The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need!

[@mayaortiz1982]

Something I’d like to share with you is to always take the relationship slow. Back in middle school my friends knew I had a crush on someone, and they pushed me into telling him. We ended up dating but feeling rushed. We broke up, but we’re friends now. In conclusion: go at your own speed, and don’t let others control your actions.

[@NSolares25]

I can only speak from a man’s perspective, but the main thing is, be authentic. The more true you are to yourself & your intentions, the more people will naturally gravitate towards you. People can spot in-congruency, if not immediately, definitely down the line. Do some introspection, if you don’t like who you are, fix that first, & then dating will come naturally

[@carlosmontero6952]

Could you explain what you mean with being true to your intentions? It's hard to me to get that

[@NSolares25]

Be authentic & real with people. If you want something, be honest & direct, but obviously use a little social calibration. You don’t want to say something out of line or creepy. Hope this helped!

[@einindividuum5428]

This is true for all genders :)

[@HenrythePaleoGuy]

It's also really painful to hold your true-self in. Always a lot of anxiety over what if people found out what you're actually like.

[@marsultortheavenger409]

This is just not true, dating and relationships are all down to looks or money, especially as a man, you need those 2.

[@avatallman3072]

Bruh, im not even dating anyone 😅

[@0SuperNova0]

You want me to Change that?🤨

[@Frogato3]

....

[@keiron.4612]

​@@0SuperNova0i don't think she goes for the over 40s😂

[@michaellacey9653]

Congratulations, stay strong.

[@0SuperNova0]

@@keiron.4612 i was joking and im 18, and i think its a boy btw

[@hetz3869]

This couldn't have come out at a more perfect time. I have a first date tonight! Wish me luck. 🤞 Edit: Just got back from my date, and it went wonderfully.

[@timinator900]

Good luck! I know I'm going to need it when I get my first girlfriend. 💔

[@hetz3869]

@timinator900 I believe in you. This will be my first girlfriend as well if all goes well.

[@buggus0034]

From a former player turned husband. Just relax and have fun. There’s nothing on the line, so just have some fun.

[@EBThisThat]

I was recently told by a social worker that I 'wasn't ready for the dating world'. Heck, I've been out of it for 4 years now, working on myself and wondering when I'll *ever* be ready, but she said I didn't love myself enough. It's only partially true because yes, I'm my own worse critic but I'm much kinder to myself than I have ever been. I don't know what the future holds for me, but next year I'm going to try dipping my toe into the dating pool again. If I fail, I'll know I was never supposed to be coupled and try to be happy with that.

[@DraconiInfernalus]

the whole love yourself first stuff is crap. dating world is mostly crap too. everyone is worthy of unconditional love. it doesnt´matter in which mental state or place you are at all. you will never be ready for anything while time goes by and so on and on. the only thing you have to learn is dont accept BS and red flags from others only to be with "someone" because you are feeling lonely or bored or whatever. think about why you want to have someone by your side? respect yourself. threat/protect yourself like you would treat your best friend. i´m single for 10 years now and i don´t date at all. bc there are so many i*iots, cheater and player out there. dating...what is dating? you try to force a specific perception within your mind going to a date. it creates pressure from the first moment you throw yourself out there. indirectly screaming loud * i am so deperate and needy of someone who like me*. then you are in a position were people are able to take advantages of you. thats the crazy stuff about dating. so think about... what do you want? what are your rules?what are your no-go´s and must haves from others, from a partner? how do you want to be treated? and if someone doesn´t meet these expectations...you have to say goodbye immediately and looking for the next one and so on and so on until you are lucky and find someone or stay single bc you are worth to be treated like a human and not like a toy, pet or servant

[@1unsung971]

You are probably GOOD ENOUGH, right? Somebody loves you and others will. It's unusual to find someone who is truly unlovable; Trump, Thatcher, Xi Jinping, NRA members, Putin, my parents. I would ask the social worker a Socratic question; What evidence do you have to substantiate your statement? It sounds dysfunctional/unprofessional for a Social Worker to say such a loaded and judgemental thing. Who would choose such a person to offer advice? I think you deserve better. What can possibly go wrong, right??? Your partner is never your therapist, but you can be twisted or "broken" and still give to a respectful and equal relationship, although I would never try it again. Good luck dear soul.

[@TazsTech]

mental health is a scam for control

[@RC-qc2nz]

I am going through a divorce now after 11 years and it's hard. I am 30 now and I saw your videos just years ago and you guys helped me a lot. Thank you❤

[@phictionofgrandeur2387]

I'm already with my perfect someone, but I'm loving this advice.

[@Psych2go]

You lucky person you!! 😭 How is it going so far?

[@phictionofgrandeur2387]

@@Psych2go 4 years, 8 months, and counting. Engaged since October 27th of last year. I can't imagine a future without her.

[@Psych2go]

Congratulations on your engagement! That sounds absolutely amazing and I sincerely wish you the best in your relationship! You lucky person you! 😂😂

[@A55a551n]

1). The most important thing respect 0:43 2). Allow intimacy to progress naturally 1:08 3). Don't limit yourself to one type 1:41 4). Communication is key 2:15 5). Focus on who you are now 2:46 6). Don't alter who you are 3:11 7). Don't control the conversation 3:43 8). Be with someone for the right reasons 4:08 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙

[@Psych2go]

You never miss! Thank you for the very quick timestamps and for helping everyone!

[@A55a551n]

@@Psych2go Not a problem. Happy to help. So how your day and week going so far?

[@synthycliff]

6). Don't alter who you are 3:12

[@A55a551n]

@@synthycliff I redid point 6 before you mentioned it but it seems that KZbin didn't receive the updated comment

[@AutomaticDuck300]

I actually do need to alter who I am. I’m a fundamentally broken person.

[@MegaManNeo]

I have had never a date except with my ex who pretty much just used me for her own interests. I am so brutally introverted and traumatized by society that I don't even know where to start, how to get into the proper circles with women of interest to me. Let alone being interesting. During my teenage days I have been told that I have to work hard to achieve something and to be of value to be interesting to women. Let it be by job, money or the likes. My host parents told me that. I really lost hope as I have zero experience with anything and can't even make regular friends it seems.

[@buggus0034]

Women like capable men. However you need to come to terms with whatever the trauma is and attack it head on. Sometimes you have to be the fool and rush in headfirst. Be willing to become capable, and everything else will follow.

[@edcaldwell4326]

As much as I'd like a romantic partner, dating just isn't a priority of mine - It's not in my wiring. I fear it may never be a priority of mine and I will die alone.

[@Susbaguetteman]

Who’s single while watching

[@RandomSP_]

Me, who has yet to ask my crush out: Ah, yes how interesting

[@michaellacey9653]

I already asked her out…. Jk. I wouldn’t ever have a crush, no time for games.

[@Psych2go]

What are you waitin' for? 😉

[@SeelenTaucher]

😅 Me WHO got stucked in friendzoned Situationship, never asked for a Date since 10 years. Painful. But I Dont want to loose this treasures, because He gotcprecious soul

[@Aero_CKD]

I'm not in a relationship at the moment, but these tips were really good to hear about. Respect is such an important thing, both in relationships and outside of them. Glad to see that as the first piece of advice here!

[@spythere]

Thanks KZbin for recommending me dating advices when I literally don't leave my house and my entire social interaction is some random people on Discord. Yeah, meeting someone who I wanna date with is very possible!

[@matheusimon7316]

Same, all of the advices is something I already fallow, but being an introvert and since 99% of my friends are from others cities I hardly ever go out

[@TazsTech]

lmao same

[@ZmbieZenx]

I’m not dating anyone but I really needed this. Also keep up the content! I love all your videos 💞

[@Boredability]

I just got a girlfriend for the first time. I remember your channel being great years ago, hope it’s still the same

[@anastasiacolins4072]

I have found that being myself has created a area for experimentation, as well as openness and non judgemental energies. The biggest things i go by is respect, communication, as well as a friendly and bubbly nature. And finally it would be 'do unto others as you want done unto yourself.' I am a extremely positive person so im not worried nor frightened what love holds in store for me. And as always, thank you for your amazing content!~ you have helped me see the best i can be is myself

[@SeelenTaucher]

😊🙏🏻 💚

[@EmirOnTheDeen]

I love this channel so much, it has definitely helped me through the toughest times in my life. I hope that this channel can continue to do more videos on depression and ways to cope with it so I can relate to them. Love everything and the amazing team behind Psych2Go!

[@marsultortheavenger409]

Watching this as a man who was never loved in his entire life, thank God for video games.

[@NoName-zb1gm]

Look deeper folks. This is good advice but most of this advice is for someone who is going to be in your life for a short time. Pick someone who has the same morals and values who is kind and humble (and you be kind and humble too). It took me a long time but I found her and I'm not letting her get away.

[@KywKira]

A daily dose of Phych2go!❤❤❤

[@Psych2go]

❤❤❤

[@neofulcrum5013]

At this point, I think require a wingman. I fumble at what to even say to keep the conversation going.

[@magnum567134]

Question: How do I get someone to actually go out with me in the first place?

[@rjskum688]

You need to have respect for yourself and love yourself before you even think about dating anyone. Only way it will work

[@Psych2go]

Absolutely! A very important thing to remember before finding someone to love. Thank you for sharing.

[@bunbun8131]

i regret not watching this beforehand. i ended up revealing all my feelings at once and she started distancing herself. i should've taken it slow and easy with her. i regret it so much.

[@evifnoskcaj]

I could listen to you read ingredients. 💯 Solid video.

[@Psych2go]

😂😂 We'll call it Recipe2Go where we'll have Amanda read a list of random ingredients with her soothing voice

[@evifnoskcaj]

@@Psych2go Thank you for all of your videos and your organization and its members. Your videos are both informative and very comforting. 💯❤️

[@sam_does_stuff]

Early! Love your content ❤

[@Psych2go]

Yay! Thank you!

[@swatb2719]

Thanks for making this video. Seriously how dating should be done in todays world.

[@RiseLegend13]

I understand most of this even though I to afraid to start a date. It's mostly because of the fear of rejection or being hurt so badly again. Yes I am able to take it very slow, I just hope the one for me will wait till I feel fully recovered.

[@riskyourlife55]

Married, and this video is spot on! 👌 Great tips!

[@skwishymrshmelogaming4234]

I have alot of trouble with conversations, im more of a quiet person so i need someone to keep the conversation going lol

[@notturner8528]

Every time I watch a video the opening always goes in my head as “ a small percentage of you don’t actually date” or what ever the context of the video.

[@davehardenburg2924]

Thank you Amanda and psych2go as a whole. Thinking but in my twenties because I touched too much about the ex's. So I guess no way like that just starting up to date someone. Oh well my fault I guess you live and learn. Going to check for the leaf sprouting on my head.

[@davehardenburg2924]

talked****

[@idk2757]

Iv had trouble with my relationship and I’m trying my best to become loyal with him 🙏🙏🙏

[@Psych2go]

If you don't mind my asking, is everything okay with your relationship?

[@timinator900]

I wish for the best in your friendship. I'm still trying to find a gf... 😮‍💨

[@idk2757]

@@Psych2go I have always had trouble cheating. Because past exs of mine have done it to me. I have been trying so hard to be loyal and I messed up. I was given a second chance and trying to find videos to help improve not cheat and remain loyal

[@apryls5603]

I wish you did a podcast 😭

[@SIRNOODSALOT]

Man i don’t even plan on dating anyone ever and yet I still watch all of these, i’m still young though, things may change though :p

[@ihy_btw3597]

LITTLE MISTAKE AT NUMBER 6😅 (FOR SOME REASON I HAD TO SAY THIS LOL) BUT NICE VIDEO💞

[@jessicalukram74]

I'm not looking for anyone but I want to find one also not really idk ig I'm overthinking about this. But I feel extremely lonely. I almost didn't wrote this comment too. I need sleep Amanda, your voice is really soothing , thanks for this amazing advice

[@PokedachsVT]

I decided that there is no other half for me.

[@12BY6]

Good choice ...that's when it happens

[@timinator900]

You never know... I'm still looking despite me being in my early 20s. There's someone for all of us, you just got to keep your head open for new oppertunities.

[@Psych2go]

I personally prefer to be two whole individuals than to be someone who needs to find the "other half"! I strongly believe we should all strive to be one single whole individual and not someone who is incomplete without that special someone :)

[@PokedachsVT]

@@timinator900 I'm also in my early 20s and I'm done, done with humiliation,

[@BeeLy1011]

@@timinator900 Giving up in your early 20s?! Your life is literally just beginning!

[@chloe_gospinny]

I don't think I'll ever get to date anyone, but thanks for the advice

[@taliadatesnyc]

the advice in the comments section is spot on

[@Ikaros23]

Great video. The lack of respect is a sure sign of either a dysfunctional relationship or that the partner is toxic/narcissistic. And by " respect", it`s important to see that " self-respect" is a skill. That is the skill to have firm healthy boundarys. Not to rigid, and not to lose. And it is a SKILL. that is we learn it either from functional healthy caretakers, or if we lack that. We need to learn it on our own ( preferably with a therapist) . In it`s basics is about the most important word in the English language that is the word " No". If your date or partner don`t respect your boundarys. That is when you say a firm " No". Then they are highly dysfunctional. A person who lacks this basic respect. Is not a person to have as a intimate partner or as a friend. If you feel that you need to " explain" basic things to them, over and over again. then it`s time to terminate the relationship. In the worst case to go " No contact". What alot of people don`t understand. Is that often it`s not a lack of communication. If the other part simply is toxic. Their agenda is not the same as yours. their agenda is to get attention, and to dominate. And if the HUGE red flag " lack of respect" is there. Then most often it`s never going to work.

[@theliftexpert]

Ok so let me get this right, 1- be honest 2- don’t tell them what you think about them, if you really like them,or talk about your past or exes . To summarize, be a little honest but mostly don’t tell them anything about your past or what your feeling…..lol

[@irrelevant_noob]

Nah, it's more like: 1. Be mindful of where you stand; 2. Don't overshare, or stay focused on outdated info... 3. Express interest (if it's genuine!) while leaving room for them too.

[@pardonmyreach]

"According to statistics a small percentage of you who watch our videos actually have a love life"

[@timinator900]

I couldn't agree more... 💔

[@RedOneM]

Haven’t dove in to the dating sea yet. I need to find only some order/stability in my situation. I feel mixed since I’m missing out, but at the same time I want to seriously bring something to the table. This is my way of respecting others and their time.

[@xountaj]

To me there is one key problem in dating, I don't know how to meet someone, I'm not a very social person, I have my grouo of friends and I meet only with them, the only place where I'm meeting new people is my unit when new people joins, the only parties I go is with people from my unit and even then I'm more focused on drinking, I hate going out to bar or something, even in my school (in my country you can be soldier while being still in school, even if it's not a military school) I don't know anyone, I don't talk with anyone there, because I don't like anyone there, those people are just annoying, I have completely different values ​​than them, so yeah I don't know how to meet new people who I would like

[@SArthur221]

1:10 this one i can't agree with. First of all, it gives people with any sort of anxious attachment style something to brood over during the first date (fearmongering) instead of enjoying it, and secondly, if i am told by someone they literally think about me all the time, i will take that as a compliment, so it's actually a good thing to be that honest.

[@Veil_ofthevoid]

I swear Psych2Go knows I’m lonely and keeps sending these videos out to remind me

[@GIGACHAD-dk7zs]

As a 5 year old i see this an absolute win

[@Wesman2020]

I met my partner on a chatroom app, I forget the app but I got on a public chatroom and I was chatting a little bit but I then got really overwhelmed, I panicked and then left the chat. My now partner left that chat and DM me asking why I left, I told them I panicked and left, they said it was ok and then we just spent the rest of the time talking and that was about 6 years ago and we've been together ever since. We whenever actually asked each other if wanted to date it just formed and we didn't question it til later

[@lollipoptherobot]

The number 6 is wrong and you made number 6 into number 8 whatever we all mistakes 😊

[@MikeAnn193]

Candidate: blue flower About me: green leaf 😄❤

[@brettbosley779]

7. "But enough about me. What about you? What do *you* think of me?"

[@VhhvgvgGhggu]

I love your videos they always help

[@bobbruce4135]

Most important.... LOOKS. This is the Passion metric of romantic love (see Sternberg's triangle). Then comes Intimacy (personality). This video is about Intimacy.

[@CenteredCircles]

8. Your videos has helped me alot. Thank you.🙏🏻

[@squeakybb]

I’m meeting to hang out with a fantastic person this weekend and I’m so nervous!!!

[@FoXspeed100]

Thanks for the advice I just started dating

[@simpleneeds2582]

3:11 tip 8 poster on tip 6

[@SweetKissesLie]

OMG freacking god! 😂❤🎉 You are so funktioniert! I LOVED IT!! Thank you

[@onnerus1GD]

Item 3: Don't limit yourself to one type Me: Bro, i'm literally still sticking to the same one type of person i want to have for the last 4 years already, and i don't want to let it go easily ;-;

[@kunalsoni7681]

searching someone 🥺♥️

[@tyracalloway8993]

Great advice!

[@rakibalmahdi2401]

Anti-simp strategies: 1) Respect but maintain a professional boundary (don’t get personal) 2) Shut down your own intimacy - seek no intimacy, give no intimacy to the opposite gender 3) Chase the perfect ideal girl (or guy) you know you will never even meet but all in your head - in real life, ignore everyone you feel for. 4) Don't tell what's in your heart - hide it, let it ferment until you feel despair, then overcome that despair 5) Focus on what you want to become. Really, one day you will say, "I have become the man (or person) I wanted to be" 6) Definitely alter who you are - become a sigma, learn from other sigmas. Train hard 7) Don't reveal your secrets, nor your goals and ambitions 8) Be with those who have overcome simping - they have more valuable advice to give and may help you train

[@jjbotha8218]

Some of the people I met before rushed the intimacy part, needless to say that it did not work out with them. Afterwards they blame me for it, although I asked for intimacy not to be rushed.

[@TheNonameHousehold]

No dating problems here! just enjoying the single life, that and I'm Demiromantic... 😅

[@-KorruptionOfLight-]

This would probably be more useful if I know how to get dates

[@elormanyigba6917]

Tbh praying I stay single my whole life hoping I don’t pull currently in 8th grade so things may change I did already reject 2 girls-

[@omotayosatuyi252]

For engagement

[@matt566]

What's the dating advice for someone with health issues that affect their appearance?

[@questionmark05]

Right ok, cool thank you this is really helpful. Now how do you get a date... And ah the rest of it?

[@Psych2go]

I think maybe this can be a good idea for a video: how to get a date in the first place! If we were to make a video on it, is there something that you would like to see?

[@jinhoohans8098]

@@Psych2go😂

[@questionmark05]

@Psych2go Thank you! That sounds interesting. Ah. I'm not sure I'm the person to ask. I don't really know anything about relationships. I've never dated. I've got an "invisible disability," my Dr called it. I can't work, so I'm on disability (sorry) living in a flat at my parents. I'm now 32. I never tried dating because I can't equally contribute to many things involved in a relationship.

[@einindividuum5428]

@@Psych2goI would include basic stuff like how to meet new people, how to befriend new people, how to ask one out, because sometimes „just asking“ can be hard 😅

[@DavidJackson-r5c]

I know I enjoy listening to you.. 😊

[@ajscout594]

I have no experience with love at all.

[@Subliminal622]

Thank you for the dating advice

[@Psych2go]

You’re welcome 😊 What did you think of them?

[@Subliminal622]

@@Psych2go I think the advice is pretty helpful seeing as people always want to be cool when I try to date someone or trying finding someone to date, when I’m reality I’m just a goofy person that really doesn’t know how to talk to people face to face.

[@starstrikegaming2408]

My "special someone" is best friend. I've known him my entire life, and I've had a crush on him for quite a while. I haven't told him yet because it's different when you already know someone pretty well, and you share a strong bond, but you're afraid of ruining a good friendship. How should I tell him?

[@einindividuum5428]

I can only tell you how I did it, but maybe this helps. I met my crush only last year and he was very open about his situation and he does not want a relationship right now. We became friends with benefits and share a very intimate bond although we know each other just for a short amount of time. Long story short, I had feelings for him, I told him and he was very sad he could not requite my feelings, because he doesn’t want to hurt me. I feel very sad sometimes, but I am relieved to have this off my chest. And now I know he is worth my love because he wants to help me to find a partner who loves me back ❤

[@buggus0034]

I think it’s worth risking it. Don’t tell him, but ask him where he’s at. Probe for some information somewhat discreetly. Peek behind the kimono that is his love life a little bit.

[@CedsBritishBrass34]

I have given up tbh, most girls i try dating with always end up flaking and ghosting... even when i let things progress naturally and try not to come on too strong, i try to get to know the other and let them finish their talks... yet somehow this always happens that hey ghost and flake... i really lost hope tbh

[@ShantCam]

Astrology helped me realize the multiple components to a healthy relationship. Not only that but what I would need in a relationship specifically for me to be happy, grow personally and be emotionally connected. I have about 80% of what I wanted the other parts we’re either working on or I’ve accepted that I just won’t have and I’m grateful for what I do have. We been together 3+ yrs, engaged for a month and we have a son due in 5 months. We got pregnant our first try doing IVF

[@Palmieri_Fitness]

We’ve gotten to the point where we are texting every day 😊

[@niasiamack9333]

Thanks for the advice I'm still single 😅

[@Layjade08]

i just want someone to love me but i’m only a freshman in high school but i have never had a real boyfriend i am a over weight girl and i see other girls like me that are gorgeous and have amazing partners but i hate my self i try to love myself but it’s hard diets don’t work it i get ill from them it’s just hard….

[@annatar6453]

Re-upload?

[@banjaxed73]

This is great advice for people who are already confident asking others out on a date, and have some experience of dating. For example, "Allow intimacy to progress naturally" is sage advice for seasoned daters, and / or those in the fledgling stages of a relationship, but no use at all to those of us who are still struggling to get dates, or who always get rejected. I'm sure the advice given here benefits some people...but, I'll watch something else, thank you.

[@christiansantiago7067]

I am subscribed 💚💚💚

[@minermole101]

Boy do I tend to constantly feel unlucky in attempting to find someone. And even when I feel "lucky", I somehow mess things up. 😢 Also: UwU outro dance UwU

[@jasonfanclub4267]

Is this a reupload?

[@theraven4641]

I just like to watch these for no reason. Lol

[@iAmJoshh_]

Watching this without a girlfriend

[@timinator900]

Same... 💔

[@iAmJoshh_]

@timinator900 focus on you king 🤴

[@BerloBros]

1:58 YES, You need them to like Star Wars, who do you think we are?

[@KiallVunMyeret]

Best advice i have found was simply... don't

[@OnaRocketship]

whatever happened to im not allowed to have that.

[@spectrethefox5450]

Alright I’ll limit myself to two types instead

[@TheRealZmanzee]

I am lost

[@MiriadCalibrumAstar]

3:11 has a typo

[@RyanNerdyGamer]

1:54 Invoking genuine ignorance… what does “blue flower” mean? Is it a personality thing? A dating thing? An _actual_ blue flower? 🤔

[@amanitaocreata4401]

I'm so bad at this

[@lydia8150]

i cant find anyone to date at all

[@JoaoPedro-dx6pn]

Is there a missing number?

[@zionzenell9807]

Bro I just got broken up with 4 days ago 😭

[@Psych2go]

😭😭 How have you been since your break up?

[@Biajuuu]

I just got friendzoned.. again..😅

[@Rishabh-Dev]

There is no such thing as Perfect Companion.😅