Polygamy. My story. (Part 2)

[@Mamakarkade]

This was such a queen moment of you sharing this experience. Living in truth is FREEDOM and miss Jordan you EXUDE it I’m proud of you fr

[@AlizeliaLoveB.]

Never feel embarrassed for growing and going through life. She’s unfair, unexpected, good, and full of surprises. And you my girl, are so brave for paving the way for so many others to be vulnerable and open about real life. We seriously need more of this in the world. Too many fake and perfect people out here, and it’s doing a huge disservice to the world… leaving little to no positive valuable impact. I hope these and all of your videos, reach who it is supposed to.

[@orchidchamblee]

PhoenixXxxx come through w with the vulnerability. We were all young trying to explore this existence outside of the norm and sometimes we got it wrong and that’s OK because at least you were brave enough to try and it’s so beautiful and inspiring when someone who has a platform like you can get on here and say hey hey hey What I said yesterday does not apply today and that’s life. And this is what I learned let me share it with you 👏🏿

[@2wohells]

your first and this video have me in tears . the way you use your words struck me !! i am a single mom of twin toddlers and met their father under the same circumstances. living fast and seen my kids in a man i barely knew . fast forward im a new mom with two 5 month olds . and this man shared he’s been looking and experimenting with new women for our family LMAO . i already felt so so raw and vulnerable . i trusted him to steer the ship but he went awol instead and expected me to follow . i ran with my kids back to my home state and the blessing were quick . like it was already written and the powers at be were waiting for me to come home . this comment is longer than i anticipated so ill end it here . thank you so much for sharing your story ❤

[@pheonixiswild]

@@2wohells so sorry for your pain here. It’s not fair we have to suffer these experiments that these men don’t even talk to each other about! They all just winging it and playing with our lives. I’m happy to know you turned things around for yourself. We are stronger than our circumstances that’s for sure. Sending you endless love.

[@divinelyher]

Ouuuweeee the traumaaa 😭 it’s so wild how I’ve seen so many varying experiences of the same story. From the conscious community shit, the vegan shit, these men with their polygamy and “nation building”, and the trauma postpartum. Likeee mama …. 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍 mannnnn I resonate with this deeeeeeply. I was so bold in “my truths” ughhh thank you for sharing. Genuinely.

[@pheonixiswild]

@@divinelyher yes we are all seeing it in our communities but not many are addressing it. I’m happy to have found the courage. Thanks for listening 💐

[@DrEdS2509]

“What is the point of knowing if you’re not doing?” so many great reminders and gems. Thank you for sharing your truth 💚

[@OmoNyame]

sis. you probably have no idea how many of us can truly truly relate to you in realizing that what we may have got drawn into within this “conscious” movement was actually a bunch of shit that most of us truly aren’t even ready for! i INNER and OVERstand ALL of your recent public reflections of how you’ve grown to feel different about things. there is absolutely nothing for you to feel embarrassed about. you deciding to DO different is an act of wisdom and strength and you sharing this journey with us is a huge act of courage. your accountability is refreshing, and yet it also saddens me that many of us feel like we are not allowed to loudly and proudly have the human experience of evolution, because people CHOOSE to make us “influencers”. to be honest, you have inspired me to share more of my journey and where i may have shifted in my perspective and beliefs. from a sister to sister, mother to mother, grower to grower, I AM SOOOOO PROUD OF YOU FOR THE MANY WAYS THAT YOU ARE SHOWING UP AND BEING YOUR BEST FOR YOU AND YOUR CHILDREN! while some folks on here can get nasty because of their own internal conflicts, i want you remember us who are truly loving you, supporting you, and hugging you through this journey. may all your sacrifices and efforts not be in vain. and may you continue to be blessed with the love and support you (and your children) truly deserve. ❤

[@007GingerLocz]

Continue to protect your spirit and peace as best you can. I'm definitely looking to go deeper and encourage my sisters to go deeper this year. Take time to think about what you want your next chapter to look like and who you want in it. Be more intentional. Write that ish dwn in great detail. It will come! Commanding love, peace, prosperity & protection for you & the family. Amen❤❤❤🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@m0mmy2aStar]

There is so much for women from every walk of life to learn from your story Looking forward to more mom content.❤️

[@groovymamaz]

this was so brave of you to share and I have so much respect for you for being this vulnerable and honest ❤

[@tyeshaglam8907]

You are becoming a free woman and there is healing in your story.

[@laurelbayrobinson2821]

“If you can’t spoil one women, why are trying to have more then one”. I’ve never felt comfortable being with a man who has kids especially young children and being any part of the neglect to those kids. I always raise my eyebrows at women who know a man has kids and do not question the situation before engaging further with that man. Deep respect for “once a once a women is a mother they are a queen” 🙏 And ya poly should probably only be explored if that man can sustain financially supporting every woman.

[@pheonixiswild]

@@laurelbayrobinson2821 yes I have a word for women to take heed and be more wise before entering into relations with a man who has children. Never take his word for anything and connect with the 1st mother to understand the situation fully.

[@OurDreamsInMotion]

This is bringing so many tears to my eyes. I just hurt for all the women in the world who have completely dedicated their minds, hearts and souls to a man just to find an insatiable nature within that being into receive so little advocacy for making sure they are well cared for. That the portal of pleasure and life that they are accessing and so called “loving” is just as happy and respected and validated in their feelings as they are

[@tatiyanakay9430]

Wow. I see you Mama. Sending you love and healing, your heart needs to be nurtured. I hope you are being love on these days. Being nurtured and taken care of now that you’re surrounded by family. Thank you for releasing your truth ❤️

[@pheonixiswild]

Thank you so much for your beautiful words, it means a lot. 🙏🏾

[@MsNoStankYou]

Ima hit dog that hollered😂 I think the shame prevents us from sharing, then the next generation keeps making the same mistakes. I'm 'doing' by not hiding my story from my daughter. I give it to her raw & uncut because these men start plotting on us young. Anyway lol, thank you for keeping it real. 💜💜

[@kendralambert3828]

You are such a strong woman Jordan, for real. You’ve been such an inspiration to me over the years, I’ve always been in awe of your lifestyle. It’s crazy how the internet works and how we see so little of people’s lives but use it as a blueprint to build our own, not realizing that everyone is just figuring it out for themselves as well and is doing everything for the first time too. The internet really makes us forget that the people we see are human too, and don’t know fully what they’re doing. Which is the beauty and horror of life- walking through the unknown every single day. And then showing everyone online what you’re doing as you work through it in real time is such a crazy concept. It can be so helpful for others to see, and so healing to share, but clearly it comes with its downsides as well. But one thing I know from watching you all these years and that you are a warrior, and an amazing mother. Two titles to wear proudly as you figure out all the rest. Keep going mama ✨ Truly, you are force that is NEEDED here

[@firstsightent1]

I’m glad to hear the truth of how this arrangement doesn’t work for everybody. It might for some, but in today’s world is it really necessary or is this just an excuse to screw around like a greedy little boy.

[@Mamakarkade]

Polygamy was bornnnnn to serve women and children not men so these little boys who have a cap on growth and mental capacity these days have it all the way wrong let’s just start and end there ….. I don’t shame women who are a part of these lifestyle most times it a cry for help from their spirit when they talk out loud about it in a positive light speaking as someone who almost fell in that hole one too many times

[@chueikiir]

Thankyou beautiful for opening up about something so real ❤ No offence to anyone but I have noticed a "trend" if we can call it that, with African American/Afro diaspora men having a niche for polygamy. Maybe its a way that they romanticize the type of manhood and access to women that's afforded to African men on the continent. Im Sudanese and come from a polygamous family myself, and from what i've experienced and know it's HORRENDOUS. I don't know one healthy dynamic that hasnt included immense suffering and a boat load of responsibilities for the women and children of these relationships, cos the men don't know how to step up to the role but continue spreading seeds with so much entitlement. You have said things that many mothers in these relationships bury deep in them because of shame and misogynist cultural expectations. Its not easy sis, I understand. The amount of pain and family secrets that come out of polygamy is crazy and most times it goes back to the man being a complete airhead.

[@pheonixiswild]

@@chueikiir yea. I’ve never seen or heard of this type of dynamic working. I wish I realized that myself before being pulled into this spiral. I will continue to do the work required in speaking about it

[@BecomingMatriarch]

Yes, make sure those babies know each other…not for him but for them. Your transparency will always be “the thing” the spark, the light, the main attraction. Being so raw in a world that is so fake, is everything. And yes you cute (loved that disclaimer) but the video is definitely raw as it should be…let’s bring back 2014 KZbin when we could just roll outta bed and be bout it bout it. ❤

[@pheonixiswild]

Right? People complaining when there is visible mess in people’s videos. Oh they better not come on this channel 😂😅😂😅 thank you for being here ❤

[@sincerelycalypso4993]

Thank you for your honesty and strength . You exude love .

[@_Natasha2222_]

We need to build our village and help each other, as women. We want stability, real support from other mothers who understand and want the same safe space for themselves and their children, with or without husbands/boyfriends. I’ve gotten desperate as well and considered many things (including joining the military) just to get away. Just to have me back. I missed myself so much, and when I say that I mean the me before I was a wife and a mother. I love my kids and would do it all again if it meant I get to be their mother but the truth is it’s overwhelming and my husband’s help (though well intended) is not enough and not the same!! 😮‍💨 Ok I’m done ranting. Thanks for your openness about your experience. I really appreciate it.💜

[@ingridthompson6512]

⭐️💛Thank you for sharing your raw truth, your vulnerability and beautiful femininity. I feel your strength baby girl powerful mama ✨️

[@NiijiGoddessWellness]

Thank You for sharing 🌻

[@jessicaallen6319]

Thank you for sharing! 🫶🏾

[@coranika1ify]

I retract, I didn't know this was here ❤ thank you so much for your truth 🙏🏾

[@OurDreamsInMotion]

Your point about searching for communities of women online that are actually excited and super ecstatic and happy about the polygamy that they are experiencing, and it being practically nonexistent as exactly why I’m tired of being gaslit by men and this idea of polygamy. It just feels like a bunch of gaslighting to be honest, unless you are genuinely bisexual and desire that lifestyle. And it almost seems as if men are completely skipping over the women who actually desire that lifestyle for real because I know women who really want a king and a queen or who in general these men pursue women who are monogamous stressed them out and then add this whole lifestyle that these woman really don’t want. 😢

[@Leah-bj6gl]

Thank you for sharing.

[@kutlwanomakgalemele2338]

In 🇿🇦 polygamy is a well resourced mans game. Its also functional in a well resourced family set up. I am so moved by your share as i am shedding some 'truths' and gaining massive clarity. Thank you for your heart. I just had my second one and deep in post partum .... so thank you for validating my current season. We love you so much. Bless you and your beautiful babies ❤❤

[@pheonixiswild]

@@kutlwanomakgalemele2338 love to you too, thank you 💐

[@MiryamBrown-Alsua]

I fucking love you, Jordan.

[@MiryamBrown-Alsua]

I have so much respect for you as a woman, mother, human. Thank you for continuing to share, storytelling medicine is so sacred. For women. For mothers. For every one. Just thanks ❤

[@pheonixiswild]

@@MiryamBrown-Alsuayou are welcome. Love you too 🥹💐

[@abibeya1557]

what’s the point of knowing if you’re not doing? damn! clocked.

[@pheonixiswild]

Clocked and stamped.

[@freetobree5323]

It’s not your fault, he would’ve still slept with other people even if you said you were uncomfortable with polygamy

[@Mamakarkade]

@@freetobree5323 THIS PART

[@divinelyher]

WHATS THE POINT OF KNOWING IF YOURE NOT DOING???? 🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️

[@ivorys_daughter]

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