605]

@@nattypatty3667 yeah I completely agree. But I have seen mates get away with stuff like that or worse. And staying vague is better than being detailed because it hurts your chances a lot less. If you go into too much detail she will be easily repulsed by the whole situation and hop on the hate train coming your way. That hate train from her surroundings which you will have to fight of. But that is often the diff between an Alpha and a Beta often. The Alpha does that shit and accepts the consequences and faces people head on. I saw a mate even turn the whole situation around fighting everyone that was against him and winning in the end. All of this is very toxic btw. I don't recommend this to anyone.

[@taggebagge]

I think spirituality is the most beautiful thing there is and it is the very opposite of being selfish, it is to put God at the center of one's life, God first, You second, Me third. Instead, these people are conflating spirituality with its opposite, they are saying "me, me, me" and it is quite literally disgusting. Spirituality in its true sense fulfills us in every way, but this New Age idea of "spiritual freedom" is just multiplying misery as seen with that woman, steer clear of New Age garbage people.

[@smolbuns8108]

When I heard "Without telling my boyfriend" that is just cheating bruh. Not even polyamary. Omg guys they're having a fight in my replies come watch

[@wweandy123]

Exactly. Polyamory is consent from all sides of the relationship BEFORE exploring it.

[@michibmoon]

Exactlyyy!! I believe polyamory works but everyone has to be open about it, relationships are built on trust and communication

[@richardcostello2951]

Polyamory is just a toxic shitsoup of a relationship that purple haired misandric morons in their late 30's push because they didn't settle down with a guy and realised the only single guys at that age are alcohol addicts or full blown Fedora wearing neckbeards

[@michibmoon]

@@richardcostello2951 Did it ever occur that men can be with two women in a polyamorous relationship? It's not "a woman can't settle for one man" or whatever bs you just said

[@richardcostello2951]

@@michibmoon ANY form of Poly is a toxic shitsoup..... Polyamory.....Polyandry...... Polygamy........ it's all a shocking mess of a social experiment that shouldn't have succeeded past the 60's

[@kampfpanzer709]

"If she treats you like a brother there is always her mother." -Oogway

[@clazda2465]

The double standards of this woman is just sad. She wants open relationships and then gets pissed when Oliver finds someone possibly better. That’s why she’s jealous.

[@turk88]

He should get a DNA check on the child.

[@michaelmax9703]

Yea

[@TrailsJunkie]

Simps dont do that...hell, I once saw a story of a cheating hoe having a black kid, and her white simp husband believed the story that she has african heritage in her DNA and it was the strongest strand 🤦‍♂️

[@TrailsJunkie]

Also just check on pornhub for cuck husbands, sharing their wives and filming 👏👏👏

[@pieterveenders9793]

@@TrailsJunkie Yeah, that stuff is just disgusting. The whole concept of wifesharing and men who like seeing their girlfriends/wifes getting boned by another guy in front of them because they get off of the enjoyment of their partner, that's already very foreign and bizarre to me. But cuckoldry, men having their partner getting fucked and filled up like a hoe and even getting ridiculed on top of that, how the fuck can a guy seriously sink that low?! That's literally everything the opposite of what evolution and beeing an alpha male entails.

[@TrailsJunkie]

@@pieterveenders9793 amen brother, unfortunately its happening more than we'd like it to.

[@floofygod]

"I'm still a good person" *stares into distance with self hate

[@failpip4235]

"I really can't say this sort of thing with a clear conscious."

[@ItsmeeeeeeXD]

Lmao that was good

[@juxtapode2781]

She said that like an anime b chara who has killed someone and has been saved from the darkness by the hero who told her it's not her fault and that she was manipulated. But here there's no hero, and she's the one manipulating herself.

[@Mousymusic]

she doesn't have self hate , she was just exploring spirits

[@defencebangladesh4068]

lol

[@Tentin.Quarantino]

When he said he goes to the movies with the other guy... really brings the ‘my wife’s boyfriend let’s me play his xbox’ vibe to mind. I feel sorry for him. There’s a kid involved, he can’t win regardless of the decision he makes.

[@jesenializ339]

What really grinds my ⚙️ is the fact that years ago, when she first started her channel, she made it very clear that she had an “open and transparent relationship” which I respected... That type of relationship didn’t really work for me, but I was able to respect her and Oliver’s lifestyle, because of her constant claims about sharing everything with your partner and holding absolutely nothing back... She verbally drilled this into almost every video every chance she could... She went out of her way to convince her fans that even if they didn’t see polyamory/Open relationship for themselves... Atleast she was doing it in the “healthiest” way possible by “speaking her truth” and making sure conversations were exchanged between the both of them before they engaged in any of “extracurricular activities”. So to clarify, essentially she “manifested” a relationship in which she was able to have her cake and it it too 100% guilt free as long as there was full disclosure as per their agreement. ... AND SHE STILL LIED and MANIPULATED, and CONSPIRED to cheat behind Oliver’s back when she literally had ZERO reasons too.. So what gives ? Either she’s straight up a sadist who enjoyed hurting her “Soul mate” or is she so mentally disturbed and ill that she couldn’t help herself from needlessly + subconsciously sabotaging her entire family unit... I don’t know which one is worse... 🤷🏻‍♀️ It’s sad because I used to support her, because I think sex positivity is important and her videos encouraging couples to engage in slower, more sensual foreplay and intimacy, which is a topic I think needs to be discussed more. Especially now because of how “hookup culture” has negatively contributed and altered the sexual expectations of our youth. However, after watching her openly ignore and toss her convictions out the window, I think I’d be best if no adolescents every watch and listen to her bullshit. ✌🏻✌🏻✌🏻 Absolutely disgusting. Pathetic. Embarrassing really. I’m disappointed

[@stevenschnepp576]

Sex positivity sounds great, but damn if I have trouble finding anyone "sex positive" who doesn't turn out to be pretty awful.

[@jesenializ339]

@@stevenschnepp576 RIGHT?!?!?! SO SAD!!!!

[@munchiefish239]

Why is she crying.😂she’s the one who cheated on him.

[@peepeepoopoomyguy7457]

Because the average men are even MORE resistant than the buffed up women Edit:in the show "Steven universe" something similar became,but with the character "Amethyst" predenting to be the DEAD wife of the protagonist's(in the show "Steven Universe"is named [you guess it] Stwven Universe)father "Greg"

[@radicalizedonline6825]

😂😂😂😂😂🙈😂😂😂😂😂

[@craigime]

Cuz she always sees herself as the victim

[@DarthPferd]

Theather!

[@evanremillard5640]

Women know that men subconsciously can't stand to see a woman cry and will bring their guard down to try send comfort them instead of confronting them.

[@bademoxy]

"you don't just cheat on your spouse, you cheat on your CHILDREN". never a wiser thing was said by a good friend.

[@avivastudios2311]

👏👏👏 Woah, that was good. I cant believe i haven't heard it before.

[@Ok-_-719]

Yep

[@redram5150]

For someone who goes on ad nauseam about the “learning experiences” she’s had, whenever she’s faced with a dilemma her default reaction is helplessness and feigned innocence masking blatant ignorance

[@JessJArt]

I am glad to see people responding honestly to this women and to her narcissistic personality. I was married for 12 years and my ex told me, "I'm not happy and I can't be happy unless we are sleeping with other people." Then he moved out, saying he couldn't afford to live with me anymore and we have a nine year old son. It was the saddest day of my life. My ex is just like this horrible women, he says he is polyamorous in and it's like being gay. It's pathetic. I refuse to put my son through that abuse, he deserves to see his mother be happy and treated with respect. I am not even dating because he is my priority.

[@avgonyma1]

She wasn't "super super jealous" . She was "super super scared" to lose a good man who is too good for her.

[@davidrusjan]

she deserves to be fully rejected

[@robertwatley5249]

He's a simp,a man wouldn't be in this situation

[@FinalGrade]

@@robertwatley5249 Ah yes blame the man for the woman's horrible behavior. When you are with someone that long especially if you have a kid its easy to be manipulated.

[@robertwatley5249]

@@FinalGrade at the end of the day you get what you put up with.

[@177SCmaro]

@@FinalGrade Blame the woman for her terrible behavior and blame the man for putting up with it. She is a psycho and he is weak. I guess, in a sense, they are made for each other - two messed up people found each other and, predictably, have a really unstable, disfuntional relationship. The real loser is the child....and I'm not talking about the two tall ones, I'm talking about the short child and the other two children who didn't even get to live.

[@Cog93]

all im hearing when she says " i felt like i really needed to explore this other side of me" is " i have no self control"

[@HughMansonMD]

*"IM A WHOOOOORRREEE!!!"* is what I hear

[@grain4662]

@@HughMansonMD fucking thank you for not sugar coating it

[@MrMissingnin44]

From the streets she emerged and to the streets she shall return...

[@CARPETMAN-zj9iv]

And her choice in music makes it very very annoying

[@kingkong905]

😂 maybe. Are you polyamorous?

[@audrablue515]

The Slag and The Simp. Sounds like a romantic comedy. They deserve each other and I don't feel sorry for him AT ALL.

[@lv7603]

Write the script and give it to Disney I’m sure they will give a try.

[@frogontots]

please consider that he has a child to lose if the leaves this situation, he's not necessarily just being a braindead simp

[@Bluewizard55]

You convinced me to start working on myself, working out eating better, seeking help for my trauma, now, 2 years later, I'm 17, in great shape, and helped my family get healthy. I dont think i could have done this without you. Thank you, TBYS.

[@Error-000]

Officer, I was not snorting that cocaine, I was just exploring my body's energy possibilities with external stimuli.

[@anonymo_use5918]

XD

[@-Kryll-]

@@anonymo_use5918 even militaries before used it to its full potential

[@anonymo_use5918]

@@-Kryll- cool

[@BilltheFifth]

😂😂😂

[@Sewak_Singh.]

😂😂

[@Gunsight-One]

What is really messed up about this women is that not only is she a self-centered cheater, she is glorifying her behavior for other girls to see on KZbin. She is normalizing her bad behavior convincing impressionable people that what she does is not just acceptable, but laudable.

[@freedomofspeech7120]

Exactly I'm glad somebody see it also. Real men don't wanna a cheater/hoe unless there BETA SIMPS

[@xGarrettThiefx]

And what's even more troubling is that her yt channel or video hasn't been banned and taken down completely...

[@christopher6161]

Welcome to the West

[@asianskywalker]

"Entanglement" is the new buzz word for this among younger women thanks to Jada.

[@jasonasdecker]

@AE Schneider OR in her case be in a relationship (18 years is long enoungh to feel that it is exclusive) and faithful or be single and do what you like.

[@Phish620]

I love how women frame these things, "explored". LOL I told the woman I loved before, we have one chance, any cheating and it's over. She cheated, I left, I was devastated but I can't disrespect myself. She came back about a year later, with a kid, not mine. She wanted me back, I said no. Will never be with another woman again most likely. That was 15 years ago.

[@baandroidarg2006]

come on man

[@baandroidarg2006]

find a nearby church, there should be plenty of fine women

[@baandroidarg2006]

you need child

[@NonSpiceyBeans]

I’ve been in two relationships and both girls were poly. From experience it’s hell. You always feel like throwing up every time you hear the other guys name. At the time I was very naive and didn’t stand up for myself. I wish I did. I felt like the second choice between me and the guy even though I was in a relationship with her first. She would sometimes be gone for a few days then come back crying and say stuff like “he’s being an Ahole. I hate him. I miss you” then two days later she’d go back over to his place and restart the cycle. So if you ever meet a girl who’s poly leave and save yourself the pain

[@EmeraldTaurus96]

"Social Media Influencer" is a euphemism for narcissism.

[@rambomoore381]

Haha, it REALLY is. That is what i have seen from the few i know of. Like 10/10 cases... absolutely majority

[@EmeraldTaurus96]

@@rambomoore381 Especially when you're running a business. They want stuff for free and they'll pay in "exposure"

[@Infamous1892]

"In the future, everyone will be world-famous for 15 minutes"-Warhol

[@ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT]

Really? I thought it was a euphemism for stripper.

[@Arson934eva]

Think Before You Sleep more like euphemism for manipulating liars.

[@chadernest4399]

She cheated on him, wow I said it quicker than her.

[@nailedittv2121]

Would be more impressive if you had a longer version

[@chowderwhillis9448]

“Other people than look like me...” Aka I’m fat

[@Ezio999Auditore]

“I need a moment...”

[@calinawatson7729]

A real life chad y’all

[@forecaster182]

I can't imagine cheating on a person I have a child with. It would be like spitting in the face of my child. Saying that my sexual experience is worth possibly breaking up the family and depriving the child of a father while growing up.

[@colinklang]

I've been with the same woman for 13 years and I would describe the relationship as: marriage. It's not hard and if you care at all for anybody but yourself then you'll ensure that your children are growing up in a stable healthy environment. This chick is unbelievable.

[@FSamuels20]

Women’s vocabulary when they’re trying to admit to something is funny🤣

[@pokeman5000]

Years of dodging responsibility/accountability. They learned to take that tone and "submissive" vocabulary with their weak fathers and boyfriends to avoid escalated punishment. People in general typically don't like to admit when they are wrong and that is triply true for women. She can't just come out and say "I'm a whore, I like to get fucked hard." Because that increases her risk of getting the good ol scarlet letter and actual repercussions for her actions. They constantly dodge questions, reframe conversations, and make excuses because they know the moment they get found out that they are a harlot their reputation PLUMMETS. It's like when E-thots or asian idols get found out they have a boyfriend and aren't single/chaste. Its happened to normal girls during highschool/college in a number of social circles and thats the only real social pressure left stopping degeneracy.

[@terrykrugii5652]

Eerily similar to the infinite spectrum of gender identities and sexualities....

[@anag715]

These comments are full of toxic masculinity

[@clownshoes6137]

@@anag715 sarcasm?

[@ApolloTheLeader]

They be having Thesaurus.com pulled up, I swear.

[@thejohnleos]

I blame the dude just as much. Have some damn self respect.

[@wolfgangschreurs5332]

Yeah ... it's sad. He also look quite unhappy often, if you check his eyes. His eyes show some kind of sadness often. I'd say he definitely doesn't like the "polyamorous" situation but somehow he doesn't dare take matters in his own hands. Perhaps because of his child (which I can kinda understand, but then I feel it's still better to leave - the child might think it's normal for mother to have multiple boyfriends).

[@juny9445]

Fr

[@HybridEnergy]

He's black, he had no father and white girl pull is too strong.

[@badbunnysnovia9176]

HybridEnergy i don’t think she’s white but ok 🙄

[@starjumper6904]

@@HybridEnergy His race has absolutely nothing to do with it. Don't be ignorant.

[@TherealHK-47]

It’s crazy to me how often people who always talk about how “strong and empowered” they are also tend to talk nonstop about how often they indulge themselves and avoid facing any criticism or reflection of their flaws

[@ItsMe_Andre]

This channel really opened my eyes. It helped me recognize a lot of people's disgusting and questionable nature, as well as how and why they come about. I am glad I found this channel.

[@eriklopez7955]

“Don’t save her she don’t wanna be saved” J Cole

[@chrisjohnson6138]

*Project Pat. Jcole got it from him.

[@ludeksikana9299]

I don’t want either

[@CalvinL.Stevens]

Maaan, some Patta fans over here

[@TradBarbie]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/nYKonKFsi66cgKs

[@syndrome5372]

@@chrisjohnson6138 is that true? J Cole steals bars a LOT :/

[@swlb2]

Yup, had a girl tell me that she "thought she was polyamorous" on our 4th date, told her right away that the relationship wasn't going to work lol

[@SpookyRumi]

you dodged a huge bullet

[@Angrybogan]

Dodged a bullet there, buddy

[@l.b.2392]

Good4you

[@jenishpokhrel5870]

Good decision

[@blaiktrout376]

Nothing wrong with what you did, you don’t need that

[@Mike-xl6go]

"I felt drawn towards this man" and she cheats on a man she's been with for 17 years, How Logical.

[@sporkenste1n236]

She keeps phrasing things in a way so as to try to reduce her own guilt, and I think the guy getting tested for STDs was a way of covering her own ass, not only to not catch something, but also as an excuse to not have to explain to her boyfriend how she caught something in case it didn't work out with the guy she was cheating with. Anyone who's willing to cheat on you doesn't love or care about you, and you deserve better.

[@CynicalL3NS]

Imagine putting on another mans dirty drawers. That’s what dating this woman after she cheated on you is like. Screw the streets, this one’s for the highway.

[@theghostofjeffgoldblumdail9613]

Jay K and splattered on the pavement by a semi

[@chongsfury4358]

The dalton highway in Alaska.

[@BlindmanPepperspray]

She belongs to the train tracks

[@thunderlifestudios]

That's how they are

[@youreinthematrix87]

She belong in the sewers

[@j.d.s.1837]

Imagine a man cheating and telling everybody he had to because of "personal growth".

[@RearAdmiralTootToot]

at least if man said it, it wouldn't be a lie because his "personal growth" could mean his ding dong growing in size.

[@Anonymous07192]

@@RearAdmiralTootToot exactly what I was thinking lmao

[@dylanjames6781]

Cheating in general is just fucking disgusting, I dont understand these people.

[@shadowsniper708]

Men or women partaking in one night hook ups, instant gratifications, friends with benefits, and cheating should be thrown in the trash. None of that is satisfying to me and many other people when you can find one good person who makes u feel different, and you can empty yourself in them every night, just to wake up and see them sleeping right next to you happy. That’s satisfying and way better than to feel alone when they leave because they only wanted to fuck or wanted money. Not worth it, I hate feeling used.

[@justarandomguy5505]

They would kill him

[@sentientbattleship1882]

When it comes to a terrible past, you always have two choices before you. You can either choose to let it define you, or you can choose to become better despite it! Clearly she chose to let it define her!

[@jessicas7478]

15:23 "if they are in a stable relationship and someone is not creating the chaos for them they create the chaos themselves" nail on the head.

[@SpideySens111]

She knows she's not a good person. She's just trying to justify her behavior to her followers so she doesn't lose her career as well. Pathetic.

[@lycorislune3846]

who wouldnt tho? people who are hated on the internet usually get harassment virtually and real life, if you're big. onision cant even get a job at a fast food place cuz of the amount of hate hes got now lol

[@davidmarshall3683]

Never underestimate the amount of denial a woman can go through to make themselves believe they're in the right.

[@davidmarshall3683]

@Scooptiboopdieboop If you listen to Jada and Wills conversation and know their history they've been in an open relationship for years and he's been with a lot of other women. I think their contention is that she was having a romantic relationship with the other guy were as it was supposed to just be sex he shot himself in the foot by agreeing to an open relationship.

[@lycorislune3846]

@@davidmarshall3683 ;_; and men

[@davidmarshall3683]

@@lycorislune3846 Some true dirtbag men and they exist but I find it be quite a common trait in women just not usually on those extremes.

[@LordZoltan117]

She is clearly selfish and narcissistic. And it is my unprofessional opinion that she ended the relationship with the other man because she wanted her boyfriend to stop seeing the other woman or women. Once she had her boyfriend free from the other woman or women, she gave it enough time to make it seem like she was committed only to go back to the other man. And that was her plan all along. She never intended to give up the other man.

[@breakingthemasks]

Nailed it.

[@Nelcomarproductions]

yup, she did not want to get replaced.

[@keupajer]

I think this is very easy to see from her own words. So I have to agree

[@LordZoltan117]

TUXmint to me her “plan”, as I called it, was to always keep the Chad on the back burner and once she got her boyfriend to stop seeing the other woman, go right back to exploring her experiencing spirituality with him. Women like this are vindictive and calculating. She may not be the brightest bulb in the pack, but she knows what she wants.

[@jonny_s0288]

servus German native speaker here: This woman is as German as she is mentally stable. Felt the duty to say this.

[@kasvinimuniandy4178]

That man looks very hurt and unhappy. Very very unhappy.

[@easyadventurer]

“I had a hard time with this, because I had to be honest for once”. Wow. Just wow. Where to start on this! Incredible.

[@drakeaamold9758]

God is good

[@abstract0407]

@@drakeaamold9758 I agree but soo many people disagree and say that there is no good and wrong, I mean if anyone is athiest

[@iaimboti]

@@abstract0407 I don't believe there is no right/wrong, just that human right/wrong is not objective.

[@NEVERMIND-io5mp]

@lesbians loves penis there is right and wrong its just subjective according to the society you grow up in... but i believe there is objective right and wrong that is universally accepted but this is a lengthy topic...

[@ItsBeatus]

@@NEVERMIND-io5mp don't fall for the cultural relativist ethical train of thought

[@thatboydio]

The fact that she has a fan base that supports this, is just upsetting.

[@illuminated_]

It's very disturbing ...

[@raylevi5343]

Well, at least most of the comment section is calling her out.

[@ulysses6056]

Considering she has a million subscriptions and her target audience are women, if we weed out the occasional simps that means there are about 800k women who are now open to the idea of "open relationship" and one of then might just be your future gf. Yeah that's pretty scary alright.

[@UranG9630]

Just like Twitter. As long as people stay in echo chambers, the cycle will go on, no lessons learned.

[@isaiahsmith5588]

UranG9630 but people have to stay in echo chambers because of the ridiculous cancel culture that would occur if they have people disagreeing with them. Also unfortunately because of this everyone is pretty much doomed to think or act like they think the same way.

[@natedogg7376]

Waited 13 years into the relationship and then cheated....doubt it, most likely not the first time. She outgrew him.

[@emmymittler4881]

I’ve also found that these women, in addition to being fans of “spirituality” and polyamorous relationships, are also fans of “psychological growth” in the form of online self help courses with “(online) psychological gurus” that include a lot of journaling and “self discovery” with no actual psychiatrist to hold them accountable. So basically everything wrong they do can be twisted into good under the guise of “seeking my truth” and self discovery. As a 30 something woman in New York (in the arts and fashion community)- where one naturally would see lots of alternative lifestyles, I’ve literally never known as many (or any) people practicing these polyamorous lifestyles as being an acquaintance of these types of women and their male counterparts. They ultimately are just self absorbed hedonistic people with some (sometimes minor) trauma in their lives that has never been resolved with a psychologist or psychiatrist but instead serves as the impetus of their “spiritual” lifestyles. Unsurprisingly, these women usually have convinced a few people in their lives to go along with their “ free spirit” (usually a trifecta of parents, one or a few close friends, and one pathetic male hanger on hoping to one day settle them down and sleep with them but instead are content to sit on the sidelines for now thinking they are playing some long game) and think that others should just do the same. It’s so textbook and toxic, but they always try and explain this to normal people like they are so much more advanced and balanced than others who don’t have these lifestyles.

[@blademaster5d153]

It’s not my fault my zodiac sign made me cheat on my partner

[@craigime]

Lol

[@dedelele1991]

Hahaha

[@thesmallestminorityisthein4045]

'I'm a Leo, which means im only compatible with people who are idiots' I stole that from a comedian.

[@TGAcobalt]

Lol

[@damr7304]

Pfff😂

[@ihateprettygirls6]

So these are the social media influencers that people look up to? Disgusting

[@Historyfan476AD]

Social Media i tell you is one of the worst things invented so far, for ever little good it has done, three acts of bad are done as well.

[@antjeeismann4684]

As a German i feel lucky that i have not heard of her before.

[@Tots_lol]

Youre nationaluty has nothing to do with that

[@taram9409]

Wow. This woman is disgusting. I'm sorry she went through trauma as a child, but that doesn't excuse her behavior now. "You can't make this sh*t up" -words from a great man, R.I.P. Kevin Samuels.

[@thetayz72]

"I'm a warrior .. I'm a good person .. I'm a strong woman" You can tell she doesn't even believe this about herself but desperately wants to delude herself into it

[@potaterjim]

If she's a warrior she'll have no trouble equipping this plate mail and double handle battle axe!

[@cataclysmi]

@@potaterjimsend her to war so she dies lol

[@AmethystTheEspeon]

It's called Mental Gymnastics. She's not very good at it.

[@yourabot1062]

there's a difference between "I'm a strong and independent woman' and " IM A STRONG INDEPENDENT WOMAN!"

[@colly7963]

My ex-best friend did exactly the same thing to her husband. She ended up pregnant. When the husband got a girlfriend, jealousy and tantrums ensued. She always portrayed herself as the victim. Needless to say, we're no longer friends. And I've definitely changed my mind about polyamory.

[@sollehdaim828]

I love it when you decided not to be her friend anymore. Because that's the right thing to do as a friend. You stand on what is right and no longer supporting any BS

[@byteresistor]

Yes, that is the usual. Polyamory is often the woman's idea, but she doesn't like it when the man does it too.

[@kittykitkat4968]

My ex friend got a restraining order on her husband and he has not seen his kids since 7 yrs, she just wanted her Way,

[@whutcat682]

I think it s a higher change to work if there are 3 people that like each other. I had a friend from colege who is bi and has a girlfriend that also is by and together they have a boyfriend who is straight (funny I know) But they like each other and only have sexual contact with each other,I must admit they are not crazy people. Of course, this alos may apply to two guys and one girl. Idk what do you think guys is a higher change to work if the relationship is like this?

[@imcaufieldholt]

@@whutcat682 what on earth does “higher change” mean. This is not an English phrase. Anyway, yes they are crazy btw

[@madenee2612]

"Explored in its full capacity" wow

[@blank2.093]

From the streets she comes, to the streets she goes

[@sararomero7090]

Notice that when women say they want a “polyamorous” or “open” relationship, they just mean for themselves. They would never be okay with their man having a side chick or inviting another woman into their lives. They can dish it out but they can’t take it. What about that all that equality stuff?

[@pratik_x]

You belongs to the heaven.

[@RitikRaj-qf6yp]

Sexist

[@Beowulf0510]

They're taking something alright

[@batato2850]

@@RitikRaj-qf6yp tf

[@ngashjr]

I don't believe we can be equal

[@LethalByChoice]

Her: "I'm still.. a good person. *nervously laughs*" Her again: *Sobs and looks at the camera in self-hate after* Me: ._.

[@ericaz6249]

😂

[@nickaharanas3932]

;_;

[@daddytachanka8076]

ಠ_ಠ

[@ALJ9000]

😐

[@suitmanwithaknife4400]

Me:laughing at her as she doesn't deserve the right to be happy

[@AndreAvezRaposa]

18:38 "Me, I'm such a warrior, I'm such a fighter". ............... No you're not. As a matter of fact you are the opposite.

[@Candy.Rotted]

If a woman did this to me, God better intervene because I don't know what tf I would do about it.

[@katevielle4263]

So... she cheated on her man and put it on youtube for everyone to see? Her son is gonna be so confused about it when he grows up 🤦‍♀️

[@thetayz72]

Father seems more moral but still spineless to put up with this. I don't care when people make their own lives miserable but it pisses me off that they create these low quality childhoods for people and in doing so make it more likely for the child to repeat their mistakes.

[@roumyapratapsingh3514]

@@michaelkennedy420 my man

[@SamLoser2]

"Spiritual but not religious" is in essence "all fluffy feelings and zero substantial beliefs".

[@apreviousseagle836]

You nailed exactly why I hate that phrase.

[@kap849]

"Demons are also spirts" my favourite response to that bs of "spiritual".

[@zarganon9594]

@@kap849 “Even the demons know that GOD is one”

[@kap849]

@@zarganon9594 yep

[@koopa5504]

tf is substantial belief? you mean the regular mainstream indoctrination? Just bc one of them is known the other is less doesn‘t make either good.

[@GetBenched2010]

When someone asks their partner about having an "open relationship", it's over.

[@AshishAcharyaalex]

22:00 The language thing is so true. I grew up speaking Newari. But when I immigrated to US no one knows this language as it is only spoken by people living in Kathmandu Valley. Now after living years in US where I speak English 90 % of the time and remaining 10 % I speak Nepali with other Nepali people, I completely forgot Newari . I do understand it here and there but it is really hard for me to form complex sentences in my own mother tongue. The summary of my anecdote is not only it is humanely possible to be fluent in 10 languages but if you don’t practice all those languages on regular basis you gonna forget it sooner or later. So being a polyglot ain’t nothing but dog and pony show. Perhaps true polyglot never existed.

[@Angel-141]

The sad part is she's seen as a hero and powerful woman but if the roles were reverse the guy would be seen as piece of poop

[@taleseylad1249]

that is truly terrible

[@maliksmith9003]

Is she really considered a hero by anyone after this?

[@hirzaahmadmutahari6987]

@BPapiMcP157 the sad truth

[@suitmanwithaknife4400]

U all speak truth unlike HYPOCRITICAL FEMINISTS!!!!!!!!!!

[@Datmeega]

this is what happens when you let woman walk over you...

[@vipulvaibhav7353]

And the sensible people will be f**king their "girlfriends"

[@afm398]

@Fuck Antifa and black lives matter the bible doesn't permit women to be above men because the bible was written by a bunch of men 😂😂😂😂

[@afm398]

@Fuck Antifa and black lives matter you know that I'm right you just don't want to admit it

[@anonnona6940]

Exactly right.

[@anonnona6940]

Read The Rational Male everyone.

[@CharleneOrtizTraining]

I've said it many times before and I'll say it again. The fact that people like this exist isn't what's terrifying. The fact that so many people support people like this is what's terrifying. Also I love the sad and dramatic music in the background! 🤣🤣🤣

[@arisaga822]

One thing I like about these videos is the integrity of the creator to acknowledge the back-story. It doesn’t excuse the behaviour, but it certainly shows how childhood trauma can lead to these sorts of things.

[@dezt4903]

She’s definitely cheated on him multiple times with multiple men. We’d be fools to think it was just that one guy. Y’all have to stop letting these women ruin your lives.

[@punchn9001]

Mhm

[@prismssj8532]

Mhm

[@sheilonkacke]

So true, hoes never retire

[@rick_rivas20]

Deadass

[@natsudragneel-ir7sr]

@‍ the difference is in polygamy, everyone agree and honest about it.

[@kodimitzner8177]

These females are living on recruit difficulty

[@lordvirginpecker1235]

#notmybirdman

[@calebkent5858]

Fello fan of birdman

[@Nobody-11B]

Fook they watching the tutorial.

[@cesargomezu1459]

#Birdteam

[@jdleon5712]

Nah, more like Minecraft creative mode difficulty.

[@BrittanieW]

What a psychopath. Not only does she cheat on her husband and cover it up by saying she “wants an open relationship” but when he decides that he would participate in polyamory, she goes through his phone and gets jealous. Jealousy cannot be anywhere near a polyamorous relationship

[@yourmomliveinatent]

right! this lady is crazy

[@dvg1985]

Two acquaintances of mine got married, and were divorced within a year. She started cheating on him during their honeymoon, not entirely sure how he found out but then she brought up an open relationship. He refused and kicked her out. Meanwhile she's smug and unremorseful about it, he definitely did the right thing by leaving.

[@Tentacl]

Some guys sell their souls to date up. Self respect cannot be overrated.

[@thematrix2661]

So wait he is still with her

[@thematrix2661]

@Plamen Stoev now that it is two times i wonder if he will final broke the safe and take his balls back this chick is clearly loco and you are right this dude is a simp sub beta feminine male a total disgrace.

[@admiralbyrd7047]

What do you mean he dated up? Are we talking about the same woman? You can't even focus on her personality to make up for the fact that she looks like a bitchy clown getting old.

[@raylevi5343]

@@admiralbyrd7047 13 years ago, she probably didn't look so bad.

[@TheClayCreature]

@@admiralbyrd7047 Agreed......I was confused by the comment as well. Date up? I guess that phrase is relative to who is speaking it. Most guys are not realizing that they should redefine what they mean by 'date up' because the relationship (not taking into consideration her personality) usually ends up with the woman treating the man like 'she is dating down.'

[@DanielSan1776]

Wow, I was not prepared for such a horrible person.

[@YgymTheGreat]

Same

[@chudson8453]

Gmail Account man you’d be surprised what people do nowadays

[@rick_rivas20]

Lol and she out here giving people relationship advice haha i pray for those who take her words to heart cuz she fake af

[@HoodrichShinobi]

she needs Jesus Christ in her life very badly

[@cadavher]

People pay to listen to this person, that is even worse. I wish her boyfriend either leaves or is also allowed to explore his "spirituality".

[@annalisasauter7935]

One trick I learned today about behaviour self assessment is asking myself how my mind would react to my own behaviour, if it were to be perpetuated by someone else. I have cried in almost every discussion about my academic shortcomings with my Dad in order to minimize his temper, and induce pity, seeing no problem with it until I saw a male classmate do it with my female English teacher. If that teacher were another man, I predict that my classmate's sobs wouldn't have garnered him as much sympathy.

[@callu947]

She is foul, I never thought people like this actually existed

[@animationfan957]

Being ”free spirited” is just another way of saying that you’re selfish, impulsive and immature, but trying to excuse it and describing it as something positive.

[@Christimony222]

So true. A lack of self discipline and accountability.

[@osmanyousif7849]

Not to mention a complete lying w****.

[@mohammedali9952]

You mean a slapper???

[@asarishepard8171]

"no, im not stealing from you, im just open to owning your money!"

[@towarzyszmarcin474]

Is maturity really soo cool doe...

[@DanteKenchi]

pretty sure she cheated more , alot more, in this 17 years xD

[@newperve]

Yeah that was my first thought too. Not sure why she got caught this time, maybe just luck ran out.

[@thegraphicguys4123]

I think she stopped giving AF about being caught

[@newperve]

@@thegraphicguys4123 Well you try keeping up a facade for 17 years. It's harder than it looks.

[@thegraphicguys4123]

@@newperve that goes to show how much of a sociopath she was, to keep a lie for so long

[@Maruwasa]

That is a fact - he is so silly to think that she is not for the streets.

[@gunterdapenguin5896]

Strong and good people do not go around telling people how strong and great they are, if someone says they're a "strong warrior" they're insecure

[@galenschultz3239]

I'm recent to your channel and have been enjoying what I see. This is the first video I've seen outside the last year of posting. Your tone is much more somber here and I enjoyed it a lot, and you also used more direct and personal phrasings for the ideas you include. Just a thought. It was a good watch, consider me subbed!

[@Ivan-jf9vt]

She gave him hard time when he met another girl after She cheated, psychopath . This is a simp of man

[@HairyBetch]

Yea he’s dumb and I don’t feel bad for him one bit

[@dopevader3673]

You know,family court will fuck all his right from seeing his son,so you don't to look at it from all sides.

[@Snerff]

Hes being manipulated i can tell because my ex said a lot of the same things, she probably guilted him to coming back to her.

[@angelo8304]

maybe he's only staying for kids/future kids

[@ericaz6249]

@@dopevader3673 no he has clear evidence she cheated he has a lot of ground to stand on

[@oswizzle8542]

9:30 its how he explains stuff thats so entertaining i love it

[@GetBenched2010]

2:33 she has the art of the typical KZbin apology down to a science.

[@markiv7867]

When she means his spirit she really is talking about the meat pounder.

[@markiv7867]

@Richard Gos Pun intended.

[@babayagaX9000]

Lmfaooo im dying

[@neowolf09]

"The different way of being that he has" Yea that's exactly what she meant. Great job breaking the code boys, it took us generations... Stay on your toes though, I'm sure they'll switch it up soon...

[@neowolf09]

@R Go I've handled multiple sexual partners, I've been in more than one "open" relationship. In every single one, agreements made were broken and lies were told, and not by me. At least that's my "lived experience" ....

[@markiv7867]

@@neowolf09 Meaning the way she got clapped last night.