7 Types of Love But Only One Lasts a Lifetime

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Have you ever wondered what it is that can make you so head over heels for someone you love? According to American psychologist Robert Sternberg, there are seven important types of love. These seven ways we can love someone was developed from his triangular theory of love, which includes three important components: passion, emotional intimacy, and commitment. So, in what way do you love your partner? And which type of love do you think lasts a lifetime? Watch to find out!
Previously, we also made a video on the signs your love would last a lifetime: • 7 Signs Your Love Will...
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[@AutomaticDuck300]

Self love is the only real love that lasts a lifetime.

[@unpseudototalementnormal517]

So, self hate also last a lifetime ? :D

[@Charlotte66666]

This.

[@mariajin5214]

Yeah. Love yourself, speak yourself.

[@Palikawii]

Well said friend, let’s go help the people who don’t have self love and give them some

[@ihatemice_elf]

What if I hate myself 🤠

[@jsmn_luv]

Me: *single* I'll take note, just in case

[@youtubehavesomeweirdppl2418]

Same

[@givemeyoursocks915]

*Gotta start somewhere*

[@aaoo25]

same lol

[@triplekids3]

I been single for 4 months now at 56 and I’m going to say that way

[@tsd925]

yeah, same lol

[@ICEcoldJT]

“Real attraction is spiritual, mental, and physical. Not just one of the 3.”

[@lucilleloo6254]

Oooh I love this

[@betterapproachtolife.motiv3265]

I am with you on that

[@BlazeBoiGames]

Yep 💞

[@AmPPuZ]

Spiritual attraction? What does that mean?

[@BlazeBoiGames]

@@AmPPuZ it's beyond the physical and more of traits and things that defines a soul

[@thatguywithachainsaw5703]

Late but here’s the complete summary Love comprises 3 main components - *Intimacy* : closeness and connectedness - *Passion* : romance - *Commitment* : Conscious decision to love _1 component love types:_ 1. *Infatuation (Passion)* You aren’t necessarily compatible or have much in common 2. *Liking/Friendship (Intimacy)* You’re very at ease with one another can be yourself around them 3. *Empty love (Commitment)* Romance and closeness aren’t strong. You focus on being together _2 components love types_ 4. *Romantic love (Passion + Intimacy)* You desire for one other and are very intimate with each other Can be seen in affairs 5. *Companionate love (Intimacy + Commitment)* This love is built from strong trust, devotion and emotional closeness. There is no romance and it can be platonic. Can be seen in close friends, family and married couples 6. *Fatuous love (Passion + Commitment)* This love is filled with Passion and part Commitment but lack Intimacy Can be seen in courtship and arranged marriage _3 components love type (the ultimate)_ 7. *Consummate love (Passion + Intimacy + Commitment)* Couple can have great sex long after marriage Are happy to be with each others company Can’t imagine being with anyone else *Important:* Without communication, even the strongest of love will die

[@kevinjacob2652]

when you said 'the ultimate' i felt like some agent in val had their ult ready it's true tho, that kind of love is the greatest one amoungst them all

[@fleursdecherisier]

Ours was consumate but it still died.

[@Amreva]

Bruh thanks

[@Amreva]

Now... only if I could copy and paste

[@Amreva]

SOMEONE @ ME

[@panssage]

Here is a reason you don't ship real people: My friends were shipping me with this person and they said things like 'you obviously like them' and stuff like that. This made me believe I did, when I didn't. They asked me out the next day and I said yes, but three days later I realised I never actually liked them, which put both of us in an awkward situation. It caused a lot of stress for the both of us. Conclusion: don't ship real people

[@despinag.2461]

Been there too, things went really bad and I can never go back to what I had with these people (both shippers and the "love interest"). Not that I actually want to but you get the point 😂 Also matchmaking is a trap, a big bad one😵

[@user-dl3vn8ze9n]

*loads gun* I JUST WANNA TALK TO THEM, I SWEAR!

[@throwawaychannel7612]

same. being shipped irl really sucks lol

[@annj2252]

Same thing happened to me but I was stuck in that shit for a very long time and everything went wrong. Now I really want to fall in love but that seems impossible. Shipping real people is the worst thing ....

[@betterapproachtolife.motiv3265]

Love should happen naturally .. being aware is important ..

[@confused_shark2537]

Can we all agree the title sounds like something a guy would say in a commercial for relationship counseling? edit: You thought this was an edit thanking everyone for the likes, but it was me, ZA WARUDA!

[@dmm7736]

Yes

[@smiles4you142]

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[@marsp5636]

Yuh Yuh

[@alimunnaharsetu9415]

😂😂😂😂😂 Same here.

[@mitskily8960]

lmao this got me laughing-

[@pixxL_]

Psych2Go: Here's 7 types of ways you can love your partner! Me: **laughs in alone**

[@shayla_lesk1542]

Meeeeeeee 😂

[@byzanti-knithi8464]

*Laughs in Introvert*

[@charmaine7781]

Yeah 😳

[@gabrielnobrev]

laughs in single

[@iheartbacon76]

*Laughs in Shy*

[@vivyash3851]

The narrators voice is so soothing

[@charmaine7781]

Ikr

[@Psych2go]

Thanks that's Amanda Silvera!

[@Straw-nf8mm]

@@Psych2go are they related to Adam Silvera, I love his books, even if they’re not, she’s still an ethereal angel 🥰

[@meediamongergamemodder2302]

true dat

[@meediamongergamemodder2302]

@@Psych2go i love yr soothing voice😊

[@kaitlynrussell3769]

BONJOUR MADAME I WOULD LIKE TO INFORM YOU THAT YOUR VOICE MAKES ME FEEL LIKE I AM IN A BLANKET BURRITO THANK YOU FOR YOUR TIME

[@kaitlynrussell3769]

Cool

[@echospace7347]

LMAOOO

[@Ninoky]

Blanket burrito is best :D

[@SatumainenOlento]

Yes! 😂😂😂

[@tesssmith6138]

i agree

[@vAqeii]

Type 1: Minecraft love will always last forever

[@xoxotoast6995]

Yes

[@l-3084]

😁

[@treznopresto4878]

Alternate type: Fortnite hate will always last forever

[@v1s54l8]

XD

[@humancivilizationsociety2328]

Thank you for being smart ortho I hate minecraft sometimes

[@bonitabonita3431]

1-Infatuation 2-Liking/Friendship Love 3-Empty Love 4-Romantic Love 5-Companionic Love 6-Fatuous Love 7-Consumic Love

[@jessicaa92215]

Which one lasts a lifetime?

[@alimunnaharsetu9415]

@@jessicaa92215 --- Consumic Love.

[@bunille]

I prefer companionic love.

[@1leadvocal]

@@jessicaa92215 A parent's love

[@witchhunter7652]

@@1leadvocal i can from experience that is not true

[@eloquentornot]

I'm really fed up with this constant assumption that friendship is inferior to romance. I'm aroace and I have no interest in ever "finding a partner", but I love my friends and family.

[@Ace-jd2ty]

Same, though I'm just ace and not aro but friendship is definitely better than being in a romantic relationship with someone

[@Kabbaway]

I’m with you there. I’m demi and up until I fell in love with my best friend (now my fiancée) I didn’t think I was capable of romantic and/or sexual attraction. I do find the very mono-amorous bias a bit annoying, because it assumes that people should just be happy in a single relationship when in reality some people need multiple relationships to satisfy their needs otherwise they just fall into that “empty love”. “Consummate love” isn’t the ultimate kind of love - every type of love is valid and there shouldn’t be this great shame about you being content in your current relationship but wanting to develop romantic/sexual relationships with other people. I’ve found a partner who I’m very passionate, intimate and committed to, but we don’t hold ourselves to the highly rigid standard that we should never think about also being with anyone else. The presentation of consummate love is stated to be obtainable, but honestly it isn’t for everyone and other types of love shouldn’t be invalidated just because they don’t fit society’s rigidly monogamous standards.

[@Kabbaway]

I’m with you there. I’m demi and up until I fell in love with my best friend (now my fiancée) I didn’t think I was capable of romantic and/or sexual attraction. I do find the very mono-amorous bias a bit annoying, because it assumes that people should just be happy in a single relationship when in reality some people need multiple relationships to satisfy their needs otherwise they just fall into that “empty love”. “Consummate love” isn’t the ultimate kind of love - every type of love is valid and there shouldn’t be this great shame about you being content in your current relationship but wanting to develop romantic/sexual relationships with other people. I’ve found a partner who I’m very passionate, intimate and committed to, but we don’t hold ourselves to the highly rigid standard that we should never think about also being with anyone else. The presentation of consummate love is stated to be obtainable, but honestly it isn’t for everyone and other types of love shouldn’t be invalidated just because they don’t fit society’s rigidly monogamous standards.

[@bonthebunnycat667]

Y e s I'm demiromantic and it's r e a l l y hard for me to fall in love with someone, I can have a really good time with friends without wanting to expand it into a relationship, but because I'm demiro, my relationships will always be like an expansion of my friendship with them, I would not say like "the next step" because that makes it sound like the friendship was inferior, it's the same but with more things, like more physical contact and all the stuff you do with your partner lmao

[@eliskadvorakova1717]

My grandparents reached the ultimate lvl. Over 50 years together, still holding hands. They love to spend time with us, but when everyone leaves... I think that's when they feel happiest. They were getting frisky - well - till my pops had his hip replacement earlier this year... And honestly, how great is it knowing that when u turn 80 there's still a chance! I think it's both adorable and admirable... Sadly it's the only marriage to *last* in my entire family so far.

[@willfrancescofini]

My grandparents, too. Married 77 years. He just passed away at 101. I think she cannot fully comprehend the world without him anymore but we still feel his love. It is my dream too. I have someone in mind :')

[@Spiteeee_]

Personally I found my love when I was 8 and 13 years later we’re still together I feel like I got lucky in my search for love

[@Spiteeee_]

@Will Francesco F my grandparents were the same way they both lived with eachother for there whole live since high school and they were always together happy

[@willfrancescofini]

@@Spiteeee_ I wonder what I am missing.. or what they were missing.. either way, their happiness and legacy lives on and it seems a good role model for my life

[@Spiteeee_]

@@willfrancescofini there legacy’s good to model off of but remember to create your own in the process your love won’t always be what you pictured but if it the right person it doesn’t have to be perfect

[@nicoleonfeels]

Love for others enriches life, but love for the self is paramount.

[@imhung8472]

I don’t know how to love myself, or even what it means...

[@Trisof88]

@@imhung8472 it means taking care of yourself mentally, physically, spiritually and emotionally, understanding who you are and the things you like, enjoy and have passion for and then using such to find what your purpose in this life is.

[@potatoyoutube9225]

THE ANIMATION AHHHHHHH IM DYING FROM CUTENESS N O

[@sweetangel634]

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[@Psych2go]

Thank you!!! Is this your favorite one so far?

[@potatoyoutube9225]

@@Psych2go I LOVE every animation style you guys do🥰💕❤️ But something about this style brings out my happy emotions idk why🤔🤨☺️😊 but ahhhhhh, finally I have been noticed, because almost every video with this animation style, I comment about how I love it hahahahha 😅😂 HAPPY NEW YEAR🤩🥳💕😍🥰😘❤️

[@lrchahaha9642]

@@Psych2go It is mine!!! I really hope you guys stay with this one!!

[@gilbertkadilo2774]

Your animations are always lovely though this one is just so adorable

[@arielklay23]

I was *very* blessed to experience consummate love with my late husband, Tim. We only had a short time together, but we were the best of friends *and* lovers! I find myself in love with him to this very day, even though he's been dead over 25 years. It's been painful at times, but totally worth it!

[@bonthebunnycat667]

😭 I'm so sorry, but I'm happy that both of you had the best of times together

[@Blast3x]

This made me tear up.

[@supercoolkid114]

“Only one lasts a lifetime” oH oK

[@Limbogummy]

Sad :(

[@unknowns78]

Kinda overreaction

[@recoveringsoul755]

Love between a parent and child should be in there (without the sex)

[@apackman1822]

@@recoveringsoul755 its fatous love or empty love(unconditional love). I don't know why people always say love has to have sex... did people really think that love only applies to Intercourse. if people don't understand this applies to friends too ((Intimacy= likes spending doing things with them) (commitment= dedicating time to them or for them) Intimacy+commitment= friends)), this whole thing can be applied to any Relationship *face palm*. Relationship: 1: the state of being related or connected 3 : the state of interaction between two or more people, groups, or countries I got rid of 2 because it was Redundant 2 : connection by common ancestry or marriage

[@recoveringsoul755]

@@apackman1822 this video makes it seem like they are talking about "lets grow old together" kind of love

[@k31_444]

This wasn't mentioned in the video (i think) but i feel like Platonic love would last longer than romantic love, you can fall out of love fairly quick in a romantic love unlike platonic love where, yeah you can break a friendship, but it'll be more painful, just my opinion tho...

[@aaaaaaaafjjdjs]

yeah same :/

[@LimeLivesMatter]

I hate platonic love, it's the same with Friendzone

[@user-dl3vn8ze9n]

Ikr

[@user-dl3vn8ze9n]

@@LimeLivesMatter bro platonic is pretty much just extra intimate friendship. Ya hate friendship?

[@ferdinandmarcos8214]

Yeah! I believe Platonic love is much more linked to unconditional love. I want to experience this kind of love from friends. But it seems the people around me are not that the people I seem to have this kind of love with. They are good but sometimes I can't feel that we have the same values so I cannot connect with them deeply on a soul to soul basis. 😢 My twin, soulmate, not necessarily a lover, I hope to find you someday.

[@Dog-Lover36]

According to Wikipedia, Robert Sternberg is still alive. He was born during the end of 1949, which would make him 71 years old.

[@nono-my5qo]

Ok

[@trinityrichards8729]

7 Types of Love 💖 : 1. Infatuation - passion 2. Liking/Friendship - intimacy 3. Empty - commitment 4. Romantic - passion, intimacy 5. Fatous - passion, commitment 6. Companionate - intimacy, commitment 7. Consumate - intimacy, passion, commitment This is a whole new love triangle :)

[@Palikawii]

To all of those people being negative and saying they hate themselves, I love you, I want you to be happy, I want you to smile, I want you to love yourself, I want you to feel loved ❤️

[@joshy2joshy]

Palikawii I hope you don't take what I'm about to say as something as negative but I would like to add my two cents if you would be so kind to listen. While I appreciate what you have tried to do here, like so many other comments where I have seen the same. I do not believe it to be highly effective in the long term. I am not going to say you are wrong for trying to be kind and loving to strangers on the internet but, I certainly don't feel loved by a comment that anyone can read. I have a message for those who think the same as me. This message is more something I tell others; but in fact is something I need to keep telling myself. Try to find validation in yourself in whatever way you can. You might think you hate yourself, but if that's the case; you can certainly make a list on the things you hate about yourself that you want to improve/change. Be realistic, you can't change everything so easily. What you can improve? Make a list and work on them overtime. I will be honest and tell you that I jump back into the loop sometimes and I have been riddled with guilt and regret in the past. Don't get your all of validation from KZbin comments guys, support each other of course and try to give each other something to aspire to. Find in yourself what you want to find in others, and others shall follow.

[@miztachow1527]

@@joshy2joshy Wow. Just wow.

[@Palikawii]

@@joshy2joshy yes, i understand what you mean and I’m sorry i didn’t think of this sooner, I hope you have a good day 😊

[@despinag.2461]

@@joshy2joshy you are totally right- about sharing with us how valuing our situation and making change within us and around us to improve ourselves as the best way to make things better 😗👌. I still like the encouraging messages from random people though! They remind me I have value even for a stranger. It's a unique feeling I get, however stupid it may sound. So I'm thankful for both of your comments 😊

[@joshy2joshy]

@@Palikawii You too! I hope I didn't come across too negative there. Thank you for reading!

[@LetArtsLive]

A person who doesn't lie and has my back and I have their back and I don't lie and we lived happily ever after that would be nice.

[@betterapproachtolife.motiv3265]

Honesty (truth) can create a wonderful bond .. some who are romantic and tender are doing that to control the other later .. in other words they have an ulterior motive .. the hard part os working that out .. who is genuine? ..see my vid

[@limitless7807]

Soulmate goals ♥

[@nadz7852]

♥️

[@mariapazgonzalezlesme]

Does the adorable little dude with leaf hair have a name? They are so adorable _!!_

[@avocadorable6152]

Lets call him noodels

[@KuyaBJLaurente]

He's sometimes referred to as Psi.

[@snotzerwozere]

Noodles is always a good choice

[@fishh533]

His name is Psi!

[@meediamongergamemodder2302]

true dat

[@dailydoseofmedicinee]

According to experts, mature love is the best kind It is imbued with security and serenity, which everyone needs. The emotional health of adult love is much more fruitful. It has benefits at the emotional, individual, and relationship level.👍

[@sweetangel634]

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[@nadz7852]

♥️

[@ranterredhead5005]

Encompasses all of the above throughout time.

[@somesandman8328]

Hey y’all, I just wanted to drive your attention to how much the quality of these videos have jumped, whether it’s the animation, color choice, the changes in the VA’s tone and word choice, and or the change in how the characters look! It’s awesome! Comparing these videos to videos from 2 months ago is night and day, great job!

[@chaii8337]

*Summary* > 2:00 - Infatuation > 3:32 - Liking or friendship > 3:57 - Empty love > 4:28 - Romantic love > 4:51 - Companionate love > 5:29 - Fatous love > 5:54 - Consumate love Hope this helps ☺️

[@00imz]

I want the kind of love that’s like 5) platonic but has intimacy..like those friendships in movies/shows where they hug/cuddle, sleep in the same bed and are always at each others houses, go everywhere together and have a close bond.

[@lullabysorrow5746]

I just want a friend that's better than family for me, (my family relationship isn't really deep) Just a partner in crime, where it feels like we are on the same wavelength and we actually understand another. And don't got to pull teeth just to text, or hangout. The ones who know everything but keep it just between us two. But that is rare as hell. At least with romantic relationships you got that first month where everything is nice and happy. Most friendships feel like a missed target where you just motivate yourself to react with them.

[@T_i_n_c_a_n]

I definetly think that friendships are too overlooked in today's age

[@The_Queen_of_Hell]

@@lullabysorrow5746 I have found a person like this in my life. We're more platonic than romantic but we have a lot of intimacy

[@nexela]

6:52 I JUST NOTICED THIS LITTLE TECHNOBLADE UNDER THE BED AND WILBUR ON THE SHELF OH MY GOD

[@bookdragon9667]

And a little schlatt and fundy at 3:47 Dream smp GOOO!😂

[@user-jg9kz5yv9c]

Type 8 : my love for fictional characters, that will never die

[@multifandomfangirl9664]

I agree with that full heart :)

[@ashleythehooman]

Yes (◡ ω ◡)

[@samanthamaclean1430]

Yep

[@limitless7807]

Love is the purest feeling that stems from the soul 💜 learn to love yourself, your soulmate will come.

[@ranterredhead5005]

Fantasy

[@Talkinglife]

Philia - Affectionate Love. Philia is love without romantic attraction and occurs between friends or family members. ... Pragma - Enduring Love. ... Storge - Familiar Love. ... Eros - Romantic Love. ... Ludus - Playful Love. ... Mania - Obsessive Love. ... Philautia - Self Love. ... Agape - Selfless Love.

[@multifandomfangirl9664]

Got this video after playing SPM, Perfection :') Since the game a big theme around love.

[@BellTale9]

omg. who else here has a friend that you wish could be your girlfriend/ boyfriend, but you have no idea whether they like you or they find you awkward and dont like you? Its so hard isnt it? sometimes they get really close to your heart in a conversation and you think they like you, and other times they act like they're doing something else and dont have time to text or call you because they may find you annoying. not being able to tell if someone likes you or doesnt is so frustrating. you dont know what your doing wrong!!

[@PureAmourr]

OH MY GOD I DO

[@PureAmourr]

THIS IS SUCH A POV

[@lilaavila3513]

Yes, but It should never feel forced , if it’s real 😊

[@loaf41]

But he's a fictional character- ;-;

[@sweetangel634]

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[@MEOWMIX3DS]

WNAHAHAH

[@MEOWMIX3DS]

SAME

[@redemptivememelord6283]

My waifu is imaginary; we are in a long term relationship, we have no problem with that. We just use whatever is available to us, which happens to be my brain's ability to emulate her.

[@MEOWMIX3DS]

@@redemptivememelord6283 depressing but i understand, man

[@elasuchbae6501]

Wait Stop scrolling. Your special. Let nobody tell you your not.

[@charmaine7781]

Thank you

[@sophiexxx455]

❤

[@nyctoverse5036]

nah

[@janarankovic8742]

ok first u say stop scrolling then u make us scroll to read ur message gurl ur so indecisive 😤 this kind of behaviour is unacceptable!

[@cubesolver2564]

"Being special isn't always good." That quote affects me, and that's getting me nowhere, so if that quote is in your mind, remind yourself that being special is *often* good.

[@ninascorner11]

Me and my S.O. went from infatuation to fatous love to consumate! Idk if that's the way it should go but it took a while for us to actually because intimate and friends with one another. Trust was a big issue since he had dealt with a very abusive GF before me and I had dealt with a very abusive BF before him. Things have gotten so much better with all three however! He feels like home

[@SamElle]

i have companionate love with a lot of my friends and even though we have that connection, because we miss the passion, its hard to move it a step further into anything more than friends

[@sweetangel634]

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[@triplekids3]

At 56 I’m finally leaning to love myself and first had to leave toxic people in my life

[@ItsMeFern2019]

I'm no psychologist but I'm gonna have to disagree man. I believe most kinds of love can last a lifetime if done right. All love, even self-love requires work and commitment. ♥️ None is 100% definite nor 100% guaranteed to fail. :>

[@sweetangel634]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/ZmPJenyPhr6tlac .................................................

[@lullabysorrow5746]

Nah, sometimes things just fade. Just depends, could of been situational love (or friends) . Or just you two don't have enough in common anymore. Or one of you just changed or both. At one point you're just forcing it because either you don't want to be alone or because they didn't do anything wrong so just leaving them would just feel weird.

[@superstar-lr3un]

as a psychology student, I really love your channel! I havent seen yet theses 7 types of love and it was really interesting thank you!!

[@Psych2go]

Thank you so much! Glad you found it interesting! Did you relate to any of these types mentioned?

[@philrei2797]

Maybe I'm just naive, but I strongly believe my deep friendship can last forever

[@LittleCrazyGamer]

I think "Liking or Friendship" doesn't cover familial love and the original platonic love (the love one has for their students). They are incredibly important kinds of love and definitely should not be overlooked.

[@bogart7076]

"consummate love...the ultimate form of love that is said to last a lifetime" uhhhhhh i was expecting self love but i guess this is pretty great too

[@limitless7807]

Love is the purest feeling that stems from the soul 💜 learn to love yourself, your soulmate will come.

[@shatteredscry]

Self love is the most beautiful thing I discovered. You can love yourself with no boundaries and as much as humanly possible without it being toxic.

[@JustRaven00]

I am in a committed relationship with chili fries.

[@betterapproachtolife.motiv3265]

Mine is chocolate ... chocolate is faithful 😳

[@limitless7807]

Love is the purest feeling that stems from the soul 💜 learn to love yourself, your soulmate will come.

[@lillian4631]

Lol

[@Palikawii]

My life has gotten better thanks to this channel, I can’t thank you enough Psych2go

[@twigsspars6259]

i would like to say, whoever animated this: above god level talent right there

[@daughteroftheking721]

Gods love is the only love that last a life time and forever more . ✨❤️✨

[@saliadel5238]

Who else is watching this in the bed before sleep

[@pixxL_]

Nope it's 12:22 pm in my timezone

[@ahmedatty3516]

don't say you are Arabian

[@saliadel5238]

I'm not

[@alysxa_8285]

I really like the art style it's so cute it cheer's me up ^^

[@iranoutofnames9985]

So, how do you love your partner? Me: I dont have one T^T

[@pixxL_]

(Y) Same

[@ashleythehooman]

Same but I've a crush (╥﹏╥)

[@betterapproachtolife.motiv3265]

T^T .. i don’t understand this

[@istari1392]

lol same (i like ur killua pfp :D)

[@PansyPops]

Seven types of love, one lasts forever, non I will experience.

[@biggaylol5438]

I’m sure you’ll find somebody! Unless you’re aro, in which case i hope you find someone/people you love platonically!

[@PansyPops]

@@biggaylol5438 same goes for you mate. ♥️

[@haajto]

@@biggaylol5438 what means aro lol

[@geryz7549]

@@haajto aromantic, like asexual but for romance (I think)

[@nolife4588]

Unfortunately, same man.Cheers

[@milkyturtle5347]

Its 4 am here. And im still thinking bout her. Cant ever let go of her. Even after getting rejected.

[@djphyre9388]

Do you wanna talk about it man?

[@ellen_kiffiany2607]

PLEASE TELL USSS

[@bradShank]

*Paul Rudd* "What the hell happened here?"

[@OliviaMorning]

Sorry that happened😔

[@milkyturtle5347]

I liked another girl, she kinda helped me with that, but the other girl rejected me. Then after a while, I realized that she was really keen on helping me like, she really like tried to like tell me that "she ain't worth it". Then after a while, I confessed to her, she said that ,she really appreciate it, but she just didn't want to be in a relationship. We are still really close friend, but it gets at awkward sometimes

[@miickey519]

Your voice is so calming, you’d do really well making guided meditations, 10/10 would listen

[@makaylaabruzzo4072]

I love how your sponsor has a natural flow into it. Seriously, no shade, but actual respect. 😊 I actually listened instead of skipped it AND showed my bf because I thought it had a good introduction. :) Keep up all your hard work in your videos!

[@davidmunro4653]

The love of chocolate lasts forever.

[@bonthebunnycat667]

TRU

[@pompompucha]

Is it possible that each individual in a relationship experience a different kind of love, or is it a pair that share the same love? It felt like the love I thought I had was perfect, but what she felt was lesser. Can 2 people in a relationship experience different forms of love?

[@elisabetamicske5717]

Yes!

[@iceeblaze]

Yea, definitely

[@beautifuldreamer0811]

Unfortunately

[@ThePolaris87]

I wil totally make use of this Triangle theory of types of love now! I definitely have almost fallen into "Empty Love" a couple of times when a previous passionate and intense relationship ended and I just wanted anything with better commitment. Thanks!

[@SimpleLifeSG]

Spread the love. you need to been through all this to know what love really is. ❤️

[@an_unpleasant_or_stupid_person]

The title of the video already hits hard.

[@sweetangel634]

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[@wysteriaherr8306]

I just realized how deep my love for my ex husband is this weekend. His mother had to have emergency surgery, and I dropped everything, rearranged my work schedule to be there for him.

[@betterapproachtolife.motiv3265]

Shame it did not work out for you

[@wysteriaherr8306]

@@betterapproachtolife.motiv3265 we are talking about things we both did wrong and what we could do to fix things if we try to get back together. Maybe our story isn't over yet....

[@betterapproachtolife.motiv3265]

@@wysteriaherr8306 wow .. that is encouraging .. i wish you both well .. and even if you are not back together .. you will have a great friendship

[@7abcdefghi__lmnopqrstuvwxyz]

I just want to say that I LOVE Naphia's animations in this one!! 💖

[@___solar___]

Love thyself, so you can project that out onto your long term significant other. If both do that, then the forms of love are easier to attain. My friends, love yourselves.

[@user-oj3vv1yz5w]

Just saw my ex from high school last night. I’ve known her since I was 12 and had a crush on her immediately. I dated her from 15 to 19 and treated her poorly before breaking up with her. We started talking during the pandemic. It had been 5 years since I had seen her last. We met at a bar and oh my god all the old feelings came rushing back. She has a boyfriend but that doesn’t bother me I was just happy to see her again. I think we had a good conversation and we were there from 10 to close. Tears flowed once or twice. I realized I’m probably still in love with her to some capacity. I’m really fucked up about this. She isn’t responding to my messages anymore. Idk what that means especially since she said text me whenever. Ugh.

[@tren6893]

Update?

[@user-oj3vv1yz5w]

@@tren6893 she texted me back a month later and we hit it off. Started just sending memes but in a short period of time she would end up calling me 3-4 times a day. Spending hours on the phone daily just confirmed it all in my mind. It made me all realize that I don’t have chemistry like that with anybody else I’ve ever met and I never wanted it to end. At the end of the day though we lived 6 hours away from each other and she was still living with her boyfriend. I could deal with it all because it meant that I still got to talk to her. She started sending me racy photos over snapchat and complaining about her boyfriend to me after 9 months of talking every day. I finally said we had to establish boundaries. That led to a 4 hour conversation about all the reasons it can’t work and that she felt betrayed that I loved her and kept up a facade of friendship. She said she was happy with where she was but then would justify all the shady stuff she was sending me (which I would ignore and never bring up that it made me uncomfortable) and her boyfriend being shitty to her. I told her that she was using me as a crutch to hold up her own relationship because their is no reason for her to be talking to an ex for 3 hours a day on average. She went from maybe we can talk once a day to once a week to once a month and I told her I don’t have any friends where I have to put limits on how much I can talk to them. We decided to not talk anymore. She snapped me the next week and I got upset. She got upset at me. We haven’t spoken in 6 months now. I think about her every day. I’ve dated someone since I stopped talking to her and it didn’t work. She said that her boyfriend proposed and she said no but they stayed together. That was extremely telling to me. Idk what happens now.

[@nicopapaya]

I’m in companionate Love with a friend and I’ve got the valor to tell her my feelings the next time we talk, I hope nothing wrongs happens... I don’t want to end our friendship cause of this. Tho I’m telling her that I LIKE her but she doesn’t have to feel the same way. Always looking for other’s better

[@betterapproachtolife.motiv3265]

Your being real with that ..

[@anushkavm3335]

Will u share updates about this?

[@nicopapaya]

@@anushkavm3335 yeah

[@anushkavm3335]

@@nicopapaya Ohk.. I'll be waiting for updates then..

[@limitless7807]

Love is the purest feeling that stems from the soul 💜 learn to love yourself, your soulmate will come.

[@mekalaikannan7757]

I am sooooo grateful i found this channel!☺

[@chriskendall451]

I really like how you have gone into detail about everything and has made me truly try with those I love and my lose I've delt with

[@arpitkumar4525]

Why are love and sex so synonymous? I don't see any link between these 2.

[@justicecountryman4060]

Your probably thinking of platonic love vs romantic love

[@bonthebunnycat667]

Ikr, people can understand that there is sex without love, but can't understand that there is love without sex, everyone expects and pressures couples to be sexual. Or people think that because they have sexual chemistry, it's love

[@Ciazi]

Exactly what I needed

[@sweetangel634]

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[@lullabysorrow5746]

You have a really good speaking voice, its just really calm and welcoming.

[@genesisruiz6088]

Thank you for this video ❤️ loved it

[@rajkuification]

And then there is Mom-child love...which is a whole new kind of love. The difference is this love can't be cheated, no betrayal, no heart breaks, only unconditional love

[@sweetangel634]

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[@ihatemice_elf]

"and can continue to have great (oof) for 15 or more years" *frowns in ace*

[@sebastianmaker6798]

Don't forget, passion is more than just physical intimacy and sex. Passion is also the excitement you get around the person- sex is just the most common way of explaining it. But blushing in excitement, giving little gifts, and going out to do things together can keep the passionate area of love alive and healthy.

[@betterapproachtolife.motiv3265]

A problem area

[@artintheblood]

Same! That's exactly how I felt!

[@bonthebunnycat667]

Everyone forgetting that not everyone wants to have sex with their partners smh Or that we ace people don't experience sexual attraction, we can have a libido, but that doesn't mean we look at someone and want to fuck or be fucked by them 😭 Relationships without sex are as valid as relationships with sex

[@muhlestermoon6436]

This sponsorship was so slick ...it didn’t force me to shut down this KZbin tab.

[@kimsherlock8969]

"LOVE IS ..." Was a cartoon in 1970s Newspaper cartoons, in NZ. I viewed them and derived..Love is the one whom has your back will stand with you, defend ones honesty and not become to the outside eyes a Mater with a burden.

[@rosemarrypolack5708]

I remember that cartoon!

[@misterwolf3817]

UH yes, love. Seems to be too complicated so far and unrewarded. Remind me when I will have enough time and the ability to love again.

[@sweetangel634]

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[@stevoplex]

I've been searching for a heart Searching everyone. They say Love conquers all You can't start it like a car You can't stop it with a gun. (Warren Zevon)

[@legaru9790]

Meanwhile, empty love and I are just vibing in the back

[@stephanieg3554]

This is my favourite Theory in Psych... its also taught me why it's called a "Love Triangle" people tend to focus on literal aspects in life missing out various and alternative perspectives as in most cases on word can have many meanings - context and content specific...

[@rajiprabha6479]

This is such a cute art style!!! You guys should include more of these in videos..... Also your voice Is Soo soothing....

[@SilentTrip]

What about Fake Love?

[@sweetangel634]

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[@PumpkinSpiceCat]

I'm not really into someone but I would really appreciate someone hwo likes the stuff that I like, LIKE SNEKS!!!

[@betterapproachtolife.motiv3265]

The other person can like different things .. love lifts the other up ..

[@PumpkinSpiceCat]

@@betterapproachtolife.motiv3265 İ mean like, a friend would be nice but love?? İ really don't want to waste my time on that

[@limitless7807]

Love is the purest feeling that stems from the soul 💜 learn to love yourself, your soulmate will come.

[@thefreckledasian]

This actually gave me a lot of hope thank you for this information

[@double-edgedallusionart6384]

Thank you for this. This is just what I needed to know.

[@brianavatar8160]

I love the narrator she's the best

[@sweetangel634]

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[@sarcasticzhaira486]

Me who doesn't confess: Ok ok I gotta be ready ya know-

[@angelface2642]

Thx for the info this will help in the future

[@oliverfulcher3532]

I will be making use by sharing this information with everyone i know - As well as my already strong need to ward off threats associated with, or opposing it. Thank you. Saved.

[@ghost5074]

Lol

[@boostmobile9249]

Self-CARE SELF-RESPECT LAST A LIFETIME..

[@fistzarsprottnik5533]

When "companiate love" is defined by it's so special connection, intimacy&commitment, then how does it make sense to say that "romantic love" ("companiate love"+passion) likely becomes "companiate love" when intimacy gets lost. While having especially deep intimacy is a key point of "companiate love"? Because this kinda contradicts itself

[@lullabysorrow5746]

Because you still respect and value them as a person, and even though it's not as intense as when it first started, you enjoy life with them anyways and you want to keep on living each day with them. Helping another both grow into even stronger versions of themselves, and life without them would defiantly be a more dull experience. Pretty much just think of this, that classic disney couple's love story where it's all nice and magical and then once that's over they just live happily ever after. I think the only one you really get to see that with is the Cinderella movies, the first one where she falls for the prince, and the 3rd one "A twist in time" where you can see how they live together, which is just a normal happy pair.

[@Ch3eSy_Cheesecake]

This voice is making me zone out bc it is so calm and beautiful qwq

[@ivapeneva6272]

I needed this video soo much,thank you,thank you,thank youyuuu🥺🥰💗💕

[@FIREYBFDI69]

Love, the thing I've never experienced... Yet.

[@SweetCocoaBunny]

Don’t worry you will.😃

[@ghost5074]

Oh grow up brat

[@xero99999]

I love my anime body pillow

[@sweetangel634]

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[@walelarose]

I love the videos from this channel! For some reason the "Ooh romance is in the air" line humored me quite a bit XD

[@mattiavullo5056]

this video just opened my mind

[@667nine]

Whoever reads this, I love you so much

[@sweetangel634]

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[@Kalimabw]

Be careful with this. You can do everything right and love the person with all your being, but you are not guaranteed they're being truthful honest or even love you in return. People will lie to get what they want and what it seems like a lot of people want is to treat others like crap and blame everything on them too. I don't date anymore because I'm sick of the game. It's a mean and cruel game people like to play because apparently we enjoy hurting others. Most relationships are toxic because we're such a sociopath species.

[@limitless7807]

Love is the purest feeling that stems from the soul 💜 learn to love yourself, your soulmate will come.

[@joyousvirat7317]

This is a Great video.. Thanks.

[@kebah11]

I feel like companionate love can also last a lifetime! Maybe or maybe not as a romantic relationship idk, but as close friends that almost seem like family? Heck yeah that can last a lifetime

[@asmoroll]

I love this! Idk if im first but who cares.

[@ulyana_schen]

*Just showing some respect for having Sakuraku as icon*

[@asmoroll]

@@ulyana_schen i uhh, im legit sorry bc i really dont know who this charecter is or where shes from, she just looked cute

[@ulyana_schen]

@@asmoroll, ah, it's okay! By the way, it's a girl called Sakuraku (sorry, I can't remember the second name now) from Yuru Yuri series. That's a very cute and nice anime, maybe you should watch it.

[@sarablais2744]

3:48 Jshlatt ? Fundy ?? 6:35 Techno ? Wilbur ?? Love the MCYTers dolls 😂😍😱

[@cutevibez9142]

Y e s

[@elieveuvu6823]

I was looking for this comment 🙏

[@sarablais2744]

@@elieveuvu6823 Yes ! I scrolled through the comments, and no one mentioned it 😂

[@nathanperez3993]

BRO that sponsorship was CLEAN. i didnt even know until the name was said.

[@nicolerice3194]

Another great video👍👍 💗 The larged triangle is so right and it is like a dream come true especially if you hadn't believed it possible or weren't looking for that ultimate love You may have thought it only happens in the movies So it's a welcomed surprise when it happens Thank you for the enlightenment 🙂 Love it !!