Women Share Stories About Things Their Ex’s Did In Their Relationships But They Stayed

Women share stories about things their ex’s did while they were either dating or in a relationship with them but they still stayed.

[@Gracekitty21]

A lot of men just want someone around to torture. It’s scary 💔

[@winning3329]

This is why I have given up on finding a husband.

[@helena3631]

Thid

[@kbb649]

Whew.......

[@TheRazorTongue]

Stepping on others make some people feel powerful. When they have a bad day they crap on their “partner” for a boost or take it out on some other person they deem lesser. They avoid people who fight back.

[@88QueenOfHearts]

It's not just men. My mother did variations of these to me and a foster child but not my prized brother.😢

[@stroNg2thaBoNe2thaMax]

These men didn't like these women. Period.

[@Love-pd1ci]

And they don't respect themselves, this is wild.

[@kbb649]

@@Love-pd1ci we all been dumb before . I know you had your own share with men. So i dont know why you giving the ladies a hard time

[@roxy4325]

​@@Love-pd1cioh trust me, every single one of these ladies aren't making the same mistakes ever again. Sometimes we are too nice, too caring, too forgiving because that's how we were brought up and we didn't know any better. But we know better now. Because we dealt with exes like these. I'm always going to be grateful for my demonic ex. 5 months with him and I learned 5 hundred lessons that I will ALWAYS take with me. Before him I didn't know about child free women. I thought I was crazy to not want kids because that's what EVERYONE around me told me. Before him I didn't know about decentering men. Before him I didn't know about Dusties. or DINKS, or the red pillers. And SO MUCH MORE. I was SO NAIVE. I am not anymore. And when I allowed him to get away with all the things these women did, it's because I was raised in the church , to always forgive because no one is without sin. It wasn't because I had no self respect. It's because I was taught that's what Jesus would do. Let's just say I'm not religious anymore. These women are not the same people they were with those exes. Trust me.

[@lovesafiyyah12]

@@Love-pd1ci it’s always that one person to double down on people sharing thoer trauma. Just emotionally sadistic 😢

[@silververnallbells191]

Ladies take note: NO MATTER WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE YOU ARE TOO PRETTY TO BE DATING A CONVICT!

[@BellaGoodieDoritos]

Thank you so much! So damn true. 💯💯

[@chloequinn2274]

OMG🤦🏽‍♀️

[@gem9535]

At least one either in/straight out of prison. If it's been several years, they have their sh*t together, and there are no red flags, maybe.

[@Sandra-ml1xn]

no no maybe. they are not an option period.

[@MollyMoll-bh6oc]

I love being single.

[@kellegeez]

I appreciate being single. It's too much of a gamble/risk to be in a romantic relationship. It's not worth the physical, spiritual, mental and emotional damage that comes along with romantic relationships.

[@aaunyea4799]

I don't have the time to deal with the mess 😂

[@shawnlove4502]

Same here

[@hurtingfeelingsdaily]

Me too!!!

[@GeminiCloudTech]

You're so lucky to not have fallen for the okey doke. I get so tired of being this man's emotional service pet that I look forward to being divorced 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@BP_Excellent]

Sometimes we laugh to avoid crying. This is a trauma response to protect the mind and body.

[@WildAntics13]

Yes I remember a friend told me while his relatives who SA her removing her clothes to SA she is laughing! To block off the pain !

[@BellaGoodieDoritos]

Definitely 💯

[@jessicacharlton7347]

Those last girls were hard to watch. She was laughing while talking about being physically abused. Poor girl was definitely laughing to cope.

[@DelphineTheWorstBladeEver]

I have to laugh when I tell people about my dad feelings. I'm too emotional, and I would rather not ruin my makeup or smudge my spectacles 🥂

[@gem9535]

Oh, I laugh so much at my trauma, I've been accused of faking it. Like, man, I cried for years. Let me start laughing at it XD

[@Maya-xm5jx]

Many friends have called me heartless cuz I dump dudes so fast. I’m not sticking around for more red flags and I don’t give the benefit of the doubt. Also, I get the ick once I’m disrespected, it doesn’t matter how much I liked you initially. Hoping these women are doing better now.

[@meganakinsanya4702]

My mom used to tell me I had no patience whatsoever, cos if a man breathes wrong…I’m out ✌🏽. They are already irritating after three months. Told guys on dating apps who don’t respond responsive, delete, block, won’t think twice of it. That s the energy most men should get

[@EmyEgy31]

you are smart, not heartless. they stop using their minds to become delusional, just to feel they found love.

[@leiawhites]

And this should be how most women treat the men who are no good. Problem is, there's always going to be one, who is desperate enough to overlook any shitty behaviour just so they can put on social media that they are 'in a relationship'. Then the very same women will complain that they are being mistreated...If there's no respect at the beginning, there'll never be any!

[@cindychelsea784]

Girl u literally are my twin.. I’ve been called selfish, being a player and cold hearted cuz I won’t tolerate the foolishness. I won’t stick around to find out.. my ex who we dated for 2 months got nothing out of me and he’s mad cuz I won’t tolerate his bs. Most of these stories I can’t relate cuz I smell their bs from a mile away and move accordingly. These girls need to use their brains not their hearts with these men other than that they’ll be run over 😭

[@mammienggada467]

Are we the same person? 🤔 they call me heart beeaker though, not heartless

[@chrzig554]

They always say "single women keep other women single" but it's the HORROR stories of women in relationships/marriages that kept women single and childless

[@thesacredbombshell]

"There are bad men everywhere." That part. Also they're probably laughing as a defense mechanism.

[@Priscilla_Boye]

True

[@winning3329]

I don't even trust the men in my own family. You can't trust them

[@helena3631]

This

[@SweetEssie]

Ask Charlemagne if this is "big back behavior" or can this happen to anyone?

[@melindaroop1346]

Yeah. Some people laugh at times that others wouldn't. I'm that way at times.

[@prettyhollypolly7553]

See my petty mouth would say, if I’m worth $30 then your mums worth $15 😂

[@shanasapp6212]

Right, that's what I'm saying. My smart azz mouth loves moms so much it has gotten me kicked out of several cars

[@made432]

I am that type of girl 😂 and everyone would say, “see that’s why you are single.” 😂

[@Jass951]

I'll be like "Oh, you don't have to worry about that either way, that's too high for you, brokie." Or "I won't be going there If I can't even afford my cup of coffee."

[@jasminscarbrough2596]

And she was gorgeous 😮😮😮😮😮

[@Metonymy1979]

My friend was being sexually harassed on a subway while on the phone with her boyfriend. It started to get scary and he said "Well, what are you wearing?". She was wearing jeans and big shirt and a sweater. It was cold out. Not thatbit matters but her ex thought he should ask that While she was being accosted. I had to stop talking to her for awhile because she stayed with him. Complained all the time about him but never ever left him. For the pretty girl with a black top that stayed with the guy for 4 years... I hope she goes to therapy because that is not just young and dumb, thats a mental health issue

[@Priscilla_Boye]

I agree she has been through it.

[@jadesimone_]

my ex literally told me it could’ve been avoided & it was my fault when i told him i was graped in highshool. he also didn’t believe me at first.

[@Metonymy1979]

@@jadesimone_ Yeah! One thing the bf told her was "Were you making eye contact with him?". Who the hell says that? I'm sorry that happened to you.

[@wmd40]

I'm extremely white and American and trust, don't matter. the dust is global 😂😭💚💚💚

[@PandaHead602]

Damn 😂😂😂😂 lol yes

[@Vanessa-ii7cc]

I recognize another Burbie when I read her😂❤

[@rse432]

@maggot19… 😂😂😂😂 A global dust epidemic 💯. Sad but so true……

[@tammyreise]

Bm are winning the dust tho…

[@amypope7933]

Dusty Man is a universal language.

[@ntokotoPM]

I will never ever allow a man disrespect me again

[@meli7315]

💯

[@Courteny283]

My black ex-husband told me he no longer likes black women while I was 8 months pregnant with his black daughter. Continued with how white women are better partners and more sexualy satisfying. Obviously, I went off on him for saying such a thing, and he tried to convince me that I was just being dramatic/emotional. I found out a few hours later that his side piece was a white woman. He then tried to Gaslight me again by saying his comments about the differences between black and white women and the fact that he is with a white woman,were all just a coincidence!!.😂🤔 Of course I left his ass

[@silververnallbells191]

A lot of black men like to say white women are more feminine, but they so conveniently forget the majority of Karen videos of women screaming like demons are white women.

[@ihanakaunotar2741]

Wow, as a white woman, if I see a black man talking that fetish shit about me it’s unattractive, like at that point he doesn’t love YOU, you are the fetish. Hope you told the other woman what he was doing, cuz diseases ain’t cute.

[@kimberly6243]

Ugh!! omg he's DISGUSTING. ALOT of black males behave that exact way. I truly think something is spiritually disturbed about them. His Karma will come. I'm glad you got away ❤

[@dyrich6799]

Good for you 🎉 Mine said the same thing. F them

[@Courteny283]

@dyrich6799 Wow! SMH, I hope your doing ok sis.🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@vladimirazubcekova7727]

omg ladies you gotta respect yourself. i wouldnt treat even my enemy like that.

[@mskabue]

This part...

[@hubabaloop]

We can definitely imply that most of these women who are sharing DO respect themselves. They DIDNT at the time. THATS the point “and they stayed”.

[@vladimirazubcekova7727]

@@hubabaloop i know

[@shayemoore]

Right. I don't feel sorry for women who stay in relationships with disrespectful men. As soon as a man disrespects me, that's it. I cursed out the last man who disrespected me. I think too highly of myself to allow someone to disrespect me even once. I can't imagine staying and allowing myself to be disrespected over and over again. That would eat me alive.

[@Dee_Dee216]

​@shayemoore Congratulations, want a cookie? All the women in these videos were young or vulnerable in some sense. Some of them are clearly still in school. They didn't know any better at the time. Everyone makes a bad decision when they are young due to lack of experience whether it's romantic, professional, social or otherwise. Let's not be so quick to judge others when we haven't shared their experience.

[@pennyck9468]

Note to women and girls: An insecure man and a man that doesn’t like you, he will break your appearance and personality apart to break your spirit until you do not know yourself anymore. It’s a control thing, when you are internally lost. They became your world, you live for their approval. Know yourself and love yourself enough to know when someone comes to you in the wrong spirit. Regardless of your status in this world, you deserve kindness.

[@aellaromano8409]

He told me a lot of shit, but only two things stuck out to me: 1. "I'll get you pregnant so we'll stay together forever and you won't leave me" 2. "I'll cut them off (my boobs) if you break up with me. If I can't have them, no one else can" We were both teenagers when he said these things. I was terrified to end the relationship.

[@Priscilla_Boye]

So sorry you had to experience that I hope you out , healing or healed and enjoying life now. ❤️❤️🤗

[@ihanakaunotar2741]

Wow, at that point you tell your parents, your dad should help you puta stop to that.

[@kellysnyclife663]

You're a very smart young lady!!

[@BeautiifulliMade]

After saying 'I Do' , found out when I went to tag him in 'our' new relationship status, found out he blocked me on all his social media. Kept it that way for the first 2 yrs of marriage. The worst, I was unable to tag him in any FB pics of our daughter. I should have left then. It wasn't until I filed for divorce that he created all new FB & IG accounts and sent friend requests. I let them sit for 3 years before declining. He wanted to cheat in peace.

[@MaggyKN]

Wow! Just wow!

[@akosua8779]

.......I'm speechless

[@ohhmyyken]

I appreciate these women warning other women that relationships aren’t these amazing things. It can be great but majority of the time it’s literally abuse on all levels. I pray these women find healing and to leave at the first and last red flag.

[@thesacredbombshell]

The 2 girls at 17:09 was truly disturbing. I pray they get help and are no longer desensitized to violence.

[@primadonna2819]

I know. They said it so matter of fact as if it's normal. I wish someone could tell them they're worth so much more.

[@InRediscoveryOfMe]

They annoyed my spirit with all that darn giggling but you know what? I'll give them grace bc they are so young and probably have no idea or examples of what healthy relationships feel like. I pray they learn from their experiences and the experiences of so many other women who have been sharing all up down SM.

[@user-ly3li3ex8c]

@@InRediscoveryOfMe Laughing is a trauma response, a coping mechanism. It's not even intentional and its what they needed to do to get the story out at all. Not every victim needs to cry their eyea out every time they tell their story, stop acting like they're lacking mentally just because this turned out to be their trauma reaponse at the moment.

[@soybeans8139]

Some of the ladies are laughing at very disheartening stories. So sad, I hope they are better now.

[@Priscilla_Boye]

Yes I hope they heal too.

[@annmariegood37]

Right

[@LukeRev480]

Sometimes laughter helps me not to feel the pain, so I laugh even if it's not funny. I suppose that's what is happening with them.

[@soybeans8139]

@@LukeRev480 Okay, I get that.

[@Jae-by3hf]

All these narcissistic men move from the same rule book. Women (including me) need to listen to these women and run 🏃🏽‍♀️

[@queensavage9896]

I have my own stories but I'm too embarrassed. Just take my word for it...there is no such thing as "nice guy"...they are all "bad" in their heart. 😢 So glad I'm free and back in love with myself.

[@Its.giselle234]

SAY THAT AGAIN

[@isa-morena]

Every time he says he's a good guy he's just trying to convince himself that he is.

[@Its.giselle234]

@@isa-morena Yup!!! Or they say 'Imma good person" repeatedly NO YOURE NOT YOU ARE FULL OF STDS, JEALOUSY , HATE AND ENVY.

[@77kc_77]

Facts just avoid what I do

[@rinabeauty7614]

@@isa-morenaexactly if your such a good guy you wouldn’t keep saying that ish !!! Your actions would show it

[@lalasarchive1]

My ex never fed me. Ever. He never asked me if i wanted anything to eat when we spent time together. He would make himself food and eat it in front of me. For the record, he was not tight on money by any means. We were in college but his parents were pretty well off and he got a generous monthly allowance and did not have to pay any tuition or get a job. He just didn't care about me. Thats why I left after 6 months.

[@dayit6260]

I've always thought people who do this are weird! Why would you have someone over to your house, have food for yourself, and offer them nothing? They are a guest in your home... watching you eat. I would be too uncomfortable.

[@akosua8779]

6 months too long but better than decades later

[@user-tr3tr7dj1d]

He was a greedy selfish ingrate. Its good you dumped him first.

[@inmyflygirlzone]

Wow smfh! I would've left right away and blocked him on everything🚫🚫‼️‼️. Don't give jerks like him second chances, EVER!!!! These men today are just selfish and toxic asf. That's not a boyfriend or husband and he was never your man to begin with, smh. Selfish jerk he is, he can get himself something to eat but wouldn't bother to offer you something to eat and drink, mannn that's corny and very extremely rude. Sis I am so sorry you went through this madness. I hope you find a better looking man that will feed you and give you some good food and a nice drink, you deserve better. Wishing you better love Queen🙏🫶🏽🌱💕

[@RescueAlwaysOfficial]

6 months?! Anyways a lot of us have done stupid stuff in life! Stay away from wicked men! "Go where you're treated best!"- Nomad Capitalist

[@cosmosadorabilis7677]

Look at most of these women. You'd never think they'd accept these situations.

[@vertanishock7900]

OK, so he yelled at me for feeling sad at my grandma's grave. Cheated on christmas, where he never got me gifts but I got him gifts..... 3 years and he NEVER took me on a date. Don't stay.

[@jenbodhi1133]

They have no empathy, it’s actually bizarre how cruel they can be

[@jadesimone_]

my grandfather was having two surgeries for his cancer…very traumatic & gruesome surgeries… i cried to my man, i was devastated to see my granddad that way going through that. you know what he had to say? “well at least he’s not dead, you’re being so negative about the situation” his response genuinely made me spiral into depression…. this is after 8 years of being with him. nothing ever changes y’all, like she said…plz leave

[@toscadonna]

My ex husband was screaming at me when we were in Bali, because I got upset and had a couple of tears in my eyes at how poor the people were and their living conditions were so sad. A guy had come up to us wanting to sell a hand carved chess set and board for $1. It really hurt my heart to see the poverty and the struggles of these people who were actually so nice to us during our visit. He got angry at me because I wasn’t being “appreciative” of being on vacation and “could never be pleased.” They’re just cruel monsters.

[@Lisa-sg1of]

I don't understand why you or any of these women stayed with them.

[@jenbodhi1133]

@@Lisa-sg1of piss off

[@BlackandBlessed100]

This abuse needs to be called out exposed every time

[@candygirl1990]

I love being single too. I dont have time to be ghosted, hurt, used, sad, and pathetic. ❤

[@patty-pat-pat]

I had to pause when she said 'he chocked me on the concrete and we werent even together'. The last 2 girls... I 100% get it their generation is staying single & childfree. I'm so appalled by their experiences.

[@aahmieezlane1740]

The nervous laughter from these ladies..... is heart breaking 😮😢

[@jessicajennifer9827]

I remember seeing somewhere that when a person is talking about something traumatic they've been through and smiling all the while....they are hiding an IMMENSE amount of pain..

[@leelee185]

My ex had a wandering eye, so much so every time we went anywhere, I would constantly catch him looking at another woman, it was a constant thing, and he would do it right in front of me as if I was not standing in front of him. I also caught him looking at other women on his phone, so if he wasn't checking out another woman in my face, he was doing it online. On top of doing something this disrespectful regularly, this clown would demand sex from me. How do you treat someone poorly and then demand sex from that same person? On top of that, as if this wasn't bad enough, he is a middle-aged man 53 yrs. of age, who was always broke and brought absolutely nothing to the table. I wish I never dated that man, when the relationship was finally over, I almost threw a party because I was happy to get rid of this human being. If a man does not show you respect leave immediately, don't give people chances because it's usually not worth it. If a man shows you, he's a jerk, he's showing you who he is so don't think he is going to operate differently as time goes on. What's also crazy is this man pursued me for a long time, I wasn't the one who came looking for him. Why pursue a woman only to get her and then treat her like trash? I never understood that.

[@leiawhites]

'Why pursue a woman only to get her and then treat her like trash? I never understood that.' Because some men enjoy destroying a woman and taking everything she's got. Especially ones that have their shit together. There is a word for them, starts with N...

[@cindychelsea784]

This is literally my ex except that he’s 27.. I dropped him like a bad habit after 2 months of dating and never got sex out of me. These men are insufferable tbh

[@ds37215]

They are hunters and like the thrill of the chase. Once they catch you, they get quickly bored and move on to the next chase. It's a game to them. Most have low emotional intelligence and don't see women as human, so they can't empathize with or deeply bond with a woman. So can use and discard without care.

[@leelee185]

@@ds37215 well said

[@gazellehelene5380]

I think that they pursue certain women for a long time because they believe the woman is out of their league. When she finally gives in, they lose respect for her because they now see her as common. Her being unattainable made her a prize, but now that she has lowered herself to his level to date him, he decides that she is regular or just as low as he is, so he will treat her accordingly. There is a reason you put off dating him for so long; listen to your intuition and never give him a chance.

[@zerodeconduite804]

Bad people come in all colors. People who will harm you have many skin shades.

[@DeluluIsTheSolulu]

"Not all men" but somehow always a man.

[@tiffnym]

That's good.

[@QUEERVEEART]

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[@Jae-by3hf]

We have all been stupid for a man, we just need to learn and do better! & to the “not me’s” GOOD FOR YOU!

[@tbyrdrandom]

Some of the "not mes" just haven't found out yet. 😞

[@amandanxala2580]

Pretty ladies tolerate so much nonsense 🙄

[@WanderlustHomebody]

The fact of them being pretty is immaterial.

[@Nwakaego_]

Seeing all of this, I enjoy my solitude of being single and having my peace of mind. Please choose yourself ladies. These type of men are NOT worth it.

[@nikjonestravel]

17:06 OMG, these are kids! Guys start this behavior super young... these girls were physically ABUSED by school aged boys. This is disturbing.

[@maame4592]

It would have been much more helpful for these women to share why they stayed, particularly the women who were relatively mature, had their own money and didn’t have children with the men. I really want to know how anyone could tolerate this level of disrespect and mistreatment from another person, more so a romantic partner

[@moominmay]

Well the one in black top and dark hair did she said she stayed as didn’t want to be a single mom

[@silververnallbells191]

A lot of times it's because women think their love is enough so he'll want to change and therefore she can save him, but 9 times out of 10 that's a fool's game. Men only change if They want to change for themselves.

[@isa-morena]

I grew up being disrespected by my parents and reminded of my lack of looks. I used to have guys try to befriend me to get to my much prettier sister. My self worth was beaten to the ground and it felt nice feeling like finally somebody wants me. I've learned my lesson.

[@ihanakaunotar2741]

@@silververnallbells191yep, you can’t change another person, only yourself.

[@tbyrdrandom]

I'm pretty sure many people don't know why they stayed (unless they've seen a therapist). Otherwise, sometimes it's because they had kids together or caught an incurable STD from the joker, and thought no one else would want them, etc. People put up with disrespect for many different reasons.

[@Its.giselle234]

Told me so much disrespectful, crazy things but he often said " I know you aint going nowhwere". Yet he cheated multiple times, lied about his sexuality, groomed and manipulated me. I stayed because I was disassociated, confused and depressed until it fizzled out. On and off, break up and getting back together. It was a hot mess and I will never trust an older man again nor a ran through man.

[@juanita_rocksteady2761]

I hope these young girls are laughing out of nervousness because that was straight-up abuse.

[@GeminiCloudTech]

When I was 17 yrs old. We had just left the hospital from visiting our newborn son in NICU. My now 23 yr old son's father stole my 24k name plate anklet my father brought me for my birthday, then blamed me for losing it. This fat psycho didn't want me, didnt want anyone else to be with me and didn't want me to have nice things, and actually told me these things. I still believe that he had it melted down to put those raggedy golds in his mouth.

[@silververnallbells191]

🙃 It might be better for the kids to get away from a man like that. You're modeling to their kids how they should be treated and how they should treat others. The longer he hangs around the more of his "personality" the kids are going to pick up. edit: didn't you say in a comment thread you're waiting for your youngest to be 13 to leave in 5 yrs? Divorce is hard on teenagers... maybe it's best to dump the extra weight now. Just food for thought.

[@legslikewhoa]

Well. Periodontal disease will be his karma.

[@aliciahughley7508]

It’s clear to me after my own experiences and hearing these women…some men just use women as physical and emotional punching bags. They won’t change…they know what they’re doing.

[@meli7315]

💯

[@stupidtookmynick]

women need to become more selfish and start to understand their worth. I stayed with a man who didn't respect my boundaries for too long too. We always want to give them "one more chance" because "they'll become better people". THEY WON'T! NEVER HAVE, NEVER WILL! My ex basically called me a silly little girl who doesn't understand the world, called me cold and unfeeling and called me a "weak woman". He was 39, I was 37......

[@Lisa-sg1of]

Okay but understanding your worth isn't ''selfish'' though.

[@Lisa-sg1of]

Okay but understanding your worth isn't ''selfish'' though.

[@Emilyb21-dm3bf]

Self empowerment and be your own best friend. It's more of a society problem than a individual one. Men are not treated like this by most women yet women can go into one abusive relationship to the next. Many reasons financial they have a baby and can't afford to leave, religion, lots of reasons that are patriarchal dramatic like blaming rape victims for the clothes they wore.

[@stupidtookmynick]

@@Emilyb21-dm3bf maybe if men WERE treated like that they'd get a thicker skin and didn't start hating women after just ONE rejection during their teenage years ....

[@shanasapp6212]

"I'm not your mother" and walk off.

[@KessO2424]

This entire thing triggered me. Single n happy asf

[@rinabeauty7614]

Seriously lol f*ck dealing with men , im at peace with being single

[@jadesimone_]

yo…..the list i can make is ridiculous. i won’t embarrass myself like this in the comment section. but recently my grandmother hexed our relationship. my entire family & friends despise him, it’s been 8 years, not even a promise ring yet. i have to “earn” it…i need to leave this man. this video really brought up a lot of things in me that need to be brought up.

[@silververnallbells191]

You're scrabbling over crumbs for a promise ring..? Not even an engagement ring? Girrrlllll...... I think you know what you need to do and you need to find the bravery to WALK AWAY from someone who's trying to make you earn a promise ring. Please believe me: He either loves you and wants to spend his life with you OR he does not. He obviously doesn't want to commit to you. Find someone WONDERFUL who will go the extra mile just so you know that they love you and will stand by you. You're worthy of being loved completely from the bottom of your feet to the top of your head. Don't let a dusty have you running around in circles for crumbs.

[@CheapCosmoGeek]

Girl walk!! There so much better out there.

[@thrill102]

Don’t waste anymore time. If he wanted to he would.

[@user-ly3li3ex8c]

Earning something is a man's job, not a woman's in a relationship. A man will do the stupidest things and go out of his way to bend over backwards to have the woman he actually wants. You're not that, you're viewed as a girlfriend appliance at best. Run.

[@Adventurepets333]

I’m genuinely concerned for the 2 young girls laughing casually about being choked and slapped..?!

[@VixxKong2]

Men said it themselves. They'd buy a wife for $30 and a bag of rice.

[@daniellewilliams2831]

As a women who almost only dated yt men. Please understand you don't want any parts toxic-racist-masculinity ❤💁🏿‍♀️

[@zero1188]

Fact that she brought up his race, shows she accepted it because he was white. See this alot, on guard for the person you are the same race as, but drop all standards and boundaries for the other race

[@Enriquez2222]

I see no point in dating outside my race if the quality is worse

[@zero1188]

@@Enriquez2222 from observation, alot of people will date trash in their race, then date trash in the next race and call it a diamond. People typically date the same type of person across races

[@msevolution2317]

I don’t think that’s why she said that

[@Ceceee21]

Well I think that they may have bonded on both being half Hispanic. I think that when you fail to do self reflection and work after getting out of relationships, regardless of race, you will meet the same result in subsequent relationships. I think unfortunately divestment has become about dating other people outside of their race bc people think that they will be treated better, but that’s not how the world works. I don’t think necessarily that the standards are dropped, more their guard is dropped. The standards remained consistent from previous relationships that they were in just with a different race. Hence why they meet the same results and sometimes worse results bc their guard is down.

[@toscadonna]

Males are males no matter what race, creed, or culture they come from. Some are more open about their fuckery, but they are all essentially the same. Some will act up sooner and in more obvious ways, and those are actually the easier ones to spot. It’s the higher level narc males that pretend to be good in public and will have the world on their side when they’re abusing them at home.

[@annmariegood37]

It's really hard to watch those young girls

[@KAMROXX2K11]

Some of them laughing is so sad to see because they were moments away from being unalived by those horrible males and they don't even know it. God please heal them and show them to leave on the very first sign of disrespect.

[@bubunenuhoho8254]

They're laughing as a trauma response. When I think of some nonsense I've been through with men too I start laughing so hard and can't stop😅 and it's not because I've gotten over it. I hope they'll be fine

[@KAMROXX2K11]

@@bubunenuhoho8254 could be the reason 🤔. Blessings to everyone. I used to laugh as well.

[@trrahr5496]

probably nervous laughter. a coping response

[@legslikewhoa]

This stitch, combined with the viral Twitter thread on guys hating their girlfriend should be required viewing for all women, young and old. There should never be any confusion, it’s him blatantly showing he doesn’t like you.

[@jodynanci]

I’m glad those girls can laugh so hard about that but honestly I feel like they’re hiding the pain and shame they experienced

[@WildAntics13]

Honestly these women sharing their stories were crucified sometimes called du…mb etc, but honestly it’s sad because these poor women have good intentions because they thought that’s love! Bless these women! May we never forget the history’ so we’re not doomed to repeat it again! Women are amazing the most women love unconditionally! Even a mother can literally out food in her kids mouth even though she is hungry! May all the women in the world know they are enough and they are worth loving worth every penny ! God bless you all sisters

[@isa-morena]

I gotta give them kudos for coming out with their experiences so women can learn about men's nature. I can't imagine the strength they had to overcome the shame these relationships bring.

[@terrylu1843]

I’m never giving a man my time for free again so I’m safe from this at least.

[@MsRenaissance]

This is why when women end a relationship you know they didn't just end it lightly. Women will put up with a lot if she loves you. So when she reaches the point where she lets go, you know she couldn't go anymore. V

[@user-fy4uv9wb7o]

17:53 I hope they're giggling as like a pressure-release thing or just at the idea that they stayed, because these stories are straight up just abuse, physical and emotional and verbal. I am worried about girls who are so young going out into life with these things as their formative experiences in romantic relationships

[@Beautifullymonique]

The last two girls were laughing because reading out loud what you've allowed thise dudes to do to them sounded even more crazy sometimes you literally have to laugh sometimes when you see what you've put up with and how it wasnt even worth it

[@carmillastephens9497]

I LOVE being single! & I hope those lil girls grow out of finding physical abuse funny.

[@kellegeez]

Priscilla you're so beautiful and I love your hair. Thank you for bringing awareness with your content.

[@Priscilla_Boye]

Thank you so much! You are so kind stay blessed ❤️

[@larose5028]

You couldn’t pay me to get on the internet proving my self-esteem has ever been low enough to deal with this nonsense.

[@traceylennon1204]

Moral of the story. Stop putting stock in another person.

[@IraSol37]

Ladies... This world is fuuuulll of misogynists. That's creepy! Please, choose better .... Choose yourselves!

[@Heykay34]

Thank you for sharing kind words and not judging the abused women 🤦🏽‍♀️❤

[@theladynextdoor313]

Wow….. this is all just so sad. 😮🥴 our society needs help.

[@thrill102]

Dang!!! I was already so shocked when she said he only paid for their first date then she added it was at a place attached to a gas station!!! 😨

[@toriross1482]

I pray these women find the love within themselves. If a man told me I’m worth $30 I’m gonna …. I can’t say what I would do

[@dayit6260]

I honestly would be very confused. Why are you with me if you think I'm not truly valuable to your life? If I'm so cheap, why are you with me? All you would be doing is lowering your own value. Leave. Find your $1 million dollar girl. Find your priceless princess. There is no need to waste your time on the poor pauper.

[@estherwangui4539]

Tough love: Men are not trash, your standards are. Once you go through this and come out, raise your standards, raise your price and add tax

[@zizojaezekeom3565]

You make zero sense 😂😂 so you're saying that men that cheat, are misogynistic and don't even respect their partners aren't trash it's the girl's tastes?

[@QueenofZamunda2023]

The part where he does something that upsets me, but gets upset at me for making him feel guilty. I upset him by being upset at him for doing upsetting things. I'm upsetting... and so on and on in a circle. Divorce saves lives.

[@nolia920]

For me i didn't go back but he sent me a picture of ny brother shoes and said i was cheating on him, i laughed at his face so loud he got mad, then one month later find out it was him who was cheating on me with his ex girlfriend.

[@silververnallbells191]

That's twisted.

[@YellowPaint100]

🙋‍♂️ guy here! I mean, like, 😮 WOOOOOW 🤯🤯😤. I know ppl kill each other, but I didn't know ppl could be so cruel, AND ppl would tolerate it too. As a man, I'm really sorry to hear these stories. But please believe it all goes both ways! There are men too putting up with similar nonsense because they don't know any better or they don't believe in themselves enough. But this vid reminds me of a woman I met in NYC. She told me she put up with all kinds of foolishness because the sex was good. Her telling me was her being honest with herself for the 1st time in 10yrs. She even said out loud, 🤷‍♂️ why am I telling you all this. She looked lost in her eyes! We were strangers & still are, as I've forgotten her name. This was in NYC! So I smiled & said, hey its ok. She vented for about 10min & we parted ways. Never saw her again! Before we met, she had just mustered the courage to finally kick him out. I guess she needed a shoulder ... or an ear. Hope she's ok!

[@user-fy4uv9wb7o]

you've got a sweet soul, Priscilla

[@Priscilla_Boye]

❤️❤️

[@xxHeadRadioxx]

I’m all for name dropping people. First, middle, and last.

[@thewolffromhell66666]

My God that one woman 4 years of disrespect all because she was afraid of being a single mom sounds like she already was

[@heneverforesakesme4038]

I'm really hoping that the two country ladies, were joking. I pray to God, they were joking.

[@victoriousspirit8955]

I’ve been through so much that i cannot even begin to list it all…. I just know that I am done forever with men.. Period.. Enough is Enough!

[@TNT31414]

Right after sleeping with me. After trying to get me for so long. Said I can’t have a girl that’s hairier than me. Then we sat there awkwardly. He wanted to see me again. Told him to meet me at xyz. I never showed up 😂 🤭his loss. I can always shave but his personality will always be the same.

[@ladylionXOX]

This isn't on topic, but the abrupt cut to Priscilla's disgusted expression at 1:14 had me dying 😂

[@akosua8779]

"Don't let a man tell you he doesn't love you TWICE" From Judge Lynn Toler not Steve Harvey!

[@Aliensanonymous_]

The young girls, laughing at this is disgraceful. I really hope something changes in them so that they have higher standards.

[@malliandsarah12]

Would society consider this as big back behavior as well? Lol

[@kamoleballo8761]

This is disheartening.

[@the.masked.one.studio4899]

Yikes! I wanna see a compilation of “things I did to my ex” 😮

[@cocoace7587]

The teens' treatment by men was not surprising 😐 . Older men are their teachers. 😢

[@bbqueen93]

First ex: I was a victim of a crime in which i could've been wiped out from the earth. He didn’t support me through any of it. Didn’t go to the police station or the courthouse because I testified against the guy who tried to rob me. Made a cake for his birthday. He took one slice and left out for the rest of the night to cheat. I was never allowed in his bedroom. Lied about wanting to take me to this museum i wanted to visit. Texted my friends about wanting to hook up with them as a social experiment. Told me my Mother was prettier and that I should be like her. Didn’t prep me for s*x one time and got mad that I had an accident. Stole my baby picture

[@jahvonnad1738]

Those two girls laughing at the end while reading all of the verbal and physical abuse.

[@neonred7594]

I appreciate your empathy and kindness, Priscilla! Thank you for these videos.

[@charlenewilley6481]

This is a positive about the internet and social media, Women sharing and helping other women wake up and see its not ok to be treated bad or to stay in a toxic relationship. Wish i had this when i was younger, I'd of ditched my ex husband 7 years earlier and not wasted years dating some genuine narcissist.

[@TheRazorTongue]

Those stories kept getting worse. All that was stated was bad but please don’t stay with anyone that is physically abusive. And the high/low emotional rollercoaster crap is a manipulation tactic. It’s effective because your brain craves the high when you’re in the low. The more intermittent the behavior the worse the craving. Also they try to keep you around because they don’t want you to have time to sit and analyze their behavior so they keep popping up. It’s also why they try to isolate you from your friends so no one can contradict or analyze what they do.

[@MissKashira]

Half these stories sound like something I'd tell a judge as I explained why I killed this man.

[@norak8080]

17:00 "my brain wasn't fully developed yet"... this. I watch these types of videos to remind me that I'm not alone and that I was not stupid, only young and manipulated.

[@hollywoodteee]

I definitely need the lesbian version and may need to submit a story or 2 myself 😂

[@Raynarare]

Stuff like this is why I will teach my daughter about men. I have stories similar to theirs. No woman in my family told me about men period. Men do this when us woman are young!!! We have to love our younger generation & tell them! Even if they don’t listen we still gotta let them know. I feel like sometimes older woman want us to struggle & suffer bc why wouldn’t you tell us about these men?

[@islandbrowning2299]

Oh man I have stories for days, you learn when to let go over time , correction: let them go cause you'll eventually learn your worth

[@obakgwadi7672]

Look at the beautiful girls that they played with, but then when karma hits them they start a little dusty podcast hating on woman. 😂😂😂😂😅😅

[@shauntikayvette]

It’s okay to leave

[@knHebrew]

Thank-you for your kindness. We victims of this treatment feel badly enough without the world adding more abuse. To people who judge, you are heartless and do not expect people to protect you when you put down others.

[@ascendednightingale2456]

My ex husband was so insecure that I had dated people before I met him, he would constantly ask me how “big” the other guys were, despite me saying that I did not sleep with every person I had dated. I finally got fed up with him badgering me and told him “8 inches”. He then proceeded to yell at me. He also told me that if I got pregnant, he’d want a paternity test to make sure it was his. I had given him no reason to believe I was cheating. He was just that insecure that he wasn’t my first. When I posted about depression on Facebook, he cussed me out through text and said that I was making him look bad. He did many other things, but those were a few of the most hurtful.

[@AngelaShaw-nm8oy]

I caught my ex texting gay men and he cheated on me with a minor I still stayed. This was 10+ years ago btw

[@Seeingisntbelieving]

My ex sil experienced the same and got an STD as a reminder. The gay lover confronted her and she stayed.

[@sharriri3030]

That 1st one ALL the ignored red flags 🙄