7 Habits Of A Self Destructive Person

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Do you have self destructive behavior? Self-destructive behavior is described as actions we do that are sure to cause harm to ourselves. Everyone has done this at least once, whether it is intentional or not. However, problems arise when this behavior becomes a habit. There are many self-destructive habits that, given the wrong circumstances, could be very harmful to the body and mind. So, do you think you might be self sabotaging? In this video, we will be talking about some of the common self destructive behaviors that we might have unconsciously turned into a habit.
If you resonated with this video and want to learn more about self-care and how to be nicer to ourselves, we have a video on that too: • 5 Self Care Tips When ...
Writer: Xinyi
Script Editor: Morgan Franz
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Jim Monteforte
Animator: Naphia
KZbin Manager: Cindy Cheong
References:
Cousins, L., 2020. Are There Downsides To Always Trying To Be Positive?. [online] Health Agenda.
Duczeminski, M., 2020. 12 Self-Destructive Habits To Eliminate For A Positive Life. [online] LifeHack.
Healthline. 2020. Understanding Self-Destructive Behaviour.
Luna, A., 2020. 17 Habits Of The Self-Destructive Person (+ How To Stop). [online] LonerWolf.
Star, K., 2020. How To Change Your Self-Defeating Beliefs. [online] Very Well Mind.
Wupperman, P., 2020. Understanding Self-Destructive (Dysregulated) Behaviors. [online] Psychology Today.
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@vaibhavy1761
@vaibhavy1761 3 жыл бұрын
"The WORLD around you keeps going and you keep falling behind " Felt that
@deavult3643
@deavult3643 3 жыл бұрын
The thing is, it's the world itself that is falling... So, why would we want to fall along with it in the first place?
@vaibhavy1761
@vaibhavy1761 3 жыл бұрын
@@deavult3643 maybe coz we're done fighting and lost here in this world
@deavult3643
@deavult3643 3 жыл бұрын
@@vaibhavy1761 Very interesting view... Maybe this world is but the reflect of how we all feel.
@drifter266
@drifter266 3 жыл бұрын
Every one have their own unique journey. Destinations are different so fuck world.. Use them but don't follow shit
@drifter266
@drifter266 3 жыл бұрын
@@deavult3643 exactly
@traumatizedtoast4461
@traumatizedtoast4461 3 жыл бұрын
Me: sees title *Sweats in relatability*
@bakatoaster6000-yt
@bakatoaster6000-yt 3 жыл бұрын
*Relatability intensifies*
@NatashaPuteri
@NatashaPuteri 3 жыл бұрын
SWEATING * I N T E N S I F I E S *
@mioislost5387
@mioislost5387 3 жыл бұрын
*intense sweating*
@trishaseal7782
@trishaseal7782 3 жыл бұрын
YES
@pekkabot2772
@pekkabot2772 3 жыл бұрын
Yup.
@dragon-like-tendencies9519
@dragon-like-tendencies9519 3 жыл бұрын
THE VOICE IS DIFFERENT I ACTUALLY JUMPED love it tho heheh hes so calming and sounds chill heh
@scarletmoon95
@scarletmoon95 3 жыл бұрын
Same I was like ooooh a guy! It's been a while lmao
@jude5912
@jude5912 3 жыл бұрын
sameeee ahahha
@rinr7052
@rinr7052 3 жыл бұрын
It’s nice and loud
@arisay1460
@arisay1460 3 жыл бұрын
Same!
@optimusprime1848
@optimusprime1848 3 жыл бұрын
It caught me off guard hearing a different voice still good video though
@koahni2410
@koahni2410 3 жыл бұрын
7 habits of a self - destructive person : 1.You hold on to a self defeating mindset (0:49) 2.You hide from your emotions (1:25) 3.You fail to take ACTION (2:05) 4.You hold on to force Incompetence (2:35) 5.You are socially isolated (3:11) 6.You are unneccesarily self-sacrificial (3:47) 7.You have problems with alcohol and drugs abuse (4:21) Hope this helps ! ❤ Have a good day!✨🤩
@greatwavefan397
@greatwavefan397 3 жыл бұрын
I hit 2, 3, and possibly 6. *_DINGDINGDINGDINGDINGDING_*
@mioislost5387
@mioislost5387 3 жыл бұрын
I got all but seven-
@SarthakBiswal
@SarthakBiswal 3 жыл бұрын
Eating disorder can be added to the 7th point
@naughtypleasure8712
@naughtypleasure8712 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you❤
@koahni2410
@koahni2410 3 жыл бұрын
@Mylee [f.u.ск мe] ТАР 0N МY РIC excuse me , what the fawk is this
@deathrebirth444
@deathrebirth444 3 жыл бұрын
I wasn't expecting that voice it threw me off lol
@mildalt4948
@mildalt4948 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@blasto1901
@blasto1901 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@hannahkohl6053
@hannahkohl6053 3 жыл бұрын
Lol me too
@wernerhiemer406
@wernerhiemer406 3 жыл бұрын
I knew there will be something about the voice.
@rinr7052
@rinr7052 3 жыл бұрын
For once I don’t fall asleep
@rithvik2940
@rithvik2940 3 жыл бұрын
I saw the title and was like "Are they talking about me?!"
@zg5415
@zg5415 3 жыл бұрын
This is accurately relatable😆
@rithvik2940
@rithvik2940 3 жыл бұрын
@@zg5415 LOL
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
How many signs did you relate to?
@rithvik2940
@rithvik2940 3 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go All of them LOL i just noticed XD
@datboi6671
@datboi6671 3 жыл бұрын
Lol me too
@userseef9314
@userseef9314 3 жыл бұрын
The worst part is knowing all of that and being told about constantly but not being able to do anything about it because you have no motive, no soul, no nothing
@Roctiv-xo9qc
@Roctiv-xo9qc 10 ай бұрын
I relate to that so much buddy… I’m aware of almost everything i do and done wrong, and my family supports me but also repeats these obvious facts about my behavior. And still, I don’t make progress in anything and don’t take action in what’s important.
@userseef9314
@userseef9314 10 ай бұрын
@@user-wp6kf7gj4l nah, only getting worse
@wasntme520
@wasntme520 10 ай бұрын
You good now? Uve had 2 years
@aprilcarl5481
@aprilcarl5481 19 күн бұрын
Hugs and understanding to you ❤... and you will be able to overcome this with God's grace. I will be praying for you. Don't give up please.
@carolinacoreas7716
@carolinacoreas7716 3 жыл бұрын
I know I'm self-sabotaging because I can relate to all except the last sign. I am fully aware that I'm doing it, the problem is it feels like I know that I have to stop, but when I try, the successes only last a little while, then is followed by a long period of quiet suffering. I know I have to at least try to do many things and stop myself from thinking those ugly thoughts, but it feels impossible to even start doing something good for myself. I've been aware that a lot of bad things that have happened to me are my fault, but somehow I just never learn my lesson or take the severity of the situation seriously. I have had so many meltdowns and I always feel like I'm in a sad haze for another week straight after my meltdowns. I just don't know how to stop it, the answer seems so simple, but it's so hard to do.
@Max-ec2dj
@Max-ec2dj 3 жыл бұрын
You can do it, I believe in you! Know that things will get better and that you are worthy of the things you want. (:
@giannapamplona1138
@giannapamplona1138 3 жыл бұрын
I know how you feel *sends warm hugs
@bored_potato
@bored_potato 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for summarizing the feeling i have been having since online classes started
@antea9864
@antea9864 3 жыл бұрын
I relate to everything you said except I kinda feel more numb than sad. I know what I'm doing to myself but I just can't stop - I feel kinda arrogant when I'm saying good things to myself. I tried fixing my behaviour but it didn't last long and now I'm in the same mindset. I'm few months late with the respond haha but I wanted you to let you know you're not alone. Sending lots of love ❤️
@cuddlebunny3353
@cuddlebunny3353 3 жыл бұрын
I feel the same but I guess it has become better over time now the periods of productivity are longer and the sad periods only last one or two days at most and I feel like they will get shorter in the future ....if I can do it you can do it too!!
@SamElle
@SamElle 3 жыл бұрын
As a self sabotager, I know I ruin everything good in my life ...
@mioislost5387
@mioislost5387 3 жыл бұрын
:[ I'm sorry
@SamElle
@SamElle 3 жыл бұрын
@@mioislost5387 Yea... it really sucks
@mioislost5387
@mioislost5387 3 жыл бұрын
@@SamElle I hope you can do better even tho idk what you're going through I just hope everything can be ok for u :)
@oncetwice5942
@oncetwice5942 3 жыл бұрын
You and me both
@astoldbynickgerr
@astoldbynickgerr 3 жыл бұрын
and that’s on everything that is in shambles
@varianzero7469
@varianzero7469 3 жыл бұрын
I’m a self destructive person mentally but not physically. I’ve thought about it, but never did it.
@hermelaadefrash6414
@hermelaadefrash6414 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah me too
@ranmouri69
@ranmouri69 3 жыл бұрын
Please don't it's not worth it
@marykath41
@marykath41 3 жыл бұрын
same
@varianzero7469
@varianzero7469 3 жыл бұрын
@Ran Mori don’t worry I haven’t done anything physical but sometimes I think about it then I watch a video of a seal spinning around in circles in a pool for 10 hours
@pekkabot2772
@pekkabot2772 3 жыл бұрын
Same bruh
@KiwyZzonk
@KiwyZzonk 3 жыл бұрын
2:15 omg that BMO reference haha
@bobbymoore5081
@bobbymoore5081 3 жыл бұрын
I love adventure time!!
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
Did you like it? :)
@KiwyZzonk
@KiwyZzonk 3 жыл бұрын
Psych2Go Of course !
@lizzie333eee
@lizzie333eee 3 жыл бұрын
omg i was like YAAY BMO :')
@dohkyun
@dohkyun 3 жыл бұрын
I am constantly self destructive, and it's cost me many friends/relationships. It really sucks. I just want to stay home and sleep constantly. I know I need to talk to someone close to me, or get help, but I can't. They most likely all hate me and I really can't handle them verifying that.
@pickituup34
@pickituup34 2 жыл бұрын
SAME
@vAqeii
@vAqeii 3 жыл бұрын
Habit 1: They explode their own Minecraft Base
@zionmoses1839
@zionmoses1839 3 жыл бұрын
LMAO...
@greatwavefan397
@greatwavefan397 3 жыл бұрын
And eat a victory steak
@OXSkuldream
@OXSkuldream 3 жыл бұрын
They run their horse boff a cliff in RDR2..
@martialhero9544
@martialhero9544 3 жыл бұрын
You just be thinking about Minecraft
@treznopresto4878
@treznopresto4878 3 жыл бұрын
All your brain cell has filled with minecraft (Btw youre like Justin y of Psych2go)
@olifoxo6608
@olifoxo6608 3 жыл бұрын
I'm only thirteen, but you have made me better understand psychology A LOT more. You've also helped me better understand myself, and have inspired me to want to become a psychologist. And most people my age don't know what they'd want to do when they're older so I feel very lucky to have come across this KZbin channel to get me interested in psychology. I don't know what I would be without you guys. Thank you so much! :)
@selfhelpchampion9664
@selfhelpchampion9664 3 жыл бұрын
"No more excuses. No more self-sabotage. No more self-pity. No more comparing yourself to others. Time to step up. Take action right now and start living your life with purpose". Anthon St. Maarten
@SlipYoke6081x
@SlipYoke6081x 3 жыл бұрын
Its not as easy as that.
@teenshii
@teenshii 3 жыл бұрын
But I don‘t have a purpose in life
@tai5707
@tai5707 3 жыл бұрын
Literally looking for purpose right now.
@ronanharris8216
@ronanharris8216 3 жыл бұрын
@@teenshii If you want to look for one, get yourself up by doing small things as a new habit, and see how it goes. For example : watering flowers, walking your dog in the afternoon, or lying at the ground at night just to look for some peace. From trying new stuff, you can start to understand why wouldn't you want to do it before in the first place and what's good about it if done together with someone else.
@astoldbynickgerr
@astoldbynickgerr 3 жыл бұрын
Ronan Harris it’s so hard when nothing brings you pleasure. even worse when it does, but it’s too short-lived. soon you just feel like an emotionless blob doing pointless things. no matter what you do.
@santiagogestal3925
@santiagogestal3925 3 жыл бұрын
Summary: 1) You hold on to a self-defeating mindset 2) You hide from your emotions 3) You fail to take action 4) You hold on to forced incompetence (You won't try to learn and practice if you believe you don't have an innate talent for something) 5) You are socially isolated 6) You are unnecessarily self-sacrificial 7) You have problems with alcohol & drug abuse Recommend watching for better understanding Ps: Nice new voice :D
@eevaanh8386
@eevaanh8386 3 жыл бұрын
6/7 let’s goooooo 😃🔫
@starflet97
@starflet97 3 жыл бұрын
I dont relate to no.7 but i relate a lot to 3 & 4 :(
@yeongweunbi
@yeongweunbi 3 жыл бұрын
i can literally relate to everything except no. 7 (but that's only because i don't have enough money to buy alcohol, drugs, etc.; if i had money i assure you i would've somehow done 7 too)
@hopelesshaddy3332
@hopelesshaddy3332 3 жыл бұрын
All of them :/ Except 7 I've learned of the sort of destructive thing drugs and alcohol do, so I'll never do that
@Ethereallyme
@Ethereallyme 3 жыл бұрын
The second I read the title the first thing I thought about was bakagou
@alwaysscreaming1014
@alwaysscreaming1014 3 жыл бұрын
I agree 😩
@kai4765
@kai4765 3 жыл бұрын
i mean,,,,yeah,,,
@aelixr5735
@aelixr5735 3 жыл бұрын
this comment made my night
@Ethereallyme
@Ethereallyme 3 жыл бұрын
Gon Freecs Desu I’m glad it did 😌
@dreitwix
@dreitwix 3 жыл бұрын
It's hard to overcome these habits when you've been doing it for years (in my case over a decade). I am no longer in a place of self-hatred and yet I tend to fall back into self-destroying behaviours. I'm not sure if I ever get out but I hope that it'll become less and less.
@wisdom-for-all
@wisdom-for-all 3 жыл бұрын
Indeed, there are seeds of self-destruction in all of us that will bear only unhappiness if allowed to grow. For example, hate is self-destructive because you are hurting yourself much more 🖖
@FriezaSucks
@FriezaSucks 3 жыл бұрын
I never asked to be hateful, these feeling were forced upon me by my abuser, and for that, I genuinely hate them for what they've done to me, it took me a long time to realize that I wasn't supposed to keep giving this person chances, or accept their false Idea of "love". Hate makes you weaker when it's unprecedented. Hate in my instance is my only shovel out of this.
@haveagoodmourning
@haveagoodmourning 3 жыл бұрын
@@FriezaSucks That type of hate is definitely an exception, abusers deserve it! Lots of love to you
@FriezaSucks
@FriezaSucks 3 жыл бұрын
@@haveagoodmourning Thank you my friend, I will try my best to only aim it towards the people that deserve it ❤
@gnarthdarkanen7464
@gnarthdarkanen7464 3 жыл бұрын
@@FriezaSucks It may not make a lot of sense just now... BUT you'll understand it in time, and it needs said. Beware of who or what you hate, and how much you hate it/them... It's too easy to become exactly and everything you've hated. They were awful to you. It's likely, they've been and will continue to be awful to others, too. Sooner or later, they will be awful to the worst choice of person, and they'll get everything they deserve. That's not a reason to either do nothing at all, nor to forgive or forget... You should remember so you learn from the past, as not to repeat it. Heal yourself... then let it go. I believe in you. ;o)
@helio3928
@helio3928 3 жыл бұрын
Hatred arises from fear. You cannot hate something if there's no fear involved.
@JonathanS89
@JonathanS89 3 жыл бұрын
8: Buying stuff to get an emotional high I know i'm guilty of this sometimes
@ronanharris8216
@ronanharris8216 3 жыл бұрын
would you mind to elaborate a bit by giving some examples please? is it like being an imposter or what?
@celinasbasiic
@celinasbasiic 3 жыл бұрын
Oops👀 Not me spending over 100 Euros for a game because it made me happy for a moment
@JonathanS89
@JonathanS89 3 жыл бұрын
@@celinasbasiic lol thats not too bad. Try spending $1k + on stuff you don't need.
@JonathanS89
@JonathanS89 3 жыл бұрын
@@ronanharris8216 no just spending money on stuff you dont need to be happy for a moment then regretting the purchase later on
@ronanharris8216
@ronanharris8216 3 жыл бұрын
@@JonathanS89 thanks. That sounds like the average smoker that understood the risk of doing so.
@darkzinha666
@darkzinha666 3 жыл бұрын
This video just told me everything i already known about miself, and left me more depressed, because i don't know how to chance that. I don't know what to do to change my mindsets and my behavior towards miself and other people. It's super hard to make a positive change when u are so negative and i don't know if its worth the effort...
@strangewayfaringstranger
@strangewayfaringstranger 3 жыл бұрын
I've realized that none of these videos make me feel any better. Just confirms a lot of what I already knew and feared. And what is definitely wrong with me. And the comment section is disappointing and frustrating sometimes.
@shadowo3625
@shadowo3625 3 жыл бұрын
i guess i have you hide from your emotions, but i found a person that allways help me out and make me smile.
@sleepyote
@sleepyote 3 жыл бұрын
I never thought I'd make it this far, so I guess my brain freaks out and I'm self destructive.
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
How many signs did you relate to?
@shiney802
@shiney802 3 жыл бұрын
Omg the little crewmates in the thumbnail made my day. 😔🤍 Edit: grammar
@jude5912
@jude5912 3 жыл бұрын
I DIDN’T NOTICE THEM THEY’RE SO CUTEEEE
@isabellabrokemylegs3861
@isabellabrokemylegs3861 3 жыл бұрын
As soon as I read the title I was like yep this is me
@flea6893
@flea6893 3 жыл бұрын
aww, poor amajiki
@isabellabrokemylegs3861
@isabellabrokemylegs3861 3 жыл бұрын
@empress maiko I kinda do need one lmao
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
How many of these did you resonate with?
@isabellabrokemylegs3861
@isabellabrokemylegs3861 3 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go All lmao
@trishahahn5374
@trishahahn5374 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you always for all the great information. I appreciate it!
@Ultimate23Dragon
@Ultimate23Dragon 3 жыл бұрын
3:52 - _Are you so focused on making others happy, that you forgot to look for your own happiness?_ Me: ... *yes.* 😢
@Caeolian87
@Caeolian87 3 жыл бұрын
This was me. I say was because I dont want to be THAT guy anymore
@spotdodge9407
@spotdodge9407 3 жыл бұрын
I have 3 of them I consistently do, but I’ve gotten better! I told myself this year that I’ll probably always be anxious, so I’m gonna have to learn how to live with that pressure, and am pushing myself into situations I’m not comfortable with like, shadowing a wedding photographer, and learning portraits.
@galaxy_mooncat779
@galaxy_mooncat779 3 жыл бұрын
I love this channel so much
@melaniesk12bish30
@melaniesk12bish30 3 жыл бұрын
Galaxy _mooncat77 same
@justarandomperson8868
@justarandomperson8868 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@traumatizedtoast4461
@traumatizedtoast4461 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@thaiavssts
@thaiavssts 3 жыл бұрын
me too
@maggiesalle2256
@maggiesalle2256 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the non-judgmental tone while you hold up the mirror to me and my life. I like this voice too!
@lemorkilli
@lemorkilli 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for letting me know i sure wont ignore what i learned and keep doing most of these things :D
@lumos9439
@lumos9439 3 жыл бұрын
“You are unnecessarily self-sacrificial” Me who just gave up my blanket even though I was freezing so my dog could lay on something more comfortable than the floor: 👁 👄 👁
@lykagladioladelacruz9180
@lykagladioladelacruz9180 3 жыл бұрын
Accurate tho, feels like I'm about to cry & having a mental breakdown for being exposed ♠️
@lillithb1661
@lillithb1661 3 жыл бұрын
Same, I feel worse now (which I kind of expected to happen but I clicked anyway)
@death_pastel8703
@death_pastel8703 3 жыл бұрын
I love Naphia’s art so much!
@lalalanding234
@lalalanding234 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you sooo much for this video
@dailydoseofmedicinee
@dailydoseofmedicinee 3 жыл бұрын
The best method for helping someone who is self-sabotaging is to point out that no matter what you say, they always find excuses, or find things wrong. But if they truly want to address these destructive behaviors you'll be there for them by telling them the truth and staying genuine to who you really are👍
@overmorrow3907
@overmorrow3907 3 жыл бұрын
I tried expressing this habit to a friend of mine, but I don't think we were getting anywhere. I just don't feel comfortable sharing after that..
@hsanchezisidora
@hsanchezisidora 3 жыл бұрын
I think that that doesn't work for everybody. Sometimes you'll just dig them deeper if you point out their sabotaging
@hsanchezisidora
@hsanchezisidora 3 жыл бұрын
I think maybe the way to do it is assuring the person that you're not judging them, and to be supportive
@platinum2t6
@platinum2t6 3 жыл бұрын
This isn't best method and for persons whom this style isn't appropriate often leads more to some things mentioned in the vid like hiding from expressing emotions around others, forced incompetence because this is just another failure to add to the ever growing list, and social isolation. Thus leading some deeper into the often overlapping depression and consequences thereafter. If going to take on the task then choose a method appropriate for that person. It takes some active awareness instead of the idea of awareness
@butteredbananas1394
@butteredbananas1394 3 жыл бұрын
The animation is so cute this episode, I've been loving the recent animations so much
@astroturtle6855
@astroturtle6855 3 жыл бұрын
This channel is so amazing thank you for all that you do
@NapperNeru
@NapperNeru 3 жыл бұрын
Love the narration! 💕
@hope-.
@hope-. Жыл бұрын
I'm only disappointed when I don't try and don't get it. What kills me is when I try my absolute best resisting to that voice telling me that I would not be able to do it and it coming victorious and saying,"See, I told ya. You're not worth anything at all."
@chickensaredinosaurs9550
@chickensaredinosaurs9550 3 жыл бұрын
I feel attacked by creatures who have plants on their heads.
@jonnnnniej
@jonnnnniej 3 жыл бұрын
It is possible to break that self defeating mindset! It was only after getting diagnosed with depression that realized I hadn't focused on loving myself for me, for a really long time. My inner voice had become so negative without me realizing. But recognizing that is the first step in the right direction! From there on, don't shut the voice up but just listen to yourself, realize how negative it is and counter it with a positive thought. In the beginning it might feel forced or awkward, but that's only because you forgot what it was like to be kind to yourself. Eventually the negative will start to have less grip and grow more silent. Even then, don't forget you still have to actively nurture the positivity inside you. We all deserve to feel loved, especially by ourselves! I believe in you, so please believe in yourself too ❤️
@princesserika9899
@princesserika9899 3 жыл бұрын
I never thought of myself as self destructive, But while I watched this video, I relate to some of them. I always hide my emotions to others, always make others happy instead of myself, always having mental breakdowns at night (Especially when bad moments and depression starts haunting me and reminding me) and always keeping my distance on others online ;-;
@strangewayfaringstranger
@strangewayfaringstranger 3 жыл бұрын
3:22 "Or they don't reach out to you anymore cause you ignored all their texts, calls and invitations to hangout." Uh nope, that's the other way around.
@pickituup34
@pickituup34 2 жыл бұрын
exactly, feeling abandoned/ignored by everyone fuels the hopelessness/loneliness. it’s like an endless downward spiral of doom.
@riotz8976
@riotz8976 3 жыл бұрын
OMG. IT’S A MALE VOICE. I’VE ONLY EVERY HEARD A MALE VOICE IN ONE OTHER VIDEO. Not complaining at all, it’s still really nice. It just caught me off guard a bit 😁
@MNAV33
@MNAV33 6 ай бұрын
I’m happy that I saw this video. It reconfirmed to me that I’m just going to ruff time and I’m not self destructive. I’m going to be just fine. Please remember that change is possible. You can do it!
@spicyhaunter4320
@spicyhaunter4320 3 жыл бұрын
Great video and important information to know. Love the animation and voice over on this one as well!
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your positive feedback! Glad you enjoyed it! What other topics would you like us to cover?
@claudiaquintanilla3744
@claudiaquintanilla3744 3 жыл бұрын
Me watching this video rn and avoiding all my homework assignments that are due today
@chestcavitybagpipes
@chestcavitybagpipes 3 жыл бұрын
*Sees dream rascal and techno plush* Me: ah I see you're a man of culture as well.
@greatwavefan397
@greatwavefan397 3 жыл бұрын
and another among us reference in the thumbnail
@jellymidnight_mia2378
@jellymidnight_mia2378 3 жыл бұрын
YEEEESSSSSSS DREAM AND TECHNOBLADDEE!!!!
@Hikari-subs
@Hikari-subs 3 жыл бұрын
i was so happy
@Jenny-pc3vr
@Jenny-pc3vr 3 жыл бұрын
I think I'm in love with his voice 😅 It's so unique and his tone is so calming✨💜
@54-shreyasidas22
@54-shreyasidas22 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for explaining the world what we feel!!! 🙂
@darthvader1783
@darthvader1783 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Psych2Go! You guys have helped me locate my negative behaviors.
@bigscarysteve
@bigscarysteve 3 жыл бұрын
I'm socially isolated, but it's not because I cut myself off from society. I was rejected by the kids in my neighborhood before I even started school. I was desperate to start school, thinking I would find friends there--but I didn't. I wish you would do a video on peer-group rejection.
@notevenfunny1729
@notevenfunny1729 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! 🙌
@raphaelmotta7630
@raphaelmotta7630 3 жыл бұрын
I watched this out of curiosity and was surprised at how much I reconized myself in this.
@raphaelmotta7630
@raphaelmotta7630 3 жыл бұрын
My main issue, acording to my psycologist is my failure to take action. How would you sugest I overcome this?
@minervaloves
@minervaloves 3 жыл бұрын
I really like this guy’s voice.
@frostlord1246
@frostlord1246 3 жыл бұрын
Haven’t heard Jim’s voice in a while
@buriculpamantului9337
@buriculpamantului9337 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, psych2go. I've been blind. I am a really destructive person. Thank you for opening my eyes!! Be blessed now I know what I do wrong
@MaiVil4
@MaiVil4 3 жыл бұрын
Being the comment 1000 is cool, thanks for the awareness and information♡
@juliagomez6768
@juliagomez6768 3 жыл бұрын
*"I'm just not good enough"* Basically my life hahaha
@karlhans6678
@karlhans6678 2 жыл бұрын
help
@elix-hi2742
@elix-hi2742 3 жыл бұрын
I haven't even seen the video yet and I already feel attacked.
@strangewayfaringstranger
@strangewayfaringstranger 3 жыл бұрын
I don't believe it.
@theghost449
@theghost449 3 жыл бұрын
You have an Awesome voice Keep up the great work you guys!
@arielmaule
@arielmaule 3 жыл бұрын
Excellent video.
@theekshu3284
@theekshu3284 3 жыл бұрын
1:05 This reminds me when Dream and Techno fought lol 😭
@Hikari-subs
@Hikari-subs 3 жыл бұрын
same askfksl
@teffley2766
@teffley2766 3 жыл бұрын
Ooo early! May as well repost: Hello! I was wondering... My friend and I are making a google site called Mental Helper, which is an information source about mental disorders. My friend has used several of your videos as sources for information. I wanted to ask... Is this okay? She didn't ask so I figured I would. If we don't have permission I'll ask her to remove the videos right away. If you don't want us linking your videos, can we at least mention your channel as an incredible information source? It's not as though the website is gonna get super popular or anything, and your channel is AMAZING for psychology stuff explained in a simple fashion. It's okay if we can't use this as a source though. Sorry for this crazy flood of words, and thank you for reading! Like so Psych2Go sees
@rio5793
@rio5793 3 жыл бұрын
You should email Pysch2Go directly through their business email or something to guarantee a reply rather than writing it in the comments where t was get lost in the rest.
@teffley2766
@teffley2766 3 жыл бұрын
@@rio5793 Oh you're right tysm!
@rio5793
@rio5793 3 жыл бұрын
@Clovertoe 3352 Np
@gnarthdarkanen7464
@gnarthdarkanen7464 3 жыл бұрын
@@teffley2766 It's worth pointing out that using a proper "Citation" (and I'm not sure what that constitutes online) is the difference between "fair use" and plagiarism... In video form, I'm not even sure where to point you to for better explanations on how to do it properly... BUT that even when you paraphrase (use your own words for the same material) you should cite the material from whence you got it... In text, there are two forms, both of which could be at least "satisfactory" for use in an end-card and in your descriptions or the pinned comment, so you cover all bases...something like this : ["Paraphrase or Quote directly the material" (Book/Vid source, page or min/sec notation). ] AND you can directly link the video either directly after, or below, with a bracketed or parenthetical note about it being the "complete video"... Part of the flexibility here is so you can still make your "Doobly Doo" or the Pinned Comment(s) "look pretty"... which they should. Finally, don't degrade your work. Yeah, I know, in all honesty, it's a pretty far and few between instance that "blows up" online and gets wildly popular... BUT if you reign your hopes in TOO hard, you'll start to forget to put your passion into the work. Frankly, I doubt P2G would get totally pissed about you linking or citing their work as source for your own... AND that said, it's worth sitting through the P2G vid's TWICE... First time, you just absorb the video undistracted. THE SECOND time, you go through and pause periodically when THEY reference something or someone, so you can hit Wikipedia... AND look through the bottom of the wiki's... There's a wealth of bibliographical information (Wikipedia CITATIONS for their sources for information in the article)... In fact, it wouldn't be a bad idea to just glance over how Wikipedia does their citations so you have a good idea of how to flesh out your own Doobly-Doo's and add bibliographical information for your own videos. It's a work in progress, so have some patience for yourself. You may (probably will?) eventually be asked or have the demand to take down a vid'... whatever. It happens. Try to pursue what exactly was the problem, and see how you could fix it... whether you find a different source of very similar information, so they can't keep flagging you, or you just cut that fragment out in a re-edit, and put the rest back up. I'm just hoping to help you out... not just for now, but for a LONG time to come. ;o)
@Str953
@Str953 3 жыл бұрын
I love the new style of art and animation
@jayhoon_supremacy6913
@jayhoon_supremacy6913 3 жыл бұрын
I feel like giving a hug to someone now🥺
@JennyG.COW5
@JennyG.COW5 3 жыл бұрын
Hey, some of these sound like me! Lol! Seriously though I definitely have a hard time seeing something better in me, partly because I have made certain choices in the past and because I've had a critical patent. I've also delt with some depression and it's easier to look at the positive side for others than inside my head. I also have a hard time trying something new because I either talk myself out of it, thinking about things too critically, or I'm more focused on the possibility of failure instead of looking at mistakes as part of the whole process. Sometimes people choose videogames or sugar instead of alcohol and drugs.
@happinessarebutterflies
@happinessarebutterflies 3 жыл бұрын
Hey hey, im here and *damnn* it's been along time since I've watched Psych2go's videos-
@toughhope9627
@toughhope9627 3 жыл бұрын
Army💜
@x.midnight_desu.x
@x.midnight_desu.x 3 жыл бұрын
@@toughhope9627 SAME! ARMYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
@-woozworldsubliminals1112
@-woozworldsubliminals1112 3 жыл бұрын
Armys are everywhere
@Alpaka_parka17
@Alpaka_parka17 3 жыл бұрын
AARRRMMYYY!!!!!!!💜💜💜💜 BORAHAE💜💜💜💜💜
@mioislost5387
@mioislost5387 3 жыл бұрын
💜 a r m y 💜
@meganh6836
@meganh6836 3 жыл бұрын
Love the BMO ❤️ cool reference!
@RosheenQuynh
@RosheenQuynh 3 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh, the auto-generated captions were actually 99.9% accurate (at least for me)! The only thing it screwed up was changing writing out numbers to using digits! Amazing 👏
@evilink12_again47
@evilink12_again47 3 жыл бұрын
Let’s just admit it already, we only watch these videos because they talk about all the things we do
@Cheeto_Puffii
@Cheeto_Puffii Жыл бұрын
From this channel i have learned i am Self Destructive and i hate myself
@xlene509
@xlene509 3 жыл бұрын
Not the voice i expected to hear but stayed because it's good too! Infomative video as always!(:
@duns0000
@duns0000 Жыл бұрын
patiently learning to break patterns of self destruction
@Dayserking
@Dayserking 3 жыл бұрын
Psych2Go, keep in mind that you have a wonderful channel and one of the reasons it’s so great is because you’re able to bring about sensitive issues, usually involving trauma and otherwise vulnerable foundations of our identities, in a non-threatening peaceful manner. This has been especially true because of the absence of masculine energy in your channel. I literally had to close this video because of the VO - keep that in mind a bit please. Men already have a platform for everything else in the world - please don’t expose vulnerable populations to gross masculine energy. Thanks for everything you guys do!
@OzzieBo
@OzzieBo Жыл бұрын
I’m a self destructive person, by I mean I just spontaneously combust randomly…
@cwen_2504
@cwen_2504 3 жыл бұрын
Yay this animation
@emmayouknowit4514
@emmayouknowit4514 3 жыл бұрын
Love how they snuck BMO from Adventure Time into the video 💙 seriously love this channel 😍 thanks for the video guys !
@miliba
@miliba 3 жыл бұрын
Last time i was this early, the Sea Peoples had brought collapse upon the Minoans
@UwU-ye2hy
@UwU-ye2hy 3 жыл бұрын
Why is the video titled "Self-Destructive" I thought this was a ticked bomb LOL
@mioislost5387
@mioislost5387 3 жыл бұрын
UwU
@carriejunior9308
@carriejunior9308 3 жыл бұрын
But, is it wrong tho? The extent that you might go when you are a self-destructive person makes you one (speaking from experience)
@lostmoonchild9735
@lostmoonchild9735 3 жыл бұрын
Love his voice! Super cool!
@pineapplehead5123
@pineapplehead5123 3 жыл бұрын
I realized that I might be a person who sometimes likes making situations worse just to be able to hopfully solve them and feel better having solved it
@padowo
@padowo 3 жыл бұрын
this is gonna be me isn’t it lmao and i haven’t even watched it yet
@samarabaptist
@samarabaptist 3 жыл бұрын
Army
@toughhope9627
@toughhope9627 3 жыл бұрын
ISAWJUNGKOOK
@padowo
@padowo 3 жыл бұрын
Samara Lobo we’re everywhere 😌👉🏼👉🏼
@Asura1733
@Asura1733 3 жыл бұрын
Who's there? Anyways x the voice makes me feel like there's something really interesting here.
@mioislost5387
@mioislost5387 3 жыл бұрын
Senpai
@educatedkids
@educatedkids 2 жыл бұрын
Literally have done everysingle one of these.
@kermit5135
@kermit5135 3 жыл бұрын
Great video! I like this male voice it's calming like the other one, i had 3-7 i don't think i should get worried but i would like to see a video of long term effects of growing up with an alchoholic person, this is my case... and i'm pretty sure i still fail to see some things probably as a "self defense" mechanism i guess because accepting some things like that person just won't be able to break the cycle is painful.. quarantine hasn't helped either 'cause i can't really avoid the situation as much as before anyway thank you guys for everything! You have helped me a lot!! ♡♡♡ i love the design of the characters :D
@mikejarrells431
@mikejarrells431 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks & good job. I'm starting to look at psychology from a healthy relationship perspective..it sounds like you are arguing that people need to conform to a toxic society that expects them to sacrifice themselves to fit in. Maybe these destructive behaviors are healthy ways of coping with a toxic society.
@hsanchezisidora
@hsanchezisidora 3 жыл бұрын
How to change the cycle? How do you find motivation when the things you loved are not enjoyable anymore? How to stop feeling anxious when someone helps you?
@ruchamansukh1203
@ruchamansukh1203 3 жыл бұрын
I was expecting the usual soothing voice and I was so surprised!! Not complaining tho :)
@andressalima2508
@andressalima2508 3 жыл бұрын
Wow... 6 of 7 I didn't expect this much.
@cassiusdalcazarosta8010
@cassiusdalcazarosta8010 3 жыл бұрын
Hey, nice male voice replacement you got there!
@trailmixsss
@trailmixsss 3 жыл бұрын
THE AMONG US DUDES!!!AH!!!
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
They are adorable!
@trailmixsss
@trailmixsss 3 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go I love em. :]
@cloudpengu15
@cloudpengu15 3 жыл бұрын
nice video and content! and...the animation is too adorable to handle 😭🥰🥰
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! 🤗 Did you relate to this video?
@cloudpengu15
@cloudpengu15 3 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go sadly yeah 😅
@FukGZilla
@FukGZilla 10 ай бұрын
lmao it's a little weird you guys made a whole video about me but Im flattered. You pretty much hit all the key points!
@jix5281
@jix5281 3 жыл бұрын
How to overcome this type of behaviour? I'm shit scared now!!!!
@Jan_Katkat
@Jan_Katkat 3 жыл бұрын
1:05 is that technoblade and dream i see? :o
@jellymidnight_mia2378
@jellymidnight_mia2378 3 жыл бұрын
YEEAAA BOOIIIII
@katsuo3228
@katsuo3228 7 ай бұрын
Wow... This one has hit extremely close to home.
@zzamzza
@zzamzza 3 жыл бұрын
WOW THE VOICE IS SO CALMING AND COOL
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