POV: a young mom who is obviously miserable does a GRWM

[@mitra.s]

the way the mom is usually just the sweetest person ever and deserves the world so you end up feeling bad watching every single family vlog 😭😭

[@Emmmmm-lol]

FR

[@haleyybaylee]

Literally every mom deserves a TROPHY and a SPA DAY. They’re the real hero’s!!!!! ❤

[@Emmmmm-lol]

@@haleyybayleeThey areeeee

[@un_named_]

@@haleyybayleeNot every mom

[@lovelyy.gretaa]

@@haleyybayleeyesssss

[@lexirenee9069]

It’s always the sweetest girls too 😭 I feel so bad for them

[@jhsemoxitha3821]

Because it's easier to manipulate and use sweet people

[@shahnazs7422]

I hope more people understand that fathers should actively participate in childcare, even if the mom does a lot of nurturing in the beginning and it’s necessary for the baby, the Dad should actively step in and come at par with the mom as the baby grows, baby needs BOTH Mommy and Daddy love

[@itsnotmaamitssam]

i agree, unfortunately i know there’s families out there who are struggling, while the mom is at home taking care of the kids and making dinner for her husband when he get home, and the father is killing himself trying to provide for his families, probably working more than one 9-5 job or construction. and i know what people are gonna say to me, “yea but you shouldn’t have children if you’re not financially ready” and i know that but that doesn’t change the fact that they’re still out there and struggling and it actually doesn’t always star out that way, the father could’ve been earning/making well for his family but eventually they could’ve hit a rough patch where he needs to work all day.😕

[@KatieT97]

Absolutely, society needs to understand that a man who’s married and has kids can still be an “absent father” there’s even a phrase moms are adopting and calling themselves “married single moms” because their husbands can’t (or at worst won’t) provide support for raising the kids

[@bethsojourner6798]

He wasn't working. He was playing a video game and was in the middle of it. The video game took precedent over helping with his son. Also the way he spoke to the mom makes me wonder how abusive he is.

[@shahnazs7422]

@@itsnotmaamitssam yeah i was speaking specifically about couples who are both working so that there can be a better balance in the family. Also, there should be an awareness among couples that whatever the kind of marriage, modern or traditional, the father should make an effort to take care of the baby, because it’s not just the mom’s responsibility, whether that means coming home and taking care of the baby so the mom can finally rest in traditional families, or taking care of the baby as much as the mom in case both are working

[@TheMorganGibson]

This was my now sister-in-law when she first had my nephew.....she was 21 years old and was trying to plan a wedding, take care of a newborn baby AND finishing her last semester of college all at the same time and I don't know how she did it ❤

[@sophiemogensen]

Lol i swear ur everywhere

[@Cursedqueue]

My mom had my older sister at 21

[@PreciousNwandu]

L brother, why would he get her pregnant bro

[@harlomints7727]

@@PreciousNwandusometimes it just happens. condoms break & birth control doesnt work. or maybe they just wanted a kid and didnt want to waste money on a wedding before hand. dont just blame the man lol

[@faridawiser5441]

​@@harlomints7727so he just disappeared?

[@Starlight_16]

How are you literally calling me out?😢 I was 21 with my first and felt so overwhelmed and defeated all the time. I was also a full-time college student and worked part-time. My advice to anyone ever is WAIT. You are only young once, and 21 is still just a kid in many ways. Just because legally you are an adult doesn't mean you think like one. I grew up with my first, and now she's 18 and moving into adulthood herself! I would NEVER change my path, but I would advise younger ppl today to wait and live life a little first before dedicating yourself to literally the most difficult thing you will ever do.❤

[@_o6629]

Kids should refrain from getting into serious relationships especially getting physically intimate at such a young age! Coming from a 19 y/o

[@joparker9052]

Don't let videos like this get you down on yourself. We learned that tough lesson long ago that we can't have it all, as we were told. I knew young moms in the 90s who now have legacy and love of surrounding family. It's really something to be proud of. And the young people today have a new economy to deal with, I know. But to mock and make fun of young moms. I'm sure her life is fancy and all, but I don't know the point of it.

[@janew5550]

@@joparker9052 she's not mocking young moms, she's mocking insincere youtube/tiktok content.

[@eveningstar8581]

I hear ya! I'm 41 with a 23 year old! We most definitely grew up together 💕

[@esthervip3]

appreciate this. did you have help tho?

[@ThatSoftballPlayerErin]

The casual demon sobs in the background ✋😭

[@Amethazz]

Æ Æ Æ Æ Æ- eugh 👹

[@ThatSoftballPlayerErin]

@@AmethazzI just cackled why was that accurate ✋😭

[@RosaRodriguez-dk1vi]

Fr 😂😂

[@tiffanysoto4441]

The ending though ☠️ "can you get off your game please?" bet this is 100% what my ex thought I would do for him 😂 Tip ladies if they ever say they'll "change for the baby" leave them. they don't care about you.

[@seabreeze4559]

babytrapping yep

[@karls5608]

This is so true how the mom is just like the kindest person ever and so gentle

[@Hubris030]

Jesus fucking Christ we are doomed

[@SydneyWood_976]

The pain in their eyes is so real

[@rileymriley4812]

My mom was 19 when she had me and took me along to every job interview, college class and work meeting while my dad was deployed in the war. It was just me and her for the first 2 years of my life. My dad returned safely from deployment in 2012. In almost 14 years old now and I have a younger brother and sister. The bond that I have with my mom will always be treasured to both of us.

[@djkb125]

I had my first (and only, husband got snipped after I gave birth) at 35 and I am so glad I was the age I was. There was so much I needed to go through and now I’m actually in a position to be the kind of mom I wanted to be. You’ll never be perfect or a perfect mom but 21 is a lot different than 31. If you’re a great mom at 21 these days, bravo, but that certainly isn’t the norm. Millennials and older gen z deal with an extended adolescence a lot of the time, that and medical advances means having a child in your 30s is way more the norm.

[@Agnes_B96]

I agree with you

[@5naf6]

I'm from Germany and everyone with higher education has children in their 30s. Having children in your 20s is kinda frowned upon and seen as a marker of low educational level. Women can also *easily* have children until 42/43 without it really being considered high risk.

[@bethanynorman1829]

Yes, but you are one of the lucky ones. It's important to point out that female fertility peaks at 25. Waiting until you're well into your 30s for your first baby is horrible advice to give women. It will be significantly harder to get and stay pregnant at 35, for most of us. I am speaking from experience, and per the exact information I was given by multiple fertility doctors.

[@djkb125]

@@bethanynorman1829 that’s true but a lot of those women likely had fertility issues already. I definitely did (PCOS, 3 periods a year, fairly normal as fertility issues go though). Getting and staying pregnant certainly was good fortune for me but for many women with no fertility issues, 35 isn’t too old with our modern technology. Basically it’s complicated but I don’t think it’s fair to say that having a baby in your 30s is too old in 2024.

[@Agnes_B96]

@@bethanynorman1829 a lot of people just not in the place that they can have a child. For example they did not find their partner in their 20’s, or had fertility/health/mental health issues. I wanted a child in my 20’s but life just did not turn out like that. I had mental health conditions, multiple break-ups with partners, financial issues.. I hope I will be in a place in my 30’s to have a child. So yes it is very complicated

[@kierancarter8369]

This then dovetails into when she needs something fixed later and because James never got off his game, doesn't know how to do it and she just calls her dad. Her dad shows up sees the situation and just shakes head. James then states later, "I don't know why your dad doesn't like me..."

[@jxn1056]

Yasss 🎯🎯🎯🎯 this!! And the husband/baby daddy actually gets mad and offended if her mother or father shows up to help fix something! Uggh.. Speaking from experience! It's maddening

[@sweatergod5386]

Thats only if she has a dad thats not a pos

[@seabreeze4559]

the king baby it's called @@jxn1056

[@MissGreenTeaLady]

Ugh this was a girl I knew. Her husband thought it was the woman's duty to do all the child rearing so he never helped. Bragged about never changing diapers. Now the mom has 3 kids under 3 and I swear she's aged 10 years.

[@seabreeze4559]

she will "suddenly" leave him

[@creativelychandra]

3 under 3? That has got to be exhausting. Husband sounds horrible.

[@geekbliss4209]

He bragged???

[@LauraRyanSays]

That cry just makes you crazy on another level 🙈

[@defnotlauren]

the aggressive screaming and “IM IN THE MIDDLE OF A GAME!!” is so sadly realistic 😭

[@sweethomechicago]

Lol yeah, Xbox is going off the balcony at that point. 😆

[@defnotlauren]

@@sweethomechicago hahahahah

[@mommalion7028]

My kid tried that on me earlier this week and I unhooked the whole thing and stored it in a closet. I love video games but they are something you do AFTER your work is done. They’re the rest while your muscles are burning from labor. They are trivial and stupid and unimportant and the second a dude starts to forget that he needs a reality check.

[@justhereforthevideos2798]

Ladies I can’t stress this enough. Live your life before you have kids!!!! lol. Be wild. Be crazy. Have things u don’t feel u have the confidence to do? Do them!! Motherhood is hard and mostly thankless, never ending job. It will wait. Don’t feel in a rush to have babies super young. Plus a few years of maturity and perspective help too.

[@Naturally2Sexy]

It's also an option to not have any 💡

[@haute03]

Also, you can just not have kids. That's also an option! :)

[@unionunicorn6776]

Absolutely. I don’t understand rushing into something like this, especially since the children will be better off with more mature parents too.

[@milena14791]

I feel like this is how every parent feels, not just young ones

[@asatanicmechanic]

You think every parent has a shitty husband that games all day and doesn't care if you live or die? Yikes I hope you get out of your situation soon, that's not normal.

[@milena14791]

@asatanicmechanic No, I'm talking about both parents. I don't think anyone likes to take care of the child and I think that everyone is exhausted by it.

[@rebeccahicks2392]

@@milena14791 Lots of people do genuinely enjoy taking care of children. But there is a massive difference between doing it on your own and with a partner. And between being younger yourself and older. As you get older you get more resilient. When I was early 20s I hated even brief babysitting gigs. By age 30 I could enjoy taking care of kids and could just block out the screaming.

[@milena14791]

@rebeccahicks2392 I never talked about doing it on your own. Of course both parents have to take care of the child. Unfortunately, many women let their husbands get away with it and that is just sad. People like you who enjoy taking care of children should be the ones to have them. I really dislike it. Maybe I will adopt a big child in 10 years or something

[@sisuguillam5109]

No. This is what you have been told everyone lives like. It is not.

[@chanidawatson6849]

My mum is young for a mother and I love how all the other mums still respect her and don’t act as though she is irresponsible or not parenting right.❤

[@strawberryblossom43]

i honestly feel so bad for young/teen moms tho 😭😭😭

[@kelliecook736]

Don’t because a lot of them make something for themselves or catch up to their counterparts, counterparts that usually fell off track anyway. And by 40/45 if they didn’t have any more kids, they’ll be empty nesters and can travel with money they actually have. Other moms their age will be dealing with 10 year olds at the age 35/40.

[@un_named_]

It’s kinda their fault

[@_o6629]

That's why awareness is key! Education is key! Support preg teens NOT teen pregnancy!

[@folkloreswiftie13]

@@un_named_ That depends on the circumstances.

[@un_named_]

@@folkloreswiftie13 This may sound sexist, but I don’t believe in intersex people who could impregnate themselves. Calling bull.

[@updated_autopsy_report1]

I know a girl like this, but her situation is much worse. I live in a country where people under the age of 18 can get married with (it makes me gag even thinking about it) someone over the age of 18. Her husband was allegedly in his late 30s when she got engaged to him when she was in middle school. She lied about her husband’s age when she was engaged. She was 19 when she had her first baby, and now that’s she’s 22, she looks like she’s aged 20 years. She was such a talented, sweet girl, but that poor excuse of a man groomed her and forced her to drop out of high school and get married to him. Sorry if it was dark and depressing but I just wanted to mention that those young moms usually don’t speak up about their struggles.

[@clairegskinner]

POV: hailey is in her POV era and we’re here for it ❤

[@das8.kapitel260]

I'm 22 and have my first child. Honestly, wait. I'm in luck, because I live with my parents, who earn a lot, I get welfare for a year while in maternity leave, and my trade school allows me to pick up my learning were I left it. The father and I were never together, so I planned and prepared everything to work without him. We're good friends now and will bring up the little one in charging intervals. So I'm truly blessed, but even with all of that and an extremely friendly and self-catering baby, there are days where I just can't anymore. If you have similar or better circumstances as I, it could work out fine, but if not; Just Wait

[@Ayverie4]

That is very different from getting married and starting a family because you want to. I am glad everything is going alright for you ❤️

[@Cupcakes-s9b]

Every mom deserves respect and a good spa day

[@xrzsxz]

Haley is way 2 pretty i canttt-😭

[@BJBUnicorn]

Why is this so true? And this is here “happy” family.

[@kattytee9901]

The first 3 months is a marathon at any age. Its really sad if a young mom is not getting any support. Sadly grandparents aren't what they used to be either

[@sisuguillam5109]

Grandparents are still working. Grandparents are going to be working in the US till they shrugg of their mortal coil.

[@og.kai.cenat1]

HELP THE VOICE AND THE SITTING LIKE THAT IS SO REAL-😭✋

[@scotthill8787]

Sincere thanks for making what is a Public Service Announcement.

[@paraynikisku]

Breeding with the wrong person at a young age can be so lethal. I mean, we can set aside the age but a person not ready to be a father/mother is scary. Always remember, your kids can't choose who their parents are gonna be, it's always upto you.

[@0_Ximenitaa_0]

The quiet raspy voice speaks for itself 😔🤚😭

[@Emmmmm-lol]

For real though. They always be pretending their okay but their really not 😭😭💀 Also congrats on 5 mil.

[@flop193]

That scream even pissed me off😭😭💀✋

[@ruk1dd1ngme]

EVEN AS A MOM YOU LOOK GORGEOUS ❤❤❤

[@Emmmmm-lol]

FR

[@RebekahC-ln9nf]

Even as a mom? As if moms aren't gorgeous? 😂

[@theladyincute1]

I am DYING at that crying sound effect. 😂

[@bhimraopatil985]

My mom got married at 18 and had me at 19 . I am now 20 years old can't even imagine what she must have went through

[@vnokesCO]

Their partners (this one & the last one) should've been stepping up to help care for their child. If your partner is supportive & helpful, it makes a world of difference.

[@sweatergod5386]

Men never help with children all the more reason to not have them young

[@Commentator488]

He shouldn’t “help”, taking care of the child is his responsibility as a parent

[@JANEYOOO]

STOPP THIS IS SO REAL😭😭😭

[@thedev-yani]

I am 29 and still it gives me serious shivers thinking about kids. I can't stand them...

[@persephonel2117]

Boys suck at being young fathers for the most part now days. Their maturity level is just awful at that age. It always falls on the young mother to sacrifice everything and this is the biggest thing that young moms need to be aware of. If you really do want to be a young mom, marry an older guy who has his ish together or just wait until you are 30+. I couldn't imaginengoing through postpartum with a do nothing husband around. I feel for these women. Also, great touch with the GRWM and her not doing anything at all to actually get ready. Sweatpants are your best friend in this phase.

[@kruzhkapiva]

Not defending boys but it's totally normal to be immature at just fucking 21. Having a baby at this age is stupid even if a young girl thinks she is super grown up she's obviously not + a 30+ man will manipulate her easily

[@MariaPaula-uw3ds]

The maturity level is bad for both man and woman. It's just that society demonize woman while man not

[@Commentator488]

If you think that older guys who are chasing younger women are more mature you’re delusional. Older guys are chasing them because they are too young to realize how immature they are.

[@Weathersohot]

@@Commentator488older guys don’t mean someone who’s far from your age range, you weirdo

[@maplestory2723]

Nowadays? They always have though. Fathers used to have more financial burden (though you can also see that as women having less career opportunities) but used to be WAY LESS involved in parenting. Playing a few games of ball with their kids every weekend was considered the epitome of fatherhood. They never actually did any of the dirty work like diaper changing, homework help, etc.

[@RIYAKUMARI-t4b3w]

So true 😂 those jealous people wants us to be married , that stupid yelling baby, that jerk dad who's always middle of game ❤❤ hailey you rock 😂😂😊

[@Selinaa_tt]

I love your videos Haley you are so funny and relatable 😭❤️

[@CloudiSkiiies]

too true, one of my friends moms had her at 21, she says it was hell

[@bella.obrien]

I love u Haley you’re so relatable

[@jc.78]

Congratulations Haley!! I'm SO HAPPY for you. With all the "earth-shattering hilarity" that takes place on your channel, why am I NOT SURPRISED that you reached 5 Million subscribers so quickly Congratulations again!! 👍👍👍👍👍( Five thumbs up! One for each Million ) ❤️✌️

[@Turtle-888_]

Yesss, Haley, they always say "I just wanted to jump on here"

[@CauseIdontwantulikeabestfriend]

This hairstyle looks super cute on u omg

[@UndinesOcean]

This is the problem of mums all ages. They wear superhero capes that make all their struggles invisible. But even superheroes need a sidekick now and then! ❤

[@random_flamingo]

her- talking peacefully Timmy- 🐴🐴🦅😭

[@Bluegoblin178]

Lol😭 I love ur vids keep going ❤️

[@MILEY_who]

For real like I know they love the kid and love love being a mom but the situation there in is the worst

[@GiveTammy_Luv]

She acts so happy but she is probably crying 😭

[@resedi1626]

The fact that I’ve seen lots of videos like this is amazing 💀💀

[@yourFavGirlKyleigh]

Congrats on 5 mil ✨💅

[@glitterly_fluffy_unicorn]

okay but like the cry tho 😭 that was a alien laser beam i swear

[@yuss_queen281]

i never thought of this but honestly moms are the sweetest and calmest people ever. like if i heard a baby screaming i would just go slap them. PERIOD. but a moms patience is so sweet and wholesome.

[@seabreeze4559]

they have an earlier death rate, that's suppression and unhealthy

[@irinasp3723]

I was 29 when I had my first child, but it feels totally same 😂

[@saimam13]

In India too, we used to marry and start having kids at such early ages, (thankfully its changing in recent years). My Mom had me (her fourth kid) at 23!! Love and respect to all mothers out there❤ Y'all deserve the best❤

[@Preppy..4ever4]

I love your vids ❤

[@klairebear12345]

THE BABY SCREAMS I CANT😭 but it’s always so sad because you can tell they are struggling and they deserve the world. ❤️

[@oscar_munozbravo]

*Proceeds to cry for 3 hours*

[@Galaxy49710]

nahh William how dare he?!! This is outrageous 😡 1:58

[@GalaxyWells]

I love these vids

[@vrdrawing9767]

i love your videos

[@creativelychandra]

I had 2 friends who had kids young. One was, and still is, happily married. The other was like this. It was insanity. ~ You were perfect in this. It cracked me up. hahaha

[@ghostbusterindisguise7623]

“I haven’t showered in 2 weeks” 😭 ☠️

[@AverylovesHamilton]

When I heard the screams again 😂. But moms deserve the world 🥺🫶🏻

[@HeartEllis]

Children are a blessing from the Lord

[@faridawiser5441]

Not eveyone wants them

[@asatanicmechanic]

You certainly weren't. Stop assuming everyone believes in your theory about God. I don't believe in that made up concept. And the people that do believe it are annoying like you and never shut up about it.

[@Imsocool915]

Haley you make me smile everyday and I’m going to get real you make me laugh so hard when I cry the hardest thanks for being you ❤❤

[@StelliaBellia]

Those screams and cry’s tho😢…

[@vp.vii4]

Being a young mum is totally okay btw, if it is somebody dream. I know girls like that and they are totally happy and have a full life

[@its_not_the_end_of_the_story]

Aww little Timmy he is such an angel💗💗☺️☺️☺️😇😇😇😇 James is such a wonderful father☺️☺️

[@BJBUnicorn]

This is so true tho.

[@NoitsEleditz]

I love your povs SO MUCH❤

[@seaweed1068]

i hate that this is so accurate

[@clarapedara]

This is a literal nightmare scenario

[@MendelSherman-slay]

this hits too hard

[@lesc7123]

This is a skit but dangit ...I'm still coming to kick James' ass 🤬 😂😂

[@eleanormoffett220]

Plz this got me wheezing 💀 Definitely worth being up at 11pm for

[@summertime1255]

Love you girl ❤

[@chloerodriguez7402]

Haley I’m love your voice and looks

[@faridawiser5441]

Looks arent everything. Love yourself .

[@hailiecabreraserret180]

Hii! I lovee your videos❤❤

[@kelleyalexander5110]

I have a blanket named Timmy too...😂

[@Kiwi_plays_DTI]

How Is it possible to be this relatable 😂 and funny

[@a1awan1]

Little timmy sounds possessed

[@Editz_0526]

Congratulations on 5m Haleyy ❤❤

[@stxrsfornali]

lmao haley ily

[@biggestback122]

I LOVE U HALEY

[@blazelightshine2311]

Watching this is funny because my best friend told me she's pregnant last week, we're 20. Luckily her boyfriend is already helping a lot so its probably gonna be better than that for her

[@gorgeous1fangirl]

Congratulations to her and I pray that she has a healthy and supportive pregnancy 🙏

[@Lyrics4u64]

The screams 😂😂

[@Nakamuracor]

AND THE FACT THAT SHE LEFT THE CHILD TO CRY

[@MirkwoodElfAdventures]

Vasectomy is a life saver 😭🙏🏻

[@SofieBjorkheim]

I had my first baby at 31 and that was so good. I dont miss going clubbing because I did all that, and now I just want to stay home with my baby.

[@Iloveroblox-b6q]

Ur so funny I love ur videos😂😂

[@idadrottja6630]

01:26...What will William say😭😭😂❤️

[@eveningstar8581]

Here's whatcha do. If you do get pregnant young, you still continue to live your life! I got pregnant when I was 17. Have there been younger pregnancies than me? Of course! But 17 is still young. I still hung out with my friends! I still did dinners, outings, get togethers, parties etc. you can let a baby end your life or you can continue living life! 💕

[@DiamondWhite91]

Yeah, you can do that. But you can also be a bad mom.

[@faridawiser5441]

17?! WHAT THE HEECKKK, WHAT ABOUT COLLEGE AND SCHOOL?

[@proffoctopus66yearsago22]

@@faridawiser5441 sadly many people abandon education after young pregnancies due to the overwhelming amount of responsibilities that are thrown at them. This may not be the case for everyone but yes, teen moms barely get any help or acknowledgement unless they belong to families that are well off on the financial spectrum.

[@faridawiser5441]

@@proffoctopus66yearsago22 that sucks. I'll make sure to get a good education and become a doctor, so I can help these kind of people that already fell into this curse.

[@proffoctopus66yearsago22]

@@faridawiser5441 that's amazing to hear! good luck on your educational journey

[@OnceLostForeverFound]

The sweater tho? So cute.

[@zoezoe4523]

It was so chaotic to watch 😮😮

[@dons2318]

Haley u r something else 😅

[@Liana9768]

I really feel bad for them though 😫💗

[@psychicbyinternet]

I feel bad for her, not for him.

[@Itsmarsh-nm8ur]

“ ARHHHHHHAAAAA” her: 👁️👅👁️