What do you do when you have a crush on someone? Do you talk to them or wait for them to approach you?
@Psych2go Жыл бұрын
Wait for them to approach me!
@khanhhuynh5434 Жыл бұрын
It’s almost always better to approach them and build a sort of friendship to see if they like you back or not
@yceycaylo6741 Жыл бұрын
I've been approaching them the past few days I think their getting the hint
@giga8379 Жыл бұрын
I have a Crush on someone about 4-5 years, she’s still talking with me, she enjoys but i don’t think i look like something If my face was better i’m pretty sure we we’re couples with her
@Psych2go Жыл бұрын
Would love to see if they will approach you back!
@shaded076 Жыл бұрын
here's the timestamps for those in a hurry: 0:24, crack a joke 1:16, remember to say thank you 1:50, share a little secret 2:33, give them compliments 3:19, ask them questions great video btw! your videos help us a lot in many different areas, keep it up! ❤️
@Psych2go Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your timestamps!
@brooklynduong9940 Жыл бұрын
Thank you :)
@williamheadland5533 Жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@rauaish8665 Жыл бұрын
These are very helpful Thank you!
@khalilahd. Жыл бұрын
You’re the best! Thank you 😊
@NemFX Жыл бұрын
You see your crush coming. You are scared. I MAKE MYSELF LOOK BIG. You raise your arms above your head and assume a more threatening posture. You successfully scare away your crush, in a display of dominance. WAIT NO I DIDN'T MEAN TO DO THAT. Too bad, you succeeded.
@Psych2go Жыл бұрын
Isn't that what you do when you see a bear!
@NemFX Жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go Maybe you have a crush on a bear. I'm not judging. Okay, maybe I'm judging.
@Foxolion Жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go it was probably the Charmin mom bear
@BisharpnearOhio Жыл бұрын
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@amongusgaming123 Жыл бұрын
@@NemFX😳
@TrueMaximumOutput Жыл бұрын
Quick bonus one: When they seem to have some sort of issue or look uncomfortable (not around you). Always ask in the most romantic tone you can possibly gather: "Are you ok?", that shows that you care about them, and you are there if they are feeling down. If they say yeah, or don't worry about it. Respond with: "Are you sure?" With a bit more concern, if they open up, then yeah, listen. If they don't reassure them just one more time. "Are you absolutely sure you're ok? I don't like people, especially ones I know very well, to be sad." This will show that they are not just "That person you see every day" or "That person that you sit next to in Math class" They are something more, they mean something to you.
@agatha_6a Жыл бұрын
i'ma use this thankyou
@britneydavid6211 Жыл бұрын
I think the best way to get your crush attracted to you is to be yourself. Doesn't matter if your childish or mature, just be yourself!
@samoasanta Жыл бұрын
your right
@jake_24. Жыл бұрын
Usually myself doesn’t do much… Although I found a girl who I really really like because she sees me for who I am and I’m afraid to ruin our friendship:(
@christiancollongues5248 Жыл бұрын
@@jake_24.if u ask her out make sure that she’s fine with it even if she doesn’t like u back by telling her something like « i want to tell u something but promise me we will still be friends after it » or if u didn’t say that ask her if u can still be friends
@jake_24. Жыл бұрын
@@christiancollongues5248 I don’t think I’m gonna ask her out for now but I got her number today :) I didn’t have it because we recently met and I was scared to ask
@icysnow57cold64 Жыл бұрын
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other. Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone. Women tend to be more emotionally intelligent, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more understanding, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind-hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, more intuitive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way. Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men. Also, girls that are friends touch each other in ways that guys just don’t.
@roaringwater6519 Жыл бұрын
When you ask everything about them and their interests and they never ask you anything back 😭💀💀💀
@studiooftheoldwind137 Жыл бұрын
I mean The start up conversation is about you pitching yourself to them and why they should be w/ you Leading it to a future meet The instigator is meant to do most of the talking However, if she asked you nothing about yourself That's not a good sign my friend Just don't act desperate and chase her, that will completely kill any chances
@smithdave712 Жыл бұрын
It hurts I feel you 🥺
@nelleplayz4441 Жыл бұрын
SAME HERE HOW CAN I SAY HIM MY INTERESTS-
@xHuman-x_x Жыл бұрын
😢
@stackja78 Жыл бұрын
That has happen to me😢
@piramidasukcesu9417 Жыл бұрын
I love this.. late-night cafe vibe your videos have. They're really.. comfy? Hugging? Y'know, the feeling when you're very comfy and warmed.
@Psych2go Жыл бұрын
Glad you like them!
@rauaish8665 Жыл бұрын
Yes! Especially because of her voice but the colour's also make me feel more calm. Maybe it's because I like quiet voice's and pastel colour's. Thank you Phych2Go!
@khalilahd. Жыл бұрын
Yess ❤ they always post the best informative videos 😊
@MinakoNezukosoldersis Жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go I feel like I should tell you this story that happened to me, though you might not read it. The story: So a few days ago my crush rejected me 😭 I was literally so heartbroken that I didn’t talk to anyone the rest of that day. But two days later, when I entered my school classroom, I sit in my seat. I glance to the person next to me, named Kaito. And I immediately fell in love with him somehow. I never speak to him because I’m always afraid. But the next day, I was struggling with my project that was due soon and he offered to help me with it. I just nodded, STILL afraid to say anything. He sat a bit closer and started helping me. My old crush, named Masato, looked like he was going to murder Kaito 😭- but looks like someones jealous! 😂
@Willambam Жыл бұрын
No wonder I'm single😢 I treat everyone like that 😅
@creativeflame_ Жыл бұрын
Video idea: how to tell if someone is crushing on you or not while they are already in a relationship bc it’s _definitely_ a thing
@LosiDriver7223 Жыл бұрын
I'm currently living this right now. And that fact that all of our communication is online atm doesn't help the matter.
@creativeflame_ Жыл бұрын
@@LosiDriver7223damn I’m sorry, I can’t even imagine that suspense bc I’m going through it in person. I feel a bit played and like I wish he’d be straight up. He has a gf but he keeps flirting with me and being super physically affectionate and has even said some suspicious things
@brixenlang3207 Жыл бұрын
yknow i kinda feel the same. She was my childhood friend whom I haven’t seen since I was 9 and we just started chatting online last october. Although she told me that she already has a crush, i still developed feelings for her. i might consider it normal cuz i am still on my early teens and stuff happens Although I must say that I’ve only fully accepted my attraction towards her weeks after; it strengthened when we met irl just before December. And then we talked less, and much less until I felt lonely. She was just really busy at school but I kept overthinking that it was my fault. what’s more is that we mainly communicate online because we live in different cities And them I was told that she was bi and she likes her best friend (whom i don’t know). My chest grew heavier and heavier and I knew i had to vent/release all my feelings and thoughts one day; i overthink frequently too then. A few days ago in a group chat, she finally knew about my feelings and (as expected since last year) she said no and ends up leaving the gc; she was also quite busy that weekend. I blamed myself again that I might’ve upset her. edit: i feel better now, though i am currently giving her some space
@xyro88 Жыл бұрын
@@creativeflame_ They might actually just have a crush on you. This however doesn't mean that they don't love their partner. Their partner might even be informed about it. Or even enabling it. They as a couple might have clear boundaries on what is ok and not. And the person that is hitting on you might not be unfaithful at all. Or they can be a cheating bastard. Or you might read more into it than reality. There are many possibilities. But one thing is for certain. In a relationship, if it's a friendship, coworker, lover, or what ever else, you have to respect the boundaries set. If their interaction towards you makes you uncomfortable you should be clear on your boundaries. "You have a flirtatiously way of talking to me. Since you have a partner, that kind of attention makes me uncomfortable" They might deflect or makes excuses. They might say their partner knows. They might say many things. But if they are not considerate of your boundaries then they don't respect you. And there is always the right time and place for this kind of talk. A party or right after they flirted with you might not be the right moment.
@Hel_P Жыл бұрын
I've been where you are rn and now I am the person in a (kind of draining, long and not the happiest) relationship... it's been a rollercoaster of feelings for me, like I don't want to suddenly hurt my partner (especially because we already hurt each other in the past), but I also don't want my crush to feel played- I'm serious about him. But thing is, I can't even be sure if he really likes me back lmao. So, I've been giving myself lots of headaches overanalyzing everything and trying to not be unfair to anyone, but also to think about myself and my happiness :/
@wonysheart3 ай бұрын
ive only seen my crush for a day and im already watching thousands of videos like this 😭
@KetsutuoRD943 ай бұрын
It do be like that, good luck
@QuinyCat3 ай бұрын
Real
@tsbandbloxfruitstime22 ай бұрын
same💀
@talkto.myself2 ай бұрын
update pls 😋
@Akagami_Haruta2 ай бұрын
Same here@@talkto.myself
@brain_respect_and_freedom Жыл бұрын
There's absolutely NOTHING wrong with feeling nervous. 🙋 Sometimes we care too much or we're overthinking etc. Next time will be easier. 🙏
@heraexp3 Жыл бұрын
i don't even have a crush but i love watching these videos lolol
@Psych2go Жыл бұрын
It could be useful for you when you have a crush!
@heraexp3 Жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go hehe truee!
@misty7645 Жыл бұрын
Samee
@Iron_marshal Жыл бұрын
Same
@xell_bored_124 Жыл бұрын
Same
@sirdenchik Жыл бұрын
Unlike most, i feared rejection and i was too late to confess and my crush has a bf now. Devastating... Good video and i adore the artstyle!
@iihoneybea629 Жыл бұрын
Ooh how to say you have a crush on someone is to be like “do you have a crush on someone” (they will likely soon ask you if you do, when they do, say:) “yeah” (if they ask who say :) “somebody you know really well” (they’ll ask who :) “you know them better than anybody” eventually they will either reveal that they r stalking someone OR realise that you like them! (It works... it may be awkward tho)
@i_luvSky Жыл бұрын
The first time I saw my crush, I rushed straight to them and gave em a BIG hug and said “I like you” quietly, I let them be after. I liked em, but they didn’t back, we’re good friends now, and hopefully soon, we could take it to the next level. I had no regrets of making that choice, and I wasn’t even scared confronting them. 😊
@i_luvSky Жыл бұрын
And to think I see almost everyone struggling to say their feelings. 😢 It’s okay, when you’re ready, go for it. 😊
@psych2gomandarin Жыл бұрын
0:00 intro 0:24 1、crack a joke 1:15 2、remember to say thank you 1:50 3、share a little secret 2:32 4、give them compliments 3:19 5、ask them questions 3:53 outro
@Shanniqua-Yexelle Жыл бұрын
This channel has been SUPER helpful to my problems. Keep up the good work!
@ironpenguingg5 ай бұрын
thank you so much Like all i need is 30 second explanations
@khalilahd. Жыл бұрын
I’ll never get over how cute the animations are ❤ even if I don’t relate to every video topic discussed I always learn something new so thanks Psych2go!
@isakayyik966 Жыл бұрын
God Bless you! Always remember that Jesus died for you and took the punishment for our sins on the cross! If you turn away from your evil and trust ONLY in Him, you will be saved from death for your sin and have eternal life and happiness that will never go away, and you will never experience evil or pain or sadness ever again!
@TheSecondLaughingSoldier Жыл бұрын
@Isakay Yik ? No, sorry. I'll remain in Buddhism. Or no religion at all for that matter.
@Lazy12-vd9lu10 ай бұрын
Me too
@carlosforlen8205 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. This helps all of us who struggle socially and just nice to watch
@MrBlaze8xyz2 ай бұрын
10 likes and I will ask her out
@ShadowShinobiGX8 күн бұрын
one more
@SirBiscut24708 күн бұрын
There ya go buddy, im your 10th like, good luck man, let me know what me liking your comment pyts you through, we need an update.
@MrBlaze8xyz8 күн бұрын
Bet lemme text her
@SirBiscut24707 күн бұрын
@@MrBlaze8xyz lemme know how it goes
@MrBlaze8xyz7 күн бұрын
Bro
@elsabug6769 Жыл бұрын
I’ve watched several of these crush-themed videos & this is actually the most helpful! Thanks!💖🥰
@rikuvivi Жыл бұрын
Of course the most important thing to do around your crush is be yourself. If they don't think your good enough then maybe they aren't the one. But you know your perfect.
@Impo88167 ай бұрын
What do i do when im friends with my crush cuz like idk if shes joking or flirting and like i dont wanna ruin the friendship by telling her and getting rejected
@gulinambarcoglu8563 ай бұрын
@@Impo8816 Try ur chance bro psychology says if u crush on someone and tell it he/she %81 loves back u
@gulinambarcoglu8563 ай бұрын
Not me, psychology
@itzolive3738 Жыл бұрын
These videos get recommended to me everytime I have a crush, then when I lose feelings, psych2go disappears off the face of the earth, and now that i have a new crush, they are magically back again. Its like youtube knows my feelings. Scary
@stephaniepeterson5337 Жыл бұрын
you always cheer my up. if im sad, happy, or have butterflies from a cute dude. my day always becomes 10 times better❤️❤️❤️
@Psych2go Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your sweet message!
@goateye2668 Жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go Hi, Im a fan of This channel.Watching and listening while working..I prefer this channel than radio..I hope i can work with you if you need extra animator..Im 11 yrs experienced animator for tv series and feature films..
@X4nd3r_R0ckz Жыл бұрын
I've never had a crush before so I'll save this for later!
@Psych2go Жыл бұрын
That sounds good! Maybe someone has a crush on you?
@kairinaminemix Жыл бұрын
I did all of these unintentionally when I first met my boyfriend and continued to. He liked me more and more each time we hung out. So these things do work
@Kofira_Vy_Xen Жыл бұрын
I can confirm this ive been asking my best friend a lot of questions since the day we met which was a few years ago and each passing year our bond became stronger❤
@ProbablyHeavensDoor Жыл бұрын
The little piano in the back really eased this video and made it feel so casual and natural- lovely!!
@isaiahvoss Жыл бұрын
I've had many crushes before in the past but they always liked me for my cynical sense of humor right on the spot. It always worked with girls for me. But otherwise they liked me because of how nice of a person I can be towards them as well as support. I had one situationship that ended sour that I had feelings for that I couldn't work out. And I went through emotional pain for a few months to get over two girls I thought were my friends but only used me. I love giving girls as friends compliments so they're appreciated! That's what boosts my self esteem and helped me to talk to girls again. I made a new female friend recently and she started to be there for me and appreciates our friendship.
@rauaish8665 Жыл бұрын
Youre doing a great job
@rauaish8665 Жыл бұрын
By that I mean you're doing a great job at making friends that are the opposite gender to you (in your case girl's and in my case boy's) and i've alway's had trouble with that since people around me either made fun of me or we just drifted apart so I think of that as a big accomplishment (sorry I didn't say this sooner because I was in a rush and why this is so long because you might have mixed emotions by not knowing if I actually mean it or said it to make you feel better about yourself I kind of meant both and I should stop sorry)
@isoisdead Жыл бұрын
Y'all are literally my advice for everything lol
@Psych2go Жыл бұрын
What other advice would you like to hear from us?
@eilon6765 Жыл бұрын
Amazing pfp
@thatpersonvirginia Жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go I know I'm not the original commenter, but I was wondering if you could make more videos about self harm. Like 5 ways to stop helping you from self harming.
@the_irl_sophie_hatter_ Жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go hello I also know I'm not the original commenter but could you possibly give advice on what to do if your crush is dating someone?
@xHuman-x_x Жыл бұрын
ikr same 😅
@GabrielleGayleOfficial Жыл бұрын
1. Make a joke 2. Say thank you 3. Share a secret 4. Compliment them 5. Ask Questions
@bbquinng591 Жыл бұрын
THE ART SYLE OMG
@TakeBackYourMind997 Жыл бұрын
Talk about things you love and let your passion come through in that conversation. It doesn't matter what you're into and whether it's considered cool or not, when you let your passion shine through in conversation you become instantly more charismatic and attractive.
@DeRez19 Жыл бұрын
I disagree. I'm seen as unattractive whenever I talk about things nobody else is interested in. Chased off a lot of girls talking about Star Wars or Smash Brothers when they didn't care about either series. It's not like I didn't let them talk, either. They just thought I was boring and didn't bother talking to me again. Now if I had a charming face and had a deeper voice, what you're saying could be true. Sadly I have neither.
@msacharacterdrawings4439 Жыл бұрын
@@DeRez19 don’t worry. If they don’t see how special you are, then they’re jerks. Don’t let them make you downhearted
@DeRez19 Жыл бұрын
@@msacharacterdrawings4439 I wouldn't call them jerks for that. If they aren't interested, it is what it is. I'm sure it's a me problem most likely, if *most* women seriously don't care about what I have to say.
@msacharacterdrawings4439 Жыл бұрын
@@DeRez19 yeah, sorry, I didn’t mean it like that
@DeRez19 Жыл бұрын
@@msacharacterdrawings4439 It's all good 👍
@tisoyowens724 Жыл бұрын
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS
@Psych2go Жыл бұрын
Of course! What did you learn from this video?
@CressNT Жыл бұрын
I really don't know why I clicked on this video right after getting rejected, but it doesn't matter. Someday I'll figure it out. At least I think we can keep being friends. Truth is like a blackbird... let it free, even if it will leave to fly among the clouds.
@LemonJam-xr6xx8 ай бұрын
These are all great ideas, besides the fact that my brain stops working when I’m around them and can’t remember anything u told me
@constancialazarra31726 ай бұрын
I confessed once to my crush, now we're the bestest of friends.
@NotKennethMcCormick Жыл бұрын
I think im pretty lucky, for what i've heard, most people get nervous and blush while talking to their crush, while I just blush and get nervous when my friends tease me about it I don't have trouble talking to him so It'll be easy to try these tips Thanks for the video btw!
@isaiahvoss Жыл бұрын
Just like Abed said in Community "The truth is lots of girls like me because, let's face it, I'm pretty adorable, and, uh, my aloofness unconsciously reminds them of their fathers, so... I'm more used to them approaching me." (That's how I would feel if I was trying to change or have a girlfriend.)
@watermelonspeech Жыл бұрын
me and my crush laugh our brains out. he’s _literally_ the one guy I actually have fun with. UPDATE SINCE YOU PEOPLE ASKING.. I moved, never got to see him again. he’s actually really ugly too, idk what I saw in him. also, I got rejected, but we stayed friends. ..before I moved.
@crystaleye3948 Жыл бұрын
Remember.
@ziggapoopstainpixbee3859 Жыл бұрын
Honestly same bro
@KaelynnCreates Жыл бұрын
Same, same tho
@tryanime Жыл бұрын
it's been 8 months can we get an update-- did you do anything abt the crush
@kairavpatel1392 Жыл бұрын
Yes bro give an update
@kajalchoudhary5502 Жыл бұрын
From being friend to become my crush and then my love that's my story of unconditional love for him.
@stickfigure49754 ай бұрын
It’s just like the garden and the butterfly mentality. Don’t chase after the butterfly because it will always fly away. But instead, build yourself a beautiful garden and improve it every day to attract the most beautiful butterfly. And if it doesn’t work, at least you have a beautiful garden.
@ehmwhy Жыл бұрын
Here’s a hard truth that most of you will have to accept: The vast majority of crushes are one sided - either you will have a crush on someone or someone will have a crush on you. And unless you’re a physically attractive woman, or a really extroverted guy they won’t ever reciprocate. Took me over 10 years to realise this.
@RaqiiCat Жыл бұрын
Well shit
@Owen-ur8wn Жыл бұрын
im screwed
@teencrisis4750 Жыл бұрын
Yea..no 😭
@JavierEscuella1911 Жыл бұрын
I had a crush on a friend for the longest time. I’ve known her for years. I wouldn’t even call her a crush, I just love her, simple as that. We have an amazing friendship and I hope I get the balls to tell her one of these days. I know it’s corny, but if want to find someone, you have to know them. Wanting to be with someone because on the surface because they are attractive isn’t love, it’s infatuation. This is what I think is the key to a healthy relationship. Of course I’m just a rando on the internet who isn’t in a relationship and you don’t necessarily have to love someone on a deeper level to be in a healthy relationship but I think it’s a good foundation for a truly good relationship. Take my words with a grain of salt, I really don’t know if what I’m saying is stupid as hell lol
@the_finkledinkle Жыл бұрын
Well my crushes cousin goes to the same school and is in the same year and they said hiiiii so I always have a backup
@axstr0m1 Жыл бұрын
Ty for this! Me and my crush used to be friends but things got uhm….more bumpy than we expected. I hope this will help me become closer to them again (hopefully)!
@vincentryker8012 Жыл бұрын
It's funny that I keep watching these videos but still get silent when I try to confess my feelings. Like it feels like someone or something took my voice.
@Psych2go Жыл бұрын
I'm sure that isn't the case! Have you tried the old fashion way? Just be direct and tell them you like them?
@vincentryker8012 Жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go I am trying, it's just that I suddenly am not able to talk or something like that.
@apersonorsomething8705 Жыл бұрын
The same thing happens to me, I just feel like I can't talk to them about it at all, like I try but no sound comes out, it kinda feels like someone is choking me or something...Do you find yourself not being able to breathe too or is that just a me thing?
@vincentryker8012 Жыл бұрын
@@apersonorsomething8705 yes! Exactly like this!
@spareacc5941 Жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go Im still in school, andthat approach may not be as helpful. There is some complexity and they dont like me back, they could tell their friends who would tell their friends and the whole schoo would know the deal.
@NeverEverWatchThis Жыл бұрын
Thanks a bunch! I have been stuck in the “best friend, try again” loop for 4 years. I’m going to try some of these tips. Like this video y’all so more people can see this!
@Astroo-dc3yz Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the videos Psych2Go! You’ve really helped me and my crush, since we’ve finally turned into BF & GF because of your tips!
@jwanie366 Жыл бұрын
I've done this with a few of my crushes, only to later find out that they're already in relationships. There's always another one, though!
@camhamsshow Жыл бұрын
I have a crush and I've actually done all of these things with her. With Valentine's day coming up it's making me super nervous to make any more advances though
@stephenaviaspace5056 Жыл бұрын
Hi. Thanks for this. I've been a big fan of you for a long time, I like psychology, I like Brits, I learn lots of English jokes and humour all the time especially from Tom Scott... I have a little secret crush. I think we're both shy to each other and both care for each other in some way, but we almost never talk to each other in person, and, pretty awkward! Butterflies in the stomach make it so nervous for a talk, you don't know what's gonna happen next, and you overthink ahead. It's been a year already, and all I know is about myself! 😅
@JustahumbletalonmainАй бұрын
Best psych2go voice actor for sure
@CrovelAnimation Жыл бұрын
When I'm stressed sometimes I put on a Psyc2go video related to why I'm stressed. Idk who is the narrator in these videos but her voice is so calming. I feel relaxed when I'm watching psyc2go
@herstechz9645 Жыл бұрын
Watching your videos are just like a daily habit for me now Really love your voice and way of speaking, feels so calm and so satisfying to just listen to them.
@legendaryiguess Жыл бұрын
This channel has really helped the past few weeks. Been going through some confusing times.
@crescent.t Жыл бұрын
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@_quixote Жыл бұрын
I only talked to her once so far, but it was the best day I've had in a while. I made a few jokes snd she laughed, but no one got anyone's number, and when we passed by each other in school, it's kinda awkward so we don't say anything to me. I think she's the same as me, in the fact that I'm not that good with the opposite gender
@unasworld81686 ай бұрын
My crush has been the most kind person ever! ❤I am trusting you and I think I might tell him my feelings. Thank you for the video! ❤My biggest fear is that he rejects me tho.. so it might take so time! But, these suggestions has boosted my mood here. Thanks so much!! :D
@emilyniauhueyningmoe2894 Жыл бұрын
I don’t have a crush, but I do this to all my friends, it makes our relationship last longer and I genuinely like to see them smile. They’ll say something about their day or what they’ve accomplished, and sometimes I don’t really know how to reply to that, but I’ll ask questions to just keep them talking! I’m really talkative when it comes to talking about myself, so the tip is always to let the person speak first before you do
@MexicanCrusader Жыл бұрын
Blah blah blah blah blah
@UndercookedChicken897 Жыл бұрын
@@MexicanCrusaderok geez 💀
@KifuruHeriko Жыл бұрын
My only problem is that all five of these things I do to everyone, especially asking questions, I'm the curious type
@ValHanuman Жыл бұрын
What do I do in this situation. I’m in school and have a crush. I sit right next to them in a class but I’m WAY to scared to say anything. (I’m a guy)Everyday I just try saying hi when I see them but I get to nervous thinking that she will think of me as weird and annoying. What should I do and how do I overcome that feeling.
@bts4life707 Жыл бұрын
Don't be afraid said hi and good morning to her or you can ask some questions related to note or lecture
@idkmyuser6854 Жыл бұрын
I probably don't have the confidence to do these but they are still helpful!
@Psych2go Жыл бұрын
Confidence takes time to build up! I believe in you that you'll be able to overcome all this
@idkmyuser6854 Жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go that means a lot! I have a lot of social anxiety
@studiooftheoldwind137 Жыл бұрын
Confidence is hard to build up Discipline yourself Work on your body and mind This will build confidence and focus Practice by talking to a lot of people The only way to truly build confidence is to throw yourself in the water
@zumbawithkelli6931 Жыл бұрын
Same i deal you
@InstaTubeReels Жыл бұрын
It’s hard to do smalltalk with people because my personality is pretty plane and the only thing I can talk to people about are politics, news and gossip.
@VaydenMan Жыл бұрын
I swear almost every girl I've met in a while has asked just random mundane questions, and this truly gives me an answer. There's a low chance any of them liked me, but hey, makes me feel better.
@TheUglyDuckling997 Жыл бұрын
Those 5 things may but nothing works as well as the ultimate technique "Will you go out with me"
@Psych2go Жыл бұрын
That is true! Does it work for you when you are direct with your approach?
@DeterminedBladeАй бұрын
This is like if you roll anything below a nat 20 it’s a fail
@diegovillanueva5237 Жыл бұрын
imagine someone like me watching a video that gives me advice on what to say YET haven't talked to their current crush in 4-5 years💀💀
@swiftie130011 ай бұрын
Yep like I had a crush on someone 4 years ago but so much time has passed now my crush on them is basically non existent. And I like ask myself- why did I even like them exactly?
@A55a551n Жыл бұрын
Timestamps 1). Crack a joke 0:24 2). Remember to say thank you 1:16 3). Share a little secret 1:50 4). Give them compliments 2:33 5). Ask them questions 3:19 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice. 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙
@nickfu8364 Жыл бұрын
This really helps!! I always struggle when my crush comes :3
@Worms.in.the.earth. Жыл бұрын
me being really good friends with my crush:
@DeRez19 Жыл бұрын
Great video. I'll definitely try using creative jokes to get my feelings across. Being 100% direct never helped me because I am either too nervous or my proposal is too boring. Jokes definitely lighten the mood, even the slightly-cringy ones. I'm probably going to let the women do the approaching, though. I've always had a bad eye when it comes to this. Normally I like women who want nothing to do with me, so I get embarrassed or disappointed. It's hard for me to convince myself to approach any girl after repeatedly looking like a fool trying.
@wajdemohamed4779 Жыл бұрын
The timing of this was on point :D
@Psych2go Жыл бұрын
Glad to hear! Are you planning to confess to your crush?
@wajdemohamed4779 Жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go I am ! I hope it turns out well :)
@Bitter_Beauty_Music Жыл бұрын
And a word of wisdom: if they ain't interested in being your friend at the very least, they definitely ain't interested in being your girlfriend. Happy flirting everyone ☺️
@Messi-uu3ox Жыл бұрын
Could someone advise me what to do? My crush has been my girl best friend since 5 years, I don't know if she just wants to be my friend or something more, I don't know what to do and how to take this forward. We short talk almost everyday but these days it keeps on getting awkward because I don't know what to do, pls help
@frogoyes7611 Жыл бұрын
@@Messi-uu3oxDoes she talk about liking other people or anything? If she does certain things like that you may just be a "best friend" if not you should just take the leap and tell her your feelings in a causal way.
@Cat-mr4oj5 ай бұрын
When giving compliments make sure to do it on something you know they care about, nails, hair, clothes... Etc!
@ΕΛΕΥΘΕΡΙΑΑΝΤΑΒΑΛΗ7 ай бұрын
I say to him > every time he sneeze just to hear a thank u or show that i care
@SPADECARD Жыл бұрын
“It’s also a simple way to tell someone, I appreciate you” My crush who straight up says “I appreciate you” to me:
@imawakemymindisalive13 Жыл бұрын
bruh that’s what the kitchen manager says to the volunteers where i work 😂😂😂
@pushypapi Жыл бұрын
hi Psych2Go, i have a crush on someone, and after watching your videos about crushes, i found that this person shows signs of both possibilities: that they like me, or that they don’t feel the same way. i am confused af because i don’t understand what their actions mean. one minute they’re flirting with me, getting close with me, showing psychological signs that they’re into me. but at the same time, they ignore my texts, i’m the one who always start a convo or plan to do things with them, and it’s really one-sided. in your opinion, how should i handle this situation? 😔
@studiooftheoldwind137 Жыл бұрын
Be direct
@Am_._ Жыл бұрын
2:33 Ladies, we should keep this in mind. Apparently guys get a shockingly low amount of compliments. So let's try to compliment them on little things :)
@MewGaming-dw5peАй бұрын
As a young boy in middle school I still get a LOT and I mean a LOT of compliments from this girl who has a crush on me. Also my best friend tries to hide her flirts. What should I tell her?
@dabaconrblx441Ай бұрын
@Am_._ yea I get very little compliments I'm in 9th now I get very less compliments from my parents and others.im an introvert and I am a top scorer in my school. I don't respect myself and I'm very introverted.maye that's why
@Antiantiantisociety Жыл бұрын
Thank you I feel so much more confident about talking to my crush now hopefully she likes it.
@lillyy.146 ай бұрын
ppl watching this your not alone, there are 1.1m other ppl that watched this and we're all rooting for ourselves and each other! we got this!
@AnjuAdhikariAcharya27 күн бұрын
0:28 me thinking he was abt to say “WHEN DEEZ NUTS ON YOUR FACE”😂😂😂
@elliehagman5658 Жыл бұрын
When you already do all of these things because you are a close friend with your crush.😏
@shimmyeahhh5584 Жыл бұрын
I didn't know that those tips you're explaining are my normal things!😮 Now I know why my crush liked me back!😁
@Psych2go Жыл бұрын
amazing! how's the relationship going?
@shimmyeahhh5584 Жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go It's going well, and we're still counting!
@historymacrh Жыл бұрын
You're lucky
@shimmyeahhh5584 Жыл бұрын
@@historymacrh I believe that it's not about luck. You should know more about that person, talk to them, make them feel valid, make them feel like they're really special, because later on they will appreciate your kindness and love. That's the point where you and that person love starts. Hope it helps, and also follow those tip up😉
@historymacrh Жыл бұрын
@@shimmyeahhh5584 noo thats not quite what i mean i tried everything compliment telling her direct being there for her yet she doesn't like me
@TheDarkestmoon81 Жыл бұрын
i feel like these are the best kind of videos. they have good art and animation to keep the viewer focused and even a couple of jokes here and there, but it also gives you important advice backed by science
@sawakoKIN16 күн бұрын
Imma just share my story- So I met this new guy at school and I didn't think much of it until I- I began liking him. oh well- and I think he likes me too. Comparing how he treats others and me is a real difference. To others, he would keep a distance or try and block them from getting close. But for me, he would try getting closer and subtly touch me while trying to make me laugh. For others, he would talk to them sometimes, but for me he won't stop talking- Honestly, I can't tell if thats just his way of showing that he likes me or he doesn't like talking to those people. And, I made a gift for his late birthday but he keeps denying my gift while I think- blushing- Anyways, tomorrow I'll sneak the gift into his bag with my bestie. Oh yeah, his name is Harmon and uh if you're reading this Harmon, JUST TAKE MY GIFT- Yall please give likes my finger is sore-
@YourFavoriteBlueHedgehog6 ай бұрын
Me after working so hard to make sure my crush thinks I don’t like her 😭🙏
@natanielmaciejewski56453 ай бұрын
Why? :o
@YourFavoriteBlueHedgehog3 ай бұрын
@@natanielmaciejewski5645 I was scared of rejection
@EllyValentini3 ай бұрын
me too 😅 How do I undo months of hiding my feelings?! Why did I do this?! 😫
@StangeGirly00 Жыл бұрын
People don’t normally find my dark humor attractive…
@stickfigure49754 ай бұрын
It's dark humour what do you expect 💀
@Skieboos3 ай бұрын
I mean😬
@Gewehier2 ай бұрын
I think dark Humor is just better😂
@Akagami_Haruta2 ай бұрын
Same too@@Gewehier
@IlijaJukic-z3iСағат бұрын
Well some people like me, do.
@callmeyssaa Жыл бұрын
Me right here who never talked to my crush 👁👄👁
@swiftie130011 ай бұрын
Exactly! Why it's gotta be so difficult!!!!
@natanielmaciejewski56453 ай бұрын
It's a sign 😉💖
@CASA-dy4vsАй бұрын
I only talked to mine because I was too nervous to get up and draw an image that reflects a word as a end of term game, she offered to go instead since I was just sitting there frozen in place like wth is happening.
@kenzienotkensie20 күн бұрын
i like this guy in my school but he’s TOTALLY different (in looks,) but we are basically a PERFECT pair from what i think- we’re friends but I don’t know if I should tell him I like him
@Thedonutguy-o9vАй бұрын
Thank you. This video helped me get with my crush. I’m forever in debt to you
@wlfpup6072 Жыл бұрын
What about if he has another crush, he knows that you like him, and he says that he wants to date later. 💀😭😳
@김전이-y7j Жыл бұрын
My crush asked me if I’m a lesbian, and I told him I’m bisexual …he’s so shocked😂
@jackyjackazz Жыл бұрын
Currently trying to figure out if my friend is in love with me
@Psych2go Жыл бұрын
Did any of these signs help answer your question?
@Styrofoam_Mannequin272 ай бұрын
Dang.
@Djembedude12 Жыл бұрын
I talked to my crush for like 10 seconds right before the bel rang, and like 5 minutes later I was still shaking at lunch. She's such an angel 😅
@TheRealDurd Жыл бұрын
I dont have a crush but i somehow enjoy watching these
@might_guy05 Жыл бұрын
Meanwhile imagine someone having a bad humor and is already being ignored by their crush 😂😂
@Random_person0229 Жыл бұрын
Middle schoolers watching this:😊
@arvinmedina4841 Жыл бұрын
0:29 Is it bad that I thought of a deez nuts joke?
@Jbugie Жыл бұрын
Yes and no ... I guess
@Secretnotbleatnikplayingamez3 ай бұрын
No bc I did to
@TheOnlyLightVelix2 ай бұрын
No cuz I did too😭
@Styrofoam_Mannequin272 ай бұрын
Y E S
@undertaledoge Жыл бұрын
Just watching this video, even though i dont have a crush, makes me happy. I was smiling through the whole thing.
@imnotbluebird475710 күн бұрын
If the thought is in the back of your head that you will say something wrong, say something crazyly confident and roll with it. If it works, great for u! If it does not, try a joke, or a compliment next time. The trick to being confident to your crush is put aside all the negeitivity and be optimistic. Dont know if this helps, but i hope it does! My over confidence boosted me to the max, but consider other than just looks when coming to a crush. Hope this helps!
@theoracle2288 Жыл бұрын
The Wendy joke didn't go well in my head 💀
@darkspace1350 Жыл бұрын
fr, for a sec I actually thought they were going to say wendeez nuts… Id have died laughing.
@Pixelatetech Жыл бұрын
1:50 they want to kill me
@LuxeRiderLrs8kvАй бұрын
I have a dark side that is violent and chaotic
@Kays-d7j Жыл бұрын
Is it just me that never gets awkward while talking or hanging around there crush?
@DefoNotJuri Жыл бұрын
This channel creates videos from my head
@RozeyzYt6 ай бұрын
I dont even have a crush but just listening to these videos are so calming ngl