Powerful Motivational Speech: What To Do When People Talk About You Behind Your Back.

[@rukasuw]

"if you talk about me in my absence, it's because you respect my presence" - Bob Marley

[@Infidelitycoaching]

Love that quote.

[@mstwelvedeadlycyns]

Truth

[@Infidelitycoaching]

@@mstwelvedeadlycyns ❤️

[@trapped-ion]

@Rukasu Izuku Did he say that in an interview or on one of his songs?

[@jeremyfannon8537]

People either talk about you because they're jealous of you or they're not happy with themselves. Point blank.

[@mstwelvedeadlycyns]

Or insecure of your confidence

[@JamesBrown-jt8lw]

Sometimes it's hard to be unaffected by them when you're young, I personally lost my job, my girlfriend and most of the things I've liked because my coworkers, my family and even my neighbors were gossiping about me and picking on me very covertly. But I still continue you walk along my difficult path.👋

[@mstwelvedeadlycyns]

Amazing

[@Gigigirl40]

i’m going through the same…my coworker talk about me all day. I really do not know what to do now.

[@user-ca3sp7er1h]

Heard that bro....went thru same don't worry... they'll get theirs

[@caribbeananimation6747]

When I realize people start talking about me I progress more so that they would have more to talk about cause I don't have time with back biters

[@vishalnadar2879]

I thoght i was the only one that does that

[@vishalnadar2879]

There was this one friend we eat lunch together and she just started putting hand in my food and mixing it with her licked hand so one day i told her to stop i will jush jive you some of my lunch and she stopped talking to me and gossiping adout me my friend told me and at frist i dont belive her but i heard her talk bad stuf about me and i said to her are you scared of me that you are talking behind my back i smiled and left

[@theafricanwoman2818]

I went through a difficult divorce and I had friends talking behind my back. It hurts. Sometimes j meet them at shopping malls and I just smile..

[@Infidelitycoaching]

Ms MD The more you ignore unimportant things and people, your skill of focus grows. That situation, only builds and improves you. Keep going.

[@DNGRKTY]

Thank you so much, this just helped me a lot. I have been really thrown the past 2 days by overhearing the negativity of others, and it was affecting my motivation, creativity, and self esteem. KZbin led me to this video, and I am so grateful, as that was the brotherly style advice that I needed. I am going to start fresh tomorrow and quite literally pick that paint brush back up and keep focused on what brings the joy and light into my life. Thank you again!

[@Infidelitycoaching]

Yes! Get after ever you’ve ever wanted in life!

[@columbialynne7387]

It's true. I'm slowly learning to self-caringly detach from gossipers and slanderers...with love. I notice, too, that if I happen to run into one of these insecure persons and simply BEAM with SMILE and a silent message that I KNOW they've been bad-mouthing me but I am not really affected, a powerful shift occurs. It's psychic. And I bet from then on, they're less likely to blab. Rising above, with self-credibility, can create positive changes. It feels great!

[@johnsantos2.044]

thank you it's tough but I'm learning how to remain unaffected by it.

[@Infidelitycoaching]

In this life people will love you, like you and hate you but it doesn’t ever make you.

[@johnsantos2.044]

@@Infidelitycoaching thank you for your words much appreciated

[@aneetawilfred4645]

Thank you for being selfless and inspiring people..!! You deserve all the happiness in life. God Bless you! ☺

[@Infidelitycoaching]

aneeta wilfred I'm just glad I can impact you. Thanks for the support it means stars and moons.

[@ILoveSaintBernards]

Let them say what they want to say. Why do you think they are behind me? All that negative energy they spent talking behind my back they could have used it to advance themselves in their own life. While it can be tragic that a person does not want to change, the good thing about those kinds of people is they don't go very far in life. Me, I have control over my life and I can choose not to let the world affect me. 😡

[@mstwelvedeadlycyns]

The best comment ever and should be Highlighted!!!

[@missrb9608]

Beautifully said xxx

[@vendettduh]

Thank you :)) I was just sobbing because I heard my friend group in the car next to me saying i was the most annoying one in the group thinking that i wasnt there... i literally went to one of their houses yesterday and we were having sm fun??

[@Infidelitycoaching]

Now that you know how they feel and how they are, realize those aren’t your friends. Instead of looking to have more friends, concentrate on how good of a friend you are to yourself. Much love to you, thanks for watching.

[@monimendoza5583]

This morning your face your voice your message was very comforting and the light in you is so bright I believe you are walking in your right path thank you for sharing this video.

[@VeeFlowers07]

I needed this so bad. My sister in law lives below me and i think i heard her talking negative about me to her friend. Was about to watch a movie too

[@Infidelitycoaching]

Let them talk! They waste their energy on you but don’t waste your energy or even breath on them! 💥🔥❤️💯

[@janefegarido6493]

The best advice I heard.. You are absolutely right, what ever we do, some people still something to say, and we can't control it. We need to manage our own feelings and mindset to be unbothered by negative people around us. Thank you so much,,🙏 I'm happy that I found this video. ✨💕 Very inspirational to start a day. 🦋🌞

[@Justine0215]

When you said to go back to what I did before people started talking shit . I feel like this hesitation to even do what I used to do it's like I don't know I literally feel like this blockage. like i wanna go back to what I'm use to doing but I can't .

[@Infidelitycoaching]

XPrincess ClipzX it's very simple, just not easy. The more you go about your business each time people try to down you, literally your brain gets trains to do the same. It's all a decision you make. Just look in the mirror and promise yourself that's what you wanna do and do this with emotion, and you will. Trust that.

[@Justine0215]

Michael J Fit thank you I highly appreciate that !

[@Infidelitycoaching]

XPrincess ClipzX anytime, now go decide to be whoever and however you want to be.

[@gilbertdaka6615]

I Feel Good Now! Thank you.

[@Infidelitycoaching]

Gilbert Daka I’m glad, you’re welcome

[@thedreamzine9697]

Thank you so much for this video. You are so appreciated!

[@Infidelitycoaching]

As well as I appreciate you!

[@missrb9608]

Absolutely LOVE this video! Thank You 🧡🧡

[@Infidelitycoaching]

Very welcome. I appreciate you letting me know ❤️

[@anneyounis8193]

God bless you Michael ❤️

[@Infidelitycoaching]

I appreciate the love ❤️

[@giannavision3853]

Wow, this. This is fire! Thank you.

[@Infidelitycoaching]

Gianna Vision thank you

[@turilavergne6799]

Thank you brother. This is what I need.

[@doctorz3518]

Thanks Man this really helped, sometimes I get tired of those suckers.

[@Infidelitycoaching]

How can you not sometimes? Happy to know it helped, if you need anything else feel free to reach out.

[@doctorz3518]

@@Infidelitycoaching I've already get used to ignoring them but sometimes your mind will trigger some kind of anxiety when u hear them talking shit about you.

[@Revanth292000]

Thanks for the inspiration. I love the words you spoke. They're life :)

[@Infidelitycoaching]

Rev K Much appreciation. Anytime. Live life and love life.

[@joshuamingo4132]

This was amazing man appreciate you.

[@ManojKumar-bd7np]

Feeling much better...thank you so much

[@Infidelitycoaching]

Manoj Kumar glad it helped

[@edminahkanana9816]

Thank you. I needed this.

[@pazuzu256]

My grandfather moved in 2 years ago and he is always calling me names behind my back thinking I can't hear. He is in the next room calling me a SOB because I get up early and clean and do positive. Him and my grandma do it every day. It's getting hard to ignore

[@heleenfokker5155]

Thank you for this! Exactly what I needed

[@Infidelitycoaching]

You’re very welcome.

[@tapaauisala3777]

Wow this hella true thank you

[@Infidelitycoaching]

Yup. Been through myself.

[@robertcassell496]

Thanks I needed to hear that

[@Infidelitycoaching]

Anytime bud.

[@donatotaa3713]

Hello sir thank your video you give me a lot lesson ,someone is keep talking in my back and they keep following us were ever we go and need your to see these person because they don't show there pace to pace if I heard there voice I'm inside my house and when I'm outside they are not talking and if I'm inside the house they have a big big mouth

[@Infidelitycoaching]

Remember you can stop all voices like a switch in your brain. Use your spirit to take control.

[@BruceWayne-my2bi]

I'm feeling drained. Like a vampire or 2 or 3 has been sucking the blood out of my body. They r making me hollow. The things that make me happy. I dont want to do them. The people n my life I care about the most undoubtedly feel uncared for. Idk y it affects me like this. Maybe its because I tried to find common ground with those people but found myself n a stalemate with them. Ive tried to conversate the negativity away with love and understanding of eachother. It's hard when the person shows me that they understand me but then their actions clearly contradict that "understanding". I wish I could help because I know how hate can b such a burden. I know how that feels. I can feel it too

[@Infidelitycoaching]

It’s only a stage. A mere passing period in your life. It will eventually subside. However with this time you have a BIG choice to make. What will you do as a result of this situation in your life? Take advantage. Use this as motivation to get you to the next level. You have many choices. Make the right ones.

[@spookydeadite]

For the past two days , I heard my coworkers whispering sh*t about me , every time I walk in for lunch they're all quiet as a mouse they think I won't notice or know but I know . I always thought of them differently but I guess not anymore , yeah it hurt for a while because it's not the first time it has happened ( not with them but with different co workers) they used to talk to me , help me ( I work with special ed children so sometimes a child can be having a difficult time and the extra help does help) but not anymore ( not that I care but sometimes it's hard to manage 8 kids by myself when they got like four people helping them) anyways yeah I know they been gossiping about me ... just yesterday when I walked in they weren't quiet but the day before they got so damn quiet and they knew i know .. so yeah yesterday I didn't sit with them , didn't make an convo with them just ate , did my job and fk it.. they will now know the real me by giving them the silent treatment and just do my job. I know what kind of person I am and in the end I am not them ,acting like a bunch of high schoolers. Can you believe grown ass women acting like that ? I know they get jealous because teachers speak nice of me etc... they can't bring down my happiness

[@mstwelvedeadlycyns]

Facts and I love this post. I experience the same sh** at my job too. It's a damn shame but after reading your post and taking in these video points I can finally breath and use a plan of action. Like he said and in the book 48 Laws if Power, your opponents all have weaknesses. They are good at hiring it until you disarm them by killing it with kindness and being unbothered!😉🙃🤣😅😆😂🥰

[@genaro_cima]

Thanks for the video, really helps! I have brothers talking behind my back and then when i see them they dont they say anything, and this bothers me and affects the relationship and conversations, how can i deal with this in the best posible way?, thank you.

[@dxrob2231]

Respect

[@Infidelitycoaching]

D3 .R Much appreciated 🙏🏽

[@lauren4610]

I needed to hear this..I’m fact..I typed in the words ..How todeal with people who talk behind my back. It’s really eating at me and it’s .. 😟 family. It’s all because they don’t understand my part and point or except it .but.. I’m going to try to take.. the high road and just know.. it’s just that they can’t see my view. Thank you so much.

[@tapaauisala3777]

This I feel right now but it true

[@Infidelitycoaching]

I know right?!

[@kennypeter9810]

Thanks for this video..

[@Infidelitycoaching]

You’re always welcome. Let me know if you need anymore help.

[@alphaxardndaro9910]

This has helping me.

[@Infidelitycoaching]

I’m so glad!

[@kyky409]

Thank you!

[@Infidelitycoaching]

Kylie Jensen Very welcome

[@mahamahdy9972]

Good talk I heared that alot.but dont care and move on thanks

[@Infidelitycoaching]

Definitely agree

[@fardeen8251]

You are the best,bro

[@Infidelitycoaching]

The Tech_World Likewise brother

[@fardeen8251]

@@Infidelitycoaching 😁

[@Infidelitycoaching]

The Tech_World 🙏🏽

[@meme-pb3ew]

Great video

[@Infidelitycoaching]

me me Thank you 🙏🏽

[@tacykkk8425]

Thanks a lot

[@Infidelitycoaching]

Always!

[@tacykkk8425]

@@Infidelitycoaching there's still something I need help with

[@Infidelitycoaching]

Do you have WhatsApp? We can schedule a call. Send me an email or find me on Instagram @michael_j_fit100 and DM me. I got you!!!

[@tacykkk8425]

I do hv WhatsApp

[@Infidelitycoaching]

I sent you an email. Find me on WhatsApp. [phone]

[@angellameanix5380]

Thanks ❤️

[@Infidelitycoaching]

Angella Meanix Anytime 💯

[@Overtonl1234]

I’m going out on a limb here and say yes, they are. This is something I’ve dealt with for a very long time. It’s something you just know. The problem is when they’re saying things that could potentially put you in harms way. This would constitute slander because there is nothing to back it up. I just hope karma bites these people in the ass and hopefully I’ll be there to see it. No, it doesn’t matter what they say, it never has. These are people with major problems that want you to share in their misery but as I said, most things are malicious and it’s beyond just brushing it off now.

[@parulgupta9987]

I am facing negative shits about me everytime and it feels so bad . Now I face trust issues

[@dannyrios865]

Awsome

[@Infidelitycoaching]

Danny Rios Give thanks 🙏🏽

[@christopherziglar6170]

thank you

[@Infidelitycoaching]

Christopher Ziglar, anytime bud 💯

[@therryandpaol3430]

I believe so I’m on day 43 and one of my friends are starting to pick on me because of the way I dress out of no where don’t know why.💫💫💫💯💯💯💯

[@Infidelitycoaching]

That’s right! You have that X factor as well. When you are positively charged and happy, EVERYONE is attracted to you! 🙏🏽❤️💥

[@patriotking5991]

I've always been the kid in school always get talked about by everyone and I just wonder one question why

[@Infidelitycoaching]

A few possible reasons but they may see something in you they feel threatened by or reminded of. Another is they wish they could be like you. The reasons may surprise you.

[@patriotking5991]

@@Infidelitycoaching most of the time if it's people that's my size sometimes but every time when I walk up to people like that they feel a certain way about me sometimes they feel scared or shy or how I say it better I guess size up on me or something basically competition and other times I just get talked about for no reason without doing anything to the other person and sometimes my friends talk to me a certain way and then talk to the other person a better way and I'm 15 and one thing I always tell myself I refuse to quit being nice even though at this point I don't really care about other people's opinions anymore

[@Infidelitycoaching]

@@patriotking5991 Right on my brother. Always do what you feel is right.

[@beautifulbeautifulangel1658]

Amen 🙏

[@ericobispo2761]

I live with my parents and they don't communicate with me very well they like to judge me and put me down I wish I can live on my own again I don't do well being around family that put me down I get really irritated and I feel like just leaving and not telling anyone where I'm going and just disappear and never come back even if I'm broke or hungry I feel like doing bad to survive

[@Infidelitycoaching]

Try to protect yourself as much as you can. Do not allow people the opportunity to do these things to you. Your perception of yourself is only created by you. Things will get better, stay focused my friend.

[@scarpultunnell]

Bring the red shirt back!!😁😂👍👍

[@Infidelitycoaching]

Scarlets Life Definitely 😎

[@bettywillbrowse]

If it's my partner who started it..??? And feels bad, but unwilling to talk to fix it by telling the real story...which is he was drinking too much for months and delusional... he knows it at home but let everyone else (his friends and family ) still think it...And then they talk to him about me with that view of me and confuse him now.. ... am I meant to leave him? Or meant to find a way to be ok with it.?? I wouldn't care what they thought if I knew he knew me and saw me as good, but he started this , so I'm unsure...

[@bartakin]

They are still the same B?S and you leave them in the dust smiling)))

[@Infidelitycoaching]

bartakin And never look back💥🔥💯

[@peachautumnlewis8424]

What about... when the people are talking about u n you live with them ( like roommates) it’s so hard for me

[@Infidelitycoaching]

If I were you I’d spend as much time away from them as possible. Be out living your best life and when you come home keep the conversations short and work on a plan of moving out. The people you are around most you are forced to be on their frequency especially when you interact with them.

[@peachautumnlewis8424]

@@Infidelitycoaching so true and I’m already on that moving situation. But nah ion talk to them. At all but thank you 🙏

[@Infidelitycoaching]

@@peachautumnlewis8424 Anytime.

[@rijklagerwey10]

i get treated normal but not they tread there friends, i have the feeling nobody likes me

[@rijklagerwey10]

micheal could you pls respond

[@048_silmynurinsabrina8]

can i ask something?? what if i have to meet them in the same class every day?? what should i do, imposible to ignore what they talking about me,,

[@Infidelitycoaching]

1st, realize its only temporary, won’t last much longer. 2nd, know you have a choice to use this to build your mental toughness. No one hurts your feelings unless you ALLOW THEM TO.

[@048_silmynurinsabrina8]

thanks,,, that make me feel much better now

[@olonzoammonsjr7042]

❤❤❤

[@mstwelvedeadlycyns]

@Michael J fit They see within themselves? How so? Why forgive them?

[@Infidelitycoaching]

Because they recognize because it’s in them. To not forgive them is to not allow yourself the beauty in forgiveness.

[@princejayb219]

That's cool bt if they still insisting what should you do

[@Infidelitycoaching]

Distance yourself as much as possible. Stay focused on doing you but for the life of you don not react to them. They will find something else to do eventually. Ride it out 🙏🏽 you got this.

[@Introvert_Rider]

Always talking about my. Im an introvert, quite.. so i dont "fit in" by "normal" people.. but i dont care. Im doing the right stuff on the right moment, im happy, im social but i really dont care if someone bragged about oh ive slept awful tonight n blablabla.. not valuable to me and others they will understand, i love interestig and funny moments people remember the rest i leave behind to reach my goals

[@Infidelitycoaching]

Yes 🙌🏽 enjoy this world despite any and everyone else.

[@raychavez6624]

I feel suicidal all the time I'm not even a depressing person. I love life I love God but where I live people are so cruel. Help please

[@Infidelitycoaching]

Contact me ASAP [e-mail] I’d love to help.

[@mstwelvedeadlycyns]

@@Infidelitycoaching God speed

[@parasmanirai5092]

my cousin Brother is taking at my back and saying i am watching bad videos to others which i am not doing at all

[@Infidelitycoaching]

Parasmani Rai pay it now worries brother, keep doing your thing and let nothing stop you💯

[@ducko697]

I ignore it ,but what if they start talking about your kids.

[@Infidelitycoaching]

Remember that no matter what people say to you about them doesn’t affect them. As a father if someone were saying something directly to my kids, I would step in. Say what’s necessary in the moment but don’t let it affect you beyond that.

[@fireflymary9269]

Broken trust

[@Infidelitycoaching]

❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

[@mamy22ka]

❤

[@Infidelitycoaching]

💪🏽😊💪🏽

[@markh4926]

I think it's because of jealousy. I haven't done anything wrong except I did turn one girl down for sex, but I'd completely forgotten about that but she didn''t. She's been ripping me, calling me a thief and telling people stuff which comes back to me. Final straw was being attacked at an AA meeting because a pretty girl, new to the program, sat next to me and I made her laugh. Some people may have things against me but I don't gossip. I do relate crazy stories about some unnamed goof trying to move onto my property. They hate it when I say no.

[@dev.2079]

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[@Infidelitycoaching]

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[@heatherbryson-langley3988]

what if it's your own family? And the hatred has spread to their children?

[@Infidelitycoaching]

Any developments since then?

[@dev.2079]

,it's up to u

[@Infidelitycoaching]

🙌🏽

[@x_jaylen_x9610]

i fucking attccak

[@donniewoodson888]

Ex wife slandered me all my community and then she moved. People still believe what she said.

[@Infidelitycoaching]

What other people think or say about you has no benefit for you or your life. The more they talk about you only shows how little they have going on in their life. Forgive and live your life exactly how you want to. Choose your path and simply walk it brother.

[@MrsNitzy-lp8sv]

Thank you, I really need it this today.

[@dannyrios865]

Awsome