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@asgardianprotector69176 жыл бұрын
Psych2Go love you guys, this explains a lot
@Psych2go6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the support Clayton!
@alguemacabecomomeusofrimen50676 жыл бұрын
do you have a video: bad thinks about introverts? if you dont please make one!!
@Psych2go6 жыл бұрын
We can make one on weaknesses of an introvert if you like. Being self aware of our weaknesses is also as important as knowing our strengths :)
@kittykatxd18606 жыл бұрын
I love this one
@gautammenon85275 жыл бұрын
Introverts can be the MOST talkative.....but ONLY to themselves or a few people whom they're comfortable around
@honeyheaven4825 жыл бұрын
Gautam Menon i agree i can talk a lot to myself or with people that im comfortable with
@Iron-Jupiter5 жыл бұрын
That is actually very true for me if I’m with friends it’s not very hard to talk but around strangers I get very shy and quiet
@adelinoa.20495 жыл бұрын
I talk a LOT with my parents, the only people that I trust totally I'm a parrot inside the house And myself, a LOT MORE But outside Nope
@user-gv9uo3db8e5 жыл бұрын
Yeahhh I talk to myself alot, especially when I'm in the bathroom doing my business 😂😐
@gautammenon85275 жыл бұрын
I sometimes think I'm a KZbinr creating a video and I'm talking to myself
@noeliamarin61664 жыл бұрын
You know you’re an introvert when you’re fully enjoying your time in quarantine while everyone else complains about not being able to go out and party.
@y4ssin3454 жыл бұрын
Can't relate more
@MU6AFA4 жыл бұрын
but it"s tough though
@aldusty73734 жыл бұрын
I've spent a lot of quarantine playing Dark Souls 3 again
@zvonimirsokcevic18394 жыл бұрын
Thats me
@marentindall62704 жыл бұрын
when a friend says miss you!! i say it back but sometimes not fully mean it😂
@mandylee74845 жыл бұрын
The worst part of being an introvert is when u want to say something, u would think in your head for so long whether to say it or not or how to say it, and be worried if you would say something wrong. And in the end, you said nothing at all
@SonyaKhanOfficial5 жыл бұрын
!!! Relatable
@qazxwecvr5 жыл бұрын
Don't you hate it when a conversation between three or more people suddenly turns to your area of interest and you begin building an intricate contribution in your mind but the conversation changes topics before you have a chance to say it?
@SonyaKhanOfficial5 жыл бұрын
Aronurr64 YES So then you feel awkward and left out, so you don’t even think to bring it back up😂
@theenjeneer24934 жыл бұрын
Happens all the time
@eszifa4 жыл бұрын
All the time! Especially in class... so annoying:(
@thatautisticbrony78473 жыл бұрын
The one bad thing about being introverted is when your old friends just completely forget you exist it hurts all the more, because you were the only one who treasured that connection.
@YitzhakMudreilagi3 жыл бұрын
Righhhtttt... it's like people today don't know how to value these small, insignificant yet significant connections.. It's as if we're the last line of defense or something like that
@kevgmei3 жыл бұрын
Or when people you cherish think that a requirement for being a friend is keeping in touch every day. Like chill, dude; small talk exhausts me and I prefer to catch up meaningfully!
@mattdawgg56143 жыл бұрын
Leaves more room to meet new people and different experiences yeah it sucks but I mean sometimes you just wanna change life up a bit Yk
@Akz3093 жыл бұрын
True
@imdone-cat52003 жыл бұрын
So true, I remember seeing my ex-bestfriend on his way home from school, I shouted him and waved, and he just looked back and ignored me like he didn't even know me. This was the same guy who used to fist bump me all the time, spent time playing games together, talked about girls (2D ones) and he would say, "we'll always be best friends." I guess I was just naive to think that someone like him would ever treasure a friendship. I get that you grow up, and some things become null to you, but friendships shouldn't.
@gloriannet5 жыл бұрын
it’s true that introverts are totally different people at home
@dolphinlover64385 жыл бұрын
Lol yeet
@shizukadataku46475 жыл бұрын
= me
@teresia25835 жыл бұрын
Me at school: quiet, ignores everyone, speaks when spoken to, nerd Me at home: loud AF! , doing the wiredest shit on earth, sing gibberish(kpop songs without knowing lyrics) etc
@sarahnguyen10415 жыл бұрын
Kim taehyung V stan omg that’s the literal definition of me
@teresia25835 жыл бұрын
@@sarahnguyen1041 I guess we have the same mentality then😂💜😅
@alextorchia22894 жыл бұрын
i found that extroverts will talk whenever they can to fill silence, like cmon guys just enjoy the peace and quiet
@soutburger64184 жыл бұрын
Spoken like a true introvert
@zixuhlent14 жыл бұрын
Nice
@Jessica-balussou4 жыл бұрын
Fuck silence
@lackness694 жыл бұрын
Exactly like when the classroom finally quiet
@alextorchia22894 жыл бұрын
Jess Balu what’s wrong with silence?
@emperorofgotland12014 жыл бұрын
As an introvert I often find that the conversation i have with my own mind is more stimulating than conversations with others.
@robertwangenstein85693 жыл бұрын
So so true.
@GojoSatoru66663 жыл бұрын
Yeppie
@bless5203 жыл бұрын
YES
@SomeCowguy3 жыл бұрын
Ik this might annoy all of you, but whemever i watch a movie with my friend, he constantly brings up like "hey that actor is in ___ movie!" And shit, thats why my friendships dont last long.
@ink_hat71423 жыл бұрын
Yo... Same here. Sometimes I think I'm my own best friend at times too
@thespectre10713 жыл бұрын
As an introvert the most meaningful and interesting conversations I've ever had are with myself
@thespectre10713 жыл бұрын
@KR CR no I have spoken with other people I just don't find a lot of them interesting
@thespectre10713 жыл бұрын
@KR CR more than I'd like
@Hello_kitty8032 жыл бұрын
Fr
@Hello_kitty8032 жыл бұрын
@@thespectre1071 same
@PowerwolfAddict Жыл бұрын
As an introvert I know EXACTLY how that feels I do the same thing when I'm alone
@mandylee74845 жыл бұрын
Introverts are rarely bored alone, they only feel bored in groups or crowds
@notnow1245 жыл бұрын
Frrrr im never bored alone but i do get bored a lot when with others
@Nai_1015 жыл бұрын
Wtf, that's literally me
@eevee39005 жыл бұрын
True
@SHRIIMPSUCKS5 жыл бұрын
Ack this is me when my friend takes me to see other friends
@elgallogiro60925 жыл бұрын
DrNai that’s literally me too
@yuu38664 жыл бұрын
Other people who don't really know me: she's a quiet person My close friend: hahahaha ... quiet person ??
@enanaz004 жыл бұрын
i can relate 😂 hello my fellow once!
@yuu38664 жыл бұрын
@@enanaz00 hi bonjourrrr Once 😁
@everielverdadero70424 жыл бұрын
Bonjuruu Hahahaha
@reijannchilles47604 жыл бұрын
Oh my God yes!
@btsbutter24054 жыл бұрын
Dubu_ Crush OMG!!! My friends always say that! I know I’m an introvert but I’m a complete extrovert when it comes to ppl and friends I’m really close to
@theoneandonly42685 жыл бұрын
Worst part of being an introvert is that you’re always there for others but their never there for you
@hisamitsuka14595 жыл бұрын
😭
@maduontu87325 жыл бұрын
True
@maduontu87325 жыл бұрын
True
@sd025 жыл бұрын
I know Ik so draining
@hades56975 жыл бұрын
We have each other 🤗
@mohamedshooqi95723 жыл бұрын
Rather than talking, I enjoy listening and observing more. Spending time alone is actually pretty awesome.
@basquehound19993 жыл бұрын
I agree. I choose to observe how people work, and to go along with it without problems for fear that my opinion or choice will be criticized or corrected. Although the video says that introverts make great leaders, I, more often than not, tend to avoid being in the chair of authority. (That May be because I’m the middle child. But that may not be the case. IDK.)
@kadir33212 жыл бұрын
Yes I agree
@meiilol55392 жыл бұрын
i strongly have to agree with this.
@internet.dweller2 жыл бұрын
And that's why I'm a Capricorn, I have quite a keen eye when I'm bored.
@okkesdonbaloglu84082 жыл бұрын
That s me
@jay_islove855 жыл бұрын
Introverts are not shy, we just enjoy being quiet.
@leopardlipstick5 жыл бұрын
They can be. They don't have to be shy. Some are, some aren't.
@kritishrestha74715 жыл бұрын
Now, someone got a good point.
@achannel36175 жыл бұрын
@firdaus halim That's just blatantly wrong
@GeekLevel-dk6mv5 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@achannel36175 жыл бұрын
@firdaus halim I think you've mixed up anti-social and asocial. Anti-social is behaviour that harms other people. Sociopaths and psychopaths are anti-social, but you don't have to be either of those things to be anti-social. Asocial means preferring to be alone and in some cases shy. Some cases. Introverts are commonly asocial and some are anti-social but extroverts can also be the latter. There are some public speakers and performers that are introverts. So no, introverts are not all shy and wanting to be alone sometimes is not introverted.
@RickSanchez-hg5vm5 жыл бұрын
"We all know that quiet persons have the loudest minds."
@digitdude13755 жыл бұрын
In my mind: and then he waddled away Waddle, waddle Till the very next day
@aooide5 жыл бұрын
Digit Dude LMAO
@digitdude13755 жыл бұрын
All Might yes
@gloriannet5 жыл бұрын
i scream wtf at myself for every little thing i do 20 times a day
@nepeta17765 жыл бұрын
Me: staring at a wall My friends: what are you thinking about? My mind: iwonderwhytheteacherhasahighschoolstudentcomeintoherclassroomeverydayisshehavinganaffairomgithinkihaveacrushonthiskidhesreallyhotdoiwantchildrenornahithinkiwanttojointhearmynow
@zairusjayopinion54034 жыл бұрын
Teacher: What is your talent? Me: I can spend an hour looking at a specific spot while thinking so many things. *Just sharing tho*
@sophxxe4 жыл бұрын
Yes, and then you don’t want to look away from that spot. Relatable
@karmaaiza24594 жыл бұрын
I relate to this. Sometimes I get so lost in my own for so long that its embarrassing when I come out of it cause oh look! I was staring at someone I hardly even know for 15+ plus minutes
@zera-zero4 жыл бұрын
Super relatable. And the only one out would be if someone calls you or if you're finished thinking, which could take a long while.
@donkeykong33404 жыл бұрын
Super relatable I look down at the floor or at an objects while deep thinking my extrovert friends tried it and went to the nurse room idfk why
@Mi..Mi..4 жыл бұрын
YeeeP
@dlsk073 жыл бұрын
I don't know why this made me cry. I felt like this video or someone out there understands what I'm going through.
@dreadogastusf35483 жыл бұрын
@ DEE ESS: Stay strong Dee. As a 60+ y/o introvert I can tell you that it does get better with time. After many years in various jobs I can be witty and quick to act. Very glad to get home and shut the door of course. I have a few friends but they would help me no matter what. A friend worth keeping will value for who you are, not your party tricks.
@dlsk073 жыл бұрын
@@dreadogastusf3548 Thanks. I hope so too. Recently, I had my first ever panic attack, which lasted 3hrs, and since then, all my introvert traits intensified.
@joogaloo9292 жыл бұрын
@@dlsk07 Your brain can rewire itself. It’s called elastoplasticity or something like that. Kind of like playing a guitar riff over and over until your brain can do it well. Perhaps you can take advantage of this and rewire your brain by putting yourself in social situations often. Take this with a grain of salt though and do some research about it
@R_d_aq Жыл бұрын
Yes, it made me emotional😔
@aminiri9092 Жыл бұрын
dw bro there are many of us :)
@skulllic66694 жыл бұрын
Introverts: *exist* Extroverts: i diagnose you with *_depression_*
@Dumbsok4 жыл бұрын
And this is why I hide the fact that I hate talking to people and try talk
@localdumbass100yearsago84 жыл бұрын
TRUE
@greyroof31204 жыл бұрын
My mother said to me that every sign says that I have depression but knowing me that isn't the case so do you just not care about us?
@somethingawesome75554 жыл бұрын
People blame introversion on phones🤣
@catherynng40604 жыл бұрын
Facts
@HenrySavinon6 жыл бұрын
As introverts we judge our selves more than we judge others. Something's we put ourselves down so you don't have to.
@cashcxrtii-40836 жыл бұрын
Henry Savinon yeah thats true i wear clothes and all i can think about is who will call me out or aay something so i get nervous but nobody ever says anything and people normslly say i dress nice
@waningmoone6 жыл бұрын
Henry Savinon this is so true. People during a fight always try and pinpoint my flaws and I'm sitting there laughing like "lmao already dragged myself on this one long back"
@NixiePixie226 жыл бұрын
Henry Savinon: this. right here. you are absolutely correct sir
@sophiaallen72486 жыл бұрын
Henry Savinon yeah i always get nervous when it comes to inviting my self and even if im invited i still doubt myself :P
@stellaercolani38106 жыл бұрын
We try not to but just act out inappropriately...
@yiyipthegruntmajor4 жыл бұрын
Why do schools keep trying to make people more extroverted even though they most definetly see how introverted you are and that you dont want to be extroverted.
@addrian27554 жыл бұрын
this is so true
@ikeilledaguy43494 жыл бұрын
Sadly it sometimes works
@voidhaver4 жыл бұрын
Introverted behavior is observed in organisms as small as amoebas; loner amoebas act as a failsafe to when groupthinking amoeba are threatened or exterminated. Most introverts would’ve been safe and already self-quarantined without notice, if the virus had been deadlier, and by the time extroverts were ordered to quarantine... Who’s to say how severe the damage would’ve been, then? “All of humanity’s problems stem from man’s inability to sit quietly in a room alone.” -Blaise Pascal. Groupthink, the bystander effect-we’re all susceptible to it; introverts are just more inwardly-focused to recognize and subvert its influence, not to mention distant and isolated from it. Loner amoeba are left alone to this role for survival, so perhaps it is with instinct that groupthinking amoeba let them be. In humans? Evolved to distrust, fear, and etcetera whom they don’t understand to their lonesome. Extroversion is a cultural norm, or concept, and if humans can’t comprehend behavior, or change it, then... 🤷♀️ Do I have to say what we already know the experiences of? If you’re looking for a book, Susan Cain’s Quiet is explanatory, but if you’re looking for a reason behind the preference for extroversion? Strength is in numbers, save for when it is weakened; social desirability; cultural influences; etcetera. There’s probably a list you can find, somewhere.
@yesmaam35364 жыл бұрын
I feel like introverts are so misunderstood and it’s sad. Like they see it as a problem when it’s really not. I mean yes sometimes it’s unhealthy to NEVER go out but sometimes we do other things like read play instruments. We don’t just stay on our phones lol. But I hate it how people see it as weird behaviour when they don’t find it weird that extroverts are around people 247?? Like it just makes me mad how people think that everyone HAS to be an extrovert and if they aren’t there’s something wrong with them. Like if I need sunlight and fresh air I go outside to my backyard and do something out there. Like exercise or something. Idk if u get what I’m tryna say but it’s not bad if you don’t leave the house because we do a bunch of things inside it in our backyards lol. So Srry for the rant 😂
@sigridblackie62024 жыл бұрын
Agree 😌 HATE IT 😥
@vanessachelli94093 жыл бұрын
13: introverts always know everything (secrets, gossip, etc.): we introverts have become so good at not being noticed that we end up being everywhere and knowing everything about everything. I'm proud to be an introvert at times 🙃🙂
@thewolfdreamer61812 жыл бұрын
Yup, u are so right mate 💙. I know every tea which is up and some people even trust me with their secrets (even my relatives, can u believe that?)
@paulzhang4810 Жыл бұрын
That is so true. People joke that I know everything because somehow they always end up sharing secrets around me, but not directly to me. I just tell them that if they don't want me there, I don't mind at all. It's not like I'm going to share those secrets anyway.
@BeastTitan213 Жыл бұрын
On point ✅️
@Dearest_Kenyetta Жыл бұрын
This is sooooo true! And people love to share gossip with me. Probably because they know it will go no further 😎
@mollykay4412 Жыл бұрын
😂 So true.
@lgacv78365 жыл бұрын
Introverts are the ones that dont talk in group chats but watch everyone else.
@omarelshennawi5 жыл бұрын
So true
@euniqu5 жыл бұрын
How are you reading us???
@lgacv78365 жыл бұрын
Queenie *-* I'm psychic :p
@manaalatiq5 жыл бұрын
Lol I do that 😂😂😂
@user-bz8if1oi3s5 жыл бұрын
Yes, very very true.
@cafecubano_5 жыл бұрын
I have very deep thoughts but I'm not even confident enough to ask for ketchup at McDonald's.
@kaano27235 жыл бұрын
Yeah because people think that asking for ketchup is an embarassing thing and shoulnt be done and everyone watches if someone asks for ketchup and actually care if people asked for it
@caitlinroche22655 жыл бұрын
@@jester3654 for sure! I didn't have any for the past 3 years but I'm going different subjects now and I've got a few. physics and chemistry (mainly physics tbh), the teachers are so caring and kind and are really easy conversationalists! I also feel somewhat similar in maths because the teacher is a sweetheart
@itz_lunaart61385 жыл бұрын
@@jester3654 ya I had one class last year I was slightly more talkative but I was mainly quiet but me talking is extremely rare some people at my elementary school thought I couldn't speak
@nepeta17765 жыл бұрын
Me, heh
@kyrianoble59325 жыл бұрын
I get it...in 3rd grade I wet my pants cause we had a really mean sub and I didn't want to be accused of trying to sneak out of class😳
@supergrover172 жыл бұрын
12 Things Introverts Are Best At Doing 1. 0:37 - Having Thought-Provoking Conversations 2. 1:36 - Being Effective Salespeople 3. 2:16 - Taking Care Of Animals 4. 3:04 - Being Observant 5. 3:59 - Being Great Leaders 6. 5:53 - Listening To Your Troubles 7. 6:47 - Counselling 9. 7:41 - Thinking Before Acting 10. 8:20 - Knowing Themselves 11. 8:56 - Being A Source Of Wisdom 12. 9:29 - Being A Loyal Friend
@noonegirl2 жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊
@ghobashi20002 жыл бұрын
Thanks ✊
@mastiyesh55 Жыл бұрын
8.Being great workers
@Jello_o7 Жыл бұрын
Thank you! And thank you too@@mastiyesh55didnt even notice
@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot!
@kdsm64245 жыл бұрын
me, a introvert: speaks my classmates/friends and teachers: So he speaks
@_newt5 жыл бұрын
KDSM honestly this is so true
@astin9455 жыл бұрын
Its so fcking annoying🤒
@parkchimmin31285 жыл бұрын
KDSM true oml- I was in school and this girl was like “HeY” Me: . . . Hi Her: She SPOKE TO ME!
@anonimationghoul87985 жыл бұрын
Never related to a comment like this one
@winterpeony14625 жыл бұрын
ParkChim Min same 😂
@merzia295 жыл бұрын
When you’re the introvert in a world full of extroverts, things can get tough...
@Perfidion5 жыл бұрын
They are the white noise. You are the transmission.
@annnganga21795 жыл бұрын
Yes...like my place of work...those people are anuisance...
@freecreator64265 жыл бұрын
maybe adapting yourself would help a lot, you have everything you need bro, just learn how to use it
@spookey22585 жыл бұрын
Its hard to find introverts irl. On the internet they are obviously everywhere
@theblackrosedaughter5 жыл бұрын
Yes, I was accused many times by my sister of having mental issues because I'm not a people person. Sadly in my life, it seems that being an introvert attracts toxic people because they think you're just gonna stay silent and take their shit. It can suck.
@janekun71015 жыл бұрын
Mind: "I wish I was on a really awesome party" *Goes to party* Mind: *I regret this 😃*
@travisstinnett29655 жыл бұрын
If I didn't know better I would've thought you'd read my mind yesterday
@federicodifilitto94665 жыл бұрын
OR Friend: convinces to go to the party Introvert: goes to the party Introvert: I should have stayed home with the cat
@CReine_Scarlet5 жыл бұрын
Im like that too, when you finally want to go then when you arrive and see so many people staring at you, youre like “I wanna go home, i regret coming here”
@angelartamesia25 жыл бұрын
Mind: Let's go to the last middle school dance!" At party Mind: I wish I stayed at home...
@germancheese28015 жыл бұрын
I can relate to this replying section
@benbovard95793 жыл бұрын
Ah yes, the inner monologue. It's almost annoying at times how little I've been able to just sit and think about nothing. So many different scenarios crop up out of nowhere, whether it's future conversations or confrontations I might have, things from my past that I've mulled over a hundred times, or ideas for stories I've yet to write. It's both a blessing and a curse. It's frustrating that I've always been a better writer than a speaker. I stumble over my words a lot unless I talk about something I love, and then I ramble on about it for ten minutes because I'm so unused to talking about it. I notice so many different facial expressions and bits of body language from people I talk to or observe talking. I can instantly tell when someone I know is feeling off, without them saying a word. Whenever I watch movies or read stories I'm constantly thinking about the characters and their perspectives, even asking what their own inner dialogue might be telling them, to the point where I can't recognize them as mere stereotypes or movie tropes; they must be thinking, feeling, reacting in their own way to what happens around them and to them, even if they're only a side character or a bit part. How must they feel, how must they have grown up, what have they seen and experienced, what has happened to them in their lives beyond what I see in front of me? It makes watching the simplest of movies difficult, to say the least. I can't enjoy them in the way I used to before I had all these thoughts running through my mind. I miss the days of my youth when I was innocent and didn't constantly think about other people's feelings and the consequences my words or someone else's words might have on that person. It's equally frustrating when so many other people are blind to these things that I pick up on so easily. I feel gifted but I feel alone because even though I see these things that others can't, I'm powerless to do anything or say anything about them. I hate the monotony of small talk, I want to talk about the real issues, about their issues, about my issues, about our goals, to get to the meat of the conversation. Life is so much richer and full of emotion than people let on in their conversations. I don't care about the game last night. I don't care where you went out to drink and how blasted you got. I don't care about any of that shallow stuff because it tells me nothing about who you are, where you come from, where you are going in your life. That's what I want to tell you, not my favorite color or if I watched that new Disney show or how good dinner was (if it was, I will tell you, though). Maybe it's too deep for some people, and maybe that's the problem. People don't want to talk about the deep issues and if they do they just generalize it with some meaningless platitude or, "Yeah, that's rough" and then move on to the next topic. I have all these thoughts very often, and yet nothing I say here hasn't been said or thought of before. But it should still be articulated because sometimes people need to hear these things more than once. I don't know. I'm just rambling at this point. But it's what I feel and it's what I think.
@geekygrl103 жыл бұрын
Me too!
@jademcinniss76983 жыл бұрын
I relate to this so much!
@gameonsantos3 жыл бұрын
by any chance, are u an intj?
@benbovard95793 жыл бұрын
@@gameonsantos I'm technically an INFJ but on the spectrum I'm really close to being an INTJ as well, it's a difference of a few percentage points I think
@thunderstrum6453 жыл бұрын
You just.. Woah You just described my entire life and personlity in a single paragraph, I didn't think that was possible. I thought I was by myself in this, thank you so much for showing me I'm not. Yeah ik this might seem shallow or I might look like a pick me girl to you, but whether or not you think I'm being sincere, Thank you.
@atp1944 жыл бұрын
Sad fact: We introverts are always available to lean on while we have no one to.
@piper.kinney4 жыл бұрын
yah... 😔
@sarahafonso84674 жыл бұрын
Relatable
@SouLoveReal4 жыл бұрын
This is very true in most cases. Anyone we can think of to possibly lean on (confide in with an in-depth situation), is usually an extrovert and a BLABBERMOUTH.
@Vanilove6534 жыл бұрын
Bang on!
@meganverne4 жыл бұрын
in a perfect situation an introvert finds another introvert and you support each other. ive been experiencing it for 2 months now and i hope it last forever
@mandylee74845 жыл бұрын
Introverts can be the most talkative, only with close friends or family
@mandylee74845 жыл бұрын
@Angel Vollant I understand u , gurl 😉
@viablespade5 жыл бұрын
Angel Vollant same here, but me and my dad dont talk very much, even though we live in the same house. We get along somewhat well, but he makes me feel like shit alot so i dont bother conversating with him often. He never starts a conversation with me unless he’s telling me to do something, normal conversation is pretty rare between us. I dont have many friends at all too, 4 at most. Dont get me wrong theres other people that i talk to every now and then, but those people always make me feel unwanted and unaccepted. Ive been bullied in school since grade four (Im in grade 11 now). People gave me nicknames and weird looks at school alot so i took a co-op to get away from it. Im returning next month and im hoping that people will actually have at least a little bit of respect, but its highly unlikely to see respect and empathy in this generation. Everybody is so apathetic. The past few years has been really impactful on me, alot has happened and Ive almost ended my life because of it. Im still stuck in this extremely dark mental state and the majority of the time if i get yelled at or mess up on something i end up criticizing myself so heavily in my head, and its like those negative thoughts plow through my brain at a hundred miles per hour and it becomes so overwhelming, especially when im at work or around alot of people. It feels like they can read my thoughts and are judging me all the time, i know for a fact at school i get judged, its school, every teenager in that building will judge everyone they look at. Just seems like im the only one who gets judged out loud.. but im getting better i think, i havent been using social media as much as i used to but that doesnt seem to change much about how i feel most of the time. Sorry for ranting.
@mandylee74845 жыл бұрын
@@viablespade I think maybe u should tell your teacher that people have been bullying and teasing you, or u can talk about it with your mom.your mom would give u great advice, but be brave enough to explain that people have been bullying u and that u feel depressed
@mandylee74845 жыл бұрын
Don't be scared if anything, u can do it
@viablespade5 жыл бұрын
Mandy Lee ive told my principals and my mom throughout the years. my mom has had to talk to almost all of them because they didnt believe me, or at least i feel like they didnt. They never took care of the problem, all they did was get a little bit of information and then suspend the people that would bully me. Nothing changes when they come back. My school has a counsellor that I’ve tried talking with to explain everything that i feel and how im treated by other students in that building, but honestly school counselling is shit. At least it is where i live. Im contemplating therapy but every time i think about it i think of being judged. No matter who or you resort to they’ll always judge you even if its in their head, but maybe thats what Therapists need to do in order to help people get better.
@jester76485 жыл бұрын
In class it's painful when no-one knows the answer to a question. Because most of the time I know and I don't put my hand up. Edit: I guess I'm not the only one with this problem.
@berserkeroflove5 жыл бұрын
Just do it. Dont be shy. Dont be afraid of the things people could think of you. Its your life!
@lilcomment5 жыл бұрын
Berserker of Love but what if you are no afraid but just don’t feel like doing it or probably too lazy to lift your hand to answer the question or if you just don’t feel like speaking at the moment or all of the above?
@berserkeroflove5 жыл бұрын
@@lilcomment You have to force yourself. It is worth it because you will get good grades.
@kuniosaiki5 жыл бұрын
Since I’m really smart and the teachers know that, I just assume they know that I know the answer. It’s probably bad but I’d rather not answer. If known one answers I tend to mutter the answer under my breath, what I hate is when my extroverted friend tells the teacher I know the answer. I’m very quiet so I have to repeat it multiply times so the whole class can hear it, it’s extremely Nerve-racking
@hillelmerkin84985 жыл бұрын
Hey this was me all of highschool
@R3LOADlikesgames2 жыл бұрын
The pet part is so me. I don’t care for small talk either. Also, I thoroughly enjoy time by myself, but also enjoy time with close friends.
@johnizitchiforalongtime7 ай бұрын
Ican talk to animals, they just don't answer.
@julesislesbjan4 жыл бұрын
Being alone and being lonely are two different things.
@obarindeshalom12424 жыл бұрын
🙇♀️🙌🙌🙌
@ArmadilloJohn4 жыл бұрын
Look i think the person above me is having a crisis but yeah your right
@juliama3124 жыл бұрын
So True, I never feel lonely when I’m alone, only when I’m around people... They keep overtalking and ignoring me and that makes me feel so lonely and just like I’m not needed or wanted😔
@obarindeshalom12424 жыл бұрын
@@juliama312 Self Love is key Dear.
@harumi61984 жыл бұрын
true
@cedrickhall38394 жыл бұрын
Introverts worst fear: “hello class today we have a new student (the introvert), why don’t you introduce yourself”
@janetweyer94154 жыл бұрын
Cedrick Hall 3 yes!!! I moved abroad and had to take the language course. First day “ok students in this language introduce yourself”!! I almost threw up...
@cedrickhall38394 жыл бұрын
Janet Weyer OMG IT HAPPENED TO ME TOO but in my algebra class😔✌️
@janetweyer94154 жыл бұрын
Cedrick Hall 3 I’m sorry. I’m definitely an introvert. I always hated when teachers would say do the introductions or get in groups...
@cedrickhall38394 жыл бұрын
Janet Weyer SAME!!
@myssen0114 жыл бұрын
I literally don't go to school anymore, but when I read your message I started wondering about what I would say and how it would go. I will probably never need to prepare for this though but my brain can't help itself 😂
@royboi344 жыл бұрын
An introverts nightmare: *getting called to stand in front of the class*
@watercoIour4 жыл бұрын
I can relate! But i always thought that this fear of public speaking was becauce lack of self esteem? Do you mean that I have good self esteem anyway even If i hate to speak in front of a whole group just because I am introvert??
@bandagewastingmachine3864 жыл бұрын
Im actually an introvert and i like being on stage in front of a crowd singing/acting. ^-^
@luannawell90534 жыл бұрын
I got stress just by reading this....
@aysiavlog4 жыл бұрын
Yeah I literally sweat in my hands get shaky in my voice cracks
@drianyte26004 жыл бұрын
Not actually because when I'm getting called and ask to stand i think that it is my opportunity to say the thoughts I have about a certain topic or what I observed about it when it comes to presentations by groups, im the last resort or the last option, but if I am the leader I will do my best to carry my tea,
@alistreem2 жыл бұрын
I’m a introvert, and the conversations I have in my own head tend to more meaningful then the ones I have with others
@alizanaqvi82534 жыл бұрын
Yeah I'm an introvert I do listen to other people's worries, but I NEVER tell them if I'm having a horrid day and they are never able to tell I'm very good at acting too edit: and those people in the comment section r saying not to bottle it up and tell someone but who even wants to listen to me?I don't have any friends and my family just makes fun of it. I just learned to accept that. I just posted this comment because I know so many people relate and I know I'm not alone.
@mihamhassan62064 жыл бұрын
Hmm.. I'm also an introvert I don't share my problems with others too But sometimes I try to make my loving ones understand my problems without saying anything to them
@alizanaqvi82534 жыл бұрын
@@mihamhassan6206 👌
@Arlesmon4 жыл бұрын
Try to say your problems. It's better to speak them out and see how they can help than to keep it to yourself. Because keeping your problems to yourself and not seeing help when you need to can negatively affect you.
@vibaj164 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I return to the real world after thinking about everything that is stressing me out, and I realize my face is twisted, and I relax all my muscles in my face. It completely changes the expression on my face from squinting and frowning and other tightly working muscles to a calm, much nicer face
@ddenyze4 жыл бұрын
Same.
@coco-gv3pj4 жыл бұрын
Introverts: all that i want is 1. Live alone and independently 2. Have a pet as my best friend 3. Earn enough money to live comfortably
@user-dp5qi8cz1n4 жыл бұрын
But loneliness eats us inside out ...truly we need someone beside us to talk , share our feelings, hug ...
@Shaolin91z4 жыл бұрын
@@user-dp5qi8cz1n speak for yourself. Introvert......but I'm not lonely
@KiraN-mg6sx4 жыл бұрын
@@user-dp5qi8cz1n really, I dont need someone. I love it to be alone
@terrancebell85824 жыл бұрын
But don't forget we all need somebody sometimes. No man is an island.
@marcie94084 жыл бұрын
XD so truuuuue
@kazue93353 жыл бұрын
Someone asked me "Dont you feel so alone living in your own world?" I replied, "Dont you feel so small living in other people's world" And dang her face expression changed bc she knew it was true.
@bleach12i3 жыл бұрын
Dang chill we not trying to end lives
@ismirdochegal48043 жыл бұрын
Yes, I live in my own world. But that's okay. People know me there.
@Lucas_Ap3 жыл бұрын
Finishing blow
@N1ghtmoon3 жыл бұрын
"Wiped out"
@generalgrievous-3 жыл бұрын
I felt my face change too
@RubyGonzales3 жыл бұрын
I'm an extrovert, but I highly prefer my introvert bosses over the extrovert ones. Introvert bosses are not fake. Their instructions are short and sweet. They wanna get done as fast as possible so they can get rid of their subordinates as quick as possible to. I love it! Gives me more time to do things that I enjoy doing out side of work. And they don't bother me unnecessarily compare to the other bosses that I had before which are (pester) extroverts 😂
@messycoffee46565 жыл бұрын
Typing or texting is easier for me than actually talking, I feel like I'm better organized in my speech this way. Is this also an introverted trait?
@einnamoon49755 жыл бұрын
When you type or text, you can think about what you say before actually sending your message out. You can still correct yourself if you made a mistake, so i think typing or texting is just easier for people in general.
@sn0wfa11s5 жыл бұрын
Me.
@foenix42555 жыл бұрын
Yes I think that it is a trait because we aren’t under as much pressure to say something right the first time!
@aishiteruseyo5 жыл бұрын
We think the same 💜💜💜
@akiraamamiya84835 жыл бұрын
Same
@m4rdoo5 жыл бұрын
I’m an introvert “I may be quiet but I’m not Blind”
@m4rdoo5 жыл бұрын
Nya~Chan there’s a wall?Mind sharing some other quotes? Lol
@haleyren28045 жыл бұрын
Lol. Im quiet and im practicality blind.
@digitdude13755 жыл бұрын
M A R D O O big brain 🧠
@kayombo47304 жыл бұрын
1.Having thoughtful provoking conversation 2. Being effective sales person 3. Taking care of animals 4. Being observant 5. Great leaders 6.Great worker 7. Listening to your trouble 8. Counselling 9.Thinking before acting 10. Knowing themselves 11. Being source of wisdom 12. Being a loyal friend
@wheresdarice39883 жыл бұрын
I think that's kinda me but now I sound like an arrogant prick... I fucking hate small talk so I'll get to the point, what's wrong?
@srujanslayer3 жыл бұрын
Thnx man!
@jessiglow72922 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much
@shawn40933 жыл бұрын
It feels so amazing having someone tell you everything about yourself, I’m a proud introvert
@fateslayer38354 жыл бұрын
”Introverts have a therapist mentality” Me: literally helping everyone by talking to them and help them understand how to deal with their emotions or problems. ”When i have a problem: literally avoiding everyone so others don’t need to share any burden i have😔”
@defaulthand84884 жыл бұрын
Me
@m00nian4 жыл бұрын
I don't think this is strictly limited to introverts ahah, I'm an extrovert but I still do this
@thecaninecultivatordog_far57774 жыл бұрын
Yeah no I gave up on this. Good for u tho u stayed stronger
@rashedulkabir62274 жыл бұрын
That's what heroes do.
@umk51354 жыл бұрын
I am not a therapist one bit, I’m so socially inept that I feel bad because I don’t know what to say
kylee lmao i said a joke quietly in class than the funny guy picked it up and said it louder and the class laughed. For the whole period he avoided looking at me.
@chanchalyadav52674 жыл бұрын
It's true, I say answers to teacher's question quietly and my friend sitting next to me speaks them aloud and get appreciation . Well, even for practical examinations, I didn't gathered courage to answer the questions which were asked out loud in groups but I gave answers to questions which were spoken to me directly. (Well , I was a topper in my whole school life , and students used to think that I cheat in exams and tests because I don't give answers or indulge in discussions during classes. ) Well this is my first comment on KZbin (Sorry , for bad english , i am still learning it as a second language)
@animishaghosh17284 жыл бұрын
Same same same
@jasamsve33984 жыл бұрын
Agreed. Never good enough answer.
@radiationgeneration40064 жыл бұрын
I hate this
@truptibansode79965 жыл бұрын
I'm an introvert and i feel comfortable only when I'm with the people closest to me
@whatever-eg4kd4 жыл бұрын
I don't feel comfortable even with my family...😔
@ginosalazar48884 жыл бұрын
@@whatever-eg4kd mee too i dont know why
@whatever-eg4kd4 жыл бұрын
@@ginosalazar4888 sad.. but eh, stay strong my friend!😊😄🖐❤
@livingtrashbag10774 жыл бұрын
@@ginosalazar4888 I thought I'm the only one feels awkward with my own family
@shadowolf70234 жыл бұрын
Your probably more a shy extrovert
@CoriBrown853 жыл бұрын
This video made me cry! 😂 I always felt ashamed about being an introvert, and anti social. Watching this video was the very first time I felt proud to be an introvert! Thank you! 💜💜
@marciamellow12113 жыл бұрын
So happy to hear that... Go live...
@jmdeTV Жыл бұрын
don't cry. extrovert people think we are lonely because we prefer being alone or not always outdoors lol. only other introverts can understand each other :)
@jessebaldwin26615 жыл бұрын
Introverts are their own best friends.
@MsSecretlady5 жыл бұрын
YESS!
@halpmehimdyinginside5 жыл бұрын
Nahh more like one of the two people in the world I hate
@عبداللهمحمدالعبكل5 жыл бұрын
Emmalena Murphy What do you mean?
@mikrokosmos-pluto5 жыл бұрын
We are also our own enemies.
@ethanhurlbut63945 жыл бұрын
I am totally my best friend I make jokes for myself and if anyone else finds it funny cool
@ravisakhare76425 жыл бұрын
The best thing about introverts is they don't depend on anyone.
@SonyaKhanOfficial5 жыл бұрын
Damn right!!
@creeper70905 жыл бұрын
I depend on my mum
@user-ru2fz3zb2y5 жыл бұрын
yeah
@spookirock38265 жыл бұрын
Yup, nobody
@jakartagamer61885 жыл бұрын
wait... i can't do anything :')
@retsila47504 жыл бұрын
Literally every introvert watching this video is like “yeah, that’s right.”
@jaska61714 жыл бұрын
Yeah, that's right
@onlyhuman56694 жыл бұрын
Yeah, that's right.
@nicaalex60624 жыл бұрын
yeah that's right
@markassbrownie4 жыл бұрын
”Yeah, thats me right there”
@merp98404 жыл бұрын
Yeah, that's right.
@victoriamckaughan6972 жыл бұрын
Everything in the video is exactly what I go through at school.
@Valentino016 Жыл бұрын
School will end fast dont worry.
@acadybug45125 жыл бұрын
I'm very talkative around my friends but whenever I'm with people I don't know i just kinda melt into the shadows...
@breadlingarchive6585 жыл бұрын
I feel very similar
@Mazz07_I5 жыл бұрын
Bold of you to assume I even talk. I do ,but rarely bc no one talks to me. .-. ._.
@penniemationloops33505 жыл бұрын
So relatable
@kure35535 жыл бұрын
I can relate-
@bradster17085 жыл бұрын
GothicJustin 9514, we are not so much hiding as just being observant. We learn much more from other people by listening and observing body language than by talking. We don’t need to be the centre of attention and only speak when we have something worth while to say. As they say, still waters run deep.
@myxsel5 жыл бұрын
We can last a day without talking at all. 🙃
@mistyriazi11085 жыл бұрын
I can last a week . I also can cry for hours cause of foolish things.
@Tanygopteryx2515 жыл бұрын
What about talking to yourself, or inanimate objects? 80% of my socializing is with myself, it’s fun ;p
@thursdayelenagomez83105 жыл бұрын
@@Tanygopteryx251 Me too. In my room, in the shower, etc.
@mynonexistentsleepschedule83305 жыл бұрын
Misty Riazi I can last a year
@lk_the_witch48785 жыл бұрын
My longest is almost 72 hours because Cassandra Clare knows how to write.
@sunnysideofthings6 жыл бұрын
I love being an introvert :p but I also hate it. I can't talk to anybody without them starting the conversation.
@TwisteeTheDefiant16 жыл бұрын
Tigerlilly Can'tKZbin same
@healingandgrowth-infp46776 жыл бұрын
i am the exact same way i feel they think i dont care or not the type to put others first which is just so untrue i just alos dont want to bother anyone either unless they want to n need soemthing... so im the complete opposite for being self focussed etc but i also have social anxiety too
@healingandgrowth-infp46776 жыл бұрын
and unless i have soemthign deep tp discuss o dont want to make smal chat t0 start things off i hate the hi how are you how are things i only say it because i mean it but when i find the other doesnt mean it n they are shallow it turns me off talkign tot hem n then i get awkard n want to move on n leave what i started
@sunnysideofthings6 жыл бұрын
Jane Doe I have social anxiety too. Including 2 other types of anxieties.
@testingpro67236 жыл бұрын
I feel you
@gatekka.3 жыл бұрын
LOL i always prepare for every possible argument that can be made about something and i always try to make the most sense possible so thats why i take forever to form a sentence. I always write a text then edit the text like a million times so that it can make more sense because im trying to pick the right words. this entire video is soooo true
@mclovin3245 жыл бұрын
Introvert here, I spend 95% of my time thinking how to escape a fire or anything. Im prepared for everything.
@richardayala27095 жыл бұрын
Sad Bean same. It’s strange. I figured everyone thinks about these things though.
@softia95 жыл бұрын
I like to think that I’m a hero like Percy Jackson or something, and that I’m prepared for anything :p
@yhijyhlio56995 жыл бұрын
i alredy know how to escape first i open my window and take my clothes and every thing and throw it out and land on it when i jumping out of my window
@NO-jg6pq5 жыл бұрын
Same lol
@asy0ulikeit5 жыл бұрын
I have an exact plan laid out in my head if ww3 ever starts but I still don’t have the confidence to go up to a sales employee to ask where the sour cream is kept
@panainpublic4 жыл бұрын
Everyone always sees me as the quiet, smart girl. They haven't seen me at home.
@sarahafonso84674 жыл бұрын
Yep
@hiba_el5404 жыл бұрын
i love k-pop bts and blackpink hello my fellow introverted kpop stan 💜💜💜💜💜
@sarahafonso84674 жыл бұрын
@@hiba_el540 hi
@Julia_Gaming4 жыл бұрын
So true
@carly13844 жыл бұрын
sameeeee
@boiifyoudont29525 жыл бұрын
Introverts don't make friends. We wait for an extrovert to adopt us edit: Some of ya'll can't take a joke.
@hezra24925 жыл бұрын
Yeah we just wait cause we are rare creatures that need to be captured by a kind extrovert
@lunenorie5 жыл бұрын
Introverts don’t make friends. They make friends with Crunchyroll and KZbin. (This is just me so sorry if you don’t use Crunchyroll!)
@tomdotcom78445 жыл бұрын
@@lunenorie Apology not accepted. You're a horrible person. Fuck you
@nepeta17765 жыл бұрын
Omg wait that's funny, all my friends kind of just started hanging out with me I never tried to join anybody lolol
@kokin75 жыл бұрын
I have adopted so many introverts I love them :D Seriously 70 percent of my friends are introverts being an extrovert feels bad sometimes because you HAVE to be there for them when they’re not there for themselves...
@Chisszaru3 жыл бұрын
I feel happy about this. I'm an introvert, as i hate small talk, which my friends love, so i'm often just listening to what they say and only speak when i need or have to speak. Everything here is in line with me
@greensquirrel40195 жыл бұрын
I always knew that i am an introvert and the most disturbing fact about us introverts is that we sometimes feel very left out.
@malcolmmiller37185 жыл бұрын
So true. 🍻
@bonniebunbuns6305 жыл бұрын
That's so true
@hakushoku01295 жыл бұрын
Couldn’t agree more with you
@SonyaKhanOfficial5 жыл бұрын
So accurate, i’ve gotten used to being my own strength
@jasonk87935 жыл бұрын
I've felt left out but then I realized I honestly enjoy not being in the crowd and being alone sometimes. I guess I was wanting what I thought I was supposed to want because it seemed like everyone else did. It's a relief being who you naturally are.
@k-vy5nt5 жыл бұрын
My Favorite Introvert Perk: Listening to all conversations within 10 feet and judging EVERYONE
@Cansy55 жыл бұрын
mine too
@deshawnbutler5 жыл бұрын
Me too
@thequeerbee20265 жыл бұрын
Yup 😂
@julianthiemann1335 жыл бұрын
I call this: The Sans
@user-ru2fz3zb2y5 жыл бұрын
YES!
@xxpermanentgamingxx63405 жыл бұрын
Extremely true: -observant -thinking of worst situations Edit: also triple checking everything
@after_midnight95925 жыл бұрын
This is what makes introverts such good drivers.
@lucidjello12045 жыл бұрын
Im starting to feel like everyone can read minds and im the only one who can't
@rubberducc73185 жыл бұрын
Pretty much sums me up
@hannytee80015 жыл бұрын
So true
@jrojassengard25865 жыл бұрын
-thinking about a thing that happened 7 years ago
@asmaahmad39782 жыл бұрын
i’ve always hated myself bc i was an introvert but i’m glad i came across this video!!! i finally see things i can appreciate about myself
@nolanbennett3465 жыл бұрын
So... I am definitely an introvert. Also introverts remember every mistake they made, and they use their mistakes to improve their own futures.
@puzzlepiece25025 жыл бұрын
Or they just stress themselves out constantly while also hiding it completely unnoticed by anyone.
@truvy_55445 жыл бұрын
Literally but it can be a hand full, so many times throughout the day where I'm hitting my head because of an embarrassing moment or a mistake that couldve been avoided
@symon99185 жыл бұрын
@@truvy_5544 me too, me too
@vintageMIC40005 жыл бұрын
Nolan Bennett BIG FACTS
@AlexGNR5 жыл бұрын
Me: *STARTS THINKING HEAVILY*
@eveei5 жыл бұрын
i legit know everyone’s personality in my class by simply sitting in the corner and not speaking
@Madmonkeman5 жыл бұрын
Yep
@eveei4 жыл бұрын
@@username113 i wasnt calling myself special in any way lol?
@toyah64594 жыл бұрын
brenden same
@cabijroseluna9764 жыл бұрын
Yeah, we just know....we don't judge, we just know....
@eveei4 жыл бұрын
@@cabijroseluna976 exactly what i mean. i know everyones name though only a few people know mine lmao
@mochima72084 жыл бұрын
Me at school: quiet, shy, anti-social, anxious Me at home: happy, weeby, sociable, headbanging to anime songs
@cynthiajule72764 жыл бұрын
Samee
@annak79894 жыл бұрын
It's like a switch is flicked when I get home. The relief I feel when school ends is amazing too.
@justastaythatwillnotbename29904 жыл бұрын
AMEN
@animefreaknalu44974 жыл бұрын
Acutally at school im a little more social due to me knowing a lot of people but when i go home i turn into a hermit i dont know why though
@carlspyro194 жыл бұрын
Even though i cant understand the anime opening ive been listening to for the past 3 hours, i can feel it in my kokoro
@yetaengthv2 жыл бұрын
Introverts are loyal friends . It's so true . As an only introvert in class , I'm the most loyal one . That's why I can't even trust my own friends . I mean who would trust the one who told you their close friend's secret . And while others just spit out others secret , I want to keep them secret . Because I don't want to betray my friends .
@protheeme4 жыл бұрын
Mom: “tell the waitress what you want to order” Me: *panik*
@Bebebebe22-4 жыл бұрын
I can relate
@nathanmoreau39374 жыл бұрын
Me too
@motong51614 жыл бұрын
I know.... And i end up ordering the same old thing -_-
@maseerashifa92374 жыл бұрын
This is so damn true
@vision34394 жыл бұрын
this is social anxiety, not being an introvert
@mx.moobloom5 жыл бұрын
I tend to get this one sentence on my report card: _"They work hard and complete all assignments, but I would like if they spoke up and voiced their opinion more often"_
@joylezzx5 жыл бұрын
Get that every year
@ellaa59865 жыл бұрын
Mxcka Joy the classic line given to us 😂😂😂
@alexpheonix79945 жыл бұрын
Every damn book report
@ellaa59865 жыл бұрын
every. single. time.
@froggy_chair5 жыл бұрын
I haven’t spoken a single word in a few of my classes. I think the teachers understand though, because they didn’t take off as much points for lack of participation compared to other people.
@emvees28415 жыл бұрын
Extroverts: *Small Talk* Introverts: No, I dont think I will.
@fireinthehole_7275 жыл бұрын
Ambiverts: *Am I a joke to you?*
@lord__pasta5 жыл бұрын
What is an Ambivert?
@fireinthehole_7275 жыл бұрын
@@lord__pasta somebody whose both introverted and extroverted
@kurkiriyt56995 жыл бұрын
It depends its just its more natural around people you enjoy and more natural around people who can't see or Judge you
@gryffenchicken54625 жыл бұрын
With extroverts, it's more like *Big Talk*
@itzelgalvan5013 жыл бұрын
I am an introvert and my whole life I have feel like there is something wrong with me, and not worthy to be listened or loved and it damaged my self esteem (my sister and my ex boyfriends are extroverts so I always felt overshadowed) but watching this video and reading the comments is helping me to realize that the way I am is not wrong and I should start to stand up for myself when others are being judgemental, insensitive or condescending 😌🙌🏼
@leigh7005 жыл бұрын
I'm my own best friend. But im also my enemy. Us introverts can go a while without talking to anyone but themselves.
@heinzmustermann84165 жыл бұрын
I don't talk phisically but me myself and I usually have an inner monologue where one is going against the others haha
@tosuchino64655 жыл бұрын
@Polybot No, he is just smart.
@toastyturtle60615 жыл бұрын
When I was five I would set up my doll houses and pretend all the freinds I didn’t have were about to come and I was just getting ready.
@Nickday1125 жыл бұрын
- goldenJay - I fell you
@tusiroy97775 жыл бұрын
Same
@its_meworld33445 жыл бұрын
when people call an introvert "depressed person"; it's so annoying
@toptiergamers56565 жыл бұрын
I get that all the time it's like leave me alone worry about your own life
@ch4nz7954 жыл бұрын
It’s kinda funny cuz I’m depressed and introvert, meep
@cayden27444 жыл бұрын
I just don't care
@bpdcxs4 жыл бұрын
Mostly people dont call me depressed but it only looks like they are judging me that im depressed :(
@svenbreedeveld11704 жыл бұрын
Especially the loud kid in class.
@apsunot74035 жыл бұрын
this comment section makes me feel like home and comfortable lol
@atetaguas66765 жыл бұрын
Ikr. We have here people with the same thoughts wherein we can relate to😂 we can rarely find it on the real world.
@SonyaKhanOfficial5 жыл бұрын
It’s so heartwarming!
@ilovestqcy21995 жыл бұрын
Yea I feel like everybody here is an introvert in RL
@kp334675 жыл бұрын
When I saw this video while scrolling I got so excited, all this really is comforting.
@Scoltren5 жыл бұрын
Same bro
@myself32093 жыл бұрын
I allways thought being an introvert is something bad that I need to change, but I am starting to realize that its something to be proud of :)
@succ56665 жыл бұрын
Me: *sees so many introverts in the comments* Also me: This does put a smile on my face
@eliinaquante87985 жыл бұрын
I am glad I am not the only introvert here. This makes me feel better about myself. :)
@atetaguas66765 жыл бұрын
I'm gonna live here in the comments😭😭😭
@herpesfreesince03355 жыл бұрын
Insertfunnynamehere 56 i mean, every introvert wants to be an extrovert sometimes
@Daniel_152935 жыл бұрын
You're not alone bro. ^^ Fuck those extroverted people.
@johnathanchow38005 жыл бұрын
most people here probably aren’t introverts, but don’t hate because i’m not trying to be mean. ur mind tricks u into think u r something when u aren’t, and it tricks u because of stereotypes and listening to someone talk about it.
@brittanyhubbard71264 жыл бұрын
I spend hours alone in my room, my family thinks I'm separating myself from the world and have depression and whatnot. I think its just anxiety from all the people and my room is the place if feel safe and comfortable
@clashypoint4 жыл бұрын
😟 don't do that your family need you too
@denniscabrera99104 жыл бұрын
Taking time for yourself
@Ky_ryxx4 жыл бұрын
Same tbh
@angryretailbanker51034 жыл бұрын
I was the same growing up. My parents were constantly worried that I was shutting myself out from the rest of humanity and my dad even pressured me into going for therapy.
@AD-zm8zb4 жыл бұрын
Same. Everyday I spent my life Living In my room. During Weekends or when I got back home after class on weekdays. It's my comfortable zone and it relaxes me. Fortunately, My small group of friends are understanding my habit🌟
@woosh_police40186 жыл бұрын
7:14 "many introverts are familiar with pain and suffering" *DEPRESSION* *LEVEL* 1000%
@kawaiikitty91186 жыл бұрын
THATS MMMMEEEEEEE
@TheHonkler68686 жыл бұрын
MY DEPRESSION LEVEL IS OVER 9000
@clydealarma75416 жыл бұрын
ANONYMOUS well your right..
@CrimsonA16 жыл бұрын
Fellow Introvert here. For any of you suffering from too much depression, and are too anxious to try anti-depressants (on them right now, and they have helped ALOT, so don't close that door! Talk to a doctor sometime!), try Cognitive Behavioural Therapy. This brand of therapy helps you challenge your own negative thoughts and concepts, and replaces them with loving ones instead. I have a journal that I write my anxieties in, and then make a loving counter-point for each. A book that helped me get started was, Rewire: Change Your Brain by Richard O' Connor.
@clydealarma75416 жыл бұрын
Jason do u have facebook? I wanna talk about it.. im having a lot of depressions rightnow... being in highschool sucks
@Bean-mr8sf5 жыл бұрын
As an introvert, I feel alot more important after watching this video than originally anticipated.
@kaano27235 жыл бұрын
Yeah if you watch a video that only gets in on a single subject you can
@nikolayehlers11015 жыл бұрын
Yeah same, but I definitely don't think that you think grammar is important.
@Bean-mr8sf5 жыл бұрын
@@nikolayehlers1101 touche
@P1nkRxsa5 жыл бұрын
Same💖
@evana54025 жыл бұрын
yeah, same here
@MikeDiender-xk9ew6 ай бұрын
I am an introvert myself I give this video approval many extroverts at my school always stress about tests while I am just gaming a bit and thinking to myself what should I do when I have the test because I am not realy scared of tests myself I just see it as a funny challenge. Anyways hope y’all are having a great day
@Souran1234 жыл бұрын
Government: Please stay home until further notice. Introverts: Yeah nothing has changed . Life is great
@certified_npc34 жыл бұрын
We got books, video games, beds, animals, instant ramen, etc.
@_.Deitasterra4 жыл бұрын
Heh :)
@dgaf34934 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣lol yeah
@yunitatalia27734 жыл бұрын
I have to paint,draw ,listen to music and play with my cat
@animefreaknalu44974 жыл бұрын
@@yunitatalia2773 same and cats are my favorote animal probably because me myself acts like a cat sometimes
@syazananazir4 жыл бұрын
Here's a quote for introverts: "We have two ears and one mouth so that we can listen twice as much as we speak." - Epictetus
@inhalesbleach30713 жыл бұрын
Oh my, I love this quote thanks for sharing! :)
@lavender24273 жыл бұрын
Under rated
@ahgasejadoo43643 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@trapperdude22663 жыл бұрын
And then you socialize in a group of 4 and things get confusing.
@charbelsalloum67753 жыл бұрын
True, but no extrovert ever thinks that the introvert is thinking about every single letter and word, listening and noticing every single detail there is to a conversation.
@유나-c2u6c5 жыл бұрын
i prefer not talk at all rather than having an awkward conversation edited: i guess we all share one thing in common..this is to those that feel sad atm; whatever problems you're facing right now, i hope you're strong in handling them and i know every each of you are strong and will never breakdown easily just 🐝🍃 in yourself..love yourself first is what matter the most and remember even if you feel like you have no one,there are actually those who needs and love you in this world you just have to wait for the right time to come💕
@wooshbait60235 жыл бұрын
i'll rather have an awkward staredown for 10 minutes than to be included in a small talk.
@유나-c2u6c5 жыл бұрын
@@wooshbait6023 same..
@Rocnati5 жыл бұрын
Silence is better than mindless dribble.
@ninap93425 жыл бұрын
army? :’)
@nasreenali5 жыл бұрын
*_Army?!_*
@moshipen89913 жыл бұрын
For me the best thing about us, introverts is we are a good companion, a loyal friend. I have this extrovert friend who always stick with me. She cried when we parted ways in college. She always said that I'm her favorite person.When she had a problem she goes to me everytime and I'm just listen to her then she felt relieved.
@ianthespaceguy5 жыл бұрын
Only introverts has watched this :) shoutout to all the introverts we rule(from the shadows).
@miathemerp89695 жыл бұрын
We rule the shadows of books and documentaries
@kokeech5 жыл бұрын
But the frontlines of games, and anime
@devilishrose44115 жыл бұрын
ianthespaceguy oof agreed😭
@yum10075 жыл бұрын
lol I'm ambivert tho
@paxtonwheat45875 жыл бұрын
Eheheehehehehe yeah
@jaz15585 жыл бұрын
Introverts are those who leave a like on every comment they like and leave a comment once in a while
@jaytwill89165 жыл бұрын
Dam
@l.90445 жыл бұрын
You been stalking me? Huh?
@ray_zor55855 жыл бұрын
I can confirm this.
@qiyuuuu5 жыл бұрын
JimMinNie PabO
@ashbarclay27465 жыл бұрын
that is 100% me
@Emma-wc5ks4 жыл бұрын
The things introverts are good at: 1. Deep conversations 2. Being effective salesperson 3. Taking care of animals 4. Being observant 5. Being a great leader 6. Being a great worker 7. Listening to your troubles 8. Counseling 9. Thinking before acting 10. Knowing themselves 11. Being a source of wisdom 12. Being a loyal friend
@redrazor19604 жыл бұрын
Is being a good streamer on the list 😮
@erojerisiz15714 жыл бұрын
>Being a great leader INTJs: I am the king
@LoveYourself-kz4cs4 жыл бұрын
Was looking for this type of comment thank u
@cgeikimbot4 жыл бұрын
Im never chosen leader because on how dumb I am-
@callistoedwards16014 жыл бұрын
But no one appreciates my friendship
@OLDSCHOOLROGUE Жыл бұрын
This may be the best description of an introvert I have ever seen😊
@graceho74794 жыл бұрын
My list of 12 things that introverts are best at: -animals -observations -ignoring calls -persuasion -staying home during quarantine -learning -knowing themselves -occupying the corner at any party -listening -pointing out problems -thinking things through -vibin’
@vectorequilibrium44934 жыл бұрын
Grace Ho That’s a good list. I concur. 😁☮️❤️🙏🏻
@cacacheese8274 жыл бұрын
I hate calling people- I’m really only comfortable calling my mom and dad.
@miovvv4 жыл бұрын
amen to the ignoring phone calls👏🏽 they're the worst
@_Floof4 жыл бұрын
ignoring calls 😆 that's right 😆
@confettious4 жыл бұрын
Same smh-
@kentvincentllano6 жыл бұрын
When you’re an introvert watching this and you’re just like “yep thats me”..
@lucyfied6 жыл бұрын
Kent Vincent Llano for the whole video lol
@kentvincentllano6 жыл бұрын
IamTheCheeseQueen hahaha
@kentvincentllano6 жыл бұрын
minzi hahaha if I’m not like what’s in the video then I’m an extrovert...
@MsBlueCadencaNightcore6 жыл бұрын
*EXPOSED*
@kyambaddegerald39176 жыл бұрын
Tnks since i discovered this channel now i know what i am am an introvert and most of what u talked in previous up loads i ve them .oooo
@heloudahowarechu38184 жыл бұрын
Me: *Tries to socialize.* Everyone: OMG, SHE FINALLY SAID SOMETHING! Me: Well I’m not doing it anymore -.-
@onalbetul18094 жыл бұрын
All the time at school...
@lenisminee4 жыл бұрын
That's me
@zuhanadeem27214 жыл бұрын
YES THATS ME!
@shirin31664 жыл бұрын
Omg wtf? We're. not. A. Fking. Mute.
@idontexist19664 жыл бұрын
;-;
@Kaji.Shoiro2 жыл бұрын
My class mates thought that i was shy or something but never did they know. I'm an introvert and one day a presentation will happen which a teacher gave us a specific topic and when the day of presenting of reports came. I presented my research and when i finished my report the teacher praised me because, i delivered my research very well and talk confidently.
@psycho-delicpyromaniac95956 жыл бұрын
I'm a introvert and I absolutely HATE it when people say I don't listen or I'm not paying any attention, like boy I listen to EVERY THING EVERYWHERE
@andalosiab90226 жыл бұрын
Fruit Faced Freaks LMAO
@bean-gs3hj6 жыл бұрын
Fruit Faced Freaks AGREED!!
@lohst16726 жыл бұрын
That happens to me all the time lmao
@gamerdio25036 жыл бұрын
I have an excuse because I have adhd
@swaggydanie20086 жыл бұрын
Fruit Faced Freaks IKR ;-;
@erinbuxton84385 жыл бұрын
Me without anyone i know: .......... Me with someone i know: *LAUGHS UNCONTROLLABLY*
@magorzatakakol93665 жыл бұрын
Oh yeah! The same!!
@usernameeueueue5 жыл бұрын
Yeahhhhhhhhh
@uan1805 жыл бұрын
Ikr? All my friends think I'm weird because I laugh at everything they do or say
@supp84835 жыл бұрын
Be aware you aren't alone
@apple__nobody16455 жыл бұрын
Same I'm always like this but only to my closest friends XD
@jinsremedy61325 жыл бұрын
I'm my family's therapist. I'm my friend's therapist. I'm sometimes even strangers therapist. I look intimidating, but I'm more scared of you than you are of me. rofl
@dishq60355 жыл бұрын
Hmm, always thinking about the possible outcomes to the environment Im in, mostly bad ones, thinking for a counter for those, thinking how it'd affect things, picking the right words etc.
@elitemythx14325 жыл бұрын
Same, at 6’3, 240 lbs, and a face that makes me look like I’ve went to prison, I am surprisingly scared of people more than they would think.
@digitdude13755 жыл бұрын
EliteMythx yeah same tho im only 5’8
@joegattosgrandma51605 жыл бұрын
Jin's Remedy you are my remedy
@jinsremedy61325 жыл бұрын
@@joegattosgrandma5160 but who's my remedy😭
@sadiaaa13732 жыл бұрын
The unfortunate part about being so observant since childhood is the extremely deep understanding about how other people are. That sounds backwards but ever since i was young, i thought being an introvert was bad but because i knew exactly how others felt and acted constantly, i tried being an extrovert for a long time. It never once worked though. Even though i knew what to do or say in script, but i couldn't physically make myself do it either because it wasnt wise, it was embarassing, or itd change the way i am and perceived. Im in love with my introverted side now though. The thoughts i have in my own imagination are so intriguing and though i feel lonely sometimes, its worth it. The happiness i get from accepting myself outweighs the feeling of being alone and i already know that one day ill find real friends anyway so im okay with being patient for now. I think ill find my people in university.. just 1 and a half more years till then :)
@relentlessrhythm27744 жыл бұрын
It’s time we appreciate all personalities rather than telling people to “step out of their shells”
@Arlesmon4 жыл бұрын
To a certain extent an Introvert has to be social if they want to get something in life, or if they want to make a New friend. Because waiting for said extrovert to adopt you will not happen (in my case). And while it's true that said trait is valid, Sadly for some things you do need connections.
@dinglesworld3 жыл бұрын
@@Arlesmon The world of job qualifications being one of them...references and extracurriculars have been the bane of my existence...
@XForm983 жыл бұрын
@@Arlesmon I don’t think anyone is that antisocial that they don’t want a job because they don’t want to interact with others I mean yeah it can be a pain but you know it had to be done In terms of friends I mean personally I don’t make the first move but if someone talks to you you should reply I mean I personally prefer to keep a select few as my close friends but if someone wants to make new friends then just say hi you might regret it or you might not
@geensjc3 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@XForm983 жыл бұрын
@Kyoko and Maki are my wives being anti social is a disorder so no introverts aren’t anti social well not all anyway it is just about your social preferences do you like being alone more confined in a small group of friends or do you like being around other new people to make new friends and hate staying at home alone to me that is the difference between extrovert and introvert correct me if I am wrong
@astralxy17994 жыл бұрын
Corona Virus. Everyone: "Oh no I can't meet my friends and can't go out anymore!!" Me: "What's that?"
@Nani-yd1hq4 жыл бұрын
What... is... friend...?
@SwaggerToast4 жыл бұрын
@@Nani-yd1hq brrruuuuhhh
@prodigal49634 жыл бұрын
News: Social distancing Introverts: Ez
@anuragsosa4 жыл бұрын
Everyone gets quarantined at their homes Extroverts: This feels like hell Introverts: Ah this is heaven
@winterdragon5604 жыл бұрын
Lol that's is so me
@caidenh044 жыл бұрын
When a popular kid decides to bully and humiliate the introvert in the middle of class: Introvert: *you don't know what danger you are getting yourself into, mortal.*
@Sh1ryyu4 жыл бұрын
They are fearless
@weird45514 жыл бұрын
*pump up kicks*
@teddybearkawaii84584 жыл бұрын
*Fear us Introverts c:*
@hmpz369114 жыл бұрын
Me as a kid: ATTAAACKKK!!!
@tanveenkaur40914 жыл бұрын
Introverts are the most misunderstood people...at least i am