You don't know how important learning basic psychology is until you get to deal with a lot of people. Thankyou practical psychology.
@teebone88333 жыл бұрын
1. Demand 2. Resistance 3. Pressure- fear , obligation, guilt (afraid to defy them ) 4. Threat 5.compliance 6. Repetitions- do cycle again
@solomonasine3 жыл бұрын
The worst kind of guilt is when you accept an undeserved guilt.
@adecakasio64823 жыл бұрын
haha is this about politics again? i guess ... :]
@solomonasine3 жыл бұрын
@@adecakasio6482 No, it's not.
@adecakasio64823 жыл бұрын
@@solomonasine thought so because politics is brimming over with people being put into "but that's just how you people are" boxes.
@solomonasine3 жыл бұрын
@@adecakasio6482 True!
@adecakasio64823 жыл бұрын
@@LowdownBoy refreshing! I see my comrad there is coming from the same background as I am ^^. Have fun cleaning! :D
@ojxolape3 жыл бұрын
Emotional blackmail is SO real, even at work!
@sacdaabdurhman3 жыл бұрын
“If people are doubting how far you can go, go so far that you can’t hear them anymore.” Anything is possible
@SkillaWillits3 жыл бұрын
But what if the person they’re hanging out with is a bad influence and causing problems in the relationship, is an ultimatum still emotional blackmail? What if I’m the blackmailer, but didn’t realize it... but I feel like she has left me no choice... I answered yes to a couple of the questions, but from the other side of the coin. 😔
@Fremdscham-uu3xv3 жыл бұрын
Someone blackmailed me with suicide. Worst experience ever.
@peyir16823 жыл бұрын
Same
@wltrvs9 ай бұрын
Same
@Iamjustagurl_03 жыл бұрын
Just visited after ending that cycle, thanks it helps me understand this more, love to ur channel, pls make more of such videos
@jonnerspeters80343 жыл бұрын
Could you please do a video focusing on toxic friends and family I feel there's a lot of "best friend" and toxic family situations that didn't make the video
@privateequityguy3 жыл бұрын
9 Simple Self Improvement Principles 1. Drink more water 2. Eat whole foods 3. Practice daily gratitude 4. Pick up a book 5. Listen to a TED Talk 6. Forgive someone 7. Join a group of supportive individuals 8. STOP nailbiting/nailpicking habit for good 9. Congratulate yourself for this growth For those who are in the rush of changing their lives :-)
@Medietos2 жыл бұрын
If you can stop nail-biting on just the decision/wish to do so, you don't really have a problem with it. it is the expression of deeper health problems, a symptom, not just a bad habit. Your list is good, but what when people don't like and want you anyway? (all except 8)
@sylviawang61833 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this information!
@jackinthebox61432 жыл бұрын
Personally, I wouldn't bother having an empathic discussion and exposing how you feel as a result of that blackmailer's behaviour. You're only giving them more info on how their tactics are working. Once you know they're a blackmailer hopefully you've cut them out of your life by that point. This type of person never changes. Most people are like this so be prepared for a lonely life!
@Kin-fn1sw6 ай бұрын
That is so cool! Thanks 😊 ❤
@dreamydailine3 жыл бұрын
Stage 3 feels like you'd be also experiencing things that are more subtle. They would simply insert the slight feeling of judgment instead of something that direct. Usually has the energy of "It's nice, but..."
@BrokenSofa3 жыл бұрын
Whenever I hear that guilt pressure I throw up the walls. It's so obviously selfish behaviour that you should immediately punish it.
@Kr99gc3 жыл бұрын
I have a question; do the person who is executing the emotional blackmail aware of doing so, or is it most common for the person doing it to be unaware of their actions. Thank you for making these awsome videos!
@ghosthusler3 жыл бұрын
Both. But probably more unaware on a deeper level because of their insecurity. And I can garantee you that if u you tell them, they will deny it
@peyir16823 жыл бұрын
@@ghosthusler true
@julietten5614 Жыл бұрын
Yes, they are aware. They just don't bother.
@SoldWithSearch6 ай бұрын
@@ghosthusler I called someone out recently and she denied it vehemently, and even tried to make me feel guilty for knowing the meaning of emotional blackmail before calling her via text message.
@flor38012 жыл бұрын
A great self-reflecting video💛
@m_m7863 жыл бұрын
Great 👍🩺❤️
@Kavya_691433 жыл бұрын
Wow I love this channel
@thelimitlesslife46093 жыл бұрын
I wonder why the views diminished in your KZbin channel, I believe that the content you make now, and the subjects that you cover are far more interesting than before, but yet the views are lower, this is unfortunate :/
@catalystcomet Жыл бұрын
I'm going to say it now because I'll probably forget by the end, and so I'm sorry if I'm repeating what you already say, but it's important for people to know that so often this is done unintentionally. I know because I've done it. We've all done it if we look hard enough. I'm not talking about the obvious cases of people who are clearly douchebags, but if you think about it, you've done this and you didn't mean to. So, trying to point it out to somebody can be really helpful, and like me, they might be really grateful that you did.
@einasalghamdi5360 Жыл бұрын
Wonderful
@createyourself88253 жыл бұрын
Could u suggest me better in handling emotional blackmail if tomorrow my son does it me. What should a father react
@ComfyNami3 жыл бұрын
isn't it just gaslighting
@OfftoShambala2 жыл бұрын
This is correct.
@hehehiyeyo2 жыл бұрын
For practicing phychology you have to become an extrovert and try to socialize with more people to experience these...😵
@skybluskyblueify3 жыл бұрын
Other threats:Threats to harm or kidnap pets.
@miqueiasmoreira39272 жыл бұрын
Hello, how can we close a partnership with you, having the same channel here in Brazil?
@jaymahhope8 ай бұрын
thankyou
@LowdownBoy3 жыл бұрын
Right on cue!
@compz12632 жыл бұрын
I find it hard to take him in because his delivery sounds to quirky and has no depth of field.
@BrokenSofa3 жыл бұрын
Thought it was Dr. Susan FOREWORD Get it? Because she's an author..
@successpeoples44623 жыл бұрын
emotional blackmail involves someone trying to get what they want from you. But instead of holding secrets against you, they manipulate you with your emotions
@pongkham1433 жыл бұрын
My parents
@rahilarious3 жыл бұрын
Hey are you same guy who is on whiteboard crypto?
@newdizzy18463 жыл бұрын
Guys I really don't think it's right to talk like this about black males... like I think they're just the same as everyone else, don't be so mean
@scottyscott986211 ай бұрын
😊😊
@ghosthusler3 жыл бұрын
I feel like everyone watching this is gonna use this to make themselves a victim
@SirMorak3 жыл бұрын
Or feels like they are the blackmailer :s
@sumitprasai72773 жыл бұрын
Came from whiteboard crypto 😎
@Levelup05693 жыл бұрын
Bhala hai bura hai jaisa bhi hai...mera pati mera.devta hai😂😂😂😂😂🍗🍗