8 Signs Someone Might Be a Player

The allure of new relationships is the thrill and excitement that comes with it. It’s all too easy to fall for someone’s charm and wit, to get swept away by their romantic words and gestures, especially a player. Are you worried about giving your heart away to a player who won’t take care of it, who might cheat on you or leave you for the next person that comes along? To save yourself all that pain and heartache, here are the warning signs that you might be dealing with a player.
If you relate to this video and want to know if someone is leading you on, we have a video on that too: • 7 Signs They're Leadin...
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[@Psych2go]

The purpose of this video is to help you steer away from someone who might not be good for your mental health..

[@absopremacy]

Thank you so much for making this!

[@almsecurity2857]

Wow my neighbours are exactly like this

[@sarita45]

@@almsecurity2857 oh 😒😒😒😂

[@chrisakane9840]

I mean I've talked and flirted to women. But this one woman i tried to talk to said. "I dont want to talk!" All rude and shit. Ik she has a right to be " rude" and mind my own business , but i really thought they were pretty and also how did she know i was trying to talk her? What if i was a sales person or one of those ppl who invite you to church. I mean i wasn't even acting like a player. All i said was how are you? Doing some Christmas shopping? ( she had toys in her cart) so yea. She was rude. I wasn't even coming on strong or touchy. But i understand where she is coming from and that was kinda of a too personal question to say. But she was rude and now it put me in kinda a sad mood rather than being angry or salty. But i also do feel a bad. Cuz it makes me look like a bad person.

[@smart422]

@@chrisakane9840 bro u r alpha never let these women talk advantage of u

[@emilyngo]

Deeply, a player is an unhappy person, someone who is lost in life and doesn't really know what they truly want. That's why they want to play around as it gives them instant good feelings, yet those feelings disappear very soon and the player has to keep playing the game otherwise they will not know what else to do to feel better. So if you have got played by a player, have some empathy for them, and please don't take things personally. Hurt people hurt people ❤

[@nightfall445]

Yeah bruh i agree with ya

[@talkativetoast4807]

I agree but don’t give them too much empathy or you’ll end up hurting yourself

[@metra8604]

I wish i supported my bully. Back then i didn't know this :(

[@anastazjasowska6754]

They are scared of getting close to you. Because they where hurt by someone close to them. They are no longer interested in intimacy, once they are convinced that it's a bad thing.

[@anissa2361]

@@anastazjasowska6754 This is true!

[@KnHaT]

These people are usually narcissists. It's for the best when they don't stick around, because when they do (well, sort of) they're emotionally abusive.

[@KaiIchiRu96]

Can totally agree. Better leave such exploiting guys.

[@mscapri1628]

That's so true.... 💯% spot on

[@runningwithscissors1564]

My ex openly bragged about being a player. I had nonexistent boundaries and I accepted the worst of the worst kind of mental hell from him. He only left me after I had a false cancer scare. He said I was a burden.

[@lajellybeans]

If you think someone is a player, they probably are

[@zackfoster8946]

First thought that crosses your mind is always correct.

[@Oracle441]

People often think anyone who is good looking is a player. This is the definition of judging a book by its cover.

[@Gidiotic]

You see their gamertag on top of their head

[@isfido1139]

They usually talk about videogames.

[@-w-.]

Noooo, I was too late to make that joke.

[@metra8604]

yes

[@ezpub6755]

Lol talking about playing, This the most clutch Warzone win 🏆 kzbin.info/www/bejne/g36Tn5x3a5x0fs0

[@yooooooooooooooo696]

@@ezpub6755 I normally hate these, but this is fine

[@skywatcher369]

I really dislike when people play with anothers feelings in that way. In this day and age it seems every one is selfish.

[@brooklyn_twelve8194]

This world will be a much better place without players 😓

[@tonitv9991]

it’s the dating apps

[@SamElle]

I also dont get why some consider being a player a badge of honor. They would actually brag about it and I'm just here thinking... so you're proud of being a bad person...

[@cristaljustice4534]

Being a bad person is your own view. But in their view they are not a bad person

[@sherina3663]

been there, he even said "well, i like people's attention, especially women bcs im lack of it"

[@SamElle]

@@cristaljustice4534 ooo sorry, I didn't mean to place judgment on the other person. Yes, of course it is their choice to be a player and they may not view it negatively!

[@SamElle]

@@sherina3663 AGHHH, how did you respond??

[@ChocoParfaitFra]

So true, but my ex would say “I didn’t like them enough” And in my case, he said he “just lost interest in me, and I have to get used to it because it happens everywhere, so it’s normal” They normalize their immature behavior by denying the fact that they’re at fault

[@mugiwaraprincess]

*Player Signs Time Stamps* 0:50 They're over-confident 1:23 They flatter you too much 2:01 They're a natural at flirting 2:36 They're vague about everything 3:12 They're always on their phone 3:34 They want to keep things casual 4:05 They hardly know you 4:29 You caught them lying

[@au9parsec]

Those are the 8 signs that someone is a Minecraft player. Minecraft player's never wants a serious relationship, and are only interested in the thrill of dating girl's. That's just the way Minecraft player's are.

[@theoriginalcoolkid]

@@au9parsec Cringe

[@Psych2go]

Have you met someone like this?

[@mugiwaraprincess]

@@Psych2go fortunately, no

[@itzmehDevi]

@@theoriginalcoolkid no need to be rude..just saying🤷

[@itzmehDevi]

everyone here talking and commenting as if it is always a "he" NOPE...there are girls like this too..

[@omg....5240]

Ok

[@MrZommmmB]

True that!

[@metra8604]

Girls can definitely be players.

[@Veon_512]

And they have alot more fun with it aswell

[@itzmehDevi]

@@allahuakbar6994 oh ok.

[@me_x277]

1. sign: you watch this video listen to your gut feeling it's most likely correct

[@uscharadreemurr6746]

Why did I felt suddenly attacked? Like, I didn't even finished the video and I'm already asking myself some questions... 😔

[@utpaladas9243]

Uhh...why I didn't find this video earlier...😶😶😶😶😶

[@nca1668]

I like your style!!!! 🤩😍

[@findtheothers_]

😭

[@findtheothers_]

Idk what my gut is telling me.

[@lil_faygo6070]

Who else here has already had their heart shattered by a player and just watched this to confirm that they were a player 😖😭🥺💔

[@dailydoseofmedicinee]

Signs He's a Player 👍 He's Constantly on His Phone. One of the clear signs that you're dating a player is that he's always texting other people. He Won't Make Long-Term Plans. He's Vague About His Whereabouts. He Won't Introduce You to His Friends. He's a Flirt.

[@crybabysgone]

Not exactly, I have been on my phone for 16+ hours but I been doing my homework and playing games, and chat with friends. Plus I don’t need a boi when I have mah gurls •u•

[@Max-xf1mw]

You think it's all men but I've seen lots of girls manipulative like this

[@StarPuppetBoy]

Me: Always on My phone Mostly texts My bff rarely Texts My Mom or dad or other friends Plays mostly Among us,My other friends dont really answer Like in a snap.

[@rishabhdeb8747]

@@Max-xf1mw people on here seem to always make dudes the villain lmao

[@julimeyer9842]

@@Max-xf1mwwaht y would he think its only men like where did you get this from? The just shared their experienced

[@rainadatkween7959]

I finally learned to time travel!

[@melot_iihh]

Congratulations you did it :)

[@jyqueznicholson7815]

Can I use it😪

[@jeremy.bentham]

If I were you I would skip 2020 right away😂

[@BratzBaddie69]

I wonder what 2069 will be like

[@crybabysgone]

lol

[@ebonyphoenixrising6094]

So tempted to send this to a player that keeps hitting on me.

[@xiaojunseyebrows-_-]

send it :)

[@peachloverboii1025]

Send it .

[@nenkenshainnenkov8790]

or just ignore him

[@lajellybeans]

Do ittttt

[@icecream-cl3qq]

Keep me updated to their respond

[@calypsokiosko9067]

By player, you mean narcissistic manipulator where they think lying to people and be an emotional manipulator is an OK thing to do.

[@Psych2go]

Yep! Does this video remind you of someone?

[@KaiIchiRu96]

Because in their head they are and feel entitled to it.

[@melanatedestrogen668]

@@zackfoster8946 Your comment tells it all 🤣

[@_.ana._.]

@@zackfoster8946 Ummmm...actually there is quite a lot wrong

[@Ghost-vg6iq]

@@zackfoster8946 yes there is nothing wrong in beating shit out of those guys too

[@lithsieperera]

Hardest thing is you were being played with a person whom you have had feelings for, still breaks my heart 😓

[@strangersontheinternet]

U know I was stuck on a player for 4 years before I realized he was a player. The memories I cherished were filled with little black spots of moments where I knew he was seeing other people aswell...but when you miss someone you tend to forget/ignore the bad & the ugly. I‘m glad that I saw his true colors and can now move on 😌

[@reeses_unicorn]

My first boyfriend was a player and I thought I could change him... I've learned my lesson.

[@realtalk6720]

Lmao, another 🤡 trying to change people, people only can change themselves 🤣

[@ashavilas1048]

Player should be with a player. Both can have timepass and return to their spouse. Never play with innocent people ❤️❤️❤️

[@SamElle]

ahhh yes, I have become an EXPERT in recognizing players!! You would think that it's something more present in college but honestly even now out of undergrad, there are players EVERYWHERE

[@strasseanthem8599]

World is like a theather. Unfortunately. If you don't be a player then they'll play with you.

[@ohdear2275]

I just got played by a 62 year old.

[@SamElle]

@@ohdear2275 what happened!

[@SamElle]

@@strasseanthem8599 wow this is so true

[@hellxsco]

@@ohdear2275 ayo...?

[@lilyagalonasakura5576]

Psy: post around 20 minutes ago... Comments: Commented around 2 or 1 weeks ago *TIME GOES BBBRRRRRR*

[@RafaellSaraiva]

Underrated comment

[@metra8604]

yes

[@ezpub6755]

This the most clutch Warzone win 🏆 kzbin.info/www/bejne/g36Tn5x3a5x0fs0

[@transcendentspider1879]

They're Always on their phone? *Nervous Sweating*

[@tarunkaushik1550]

5:06 onwards! Best lines. “It’s not your job to correct them!”

[@hex11144]

I actually used to be a player and had a lot of issues with commitment but I’m with someone now who I’m really happy with and who I can see a future with. I think I’ve grown a lot and have become more mature when it comes to love👌🏻😁

[@gabrielle6158]

What changed you?

[@hex11144]

@@gabrielle6158 learning to open up emotionally was probably the biggest one. I always had a lot of abandonment fears so my mentality was always “don’t get too attached because they’ll all leave anyways”. I took it upon myself to try and work on that, and once I started dating my partner I knew I wanted to spend the rest of my life with them and needed to do some serious work to be able to have them stay. I learned a lot about attachment styles and how I’m most likely avoidant, and started getting out of my comfort zone by actually talking about my feelings with my partner. After a while, we’ve gotten to a point where I can express my genuine love and affection towards them without it being an “act” or without having another motive in mind. When I first wrote that comment it was 8 months ago when my partner and I first got together and we’re still together now and have had a very healthy relationship so far. We’re very loyal, and I have no thoughts of wanting to cheat or be with anyone else. I can’t speak for everyone of course, but a good mix of self-reflection, a supportive partner and a drive to become a better person can make a big change.

[@tristanaryo]

It's weird, there's a lot of vid about how to be a player or how to identified a player but NO video about how to STOP being a player...ur lucky, I need help hahaha

[@hex11144]

@@tristanaryo Lmaoo that's true. Good luck bro just keep trying to work on yourself. Trust me having a stable relationship is so much more rewarding than jumping from person to person all the time lolll

[@Aleluyah144]

@@gabrielle6158 getting old and probably bald .

[@PracticalInspiration]

An interesting list, one which I think can be summed up with the point that if the relationship is lacking in depth and substance, then there's likely something wrong there

[@deepikachandra7857]

8 signs someone is a player: 1. They’re over confident 2. They flatter you too much 3. They’re natural at flirting 4. They’re vague about everything 5. They’re always on their phone 6. They wanna keep things casual 7. They hardly know you 8. You’ve caught them lying :)

[@sumitabanerjee4827]

never had a summery this fast. keep up good work

[@cherylduckworth8185]

I related to all of the above. The only thing that kept me going was that he was good at dangling the friendship carrot. He said he didn't want to be in a relationship but that we would always be best friends. When he finally moved away I never heard another word. So I believe he used the promise of being a true friend always no matter what as a carrot to keep me on track while he needed to use me. Thanks for your insightful videos it completely verified what went on in my life

[@s.achristine4314]

Your comments inspired me a lot! We dated for a month. And he said the exactly same things with me! I found out that he have lots of female friends, even his ex girlfriends are his best friends too!

[@deepikachandra7857]

i’m so early the only joke i can think of is myself.

[@ruieko]

Same

[@deepikachandra7857]

@@ruieko :( lmao

[@ruieko]

Deepika Chandra lol

[@purplepie4361]

Same lmao

[@biankapal1431]

Underrated comment

[@hookslogan]

Whats sad is being a sociopathic player is more acceptable than being insecure or depressed as a man.

[@mgbm8335]

^^^ Yes. They still get their needs met too.

[@Psych2go]

That's true :( Does this video remind you of someone?

[@hookslogan]

@@Psych2go quite a few tbh, they’re narcissistic and sociopathic yet have more success than most insecure or introverted men.

[@heidimounsey3132]

I have had my fair share of players. The last one was talking to me (and used the same words to his now girlfriend ). He even told me to "stop playing a victim". He is so into himself and needs to be the center of attention.

[@Haddonfield63]

Alot of y’all play victim. Look in the mirror.

[@kenrickbautista6141]

Look, I've never really dated anybody in my life, but watching this makes me feel a bit guilty for some reason.

[@dps8629]

There is a chance that you lack the experiences to know if these things apply to you, and sense that there have been times that you've experimented with the things being talked about. The combination of the two can make you feel responsible for the process that everyone has to go through to understand who you are in relation to the world. Everyone has strengths and weaknesses because depending on how we learn things, and in what order, we create pathways and roadblocks in our neural pathways, and often we aren't taught to be forgiving with ourselves for having to learn.

[@kenrickbautista6141]

@@dps8629 oh, all right.

[@mikewazowskiii]

SHOUTOUT TO THE NEW ANIMATOR LEXI COMMENT WAS UNPINNED.

[@ezpub6755]

This the most clutch Warzone win 🏆 kzbin.info/www/bejne/g36Tn5x3a5x0fs0

[@jameslarkin4567]

I liked the old better

[@shush._0]

It truly hurts when the person you love the most, forgets your existence. My heart is so broken that you cant break it anymore. I dont even know what love is anymore. True love can only be born once .

[@lucyclark3920]

Love is sweet, love is life, true love never die. Don't give up on someone that you really love, all hope is not lost, there is still a chance for you

[@lucyclark3920]

There is someone i know of that can help you in a situation like this..

[@lucyclark3920]

For more information and If you need help

[@lucyclark3920]

Whtsapp me

[@lucyclark3920]

[phone] 🇺🇸

[@adrijansan7657]

One of my friends is a player and I am so happy that I dont get flusterd easily because he is a BIGGGG flirt

[@ll3832]

There's someone writing summary in the comments but thanks to them And I'm so proud of you guys for finding this rare gem(video)

[@lilyagalonasakura5576]

1 week ago? This vid has been post around 20 mins today😳

[@P_Shii]

@@lilyagalonasakura5576 I think some people get early access to videos from being patrons or something not sure tho.

[@ll3832]

@@P_Shii It's called unlisted videos

[@lilyagalonasakura5576]

@@ll3832 how ya do that? Its really weird, dunno if YT is really drunk that they accidentally post the wrong time/date lol haha

[@ll3832]

@@lilyagalonasakura5576 You know those playlists they have right?Just try to find unlisted videos there

[@Noname-1695]

But, always remember this if you encounter one of these people. Never to take revenge, that way, they win as well. You need to forgive and forget, in order to not let you absorb that negative attitude, and make it as your own, remember that when you didn't accept that negativity, it'll go back to them when you don't accept it, just like mirror reflects light! 🙂 Stay good! 😉

[@bannyaroy2497]

Not all players are so easy to spot😂. Some players are actually empathetic enough to pay attention to your non verbal behaviour and say or do things that are guaranteed to affect you specifically. And change their game accordingly as per the female they are dealing with. I'll be lying if I said I have been in relationships, but most of the time I stay away from males and don't speak with them unless necessary. And I'm always on the lookout if a particular male appears flirty or appears" too nice" while speaking with me. Despite all this,I had to encounter 2 players, who actually took the time to study my behaviour and then start speaking and making their move. So ppl, please be careful

[@gwslakme]

strongly agree, some players shows and appears to be this kind and sweet person who is empathic but its just an act, been there

[@nomotivay]

I like how players always have a cool leather jacket, slick hair and sunglasses

[@John56163]

😂😂😂😂 in the end they look like 🤡

[@user-xy8fp1yh2o]

A player always regrets, it's a matter of time! It's a choice, it's who you are!

[@ChocoParfaitFra]

Ohhh my ex That immature player 6/8 points were relatable

[@oranje9342]

Both my exes to a tee 👌🏻 definitely learnt my lesson.... get to know someone as friends first for a good 6-12 months ... with time reveals their true character

[@abyssal_phoenix]

I love it that my clothing style lets girls think I am a bad boy and most likely a player. Only when I start talking to them they see I am just as shy as they get from my presence. Thanks to me they found out that gentleman (or gentleteenagers) do exists, even when they appear to be the opposite

[@mgbm8335]

I love style too. Even if I may come across as shy, the only people that really hate us are dudes with ego.

[@abyssal_phoenix]

@@mgbm8335 true

[@Im_Julissa]

Can you do a part 2 video where you can address the reasons/ causes behind why people become players? 😊

[@nickyxXxXxXx]

They are too quiet about everything, they accuse you of the things they are doing, they tell a story about their day and leave certain details out.

[@akswiss5561]

I watched this video because I wanted to know if people saw me as a player. Even though I didn’t feel like I was trying to be. Yes it’s true Deep down inside I don’t wanna be a player. But like the feeling of being liked and accepted by girls. It became mentally draining trying to keep up with all of them, and making sure I dont lose their interest . So rather than focusing my love on just one. In the end I ended up with none. I’m lost in life and don’t really know what I am looking for in a woman. I guess I just don’t wanna feel lonely. Not that I actually see my future with them. Or sometimes if multiple females see me attractive, I don’t know who to choose. Cause they are all pretty, and don’t want to miss my opportunity to date them and for them to find someone else, all because I’m focus on just one. So there; I guess I gave a point of view of what happens in the mind of a player.

[@Emptytopfloor]

Get into poly.

[@margaritagomez3490]

A player once told me it gets tiering, cause you already know how it’s gonna end 🙄 Just remember your getting older, and it will get harder….

[@nonpotato8257]

Ahhh the memories cuz of this. Remembered a REAL player that was a campus crush. Had a crush on him when I was in 3rd grade and I realised he was a player in grade 5. He never takes others feelings seriously I don’t like him now 😝😝😎😎

[@movha.1322]

For a second I thought it meant a gamer-

[@venus_5937]

LMAO HJSKAJVFN-

[@yuziferry570]

SAME

[@guillerhonora717]

same

[@Kate-vd3hl]

This is very reassuring. I got played this summer by this girl. She checked ALL the boxes of a player. Now I’m talking to this new girl and it scares me. She’s similar, a good sweet talker, an athlete, pretty, a little bit of a mean girl, and a partier. With both girls things seemed to move just way too fast. Like instant romantic connection on first “dates” which were very casual teenage car hook ups. But this new girl... she’s honest. Brutally honest about herself and me. Exposing embarrassing things about herself like how she came out to her mom about me after hanging out with me for only a week. How she had to take two shots before she picked me up because she was so nervous. She’s charming and experienced but she’s so far from the first girl. Maybe it’s the same thing though... maybe it’s just another girl who wants me to be special and then I’m not under the surface... I’m not sure. When I’m around her and her friends I like who she is. With the first girl she just became someone else and I felt small... I even started throwing up bc I NEVER do nicotine and I had a zyn that was WAYYY too much for me and she just comforted me. I... hmmm. And then when I feel like I’m not doing well or like she doesn’t like me because maybe I’m just in a bad mood I START TEXTING OTHER GIRLS. It’s so bad. I feel bad. I’m so unsure. This is new. And like there was this OTHER girl that I kinda stopped snapping because of this new girl and she was so smart and cute but ig maybe not exciting? And we went apple picking one time and it was GREAT like idk. And I just don’t know what to do. ANDDDD this other girl who was like the ONE THAT GOT AWAY from YEARS ago just broke up with her boyfriend, is not flirting with me, so like idk who to pick like am I picking this new girl Bc she’s so available???? OR AM I PSYCHING MYSELF OUT OR AM I THE PLAYER???? No no I wouldn’t be feeling like this if I didn’t care hahahahaha duh. Advice? From anyone who decided to read this!?

[@shee839]

My question is how do people end up being playboys? I'm sure nobody is born an asshole.

[@ruledbyvenus2041]

They were brought up around men that truly understood women, players are good for the world, they are not all assholes. Some players save relationships if you understand me

[@michaelkrull3331]

Having been a teen in the 90s and 20something in the 200s, I lived through a period of culture where young men wanted to be like this. Even I had periods when I was envious of the confidence this type exuded and the girls they got. But as I got older and had come to know a few of these men I realized this behavior is not to be lauded and these men are not to be envied. I'm happy to say around the time #metoo began I saw a turning of the tide. Now players and pick up artists are being called out for the narcissists they are.

[@nadiadarwish82]

Also a way to know if someone is player is to trust your gut and instincts and intuition about them. Trust yourself! And know you deserve the best!

[@blurryeyes8572]

Never even think someone "has changed," because no, they haven't, they've just gotten better at hiding how truly heartless, awful people they are!

[@woidd0311]

Yeah its true.. my first love did all of these with me and then one day i saw him with another girl asking questions and his eyes where sparkling... i thrn realized mens are trash but still later my crush just broke up and proposed me and he also proposed his bff at the same freaking week.. i told her about him proposing me and she snapped like i was the one to blame here... she was like... i loved him since we where childhood friends (meanwhile- she dated everyone in her neighborhood).. biss... i never tried to date any guy since then cuz.. *heart's been broke so many times...* so yeah.. be single and stop looking for love.. they will come to you hunny... be brave.. Stay safe. And Please Don't be harsh on Yourself, Love Yourself..

[@thatoneguy4584]

8 signs someone is a player 1. They play games. Obviously.

[@bryunmsimango2632]

Give a little and wait to see if you are being reciprocated. Do this repeatedly for as long as you are being reciprocated to your satisfaction. Either you will eventually not need to keep measuring because things are balanced. Or the relationship will fall apart almost immediately because someone will complain they aren't receiving enough for what is given or what is not given. Either way you are not emotionally and chronologically invested enough to spend months healing from an imbalance.

[@jaylovesnature6018]

I fell for all of these signs. I’m so glad I’m not still in the relationships anymore. I wish I knew this before, I would of saved a lot of time.

[@blurryeyes8572]

Once a player ALWAYS A PLAYER. never trust someone who was a player in the past, for people never change, and if they do, it's never for the better.

[@Shiro001z]

damn , looks like i'm a player without even realizing..

[@n.ahliaa]

i know this is COMPLETELY off topic but the drawings and animations are so cute!

[@lithsieperera]

Insecurities and gender attraction issues are the major problems of playing, just to make them feel satisfied having alot, I hope they will sort out one day ❤️

[@lol_I_dk]

This sounds exactly like this one dude in my class who persistently tries to get into my life. And idk if he's actually interested in me (I'm female) or trying to manipulate me in some way. But he keeps trying to catch my attention by giving me many compliments while I just want to mind my own damn business. He also comes off super fake especially when he's with his two friends. I've seen multiple times where he was acting nice to sb (mostly towards people who are considered "weird". People like me who are quiet or have unusual interests or something) and then talks bad about them. Recently he somehow found my (anonymous) social media accounts when I never even mentioned them to him (or anyone in that matter) which is kinda creepy to me. And a lot of the time he pretends to know everything about me when he really doesn't. Ugh.. Sorry for ranting but people like this really make me mad.

[@FutureFendiFsnista]

That's so creepy! Wth?! Run Run RUN as far away from them as you can. They don't sound safe and it's not worth it.

[@lol_I_dk]

@@FutureFendiFsnista ikr! If only I could change my class... but because of how my school system is built it unfortunately won't work. Luckily I'm stuck with him for only 1 and a half years until I graduate... Till then I'm gonna try my best to avoid him and his friends and hang out with positive people I love being around! ^^

[@KaiIchiRu96]

Sounds like a player / narcissist. And it also sounds like you have a good ol' healthy intuition. Trust your gut darling and don’t fall for that idiot.

[@SRHisntSilent]

And so many see allof the red flags but still pursue a player. Please PLEASE don't waste your life on someone that's not going to give you the same energy And be kind to yourself

[@divine_uwafili]

Found out he was playing all this while… I’m really heart broken… wished I had seen this earlier. Probably it would have helped

[@anifasaleem3517]

Can you maybe make a video for people who are having a hard time and is insecure in relationships please 🥺 thanks in advance

[@hardremer33]

Players are affraid of committing because they know they are not good enough. Trust me, i am one

[@mrnoname3880]

SHOUTOUT TO THE NEW ANIMATOR, LEXI!! 🎃🍂

[@mrnoname3880]

omg

[@mikewazowskiii]

dude they pinned your comment but you edited it

[@mrnoname3880]

@@mikewazowskiii I doubt they'll repin it but that's okay 😣💕

[@neumillennium]

Darn I really needed this video last year but huh you live and you learn!! 😊✨

[@mintsugas]

I got played by a man and only found out yesterday. He always acted weird and secretive and shady, always had other girls flirting with him and lied to me saying he wasn't interested in them or flirted with them back. He told me he liked me, that we could meet up etc then suddenly he stopped interest, stopped talking and i confronted him only for him to tell me that none of what he said was true. He didn't care about me, he only wanted to use me for sexual reasons and then got bored after he was done with that. It took 2 weeks but i already became so attached and fell for him and I'm so so hurt I was lied to and led in this whole time and he didn't really care for me.

[@Alas-yc1sg]

Based slayer,i want to be like him when i ascend

[@mintsugas]

@@Alas-yc1sg huh??

[@Alas-yc1sg]

@@mintsugas i'll be 6ft by 2026 and NT i'll slay just you wait manifesting this rn

[@sreedevi_gs]

the fact that he checks all the boxes is surprising!

[@abyssal_phoenix]

Im actually almost fully convinced that I should start a KZbin channel, sharing my experiences about depression and infj related stuff. Likely hsp things and empath thighs as well

[@flexfootball6462]

Go for it. Talk about MBTI a lot.

[@abyssal_phoenix]

@@flexfootball6462 thanks for the support

[@farkinarkin5099]

…1… They’re over confident. Aww… Bae… no worries. I’ve gotcha covered. +++ …2… They flatter you too much. You’re just the sweetest thing and too cute to be thinkin’ that. Hun. +++ …3… They’re natural at flirting. Do you come here often? You made my day. Really. +++ …4… They’re vague about everything. Sometimes yes, sometimes no. It depends. +++ …5… They’re always on their phone. Just a sec. I gotta take this. It’s work. Yeah, Sunday, it happens. +++ …6… They wanna keep things casual. It’s not that. Just go with the flow. Let’s not get ahead of ourselves. +++ …7… They hardly know you. I was just thinking of you. Can you spell your name backwards? Write it down, I wanna see… +++ …8… You’ve caught them lying. Oh… I was just confused with what you were asking. I meant what you thought. Really. +++

[@vvgoesinsane]

Too late The person I liked “liked” me back. I really did like them though then a month later it was on to the next girl.. the popular one everyone loved her :/ I’m still a little hurt about this..

[@au9parsec]

8 signs someone is a Minecraft player. 1. They're overconfident. 2. They flatter you too much. 3. They're natural at flirting. 4. They're vague about everything. 5. They're always on their phone. 6. They want to keep things casual. 7. They hardly know you. 8. You've caught them lying. Everyone who plays Minecraft on a regular basis never wants a serious relationship, and only is interested in the thrill of dating someone. That is just simply the way Minecraft player's are.

[@Glitzdglamourous5604]

Yes I had 2 dates with a guy who was exactly like this .. I blocked him for my own sanity .. massive player massive ego , I’m not sticking around for that !

[@lithsieperera]

They never do serious relationships, say love is shit, imagining things, no boundaries, multiple girls on line, obsessed only with their looks, I don't think they are good tbh!! 💞

[@captdeadpool3449]

These girls in the comments saying men are all players as if they never play men

[@Alas-yc1sg]

NOOOO CHAD PUMPED AND DUMPED ME😭😭😭

[@yooriawakened6764]

all of them... but they you missed one. over sharing in the first few month and occasionally flipping the script and acting like they haven't shared anything intensely private with you.

[@PolishCowvsJuan]

Claim your here before a million views” ticket here

[@imbored6135]

I claim

[@rambletime6382]

🎫

[@imbored6135]

Shadow Animations WOAH I DIDNT KNOW THAT EMOJI EXISTED

[@Finalizor]

here........i am dead inside........help

[@nagisashingetsu9057]

I sub

[@ivan5844]

I think I'm a player but I didn't chose to be one I just like to be single and I'm a very pretty boy so woman approach me all the time.

[@moonshine0221]

I wish I would've watched this years ago. could've prevented many heartbreaks.

[@bryanr8398]

Come to think of it... Do they actually find it normal to break people's heart? Wtf

[@bryanr8398]

@what we must be still, fucked up

[@RandomThings-je9mv]

😂 Flirting doesn't ever work on me, most often won't fall for anyone, never been In a relationship, cautious in nature and serious when I have feelings they are genuine, though avoiding my feelings is the only thing that keeps me logical, calm, and collected person problem is there are times emotions are irrelevant and irrational it affects me as a hsp really don't like being in a state of emotional and vulnerability, in some cases see it as a weakness and strength, reasons why lack control on emotional balance find it irritating still need improvement

[@McCaler]

Let the ladies keep falling for them over & over & over & over & over again.

[@sierrarosner7200]

don’t forget, even your best friend can play you like this...

[@a_Playerwastaken]

They're trying to find me

[@benjaminhedley1952]

This channel gives me so much anxiety.

[@kenrickbautista6141]

Sometimes, I always feel like this channel is watching me.

[@mistym0rning]

Take a break sometimes and watch or read more light-hearted content if you find that all this "heavy" stuff can get a bit anxiety-inducing at times (I feel the same way).

[@Psych2go]

How come?

[@itzmehDevi]

@@Psych2go 😂😂😂😂

[@zorech6894]

@@Psych2go Me too

[@nonofyb]

These kind of people are actually so unattractive🙄

[@quincycook8610]

Before: I don't know if im a player... I don't want to be. After: 1. No 2.nope I don’t complement many people (not in a mean way tho too shy) 3. NOPE!!! 4.well I do that but I don't like talking that much so that's why I do that 5. I'm addicted to my phone but I would never cheat. 6.what no! 7. Nope. I would love to get to know someone unless my anxiety is too high 8. Nope 9.of course not! 10.nope.

[@lil_faygo6070]

me: already heartbroken by a player, just reading the comments to make myself feel better 💔 ❤️‍🩹

[@demondconner1674]

Tough he isn’t thinkin about u at all sweetheart

[@lil_faygo6070]

@@demondconner1674, ummmm, I’m a guy so u mean she but yea, most likely

[@rox13408]

I'm now speaking and talking with a player and boy..IT'S ALL OF THE SIGNS MAN. So now I'm playing harder and harder to get the more he tries to flirt. I hope that works

[@klaire1689]

Could a player also be someone who jumps from one girl to the next, and you see them doing the same things they use to do with you?

[@Astharia]

I wish I had this a few years ago when I didn't know anything about that. Learned a very harsh lesson about men

[@Anonymous-ql9yd]

Oh my God . All the warning signs are on point. 👍🏼 Wish this video got released before I trusted him.

[@iamthecatmonsta2870]

So the warning points are on point and you say “him”? Well then, *break up with the jerk quickly-*

[@lavenderclouds]

I fell for a player cus he was so handsome. If I had known he was a player in the first place... then ofc I wouldn’t have. He was just so over confident, it just wasn’t right then I knew what he really was. That was a red flag. I just wish he wasn’t a player than he would be perfect for me!

[@rachaelxscully]

I love your channel so much!!! 😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@oliviayoung6689]

If yall would have posted this months ago, it would've saved me SO MUCH HEARTBREAK!!!! It literally described my entire relationship with this guy that i just found out was cheating on me lmao

[@scrivenerdenograde7661]

So this actually confirmed what I suspected. I, an Aro-ace introvert, might actually come across as a player occasionally. Whooops 😅

[@Lilac.13aesthetic]

The thing is I’m the player and I told my friend I’m dating this guys but I like someone else and using this guy to get over him. It’s long distance btw. So yh , I’m gonna break up with him and tell him how I really feel ( maybe in the future we will date) :

[@alvine_]

Why am i a player😕 I mean I don't want to be like this but i can't explain it i think i am scared to with that one person i am really sad right now cause that person saud that I can't be with one person.I am playing with everyone's feelings 😭😕

[@mehgun]

HELP THIS IS SO RELEVANT TO THE DUDE WHOS FLIRTING W ME RN