The BEST First Date Ideas! | Courtney Ryan

[@The3rdGunman]

1. Construction Site 2. Swap Meet / Yard Sale 3. Your Cousin's Parole Hearing 4. Fine Young Cannibals Reunion Tour 5. Home Depot 6. CPR Class 7. County Clerk's Office 8. Blood Drive 9. Oil Change 10. Church

[@derekday7402]

That’s actually pretty damn funny

[@lobopoderososdl3076]

I laughed a lot at no 3 😂😂😂

[@NotAshamedOfficial]

You win this one!

[@michaelshirley3042]

brutha mon.. you got me. S!ht is hilarious.

[@SuperEman500]

What about Hooter's or Twin Peaks?

[@aleksi2592]

One thing in particular I love about Courtney's videos is that there's no annoyng intro montage or obnoxious intro music!

[@CourtneyRyan]

🥰 thank you!

[@johngonzalez4298]

I concur

[@zombieslayer7759]

@@mikeeldridge946 But Alpha M's intro isn't annoying though. Lol 😆

[@jonathanbalkaran1128]

It's so smoooth

[@aleksi2592]

@@zombieslayer7759 Yes, it is!

[@DesertBurst92]

Cannot stress how great museums are for dates, If there is a break in the conversation, you can talk about literally what is right in front of you.

[@robi6317]

but for 1st dates? nah

[@DesertBurst92]

@@robi6317 get something to drink or eat prior.

[@robi6317]

@@DesertBurst92 i think museums take the focus off you paying attention to your date. and that to me is the smartest first date. listening and learning and paying attention. at a table, not walking around a building or park. just my opinion of course...museums better for later dates

[@MrMelonMan96]

@@robi6317 I agree 100%

[@flyingsoul7147]

Thanks for that idea.

[@timtarbet4594]

My sister hates coffee dates. She calls them "low effort." When I pointed out that more and more guys are opting for coffee dates because there are a lot of women who will use guys to get free dinner, she got personally offended. :/

[@petkostoyanov5861]

You should explain to your sister the meaning of the word "entitled" and why it is not a positive thing.

[@cameronmccoy5051]

Sounds like your sister fits the category of the REASON guys are opting for coffee dates.

[@timtarbet4594]

@@petkostoyanov5861 I'm trying to figure out a way to help her understand without getting her mad. I don't really need to start a pointless fight.

[@petkostoyanov5861]

@@timtarbet4594 I meant - explain to her gently, because that is for her own good if you think about it. Feeling entitled to something is not good in any way, not only dating. Good luck mate!

[@timtarbet4594]

@@petkostoyanov5861 ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ It's hard. She has a STEM Ph.D, so she's used to defending herself very aggressively in order to be taken seriously.

[@gleepythehen]

Outdoor festivals work too. It worked with my GF of 16 2/3 years. The botanical garden was the second date. Sadly, I lost my GF from prolonged illness, but I like to think she died happy and loved.

[@mitchruns9667]

Man that hurts to read bless your soul. I hope you keep trying to continue to get closer to God it will help!

[@shady_the_one]

I can actually feel your pain, I lost mine and she had a lot more life to live, but... It was cancer that took her from me. I wasn't with her as long as you were with yours, but I still feel bad that she died so young, but I hope she knew she was loved. Yours too

[@SpaceWizard33]

“You are what you eat” No wonder I’m not enough

[@SenorJoeBiden]

Lol

[@maxlandsborough4138]

Well in that case im way way too much😂

[@lorcanmcguinness963]

Hmm I can now identify as a potatoe

[@m.g.7900]

Same... lol

[@LZRCuteR]

1st date with my wife started with Italian dinner (non-franchise), followed by mini-golf, finished with drinks at the Irish pub; all on same street within ~8 miles from her house so no fuss no muss in awkward travel time. Trifecta led to a date ending with the most intense make-out; and of course a promise of a 2nd date the next weekend. 10 years & 2 kids later it's still one of my favorite memories ;)

[@undefinedvariable8085]

I'm relocating. Where do you live?

[@douglasstrother6584]

Sweet! My lady & I had an 8-hour lunch date at a "Lazy Dog" 11 years ago as our first date.

[@northernexposure7669]

Courtney is like a big sister that you have but without the bullying

[@TheUnholyPosole]

?????

[@magicdinho107]

😂😂😂

[@xalch]

I met a girl online and she suggested that we have lunch together at a nice place and we went to a museum nearby after lunch, it was a great first date!

[@ajnugget5396]

Congrats my man!!

[@CourtneyRyan]

That’s great! 🥳🥳

[@xalch]

@@ajnugget5396 Thanks man! I have been on 4 dates with her n it's great so far

[@ajnugget5396]

@@xalch happy for you bro! Waiting on my gal to show up in my life 😃👍

[@bibekjaiswal8982]

How you both meet through online I was want to but I don't how start

[@RaymondStone]

I'm in my 30s and I've never been in a relationship. I wish something as simple as the first date idea actually had an impact on whether or not a date wants to see you again.

[@robi6317]

it does have an impact

[@3rdcoastnyucka]

Something is wrong with you. Figure it out and fix it.

[@intentionalliving7326]

Nothing wrong with it... everyone has their own time in relationships, career etc...

[@netgnostic1627]

A pleasant first date might not create a 'yes,' but a bad first date can definitely create a 'no.' So I think Courtney's advice is good.

[@RaymondStone]

@@3rdcoastnyucka I'm going to assume that rudimentary advice can be applied to quite a few of us who end up watching Courtney Ryan's videos. 😄 Hungry? Just go eat. Thirsty? Drink something. Problem? Figure it out and fix it.

[@Shreadington]

My wife and I first date was Mardi Gras parade then went and had sushi with Saki shots afterwards. Inseparable ever since. 20yrs.

[@jengaaaaa]

This is a perfect exanple of keeping the date going. Good job!

[@Shreadington]

@@jengaaaaa I'll never forget it. It was outside, with friends, and fun. Went and had a great dinner and a few more drinks. We invited that sushi chef, Tahm, to our wedding. He has his own restaurant now and when we're in town we eat there and see him. He still remembers when we first came in together because I told him it was our first date. Pretty cool we think.

[@simontmn]

Transitions like your example are really good. Have X set up, and Y in mind a short journey away if things are going well. Walking together is good once you've already broken the ice; I don't recommend 'walk in a park' on its own but meet in bar A, walk across park to (eg) bar B can be good.

[@Yaas33n]

Thank you for the ideas Courtney! Just asked out the girl of my dreams (she said yes!). This helps immensely.

[@CourtneyRyan]

Yay! So happy for you 🥺

[@ryanbarker3978]

Congratulations! Just remember to focus on the person she actually is instead of the projection of who you think she is and have fun!

[@Yaas33n]

@@ryanbarker3978 Thank you for the advice!

[@zombieslayer7759]

Good luck dude! 🙌🏻

[@Yaas33n]

@@zombieslayer7759 Thanks man! We're both super excited for it 😁

[@Duckpryde]

Great job! That was a refreshing list of ideas. It makes me smile because they remind me of some pleasant memories when I first starting dating someone. There was no grand plan. It was just casual, spontaneous, and convenient. 1st date) We took our dogs with us to a dog park and then afterwards we grabbed take-out from a restaurant to have a picnic. 2nd date) We started off at a Farmer’s market and then continued the date in a public garden. Again both places allowed us to bring our puppies. Fast forward to today, my wife and I have been happily married for many years, and while they are no longer puppies, our dogs are also still in love.

[@Joepacker]

A great place to take a first date is the Zoo. I took my wife there on our first date, then we went on a picnic for lunch and then she suggested a movie and then she wanted me to come up to her apartment afterward, I said no, didn't want to wear out my welcome too soon. All told that first date lasted half the day. I have been married to that women for 32 years!

[@mex1canpapi..233]

Lol captain save a hor

[@MrCanadiansingh]

Back to back you are posting fire videos on relevant topics i really need . Thanks alot courtney 💓 You are really saviour !

[@CourtneyRyan]

Yay glad to hear it! 🥰

[@louiscyfer6944]

i went for early afternoon coffee for my first date with my wife. i was just going out with her to see what kind of disaster the date would be. that was 7 years ago. i do use your videos for ideas what to do with her and how to dress to impress her. thank you Courtney.

[@CourtneyRyan]

🥺🥺🥺 love!!!

[@Albanianguy9]

@@CourtneyRyan simp😂😂😂😂😇

[@roopealho1515]

@@Albanianguy9 Simp

[@brainrich1358]

Still keeping the romance alive my guy!!

[@louiscyfer6944]

@@Albanianguy9 it doesn't appear that you know what simp means.

[@douglasstrother6584]

My lady & I had an 8-hour lunch date at a "Lazy Dog" 11 years ago as our first date.

[@davidkonevky7372]

A picnic imo is the most romantic thing anybody could do on a first date. It's an outdoor activity, which is very nice and makes the activity more exciting, it fills you up so you don't leave with an empty stomach, and it gives you more space to relax

[@supbrahimhammer.421]

My best first date from experience, a few weeks at work before you even realize you’re on a date. After about a month of working with my crush my coworker gave me a pep talk to ask her out and when we were on the date I realized, our first date was the entire month we were chit chatting and finding out basic info about her. When we actually went to dinner, it was date number 2. In that month of work we found out each other’s family situation, all about her college, interests, personality etc.

[@AK140785]

Your information is so helpful and concise. Saves me from trawling for hours through Reddit and canvassing the varying opinions of friends. Thank you so much for what you're doing!

[@CourtneyRyan]

Happy to help!

[@brainprogramcenterbpc2985]

As someone who never had a girlfriend and doesn't talk to girls, this is very helpful. ❤

[@Fletch85uk]

Courtney it would be interesting if you did a video on which boxes Ted ticked based on the tips you've been giving us.

[@sam.shock924]

i know this isn't related to the video content itself, but i'm so beyond glad you upped the video audio. i noticed with a lot of the older videos, the sound was down a lot and i had to spike the volume. great content as always and looking forward to more

[@dewekfilam]

Dear Courtney, thank you for being our big sister.

[@joeuchiha1342]

9) A martial arts tournament ring. Plot twist: You both are the contestants facing each other.

[@isaacaccomando435]

Have you actually been in a martial arts tournament against a girl you liked. That'd be pretty rad

[@deanrobbins8102]

A great option for an active outdoor date is frisbee golf. The courses usually wind through scenic parks which gives you an opportunity to talk about nature. Throwing a frisbee is a great icebreaker and always an adventure! If the date is going well, you can pull the picnic basket out of the trunk to extend the date. So, you get a bunch of options to explore each other's personalities or cut it short if there is no interest. So glad I found your channel the other day. You and your guests have been so enlightening. Keep up the great work!

[@innonativeoutdoors]

I took a girl to grab some Starbucks and we went to look at the Xmas lights and decorations through different neighborhoods. Handed her my camera to take pictures. After the date I edited the photos and emailed them to her. She loved it and we captured some memories. You can do the same by going to the zoo or nature hike. A confident woman will let you take her picture and that's a green flag.

[@drproton85]

Lunch? You're not getting a kiss on a lunch date!

[@johnshafer7214]

Love the great first date ideas. Now I need to find someone to go on a date.

[@simontmn]

In England quiet pubs and some bars are great for first dates. I feel sorry for Americans if there's no equivalent. Formal restaurants are not good for first dates, the across-table format can end up feeling like an interview. I don't think coffee shops are very good for first dates; an evening date with some alcohol in a casual but quiet/cosy venue is ideal.

[@lindsey607]

Mini golf is a great idea. I've had some great date's that way.

[@Philx.v]

your videos are getting a lot better. saved this one. thanks

[@aarontimothy1184]

I find it easier for me on first dates if it involves actively moving around. Sitting idly at a table is just an anxiety enhancer. What is there to talk about? Our interests? What if there's no common ground? It's hard to improvise and come up with questions on the spot and ends up with this "buying time" mentality because I don't want to be rude and end the date. Bowling is a great first date idea, or the arcade. Not too expensive but it's active and just flat out fun! I would be disappointed if she didn't enjoy arcades.

[@Chris-gw2xg]

Agree with you. Ice skating during the Winter or mini golf are great as well. My last date was just going for a walk and it was terrible

[@wraith9166]

I went for a dinner date one time as a first date, paid over $100 and then got ghosted. Never again.

[@chrisblanchard3882]

I’ve been on plenty of first dates and I mean a lot, over the years and I’ve had some really good ones. But what’s surprising is that I’ve never been stood up. Every lady showed up and in time. It’s a great way to meet.

[@EverybodysKuya]

Thanks for this one, Big Sis! You're right, keeping it lite and no pressure is the way to go!

[@CourtneyRyan]

Happy to help! ❤️

[@huckmart2017]

I recommend going somewhere you are very familiar with. You will feel more comfortable and it will be easier to show that person a good time. Even something as simple as being able to recommend menu items at a resturaunt or lounge is a huge bonus. Your comfortability will rub off on the other person and it will be much easier for you to be yourself.

[@killerdog5500]

I went on a first date to a wax museum. It really gave us a chance to learn what we're into without excluding one person's interest.

[@ParkerAnderson-sy2gn]

I think an important note for an outdoor date is making sure its a public area with other people around. Some women might be uncomfortable with following some random dude into the woods.

[@janpauledwarddedios5366]

Great ideas... thanks courtney. I had a date and took her to con. She was a big comic book geek.. it was fun.. I've been on a lunch date and end up hanging all day doing errands with her.. anything that allows a chance to get to know each other is always helpful. These date ideas are very helpful

[@CourtneyRyan]

Awww that’s so fun! Love it 🥰

[@coryames1170]

That's awesome that shes into comic books. I hope to find a woman who enjoys it too. Or at least doesn't look down on me for it.

[@janpauledwarddedios5366]

@@coryames1170 her dream was to write a graphic novel. She moved out of state because of it actually but in regards to your comment- do you bro and go confidently into it. If your passionate about something the right person will respect you for it no matter what it is.

[@christopherparbs]

Some great tips and reminders for the future when everyone is getting back out there. These can work great too if your just hanging with friends and want to try something new.

[@blueaustralis3736]

I dunno. In my opinion any first date which relies on conversation (at least initially) can be a bit of a bad move. Both people need to be on that same mental wavelength for a long time to keep the conversation going, and if this is someone you haven't really gotten to know well prior to this I think it's more likely to fizzle out (unless you're both REALLY into each other, or the conversation). I think activity based first dates are ultimately the way to go, at least for the start of the date. Conversation-focused activities are great follow-ons, if that went well. The minigolf and museum recommendations are the best here, I think, because it gives everyone something to divert attention to and be engaged with instead of feeling like they need to perform in a conversation. As well, conversations just seem to flow a lot more naturally this way. :)

[@albertcadiz7000]

You need to record positive affirmations accompanied with tranquil imagery. Your voice and delivery is very kind and soothing. Best wishes from Chicagoland!

[@michaelchambers7691]

I saw a young woman the first time and subconsciously knew she was my wife. I didn't know her. It was a very strange phenomenon. Remember, dates are BS. Men know their wives when they see her the very first time. I had girlfriends that didn't last and a 10 year marriage with my wife and a daughter who's age 8.

[@brantsavage1380]

There are also some places where there are a few different activities you can do. In my local area, there is a place where you can bowl, go to an arcade, laser tag, and/or VR, all in the same building.

[@jeancarbone209]

I would prefer mini-golf or a walk or farmers market or anything that involves a simple activity. An activity involved first date will make the inevitable lulls in the conversation more comfortable.

[@adamdarby43]

With women coming out admitting they create dating profiles for only attention or a free meal. I will never again spend a ton of money on a first date. I'll offer getting coffee/tea so we can talk or a not so expensive place to eat and if they don't like that then too bad for them I'm not going to waste my valuable time.

[@williamwhite1078]

Breweries can be a good supplement to a bar if you still want to drink while creating conversations, but want something more alive than a sit down restaurant typically is

[@Bullet-Tooth-Tony-]

Your voice is so soft you could make me fall asleep with a bed time story

[@sassythesasquatch8036]

Finally getting back into it after my last girl broke my heart, cannot wait

[@ThemisGeorgoudis]

dates at a cafe always turned out well but I mostly prefer long walks and watching landscapes

[@michimadiforever1458]

Courtney, you have such an elegant and pretty look today & again brilliant & helpful content. Keep it up.

[@CourtneyRyan]

Thank you! 🥺

[@luksi870]

A tinder date offered to go to a bar and after a couple of drinks we went somewhere nearby to play pool. It was competitive and fun for a first date!

[@marlonmoncrieffe0728]

🎱 Ooh, billiards is a good idea!

[@admirbarucija2018]

😊 I appreciate this, it’s not always easy to come up with ideas for a first date or subsequent ones! I overthink it quite a bit, but simpler is often better I feel

[@CourtneyRyan]

Exactly right! When things are important to us we tend to overthink. Keeping it simple is key!

[@Mogamishu]

Why do you rush to comment on every video before watching it?

[@admirbarucija2018]

@@CourtneyRyan Absolutely, and it can be tempting to want to do something elaborate early on, but I’d rather save it for later!

[@Mogamishu]

@@admirbarucija2018 you must have too much time on your hands.

[@sahilahmadi3664]

I love my crush and didn’t know where to take her on a date, videos always help!

[@CourtneyRyan]

Hope this helps! 🥳

[@Mogamishu]

Are you Middle Eastern? Middle Eastern guys are only considered attractive if they are tall, so that they can fit the "tall, dark and handsome" stereotype.

[@inis6267]

@@Mogamishu ah i get it. Youre a troll.

[@ajhill5094]

I love your videos, you have great energy and your videos aren't like pickup videos with "magic trick to make women hook up." Its like gentle reassurance and confidence building.

[@scottbennett5798]

I took a date to a boat show - a good chance to walk around, lounge on some boats, and grab Dayak food. Was a silly abs playful time. Be safe everyone! Scott from Michigan

[@romancleanser2709]

Hope you didn't buy a boat to just to impress some chick.

[@noamerlenwein3940]

Funny story with regards to outdoor picnic.. I took my gf on to the beach on our first date. I had a bottle of wine but forgot to bring a wine opener. I used a fork to push the cork in and when it was almost in, the metal fork broke. I ran to the nearby bar about a minute away. It took the guy there 20 minutes to open it. I ran back to the Picnic when it was opened and literally as soon as I got there it started raining. We grabbed our things and ran inside to my hotel room. (The beach was outside the hotel.) She asked "ummm what do we do now"? I was like "we're gonna have a picnic"! I spread the blanket on the floor and we had the best date ever! She is now my gf. The reason I'm typing this out is firstly because it was a domino of fails but mainly to show that if you're in a situation that's out of you're control, be creative and adapt to the situation. #1. It's likely to actually be more fun and #2. She will definitely be hella attracted to you!

[@CourtneyRyan]

Stop it that is AMAZING! 😂 I love this! You are so right about all of that. Your ability to think on your feet and adapt is key!

[@ericv5435]

What about a first date with someone you already know? I asked out a friend of mine the other day and she said yes and I plan on going to a restaurant with her for lunch or dinner. Nothing fancy and expensive though.

[@jleano609]

If you already know her then basically you are on a second date, you can take it up a notch but you’re still paying. Low key lunch is a good option.

[@Chris-de2qc]

No to anything sit down. It's alot harder for guys to converse with someone for the first time. Do something fun, active and that will illicit high emotions. That will set you apart from all the other first dates. Worst case if no second date is that you did something fun! Instead of walking around aimlessly in a park or museum, I did a scavenger hunt offered online. Some of the challenges involved getting selfies so that brings you together. I have also done an escape room before but that was a second date since it required me to pay for both tickets. The extreme case would be taking a girl skydiving. My friend knew of a guy who always did that and the girls always loved it because of the thrill. He was probably rich but this just gives you an example of a high emotion activity.

[@FrankyboyFloyd]

I love this channel. So different from most of the others ... She is so classy and calm! Very good taste and cassy suggestions for first date.

[@Nmagg1776]

This is great and really takes the pressure off.

[@Skaarxiong1]

ever since i discover girls when coming of age, i was a big failure. until my 20s that i realized, i was doing everything wrong. see, i was always the ones that make the decision on the activities for the first date and second date and by the 3rd date, she's gone. so, in my 20s, i always let the woman make the decision on the first and second date. most of the time, it's always the normal usual things like dinner and movie, or out to a bar and sometime her friends are there, i ain't gonna lie, some of the things on those first and second dates are pretty boring but, i always try to make the most out of it. plus, it also gives me a chance to get to know her. the 3rd date is when i make the decision. i'll take her to a bondage show, sign her up to get tie up and get whip by me because afterward, i get tie up and she gets to whip me. or i take her to a concert because what better way to tell her you like her by taking her out to see her favorite band play live? or my favorite band play. now in my 40s, i don't have a problem getting laid, just who i want to shag.

[@Javi_C]

Always with the best advice! Thank you Courtney!

[@CourtneyRyan]

You’re so welcome! 😘

[@willphillips1225]

Totally agree Courtney, I think the club idea is a horrible first date idea. I’ve found going to a local pub or a dive bar can be fun because some of them have pool or darts. They tend to be a more quiet spot.

[@cheapspeed]

Best first date happy hour

[@bhg123ful]

One thing to add as far as outdoor dates - you don't want it to be TOO warm out either. Sweating profusely when its over 90F would be nasty and not particularly sexy. Of course I recall you mentioning you are based in Cleveland, where winters are nasty cold, but summers are really pleasant and usually don't get too brutal. Spring and fall in most parts of the country are often the best.

[@Youtubefan567]

This video is fire! I have done just about all of these and have just about always enjoyed myself regardless if my date wasn't clicking with me. My 1st date with my current gf was at a Museum in the afternoon, dinner, then walk around the park. I'm fairly introverted and don't like noisy and rowdy places like bars so I never picked those types of places on any date. You should always do something that appeals to your interests, especially for guys since girls generally expect the guy to pay on the 1st date.

[@leebishop7591]

I think the whole point is to make a connection with each other. Think of a place where u can talk where money or not too money is involved. A first date can be at a bar where u have "A" drink or two and sit at a table. Ive been to a bar we connected, we lasted for a year. Another we last for 3 years and some change. A park, a lounge area, a cafe. Get that convo goin to where she earns the right for a second date and then u can spend money on her, or not...🤷🏾‍♂️.

[@FilipedeBarrosDance]

Great ideas Courtney! Thank youuuu 😃

[@exmortis4404]

Master of the late responses! One of my best first dates was at a set of locks that had a really nice park and trail as well as a little café. We did not go the distance but it was a great day, and the date ended late evening at the same location. She was a great girl, we were just not for each other. My next first date was at a city park, that was awesome because the date was hellacious and when the walk was done, the date ended.

[@brent7261]

Great vid! But I definitely wouldn’t do a first date during the day or brunch, the thing with this is you’ll give off a friendzone vibe. And these brunches can be extremely expensive. “Hang out, have fun, and hookup” - Corey Wayne

[@wesleybarrett9502]

Mini golf alternative could be Disc golf. Combines park and mini golf. Not too expensive in general and can be free of you ste into it before hand. Let date use your discs

[@TheBix8257]

Axe throwing was a riot! So much fun

[@TeamGodandChrist90s]

I always choose a nice place for the date.

[@CourtneyRyan]

👏🏼 totally up to you!

[@erich2780]

For the first date from my last relationship we went to the park and took a long walk around and then went to Starbucks afterwards. Was a good time with her. Only downside was the long distance between us.

[@mattkampe1693]

Love these ideas! The museum/botanical gardens and Brewery/wine tasting I would not think of on my own.

[@darielmelendez6235]

Can bowling be part of the list?

[@fhoeflich]

For the first date (or maybe more 2 or 3): Netflix or DVD Annie Hall 'n chill. Lots of openings for conversation along the way or afterward! And I still get a tear or two at the end, can't help it ... "because we need the eggs."

[@worldpeacepp]

ice cream, park, beach, riverside walk, outdoor dining are my favorates. i have tried coffee, brunch, ice cream, park, beach, riverside walk, hike. museum, mini golf, picnic, farmers market, brewery tasting are interesting ideas to try! coffee can goes a little too intense because of the anxiety of silence break, same to brunch. hike is distracting for me as i can focus only on the hiking or conversation lol.

[@Ezraool07]

They all sound fun! Definitely going to try it out! Thanks, Courtney!

[@christopherbyrne5901]

I took a girl to the state fair and we had a great time! 2nd date is scheduled

[@davidsisson2026]

i would have clicked more likes. my television isn't set up that way. youre the best. as an older guy living in a rural area its not easy finding eligible ladies. i've so much to learn.

[@MasterREB]

I’m glad that I found this video. Not an easy task to achieve.

[@dwightnix893]

Wife and I had our first date a Pizza Hut and had my daughter and her two friends at a table next to ours. Always have friends nearby.

[@RandomVelocity]

I mean, are you talking about first date or first meeting because I do online dating first meeting isn’t even a date. I just called it a meet and greet and that’s just a quick drink because you want to meet in person for the first time and see if there’s any physical chemistry if they look like who you expected you know so best for that is just have a quick drink and if you like each other, you have a couple of drinks, etc..

[@makattak88]

I find getting outside for something simple like a walk around a park then a drink/ coffee. I love sports so I try to get them into it, like sailing, rock climbing, cycling. But if she’s not into it, something like swimming/ hiking are great options.

[@larsmarkman8303]

Hey Courtney that colou looks really nice on you! Could you make a video explaining how tot match colours with skin tone? I saw it once but dont really understand how to apply it on myself

[@venom7558]

A first date is a nerve racking experience because it's pretty much that first impression another person gets about you. It can almost feel like make or break. But it should be all about getting to know each other and developing a connection. A nice way to start the week,though...another video from Courtney. :)

[@CourtneyRyan]

Exactly! It should be fun, you’re just getting to know someone ☺️ thanks for being here!

[@venom7558]

@@CourtneyRyan Thank you for being you and posting great content!

[@Ash_Wen-li]

Focus more on how your date fits your values, preferences, interests ect. It'll get you out of your head and stop you from thinking about yourself too much

[@jleano609]

Exactly, you are the prize. What's she doing to impress you?

[@baileygant9052]

I love the background music. Sounds relaxing.

[@bluesburg]

I'm a vendor at a Farmer's Market in a college town. The women who attend ( and there are many) are healthy, spry, at ease and in good spirits; and often in social groups So it is also a place to possibly meet a potential partner. Just be gentlemen, because it is not a bar scene.

[@kairotox]

Berry/other fruit picking is an amazing first date. If you've got one nearby, It's super fun!

[@thatfamiliarsound]

Got a date next week and she's the one who actually suggested food and a couple of drinks... exactly what I was thinking too but she beat me to it. Not really sure what this means but I'm equal parts excited and terrified

[@El_p4ancho]

Got church in a little bit still here 🥰

[@CourtneyRyan]

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[@GEORGIOARCADE]

Of course i would be late to this lol but these first date tips are certainly worth the wait Courtney. I actually think coffee is a great first date because if you not feeling the person, you can easily just leave. However if the date is going well, you can suggest going for one of the outdoor options. It gets hot here in Louisiana so i would probably choose something that would keep me in my date cool yet engaged. Also i love that farmers market idea. We get those here in the spring/summer. Thanks for your help. Have a lovely day 😊🌼

[@mr.commentator3558]

Thanks for the ideas! Will definitely keep these in mind for future dates

[@terri-lynnnummikoski9895]

One good date ever would be good to know...

[@josephereaux6921]

Museums are a great first date, mini golf is good if you just throw in a little challenge in the middle, and going out for like ice cream/frozen yogurt/ snocones.

[@AnthonyWasiukiewicz]

Great ideas. Many of which I’ve done or considered. Thanks.

[@nogamer9780]

Thanks