POV: that one young mom who’s obviously miserable

[@IS_swiftie_13]

The heartbreaking voice- The pleading eyes- The desperate smile- Holding back tears- You nailed it

[@alishajennings2013]

With a husband like that she'd be miserable even without a baby

[@jiinjjooo3597]

exactly!!!

[@Mickeysobservatory1485]

Factssss

[@ЕкатеринаЖарова-л3ю]

But without a baby it would be easier to run away

[@miminotbovered2857]

You wouldn’t need his help without a baby, you wouldn’t be struggling. It’s gonna be twice as hard for her if she leaves him with that baby

[@peppergirlrocks]

​​@@miminotbovered2857 go back to her mom's (if she's still alive). Life will be a heck lot easier. The longer she stays with him, the more stress and frustrated she will become.

[@TheMorganGibson]

The shaky quiet voice is soooooo accurate 😭😭😭

[@PrettierThanYouxoxo]

Can you shut up?

[@LPSmeow1989]

The “oh my god can I have one day” from the husband on her LITERAL BIRTHDAY!!!

[@kateh2893]

A lot of us fellow gamers HATE these guys in our gaming groups and parties. Like, GTFO of this raid, WTF you doing here? I've seen times when some AH lets it slip that this is what's going on and the group is like, ok so you're done for the day, maybe for always, enjoy making your lovely wife dinner, tell her we said hi, and I am so proud of them.

[@wanderlustoceans8205]

And this is why I dont date gamers

[@zizi5721]

​@@kateh2893beautiful. Wish more gamers were like that

[@zizi5721]

​@@wanderlustoceans8205 I'd never.

[@BashaerB-h2c]

@@wanderlustoceans8205 Recently broke up with on. Most are immature, self centered, lazy and out of touch with reality.

[@BananaGrace]

I know this is a skit but it’s honestly really heartbreaking… I have a family member who deals with this.. only she’s 23 and she has three children ages 4, 3, and 11 months… and the “husband” is 1000% worse. And she lives in another state so I can’t really be there for her in person like I wish I could be. It sucks seeing loved ones “trapped” like this.

[@Lilgoat.1]

Keep in contact with her and continue to be her support. If you can, try to move to the same town. Idk anything about the husband, but abusers alienate their victims. I hope the situation gets better. 🙏

[@JonathanHancoc]

😂 trapped its what they chose family life it's got its lows but the highs are great and worth it

[@FaridaDawkinsYY]

Even if you choose it, there should be effort shown by both parents. There are too many married single moms out here. I know it’s a skit but still.

[@sharonharris9782]

​@@JonathanHancocyou think it's great to be 23 with three kids and a POS for a husband? Really? Wtf is wrong with you?

[@Orangelemon167]

​@@JonathanHancocnobody chooses this, one parent is just lazy and heartless

[@padmefoster1543]

I am crying for real... I am so so sorry for every girl that has to go through this

[@Idk-qs4nr]

And guy🥲

[@Plutonium.2]

If this made you literally cry you should get therapy. I don’t even mean that as a burn you need help

[@mysticani1691]

​@@Plutonium.2 some people are a bit more emotional than the average person, it is normal so stop being a jerk.

[@Plutonium.2]

@@mysticani1691 no, if you’re brought to tears by something like this you should get therapy. Absolutely 100% of the time

[@purple395]

@@Plutonium.2 or maybe you've just experienced stuff that makes this hard-hitting, therapy or not? lmao

[@unknown0312_1]

no makeup✔️ kid screaming✔️ soft voice✔️ people pleaser ✔️ grwm✔️ story time ✔️ all signs of a ✨miserable mom✨

[@Minahil111]

So moms who don't apply makeup are miserable?

[@pidgeongguk8818]

@@Minahil111I think it’s more in the lines of ‘she has no time for herself, not even to do makeup’

[@Minahil111]

@@pidgeongguk8818 She clearly said that "no makeup" is a sign of a miserable mom.

[@moondroparcana]

​@Minahil111 Why you tryin' to start shit Hon? It's in response to the video in which we see a mom trying to do makeup, something she must enjoy, only for that little thing to be taken away Not everything has to been am argument

[@gnocchi6610]

It would be good to leave the no makeup part out tho

[@eleabolar]

I feel so sorry for young women everywhere that are coerced by the promise of stability and benefits of social conformity only to feel trapped and overwhelmed by men in a role they either never wanted or didn’t want this early/with this man. Honestly heartbreaking. Remember girls, always have your own source of income and be able to enter the workforce. Self sufficiency is so damn important ❤

[@d.k.s.5919]

Yess. You put it so well

[@wabbledonkey]

Right and then men will get up in comment sections everywhere and attack us saying "this is the reason men don't want women like this", meanwhile alot of us are fine not being tricked into poor situations like this.

[@htac22849]

ABSOLUTELY 100% and then people will say you're a girlboss/boss bitch/blah blah blah for saying this but it is so so sooo important to be prepared and stable on your own. Even if you don't have a deadbeat husband, he can still die very young. Anything can happen.

[@tashahall1855]

This is so true

[@saltandsriracha]

No. My kids are more important. Time with them is finite. Can always make more money. Remember ladies, date with intention and be picky when you're still young.

[@AdaBell13]

Girl it’s getting scary how relatable you are Edit: y’all stop coming at me!

[@Hearts4HelluvaBoss]

Fr lol

[@moxietheiss6742]

Yeah seriously!!!!!

[@Millie.Dances]

Yea

[@Hope_killerqueen]

Frrrr

[@ioannatsitsou]

Frr

[@bugaboo130]

she’s fr always on the verge of tears

[@ca6248]

This makes me sad because it's not the child that necessarily "complicates" things. It's the lack of support from the partner/father that does. Having a child with someone who is technically "present" but unavailable is a terrible thing to go through. Parenting is incredibly hard, and every mother needs help from their spouse or partner. There shouldn't be a single mom in a two parent household. It's completely effed up and so cruel to the mother and her child (or children). I send my love to anyone who is going through this. May you find the love and support you deserve. ❤ Also, before anyone comes at me, I am fully aware that having kids makes things harder. I am a mother. I've been there and done that. My point is that if you're in a two parent household, raising a child should be easier (not easy! don't get it twisted) because there are two people to rely on. This means you should be a team. It shouldn't be a one man show. It shouldn't be the woman/mother doing everything and the man/father just in the background taking credit for just "being around." That's not okay, and that's the message I'm trying to convey. I also want to add that while we are discussing heteronormative relationships, this also rings true for same sex relationships. It can't be one single person doing everything for their family when two people are fully capable and available. Both partners have to pull their weight and participate. It's only fair.

[@spaghettilibro]

Thank you, amen!

[@ca6248]

@@spaghettilibro 🙏🏻

[@bell_izan]

Damn, even tho I know it is a skit, I feel so bad. There's actually so many moms living this :(

[@spaghettilibro]

Catch them 15 years later ...trust me, those mamas make it.

[@ksy4747]

So many you have no idea.

[@Tazazak]

⁠@@spaghettilibroI dunno man. It gave me crippling physical and mental health issues and I can’t see myself anywhere even a decade out from now. I celebrate for the ones who come out better and stronger, but I think just as many, if not more, end up in a really bad place and ultimately forgotten.

[@zizi5721]

​@@spaghettilibrooh yes they do. 😊 makes me happy.

[@zizi5721]

​@@Tazazakare u currently in that position. Do you need help?

[@tinted-trends]

Did anyone notice the bruise on her hand at the end when she's holding the baby ....... Like this girl is just so good at this

[@pupsap7714]

Woah

[@scotthill8787]

I sincerely consider these to be public service announcements. I’m a retired college professor, and most of my “non traditional “ students were women who married at 19, single parent at 22.

[@jatnarivas8741]

"Non traditional"?

[@BehindTheBush96]

What do you mean ‘non-traditional’? This is literally the traditional, old-fashioned relationship so that makes zero sense.

[@scotthill8787]

@@BehindTheBush96 Traditional college student. The student that graduated from high school in June, at 18, and started college in the Fall would be following a “traditional “ path. Someone who came out of high school, married, started a family, then went to college, as I think is the case in Haylee’s video, would be “non traditional. “

[@scotthill8787]

@@jatnarivas8741 College administrators consider recently graduated high school students to be the “traditional “ candidates to become incoming freshman. At least we did when I was a college professor. Demographics changed, and, taken as a whole, the number of high school graduates shrank. In an effort to keep enrollment up, or at least level, institutions of higher education began to market to those folks who weren’t able to start college right out of high school. (Particularly prized were the students who went to work for a few years before entering college.) We referred to this group as “non traditional.”

[@gnocchi6610]

@scotthill8787 ohhhh I'm dumb. Good on those women for returning for an education

[@cbpd89]

Watching this in bed while my husband makes breakfast for the kids. I love weekends. Take note y'all, who you choose to spend your life with MATTERS.

[@realglutenfree]

That's why many bad or useless men try to get a young woman, they are still too inexperienced and easy to manipulate and put up with too much shit. It's so important to teach women they are worth a partner that sees a partnership as equal

[@Alixir1228]

And there's nothing wrong with choosing yourself 💜.

[@marciestoddard730]

Absolutely nothing wrong with choosing yourself and loved ones, animals. Not everyone NEEDS that. Lol but thanks for free advice!

[@VesariBravado]

This actually made me tear up a little bit. I'm never having kids but I always offered a helping hand at the women's shelter to some of the overwhelmed "miserable" moms because it was just heartbreaking to look at them hold back their mental breakdowns

[@og.kai.cenat1]

The child screeming its lungs out- The dad not caring- The mom saying please with her soft voice- Hayley’s done it again-😭✋ it’s scary how relatable you are- *chefs kiss 💋*

[@Xx.bygracethrufaith]

idk why its relatable tho, i never see this😂

[@thewinner7382]

Yall need to stop changing what "relatable" means this is crazy 💀.

[@stubbywubbyz]

this is not relatable

[@Plutonium.2]

That isn’t what relatable means what the fuck are you talking about?

[@Plutonium.2]

@@thewinner7382they also keep claiming she needs an Oscar it’s so fucking annoying

[@RIRIany]

This is why every woman should have a high education. Because to leave a miserable partner and life needs not only courage and smart-ass brain, but also stabile income and money. You can never predict man behavior but you can always made a plan B. DO FALL IN LOVE HARD BUT DO NOT BE STUPID.

[@Miss_korneliaaa]

I seriously don’t understand how women can live like this I am a single young mom and I honestly can say it’s hard but at least I’m glad that my son is a lovely kid and I don’t have to deal with some ass husband

[@BehindTheBush96]

But you ARE living it, to a degree. You’re a single young mum raising your child by yourself, like the woman she is portraying. The woman she’s portraying might as well be a single mum with the way the husband isn’t even parenting or chipping in and she’s the only one left exhausted by the parenting and not him - that’s the point. That so many women with husbands/partners and have kids with them ARE single mums.

[@stitches318]

@@BehindTheBush96 No because these type of men are draining, they are WORSE than a child. They suck out your soul and mentally exhaust you with their lies (like saying they will watch the kid) and gaslighting. Better off raising the kid alone

[@youarerien8874]

I think it’s also a chance to have a financial situation that allow you to grow a child alone, and that it’s not possible for everyone. Good for you !

[@autumnaltumn]

Being a single parent is less exhausting than being a parent to a child and a manchild@@BehindTheBush96

[@patriciasamanthaifill1715]

Same and facts ❤ no thanks

[@brandilyn6720]

I agree with this. Do not have kids unless you’re prepared to do 100% of the work and feel like a single Mother most days. And then watch the Dad put a few pictures on social media and have 100 different people post about what an amazing Dad he is.

[@gummibear4757]

Moral of the story: find the right dude.

[@mm61777]

one of the saddest things is that this person is usually the sweetest person

[@nestynotnasty4405]

My heart goes out for the strong young moms out there with no adequate moral/emotional support . I am a young mom myself but boyyy do I have it easy with such a loving and responsible man. Never settle for less ladies! Kids are never kids forever they eventually grow and not need u as much anymore :( My hope is that my child calls/talks to me about her success and failures. I'll be there no matter what.

[@marciestoddard730]

Right. Its alao important to foster a connection with your kids outside of them needing you. Recognize their autonomy and individuality without hovering and then taking it as rejection if they dont "need" you. Love is not needing someone.

[@mushmush4980]

This is so realistic that im actually feeling sorry for her

[@Lou-dj7ce]

Wow, this is actively making me never want to be married or have kids, more than I ALREADY do.

[@samanthaferris1161]

That’s the point and purpose. I’m a 22 year old mom with kids and I can say for certain my life has never looked like *that* for even a second.

[@Idk-qs4nr]

@@samanthaferris1161ye but Hailey is going through a very hard crisis. She is being this anti-family because she is alone and has no boyfriend and stuff. I feel sorry for her everytime she makes such posts

[@BehindTheBush96]

@@samanthaferris1161congrats on being the minority of women with kids who’s baby daddy actually contributes to parenting then, I guess? But men contributing equally to raising the kids is STILL not the norm and women should be aware and wary of the attitude men still have before deciding to risk having children with them. And if a woman doesn’t want kids then telling her you enjoy it in response to her saying that is pretty rude and ignorant. People are allowed to want different things - if she doesn’t want that then why tell her “but I want that!”? What’s the point? To try and convince her that she should do the same? She wasn’t asking for women who did have/want kids to give their two-cents on her decision and women are harassed constantly for not wanting kids as is, so it’s kinda rude.

[@BehindTheBush96]

@@Idk-qs4nrshe had a boyfriend though and this dynamic she’s portraying is more often than not what women go have kids with men go through, so you’re clearly just a misogynistic man who thinks all women should just reduce themselves to nothing more than baby-making machines and have no lives, no career, no hobbies and no identity outside of that. Your grandmother and mother went through this and I can guarantee they weren’t as happy as they’d have been if they didn’t go through this, even if they don’t say so because they think it’d be rude to tell you they wish they never had you. She has far more of an enriching life than any woman who had children could. That’s years and decades down the toilet to raising children and not being able to travel, study, take up certain careers/try more careers, try out new hobbies or continue or improve existing hobbies and very little identity outside of raising your kids. All the women I know who had children ended up spending all their time raising their kids and none of them even get to see their friends anymore and they’ve all gotten unhealthy and don’t even have the time to look after themselves.

[@5naf6]

​@@Idk-qs4nr she is not anti-family. she just makes observant humor about every genre of common videos, and many different types of people. calling her situation a "hard crisis" is also pretty ridiculous, she is literally attendomg big events, meeting lots of people, and seems to enjoy life very much. this is not what i would call "alone." if she wants children, she still has a good 10 years to have them, but she is definitely not anti-family or in a crisis just because she doesn't have kids.

[@boethia7367]

Me af Ladies just dont have kids. Honestly its too hard to find a good partner. I thought mine was and was proven wrong. He wanted all of HIS friends over for a party. Our baby was ~3 months old. I spent the day carring for the baby, cleaning, and making dinner for his entire friend group, burned my face too. I ask him to take the baby for 15 minutes so i can get ready. He says no and books it. The baby then has a blowout diaper, im dressed, makeup half done. I had to SCREAM for him to come help. Of course his friends were there now. So they probably thought i was crazy.

[@avoarphish8338]

Jesus, I’m sorry. I hope you will get/have gotten into a better situation.

[@allieerickson8020]

Been there done that. Your not alone stay strong and know your worth ❤

[@goldenbobaa]

She seems so soulless and monotone 😭✋

[@PrettierThanYouxoxo]

??

[@valaya.3]

She seems broken down, burnt out, and in a world of pain, with a shaky and scared voice. I'm not sure I agree with your assessment 🤔

[@nattie911]

On sedatives to cope?😢

[@asatanicmechanic]

I don't think you know what soulless means

[@joojooahybawl]

Because she’s dying inside

[@Life_With_Adina]

the whole body language is so accurate

[@justhereforthevideos2798]

😂😂😂 I’m 100% for people deciding not to have kids. But let my baby daddy/husband speak to me like this just one time 😂😂 he gonna learn the lessons his momma didn’t teach him today 😂😂

[@yellowblackbird9000]

You ain't gonna do shit lol.

[@azra2263]

@yellowblackbird9000 Says who? My cutlure and religion are very conservative and traditional (which i love) but if my husband ever talks to me like this .. granted we dont have kids yet but thats just more of a sign that a man like this is not worth s*** Ill expect even more from my husband once we have kids. A fight is one thing. Being this brash and rude is just disrespectful. Husbands like this arent worth the paper that was wasted for the marriage certificate ​

[@BehindTheBush96]

@@yellowblackbird9000shut up, glorified sperm bank.

[@CaterpillarFriend]

One of the most important lessons I’ll be teaching to my daughter is to establish her career before she gets tied down to someone. And to never ever let a man lull her into a false sense of security with BS like “I make good money. I’ll support you. I want you to come with me wherever my career takes me.” Have your own career. Have your own money. Have friends. And if a man pressures you to abandon any of those and have ONLY him? Girl, run. Being trapped as a dependent is awful.

[@emb5091]

"I'm in the middle of a raid!" 🤣🤣🤣

[@kyladanae]

Do one of the young mom with 5 kids at 22 with a husband that’s 20 years older and she brags about how much she loves being a mom and not having to work.

[@brandilyn6720]

Would that one be titled “My Husband was a Pedophile”?

[@JaysieditsYT]

“What? Im playing cod!” Got me 💀

[@Veexxz]

they always make me feel so bad

[@flizfloss]

Brilliant but utterly heartbreaking. 💔

[@laraal-khatib8564]

She’s getting too relatable these days Edit: stop commenting bc I said it’s relatable.

[@thewinner7382]

I'm sorry but what is it you relate to? Being a millionaire influencer who used to be married to an NFL star or being a young mom with an abusive baby daddy? 💀💀💀

[@revelove4eva]

​​@@thewinner7382seriously I don't understand why people keep calling her relatable under skits like this, like are you going through this yourself or have you seen influencers do this and that's why it's "relatable" Though in the second case accurate would be the better term

[@laraal-khatib8564]

@@thewinner7382 it’s relatable bc I always see people like that on my fyp. So it’s funny for example her other videos about older sisters, people relate to that, you don’t have to ruin someone’s fun

[@laraal-khatib8564]

@@revelove4eva read the comment I wrote under

[@laraal-khatib8564]

@@thewinner7382 also I’m not relating to Haley, I’m relating to the mum 💀that’s the whole point of a skit

[@riffig9251]

The rage and the calm……. All at once

[@m.ishall]

its a skit and it still breaking my heart 😭

[@darcyreadssometimes3904]

These ones just make me sad tbh

[@AishaG03]

Why is Timmy crying like he is 4 months old if you had him 4 years ago 😂 love you beaut 😅

[@Jadynq]

haley you become more relatible by the day. i feel so bad for young moms, but some of them are just crazyy good at the scedules and tking care of their kids. I just love it

[@Plutonium.2]

HOW DOES THIS MAKE YOU RELATE TO HALEY WHAT DO YOU MEEEEEEANBBNB??? Can you fucking kids find out what words means before you rub them all over everyone it’s so annoying

[@liveandletlive497]

You shouldn’t feel bad for young mums. Kids are a blessing. I had mine at 19 and now I’m 28 he brings me so much happiness. The world is a better place with him in it

[@Jadynq]

That is so amazing for you. I know someone who has a lot of trouble fitting into society and can hardly be "normal" outside her house. @@liveandletlive497

[@emomu]

The raspy voice is so accurate lmao 😂

[@girlinthehaze]

unrelated but is that the bloom cover on your pfp?🥺

[@My_aesthetic]

😭😭 I’m dying your so pretty anyway ❤️❤️

[@Stella-rf9ll]

Not just 22 year olds, I'm 39 and that sounds a lot like my house 😂 (minus the social media exposure) and with 4 children! Ps. Love you girl. Come to the UK soon ❤

[@MuusikFee]

that sounds horrible 😭 You deserve better than this!

[@Stella-rf9ll]

@@MuusikFee 💜🩷

[@vigsaminathan5910]

I'll be miserable too. Such a long ass pregnancy. Got pregnant at 18 and had a baby at 21-22. Damn😮

[@endlesssupernovacaine4377]

I feel bad for the mom, I feel just as bad if not worse for the child. Because this situation always ends up getting worse, and it ends up being bigger than the poor baby and their needs. I grew up in this situation, but by the time I was old enough to remember anything, Ma had snapped. I grew up in a family situation where my mother expressly states, every. single. day. that she is miserable, and leaves no room for anyone but herself to be miserable, outright telling me that my problems are insignificant compared to hers. If ever I fell down, hurt myself, was bullied by other children, had a bad breakup, had trouble at work, all of it was insignificant because Ma is miserable. My dad is never around, and when he is, Ma is near constantly screaming at him. He tries at least to sympathize with me when I don't feel good, he was only one that tried to play with me, and the only one that lets me talk about my passions and interests. Ma is always too busy with everything else. Which of course to Ma, makes it seem like I've taken sides, and she gets angry seeing me and my father getting close, it seems to her like a betrayal, and she'll pull me aside to tell me that I don't know how horrible he really is. A family dynamic that starts like this in the video, ends with angry children with no family stability. Having kids and starting a family shouldn't be painted as a necessary goal, or the mark of a functional adult. It looks tantalizing to young people, who desperately want to be free and independent, and that leads to lifelong mistakes. It should be a choice. It is hard, yes, and it's a thankless job that can tear you apart, and it's a job that society paints as something everyone should be achieving, despite knowing that it can destroy your mental and sometimes physical well being. Many people can't handle it, and there shouldn't be shame in that. It shouldn't be seen as something necessary or ideal to be a functional adult. It's like asking everyone to be soldier, or an Olympic athlete. Not everyone can, and I'm of the opinion that, similar to an athlete or soldier, most people shouldn't. Sure, at the end of the day it's worth it to some, and they do a great job at being parents, and deserve praise for it, but it's not worth it to everyone, ask my parents. I don't want to be a parent, and perpetuate the abusive cycles of my childhood. I know that I would be just like my parents, I don't have enough emotional maturity to handle it. And I hold myself as more of a mature adult for that decision than every desperately miserable mother like this that I'm friends with.

[@veronica400]

This is so real.

[@its_veena]

gosh I genuinely feel so bad for them

[@Shadowlan2082]

Yep, thats me every minute of every day. Yay motherhood. . . . . . . . 😭

[@marciestoddard730]

Yikes. My sister is the same and her husband is absolute waste it breaks my heart to see. She looks exhausted and i wonder why she did it w 3 kids if her husband is so terrible. I try to help but its not my life ya know?!?

[@ZoeThomson00]

I'm honestly terrified to become a parent (I still absolutely want kids) because me and my boyfriend both have ADHD and I feel like if we messed up and had one before we were ready it would be abnormally overwhelming and it would ruin us as a couple

[@surlespasdondine]

You can do it! And you will never be ready, no one ever is. And that's ok. The beginning is tough but you get through it together. My husband and I are very probably neurodivergent too and we both feel stronger and more united now than ever. Our kids are 6 and 9 and it's the absolute best, I have to pinch myself sometimes. 🥰

[@Zhoulifer]

Not her singing Happy Birthday to herself😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@jakestephens4939]

You always brighten up my day. I like seeing you smile. Keep up the great work. 👍 New subscriber here. 😊

[@dummie4guitars]

1:20 This is really painful to watch. Like really really painful.

[@y0utuberculosis]

"by the time I was 18 I was engaged, later that year we were married, I immediately got pregnant with timmy" *is 22* *baby is a baby* the math ain't mathin lol

[@mushmush4980]

Timmy's family life is so bad he can't mentally develop properly

[@lisagriffith2097]

Yeah, that's exactly what I was thinking! 😂

[@SofieBjorkheim]

Came to say this lol

[@countrybumpkin9896]

Yeah that was definitely ONE of the stupid things in this video

[@music0cool]

Or they had another baby

[@talithialee9608]

I had my fist at 21! Brings back trauma. I mean memories ❤😂

[@WildBison74]

This is honestly heartbreaking.

[@rachelthebroken1031]

Aw, this makes me so sad even though it’s not real🥺 I’m so glad my husband is nothing like this.

[@qseued]

Idk why but this made me so sad. This happens to young parents everywhere.

[@BehindTheBush96]

How could you not know why? She’s portraying a woman who’s seen as pretty much nothing more than a slave and baby-maker to her husband who clearly don’t give a shit about them enough to contribute to parenting their own child - and this is more often than not the dynamic of male-female relationships (the men rarely contributing or not pulling their weight at all and believing parenting is solely ‘a woman’s job’). Like you said, this happens to young parents (mothers) everywhere. Except it’s not just the young mothers, either.

[@Sunny-il7zr]

Had timmy at 20 and he's still an infant 2 years later 😂😂

[@lauraperez8025]

😂

[@blessedbeauty2293]

- I love the monotone. && yup, you're a great actress 👍🏽 ❤

[@mari.e...]

This is so sad honestly, poor mom

[@TheAray6]

I know older women going through this ish too! Why I choose to remain child free. I personally need a village and slew of Nanny’s because my me time is so important. If I can’t afford that then children are not for me. It’s always on the woman…my friend is literally texting me right now about her mate.

[@portobeIIa]

Husband is the "she didnt want kids at first but i convinced her" dude

[@Amir_Koror]

Wow, such a beautiful speaking 😂😂😂👌❤

[@kevindailey4412]

Great work Haley, your hilarious, keep up the awesome videos.!!!!

[@julesschweiger866]

Oh man this reminds me of my first marriage at 20 😂 however dad was constantly playing fifa

[@annaburns2865]

That woman is raising two babies. I feel so bad for her. Oh it’s just a skit. Whew! 😅 Good job on making us feel so bad Hallie!

[@revanchists]

These women have another child - the "husband"

[@hotpotato96]

if this isn't the best ad for contraception, I don't know what is!

[@mig3153]

I have REAL empathy for moms like this. I don't think that being young means your a bad mother, but I can understand how it feels to have a husband or family who commit to your child but then don't do the work. I have a single mom, and my father is abusive. Thankfully, we do not have to contact him too much, expect that my mom gets emails from him. I felt so bad after this video...sorry to all the moms out there who can't spend their birthday doing what they want, or even just having five minutes alone. And to the moms whose husbands/wives/family members who don't give the mom their all. Moms are the best, and they deserve the best

[@MaddieM124]

Reminder that not every young adult family is miserable

[@infallibleblue]

Glamorizing young motherhood has been the downfall of our society.

[@jaynebarry5658]

I was an older mom and this was still my life. A bad husband ruins everything at any age.

[@CH-nf5bb]

Okay okay, you literally described my old life and why I have long term birth control. 😂😂

[@ribbonfawns]

WTH i am so close to tears this makes my heart ache so bad

[@captaincrunch3720]

We dont talk about it enough but many women (especially young women) see becoming a housewife and or having a baby as a free ticket to a better/easier life. A lot of them see babies as a price they must pay to tjeir husbands in exchange for a way out of the struggle of a full-time 9-5 only to realize that motherhood IS a life of labor they can NEVER clock out of. We live in a society that caters to male comfort above all else and still sees women as objects to be owned and used for breeding. No one is more at risk for falling into this baby trap than teenage girls who are preyed upon by groomers who use their naivity and desperation for someone to take care of them as a way to fool these children into marriages that truly only benefit the groomer. It happened to two of my friends. Both got groomed and married by much older men and birthed their first child before the age of 20. They thought those men who wish them away to a life of luxury and pampering only to end of feeling like a house pet and live in maid. One of them told me "I feel like an incubator, I just give birth, have my body fed on and sit alone in the house while her (now ex husband) gets to still live his life". Originally I had been so jealous of both of my friends for finding what I thought (as a teenager myself at the time) was love but in reality it was just a creep preying on a child because they couldn't find or control a woman their own age.

[@haddiehoeing245]

girl your so relatable

[@zed3063]

This is way more sad than funny :(

[@spaghettilibro]

My mother would mock my cousin for having an interracial baby at 20...here we are 18 years later and she has raised one heck of an amazing young man. My mother? She has 3 childless daughters between 35-40 and is miserable. She projected child burdens on all of us and it is too late now for us and none of us can stand her. Little cousin won. Little cousin won big. Bravest and best mamma out there with a young man she is proud and who adores his hero mom.

[@allywashington]

Quick question, did you mention the interracial part because your cousin was a white woman raising a black child? Because, otherwise, I don’t understand the relevance.

[@spaghettilibro]

@@allywashington My mother also made it clear to us that if we had an interracial relationship we would be degrading ourselves and the child would definitely be unwelcome. She treated them both like trash when this happened and was heartbreaking.

[@HolisticLady-kh2im]

Why didn't any of you have children?

[@surlespasdondine]

35 is not too late even 40 is still possible.

[@spaghettilibro]

@@surlespasdondine It is not possible for myself and older sister. I pray for my younger sister before it is too late for her.

[@sarahpinho1114]

When we got married my husband said he wanted to provide so I could stay home with the babies..then left when I was seven months pregnant.

[@s.mohammad2360]

This is my life. 19 when i met him, he was 29. Weve been married for 5 years now and have two small kids and I feel her pain 100%. My mother has made an off hand comment that Im a married single mother. She's not wrong

[@spaghettilibro]

Be strong, those babies need you. God bless 🙏

[@asiam8615]

separate from him as quickly as it's posible; my mom's been there. not worth making kids with a man like that (the kids don't deserve it)

[@brittanyv]

This is why I really discourage large age gaps relationships when the woman is still so young. Largely men that prey on much younger women are highly manipulative and looking for someone to control. Some people hate that opinion but it was true for me when I was your age too. You can find a way. I wish you the best. I’m sorry you’re going through this. Getting rid of him will be hard if you decide to do it, but it would give you some level of peace to not have to take care of him too. ❤ hang in there.

[@hhelenaaaax]

my mom literally

[@esam2520]

Fr

[@boxer3.00m]

This is so true

[@viceb7]

Too realistic, I'm sad now

[@Malalalala]

It is possible to live a normal life as a young mother, ONLY IF you marry a MAN who understands his RESPONSIBILITIES

[@Deathnotelover95]

Hard relate. Hope it gets better for anyone who sees bits of themselves in this.

[@Sundayy-21]

Watching this makes me feel bad 4 some reason😭

[@BehindTheBush96]

Cause male-female couples usually are like this. The mother doing all the unpaid labor and all the child-raising and the dad not giving a shit about his own kid or partner/wife.

[@SilverTune]

I think that’s called who’s in an abusive neglectful relationship 😅

[@Idiot_TaylorsVersion]

This is my mom. She got pregnant at 19 and then had another baby (me) like a year after giving birth

[@randomfemaleopinion3167]

I feel so sorry for women in that situation. I did have my first baby at 24 and I felt young. I did get married at 19 (my husband also the same age) but we really wanted to wait before kids. 25 now with my second son and I refuse to baby my husband and make sure he pulls his weight. I dont want to get stuck with all the responsibility because I'm the "mom". Its not something you agree to but sometimes you fall into those "roles". Be careful and take care of yourself so you can better take care of your children!

[@TessTimm101]

Haley never fails to entertain us

[@GodWokeMeUp]

This is heart breaking though. Idk...it makes me really sad. 😢

[@sisuguillam5109]

'Agreed to take care'. That in itself is alarming. And then it gets worse.

[@mikathehusky3415]

Let’s take this time to understand that her being a people pleaser is not her fault. There’s a lot of factors that have made her like that and this is when woman feel alone.

[@ur_local_dragon_dealer]

Nah cause they always look fuckin done 💀

[@mayrabermudez19]

you're literally so accurate I love this

[@firstblanklastblank3211]

No marriage. No kids. Ever. Not worth it.

[@empressgeorgena311]

“Yeah, you think I don’t have ears?? I KNOW.” 💀He’s aware his child’s crying and his wife is one more dirty diaper from having a nervous breakdown… He just doesn’t give a shit! The painful reality of MANY married, yet single moms today… My heart goes out to all of them! Keep going, mami - This is bigger than you. 💪🏽💕

[@macar0ni.n00dles]

explains every 20 year old with a kid 😃…..

[@susannevill4102]

POV:me on my birthday grwm😅

[@Pasta_Bear579]

First 🥳 also I love your vids so much!!