Pride and Self Love

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TheNotAdam

TheNotAdam

Күн бұрын

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@charlimae2532
@charlimae2532 7 жыл бұрын
I agree with learning to love yourself inside and out. In the last year I have lost 100lbs. I started off with Diet and have now added exercise. I feel so much better over all both physically and mentally.
@TheNotAdam
@TheNotAdam 7 жыл бұрын
WOW that's awesome! Congratulations on such an amazing transofrmation!
@saybecks
@saybecks 7 жыл бұрын
You need to do an update video on your tattoos! They're freaking beautiful
@TheNotAdam
@TheNotAdam 7 жыл бұрын
I keep getting new ones though, that's the problem! Lol
@VelvetLuca
@VelvetLuca 7 жыл бұрын
I needed this so badly. I've been struggling with my body image for so long now. I've always hated looking in the mirror and seeing how skinny and weak I am. I'm 24 and it's still a daily challenge for me. Messes with your head when you have poor self image. It's been extremely hard building muscle mass but I'm starting to see results from my workouts finally. Results coupled with my husband just loving who I already am has been a big help. Loving myself has been my top priority this year.
@Deandre1b
@Deandre1b 7 жыл бұрын
I have been dealing with the same issue for a while. It's truly an unhealthy mentality, but I hope you can conquer it. You are not alone, so let's get through it together!
@Tom-cp3ef
@Tom-cp3ef 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for being strong and caring enough to share your stories with us. You both are always such an inspiration! It sounds silly but it helps to know two such beautiful people (inside and out) still experience self-doubt. I have busted my ass to lose 40lbs in the last 3 months to prep for bariatric surgery; which I will be undergoing in about a month. It has not been easy and will continue to be a struggle but when I am feeling down I often come to your videos. It is like sitting down with two good friends and just being able to relax without judgement. Sorry this is so long winded but I thought it was important to say.... even when you might lack pride in yourself, me and thousands of others, are so very proud of you.
@julesnewengland5181
@julesnewengland5181 7 жыл бұрын
I love my big fat body. I have lost 50 lbs and still going. hit and plateau but I'll work through it. thanks for the video
@CrazzyCandyLovers
@CrazzyCandyLovers 7 жыл бұрын
"PRIDE isin't about pushing your identity into people's faces, but it's about rejecting shame and loving what you see when you look in the mirror." 🌈🌈🌈💕 I love this so much, thank you Adam!
@TheNotAdam
@TheNotAdam 7 жыл бұрын
+VeryCreativeName You're welcome! Who's Adam??? Lol
@jalpro7997
@jalpro7997 4 жыл бұрын
Its your consciousness telling you no.
@andrea_1955
@andrea_1955 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheNotAdam you are wonderful 👍👍❤️❤️🔥
@tazdeville55
@tazdeville55 7 жыл бұрын
Notice that Dobbi love his body too! Always on camera. 🙌
@TheNotAdam
@TheNotAdam 7 жыл бұрын
Lol this is very true!
@stephenm7143
@stephenm7143 7 жыл бұрын
Ринат Хамиров ew homophobic comments disgusting.
@dillonholloway496
@dillonholloway496 7 жыл бұрын
I love the part of my body that no one can see and that is my brain. Without it I would not have had the courage to stand up in front of my parents and come out to them as bisexual with my boyfriend by my side.
@TheNotAdam
@TheNotAdam 7 жыл бұрын
Hear hear! Congratulations!
@dillonholloway496
@dillonholloway496 7 жыл бұрын
TheNotAdam thank you RJ, and your amazing husband. Both of y'all helped me, especially since I live in Texas which is southern Baptist central in our royal fucked nation
@williamshinn1319
@williamshinn1319 7 жыл бұрын
Dillon Holloway PREACH🙌
@PeppermintSpice420
@PeppermintSpice420 7 жыл бұрын
as an entity that sexually identifies as an stillbirth cow fetus this video really helped me love myself and come to know and accept what i am on the inside, now if only i could find a farm animal veterinarian that is willing to dose me with enough Ketamine to knock me out for 10 hours and place me inside the belly of a pregnant cow, so i can be birthed out long after ive suffocated inside the womb of a cow. if anyone knows of such a service im willing to pay upwards of 250,000 USD contact me at peppermint.kush@gmail.com
@caviersim3806
@caviersim3806 7 жыл бұрын
regrh ergerg why do u think commenting sarcasm and subjects and themes that obviously offends the people at present makes u more happier and fulfilled in life?
@bradkeanu1
@bradkeanu1 7 жыл бұрын
I'm a 58 year old guy with Cerebral Palsey. While it has not stopped me from teaching for 37 years, it has caused me to not have the body I desire. I'm working on it. Have lost 25 lbs since January. RJ thank you and Will for being my voice maybe not on all things political but on many things LGBT 🏳️‍🌈 followed you two for years and love you both❤️
@SandyRief2023
@SandyRief2023 7 жыл бұрын
I love my hands. As an RMT, I spend a lot of time looking at them. I love that I use my hands to help others heal. I see that Dobby was living up to his "be in every video possible" reputation
@ellew1226
@ellew1226 7 жыл бұрын
I love this comment section. It's so full of intelligent and caring people. Keep up the good work, RJ!
@tweetthang96
@tweetthang96 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. Thank you for continually being a really awesome role model and voice for change in the world. And thank you for just being really awesome. I'm still struggling to love myself more days than I would like but I'm doing things to get to a better place. I'm going to therapy, which hearing you and Will talk about really encouraged me to do. I'm working on surrounding myself with people who lift me up instead of tear me down. And I'm working on doing things I really love to do. So thank you for sharing your life with us. It has led to some wonderful things!
@PatrickSilverRose
@PatrickSilverRose 7 жыл бұрын
I've definitely struggled with getting comfortable with my body. It's gotten better over the years, but it's still a struggle to be comfortable and worrying that I look fat/constantly bloated. I think a lot of this will go away once I finally get in shape, just like being comfortable with myself got better once I accepted the fact that was bisexual (in other words, getting in better shape will help out my body positivity, just like getting my mind in the right shape helped me accept myself). PS: Your butt looks so cute here ;)
@tmm35magpie
@tmm35magpie 7 жыл бұрын
Liking this so so hard! I love the message of embracing yourself and loving yourself to be able to love and help others. You both have such beautiful and generous spirits.
@Nitteroony
@Nitteroony 7 жыл бұрын
Has getting tattoos and beautiful art on your body helped you love your body more?
@Erlkonigkid23
@Erlkonigkid23 7 жыл бұрын
It's honestly still a work in progress at 27 and idk if I'll ever be comfortable with my body, but this is an incredibly inspiring and well done video. Thanks so much for sharing this, RJ.
@TheNotAdam
@TheNotAdam 7 жыл бұрын
Hey as long as you're making progress, that's the big thing to focus on!
@shaynashor5171
@shaynashor5171 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video. Every day is a struggle to love my body both inside and out. Many of these feelings coming from being sexually assaulted and bullied as a child. Every day I work hard to keep myself healthy through diet and exercise and I get closer to true self love with every pound I lift. You are an inspiration!
@viku1361
@viku1361 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video! Such an important topic and I love the editing. I myself have kind of made peace with my body now. I don't love it that much but I don't actively dislike it anymore and I often feel very confident in my own skin nowadays. Falling in love with people and/or being together with them physically has been really liberating for me - experiencing that I can love and care for someone else and both find their appearence 100% beautiful regardless of things that are seen as "flaws" (all those little or big things we hate about ourselves), and also in a way just really don't care at all what they look like, has set me free in a way. Because then I can expect that of others, and let go of that fear of other's judgement. And I can start looking at my own body in the same forgiving, loving way that I can look at others.
@gazpen1978
@gazpen1978 7 жыл бұрын
great video and I love that you could tell that will was behind the camera before he even spoke your eyes were so full of love just looking at him
@MichealHannan
@MichealHannan 7 жыл бұрын
RJ and Will make me want to be a better person. Love you both!
@kathicip
@kathicip 7 жыл бұрын
Terrific video. Love the message....and seeing RJ in meundies isn't to shabby either! Love the positivity! !
@lizhang3724
@lizhang3724 7 жыл бұрын
I have to admit that I drooled a little when the bulge jiggled in the beginning of the video
@dalmatianluvr
@dalmatianluvr 7 жыл бұрын
WoW! We got to see a lot more of you (!) than we have in a long time. Very emotive and inspiring! Dobby gets Best Supporting Actor! (So much more than a cameo!). Seriously, you make me a better me, with all your wisdom, encouragement, activism, and love for your guys!
@phoenixarcanalightwood
@phoenixarcanalightwood 7 жыл бұрын
Loving my body has always been a struggle for me. I got bullied a lot and there was a lot of abuse at home in my early teenage years so my self image took quite a hit. It wasnt until really recently that I have been able to look at myself in the mirror and really love the person looking back at me. It took me wanting to end my own life to really appreciate what I have to offer; not just to others but to myself. Pride for me is all about love. Love for every person no matter how different they are from you. You can't fight hate with more hate. We just need to love harder and show people that they are worth being loved
@ajaxbird2348
@ajaxbird2348 7 жыл бұрын
I love hearing people talk lovingly about their spouses. It's adorable and makes my heart happy.
@kaitlynnmoody9129
@kaitlynnmoody9129 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you, you're right loving yourself is not about the destination but the journey. This is my 2nd pride month of being out to myself, but the 1st of being out as bisexual to my family. I have come a long way from hating everything about myself to accepting and defending myself, even when it's hard I try to love myself. Thank you for speaking so openly and honestly.
@Super_Mario128
@Super_Mario128 7 жыл бұрын
just loving the body you are in, nobody is born perfect, there is no such thing as the perfect body. always love and live life to it's fullest potential. Happy Pride Month🏳️‍🌈
@Super_Mario128
@Super_Mario128 7 жыл бұрын
at the same time is the LBGTI+ a shallow community as well? do we only want to date and marry people who look attractive? I'm someone who was not blessed with being attractive, it's possibly the main reason why I've never had a date or a boyfriend.
@ashleedawn456
@ashleedawn456 7 жыл бұрын
Wow, amazing video! I can see myself rewatching this in the future. It has such an amazing message. I haven't been feeling great about myself lately and it really helps to see inspiration from RJ loving himself and being comfortable in his own skin. Thank you. 💜😊
@lugnut4848
@lugnut4848 7 жыл бұрын
You are beautiful RJ!!! Love the shots of you and Dooby!!! Love you both you are so inspirational!!!
@howudoin135
@howudoin135 7 жыл бұрын
RJ you are sincerely one of the most attractive and gorgeous people (inside and out) I've ever seen. Same goes for your beautiful husband Will! The both of you have helped me and inspired me more than you'll ever know! I love you both!
@aubreyh8308
@aubreyh8308 7 жыл бұрын
i just turned the notifications on for this channel and i'm mad at myself for not having them on sooner.
@DragonLightz
@DragonLightz 7 жыл бұрын
As a young dragon, my Mom would say, "You're so skinny! Eat more." But I didn't want to eat humans. So I ate cows, sheep, chicken, but still I was skinny. Later in life when an evil sorcerer imprisoned me in a human body, guess what? He trapped me in a skinny body! Well, by then I had enough so I went to the gym. Sadly, I remained skinny. I realised then my body is merely a container of my true self, that my limited time here would be wasted in the self cosmetic rather than changing the world for the better. I AM WHAT I AM.
@ZackFacts
@ZackFacts 7 жыл бұрын
RJ. I've watched you and Will's channels on and off for over two years now. I know the chances of you reading this are slim, but I appreciate you guys so much. I have a youtube channel that I started years ago to document my coming out process and I'm coming back to it as an adult to figure out where I stand in the LGBT world that is today's political spectrum. I have dealt with a lot of body issues, including the self body shaming process I"m going through currently, and I want to thank you for your videos. Even though I'm in a bad place right now, I know I've been in better places and I want to get back to there for myself and my viewers. Thank you for being amazing and I appreciate your support. I know you're super busy, but if you ever happen to have the time to talk personally I'd love to hear from you. Otherwise, thank you and Will for all you're doing and I look forward to your next videos! Thanks RJ! Zack
@TheNotAdam
@TheNotAdam 7 жыл бұрын
+ZackFacts Im so glad to hear that I've helped provide some inspiration! It can be a tough journey, sometimes, and I'm just glad I've been able to provide the same kind of boost that others have given me! ❤️
@vanshajgandhi6845
@vanshajgandhi6845 7 жыл бұрын
I can feel the positive vibes, Happiest Pride Month 💜🏳️‍🌈 I just love the way, you love your hubby
@cestlavie3331
@cestlavie3331 7 жыл бұрын
Beautiful video RJ. It made me happy just to see you smiling so much! You have been one of the people that have helped me become braver and more accepting of myself. I have been able to come out to some of my friends because of you, something I thought I wouldn't be able to do. Hopefully one day I will be confident enough to tell my family. I also just ordered my pair of meundies and am excited to celebrate Pride month.
@AshlynVids
@AshlynVids 7 жыл бұрын
I love my mind and my ability to connect with different people, and I love how I am always questioning the motives behind life. There was a period of time where I hated every aspect about myself and right now I need to get back to loving the way I function internally before I can appreciate myself physically. I will say, though, I have always loved my eyes because they prove to me how inherently kind my soul is; battered and exhausted, but kind.
@gabiwasabi2249
@gabiwasabi2249 7 жыл бұрын
Even though Will and RJ have been married for a while I squealed when RJ said "my husband"
@caseyflorida
@caseyflorida 7 жыл бұрын
Good lord, this video nearly melted my computer screen! ;-) Thanks RJ!
@BLBestie
@BLBestie 7 жыл бұрын
omg you have no idea how much I needed this video right now!! I still have quite a journey ahead of me but for every destination there has to be a starting point. This is my starting point. Thank you so much RJ and HAPPY PRIDE MONTH! ❤💚💜💙💛
@Kenyamoneheart
@Kenyamoneheart 7 жыл бұрын
To bo completely 100% honesty both you and Will are like one of the most influential couple on youtube. Both of you create such amazing video content and I love every bit of it. Thank you so much, both of you......and the puppy.
@TheGayGuyde
@TheGayGuyde 7 жыл бұрын
Beautiful video from a gorgeous man, inside and out :-) Thanks so much for spreading such a great message through your personal story RJ! This is going to help a lot of people.
@were-all-human9427
@were-all-human9427 7 жыл бұрын
Totally agree, sorry, just found your channel RJ, binge watching tonight.... great fun / informative / and educational in matters of ... well many subjects!! - watching you makes me smile / thurst / other ! - thank you mate - great channel - I'm hooked
@VincentGonz
@VincentGonz 7 жыл бұрын
RJ & Will, I know that you may never come to read this but I wanted to take a moment to publicly thank you both. As a 23 year old Hispanic male that was raised in one of the tougher places in NYC where every man must be "Macho" I have always suffered from not being myself. Raised a Catholic I was taught since a young age that attraction toward the same sex was sin and that it was a sign of a mental disability but no matter how much I tried I continuously found myself attracted to both Males and Females (albeit not evenly). I hated myself for having these emotions. Combine this with the constant fear of being physically & emotionally attacked forced me to suppress my bi sexual emotions. I've always wanted to tell my mother about these emotions but I always chickened out. I struggled to find Bisexual Men role models but they were non-existent. I felt alone- It was only after I started watching these videos and after I met my my girlfriend that I realized that I'm not alone. My girlfriend made me realize that there's nothing wrong with me and that I am who I am. RJ made me realize that there are guys out there JUST LIKE ME that EXIST and that we are not alone. I know I'm ranting here but I guess what I'm trying to say is thank you. Thank You so freaking much for all the people that you are helping right now. Thank you Will for encouraging and supporting RJ though all this content and thank you RJ for havimg the balls to make it. Thank You RJ & Will. P.S. I almost forgot to mention that I finally had the courage to tell my mother about everything and she's fine.
@kimikhaos
@kimikhaos 7 жыл бұрын
I love the message, I love the cause, and I love that creators like yourself use your platform to be part of campaigns like this. I love my body by dressing well and taking care of myself. My favorite feature is my big anime eyes 👀 On another note, please do a video about all of your tattoos, they're beautiful 😍
@TheNotAdam
@TheNotAdam 7 жыл бұрын
Yes, dressing well is a great way to feel yourself! And also, since I keep getting new ones, I wanna wait til I at least slow down before making that video lol
@SerafiniAGaunt
@SerafiniAGaunt 7 жыл бұрын
Hey! :) Do you and Will still check your PO boxes as often or do a mail vlog? I'd like to send you something sometime in the future ^-^
@cim1158
@cim1158 7 жыл бұрын
I really like the glasses on you.........................
@aubreyh8308
@aubreyh8308 7 жыл бұрын
he looks good in anything i swear
@just_sum_punk
@just_sum_punk 7 жыл бұрын
Will: RJ, JUST BE CUTE. RJ: STOP BEING CUTE I CAN'T STOP SMILING. I'm just imagining the behind the scenes reel being so adorable like their wedding. ♥
@kimbellepossabllee1634
@kimbellepossabllee1634 3 жыл бұрын
Seem he took self love a little to much. Cheaters rot in hell
@lokiz0072
@lokiz0072 6 жыл бұрын
When you see this video after all the breakup. Glad you’re living your real pride now.
@MeganMusicMonster
@MeganMusicMonster 7 жыл бұрын
This video is so important 💕 Thank you for encouraging pride and positivity and offering some great advice
@TheNotAdam
@TheNotAdam 7 жыл бұрын
My pleasure glad you liked it!
@PeppermintSpice420
@PeppermintSpice420 7 жыл бұрын
i couldnt agree more. as an entity that sexually identifies as an stillbirth cow fetus this video really helped me love myself and come to know and accept what i am on the inside, now if only i could find a farm animal veterinarian that is willing to dose me with enough Ketamine to knock me out for 10 hours and place me inside the belly of a pregnant cow, so i can be birthed out long after ive suffocated inside the womb of a cow. if anyone knows of such a service im willing to pay upwards of 250,000 USD contact me at peppermint.kush@gmail.com
@SARTHAK_SINGH95
@SARTHAK_SINGH95 7 жыл бұрын
I watched your video and read your introduction box too.Whatever you had written is absolutely true.Well said!All the very best for your future endeavours. I hope India does the same in liberty.Your message was well conveyed.Kudos to your husband for filming things in such an orderly manner. Kudos to you too.
@andiehernandez1995
@andiehernandez1995 7 жыл бұрын
Beautiful video! I struggle a lot with loving my body mostly because of dysphoria but also because I'm skinny. However I'm working with being body positive and those lovely things. Love you RJ
@taylorb1329
@taylorb1329 7 жыл бұрын
Crying because I needed this....thank you from the bottom of my heart
@eppicNESSSS
@eppicNESSSS 7 жыл бұрын
I feel like if you turned a German shepherd into a person it'd look like Rj .
@TheNotAdam
@TheNotAdam 7 жыл бұрын
Ummm...thanks? Lol
@eppicNESSSS
@eppicNESSSS 7 жыл бұрын
TheNotAdam you're welcome. It's a habit I have of matching people to dogs.
@carmenp.c.r.4183
@carmenp.c.r.4183 7 жыл бұрын
As always you inspire me to be stronger, thank you and to will also if only 20 years ago this message would be across the world life would be better,send you and will all my love
@TheNotAdam
@TheNotAdam 7 жыл бұрын
You guys inspire me so it's a fair trade
@lydia6874
@lydia6874 7 жыл бұрын
I hate that there isn't a "THIS IS REALLY IMPORTANT AND I ADORE THIS VIDEO" button. Great and very inspiring video as always! ♥
@jessegeluz1072
@jessegeluz1072 7 жыл бұрын
I am so happy that you see yourself this way RJ. You and Will are amazing, love you guys!!! #AndTheDobbs
@OLDS98
@OLDS98 7 жыл бұрын
It is is indeed a process. We all have to learn to be comfortable with ourselves RJ. It is about self acceptance. It is about mental wellness and well being. We have to learn to live ourselves and accept ourselves. Everyday we as individuals look in the mirror and make a choice. I think that is a great cause also you are supporting also.
@songbird989
@songbird989 7 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this absolutely fabulous video! Being physically handicapped myself, every day is a constant physical and mental struggle. BTW, nice choice of underwear! :)
@TheNotAdam
@TheNotAdam 7 жыл бұрын
+songbird989 Well I'm so glad this was able to give a little inspiration 😊❤️
@JohnSalib
@JohnSalib 7 жыл бұрын
This is a really great video that hits home. Thanks for sharing RJ :)
@amandaberesford9114
@amandaberesford9114 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you RJ, I will definitely be adding this to my feel good playlist. I rank this with the Dear Younger RJ video for having a large impact.
@evanchesney6066
@evanchesney6066 7 жыл бұрын
So I just found your channel, and I'm at a loss for words. I am a bi male and have yet to find any other bisexual people to look up to and be able to learn more from and have a role model. I've always been told that I'm not really bi, but I'm just gay and can't tell myself the truth, etc. i am the only one who validates me. Of course I love myself and proud of who I am, but having no one else who understands is taxing and your videos have helped relieve that. So thank you, I guess.
@ronaldjohnson9720
@ronaldjohnson9720 7 жыл бұрын
Very positive. I enjoyed that very much. Not always easy even just getting older can make you have negative thoughts. Staying positive here and being grateful. I love my long legs and my calves are killer. Thanks for the message.
@carlosfajardo1130
@carlosfajardo1130 7 жыл бұрын
The part of my body I love the most is my face. It's the only part that actually looks feminine and makes my dysphoria go running up the hills. Thank you RJ for the amazing video. I needed this! 💖 💜
@belizeguy
@belizeguy 7 жыл бұрын
Wonderful video Gentlemen. Thank you. I hope many people that need help with Body Positivity will see this and use it in their lives. You certainly have come a long way. For me, your most stunning feature(s) are your eyes. I can see Will getting lost in those. So glad you have each other and your wonderful lives together. Be Well!
@TheNotAdam
@TheNotAdam 7 жыл бұрын
+belizeguy You too! Thanks for such a lovely compliment! 😊
@darveaujp
@darveaujp 7 жыл бұрын
It was hard to pay attention to the message.... I used to feel the same way about my body for a long time. Now that I am 30, I've never felt better in my body and I love it. You are right.... it is a process!
@emilygrace1235
@emilygrace1235 7 жыл бұрын
This video is so important! I love you
@TheNotAdam
@TheNotAdam 7 жыл бұрын
Love you!
@emilygrace1235
@emilygrace1235 7 жыл бұрын
OMG!!!!
@janellstafford2831
@janellstafford2831 7 жыл бұрын
I would write something wordy but it would be fluffy. Thank you for making this video.
@TheNotAdam
@TheNotAdam 7 жыл бұрын
Who cares?? Be fluffy! But you're welcome regardless :)))
@MidnightEkaki
@MidnightEkaki 7 жыл бұрын
Great video. Hearing about your experience is so inspiring :) I have a lot of insecurities about my body, although there are some things I like I also have a lot of problems and theyre not things I can really fix so its hard to be positive. But I try to look at the things I like and working on improving as much as I can. And you're so right about owning your happiness. I am better off than a lot of people who are still happy in their own lives, its about loving yourself and accepting not everything will be perfect and being ok with that. Also I like what you said about how other peoples opinions don't really matter, its yours. I need to somehow engrave that into my mind.
@MatthewWilder1
@MatthewWilder1 7 жыл бұрын
I love the things you do for our community!! ❤️💛💜💚💙
@JungkookxSim
@JungkookxSim 7 жыл бұрын
Loved the message of this video, well said RJ!💙
@PaulaKiger
@PaulaKiger 7 жыл бұрын
I love this, RJ and Will. Body image problems are such a challenge. It was easy for me to be cavalier over the last few years -- running helped me physically and mentally. When a medical situation caused the running to go away, it became very hard to reconcile a body (and spirit) that were not getting their way. But being angry at our bodies and circumstances is counterproductive. Thank you for an important reminder. I hope this campaign raises lots of funds for the LA LGBT Center.
@TheNotAdam
@TheNotAdam 7 жыл бұрын
+Paula Kiger You're so right. The body we have is the only one we've got, so we might as well love it!
@jhyjfan
@jhyjfan 7 жыл бұрын
I'm slowly starting to love myself more and more. It's a bit hard at times, but I'm getting there.
@conortea
@conortea 7 жыл бұрын
Loving your hair, tats and inspiration!
@TheNotAdam
@TheNotAdam 7 жыл бұрын
Aw thank you! :))
@TheCraniifer
@TheCraniifer 4 жыл бұрын
Sometimes when I go to bed, I can't help but feel awful for some reason. Like I have nothing to look forward to tomorrow because my job sucks and I'm lonely
@vollkornflocke
@vollkornflocke 7 жыл бұрын
A massively important message - Thanks! Forgive me for being a bit cynical, but isn't being single and not happy with your body quite the vicious circle then...? But when I'm not that frustrated and mad at myself (I didn't expect miracles since I still have bad eating habits and should do more, but working hard by your standards and GAINING weight then? MEEEH!) , I'm really proud that I'm an active gym member for 9 month now and started to feel a little bit better. And I'll keep on fighting despite the setbacks!!! P.S.: I like my lips for having exactly the right curve and size in my opinion :-)
@Kas-fd7ug
@Kas-fd7ug 7 жыл бұрын
I'm aiming to be comfortable in my own skin, but it's hard to stay motivated! I'm going to watch this every time I feel like giving up :)
@joejoe5636
@joejoe5636 7 жыл бұрын
Holy crap...super hot guy and smart. Great message RJ, love it!
@jacquelineburkholder6958
@jacquelineburkholder6958 7 жыл бұрын
You have great words for me, RJ. Thanks so much... I'm not out of the closet yet and I'm really struggling to know how to fit into the gay community. It is so so easy to think that my worth is the attractiveness of my body...and I have never believed that I'm attractive. I have a lot to learn about pride and about being who I am... I wish I had friends like you etc to talk with. Most of my friends will drop me when I come out... Again, thanks for the encouraging and lovely video :)
@jlavery1981
@jlavery1981 7 жыл бұрын
I've been wondering what your tat on your upper pectoral regions means. It's beautiful. And thanks for your vids. They helped me be a better parent to my gay trans son! Love you guys!!!
@TheNotAdam
@TheNotAdam 7 жыл бұрын
+Jennifer Avery If you look up "om mani padme hum" it'll give you some background on the mantra. And also you are so incredibly welcome! Glad I can be of assistance!
@THIIIIRSTY
@THIIIIRSTY 7 жыл бұрын
This is very moving. Thanks, and happy pride
@kristenmoore2806
@kristenmoore2806 7 жыл бұрын
This is he most uplifting thing I've seen all day
@Tripper111
@Tripper111 7 жыл бұрын
Good topic and video. Love your Pup too...
@angsectumsempra
@angsectumsempra 7 жыл бұрын
love you rj, you've helped me more than you will ever know.
@hgros2002
@hgros2002 7 жыл бұрын
This is a great video RJ! Beautiful words! Great message.
@TheLeslieMichelle
@TheLeslieMichelle 7 жыл бұрын
I love the skin that I'm in, just as much as I love being Bisexual. I see the haters, and I don't care what they think about me. I'm too busy loving everything about myself.
@were-all-human9427
@were-all-human9427 7 жыл бұрын
Wow - well said - would never have guessed... seriously, I assume many clicked 'cos of your dress choice ;o), and then we saw the real you RJ, loved this. Thank you - and yes, you are beautiful, inside and out. Congrats on your relationship and ongoing happiness together - and I love Wills thinking on kids - stability/finances - no rush, travel first...
@perrydezeeuw96
@perrydezeeuw96 7 жыл бұрын
Idk if anyone really knows but how should i start loving myself because i kinda have some problems with myself and i worry waaay too much what others think about me (also the reason i have come out as gay)
@phoenixheart79
@phoenixheart79 7 жыл бұрын
The last time I was this early for something, I was still pretending to be gay lol Great video! As for my body, I love it far more now than I did three years ago - I have lost about 60lb in weight. I'm still at the top end of my ideal weight window, so I need to drop a little bit more, but I am so much happier than I was and it has given me a lot more confidence in general, but especially in expressing my bisexuality. So much so that I have (inadvertently I should add) become one of the two people working hard to rebuild a bi-community in my local city (Sheffield, UK). There was a small social scene a few years ago, but it fell away when the main motivator moved away. Losing the weight has given me the confidence to stand up and say "hey, lets Do This people!" and with a lot of help from a friend it's happening, slowly but surely.
@loganmclarry
@loganmclarry 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for recording this video, RJ
@dqdequantm2618
@dqdequantm2618 7 жыл бұрын
Amazing video rj🙌🙌
@TheNotAdam
@TheNotAdam 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you! :)))
@jordanpinkston3363
@jordanpinkston3363 5 жыл бұрын
I wish you would keep making videos for us... we don’t have a lot to go back on to change the world, you have a movement in your hands and I wish you’d help all of us out... not that you haven’t, it just needs to happen with a real role model
@cassiej9080
@cassiej9080 7 жыл бұрын
I love that my body is a constant in my life
@NeilSonOfNorbert
@NeilSonOfNorbert 7 жыл бұрын
I don't love my body, there are parts I like and parts I hate, maybe one day it will be worth loving and not hating but shure as hell not now.
@jamiescott5461
@jamiescott5461 7 жыл бұрын
Such a great video and message. I just turned 44, out of a 12 year ltr. Unfortunately I don't like what I see in the mirror 😞
@saraups
@saraups 7 жыл бұрын
I miss dobby and the vlogs this video is so perfect I luv you guys
@leenightingales
@leenightingales 7 жыл бұрын
This was so cool! Simple and so so so important!
@PheonxD
@PheonxD 7 жыл бұрын
You are absolutely gorgeous RJ - outside and inside.
@were-all-human9427
@were-all-human9427 5 жыл бұрын
The Velvet Rage (book) is a wonderful eyeopener for any gay guy, I know RJ has moved on, but I adore him.
@KevOSMusic
@KevOSMusic 7 жыл бұрын
Beautiful mind; beautiful body RJ. I've a hard time considering myself as beautiful. I can't help but notice imperfections & I think to stop these negative thoughts I just repressed thoughts about my self worth & have lost out on seeing both the negative & positive. Also why I'm crap at taking complements. Maybe someday I'll have a guy who'll draw me out of this shell the way Will did for you.
@0NeedHelp
@0NeedHelp 7 жыл бұрын
damn!!!! GO Will!! love you guys :)
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