PORTIA TABANE ON HAVING A WEALTHY ABUSIVE HUSBAND| GBV | UNHEALTHY MARRIAGE| Divorce

[@bonganiradebe413]

I've been with my wife for 10 years, and I've never sworn at her, scolded her, used force against her, or shown any amount of violence or aggression. I will never understand why men would physically harm women, especially their spouses. My wife respects me, and I've never felt disrespected, not even once. It pains me to listen to such stories. What women go through at the hands of men is heartbreaking, and I wish to know how I could contribute to ensuring that this doesn't continue in our community.

[@Nkitha]

Oh wow!!! I luv this

[@t-somethingingodwetrust2867]

🤝🏾 I'm with you Brother, even if she were to cheat on me, I'll just let her go without hurting her.

[@leratosebetoane8333]

We need such men in our communities.

[@magadexaba6108]

@@leratosebetoane8333 Unfortunately he is such a good man until some woman says he is not (without providing any evidence) - she only has to say it and it becomes gospel.

[@bonganiradebe413]

@@magadexaba6108 Eish! that's how it is has become these days

[@spm9130]

Portia, I left with the clothes on my back and my kids, I don’t have what he has materially, but I have peace and joy in my heart ♥️ Right now he wants to come back, but he’s frustrated because there’s nothing in my life that belongs to him and he doesn’t know where to start! My time, efforts and energy were wasted, but I am alive and my kids and I are happy and we don’t live in fear!

[@roselebyana_]

The fact that she said the most hurtful things without shedding a tear,that’s bravery 🙌🏼

[@leratosebetoane8333]

@@roselebyana_ nah she has learned emotional survival. That's trauma hey, people who are often so brave to come speak like this and not cry.

[@lesegokatemokwana7660]

It’s not bravery, it’s a trauma response. 💔

[@EsterV-co8yz]

Yah shes been through a lot for years

[@princessskosana1372]

Men will never know what they want ne? Look at this woman, she’s so beautiful, leg game 💯💯💯👌👌👌on point.

[@sebinaivyramaseli371]

Jooh some men are something else. They don't even care about looks. They don't appreciate niks. Bao treat hampe ole motle o kene skolo ona le chelete. It's sad.

[@NthabisengSelinaModise]

Eish gal not only beautiful intelligence as well hlee love her so much❤❤

[@ScissorN]

Men want other men , we been saying because they wouldnt dare treat other man like this

[@Blessed_for_life_2023]

Beauty is not everything ​@@sebinaivyramaseli371

[@buffalo_skies8490]

I've been staring at her legs.. 😊 what a stunner!

[@Nthability]

Mme Tabane-strength and light to you- I thank God for your remarkable strength to walk away-One thing parents should know is we as kids we do not need you to be strong in marriage for us ,we need you to put yourself first-it hurts us to see you hurt-to even think we would bury you because of what you allow to endure in marriage. Take Good care of yourself-you are beautiful mama and keep fighting for what is yours.

[@PriscillaDichaba-y8l]

Portia thank you,you mentioned something powerful. Don't envy marriage life,and u know married woman they thing we are nothing.

[@naledigama692]

As much as I wish people well, I get so scared when a young lady invites me to a wedding. I get miserable 😭😭😭.

[@Blessed_for_life_2023]

True. Marriage is a scam. There are no good intentions from both sides. Women want security and status, men wants a sex slave, domestic worker and someone to back him up. Nna i don't care about marriage seriously

[@mscmotloung6004]

Hands down to the host she did a remarkable job, she can probe, and respectfully so. She asked all the questions one would want to know. 🎉🎉🎉

[@thathappened2009]

She is amazing. I love her. I wish she could upload more.

[@thabelanglawrencenthako2024]

Watseba I'm a man as well empa this has made me hate such toxic monsters calling themselves "man"hate them even more 😭😭😭

[@victorpoya]

Sister was dealing with top tier Narcissist. Narcissists are very damaging people, it's so sad that it's so tough to get out of such marriages or relationships. They use power and money to control other people. I'm happy you are out of that marriage Sister🙌🏽

[@BoniweDikane]

I was married to Victor and you just described him , even now he still want to control my life financially . He won't honor the court order, how I regret having children with this man 😢 I'm going to have to deal with him for the rest of my life because of our children. But I still pray for him

[@CeeMotsoeneng]

I wish women can learn that once you get promoted to being a wife, a vacancy is created and filled. Once a cheater always a cheater. A man can make you believe that you way better than his wife until you discover for yourself that he is the cause.

[@judyatoro9387]

Vele my sister cheaters always have vacancy true

[@myjourneyincolour10]

Yebo!

[@nomynoms1969]

OMG Ausi Portia need’s serious protection from this Man… especially with him hiding things during this Divorce… I am very Scared for her Life😱😱 Yeey Men can be Monsters! She must think about her Kids bethuna😭😭… This is too Painful Queen Lee.💔Ooh sis Portia May God Protect you! Lastly WHAT A STRONG WOMAN… not a single tear! She is ready for War😱😱God must shield her in all these battles she’s fighting!🙏🏾

[@JNPAUTO]

Portia's story brought me to tears it just reminded what i was going through with the father of my son , the rape ,and GBV

[@virginiamoloto5250]

😢I can relate to your story mam Portia. My mom went through it. What a painful story. She stayed hoping that things would change. You took a very brave step. Am proud of you.

[@Bonangish]

There is no someone's child that can beat me more than once and I dont retaliate. Nka mofa mmae.

[@leratosebetoane8333]

@@Bonangish LOL....

[@lebogangmoutlane]

You sound like my little sister Jennifer 😂😅

[@loratoseth8955]

With me I will Neva let a man lift a hand at me,it wd turn out ugly for 1 of us cs I want just stand there n kry

[@leahlinki5683]

Retaliate.. or just leave! People must stop being in abusive and unhappy relationships just so that they have a story to tell!

[@rabeccamhandire5341]

Ssstrue Bob. Nna I was slapped once, just once It was over. Boy I was slapped and I saw stars. I started planning my exit while I was on the floor.

[@sunflawa]

22:48 that is soooo true... Many people are mentally unfit to be in relationships or be parents, we are not ready for this conversation... We will say ke scitho, bad luck, etc...yes for some its that, but many people are suppose to be mental health patients not in relationships or having kids.. and I'm not shaming anyone struggling with mental illness

[@iamkaybz264]

he sounds like the type of man every woman wants without knowing the other side of the coin

[@beatricephokojoe690]

Very true

[@carolinemothobi6100]

If you have never been in an abusive relationship you will never understand. I believe she only told us 20%.Remember some things you can never say some things on air due to legalities or safety. You are strong sis❤.The in laws are enablers of abuse because they stand to gain from the abuser and also because they are narcissistic.

[@essentials_45]

Rea leboha! This episode is everything we need and more😢 It takes a brave woman to open up like this to encourage others....thank u❤

[@thabelanglawrencenthako2024]

GBV IS NOT SOMETHING TO JOKE ABOUT AND THE FACT THAT EVERYONE INCLUDING HIS OWN FAMILY TAKES HIS SIDE MAKES ME SICK 💔🥺

[@tuksmegkoe2590]

Portia you're such a a strong queen!!! I salute you Mme

[@Liana.LeeLee]

Nothing good comes from dating a married man in the process of divorce

[@pfulu]

Even after Divorce. Why so desperate. When you see a donkey on the street decorated with nobody climbing on , ask yourself why the donkey has no owner.😅 🏃🏾

[@bettykhuboni8758]

@@pfulu😂😂😂😂😂

[@thathappened2009]

@@pfulu😂😂😂

[@thathappened2009]

True

[@triciakekana]

True

[@rachelandrews5746]

Queen Lee le pila jwang wena le Portia. I must say you have matured like old wine. GA Ke starta go go bona MO tik tok o ne o rasa jwang gona nou o buela ko tlase and you seem so cool. I just love the way o nna mogolo ka teng hope o nkutlwa the way Ke go ratang ka teng o montle inside and out

[@naledigama692]

Mhh the similarities 😭😭😭😭😭😭. Sending love to everyone who cannot even start to type because tears just flow uncontrollably, one day our truth will be heard.

[@learnwithme322]

The whole time I was listening to her, I was worried about HIV...

[@nosisamohlakore5455]

What a strong and resilient mbokodo. May God be with you and your kids mme. All the best hle

[@LydiaMatlala-kx8vj]

Tears in my eyes 👀 this is hurt breaking 😢 us women's we going through a lot...

[@angelnokosjourney]

I BELIEVE YOU 500 PERCENT😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢..... I KNOW EXACTLY WHAT YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT...... THIS KIND OF PAIN TAKES LIFETIME TO HEAL...... KNOW MANY WOMEN WENT THROUGH THE SAME PATTERN OF MEN. YOU ARE NOT ALONE SIS . MAY GOD HEAL YOU AND COMFORT YOU❤

[@sebinaivyramaseli371]

The fact that he divorced shows that rona basadi ra mamella. Jooh. It's sad indeed. Men love themselves soooo much. This is a sad story. As women we need to choose ourselves more .

[@km4336]

💯

[@leahlinki5683]

The lack of self-love makes us ignore the red flags!

[@BeautyMokgalaka-pj8lr]

True Lala they love themself I wish those lady's like to impress man saying they need respect forgetting that is earned they even allowed man to go outside Caz God created them like that as woman we don't love ourselves we like to wear ring njeee😢

[@Sebongile_Baloyi]

Lesson here is that, never think you are better than the wife.

[@boitumelomodiba2803]

Exactly. She doesn’t wanna touch the fact ya gore she was a nyatsi in that marriage, a bona okare ke ena boss🤣🤣 nou karma a dealer ka ena

[@ScissorN]

Why are we blaming the victim instead of the abuser? In your empty mind do you think its only side chicks that get abused?

[@Sebongile_Baloyi]

@@ScissorN with your full mind you think she didn't see that the man was abusive to his wife even when she was still a side chick?

[@mscmotloung6004]

​@@boitumelomodiba2803she was dancing around the fact that she dated him knowing he was married. I don't condone violence against anyone but karma has everyone's GPS am sorry for what she experienced. For every action there is a reaction...

[@TshepoHopeBaloyi]

​@Sebongile_Baloyi slay queen sa mosadi sa bana ba bararo but sorry to hear that he was abusing you.

[@karaboramadie1713]

Something about this woman says "I am classy" ...I love it...yes she made a mistake but baby girl is classy

[@samkentombela6451]

Yes Gorgeous 👌

[@1045V]

Not with her own money duh

[@thathappened2009]

Lesson 1: never enter before doors are closed. Always wait for the doors to open. Women always say that. He was having problems in his marriage and they were going through divorce. Thats a very common lie ladies. Why not wait for people to conclude their business 1st?

[@Athini_Myataza]

The first red flag was the "divorce process." The second red flag was the 8 years relationship with a sidechic.. why allow yourself to enter there. Money will kill us before men kill us

[@nancymfene361]

This doesn't make a difference. He is who he is. He can use a space holder and marry a completely different person. After that marriages flames will start flying 😢

[@pinkychabata2081]

Oh yes, true. Another thing she said there were red flags. It's unfortunate that love blinds us.

[@tsamontlemotsie2720]

Ausi Portia must come back after healing she will narrate well right now it's piece, piece

[@DianaMokgawa]

True 😊

[@magadexaba6108]

If you want the truth - ask the neighbours. The neighbours hear all the noises and they know who the instigator is.

[@nomynoms1969]

What a Beautiful Smile Aus Portia in the End!! Ooh My Lady!❤ please keep Safe… you are so Beautiful!❤❤

[@FayRue]

I think putting subtitles will make your content go far. I really wanted to watch but I gave up at 2mins because I couldn't understand a thing.

[@LindaMtiya-hb3nv]

The way I like things ngyafosa....i understand though coz the story is interesting

[@ElisabethKunene]

From Swaziland 🇸🇿 I also can't understand some words. Staying in tempisa for 5months help me I'm grasping small words 😅😅

[@pfulu]

A Divorced man is always a Red Flag 🚩 woman enter a divorced man marriage at your own risk ⚠️ . No woman can divorce a good husband NEVER!!!

[@phumsa3612]

Listen..😢

[@beemothibe6981]

True🙏

[@hlamalanibaloyi-jele3897]

Straight🤞🏽

[@mduduzisibanda7840]

While i dont condone divorce as God hates it, and while divorce is sometimes necessary, in life i have learnt never to take everything at face value, and not to generalise everything. If a good woman can divorce a bad man, is it also not possible for a good man to divorce a bad woman? Take each case for it's own facts, merits and demerits, don't generalise.

[@KwenaKgomo-r6n]

100%

[@nomgqijoy5175]

Iyoooo! You had been through a lot mntase! I wish you more life to you and your girls. Do not marry again, just stay with your children and enjoy life. Your stories are so painfull

[@Conniemajara-zl3ke]

Queen nna I sympathies with children but for u sis knew very well why she stood that long in that toxic marriage,thjelete e tlo rebolaya shame😊

[@pfulu]

It means if this man didn’t give her the Divorce Papers, she would still be in marriage even today. Mara Bo Mma love yourself Man . Money? Im so proud of my Mom coz she left my Dad first 😅. She took 7 of us with her and gooo , now we are all adults with our own families and independent.

[@bojangmekgwe3205]

Aus Portia,you are so beautiful my Sis❤ sending you lots of love and strength...Thank you for sharing your journey

[@VicMakhubo-wg2wr]

She look beautifull ❤❤

[@venicepapo166]

She is a very brave wife👋👋

[@yvonneanderson5947]

Sad. Sad. Be strong my sister I AM VERY SURE HIS DAY WILL COME...

[@JohnMonnamme-sw8fd]

Thanks cc u are brave to choose life n Ure kids over wealth keep it up ❤❤❤

[@AllthingsHealth_]

The man divorced her moss, what choice did she have?

[@MimiMoloi-f5l]

The way u so calm narrating this story scares me. No tears shed, no trembling voice absolutely zero emotions...ausi o lemetse atseba

[@NomsaSasa-n8j]

Eish 😢

[@SM-mh1kq]

Sesotho monate ....keep on being strong Queen Lee

[@ThokozaniSithole-ii2qu]

Sesi pray for protection. Everything is possible with god

[@Keketso-hs5oy]

I love Portia ❤️ Wishing her love and light

[@thandimthimkhulu2207]

Beautiful strong woman sorry for what you went through 😢

[@MosiliLekhanya]

This is so touching Queen Lee 😢😢😢nna ha keso divorce bt ke tsoile ka hara lenyalo ka 2018 wa tseba Queen Lee ex husband eaka keha nyala ngoanana wa 5 to 6 months pregnant keso qete le 2 months kele lapeng😂😂😂ka bona hore Abuty enoa khale a movile on bt ke hantle today e kare nka buoa ka audio,Sis Portia i love you my dear u ntso nketsa hore kebe strong

[@Queenlee2477]

❤❤❤ Im so sorry sweetheart. I wish you healing and a breakthrough. If you don’t mind please come and share with me .We have to raise an awareness because some women are dying inside because they are afraid to speak

[@KatlegoMerafe-y8r]

🫢 askis hle nnana ache hase bofebe ke boloi

[@lorrainelolo4010]

Eish it so sad what Portia she's saying it makes me strong because I'm on marriage which my husband is abusing me emotional and financially.

[@lorrainelolo4010]

Yooo Queen Lee it's painful Portia story.

[@TsheM]

Inlaws don't realize that them protecting him is actually them destroying him. They might not see it now but later they are all going to be in a mess.

[@jessicathobejane2613]

He must be the bread winner or the richest in the family and no one wants to get on his wrong side

[@Rhulaninkome-np3ux]

Queen Lee I am crying 😢😢😢😢

[@BesterMaake]

I want to come owamie ...my story it's something else😢

[@thembimbonani9414]

Askies Portia, i know exactly what are you talking about, i've been there its just that i'm not ready to talk about. hence is why i couldn't finish this interview. ngoba ingivusele amaxeba.

[@NobuhleZikalala]

Still beautiful like i remember you in high school

[@leahlinki5683]

People must stop being in abusive and unhappy relationships just so that they have a story to tell! Red flags are there for a reason!

[@livingthelifewithlillysoco5297]

The heading topic sounds so interesting, yho language barrier hle I thought I could never wait for English in-between 😢

[@lesibamashaba3898]

Yeyyy she's proper mann sad to know she went through all that

[@MaryMary-nm5gg]

I so sorry my dear sister. But it's good bcs he's the one who's out. May the good Lord save you with your beautiful innocent children's.

[@madimetjapoto7075]

As a 43 year old male, I can safely say I met a lot of women in my lifetime tgat will not dare leave an abusive relationship sooner because of financial benefits. Most are in a abusive relationships as long as they maintain the lifestyle of driving expensive cars, buying designer clothes, and going to holidays. Most of the time it's very difficult to simpathise with them because you know why they don't want to leave the man. It all boils down to money.

[@lebohangm7252]

I think the situation is similar to men who would rather stay with a woman they don’t love anymore for the sake of not wanting to loose 50% of their assets. They would rather stay, cheat and abuse the wife. All that for materials

[@sarahdire8443]

That's nonsense, you saying this because you do not know

[@fruitypopwhickle6806]

Wealthy men are uncommon. Most women are stuck in abusive relationship with broke men.

[@MrMichackm]

Why will stay in a hostile relationship and expect sympathy

[@keitum3516]

@@fruitypopwhickle6806who allows themselves to be abused by a broke man. Are you serious? 👀

[@katlehom6008]

You learn a lot by finding out your mans past relationship behaviour. If he takes accountability or he likes playing victim, his traits. When he leaves the wife for the side the sidechicks think its a win kanti noo. Now those kids are scared for life

[@beatricephokojoe690]

You are brave and strong ❤ god bless your soul.

[@Vv-fl2rm]

What a beautiful woman 😊

[@tshililomelvinnekhavhambe3601]

I'm so disappointed in our justice system. Someone out there with higher position is watching this and just keep silent what a shame. Enough evidence is disclosed about the husband and lots of cases are just thrown out of the roll. God have mercy for those corrupt idiots who are protecting this devil. Someone is gonna die because of his behaviour

[@Qveeqvee]

Askies cc. Hugs your way. Hope you left, wish healing to your children

[@nolusindisomshumpela7183]

Im hoping you are safe after this.....May God advocate for you,The law has failed you.May God fight all your past and present battles.

[@KamogeloMeso-kh9xm]

You know what’s actually funny? Most of these abusive men love women who are loud and have bold personalities, it’s almost as if they want to break them down

[@neom645]

Exactly Kamogelo! It baffles me. Satan is working overtime

[@leahlinki5683]

That's the main characteristic of a narcissist!

[@ChristineMweene-u6o]

Nice story,but kindly use more English because me am watching u from Zambia and I can't get your language, Love 💕 you mum.

[@ther.channel]

I'm so proud of this lady. Her situation was supposed to break her but moshebeng o motle jwang. Ke rata lentswe la hae ha are "pahama mosadi". Get up🏆

[@NqabakaziTuku-gh4tj]

To think l am going through the same

[@seneopadisho7863]

Please walk away. Your life is much more valuable.

[@yvonnemooka5827]

❤❤walk away my love

[@o.ghanylo617]

Both you and your husband need deliverance by the precious blood of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the fire of the Holy Ghost. Everything will be fine.

[@Mpasy]

I am sorry but I have a feeling what the lady is going thru is Karma, imagine pain and tears of the 1st wife.

[@matheralengau]

As long she didn't destroy their marriage, it's not karma. But the character of the kid of man he is, and he'll continue to be ...

[@neom645]

Im not sure that you have followed through the whole story. She met him when he was ALREADY IN THE DIVORCE PROCESS NOT SEPARATION

[@neomalete5832]

Karma ?? Ya abuse ?? You guys are vile and it shows !!!!!! It’s worse if you believe in God , no one deserves this absolutely no one !

[@nthabisengnkabinde2518]

Ausy Portia o motle. Take what you can take, start over with your kids. Re tswa moo.

[@lebohangmoloi7725]

The way le mpuwelang hamonate ka teng ekare ha le buwe ka taba tse bohloko,le batle hona hoo ke hore le mpha matla a bophelo

[@pulelumiah5217]

I love South African podcasts but can’t understand the language. Just hearing twinsi, 3 girls 😅❤️

[@neom645]

And you watched until the end😂😂😂 O rata ditaba😂

[@itumelengletlatsa1459]

Scary part is that another woman is going to be a victim

[@londimakhanya2075]

Power off women 😮 m prond of u 🎉

[@kgothatsoleeu-o7j]

Indeed karma is a bitch.This lady is NO victim at all, do not judge people without knowing both sides of the story , she broke that woman's 20 years of marriage, she called an insulted the wife. She got pregnant by the married man hoping to get him. So she did, she left his marriage for her, now she is crying he was cheating, what was she doing with a married man, CHEATING ON THE POOR WIFE of course now it's done to her, she's crying. At their wedding in her speech she said that she is been with the guy for 10yrs whilst we know the guy divorced 2yrs ago. We were all shocked. What does that tell you, that's what you get for wrecking ppls marriage. Men thats whatyou get when you chatting with young girls, it doesn't end well,.

[@sweetrose362]

Sounds like you know her very well, if what you said is true... Women we are our own enemy for real😒💔

[@nosiphomapele7223]

😮😮😮gosh. I feel you know this story on a personal level, so she's lying when she says she met the husband whilst he was in the process of divorce. 🙆🙆🙆

[@mscmotloung6004]

The body language when asked when did she start dating him. Casted doubt. Well as they say there is 3 sides... The Host understood the assignment.. She is awesome 🎉🎉🎉

[@magadexaba6108]

People will be more prepared to doubt your story - but believe hers without question. These people are fishing for sympathy.

[@tshiamosehunoe3540]

Bathong mos ke karma

[@TebogoLloydMashitisho]

Thank you Queen Lee for uploading this episode 📺

[@mathapelomoagi2693]

Iyooo Portia, I'm highly sorry. It's good to see you moratuwa

[@chersono5506]

She’s beautiful!!

[@sindymaqhashu148]

she is hot and still remains hot with everything she went through

[@Qveeqvee]

N.A.R.C.I.S.S.I.S.T.S ......Best thing is to do self work, Heal and move on. Pray for your kids. Gets your kids help to heal, and move on sisis...atleast youre not leaving that marriage in a COFFIN😢

[@forexsigna-m1j]

Wow such a beautiful and strong woman… you inspire me ❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@TshepoHopeBaloyi]

Basadi ba South africa please iperekeleng hle, our constitution e tlo le kenya mathateng if lesa buli maahlo.

[@magadexaba6108]

"Basadi ba South africa please iperekeleng hle" - 100%.

[@leahlinki5683]

🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🙋🏿

[@selaelomothapo4262]

Lala this is painful story ever but what I like ka sesi Portia’s don’t look like her problem en ke leboga for sharing with us🙏🏽🙏🏽 Modimo a gofe maatla a go godise, a go fodise Sesi Lerato ke leo🥰🥰

[@tshenogotswai7283]

Thank u for telling ur story it's helping a lot of us.

[@magadexaba6108]

How exactly is it helping you?

[@RosinaNakedi]

Mmmm this is so interesting,my question is what did the ex wife benefit ? Chances are what he is doing to you with stashing finances and all that,first wife lost some aswell to you . I know of some girl who used to date a married man. That man was going through a divorce and he asked the girlfriend for a favour to stash some money in her name also to buy a town house for her. Reasons being the wife must lose and not benefit during divorce. When that girl friend confided in me,I adviced her to run and never look back. What that married soon to to be a divorce man was planning was to buy the town house and register it in his name. Luckily the girlfriend took my advice and broke up with him. Most men do such and again us as women we are evil,cruel and only hurt each other because of these men.

[@lucestedamons3072]

Morning can you set up subtitles please as I would like to watch but can't

[@sarahdire8443]

Portia, you have described my life 100% ke tseba hantle ntho bophelo boo, Queen B, ke lakatsa hore nkabe Lele part of that conversation, ha ho kakgoneha, ke kopa le mmeme, le Portia a le teng, ke ya kopa, ntho engwe le engwe e Portia a buang ke bophelo baka

[@Queenlee2477]

No problem, I’ll wait for your call

[@sarahdire8443]

What is/your contact number ma'am?

[@hildakgodu5796]

Askies my dear sister ❤

[@sarahdire8443]

@@hildakgodu5796 ❤️

[@sybillamula7190]

She’s gorgeous❤❤

[@RorisangKgampe]

I have been through this and its painful but as a woman you have to be strong and be smart. I hate woman bashers. A woman who belittles another woman is a disgrace. But God has a way of doing his things. My sister you should know that we are with you. Women are very cruel and not supportive. Inlaws are the worst. I was told by a magistrate who called me in his Chambers that if you don't divorce this pig you will regret. Fortunately he died and at his funeral I never even shed a tear. I was happy and lived happily ever after. My husband built a house for her mom secretly but chickens came home to roost.

[@pfulu]

But marrying a person going through divorce hey 😢, you have to dig deeper before committing to such marriage or man especially in this age and time .

[@leahlinki5683]

A rich man going through a divorce is a very big red flag!

[@mbeleedwill5459]

He definitely cheated with her...she was a side chick promoted to wifey.shes a side chick material 🤞🏾

[@QuenitaNkopane]

❤❤Queen lee thnk u hore o emisitse ka lala leho thola ha ur guest a bua le potso tsa hao ke tsona thnk u mommy🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤

[@ausi_mandy]

Askies lala, may this session help you heal, stay strong carry on❤

[@madgelinegati4490]

Yhoooo this is a lesson of them all a heartfelt one OMG😢

[@TebogoEcho]

I love Queen Leeds she is a good listener❤

[@tedtlyhlatswayo403]

More strength to you, ausi Portia, you definitely dont look like your problems, so beautiful, classy and those legs ma'am..🔥💖🙌🏻

[@boitumelomodiba2803]

In closing, Portia a kope tshwarelo ko the Ex wife for everything ae entseng ho ena, a rute her girls to STAY AWAY FROM MARRIED MAN, to go to school, get your own money, o ithate

[@buffalo_skies8490]

She doesn't owe her that. He was already divorcing the first wife, shes not the cause.

[@portiamohloki1198]

Clearly you were misinformed about Portia, educate yourself 1st before pouring comments. These women has build up herself way before the so called "married man" do your research accordingly

[@petuniataunyane2319]

Oh….My God Portia 🥹🥹🥹 I am glad you found the strength to leave him.

[@KMO-ce1ib]

It's so painful 😢😢 ijoo

[@nkhotasengmpeke1878]

It's my first time to this channel but like im enjoying it from the beginning. The energy of these ladies. Keyalerata Basotho ba heso

[@NtotisengMakengkeng]

Joo queen Lee WA ska ntsosetsa maqeba I so wish one I come to our show ho Bua kanna. Joo I deeply hard queen Lee 😭😭😭😭😭

[@Queenlee2477]

Please come sisi , you’re welcome . Si thwele kanzima

[@sarahdire8443]

​@@Queenlee2477if possible, please invite us, with Portia there, to share our stories, for people to know that Portia did not invite this into her life, she was just unfortunate that she got married to a narcissist,