PROOF: to always trust ur gut

[@strawberriesssssssssss]

Francesco obviously said no to him.

[@mandi4580]

Rejection in ANY form (such as things not working out & aligning) is truly God's protection! 💕

[@hollyhughes5804]

AMEN 🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃

[@kellymallin6093]

THIS!!

[@linaawesomeagent4588]

Truth!!!!!!!🎉

[@NYLI11]

I get that canceling happens here and there but twice back to back. When a guy shows me they’re not reliable in any sort of way it kind of ruins it for me. I can’t handle a flake.

[@kellywatts6227]

Well said and totally feel the same.

[@coreyleed8572]

Hey he’s got things going on. No use getting too attached when the girls dating a couple guys at once. I’d never invest a whole lot of time in that situation

[@bellaeastwood4235]

@@coreyleed8572i agree. why would you be fully available for someone who willing thinks it’s okay to not tell you she’s dating numerous other men and equally doesn’t see you as a priority because of that. the only way he would be a “flake” is if he was someone i was solely considering but in this case she’s a free bird

[@burning_queen7609]

Kaitlin, one of the most attractive things a woman or man can have is boundaries. He doesn't respect yours. Wish him well and move on. There will be somebody that is willing to "show up" for you and someone willing to keep being cancelled on.(that's not you) When you said "I didn't really want to wake up and come into the city early.. THAT sweet lady is your boundary. Listen to it! When you say, " It takes two..That is true, but not when your compromising your boundaries." ❤️ #facts

[@StarseedWarrior22]

He probably saw your videos on Texas dude (whom was VERY mature about you telling him about dating openly)… yes girl, intuition NEVER fails, we fail to listen. Good for you gal!

[@HughMadBro]

Texas man 👏🏻 would 👏🏻 never!

[@bellaeastwood4235]

texas man is equally as uninterested in settling down as she is, that’s the only reason why. she won’t end up with either of them. the only way she will EVER end up with another man is when she’s actually ready to commit. she’s not at that stage and that’s okay. but texas man has his flaws and i don’t feel he’s right for what he said it was SOOO fishy. he ain’t waiting around like he claims.

[@RocoLuv]

If he asks for a 3rd date, then he’s out of his mind. Ruuuude. Doesn’t value people’s time.

[@princess_maya_]

Girl I'm dealing with the same issue- please trust your gut!! I didn't trust mine. Hinge guy from NYC canceled on me twice, I gave him another chance, and four months later he has left me on read for almost a week, shortly after he asked me to be his girlfriend. Trust 👏your 👏 gut👏. Being the "chill" girl has led me to frustration and heartbreak

[@princess_maya_]

Update: he texted me lol

[@MsrDasha]

@@princess_maya_now kinda invested in your story too😂

[@peaceofmindofpeace1650]

​@@MsrDasha yes I want to know what he wrote in his text.😁

[@samanthapsychicmedium]

Being left on "Read" for an entire week is UNACCEPTABLE! ......Period.

[@pippin3168]

He’s breadcrumbing you girl get rid of him 😅

[@Sandra-faith]

ALWAYS trust your gut. It's never wrong. I'm 52 and have learned the hard way. A word of advice, enjoy your single life. If God has someone special for you, it'll happen. Get to know yourself. Enjoy your family and friends. Also being too chill with some guys makes it too easy for them. You are worthy of being no.1. A call would've been more appropriate. Texting is too easy. Also, I would delay the sharing about your dates etc. Keep your cards close. Take care out there ❤

[@necole1023]

Awesome of you to put in the effort for him Kaitlin, sorry he disappointed you. Keep Shining Beautiful hugs💖😘Xo

[@theklav2914]

Omg what are the odds that you posted this just now!! Only last night I was thinking of that time I was chatting to this girl, long messages etc, and she cancelled on me TWICE. After the second time I told her that if it was meant to be we would have met by now😊 So glad I did that!

[@DariansLady]

That’s okay. You’ve got your Texas man!

[@sunflower15273]

Girl it’s obvious he knows you’re dating Texas man so he’s losing interest. Then he’ll apologize and give you the best date and flowers to keep you holding on. This is no one’s fault. He’s protecting himself by pushing you away and keeping his options open to not get hurt

[@_fromthedivine_]

I agree. I think she needs to keep it off social media, as much as possible.

[@melissaochoa8054]

I believe that rejection is a blessing because it's the universe's way of telling you that there's something better out there. ... There's nothing like rejection to make you do an inventory of yourself. The guys seeing your videos make you a target. You’re beautiful and young… have fun!

[@PsychicRenegadeTarot]

he sounds like he had a gf and was squeezing you in on lunch…. god I am too jaded for dating. 😂😂😂😂

[@blhoten]

He is not the one ❤

[@busybratgirl9395]

It’s the last minute for me.

[@user-hf7zm2sm3v]

I would date myself. I lost my husband last year. Now i am finding me and i love it

[@user-lo7zn5pr3p]

I'm sorry for ur loss. I've left my husband of 24 years, 2 years ago n I've loved just being with me,!!!

[@user-hf7zm2sm3v]

@@user-lo7zn5pr3p I get it.. shine on Queen 👑💖

[@yrp237]

Did Texas man pull some strings & get flower man sidelined? 😂 Or was it the Universe? Thats why you don't sweat the small stuff. Either it works out in your favor or not.

[@ciarat7282]

Gods timing for sure

[@jennyrosa553]

I always had a bad vibe about this guy. Take care kate! You are so amazing and inspirational❤

[@familyvelez4052]

You look so pretty !!!

[@Maria-0017]

My foot 👠 would be where the sun don’t shine ☀️ This is why you have to keep your options open!

[@DivyMoon]

I’m sorry but you’re never going to get a genuine and authentic dating experience or connection if these men know every. little. detail is being shared for content.

[@busybratgirl9395]

I was curious about that. They can listen to all these details about themselves. I feel like they Would know what to do and say regarding her posts. It would unfortunately be easy to manipulate someone that way.

[@UnstoppableMorgan]

@@busybratgirl9395I’m a KZbinr for 8 years now and have unloaded every detail about my wants and desires from a man online. Would use EVERYTHING I went through with men for content. Then a man that found me on the internet and started love bombing me hard! Felt like we were soulmates. I fell fast! Found out the hard way he wasn’t anything he pretended to be. He had just studied me for years through my content and knew exactly what to do to get me entangled with him. He almost ruined my life. CONTENT CREATORS BEWARE! Airing all the details seems like a good idea until it’s not!

[@pippin3168]

I think that’s why they all flake out on her. Once they find out she’s telling the internet all of their business as well.

[@DesireeGallardo]

I was thinking the same thing :/

[@busybratgirl9395]

I realize she is really open about her life and thats her thing but the other person should be given some privacy. More than just leaving out their name.

[@gds6531]

hate to say this but im a guy and he's playing you

[@Hippiehabibi]

Unrelated you look amazing!!!

[@Alyssa-kg7mq]

This is definitely a look into what your future with this person would be like. I’d take it as you’re not meant to be

[@JSJSpeaks]

...the flowers are still alive, and so is the hope!

[@aby9097]

Oh Kaitlin, I just came across your “One year without my lover” KZbin short and in it you said how aggravated you were at Fran for a couple reasons - one of them being him saying he’d visit you in your dreams…and I’d say what you described in this video is essentially what he did; not only was he looking at your dream, but he was with you in the real world in spirit. 🤍

[@carolyndawn2160]

Love seeing you happy, you deserve it

[@timothysink2442]

Sounds like my last. Saying I'm annoying I'm like bye

[@pamelawhitfield339]

Love your confidence and your beauty 😊that makes you feel good 👍

[@jackmerghemi9531]

Bye Felicia Bye is what you need to say 😊

[@Sambooeyful]

I agree with you but they also do what you allow...there's a fine line.

[@29mscruz]

I think it’s really funny that she keeps saying awww I’m cool, I’m watever, oh he is so nice!! Oh he sent me flowers, omg! He’s so nice and caring and mature! Yet literally after the nex few weeks past it’s always “well trust ur gut guys bc this one is another loser or not the one” but yet at first she’s acting as is they’re ssssooooo perfect! Like stop! We don’t need a play by play! Look I love u Kaitlin I do and support ur decisions and ur actions but it’s jus lately I feel like u have been putting wayyyy more energy into these Guys that clearly r not wat u make them out to be… so jus go on ur date and do ur thing and wait jus wait and wait and wait til ur like 3 months in and then tell us ur opinion and thoughts or feelings ….. ur doing too much and ur energy is all over the place I think u need to jus date one guy at a time and date them for a min before u start talking them up! Bc look at wat has happened so far! The other guy train man or watever was an ass, this guys canceled and now ur right back where u started! So pls dnt make a video bout the nex one until ur sure he is even gnna come close to someone u want in ur life… pls for ur own peace of mind and ur energy like jus wait a bit ….. I promise u will find the right man and guess wat u will find him regardless if u make a video or not!!

[@DeeLite220]

She’s being optimistic and open. Nothing wrong with that! Better than being bitter and closed off. Plus she IS providing content. A lot of people are interested in her dating life because of what she’s gone through.

[@cv7958]

It’s essentially a dating diary so there’s a first impression and so on etc. She’s taking you along for the journey. If you’re expecting her to wait to hard launch her next relationship, that’s a different KZbin channel. People are allowed to have certain opinions about someone and then change their minds as you evaluate more and more of their actions. It’s not really being all over the place. It’s being human and that’s how the dating process goes for quite a lot of people, especially on dating apps.

[@smokey-tl5me]

Dude is not single 😂leave him alone he just wants to hit it i use to be that guy 💯😁

[@user-tm3hg4qf7f]

He better make it up. Sometimes you give a man an inch and they wanna take a damn mile !

[@Xoang703]

This is so off topic but ur hair is so nice. What products do u use? Shampoo and stuff

[@Sarahlee358]

He cancelled both times because he is not interested.

[@reneemartel8802]

Don't let him blow u off again.. lol u know that though.. luv u girl.. please keep doing you!❤

[@ctsmith1388]

And he probably will be absent in the relationship. He’s probably not ready for something serious. Serious takes time and care.

[@bellaeastwood4235]

you seem to always miss the red flags about these people, that’s what is concerning.

[@colleen019]

Texas man wouldn’t have done this!

[@lizcofano3000]

If there was a chance that his work would call he shoukd have said hey I may have to cancel last minute if work calls. Or just make a time when you are definitely off work. Bravo for being cool about the game Friday. Exactly something sick shouldn't be missed or. Annoyed by the girlfriend

[@debramcgarry9689]

Kaitlin stop all this crap snd get with Mirko already. He is meant for you and you have so much chemistry! You are BF first, now it is time to date and get married! Francesco would be so happy!!! Give into your true feelings about each other!!! It is time to start the Kaitlin and Mirko chapter!!!🥰

[@rvca6037]

Fishy wishy..😂

[@kimg2022]

Red flags 🚩

[@samanthasyumyumcakez3416]

Lmaoo you got okayed

[@littlehami7278]

Fair enough but don’t let him mess ya around anymore

[@Erika-id2vx]

So...if this is dating just imagine being long term marriage missing so much because of work.Not worth the sacrifice for them to climb the ladder

[@taylork322]

If he keeps doing it then move on

[@ashleyymarie3699]

I’m so sorry for your loss

[@taramacks]

This has nothing to do with her boyfriend who passed away.

[@Kelly-fk3lu]

Walk:) you can still be buds

[@adriannasmith6931]

Shes being played like she played these men lol

[@ciarat7282]

How is she playing them

[@adriannasmith6931]

@ciarat7282 going on dates with both of them

[@kellysandoval5763]

u didn’t even take a sip LOL

[@daniellekauno5373]

Go with your feelings, if your hesitate about him dont waste your time.

[@user-ox2lo4np6t]

Flustrating is not a word. It's, Frustrating. Also, yes, correct, he's not the one. Two cancels = see ya!

[@MadisonMerrill]

He's making too many excuses. I would move on from this one, I understand work comes up but this seems like another lame excuse 😅

[@kristenstone1721]

Piss on being chill🎉

[@sagascending804]

Are you sure he isn't married or in a committed?

[@celestepatton715]

Always trust your gut❤

[@elizarhall8693]

Does this mean he is out of the running ?

[@SimplyRochelleParanormal]

💯💯💯👑👑👑👑💜💜💜 MOVIN LIKE A QUEEN SO GET OUT THE WAY PLZZZ!!! ..... THANK U!!! ..... NEXT!! 💯💯👍👍😎😎💜💜🌴💜

[@nailed_by_lore]

I don't believe him about either thing, especially the "meeting".

[@ttephi3667]

Is this the guy you kissed? Regarding his cancelling: No. Just no.

[@ciarat7282]

This isn’t the guy she kissed. Texas man is the man she kissed.

[@ttephi3667]

@@ciarat7282 Thanks

[@PSALM1117]

These guys probably don’t want to be exposed. Maybe keep the dating life private when the right one comes you will know. You are a beauty, but your aura is a bit off. I used to like these videos.

[@melomartinez160]

If all your dates are failing... Maybe it's not them, maybe it's you!!

[@lizcarman8394]

Oh please

[@susannaspitalsky7502]

2 ? 1 ok things happen But if I really want to go there there’s no 2 nd one

[@saarademari482]

No don’t give him another chance

[@arnelabih1845]

The sad part is men lie lie lie so you cannot really trust them well my advice to you is my dear date 3 at the same time your young enjoy life

[@arghyapathak2497]

All are fake😂 ,these are all for her views😂,atlst mirko will be there for her

[@margebunn6039]

I hate to say I told u so.. 😮

[@linaawesomeagent4588]

Sounds a little sus especially since he invited you to his house and after NY boo. Good luck!

[@allyson333]

fustrating

[@ryanshorter6422]

How does it feel to get canceled on? Lmao

[@user-cz1rp9gk2q]

Hate to be devil's advocate but do you think he possibly met somebody at the game and that's who he canceled your second date for?

[@nataliaohararodriguez7440]

3 strikes n youre out

[@elizat3270]

Girl I’m telling you ….. he’s not it ..

[@Sg4809]

Wait? Haven't you done this a million times and praised these men for being understanding?

[@tmthompson79]

I think he was really trying to make it up to u for canceling the first time and jumped the gun..but if it happens agon then idk it could be a sign.

[@jillrichelsoph1340]

It’s not all good girl. Boy byeeeeeeee

[@marciafab7]

No!

[@jessicaiaconis1867]

Boy bye….

[@noellerubel4686]

BS

[@c.y.o.o]

@kaitlin_reagan watch most you podcast love ur story your family background is similar to mind. Such a amazing story you have to keep moving n stay positive despite all the struggles. Your super beautiful and I would love to get to know you more hope you respond it definitely will be worth your time!

[@jodijoy8906]

🤍🤍🤍👸🤍🤍🤍

[@ellanoellla]

i’ve watched too many videos from a guy saying “if he says work got ‘busy’, he’s not into the relationship” not an excuse but i’m so sorry girly. you deserve the world 🤍🤍

[@donnalepore6363]

There you go Kaitlyn. Mirko is the one. That's why these dates aren't working. 😂😂😂😘🫶