6 Genius Dating Hacks Every Introvert Should Know

Are you familiar with personality matchmaking? Meet compatible personality matches on So Syncd today: app.sosyncd.com/BdNN/8psych2go In this video, we're going to reveal 6 genius dating hacks that every introvert should know. Dating as an introvert can be tough, but with these tips, you'll be able to overcome any obstacles and find the love of your life! If you're looking for dating advice that's tailored specifically for introverts, then this video is for you!
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[@YumiTsui]

What was your experience like dating a introvert?

[@NotAnAlex_Guy]

have never dated anybody. 💀

[@markgallagher1790]

Bold of you to assume I have dated anyone

[@neofulcrum5013]

Woman I am the introvert

[@iamnisc]

​@@NotAnAlex_Guymuuh ki baat

[@Coolkidstan]

Huge gaps of silence sometimes and most of the time I had to approach her instead of her approaching me

[@danimacfarlan4266]

I love how Komi Can’t Communicate characters were featured in the beginning of the video 😭❤️

[@omaewamoushinderuu]

Omg that was Komi??? I knew I recognized her! Great choice for this topic. And Blake/Yang too from RWBY

[@avenger_j]

Unexpected and wholesome. But would Komi be considered an introvert? Communication disorder doesn't mean they are introverts or does it

[@Psych2go]

Thank you for noticing!

[@yarittromero5156]

I thought it was Spongebob

[@bastionsea2829]

​@@avenger_jintroverts tend not to communicate well with others, I would think Komi is a rare case of how introversion could manafest

[@ct0920]

Using Komi-San works so well. And the thumbnail of Yang and Blake was cute asf also.

[@johnchilders799]

you are the first one i have seen that mentioned it

[@SnoopyXzY]

about to say the same

[@frothylube491]

Hello introverts let me tell you a story of one of my happiest relationships. (Me being a major extrovert) About 3 years ago, me and a very introverted girl met at a library. We were in a class and were put into a small discussion group. I offered to initiate the first meet up, which no one arrived, except for this girl. She was incredibly shy and quiet. Having a very soft tone and felt a bit embarrassed whenever I would catch everyone’s attention with my more “lively” voice. I noticed this and after the first few meet ups, I suggested maybe going to a local coffee shop I saw her frequent a lot. (At this point I wasn’t into her but I could tell she was very overwhelmed but forcing herself to go.) I’d say after 2-3 study sessions at the coffee shop, I noticed she opened up a bit more. She was still shy and quiet, but not as much. I noticed she would sit closer and closer to me in both class and when studying. And I must admit I started to find her soft nature very cute. So I asked her out on a coffee date. On our first date I could tell she was nervous so I just made sure to keep things to us, lower my tone, and just have a very light hearted conversation. It went well and after several more dates we got together. Our first few months together were great, but I felt a little bit bored when we didn’t go out to do much, again being the massive extrovert I was, so I suggested going out for a friends birthday. She was shy about it at first but eventually forced herself to go. (I’ll get to that part in a minute.) It was a great night out, until I saw my gf visibly shaking. I tried asking her what was wrong but she didn’t want to talk about it. Which led to her sneaking away and crying in the bathroom, where one of my good girl friends found her. She told me my gf was having a sensory overload, which I didn’t know much about, and after explaining everything to me, I told my friend that I wanted to take my gf home and let her relax. He understood. After taking her home and laying down with her she began to cry again. Apologizing for her behavior. Rather than going into the “what happened” talk I just held her and calmed her down. Comforting her and bringing her back into a safe place. Only asking her to tell me what happened the next day and asking her more about her social boundaries and worries. During that conversation, she said “I’m sorry I’m so introverted……I just have so much social anxiety…if you don’t want to deal with me I understand. You’re an outgoing guy and I don’t wanna hold you down from a matching girlfriend.” I held her and simply told her something my grandpa once told me, “What makes a happy couple is not them being the same person. But that they understand their differences.” We happily dated for about 2.5 years, until she graduated and moved away for work. We talked about doing distance but she needed me and I needed to stay and further my education. We both understood each others needs and mutually parted. It hurt letting go of someone I loved that much. But I stay in touch with her and she’s doing amazing! She’s not a social butterfly but she’s much more open about expressing who she is. So to all my introverts, don’t be afraid of loving an extrovert. You deserve love, as yourself. Don’t try to hide behind a mask. You’ll find someone, and there are plenty of other extroverts like me who need an introvert in their life to slow down and take a breathe. My gf showed me that all those years ago. Thank you Breann for what you taught me and all the memories❤️

[@r34skyline23]

Honestly made me cry bro ngl that was the sweetest story I have heard in a very long time

[@Cherry_picked00]

Your Mama raised you right 👑

[@frothylube491]

@@Cherry_picked00 I was just raised to respect others. I do not know the demons those around me face, but what I can do is create a safe place where those demons seem to drift away. That’s the way my old man and mom raised me.

[@Cherry_picked00]

@@frothylube491 they've done a great job 👍🤝

[@The-man-who-speaks-in-hands]

sounds more like a fantasy than real life 😭

[@unknown11215]

0:29 negative connotation 1:19 slow and steady 2:44 ad 2:36 ad ends 3:36 quiet and familiar 4:39 don't ghost 5:34 self check 6:51 be your 💯

[@Psych2go]

Thank you for adding the time stamps!

[@KuLaydMahn]

I don't want to be negative here, but... How does the ad end before it starts? I think that's more groundbreaking than anything in the video! 😆

[@unknown11215]

@@Psych2go you are welcome

[@user-hk4ve6bf8g]

Yooo thanks. ❤

[@shepshep6793]

Btw you switched up the ad and the end of the ad

[@NaviNeku24]

I’m a simple person. I see Bumbleby on the thumbnail. I click. And they come in at “slow and steady” and “no ghosting”. Genius. 💜💛

[@SandyTheDesertFox]

I don't even watch psych2go i came here for the cute Bumbleby art fjhehdjsj

[@kellybechtel3803]

I literally came here because I saw the Bees on the thumbnail 😅😅

[@Auramations-ml4kv]

Is anyone gonna talk about that the thumbnail is literally BLAKE AND YANG?!?!?! BUMBLEBY FOREVER!!💛🖤

[@christscrackers647]

Funny how they used Bumblebee from RWBY as visuals for this dating app video and they literally just started dating officially as of the last volume.

[@omaewamoushinderuu]

Wait- WHAT?! Imma pretend I didn't see this amazing spoiler

[@gothsinn23]

And to feature them in the "no ghosting" segment... they knew exactly what they were doing lmao

[@InterdictionAirsoft]

Except it was rushed and it came out of left field, and it doesn’t make sense. And lastly what did Yang do to earn Blake’s love, as I recall sun saved Blake and her parents from a life threatening danger. Yang did no such thing and when she tried to save Blake she lost an arm.

[@coolkid44447]

Slow and steady and no ghosting. So ironic for both of them. They've been forced in since V6 with no natural buildup just pushed into the camera and practically ar together by the midpoint of V6 as they're issues are largely shoved under the rug... Blake treating Yang like a broken doll, only for Yang to bend over and bark for Blake by pushing away responsibilities, friends and family by leaving them for dead to the extent of committing murder for Blake. Blake's such an abusive person who happens to also be introverted we seen that with Sun in the show and in the comics to the extent of Ilia and even Adam. The trauma from the abandonment and pent up anger with Yang being glossed over so the forced relationship can stick

[@TotalNoobAtEverythin]

@@InterdictionAirsoft bro your comment legitimately made me laugh out loud!! Came out of left field??? As if they haven’t been caressing each other’s faces and sending longing stares and whatnot since V6 😂 Also you don’t “earn” someone’s love, that’s such a toxic way of thinking and I hope you grow out of that, for your own sake and those around you.

[@raebutler1407]

My husband and I are both introverts, but when we're together we become extroverted. Our first date was at a park. 18 years later we still talk nonstop like that wonderful first date. It took me 30 years to find him, but it was well worth the wait.❤️

[@BenjaminCronce]

I can kind of understand that. I'm an introvert on the aromantic asexual spectrum. I find the idea of romance and sexual intimacy mentally exhausting. But after I got to know my wife, being with her recharges my batteries as much as being romantic and sexual discharges them. I'm still fundamentally repulsed by romance, but my enjoyment with her is a strong pro than the con of being aro.

[@raebutler1407]

@@lesshuman00 I didn't want to either, it's just how things turned out for me.

[@Wortwort-Spooderbat]

This gives me hope since I'm 25. Stinks still that all my friends get to feel love and sex though. I want a relationship but I'd be down for casual sex instead of fantasizing about it 😂

[@mariobrothersfan2792]

I love how Blake and Yang are in the “slow and steady” and “overcoming ghosting anxiety” sections. It’s such a nice subtle character study on them and how their relationship forms💕

[@SandyTheDesertFox]

Bruh Blake ghosted Yang's ass for 2 seasons 😭😭😭

[@NaviNeku24]

RIGHT?! I SAID THE EXACT SAME THING

[@nickthepick8043]

I'll admit, I liked it too. And I hate their relationship in the show.

[@CrimsonXE]

@@SandyTheDesertFox Context matters: she left her to protect her, since Blake's mindset was guilt-ridden and seeing herself as a poison to everyone around her. She wasn't just a teen wanting to disappear for a bit of time.

[@CrimsonXE]

@@nickthepick8043 That last bit is truly just sad.

[@midwintersymph]

I'm a simple woman, I see Bumblebee, I click.

[@lamacorn6757]

Facts

[@Alylovesanything]

Truth bomb

[@user-kx4ir5iu2d]

Bumblebee?

[@user-kx4ir5iu2d]

@@midwintersymph thank you TT I feel stoppid now

[@makotohan166]

Goddamn right

[@DarkTyyp]

As an Introvert myself, these really help , especially dating another introvert!

[@Psych2go]

Do you find dating to be difficult as an introvert?

[@jelly4129]

I want to date another introvert but I can't they have to be at least a little bit social cuz both of us would be so awkward ordering and family parties would be a nightmare lol

[@minecraftboi7860]

I been wait for this video for a long time

[@DarkTyyp]

@@Psych2go a lot of times yeah, but I've learned to adapt over time trying to find the right one for me :)

[@jackiecastillo2484]

Great tips huh

[@matrixin1053]

Such a cute and insightful video! The voice behind this video really suits Blake and I never thought I'd see RWBY characters in a video like this let alone my 2 absolute favorite ones. So good to see best girl Blake in it 💜

[@mirceazaharia2094]

Not that I'll ever date anyone in my life, but it's nice to know that such tips exist.

[@FFRrox]

I'm similar. I feel that I probably won't be able to get a date with anyone because of how shy and awkward I am and don't have the ability to pick up on signs because I'm autistic and I've been rejected before. I also don't know how or where to meet people or if I will ever find the one who actually wants to be with me

[@YourChronicIllnessAdvocate]

Love comes knocking when we least expect it and trust me I speak from experience and The One will never leave you instead they will complete you and fight for you no matter what. I found my person when I wasn't looking and we're taking it slow because I just came out of a toxic roller-coaster relationship. Love will find you. Don't give up.

[@Psych2go]

Do you ever feel like you'll put yourself out there to date? Or do you feel like dating is not really your priority?

[@mirceazaharia2094]

​@Psych2Go Probably not. I once saw a movie that scarred me for life - a crazy 14yo girl Me2 's her male adult teacher. Everyone instantly believed her and nearly ruined that teacher's life. All women walk around with this loaded weapon on them at all time, and can ruin your life ON A WHIM. I was 12 when I saw it. It's a minefield. Let's not forget that traditional gender norms, which have a strong basis in evolutionary biology and psychology, which is basically how we are SUPPOSED to behave to have a functioning species and society, are now stupidly considered obsolete. What is normal, natural and good is considered "toxic" and socially unacceptable. Then there is the exceptional levels of female hypergamy, and the sheer lack of s-ex-ual discipline displayed by both males and females, especially the most desirable men and large majority of women. They sleep around, RUIN their dopamine receptors, make themselves virtually unable to pair bond and mate as they normally should. With the break-down of the traditional family, which is the fundamental unit of humanity everything goes to hell. Civilization is an unbroken chain of parents doing a good enough job to raise good enough people which can then be a good enough humanity. The parents perish, the children grown up to be (hopefully) good enough people and have a good enough humanity that can do a good enough job of the long, complex process of CIVILIZATION, and hopefully be good enough parents to raise good enough children in their own turn. Fewer and fewer families are staying together long enough to do a proper job of it. More and more broken families pumping out broken children which will make more broken families and broken children. Many who are broken never put themselves back together again enough to be functional. Assuming that they ever start a family at all. I was raised on Greek mythology and Jules Verne. I grew up seeing what greatness human beings are capable of and aspiring to be the same. My peers did not, apparently. I was consistently rejected for being weird and different throughout my childhood and adolescence. I rarely made good friends, rarely stayed in touch. I was White Fang, and they were the Indian camp dogs - alien to one another. I missed the vast majority of social developmental milestones. The more I was rejected, the less social experience I got. The less social experience I got, the "weirder" I behaved, the more I was rejected. I was bullied, obviously. I dealt with it, sometimes well, sometimes poorly, and I never gave in, never surrendered my self to the herd. I am 37. Hugless, kissless, proud owner of a pristine V card. I never wanted a hundred women. I only ever wanted one good one. But these seem to be very rare nowadays. Not that I can attract one to begin with. Had one date once with a decent girl - nerd, kind of cute, decent personality. I screwed it up, I was a very depressed, scared, cowardly, filthy NEET back then. Went on one date, then I lost her phone number and ghosted her out of cowardice. Didn't deserve her anyway, hope she's doing well. Am doing better nowadays. Stoicism, philosophy, calisthenic work outs and nature walks are fantastic coping mechanisms. With a little luck, maybe I can be a perma-virgin creative - I do dabble in writing, so it's not that bad. All of my younger siblings lost their V cards far in advance of me, whereas all of my firsts were absolute embarrassments or utter dogsh*t (my own faults), which I consider absolutely hilarious. I am profoundly grateful for still being alive, coping well enough, and for God having an outstanding sense of humor in general. Sorry for the repeated edits. I wrote this on my phone right before bed, the keyboard bugged out and stupid KZbin acted up. I wish you a good day.

[@amaan06]

Interesting... Idk maybe its just me who love weird people and run away from normal people. Like if I think someone is a weirdo, I already adore them🤷‍♂️ Normal people give me a very herd type vibe, forced to act in certain ways because of societal pressure and seems like they only have limited amount of fun. All of this is my opinion though, an eighteen year old's opinion so, don't get offended :)

[@fredrick-jr1qi]

I’ve never dated anyone but as an observer I am trying to learn as much as I can before dating

[@InterdictionAirsoft]

The best tip I can give you is don’t rush it take your time there are some women out there that will pressure you into a commitment (huge red flag), watch how they behave around their family, if they are kind and respectful then they are great, but if they are disrespectful or you can see minor conflicts then you should probably step back. Just a few tips from a 30 year old who has been through a lot I’m still single btw

[@Republic_Of_Vicoria_Official]

Same

[@bluejay6075]

Love that you used Blake and Yang in the video

[@tigerx36]

Love the use of Komi and Najimi! Even without Tadano. And it's nice to see I relate to Komi just a bit.

[@Windermed]

missed opportunity to feature Chadano with Komi for this example amiright 😤

[@tigerx36]

@@Windermed I guess Tadano can be seen as extroverted just not as much as Najimi.

[@MisenGarde21]

Here I was listening to music while sipping coffee, being an introvert y’know? And suddenly This appears and my eyes lit up I need this

[@josephgrove4779]

Sees Bumblebees in the thumbnail.... you have my attention llol

[@TheLovelybbe]

Same

[@BigDvsRL]

Omg,....the Thumbnail contains Yang and Blake from RWBY

[@Shtinkyps]

Just gonna drop this here because I used to be extremely introverted, Never change yourself for someone else but strive to overcome the problems that block you from enjoying life. It is true as said in the video that changing yourself and acting extraverted wont get you anywhere but it is also true that you need to show confidence. Extraverts aren't more or less attractive, they just are more outward with their confidence. To build confidence work on yourself and slowly stepping out of your comfort zone, it will be hard but its crucial in building confidence. Also something I struggled with because of my attachment style, someone isn't going to stop liking you/not be attracted to you because of some little feature you hyperfocus on (for example a jawline) those things are bonuses but people don't focus on them as much as at least I thought they did, if someone truly has feelings for you they will 99% of the time not even notice those things or just not care. (take everything i said with a grain of salt these are just things I learned over my life)

[@Psych2go]

Thank you for the very detailed insight. I love the fact that you mentioned confidence in the context of both extroverts and introverts. I think your comment sets a great, realistic example of the kind of attitude that a person should have before dating. :)

[@SaurianStudios1207]

This video and other videos on dating, understanding the truth between introverted and extroverted people, and the psychological aspects of it all have been very helpful. For me, talking to girls has never been a problem because I do like talking to people, no matter their gender, but asking them out has always been a problem since I’m not 100% sure on what they will say, do, or react to what I’ve said. I have a specific memory from middle school 8 yrs ago that lingers in the back of my mind, reminding me of my insecurities and insufficiency.

[@Psych2go]

Thank you for sharing your personal experience with us. It's always difficult to talk to people, especially when we want them to like us back. We hope that you're not held back by your insecurities and that you'll work up the courage to ask people out!

[@SaurianStudios1207]

@@Psych2go it’s also important to remember that all people have social anxiety to an extent, and both introverts and extroverts have this problem of opening up to people since it’s human nature to not automatically trust one another.

[@cultfollower814]

Saw the BMBLB reference in the thumbnail, clicked without hesitation.

[@jfk7261]

Clicked for Bumbleby and stayed!

[@miniblackcat]

for an introvert i actually didnt think getting a relationship would be that hard. i first met my partner over a year ago and we actually shared many things in common. and she even had the same feeling as me, however she confessed first, and i didnt expect it coming. we've been together a lot since. ❤

[@DarkDragonSlayer]

I like how the thumbnail is Yang and Blake are together.

[@Gh0stLiner]

I love the references to RWBY. Yang and Blake are perfect examples

[@coolkid44447]

I think you meant horrible examples it's okay though 👍

[@Gh0stLiner]

@@coolkid44447 I think you should keep to yourself because I wasn't taking to you

[@coolkid44447]

@@Gh0stLiner Blake's an abuser continuing the ship is going to end up with Yang going through more trauma :3

[@rainedragoon]

@@coolkid44447You push the word “abuser” around and not know what it means, just respect people’s opinions. You’re never going to get that far in life if you attack every single person who has a differing viewpoint on something.

[@coolkid44447]

@@rainedragoon frankly according to the encyclopedia, dictionary and quite frankly what white women cry about Blake is a physical and verbal abuser. Also Ironic you say that since Bumblebee was the only ship to have a segmentation of shippers who actively attacked people for their ships online aswell as irl at conventions to the extent of the VA of Adam Taurus, Garrett Hunter, proceeded to send death threats to crwby over bumblebee stuff, etc... Try again maybe?

[@LauchMitSixpack]

something i learned on online dating apps, as a male you don't get to choose, you get chosen. and noone chose me, except old men.

[@kheifzealchy5643]

Hear hear

[@gtx-xh5hy]

I love seeing Yang and Blake in the thumbnail ❤. Beautiful couple

[@coolkid44447]

Forced couple for financial gains

[@InterdictionAirsoft]

The paring doesn’t make sense and before you say it was all planned out from the beginning it’s a load of crap those people at RT think they could fool everyone well they didn’t.

[@DTheHAge]

Wanted to share some additional things I learned too: Talk about the extraversion of you 2. For this you should know that the difference between introverts and extroverts is how you regain your energy (while being alone, or with people). People are generally mixed and some extroverts love the energy of introverts (especially the empathetic ones). That way you don't have to hide your introversion. Figure out what kind of talks you like and don't like and check if your partner likes the same type. I'm talking about deep talk. There are so many different levels of deep talk, so even if both of you are into deep talk, you may be more philosophical than your partner is. This is ok, just communicate the level of complexity you need and check if you are compatible. First do small talk (like 10 minutes) to get warmed up and comfortable. Then go for similarities. After you got the first few (2-3) similarities, you are good to flirt sexually. As a rule of thumb: on the first date 2-3 sexual jokes/flirts are no problem, on the second up to 5 and after you had sex, it doesn't matter. The real limits differ from person to person, but with these numbers I never had any problems (as a man).

[@SSYNC]

bumbleby being in the ghosting section is crazy 😭

[@stonerboy9997]

I like that you used Blake and yang for the cover art

[@FlawedbyDesign777]

introverts are the cutest, legit the most attractive personality trait

[@igorthelight]

Agree!

[@gehteuchnixan3052]

Regardless of being introvert, extrovert, or anything in between. I can tell from experience that not having the looks to grab attention on those apps makes using them futile anyway.

[@joshuaogungbadero9593]

Nice, I like the RWBY characters in the video. As always a great video Psych2Go!

[@rockyjmoon3]

I love that you you used Yang x Blake. I love that ship.

[@Psych2go]

Glad you caught on to it!

[@h0m3st4r]

That poorly written, fan dumb pandering dreck?

[@NorthernKnight]

Just something about Blake and Yang’s dynamic, it’s wonderful

[@h0m3st4r]

@@NorthernKnight You mean the dynamic where they feed into each other's weaknesses, don't help each other develop whatsoever, and are only together because the fan dumb demanded it incessantly? And when I say fan dumb, I'm talking death threats to the creators over a bonus song on the Volume 4 soundtrack; physically assaulting Sun Wukong cosplayers; publicly calling for boycotts over the manga omitting certain scenes from the show proper; calling everybody who dislikes the ship for any reason homophobic, even when it doesn't apply; and outright banning people from the subreddit just for voicing their objections to their behavior.

[@jct876]

@@h0m3st4r wow this is chris chan levels of delusions

[@muzlucicibebe673]

OMGG BMBLB THUMBNAILL

[@TRITON_gaming]

Man, I really can't begin to explain how helpful this video is. Thank you so much!

[@Suerte619]

Wow, who ever animated this deserves a raise!

[@cashordeals3672]

One of my favorite youtuber channels have rwby character's on the thumbnail definitely gotta watch now 🤣

[@Deltryne]

IS THAT YANG AND BLAKE IN THE THUMBNAIL ⁉️⁉️

[@jaesmith185]

i love the editing in this video, good work!!

[@MsLilac88]

I always found your relationship videos informative, keep up the great work. 😊

[@dilli5854]

As someone who's worked on myself first and is now ready to try put myself out there in the dating world (never done before), these are some good tips that I will be looking to implement!

[@Psych2go]

That sounds great! What have you been doing to work on yourself?

[@dilli5854]

@@Psych2go I've been exposed more to social interactions (especially interactions with women), mainly through work but also saying yes to more outings, practicing things like smile, eye contact and physical touch e.g. hugging when appropriate, and also realising the things that are most important to me when considering a partner & being part of a relationship

[@sharksuperiority9736]

I loved the random Hitch reference that served like no purpose

[@sunburstshredder]

This is the sort of channel I wish was around back when I was in high school! By the way, I love the BWBY thumbnail!

[@princessrailgun9223]

Got startled seeing the bees in the wild. Glad they’re on a dating advice video now

[@CrimsonXE]

Bumbleby, what a happy surprise to see (and perfect for "slow & steady" too) o.o Whoever did the art, its so cute and gorgeous so kudos!

[@minako505]

I immediately clicked when i saw bumblebee skdjwlsjud

[@ajkonecny6830]

Always enjoy your videos! I will admit that I, as a 19 year old male, haven't ever dated before. I really wasn't much interested when it came to dating. Even though this one friend of mine both her and I had a little crush on each other but never did really go out. Of course we still remain friends and all. I'm actually going to her Grad party later this month. Also I feel like I'm both Introverted and Extroverted at different times. I guess I've never really was sure about dating just because I wasn't sure if I'd find someone who likes some similar things like i do. For example Astronomy, Different types of other Science topics, Art, animation, and other fun crafty hobbies or whatever I'm wanting to do in the near future as start college this Fall after my Gap Year. Also if you made it this far hopefully i didn't ramble too much. I tend to do that sometimes 😅

[@MoonSpiritChannel]

Been holding out on this b/c I'm an introvert, and I'm terrified of the concept of dating since I've never dated anyone in my life. This video definitely serves as a cleanser to let me know that I'm acceptable as I am and should be okay with that.

[@chloea-rj5dd]

I love how you used komi can't communicate characters as examples for extrovert and introvert!

[@GreenTea-vy3fj]

I’m so grateful this video is out, dating can be so hard for introverts. Bless them, I hope this helps

[@echowolf4230]

Me, a hopeless case: interesting, taking notes

[@belle2851]

Ok but whoever made these drawings is amazing this video looks beautiful 🤩

[@Polymathically]

1:59 Saying, "relationships don't have to be rushed" while showing Bumbleby. Same goes with ghosting part at 4:44. I see what you did there, well played.

[@neofulcrum5013]

1) great thumbnail 2) any advice for male introverts? Mostly starting conversations?

[@kowladMC]

male introverts on dating apps have it, i'd say, the worst A good tactic appears to be, look for profiles that have bios that you can relate to in the first message, skip all the rest. Bonus points if theres a common interest mentioned in the bio Most of the times, if the bio is empty/half-empty, its honestly not worth it. They are already showing no effort so it probably wont lead anywhere

[@salpertia]

1. Be attractive 2. Be a 10 or go home 3. Uninstall the apps

[@biladence6789]

you don't

[@melonenjoyer]

I'm not a guy, but I'm dating an introverted guy, just be yourself. Don't pretend to be all masculine and confident, yes of course you want to be confident, but I mean don't pretend to be something your not

[@sargehavoc]

You won the lottery for disadvantaged - modern women and gay men populating these apps have little to no interest in introverted men. Do not let that deter you, however. Online dating is less dating and more finding hookups that leave you hollow. Be yourself and never - ever - compromise that as you explore in the real world.

[@eggifer3892]

I feel like being yourself is easy but for some people, they are too ‘weird’ or different. Honestly I struggle making friends because I’m myself. Although it’s painful, maybe if we keep trying we will find someone who accepts and loves us as much as we love them

[@jakewebberr]

this channel brings me comfort

[@Psych2go]

We are so happy to hear that, what do you love about Psych2go?

[@wilsonharding6933]

This channel is truest the champion for the introverts

[@drunkedhusky24]

My outside self: tips for introverts? Huh seems interesting Inner self: is that bumblebee?!

[@DeRez19]

You know, I appreciate this video. It made me feel vindicated (especially the "no ghosting" section) and it is very helpful for an introvert like me. I have watched the Super Mario Bros. Movie, and it surprisingly made me feel confident. Mario was seen as a nobody by everyone besides Luigi. Seeing him overcome all of that, finally find people who LOVED him, and become the hero people needed, was so inspiring to me. I hope I will go through the same phases as he did.

[@Psych2go]

Very interesting! It's very cool that you learned a valuable lesson from the movie. Do you feel like the Super Mario Movie is worth the watch?

[@NaviNeku24]

OK, I HAVE to watch the Mario movie now. I’ve wanted to forever, but now I’m going to make it a priority. 😆

[@DeRez19]

@@Psych2go YES. It may feel a bit rushed, but it's such a fun movie with great action scenes, beautiful animation, and a simple story that's 200% family friendly. The humor is good and BOWSER IS HILARIOUS

[@DeRez19]

@@NaviNeku24 I highly recommend it. It's even better watching it with friends or family, especially if they are Mario fans. There are several Super Smash Brothers references in the movie as well!

[@gamithemighty5932]

that was a beautiful video. thank you for sharing

[@dumitrascudenisa7275]

BUMBLEBY IN THE BACKGROUND ASDJASHJ

[@marconoris4932]

The rwby reference is a nice touch to the video, ngl

[@extrasmellyhoe]

wow another amazing video I’m gonna sit back and enjoy it I’m very interested in psychology and want to do it when I’m older

[@Psych2go]

Thank you so much! What videos are your favorite on this channel?

[@extrasmellyhoe]

@@Psych2go I really enjoy the videos that encourage me to do stuff yk? Like stop procrastinating and such

[@Leonlion0305]

Thanks. I've been thinking about changing my approach with these "extravert dating apps' but I guess I should just keep being myself. Really just what I needed. Also, nice reference to Bumblebee ship, it is definitely finally officially sailing after 9 freaking volumes.

[@izizxoxo]

As an introvert I think something like a supermarket or fair is a great first date if you’re down for something more spontaneous. There’s stuff around you that can start many conversations & it’s fun, there’s food, games, etc

[@romeepremasiri9414]

why is this exactly the video i needed in this exact moment

[@Psych2go]

We always read your mind! What did you learn from this video?

[@questionmark05]

I'm one. I've never been good at knowing what to do in social situations like this so this is helpful. I've also got a relatively mild disability I'm 30, on a disability pension, and like a proper adult, live in a flat next to my parents' house. I've always thought I'd wait until I could fix what's wrong with me before trying to date. It's been 15 years. But a recent diagnosis means I won't be able to. I won't die, but I won't get better. It's possible to kind of mitigate some things, I look fine, but it does affect me. I'm not sure if I should even try to date. It feels like I have nothing to give to a relationship. I can't work, have limited income and live at home. I'm not sure what to do.

[@Astrofrank]

Perhaps you can give love and stability.

[@beagrothus7916]

Point 1 is very comforting thx

[@bellsama6588]

Wow I low key love this kind of presentation

[@tigerx36]

I didn't really rely on dating apps. Talking get me unsteady but performing I'm in my element. I still have problems talking to most people. But being social is getting somewhat easier for me despite avoiding long time conversation. But she brings it out of me and has me wanting to talk to her. We've both agreed to the things slow. Known each other for the longest time so I don't know how slow to go. Haven't even kissed yet but told each other how we feel. Still haven't decided a first date spot. I'm not sure what she'd like either but I could ask. Because I tend to stumble when I talk it'd have to be a quiet place but where we can still talk. 100% authenticity is the most important part. I often hide the real me from some of my friends but I don't want to hide the real me from her. I'm not the best at lying but maybe that's a good thing. I want her to see and accept the real me.

[@llMonarchll]

I love the art throughout the video and rwby being in there was cute 🥰

[@vickyvansane5092]

OMG bumbleby on the thumbnail 😭😭♥♥

[@Tulip3030]

BMBLB!!! AHH I love it!! This channel really gets me haha

[@neo_rose197]

I love how the thumbnail is rwby u hafe my respect :)

[@kowladMC]

02:00 Bumblebeeeeeeeeee~

[@rwby143]

THE BUMBLEBY THUMBNAIL LETS GOOOOOOOOO ASHJDFGAJSHD i love the sm omfg akjsd

[@amirelangouri75]

This type of animation is absolute adorable!

[@shinzouwosasageyo9717]

A rwby thumbnail, in MY pysch2go video, more likely than you think

[@lordheroicguy]

Hmm the thumbnail looks familiar…. It reminds me of that sting that I got stung on my foot when I was 6 by a bumblebee that never goes away. The pain is real snif

[@hansnassau2732]

This helps a lot, thanks!

[@imconfused4803]

Thanks, I needed to hear this.

[@richyrodriguezberezov2052]

Alright first Chainsaw man and now Rwby this Channel has a seriously high level of geek culture

[@ruwbes]

OMG RWBY THUMBNAIL

[@Markiusss03978]

I saw 1 video if you, and i immediately got the urge to subsribe. Keep it up your really awesome :)

[@wanderingpaladin4927]

Clicked for Bumbleby, and stayed for the helpful tips! Thanks, Psych2Go! 😊

[@jorgethespongyyoshi4857]

Bumblebee!! 🖤💛

[@A55a551n]

Timestamps 1). Negative connotations 0:27 2). Slow and steady 1:16 3). Quiet and familiar 3:42 4). No ghosting 4:38 5). Self check 5:32 6). 100% you 6:48 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙

[@alichank]

Yo you forgot to edit the rest in

[@A55a551n]

​@@alichank what you mean

[@sbplankton_1999]

Just Lookin The scene, again.

[@A55a551n]

@@sbplankton_1999 what scene

[@alichank]

@@A55a551n yee you got the rest

[@toryntucker4819]

At certain parts of the video the audio jumps/ is cut at the wrong points. Love your videos tho have been a huge fan for a long time and I’m sure it’s hard to get so many videos out on so many different apps but keep up the amazing work! 👍

[@SandyTheDesertFox]

The bumbleby thumnail and drawings aaaaaaaaaa

[@JasonGianfranchi]

Ah ahhhhhhhhh! The RWBY reference! Got you! 😙✨

[@cindysaroya1251]

This is good advice for anyone starting a friendship, whether potentially romantic or otherwise. Thanks!

[@Psych2go]

Well said. Not every relationship has to lead to romance. Thank you for your insight!

[@ShinjisRightHand55]

Loved the Chainsaw Man Part 2 references! Great video as usual!

[@kiyameiiko]

YAAAYY NEW VIDEO!

[@nightmaredream8515]

This is the video I needed caus being a young lesbian child who is bullied for being queer in school so I'm happy I can finally feel like I can be in a relationships now I have a little more confidence

[@nightmaredream8515]

I'm 14 btw I'm almost 15

[@Willowerry]

All I can say, is good luck to you! May you find happiness with the person you resonate most with :>

[@samuraijosh1595]

So you watched a video and now you're sure about yourself and more confident.

[@dschehutinefer5627]

Well, I guess the first "hack" is to toss dating apps, because they are the worst and the deafening silence you receive is bad for mental health. Never had a date thanks to them, only one city tour with a severely bored foreign student who then cut things off anyway.

[@AngelsandWolves1]

Beautiful upload

[@ikhlas1392]

the thumbnail art ❤❤❤