Things I do, when I'm attracted to someone: try to avoid them
@khalilahd.2 жыл бұрын
Or it be mean to them 😅
@Psych2go2 жыл бұрын
That's true. A sign that we totally forgot, especially for introverts.
@Yer_blue_angel2 жыл бұрын
Me though. Kinda hard to avoid the guy I like though because he’s literally everywhere I go. I just don’t want to do something embarrassing around him.
@OmEn2.2 жыл бұрын
Can releate 😂
@melon55582 жыл бұрын
Same.. but the thing is, they will never like me back if I keep doing this;-;
@khalilahd.2 жыл бұрын
I hate how I automatically get weird around my crush it’s terrible 😂
@returnoftheromans67262 жыл бұрын
Same. I would love to talk more, but all of a sudden my mind goes blank. Just talk to him already!!!!
@Je11keng2 жыл бұрын
Omg me too 😂. Its like as soon as I approach him, I completely forgot what I was gonna say. My mind also goes "blank" 🤣
@robertkellogg11992 жыл бұрын
Maybe it's normal to get rare when someone is attracted to you. I get that sense when this woman is attracted to me. I feel she's being weird.
@thaliaguillen92862 жыл бұрын
Oh my God me too! I legit choke on my saliva!! 😭
@BATMADZ_2 жыл бұрын
Can I ask a genuine question? How do you guys have a crush on someone before you’ve really ever talked to them? You just watch from afar and think they’re cute or…? I can’t find myself attracted to anyone until maybe we get super close or something but idk 🤷
@yohaizilber2 жыл бұрын
I've always found the human connection fascinating.
@apseudonym2 жыл бұрын
ok alien
@lanceyeboi3322 жыл бұрын
As an alien, I agree.
@КэЦин-ч5н2 жыл бұрын
You talk like an alien
@thecatsbackyard48332 жыл бұрын
A friendship can always become more.
@evangeline77292 жыл бұрын
0:34 Clammy hands 1:13 A Duchenne smile 2:49 A flushed face 3:04 Their pupils dilate 4:28 They groom themselves when you approach them 4:58 They lean towards you Hope this helps and thank you Psych2go for putting effort in these videos :)
@djbond6241 Жыл бұрын
Good SUMMARY OF AMANDA S. *& PETER PANCAKES VIDEO ON ATTRACTION
@endlesswonderland2052 жыл бұрын
0:35 Clammy hands 1:13 Duchenne smile 2:49 Flushed face 3:04 Dilated pupils 4:29 Grooming themselves 4:57 Leaning towards the person they are attracted to Alright. I've never been attracted to anyone, romantically ofc. I strongly feel like I know I'm an aro-ace........well! To those who have a crush, no matter how strong it is, don't lose to your emotions, be rational, be aware of the red flags. You're more precious than anything, take care of yourself.
@garbagehead7112 жыл бұрын
I'm trying to do this to a guy to f ck with him I'm struggling with the dilating eye thing
@garbagehead7112 жыл бұрын
And blushing too
@endlesswonderland2052 жыл бұрын
@@garbagehead711 Doesn't blushing mean having a flushed face?
@mnng4462 жыл бұрын
@@garbagehead711 flushed = blushing
@teteahmar57432 жыл бұрын
Love your username
@bunnieth2 жыл бұрын
We some time travelers just barging in, dont mind us
@Psych2go2 жыл бұрын
Oh hello, there you found us. :)
@Telaketa2 жыл бұрын
How tho
@NINGEN_DESU.2 жыл бұрын
Wth??#+#+
@bunnieth2 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go hi thereeee
@crisp.63412 жыл бұрын
@@Telaketa They're a channel member.
@user-bp3xz3ng2z2 жыл бұрын
I really liked that you included the names of people who did research about the topic and books they wrote! Specially having examples of books so we can look into them if we want to get a deeper knowledge ❤
@chr5no2 жыл бұрын
Can we all agree this is so calming
@Psych2go2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Do you know about our second channel by any chance? kzbin.info
@OmEn2.2 жыл бұрын
Ik, the voice, the background music, and beautiful pictures are so relaxing. Love the content ❤
@chr5no2 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go I knew about your shorts channel but not this one! Subbing right now
@n0tmxiaxx Жыл бұрын
i knowwww her voice is so relaxing :)
@doodlesyoru2108 Жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go Ohoooo... I thought things could not get any better. I thought this was perfection. You proved me wrong by doing even better. In the end, perfection is infinite, immeasurable. The only thing we can do is get as close to it as possible, and that's our purpose in life.
@BCSchmerker2 жыл бұрын
+Psych2Go *Thanks for the list of "poses," for want of a better term:* 0:34 (1) Clammy hands 1:12 (2) _Duchenne_ smile (identifiable by the "smiling eyes" effect) *Side note:* The _Duchenne_ smile is named after French neurologist Guillaume-Benjamin-Amand Duchenne de Boulogne. 2:48 (3) Flushed face 3:02 (4) Dilated pupils in eyes 4:27 (5) Self-grooming upon approach 4:56 (6) Leaning toward one
@b00shy682 жыл бұрын
It’s like I take heavy mental notes daily but immediately when I meet up with my crush I just immediately forget everything
@SoloMotivation2 жыл бұрын
*ONE OF THE BEST QUOTES* “Your mind is a powerful thing. When you fill it with positive thoughts, your life will start to change” - Gautama Buddha Thanks For Reading I LOVE YOU ❤️
@cooldude3556lol2 жыл бұрын
You know it’s a Duchenne smile when you can’t suppress it even when you are trying too
@kuromikendall2 жыл бұрын
The more you love your decisions, the less you need others to love your decisions. ♡
@calmcrazy2 жыл бұрын
Amazing animation! Especially at 05:44, the theater scene... Some are crying, some are shocked as to what is there to cry, and the best one at the bottom right, someone has just dozed off in an apparently emotional scene with a friend desperately trying to wake them up... 🤣🤣
@buddy36352 жыл бұрын
I was on a boat ride with my best friend(also crush) once(Feb. 2022), on the way to Alcatraz. The boat was rocking back and forth, and I was falling asleep. I lay my head on her shoulder on the way there and back. She adjusted herself at one point so my head didn't fall. Best day ever :) Unfortunatly when I did tell her how I felt, she told me she liked someone else. Not the result I wanted, but it's ok. I still love her very much as a person and friend. Thanks for reading :) If you reply with your own story I'll read it
@itsmeblink97522 жыл бұрын
As a teenager the idea of relationships isn't very amusing to me but I do hope that people would admire me- I am neither the prettiest or the smartest but knowing people around you like you is just a very happy feeling
@mouseymouse11262 жыл бұрын
Same. But we will
@tengokum.57882 жыл бұрын
Everytime I watch these types of videos, I always see myself doing these signs, and never notice someone doing this regarding me
@sophie0918 Жыл бұрын
My smile is a Duchenne smile , no matter I’m with someone I like romantically or not , also when I’m with people I like , I find it hard to even just hold their hands 😅
@AdjectiveEQ2 жыл бұрын
I swear to god I have seen my crush look at me with the Duchenne smile so many times crying and screaming rn
@iamgoddessoflove2 жыл бұрын
In order to attract the love that you desire, you must take care of yourself first. When you love yourself, accept yourself and put yourself first, everything falls into place. The one thing that blocks you from manifesting a healthy relationship is so when you put everyone else before you. 💙KZbinr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
@-Kate_The_Editor-2 жыл бұрын
I mean being an introvert means I don’t like talking to many people. The thought of talking to my crush makes be blush a little and I don’t want to act dumb when talking to him.
@rileyfairfull25482 жыл бұрын
me with adhd *definitely* knowing how to spot body language
@ZancoIntel2 жыл бұрын
Serious: I hugged my crush, and she softly whispers "I love you" in my ear. I'm trying to convince myself she meant it as a friend. But my heart isn't buying it. I'm getting her out of a hostile household, and I met with her to give a powerful taser for her protection. Is this just a powerful gesture of appreciation? Or is my heart telling me the truth?
@williamfied95002 жыл бұрын
I get my hopes up about much lesser things so I’d take it if I where u 😂
@joebamna7772 жыл бұрын
Test the waters a little more, look out for like more hints your way before making a move, but otherwise i’d say it’s quite plausible. Don’t bum rush into spilling your guts out to her but at the same time don’t wait too long to let it fester and have her lose possible interest in you, just make sure you have better proof to save a long embarrassing apology
@paleoboy2 жыл бұрын
You wouldn't tell someone you loved them if they meant it as a friend, she's being genuine when she says that.
@diannaanderson2 жыл бұрын
The I love you IS genuine. But wait it out until she's settled into her new reality. This kind of crush/admiration is doubled. For you, it's an "I'm your protector" groove. For her, she's in a "My hero!" mode. It CAN develop into something more, but time outside of this current crisis mode will tell for sure. And no physical intimacy please!! You'll both only get confused about day-to-day vs. fantasy/romance. Nope, not a therapist, just a VERY acute observer of us humans.
@Feeelipeeee2 жыл бұрын
You never know man, she could just be pranking you.
@non-existent47172 жыл бұрын
Lately fell in love with my crush again but for real this time there ain't any going back anymore now I don't need to be with them, I just want them to be happy, safe and feel protected. I've seen the "ugly" and like then despite it. No red flags Just things like when you look back on crushes and are like "they were so ugly/weird/noisy/not my type - why tf was I interested?" And like I see them. I realise but I like them despite it. At first I used that to work against it and it kind worked at first but then last week I spent the whole week with them and just HAD to get to know them not as in I needed to but we lived under the same roof (trip with friends, their friends and other's friends) Brooo 🥺🥺🥺 Precious human being goddammit why u gotta get me attached again Problem is the intimidated feeling you get before your crush as in Ahhh shy nervous gotta get away but wanna stay close is gone now Like now I just wanna talk, friendly physical touch like I REALLY WANNA HUG, text them, call them, hang out with and ofcourse it's still a bit awkward because I know I have feelings but I just enjoy my time with then now and it's so confusing because like we're not friends and I feel like I'm annoying (which I am) and idk what to do
@Frozki2 жыл бұрын
Just wanna say that the artwork and animation on this one are exceptionally great
@mankrip-2 жыл бұрын
Excellent video. Here's a suggestion: Make a video about "Body Language Signs of Implicit Consent." It would be a nice follow-up to this video, because even though someone may be attracted to us, they may be not ready for a kiss or anything further yet. Knowing earlier when it's okay to advance and when it's better to stop is essential to make our significant others more comfortable with us.
@apseudonym2 жыл бұрын
that's why asking helps! “can I kiss you?” it's simple
@Imari32 жыл бұрын
Lord, *there’s a fluffy puppy and a kitty in the video!!!!* There’s a bag of cookies too! This video is a sweet treat for a hard day. Thank you, thank you!!!
@DrRyguy242 жыл бұрын
OMG, this is why body language is so confusing to neurodivergents. I wish there was a course on all of this.
@notpub2 жыл бұрын
These graphics really hit the point home. Body language is such a mystery to most of us. Thank you for this deeper dive into this mystery of human begmhavior! 🧡🧡🧡🧡
@Hello_Gorgeous2 жыл бұрын
My crush sat really close to me the other day and his knee touched mine by accident so we both blushed a lot lol 😆 it was cute
@Pineapple-hx9ty2 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate these videos for providing valuable and entertaining information but also something I notice is how cute the characters are drawn! They are seriously adorable
@yourgrandfather42 жыл бұрын
AWWHH MY BF AND I ALWAYS STILL ACT AS GOOFY AS WE DID WHEN WE WERE CRUSHING ON EACHOTHER AND WE BOTH STILL ACT THIS WAY 😭😭💗💗💗💗
@odoggo70122 жыл бұрын
Ok heres the thing about the pupil dilating thing the only way to tell is to look at them and that can go from curiosity to a seriously awkward situation very fast
@gamer22ftw2 жыл бұрын
Someone attracted to me? Impossible.
@Kingish32 жыл бұрын
The calm female voice is very female calming 💀
@UndercoverTherapist2 жыл бұрын
Haha! Make that move if you like someone and stop waiting for them to come to you!
@splatoongoon9682 жыл бұрын
I love every single video this channel makes. Honestly they’ve been so helpful to me in making new friends and attracting people i like. Thank you guys so so much!!
@Katieexar2 жыл бұрын
My crush is next to me at school. I'm like "GET AWAY FROM ME I NEED SOME SPACE" yeah I'm sure they hate me.
@ary98032 жыл бұрын
When you’re early and the person that summarises the video isn’t here…
@simply_analyn24282 жыл бұрын
I hope my crush is watching right now with these signs😮
@Alieninnocent162 жыл бұрын
Thanks for helping me everytime I was stressed and depressed!
@Psych2go2 жыл бұрын
Glad the videos could help. Are there any other type of vids you want to see?
@annziadalgado2 жыл бұрын
How to act around our crush
@Alieninnocent162 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go actually...I WANT Enneagram CONTENT
@thereal_Achilles2 жыл бұрын
as someone with a crush, thanks for this helpful video! gonna binge the rest of ur love advice videos lol - love from someone crushing
@thereal_Achilles2 жыл бұрын
ALSO THE BG ART ESPECIALLY AT 2:40 IS SO PRETTY T^T
@shockdojo42872 жыл бұрын
Keep making the backgrounds like this it’s beautiful!😊
@Lavenderrose732 жыл бұрын
Honestly, there's nothing wrong with crying at movies. One can do a lot worse. As far as I'm concerned, one of the worst things someone can do is belittle me for tears in a movie like _Two Brothers_ or _Anne of Green Gables: The Story Continues._
@nanicrash2 жыл бұрын
This is so relaxing and informationally rich *and the art is so cute*
@dazedream23922 жыл бұрын
When I was in middleschool and highschool (7years in total) I had one crush allthroughout. I was a timid introvert since day one, any extroversion I had before was bullied out of me fast and I wanted to disappear into my videogames at home. My crush was just so perfect to me I wouldnt dare show any signs, though I probably made it obvious I was trying to not notice her and avoid eye contact. The affect her presence had on me was severe, my brain would panic, and id be ashamed of myself because I was in no state personally or socially to date, it was torture. If she had ever asked me out, my brain probably would have short circuited and died because she was the true love fantasy and she was unobtainable in my head, like hardwired. The one time in 7 years I had a conversation with her my head was exploding with all emotions to the max all at once and I know I was being very cringey talking about busses, she walked off to get away from me lol, that memory haunts me. So yeah, love can be crippling to some of us, and I wonder if I can even have a crush again and if it would affect me the same way. I guess what Im asking is, is this normal or do I have a condition? I know I had adhd.
@Yashuop2 жыл бұрын
Only people who didn't come from Tiktok are worthy of liking this 🏆
@wolfscpe42722 жыл бұрын
First and yes
@Zane6182 жыл бұрын
That would be me I am one of them
@rehan351112 жыл бұрын
And the ppl who report this spammer their one wish will come true⭐
@justalpha91382 жыл бұрын
I hate Tik Tok so much
@fiblet82232 жыл бұрын
Do you think you could do more videos about eating disorders? I’m currently suffering from anorexia and seeing videos that show my struggles make me feel more accepted, valid, and more motivated to try and seek help :)
@kurooaisu5 ай бұрын
Not me watching this when being attracted to nobody IRL and doesn't feel like anyone is attracted to me either 😂
@gxm97632 жыл бұрын
I feel like the guy I have crush on doesn’t like me. It’s so hard when you barely talk to each other. Many people including the teachers ship him and my best friend, although it hurts me but atleast they’re gonna be both happy if they like each other since I feel like they do. Many pretty girls also like him and have confidence to talk to him unlike me, so I guess I’m practically just invisible😅 We do make eye contact sometimes but it’s just that, I also saw my best friend chatting with him and she told me they chat always. Every time I like someone, Im always unlucky but I guess that’s life😁
@Tauridon2 жыл бұрын
If you like a guy, just give him attention. Nothing major, just make an effort to say something. Notice his new shoes, his haircut, his funny shirt. He may not show it, but he'll remember the little things like that. They keep him awake at night, wondering why he doesn't say something back. #1 way to get attention from a dude, I promise you.
@gxm97632 жыл бұрын
@@Tauridon Thanks for the advice but I think I’ll just give up. There’s no point in trying when he and my best friend always chat with each other and my best friend told me that he “jokingly” said he “admires” her. I’ll just try my best to move on and one day maybe I’ll fall in love with someone else who also feels the same way.
@gxm97632 жыл бұрын
Anddd both of them deserve each other, I’ll be happy if they’re both happy. I’ll just be supportive to both of them. I’ll just be patient on when I can experience it too, I’m still young so I don’t need to hurry up😊
@Aderin.2 ай бұрын
Guys are more likely to like girls than girls are to like guys.
@jungkookii102 жыл бұрын
I need a video about when ppl think u talk too much but your depressed and it always hurt me when ppl say that to me
@sohaib_t2 жыл бұрын
0:27 why does the audio just cut off
@Oddity._..2 жыл бұрын
Since I don’t go to school with my crush and we both live with our parents, I don’t see them much in person. I usually text them and I tell myself I don’t like them but then they text me and it’s a hit of adrenaline
@_cider_88372 жыл бұрын
currently in denial, checking up on wether i am dumb around someone or not....
@elabinadingbading2 жыл бұрын
i have a classmate, his name is John 🤣 Not a day goes by he doesn't talk to me, Not a day goes by that he doesn't tickle me, too ,or everytime we would do things (activity groupings or partner activity) he would always ask me to be with him, everytime he borrows my ruler, pencils, ballpens, eraser etc. We even share our food sometimes at the cafeteria, I don't know if he has a crush on me or he's just friendly but i kinda like him to be honest hahaha. Everyday when he's tired he would always put his head on my shoulders like we were couple's🤣🤣🤣 And he would even look at me so seriously
@andreah77652 жыл бұрын
I really liked this video.
@nickname61022 жыл бұрын
I watch these to make sure that I don’t secretly like someone
@abrahamambriz8922 жыл бұрын
As someone with Asperger's Syndrome, I understand NONE of that. How can I ask my potential "girlfriend" to express her crush on me with words without annoying her?
@justalpha91382 жыл бұрын
Just be honest. If you being on the spectrum gives you difficulty with subtlety, you can let them know that. If your crush is okay with this and is willing to work things out with you regardless, then that's probably a keeper right there.
@abrahamambriz8922 жыл бұрын
@@justalpha9138 Thanks.
@justalpha91382 жыл бұрын
@@abrahamambriz892 Hopefully this helps! :)
@abrahamambriz8922 жыл бұрын
@@justalpha9138 Thanks. :D
@justalpha91382 жыл бұрын
@@abrahamambriz892 And if it doesn't, feel free to blame me entirely. XD Or it could be because this person isn't for you. Imo, what defines a healthy relationship is one where each person respects each other for who they are, and actively works around the shortcomings JUST because the admiration and love they feel for each other is strong. :)
@marinetteproductions2 жыл бұрын
This is great to learn cause my sister didn’t know a guy from a store she was in was flirting with her❤❤❤ I wish her the best of finding Someone special
@ultrajonne2 жыл бұрын
your body language speakss to mee...
@mtme2 жыл бұрын
3:08 "look into their eyes" ha....easier said than done...
@omodrip1558 Жыл бұрын
"Their pupils dilate" Him: having dark eyes 👁👄👁
@arandomminecraftplayer8462 жыл бұрын
How has people from two weeks ago commented on this video?? It's just only been uploaded
@jilyyyyy.2 жыл бұрын
someone could literally think i like them by these actions because i often do them specially in school :'
@jilyyyyy.2 жыл бұрын
mostly i think im a trapper because there's this guy always be starin at me loike bruh! look at smbdy when i always look his way he be starin STRAIGHT at me. but guess what sis! lol i often look away ha- just got home from school and i so remember him staring at me' like so he's always shipped in this girl they're the escort and muse of our section so yeah! likw idk. i don't mind him still.
I noticed that in a lot of these videos (I've been binge-watching them), blushing is mentioned... but my crush has dark skin
@TheNonameHousehold2 жыл бұрын
I've noticed Jesse and big sis Kat give each other the Duchenne smile a lot 🤔😊🤗 ~Holly
@dumbkid4ever2242 жыл бұрын
my friend once told me that she can tell my mood based on what size my pupil is, well more specifically she said she knows I'm bored when my pupils expand or something else, I honestly don't remember but gosh darn she's so good at reading people it's scary
@robertkellogg11992 жыл бұрын
I've noticed I feel women who are attracted to me, distance themselves from me and yet look at me from a far distance. Like they are shy and nervous. When I approach them and speak to them they just get quiet and hardly say anything. Then they say a few words and yet I have to continue to keep the conversation going. They stare and sometimes play a little game and act like they don't see me. They look at me when I'm not looking but when I stare and catch them, they turn away. These are mature grown women too.
@wronglyright2 жыл бұрын
Don't give me hope, pls..
@danieltdgames76022 жыл бұрын
Why are men so bad at getting signs presented to them? A friend I had literally HELD hands (crossed fingers, idk how to describe it) with me while we walked listening to music sharing a headphone and I tought she was just being nice I'm so dumb
@garyholt83152 жыл бұрын
a woman I met at my bus stop stood really close to me. the next time she touched my arm. the next time she held my arm and didn't let go. the next time she held my hand and then held out both hands for me to hold. could she be sending me a signal? it looks like a green flag, but I have been so wrong so many times.
@jaydenjones13742 жыл бұрын
It's not that men don't notice them because trust me, we do, we just don't want to come off as a creep and misinterpret those signals
@ravencliff2382 жыл бұрын
Pretty sure no one's attracted to me but this will work great for my animations! Thx guys!
@KasThinks2 жыл бұрын
So useful and adorable at the same time ❤
@florensiaeveline27062 жыл бұрын
what a great illustration!!!
@mockemperor9532 жыл бұрын
I tend to never show my real emotions in any light for people to understand so I feel if anyone would like me they think I'm very uninterested
@JonBrownSherman2 жыл бұрын
Once you learn these things you can never unsee them
@shaleymartin55022 жыл бұрын
I love all of the videos y'all make and I appreciate the cute animation 🤗
@plkachuzzz2 жыл бұрын
I just realized one of my friends might like me, but I see him as a friend still :c
@purple-green-space-otter2 жыл бұрын
I get really awkward really quickly when I have a crush on someone
@neofulcrum50132 жыл бұрын
Man I’m so bad at picking up body hints
@Psych2go2 жыл бұрын
Why is that?
@mattmerced114816 күн бұрын
the signals get more mixed every day
@ndrby2 жыл бұрын
I use these videos for reading hints AND to drop hints
@eredemia59122 жыл бұрын
Oh gosh, I have all of these sighns.. Just to let people know this doesn't just apply to romantic attraction and crushes but can also apply to platonic attraction and quishes. I don't want my squish to know because it's NOT a crush, oh my gosh this awful.😭
@IheartAnbutOliv10 күн бұрын
Me treating them like any new friend cause i dont know how to express I like them😭
@loganbodine10032 жыл бұрын
I personally don't like to give off strong signs at all. Allni do is show when I'm comfortable, and I make strong eye contact
@Psych2go2 жыл бұрын
Why do you avoid giving off signs?
@loganbodine10032 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go I want to see if they are into me first. Nothing worse than really liking someone and making it obvious only to find out its not mutual
@Ykkgang2 жыл бұрын
Interesting that is mostly me.. Thank you for the amazing facts
@marinastan95432 жыл бұрын
Gonna promote this account to all my friends
@pantheraleor6052 жыл бұрын
I used to notice my crush showing a few signs. Gathered the courage to confess. Turns out he just treats me as a very good friend. Period. Never talk to him since.
@Im.bad.at.naming2 жыл бұрын
With these types of videos I realise how many people were actually flirting with me (not many)
@DonnyDonnMendoza2 жыл бұрын
The wonders of what attraction does to the mind and body lol 😂
@Mytro85332 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the insightful content!
@brunoroda34372 жыл бұрын
I find myself grooming my hair and brain freeze when I'm with her, but I found her leaning her body towards me, and her pupils dilated. 😁
@justalpha91382 жыл бұрын
Oooo :O
@joshyycute58232 жыл бұрын
This one is different and i love thisss alot!!!
@kutlerbrown162 жыл бұрын
But I always have the duschenne smile though😂. I picked it up from my dad that’s what he does
@flerma2237 ай бұрын
What about when they avoid eye contact?
@Obsxcurity2 жыл бұрын
Your voice is so soothing
@shannonwilhoite97472 жыл бұрын
Here from the post you made to comment. I like your vids so thanks for making them!