My main takeaway from this video is that as women we are WAY too nice and let way too many red flags fly before we leave.
@Marie-mq3kb9 ай бұрын
@CorkScrew-up8qx Well, it seems to have struck a nerve for you. She must have a point then, eh? Cartoon picture or not, you're still the idiot with all the red flags. 😂
@Rara-pr9wg9 ай бұрын
Nope way too desperate🚩
@karlagonzalvez47038 ай бұрын
Which is why it angers me when they demonize women for initiating divorce as if we decide for no reason at all
@IzzTyana8 ай бұрын
I agree
@dpascha72888 ай бұрын
Right!!!!!
@MyBlackPumpkinSoup9 ай бұрын
And then guys say that we women have 'too many and too high of expectations'. Like, sir, dude, no. The bar is in hell, this guys are proof of it. And we are uping it to heaven, you like it or not.
@hubabaloop9 ай бұрын
Period whether you like or fucking naawwwwwtttt!!!!!!!
@Moonchildstargazer9 ай бұрын
"The bar is in hell" 😂😂
@MyBlackPumpkinSoup9 ай бұрын
@@hubabaloop Exactly! I would rather be called 'spoiled' due to having standarts than putting up with shit like this 🥱
@MyBlackPumpkinSoup9 ай бұрын
@@Moonchildstargazer If there is anywhere lower than that, the bar is there too 😩
@Sky-yh3ml9 ай бұрын
🙌well thankful to the indoor farmers in US and Canada! Such as blessing we don’t have to roast ourselves for food production!🎉
@TM-nb9zf9 ай бұрын
The first lady reminds me to tell women to stop fighting each other and let's catch these men in their lies😂
@ashleypatterson18679 ай бұрын
Her whole page is about that actually! She catches cheating boyfriends and reports back to the gf. Women pay her. She messages them and sees if they will take the bait.
@wolfdogg99389 ай бұрын
Never go on a date without enough money to cover yourself and have a ride home arranged. Never leave your stuff at someone's house or in their car. I would have given the keys to a bartender and left immediately. Drive yourself, never give anyone control over your ability to leave
@7Mushrooms78 ай бұрын
This. I don't advise online dating but if one wants to go out with strangers from apps, this advice is even more important.
@lillyvgutierrez96858 ай бұрын
Never leave your keys ur purse or anything or yours in someone’s car. Keep all ur stuff on u
@BloodNote3 ай бұрын
This. 😊
@lavinder119 ай бұрын
"I paid for the bill to make a statement" then she went on a second date. Girl.... 😅
@emilys95243 ай бұрын
Desperation
@TheOmniMic2 ай бұрын
Right. That part
@NimaAbdu-z1iАй бұрын
That is Crazy man
@heneverforesakesme40389 ай бұрын
To any of the young ladies reading this...I know that you are living on "hope" that things will get better, either during the date or relationship but take it from this 53-year-old woman. It won't...whether it's a first date or relationship, a man is always taking your temperature to see what you are going to tolerate, at the first sign of BS, please just pick up and leave. The young lady that tolerated the man fighting, the moment he was fighting...I would have left and not contacted him again. The young lady on the date and another woman was there in the booth or table. Leave....
@tinachristine45739 ай бұрын
Girl! Those two stories had me screaming at the phone like 'what are you still doing there??? LEAVE!!!'
@nimokimani9 ай бұрын
Why are you even kissing the Dude😳??!!Ewwww
@tinachristine45739 ай бұрын
@@nimokimani I didn't even listen to the very end. Please don't tell me there was kissing after that stupid date of 2 women and one narcissistic man 🤦🏽♀️
@lailaxoxo8729 ай бұрын
Nah watching my grandma, aunties and my momma go through it with men they’re married to changed my whole world view. It doesn’t get better you just gotta choose the best one and work through it atp
@tinachristine45739 ай бұрын
@@lailaxoxo872 💯 it only gets worse.
@koffeeebrown72219 ай бұрын
The girl that immediately left the BD on the date is the ONLY one that got a lick of sense in this 🤦🏾♀️
@koffeeebrown72218 ай бұрын
@@lilyxo6914 what about her???
@clairlaa8 ай бұрын
Her and the microwaving chicken woman 😂
@sourcandydoll9 ай бұрын
I’m taking a break from dating because in 2022 I met two men who wanted to “take me out” (they just wanted sex, I wouldn’t give it to them) and they were BOTH married. Blocked their numbers and social media. Some of these men have no shame.
@BlkOnyx05088 ай бұрын
I also find it odd that the dating pool is full of married men
@leelee1857 ай бұрын
Same here. I used to work in corporate office and most of the men in the office would hit on me and they where all grown married men, and I was a young girl in my 20’s
@coolcat34529 ай бұрын
There was once a man who asked me out on a date & while texting back & forth I realised his WhatsApp profile picture is his wedding photo & I blocked him!!
@Kre8iviT27Ай бұрын
Wow! The balls on that dud3. Sheesh!
@TruestLovely9 ай бұрын
Lol at the 40+ year old getting his @ss kicked twice😂 The universe said, In case you did not hear Us the first time ma'am 😄😄😄
@zinangejane45749 ай бұрын
Yeah; single children free and a dog doesnt sound so bad anymore ngl🤞
@mmt123mimi39 ай бұрын
Agreed - this is also me:)
@zinangejane45749 ай бұрын
@@mmt123mimi3girl im not about this life anymore. Me and my dog will be fine 🤞i know it
@Enriquez22229 ай бұрын
Dying alone sounds blissful
@Ilikefrogs..9 ай бұрын
I’m honestly thinking of getting IVF, a few cats, and just calling it a day.
@margodphd9 ай бұрын
Yep. If I ever want children and will be stable financially with enough free time I'll just foster or become emergency housing for kids.
@meli73159 ай бұрын
I had a similar situation. I had a date with a man who lived with his gf for years. I asked before do you have a gf he said no. I had the same intuition something is wrong so I didn’t do the investigation but I just said I don’t want to meet you. He confessed suddenly the day after he has a gf loving with her. I said will you ever contact me I will tell her. What happened? Two months later he tried to call me. Than I found out who she is and told her. She was in shock. The sad part is he said she doesn’t care about he is being with others and I said well you have to still tell her. So he pretended not only being single he also pretended that his gf don’t care! Boy was he wrong. She left him, of course 🤷🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ I would like to know if someone will cheat on me and would be thankful if someone would tell me.
@Priscilla_Boye9 ай бұрын
Absolutely Me too
@quandraadams75839 ай бұрын
Same. Tell me.
@kdphotos46918 ай бұрын
The greatest hits from a cheater's mouth: "My wife and I are separated." "My wife and I are divorced." "My wife won't let me touch her anymore."
@laurawalsh28292 ай бұрын
Thank you. I have seen two out of three used, Y married men. I told them, if one woman isn’t enough for you - why do you want to piss off two?! (Thank you, Wanda Sykes!!) 😊👍🇨🇦
@beyzayildiz529628 күн бұрын
You are a good woman. My ex cheated on me with a girl that first didn't know that we were in relationships but then when she understood that he was in relationships with me she continues to date him.. some women are desperate bitches
@zoejaiattoh12439 ай бұрын
I definitely want to hear more dating stories , these men are something else
@ltaylor98586 ай бұрын
There’s a podcast called Don’t Save the Date…it’s funny.
@terri40819 ай бұрын
I would have given her all of the answers to her questions . It’s girl code for me !!
@theconsciousearthangel9 ай бұрын
These girls showed that even very beautiful girls don't have boundaries and put up w too much crap from men. The blonde should have left the two of them. The girl w the fighting guy shouldn't have gone on a second "date". The guy didn't apologize. Yikes girls. Please be good to yourself.
@kbowman9689 ай бұрын
I think if a guy said to me “I have a woman and child at home but let’s date” I’d leave the restaraunt .:… dusty af
@lol.34605 ай бұрын
Right. Even if they really ain’t together he’s still in the midst of exiting a relationship. It gives messy either way it goes
@hubabaloop9 ай бұрын
The 3 way date wtf 😂😂😂 oh my god
@mynameISsky9 ай бұрын
This makes me feel warm and fuzzy about being single. :) I'll stay this way.
@zoejaiattoh12439 ай бұрын
Wow it’s wild in these streets 😮😮
@tinachristine45739 ай бұрын
Jesus! A lot of these girls don't know when to pick up their purse and walk away. But I think they are still young.
@pinkpain-ter84129 ай бұрын
The guy getting beaten up on both dates is the best imo 😂😂 Happy Holidays Priscilla 🎊❤️❤️
@DM-su8fl8 ай бұрын
I wasn’t expecting that dude who got into two fights to be in late 40s!
@thrill1029 ай бұрын
I definitely agree with the first woman. If you somehow become privy that a man you went on a date with was married it is definitely the right thing to do to tell the wife. I don’t understand how that is even a question.
@wolfsisterhowls9 ай бұрын
It's a safety issue. A friend of mine told the wife and the wife not only took all the anger out on her but cyber stalked her for months after the fact and started spreading malicious rumours about my friend to make her seem like a homewrecker. When the wife eventually got tired of that, she told the husband (who my friend had broken up with) that she was miserable because she was jealous of a woman he wasn't even seeing anymore. This married man proceeded to stalk and harrass my friend, claiming she'd ruined his marriage by telling the wife. Cheaters are crazier and sometimes their spouses are crazier. Some women prefer to just mind their business and quietly exit the love triangle rather than deal with a male-identified wife or the cheating husband trying to ruin their life for speaking up. You just can't trust that people will respond rationally.
@thrill1029 ай бұрын
@@wolfsisterhowls That’s what reporting/cops are for.
@wolfsisterhowls9 ай бұрын
@@thrill102 if your experience is that the cops do anything BEFORE harm is done, I'm happy for you.
@danaparfitt24919 ай бұрын
@@thrill102What? 😂
@thrill1029 ай бұрын
@@danaparfitt2491 What?
@zlatkajupe9 ай бұрын
This happens so often and this is why I just don’t trust men whatsoever
@TheSentientSensei9 ай бұрын
He lied about his birthday for astrological reasons 😏
@colleenmariet9 ай бұрын
More and longer of these please. 🍿
@madelinesummers54719 ай бұрын
The dude who keeps getting in fights obviously makes enemies wherever he goes. Trouble follows him. My ex had someone literally refuse to say hi to him “A friend” apparently. First warning. Another time a girl, even started yelling at him for dating her friend while with me while we were out in the town. Second warning. I ignored both because I was dumb, and didn’t have any idea of my own self worth. After our relationship ended, which ended poorly, he tried sitting next to next to me on the bus and I told him to get the hell away from me. It took a long time to figure out, I’m the best partner and I deserve an educated, respectful, kind, and loving partner in my life.
@Liz-wz8dh9 ай бұрын
These guys are getting so crazy out here.
@Emptytopfloor9 ай бұрын
Getting desperate
@77kc_779 ай бұрын
Yep best to avoid
@toscadonna9 ай бұрын
They’ve been crazy since the late 90s when I started dating, and even my father, his brother, and my paternal uncles were all awful.
@77kc_779 ай бұрын
@@toscadonna it's not safe for women to date
@77kc_779 ай бұрын
@toscadonna I say it's time to leave men alone my concern is our safety at risk
@e3xiii3159 ай бұрын
I’ve been in the first girl situation, at least three times each time I’ve tried talking to the other woman about the situation. They were horrible to me. They took out their anger that they had towards the man on me. One woman even social media stalked me for at least a year. I had to make my Instagram private for a long time because of that .Each time I had no clue that these men were in relationships or married. So these days if a woman reaches out to me, which honestly hasn’t happened in a long time, but if it were to happen, I can see why women choose to stay out and ignore the other woman because it’s never gone well for me.
@iseeyoushay6 ай бұрын
Ive had bad experiences, too. I had told a casual friend that her bf's ex-girlfriend was trying to get back with him. Next thing I know the ex wanted to fight me. Like, why would you put my safety at risk when I was helping you out? I had another woman whose man was a chronic cheater and she "her ased" me for some time after she caught him with me. Later she did apologize for saying hurtful things to me and accusing me of still messing with him when I wasn't. He was messing other women.
@e3xiii3156 ай бұрын
@@iseeyoushay there should be a understood sisterhood when it comes to those type of things, but it just really doesn’t exist it seems. Both women are being played, and we should be supportive of one another. Nowadays, it’s just better and safer to just mind your business and block that woman and that man and let them deal with it amongst themselves.
@iseeyoushay6 ай бұрын
@@e3xiii315 I agree.
@hubabaloop9 ай бұрын
He fell off his bike twice LMFAO I would’ve put for your Band-Aids in the caption line of the $20
@maam-yj8ph9 ай бұрын
I would never have taken his money and Rolex. I would have sent that back saying you're going to need those for your medical bills.
@kbowman9689 ай бұрын
@@maam-yj8phshe returned it to the hotel room after clubbing with her pals
@virginiajimenez79559 ай бұрын
I wouldn't have even sent the fool $20. I would have simply blocked and deleted.
@ashleytyler13862 ай бұрын
Or for training wheels 😂😂😂
@toscadonna9 ай бұрын
For the blonde girl, I had a similar issue on a date in college. This guy who was a friend of a friend asked me out, and when he picked me up, he asked if I minded if we swung by his school to pick up some friends. Being young and inexperienced, I thought it was a weird request, but I said I didn’t mind. Then he stops and 4 girls squeeze into the back seat, and we all go to a bar. He proceeds to go off with the 4 girls from his school and just left me alone the entire night.😂 I just stood there and tried to have fun on my side of the bar, and I had to call our mutual friend to come pick me up. I got the hint that he obviously didn’t like me if he’d ask me out just to humiliate me.😂
@queenreg79 ай бұрын
Why do people DO that?!?
@margodphd9 ай бұрын
@@queenreg7I wonder that too...
@SK-le4lj9 ай бұрын
So ridiculous! I wouldn't even believe it if something similar didn't happen to a friend
@kdphotos46918 ай бұрын
Yep, a man from my work asked me if I wanted to get coffee. I got to the place, and with a smirk on his face, he introduced me to his fiancée. Mm, ok. Luckily, an old friend I hadn't seen in years walked by and I stopped him and took the chance to exit the weird situation. The worst part is that I was only meeting the guy from work because our work relationship was more friendship than anything else. I got the impression that he was trying for a "gotcha" moment, but I only saw him as full of himself for trying to embarrass me as if I was in love with him! He isn't the only one to do that. What a lot of people don't want to admit that is some men will deliberately be abusive and horrible to attractive women. I've had no less than 12 men contact me on social media DECADES later to tell me they were about to get married. And? What are you telling me for?? 🤣
@Msgoddessk9 ай бұрын
i was in this situation, on the wife end ............ if your gut says he cheating trust yourself
@SoothingSounds-ph5mm3 ай бұрын
Thank goodness we are talking so openly about this. It is helping us as a group develop. While I am amazed at the lack of boundaries that women have thanks so much for sharing your stories.
@cutlyfe9 ай бұрын
This is why I do what I do with these men and keep it moving because most of these men do not want anything serious anyway, it just appears that they get into marriages or relationships just to cheat. I’m not gonna lie. I used to want some serious but now I don’t.
@Enriquez22229 ай бұрын
Honestly, use these men for a limited time before they become annoying. The longest I’ve gone so far is 30 days 😂
@cutlyfe9 ай бұрын
@@Enriquez2222 I’ve been doing that too and plus I will text these men just to test them just to see what they’ll never reply (unless it’s for they’re own convenience lol) to be on the safe side
@mana-uv7cz9 ай бұрын
It’s because it’s never enough. They are so entitled to novelty, they project their problems on to us, they are missing intimacy in their lives (let’s face it they lie and bond with people over things they hate or their hobbies, but nothing deeper. One of my biggest wake up calls EVER was when my male friend said that he would lie about liking olives and would be willing to eat them for the rest of his life just to “build connection” with the woman who said she liked olives. When manipulation (over something as small as food preferences) is confused for connection there is no hope.
@wanderlustoceans82059 ай бұрын
@@Enriquez2222 girl so true though sometimes acting like you like them is so hard because they be having inflated ego and show off whatever they have and im just like uhhhgggg here we go again have to put up with this just to use him xD? 30 days is long I lasted only a week lol I can't handle them how do you have the patience??
@Enriquez22229 ай бұрын
@@wanderlustoceans8205 I have to limit the amount of communication… maybe 5 texts per ever 2-3 days and then go about the rest of my week. I usually tell them I have to work/gym so I’ll talk to them when I have time(which is technically true)… They are draining so I gotta keep it to a minimum. I learned this from men 😂, or just send the goodmorning messages then don’t respond until the afternoon or next day. Edit: and I’ll only see them once a week
@hubabaloop9 ай бұрын
These are crazy, good finds Priscilla - thank youuu from your tiktok-sober friend lol
@Priscilla_Boye9 ай бұрын
No problem!! ☺️
@HHCF7139 ай бұрын
The girl that went out with the guy for a second date and he’s cheap, girl that was stupid.
@indigobeauty14 ай бұрын
extremely stupid...she got played 😅
@HHCF7139 ай бұрын
To my Chitown sis, she should’ve known and left him when the fight started. I need women to start listening to their intuition and just roll. Also, I’m from Chicago and I would’ve rolled out as soon as that happened. Actually, I wouldn’t have gone to the lounge as she said she didn’t feel like it.
@mads5979 ай бұрын
Fully agree. Though she didn’t just ignore intuition but also her eye witness experience!!
@dpascha72888 ай бұрын
Exactly!!!!! And why in the hellllll entertain this dude after the 1st fight. She could have possibly been a statistic over his shtz.
@km43369 ай бұрын
These stories are wild af. Makes me sad this is what is out there for us single women 😑
@terrylu18439 ай бұрын
This is what happens when the guy is good looking and knows it and the girl is in love with him and will do anything to be in his company..
@fembotsisi7 ай бұрын
some of these bros ain't tho.
@thesecretshade9 ай бұрын
The request for the money spent on a date is an attempt to humble you. Especially if you told him no to going to his apartment or you didn't feel the vibes for a second date. So they try to humble you because they can't handle rejection.
@kbowman9689 ай бұрын
Sorry but I’m laughing at the 2 for 1 date poor lassie 😂❤
@OpulentAristocrat9 ай бұрын
Make a statement by paying the bill? 😂 Immediately no‼️
@nicnelson93933 ай бұрын
The broke leg story is hilarious 😂😂😂
@RT224449 ай бұрын
So that dude took her on a shared date without notifying her of what it was, ignores her the whole time, then she says he *tries kissing her...but then outs herself and says "made out for 10 min". Girl. He may have treated you poorly, but YOU then made out with him for 10 fucking minutes. Don't be a pick-me and then complain about it!!
@karasmusic1239 ай бұрын
He was prolly hot. 😂
@TAlyse-qj1oc3 ай бұрын
The First Lady I can relate to. This guy I was dating was cheating on his girl and I had to tell her. We talked for hours day and night and I was there for her. Fast forward they got back together and still together, and I’m still here for her if she ever wants to leave again. I don’t blame her for going back, I blame him for hurting her. Hold men accountable.
@kbowman9689 ай бұрын
I got bad knees😂 ahahaha she’s cute and funny
@sensimania9 ай бұрын
She sounded traumatised 😂😂
@Sherakeeshareakey8 ай бұрын
That man would have never seen that Rolex or cash again if it was me😂 she a real one
@palmzombie35539 ай бұрын
Some of these girls just need to speak up for themselves because how do you show up to a date and another girl is there and you stay. Not only that but you make out with the dude for ten minutes?
@sj52189 ай бұрын
Yes upload more of these. They’re entertaining!
@gloriouslove90092 ай бұрын
Girl not fighting and two different cities 😩😬🥴😂😂
@user-gu6vf3je1d9 ай бұрын
The knockout part ll had me 😂 Laughing out loud 😂
@Kitty57109 ай бұрын
If the guy I was meeting for a date he asked ME on and I saw another woman at the table I would ask him right in front of her if this is our date and what is she doing here.
@queenreg79 ай бұрын
I had that “I am going to act like I like you and then humiliate you in public” scenario happen to me in HIGH SCHOOL. A grown man doing that to someone is way asinine.
@Kitty57109 ай бұрын
@@queenreg7 So sorry that happened to you in
@queenreg79 ай бұрын
@@Kitty5710 Thanks! Kids can be so cruel. Sad to see an adult man acting like a high school kid.
@SK-le4lj9 ай бұрын
I would looooove this to happen to me, I want all the smoke, immediately
@jewelryboxballerina3 ай бұрын
I wouldn't even do that. I would have just walked away the moment I saw him sitting with another woman. I'm not going to waste my time and energy confronting a fool.
@kokikodevereaux49329 ай бұрын
What did the well-known comedian have to do with the story? The rapper... Rolex and cash. She's one of those. Lol. Was he in the hospital overnight for a broken leg? I missed something.
@RedRoseSeptember229 ай бұрын
Yes I would want to know if my man was cheating.
@OverKillJill8 ай бұрын
I’m here after part 3 and boy I tell you, the struggle is REAL. These men are something else 😂
@adrianwillis669 ай бұрын
I am sure it is very Traumatic out there nowadays.
@77kc_779 ай бұрын
Yea so glad to be single
@77kc_779 ай бұрын
It is
@leslyegrace138020 күн бұрын
when she said I got bad knees I almost hit the floor cuz I GET IT 😆
@PraiseTheFSMonster3 ай бұрын
The most shocking part of this is definitely NOT the men's behavior. It's the fact that these women went on SECOND dates with them!
@tatyyy83378 ай бұрын
Getting your ass whooped on the first date is crazyyyyyy😅😂😂😂
@rn27876 ай бұрын
People ask why I don't want a serious relationship ever again... look at what's on offer. I'll take my cats.
@user3xktzz7293xyz2 ай бұрын
Blonde girl who had a "date" with a couple: that's an entire Seinfeld episode! That's definitely something that would have happened to Elaine...
@BigRed1595044Ай бұрын
10:52 reminds me of SATC earlier episodes scene at a restaurant “Carrie, this is Julia Woods” 😂
@yvonnetaylor-bennett5658Ай бұрын
The first lady did the right thing by telling the wife.
@hildablue4399 ай бұрын
Can we all agree that that lady who went out with street fighter's story was funny as shit🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.
@chanellw55869 ай бұрын
hey Priscilla , been watching your content for months now. Want you to let you know that I enjoy every video. Girl power! keep it up sis
@Arizona_lilly9 ай бұрын
Gurl you can’t be chasing a dude who doesn’t know when to stop fighting
@redsunflower89999 ай бұрын
Meanwhile am sitting here like…why women still bothering themselves with men!?🤦🏽♀️🫢😏🤯
@Car-qu2bc9 ай бұрын
Because most women aren’t spinsters
@jenny2tone2428 ай бұрын
@@Car-qu2bclol keep crying 😂
@Car-qu2bc8 ай бұрын
@@jenny2tone242 nobody is crying lol
@alphabetquo9 ай бұрын
Why i google rapper who broke their leg, and 2chainz came up....
@Crystal4yaАй бұрын
😂😂😂
@amye.49869 ай бұрын
Thank you Priscilla! So crazy & interesting!!
@beth-bi9yv9 ай бұрын
The girl microwaving her left overs, yes. Just cut it off at the first red flag.....they never turn another colour if you give them more time.
@lovelydeath049 ай бұрын
Yeeeaaahh, dating in this economy is too pricey on my peace of mind. Imma just keep to myself.
@TheOmniMic2 ай бұрын
The first lady is the No.1 Ladies Detective Agency😊
@Kimberly_978 ай бұрын
When you saw that the guy was with someone else why didn’t you just leave? Screaming low self esteem 😂😂😂😂🤦🏽♀️
@linmichelle51184 ай бұрын
Girls tank strap holding on for dear life😂
@Listening4n0w3 ай бұрын
The guy who kept getting beat up 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@kandillishis3 ай бұрын
It’s hilarious how bumble keeps placing ads before these types of videos.
@yupp5618 ай бұрын
Why did he give her the Rolex and the money like the hospital confiscates those things?
@Waterharmony34 күн бұрын
Its abusive out there, go team BEAR!!!!!!
@kdphotos46918 ай бұрын
There's a lady named Thick Chick Vlogs who has two really funny stories about her awful dates. The videos are old, but they're worth a watch. She's a good story teller.
@jayjellobean8 ай бұрын
The silver lining of these terrible stories is that Chasity Soules followed Girl Code. More of that!
@QUEERVEEART9 ай бұрын
as a polyamorous person this kinda stuff frustrates me sooo much. there is a whole community of people who practice poly or ethical non monogamy in a healthy way to have multiple partners. but these men DONT want that. they dont want their partners to see others, they want the power and control of cheating. its so gross and i DONT understand it!! i am so happy being poly and having multiple connections where everyone is on board and willing to be a part of that. monogamy is valid absolutely for people who want that ofc! not saying poly is like the answer or anything, it just frustrates me to no end to hear all these cheating stories. when i know there is a way to be with many people in a way that doesnt hurt anyone. why dont they want that !!! UGHHH
@Enriquez22229 ай бұрын
Men love the thrill of chaos, they don’t care about people’s feelings 😂
@Emptytopfloor9 ай бұрын
@@Enriquez2222then they turn around and ask you to be their peace 😂
@RedRoseSeptember229 ай бұрын
No such thing as "healthy poly" it's all an excuse to cheat. If you can't be happy with one person then you have some serious problems.
@strawbraryliberry46049 ай бұрын
Yeah it's like they insist on being unethical & hurting ppl. I can be polyam or mono, although lean towards polyam. So I know, it's really not that hard to stay true to your commitments & not cheat in mono relationships. I don't get why you'd agree to be mono & then completely disrespect your partner- it just seems so icky.
@QUEERVEEART9 ай бұрын
@@Enriquez2222 it's true, but i have no idea why... i just can't relate to that. i have way too much empathy, i feel bad when i hurt people's feelings unintentionally. i just can't comprehend how so many men don't care about peoples feelings... i couldn't not care even if i tried
@shaypope47329 ай бұрын
I had a guy tried talking to me before I deleted dating apps years ago he was talking to himself until he sent me a good amount of money so I said why are you sending strangers money he said he loves to invest in wat he likes long story short i had 37missed calls so while I was on the app i started getting called again I answered then it was his wife asking all kinds of things and that's not even the worst thing to happen from that app had men that were scat kings, playing with themselves while talking on video call until I see white stuff shoot up cause they couldn't afford a sexorker the stuff I experienced just made me delete the app all together too draining
@annalouisehorn3 ай бұрын
If you date a man over 50, he’s probably still married.
@simrockraysamuel2258Ай бұрын
These men are too comfortable with their disrespect.🤨
@6ftNaturalBeauty8 ай бұрын
The woman with the head wrap with the story about the “well known” Atlanta Chicago man is pathetic. It’s pretty clear that she was clout chasing, from the way she would introduce people into her story. In addition to her going out on a second date with someone who got into a fight lounge. So sad.
@karasmusic1239 ай бұрын
Avoid dismissive avoidants like the plague.
@Cyhcg5uhgb6 ай бұрын
I rember my ex telling me about the extra cheese story (he is also very cheap. Didnt even give me a bday present). My ex presented it as the guy not wanting the extra cheese and girl pressuring him into doing it. Smh. Cheap men are such a red flag.
@nkolemwaba25268 ай бұрын
The woman whose date lived with his baby mama, probably his wife....why do men put women in danger? That's actually evil
@theconsciousearthangel9 ай бұрын
I once had a date w guy who started zipping me up. I was like what on earth are you doing? It was the last time.
@77kc_779 ай бұрын
Zipping you up tf is that
@77kc_779 ай бұрын
Explain
@77kc_779 ай бұрын
@@soulspirationgoddess I hope not zip tieing her 😬
@lillyvgutierrez96859 ай бұрын
Poor girl w the extra date . She’s not being ur friend
@artdesignstyle2697Ай бұрын
For the lovely lady giving part 2 of the date where the fighting Tom cat man got knocked out… he did not forget what happened that night he simply wanted you to forget it happened. As a way to downplay the severity and embarrassment and it worked you went out with him again…
@Egh01279 ай бұрын
3:38 same thing happened to me I found a girl on Instagram and was very respectful I just wanted to know if she had spoken to him on Instagram me seeing their "recently messaged" but they were deleted. She never responded but then I was blocked shortly after sending the message. Women out here betraying their own gender over a dusty male 😂
@teahfranklin61175 күн бұрын
I have bad knees for me!!!!!!
@kdeloris2225Ай бұрын
The plug should have been pulled on all of these dates right at the gate. Women don't allow a bad day to continue. 🙅🏽
@smartchick649Ай бұрын
So if you’re in a relationship with him then he can sneak away on his fake birthday to be with his girlfriends. It hurts but I would want to know for sure. KNOWLEDGE IS POWER.
@DreamDeva8 ай бұрын
the push to start hell no
@leahp17659 ай бұрын
Hello yall
@Rara-pr9wg9 ай бұрын
the dating pool is a cesspool....nope im good
@katzikat4669Ай бұрын
about the dude who lied about his birthday, I think he thought the girl was into zodiac signs, so just in case, he decided to lie about his birthday.
@Jasminekuwonu8 ай бұрын
11:30 I was off doing something else while this played and o recognized her voice bc I follow her